I know a single mom that had five children who got married at the age of 52. My mom knows a single woman with six children who got married after. Don’t let any of these bitter demons in the form of high value men tell you that you are used worthless or damaged because you are not. Ignore all of the hate and all of the Dustys live your best life and the right man will find his way to you. I believe in all of you queens who chose life and chose to stand by your beautiful babies who are not burdens but blessings. And God sees this.
An elder friend Just get married to à young, established and handsome Guy.... She has 3 children with 3 men. The way her husband love and value her make People ashamed cause she was already classified in our society... The Guy don't even Want her to work but to think about a good business... He said she was tired from giving birth and struggling with life, he Want to conserve the few beauty she still have and more... She is 40,he is 38 no children. I'm 29 years old, no kid, struggling from job to job, i am not uggly but no value man approach till now....
If someone watch vidéo from those hight value men, especially when you have kids, you will be destroy.they said very heartless things about women. Calling single mom all types of love.. They think they are God
Only low self esteem men will take a single mother. The only acceptable single mother is a widow or you were married for many years but the relationship came to an end But 99.9% of your were just simply having unprotected casual s3x with men you are not even a relationship with. And all the sudden they are “toxic” and “narcissistic”
As a single mom of a 6 year old boy and 1 year old girl... I thank you! I’m 26 years old and feel like my package is too much for a man sometimes. However I have faith God has a husband out there for me
Yes sis! you have two beautiful babies made in the image of God and they deserve nothing but the best, not just for you but also for them. Remember you don't need to be worried about what men want because you only need one husband and he will want you and all that comes with the package, a man after Gods heart will be seeking a woman after Gods heart and will say yes to God even if that means a woman with kids. Remember the scripture Jeremiah 32:27 "I am the Lord, the God of all mankind, Is anything too hard for me". Just keep being sold out for the Lord, be faithful for what and where you are now and sew your seeds in faith, for God is the Lord of the harvest and he brings the increase, just water where he calls you to water and plant where he calls you to plant wherever he has you now. God bless you and your beautiful children!
Thankfully some positive encouragement for us single mamas, there are so many awful videos toward single mums and dating, it has been discouraging I am so glad your video popped up in my feed!
Aww I'm sorry to hear that! But im so glad you were encouraged and had a positive experience here!! Love to continue to support you and other single mommas ❤
They dont usually have a problem but remember men are territorial. The single moms don't allow step fathers to discipline and it can feel demeaning to them. Im only saying this based off what Kevin samuels and his audience say
@@catalayatern2251 single moms are not a monolith. They are not all the same. At all. Single moms who are led by the Holy Spirit are a whole different category
I know this video is a few years old but thank you for posting it. I am at the point of preparing to be a wife and there is not a lot of Christian single mother videos out there. This is exactly what I was looking for. God bless❤
Thanks for sharing! I became a mom at 18-19. I was too conform to others opinions that no man will date a single mom. The lies from the enemy are embedded in my heart. I’m 38 now and my daughter is 19. I came a long way. After watching this video I realize that I set low expectations for myself just bc I believe the lies of the enemy and it affected my actions, behavior, and mindset. I still have the residue of guilt, shame, and low expectations that no handsome man won’t deal with me having a kid. I refuse to give the enemy any more power of setting low expectations for myself. The devil comes to kill, steal, and destroy. I’m going to reclaim my time back that the devil stole from me. I can’t wait to visit this page to share my testimony.
Amen!! Thank you for sharing! Your not alone, so many including myself have dealt with those feelings but yes choose to see yourself through the lens of Christ as a new creation! We don't need all men to want us anyways only the one whom the Lord has and believe me that's the one that counts and he will! So yes reclaim what the enemy has stolen, see yourself as a treasured possession of the Lords and allow the Lord to heal and restore those years. So glad you received some insight from the video! God bless you and your family sis! 🙏😄💕
Your child is grown already your child will not be a burden to any man anyway. Just be open and upfront that you have a grown child and the right man will find his way to you.
You need to stop feeding your spirit with mom shaming videos and podcasts and trust in the Lord with all your heart. God does the impossible. Watching her video you see that she believed she was loved and was positive.
Hi Erica! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS!!! I LITERALLY WANT TO CRY. I will be referencing this video along my own journey as a single mom to wife. Thank you so much for sharing and showing photos as well. You are so kind hearted and amazing! This video is going to help so many in their lives and give HOPE that in Christ we can do all things and have a joy filled life with loved ones. I am TRUSTING and SURRENDERING to God when it comes for the man HE has for me. Yes I too have been approached by past males, whom I have no contact with as I know they are simply distractions from the one God has for me. I will wait on The Lord for who He wants me to be with. It is a journey but I too am working on my own transformation and it feels amazing to grow and mature. Your beautiful daughter is so fortunate to a fantastic and caring mother as you are ! I pray for you and your family in Jesus Name. Happy Mother's Day Beautiful! Please do a Q&A if at all possible. I would love to know how your daughter and husband spend time together, how did you combine finances and care for you all as a now one family unit and how will you be able to make your daughter feel just as part of the family with your husband if you have more children and any advice if the biological father is not a part of the child's life how can we make our child feel included as we expand our family ? Thank you Lovely!!!
Aw your too sweet! Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm so glad you found it helpful, thank you for your questions, your awesome. Happy mothers day love!💕 God bless you.
Thank you for this.. I was just sitting on my bed having these thoughts from the enemy... and I cam across your video ... I have a 4 year old daughter and am waiting for the man God has for me !!!
Aww praise God that he showed you something from this video that spoke to your heart. Ive had those same thoughts and like you said its a lie! The enemy doesn't want you to receive or even believe the promise God has for you. As you surrender this area to God ( often lol) he will continue to give you peace in this area, besides he can do so much more with it than we ever could. God Bless you and your precious daughter love!
Thankyou for sharing this! I am a single mom with a 5 month old and starting to talk to Jesus again, I want to be an amazing christian example for him.
aww because its your hearts desire to you will be, kids copy what we do, its learned behavior, so as long as your life shows your walk with Jesus, your baby will follow and know the truth. Thank you for sharing and watching love!
God bless you in Jesus's name. I hope that all single mother give a bit of space to their husbands. I am a man and I am about to marry a single mother who daughter is a bit of a difficult child but I felt that God led me to her but I am thinking I accept all the package since she was a good girl with me she did not come empowered but very humble. My future wife cannot have child anymore but I am trusting God that He will open her womb. As a man let me tell you that is not easy but only God can prepare both hearts. I recommend all single mothers and women with no children to be always humble and accept what The Lord has for you.
As a newly saved Christian and single mama, this video was so encouraging. Thank you sister for sharing your wisdom & experience with us! God is so good! 🙌🏼😭❤️
Thank you for sharing this. Recently I feel the Lord has been telling me it's time to prepare for my husband. I'm a 29 year old divorced single mom of 3 kids. The enemy definitely has tried to use my past to take all hope in me ever finding my husband that God has. So for the longest I just haven't believed that the married life was for me. Recently though I've felt God changing my heart in that area and he's been restoring my hope. I've always dreamed of being a mom and a wife and having a beautiful family. I pray that if this is God's will for my life and for the lives of my children that this will come to pass. Please keep us in your prayers too. I know I have to prepare. And I know he's actually still in the process of healing me from past hurts too that he doesn't want me to have to carry into my next relationship. Just having that hope again is bringing me to life in certain areas. Thank you for sharing your testimony again. It really is encouraging! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for this, Sis! My son has definitely been blocked around having a new father, but I’ve been talking to him more and he really is becoming for open to it. 🥰❤️
This is exactly what I was looking for. Thank you for laying it out all in an easy to follow way. Thank you for sharing your journey with me. I hope my divorce will be finalised soon (separated for 7 years). Single mom of 3. I ask that God prepares me to be the wife I can be. I ask that God heals my mind. And I ask to see myself through the lease the God sees me through.
A mom of three and you still genuinely expect to be remarried? To who? What sort of guy will go for that? 3 ready made children from another guy? Three child expenses straight away? Oh and what about it the new guy wants kids? Every kid you have is a kid he won’t have? What it he wants three kids too? Would you want to go into labour three more times?
Theres alsoba stigma marrying a single mom by red pilled men. Its true, dont marry someone if you will not let the stepdad have a say in raising your child. Its unfair for them too. You still need to prioritize your marriage over anything.
Whoa. You don’t prioritize your marriage over anything. You don’t prioritize your marriage over kids and you don’t prioritize the kids over marriage there needs to be balance and compromise. Too many women shun their kids just to keep a man and that is so unhealthy. You need to marry a man who is with you on uplifting and raising the kids to be loved and cared for. If you’re going to put a man first before your kid please don’t get with a man and please don’t have any more kids.
@@cakesinthecity marriage should be prio because you can't complete a family without a strong relationship of father and mother. Kids look up to parents how they will treat their future spouse
Its easier for single moms with 1 child. I have 3 but if it be God's will it can be done. He showed me anyways that i have alot of damage emotionally & mentally because of the toxic relationship i was in & my childhood trauma. I do have a guy speaking with me now, i dont think it will go anywhere though but it just showed that im not ready yet
It's what you make it. My cousin's child's mother had 5 children with different dads and she was blessed with a husband (no children). What you think will be. I have 3 children and God still has promised me a godly husband. Believe and have faith.
I love Mark 10:27 with God nothing is impossible. There are many accounts of men who married women with multiple children. Its only a hindrance if you think it is. You don't need all men to want you only the one God has, nothing is impossible with God. While having faith is important, its also great you recognize your not ready and need healing. The best thing you can do for yourself, children and future marriage is work on you and and allow the Lord to restore and bring healing while also getting practical help from a counselor which can be beneficial on your path of healing. Honor the Lord with your heart and body in the meantime while you wait, because he will bless our obedience but not our sin. Thank you for sharing sis! God is faithful, praying for you and your beautiful children 🙏 ❤
Seeking the Lord for a spouse will mean that he will cleanse you first. He is not more interested in you having a mate first he wants to renew your soul. Then he will match you. Seek him first. So not choose on your own.
Am single mom of two boy and girl...but I have hope and I believe God is preparing for someone in Jesus mighty name 🙏 I am gonna wait I am gonna trust God in the right time in the place in the right season it will come to pass I will surely put on the gown of my dream I will be happily married and my kids in Jesus mighty name 🙏🙇🙌
Thank you for this video. It is always hard to fully relate to woman who are single and Christian but aren’t mothers because I always wondered how it is that a single mother is supposed to prepare for marriage because it is completely different in certain areas with a child involved. 💙
Praise God! Glad you found it helpful! I totally agree, it can be a whole different territory to cross when your a single mom preparing for marriage. Thank you for sharing!!
I was so so lost and deep into taking notes when she said the last point about preparing the child, I was like , wait, what child? There js a child? Mind you I have a daughter 😩😩😩😩. That's how you know that convi was deep
Thank you so much for your candor and guidance. I am 49 and I need to work on all these areas. I don't want to be alone anymore. Open closet here we come. Life is too short to waste God's blessings!
You are such amazing woman and powerful like to others woman and women like you! Head up high and really do not forget to pray and ask again your welcoming them to your lives living. Congratulations that you find your true man going to be responsible on your longing love. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for your wisdom and encouragement!! Absolutely love your channel 🥰 Would you be able to do a video on the process you went through that helped transform your faith conduct character and heart as a woman that you mentioned? Would love advice on how that made you read the Bible differently during your study’s or what books and other tools helped influenced you as a wife mother & woman of God as well💜
Thank you so much!! Great questions and will absolutely film a video on these topics. I actually just the other day was thinking about the books and resources I used to help grow me as a woman after God's heart and how I wanna share that in a video so thanks for the confirmation sis! God bless💕
I thought God had sent me a good man I have 2 kids been through a lot of pain in love I was abused and beat by my kids father, when my ex boyfriend came into my life he was everything I had ever prayed for that's why I thought it was him, until he broke up with me
Those women that I know with different kids from diff fathers who always ended to the same type of men, I dont want to be like them. I will prio my 3 wonderful boys and still praying for their dad to have a heart
I am 32 and have a 16 yo and 11 yo I was crying last month because I am convinced this was it for me.I have so much in trying to process my boyfriend at the time I invest my heart in for years had been going back to his ex and I just don’t know how I can trust and love again
I know this video is old.. but I have a question. I am engaged and getting married next week. I’m a single mother of two girls. I am marrying an amazing god fearing man that also has 2 boys. My best friend hasn’t met him but she is concerned that we are moving too fast. She is concerned about the comfortability of my girls. As am I, however she expressed her experiences with her step dad and it wasn’t pleasant in the WORST ways. I don’t want that for my girls. Now I’m concerned. I don’t believe he is that type of man. I didn’t want to doubt him at all… should I?
Most single moms aren’t anywhere near as pretty as you, as fit as you, as feminine as you, or as responsible/accountable as you. Biggest mistake is all these ladies thinking they can get the same result as you, which is likely to happen.
Lol once the made mistake the turn to Christ .... is 2021 men are waking up.... single moms are for fun... smash and dash . Congratulations on ur BETA man
So glad women like me turned to Christ to open our eyes to protect us from men like you and found a real man after Gods heart, its very different from the men of the world full of lust, promiscuity and selfish conceit to fulfill themselves. In the meantime I pray you open your heart to Jesus and recieve him as Lord who died for your sins and loves you so you'll be eternally with him not eternally seperated and experience true love and peace in him, true rest, a living hope! To know your purpose and identity is to know Christ who created you for a purpose. To know true love is to know the love of God towards you. Real love is very different then the secular message of love in the world, in fact they still don't know. Where did love come from? God is love, marriage is an institution created by God. Without God there is no love, your capacity to love will always be limited without knowing Christ and his love for you. Men and women turn towards sex, drugs and alcohol etc as a means to cope, to cover insecurities, traumas and fill voids that still leave them empty and dry. The flesh is never satisfied and becomes an endless well never giving a fill. But when you receive Christ and walk in his spirit you receive living water that never run dries and satisfied the deepest longing of the human soul because we were created for that void to be fill with him. So yes my husband and I love each other with Christ love, the spirit of God in us drew us to each other not fleshly desires so it's built on the rock the solid foundation in Christ. I pray one day you'll understand and even experience that type of love and how it supercedes human understanding and the will to marry someone with or without children. God bless.
@@goddessk4610 still stands on what I said about a year ago. She’s just another babe mama with the same story … no accountability. Typical saying “ I was young and dumb “ , he was a narssassit, he was broke… he has five babe mamas… etc
Preparing as a single mom was essential to being married, pray you are encouraged and blessed. Thank you for watching!
I pray that God that did it for you will do the same for me, am a single mom too
So u want men to settle I get it. Funny
Did you genuinely marry him because you love him? Was he also a single father? We're you married before? These are very important questions.
I needed this. It’s this stigma you are going to end up alone, but we are renewed in Christ !
Amen Exactly! Renewed and Redeemed! 🙏
I know a single mom that had five children who got married at the age of 52. My mom knows a single woman with six children who got married after. Don’t let any of these bitter demons in the form of high value men tell you that you are used worthless or damaged because you are not. Ignore all of the hate and all of the Dustys live your best life and the right man will find his way to you. I believe in all of you queens who chose life and chose to stand by your beautiful babies who are not burdens but blessings. And God sees this.
An elder friend Just get married to à young, established and handsome Guy.... She has 3 children with 3 men. The way her husband love and value her make People ashamed cause she was already classified in our society... The Guy don't even Want her to work but to think about a good business... He said she was tired from giving birth and struggling with life, he Want to conserve the few beauty she still have and more... She is 40,he is 38 no children. I'm 29 years old, no kid, struggling from job to job, i am not uggly but no value man approach till now....
If someone watch vidéo from those hight value men, especially when you have kids, you will be destroy.they said very heartless things about women. Calling single mom all types of love.. They think they are God
Only low self esteem men will take a single mother.
The only acceptable single mother is a widow or you were married for many years but the relationship came to an end
But 99.9% of your were just simply having unprotected casual s3x with men you are not even a relationship with. And all the sudden they are “toxic” and “narcissistic”
As a single mom of a 6 year old boy and 1 year old girl... I thank you! I’m 26 years old and feel like my package is too much for a man sometimes. However I have faith God has a husband out there for me
Unless u look like her it’s a wrap lol
@@algrande2841 😭😢😢😢
Yes sis! you have two beautiful babies made in the image of God and they deserve nothing but the best, not just for you but also for them. Remember you don't need to be worried about what men want because you only need one husband and he will want you and all that comes with the package, a man after Gods heart will be seeking a woman after Gods heart and will say yes to God even if that means a woman with kids. Remember the scripture Jeremiah 32:27 "I am the Lord, the God of all mankind, Is anything too hard for me". Just keep being sold out for the Lord, be faithful for what and where you are now and sew your seeds in faith, for God is the Lord of the harvest and he brings the increase, just water where he calls you to water and plant where he calls you to plant wherever he has you now. God bless you and your beautiful children!
Don't listen to him girl, I'm sure your beautiful💖
Now god is accountable for you choices
Thankfully some positive encouragement for us single mamas, there are so many awful videos toward single mums and dating, it has been discouraging I am so glad your video popped up in my feed!
Aww I'm sorry to hear that! But im so glad you were encouraged and had a positive experience here!! Love to continue to support you and other single mommas ❤
Yes! God didn't judge Hagar but saw her and blessed her seed. Who are we to judge those who have children outside of marriage?! God bless us all. 🖤🙏🏾
Amen! Great point, thanks for sharing!
They dont usually have a problem but remember men are territorial. The single moms don't allow step fathers to discipline and it can feel demeaning to them. Im only saying this based off what Kevin samuels and his audience say
@@catalayatern2251 single moms are not a monolith. They are not all the same. At all. Single moms who are led by the Holy Spirit are a whole different category
Amen
Sounds like excuses for having kids out of wedlock
Marry your baby daddy than
I know this video is a few years old but thank you for posting it. I am at the point of preparing to be a wife and there is not a lot of Christian single mother videos out there. This is exactly what I was looking for. God bless❤
Thanks for sharing! I became a mom at 18-19. I was too conform to others opinions that no man will date a single mom. The lies from the enemy are embedded in my heart. I’m 38 now and my daughter is 19. I came a long way.
After watching this video I realize that I set low expectations for myself just bc I believe the lies of the enemy and it affected my actions, behavior, and mindset. I still have the residue of guilt, shame, and low expectations that no handsome man won’t deal with me having a kid. I refuse to give the enemy any more power of setting low expectations for myself. The devil comes to kill, steal, and destroy. I’m going to reclaim my time back that the devil stole from me. I can’t wait to visit this page to share my testimony.
Amen!! Thank you for sharing! Your not alone, so many including myself have dealt with those feelings but yes choose to see yourself through the lens of Christ as a new creation! We don't need all men to want us anyways only the one whom the Lord has and believe me that's the one that counts and he will! So yes reclaim what the enemy has stolen, see yourself as a treasured possession of the Lords and allow the Lord to heal and restore those years. So glad you received some insight from the video! God bless you and your family sis! 🙏😄💕
I hope I will be like you.
Your child is grown already your child will not be a burden to any man anyway. Just be open and upfront that you have a grown child and the right man will find his way to you.
I got pregnant at 19 I’m now 24 embracing my single season thank you for this video
Thank you! So glad your embracing this season its such a special time, Recieve what God has for you in this season. God bless you and your child🙌💕
@@fromrocktoruby8679 I most definitely will thanks you so much God bless you too! ☺️🙏🏾❤️
I'm sooo scared that I won't ever get married. I keep seeing these podcast to not date single moms.
You need to stop feeding your spirit with mom shaming videos and podcasts and trust in the Lord with all your heart. God does the impossible. Watching her video you see that she believed she was loved and was positive.
Yes change the channels
Hi Erica! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS!!! I LITERALLY WANT TO CRY. I will be referencing this video along my own journey as a single mom to wife. Thank you so much for sharing and showing photos as well. You are so kind hearted and amazing! This video is going to help so many in their lives and give HOPE that in Christ we can do all things and have a joy filled life with loved ones. I am TRUSTING and SURRENDERING to God when it comes for the man HE has for me. Yes I too have been approached by past males, whom I have no contact with as I know they are simply distractions from the one God has for me. I will wait on The Lord for who He wants me to be with. It is a journey but I too am working on my own transformation and it feels amazing to grow and mature. Your beautiful daughter is so fortunate to a fantastic and caring mother as you are ! I pray for you and your family in Jesus Name. Happy Mother's Day Beautiful! Please do a Q&A if at all possible. I would love to know how your daughter and husband spend time together, how did you combine finances and care for you all as a now one family unit and how will you be able to make your daughter feel just as part of the family with your husband if you have more children and any advice if the biological father is not a part of the child's life how can we make our child feel included as we expand our family ? Thank you Lovely!!!
Aw your too sweet! Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm so glad you found it helpful, thank you for your questions, your awesome. Happy mothers day love!💕 God bless you.
You didn’t answer her questions though.
Thank you for this.. I was just sitting on my bed having these thoughts from the enemy... and I cam across your video ... I have a 4 year old daughter and am waiting for the man God has for me !!!
Aww praise God that he showed you something from this video that spoke to your heart. Ive had those same thoughts and like you said its a lie! The enemy doesn't want you to receive or even believe the promise God has for you. As you surrender this area to God ( often lol) he will continue to give you peace in this area, besides he can do so much more with it than we ever could. God Bless you and your precious daughter love!
A man that marries a single mom is a blue pilled beta male, alpha fucks beta pays, I will never settle for a single mom
They all find God when they become single
Moms and are waiting for the simp that God has planned for them.
@@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229 hahaha true!
Thankyou for sharing this! I am a single mom with a 5 month old and starting to talk to Jesus again, I want to be an amazing christian example for him.
aww because its your hearts desire to you will be, kids copy what we do, its learned behavior, so as long as your life shows your walk with Jesus, your baby will follow and know the truth. Thank you for sharing and watching love!
God bless you in Jesus's name. I hope that all single mother give a bit of space to their husbands. I am a man and I am about to marry a single mother who daughter is a bit of a difficult child but I felt that God led me to her but I am thinking I accept all the package since she was a good girl with me she did not come empowered but very humble. My future wife cannot have child anymore but I am trusting God that He will open her womb. As a man let me tell you that is not easy but only God can prepare both hearts. I recommend all single mothers and women with no children to be always humble and accept what The Lord has for you.
As a newly saved Christian and single mama, this video was so encouraging. Thank you sister for sharing your wisdom & experience with us! God is so good! 🙌🏼😭❤️
Thank you for the video because I always wake up feeling so low been a single mum seening my son 10 years and not yet married. It’s emotional.
I love this video!! Thank you for sharing 😍. I say the same thing That not only will I not settle, but having a child makes you extra picky! 🙌✨✨✨
Thank you for sharing this. Recently I feel the Lord has been telling me it's time to prepare for my husband. I'm a 29 year old divorced single mom of 3 kids. The enemy definitely has tried to use my past to take all hope in me ever finding my husband that God has. So for the longest I just haven't believed that the married life was for me. Recently though I've felt God changing my heart in that area and he's been restoring my hope. I've always dreamed of being a mom and a wife and having a beautiful family. I pray that if this is God's will for my life and for the lives of my children that this will come to pass. Please keep us in your prayers too. I know I have to prepare. And I know he's actually still in the process of healing me from past hurts too that he doesn't want me to have to carry into my next relationship. Just having that hope again is bringing me to life in certain areas. Thank you for sharing your testimony again. It really is encouraging! ❤️❤️❤️
Can we take a moment on how pretty she is! Wow. God bless you 🤍🤍🤍
Thank you for this, Sis! My son has definitely been blocked around having a new father, but I’ve been talking to him more and he really is becoming for open to it. 🥰❤️
This is exactly what I was looking for. Thank you for laying it out all in an easy to follow way. Thank you for sharing your journey with me. I hope my divorce will be finalised soon (separated for 7 years). Single mom of 3. I ask that God prepares me to be the wife I can be. I ask that God heals my mind. And I ask to see myself through the lease the God sees me through.
A mom of three and you still genuinely expect to be remarried? To who?
What sort of guy will go for that? 3 ready made children from another guy? Three child expenses straight away?
Oh and what about it the new guy wants kids? Every kid you have is a kid he won’t have? What it he wants three kids too? Would you want to go into labour three more times?
@@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229 That certainly is one perspective of many. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏾
Theres alsoba stigma marrying a single mom by red pilled men. Its true, dont marry someone if you will not let the stepdad have a say in raising your child. Its unfair for them too. You still need to prioritize your marriage over anything.
Whoa. You don’t prioritize your marriage over anything. You don’t prioritize your marriage over kids and you don’t prioritize the kids over marriage there needs to be balance and compromise. Too many women shun their kids just to keep a man and that is so unhealthy. You need to marry a man who is with you on uplifting and raising the kids to be loved and cared for. If you’re going to put a man first before your kid please don’t get with a man and please don’t have any more kids.
@@cakesinthecity marriage should be prio because you can't complete a family without a strong relationship of father and mother. Kids look up to parents how they will treat their future spouse
Its easier for single moms with 1 child.
I have 3 but if it be God's will it can be done. He showed me anyways that i have alot of damage emotionally & mentally because of the toxic relationship i was in & my childhood trauma.
I do have a guy speaking with me now, i dont think it will go anywhere though but it just showed that im not ready yet
It's what you make it. My cousin's child's mother had 5 children with different dads and she was blessed with a husband (no children). What you think will be. I have 3 children and God still has promised me a godly husband. Believe and have faith.
I love Mark 10:27 with God nothing is impossible. There are many accounts of men who married women with multiple children. Its only a hindrance if you think it is. You don't need all men to want you only the one God has, nothing is impossible with God. While having faith is important, its also great you recognize your not ready and need healing. The best thing you can do for yourself, children and future marriage is work on you and and allow the Lord to restore and bring healing while also getting practical help from a counselor which can be beneficial on your path of healing. Honor the Lord with your heart and body in the meantime while you wait, because he will bless our obedience but not our sin. Thank you for sharing sis! God is faithful, praying for you and your beautiful children 🙏 ❤
I can relate I am a single 25 year old mother of multiple children and I often am discouraged that I will be alone forever.
Seeking the Lord for a spouse will mean that he will cleanse you first. He is not more interested in you having a mate first he wants to renew your soul. Then he will match you. Seek him first. So not choose on your own.
Were the same situation. I like a guy younger than me but not sure he likes me back
Am single mom of two boy and girl...but I have hope and I believe God is preparing for someone in Jesus mighty name 🙏 I am gonna wait I am gonna trust God in the right time in the place in the right season it will come to pass I will surely put on the gown of my dream I will be happily married and my kids in Jesus mighty name 🙏🙇🙌
Thank you for this video. It is always hard to fully relate to woman who are single and Christian but aren’t mothers because I always wondered how it is that a single mother is supposed to prepare for marriage because it is completely different in certain areas with a child involved. 💙
Praise God! Glad you found it helpful! I totally agree, it can be a whole different territory to cross when your a single mom preparing for marriage. Thank you for sharing!!
I was so so lost and deep into taking notes when she said the last point about preparing the child, I was like , wait, what child? There js a child? Mind you I have a daughter 😩😩😩😩. That's how you know that convi was deep
Thank you so much for your candor and guidance. I am 49 and I need to work on all these areas. I don't want to be alone anymore. Open closet here we come. Life is too short to waste God's blessings!
WOW! You are gorgeous. I found you through erika's bootcamp directory - my niche is also Christian faith/lifestyle! I love what you're doing
Hi Emily! Thank you so much! It's so nice to see others sisters building Gods kingdom! Keep going, people need to hear what you have to say!
You are such amazing woman and powerful like to others woman and women like you! Head up high and really do not forget to pray and ask again your welcoming them to your lives living. Congratulations that you find your true man going to be responsible on your longing love. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for your wisdom and encouragement!! Absolutely love your channel 🥰 Would you be able to do a video on the process you went through that helped transform your faith conduct character and heart as a woman that you mentioned? Would love advice on how that made you read the Bible differently during your study’s or what books and other tools helped influenced you as a wife mother & woman of God as well💜
Thank you so much!! Great questions and will absolutely film a video on these topics. I actually just the other day was thinking about the books and resources I used to help grow me as a woman after God's heart and how I wanna share that in a video so thanks for the confirmation sis! God bless💕
Time to clean my closet! I started cleaning out my drawers and donating items to charity. Exercise is also key!
i love this girl! amen, this is so true
I’ve literally never heard these tips 😮 thank you so much for this video. ❤️🙏🏾
I thought God had sent me a good man I have 2 kids been through a lot of pain in love I was abused and beat by my kids father, when my ex boyfriend came into my life he was everything I had ever prayed for that's why I thought it was him, until he broke up with me
We have similar starts. I had my son right before 18. Working, school and everything. It was hectic at first.
Wow. I was
pregnant at 18 and gave birth a month after my 19th birthday.
Those women that I know with different kids from diff fathers who always ended to the same type of men, I dont want to be like them. I will prio my 3 wonderful boys and still praying for their dad to have a heart
Thank you so much for this video. You have added great value to my life.
Ty Ruby god bless u for yr wisdom thank god 💞
Aww praise God!! Thank you 😊
I am 32 and have a 16 yo and 11 yo I was crying last month because I am convinced this was it for me.I have so much in trying to process my boyfriend at the time I invest my heart in for years had been going back to his ex and I just don’t know how I can trust and love again
This was a great video! Thanks!
Thank you so much!! I'm so glad you enjoyed it! Feel free to let me know any other videos you would like to see from me. God bless!💕👌🤗
Love this video!
Your talking way too fast this is CZcams NOT TikTok. I love this video .
I know this video is old.. but I have a question. I am engaged and getting married next week. I’m a single mother of two girls. I am marrying an amazing god fearing man that also has 2 boys.
My best friend hasn’t met him but she is concerned that we are moving too fast. She is concerned about the comfortability of my girls. As am I, however she expressed her experiences with her step dad and it wasn’t pleasant in the WORST ways. I don’t want that for my girls. Now I’m concerned. I don’t believe he is that type of man. I didn’t want to doubt him at all… should I?
I'm need a single mother to be with for the rest of my life, I'm also a single father.
A single mother can take good care of you and your kids.
God will bless you with a cool and nice one, single mother are blessings most times.
Yeah single mother take good care of kids.
Hi smith. How are you? How many kids do u have.
Do you mind sharing the list of things that you did to teach yourself Discipline and…. I don’t remember what else you said you were learning.
Run Forest...run...
What do you do if your not a Christian or have walked away from God?
Try to get back to him. Pray. ♡ its tough sometimes but he's the only way.
Do you have a video on how you became a single mom?
Hi, I do not but that would probably be a good idea lol thank you!
@@fromrocktoruby8679 I would be interested in seeing this video as well!
Love this
This is helpful
Im so glad you found it helpful! Thank you :)
Whew child you're talking soooo fast I'm trying to keep up
You can slow it down in CZcams settings 🙂
Such a beautiful family! Are you a model?
Thank you so much!! Your sweet but I am not lol 😊
How did I get here
heyyy sis!!! please check your dm :)
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The convent is taking applications 😂😂😂
How I prepared to finesse the next simp to take care of my liabilities.
Most single moms aren’t anywhere near as pretty as you, as fit as you, as feminine as you, or as responsible/accountable as you.
Biggest mistake is all these ladies thinking they can get the same result as you, which is likely to happen.
Daft as a brush. Its not necessarily about looks, getting remarried. Just say its not what you can do and move.
@@contemplatinggod2791 Did you even read my comment? Where did I say it was only about looks?
Same, I said her beauty played a part. Men won’t turned down a women because she’s pretty even if she had kids.
Lol once the made mistake the turn to Christ .... is 2021 men are waking up.... single moms are for fun... smash and dash . Congratulations on ur BETA man
So glad women like me turned to Christ to open our eyes to protect us from men like you and found a real man after Gods heart, its very different from the men of the world full of lust, promiscuity and selfish conceit to fulfill themselves. In the meantime I pray you open your heart to Jesus and recieve him as Lord who died for your sins and loves you so you'll be eternally with him not eternally seperated and experience true love and peace in him, true rest, a living hope! To know your purpose and identity is to know Christ who created you for a purpose. To know true love is to know the love of God towards you. Real love is very different then the secular message of love in the world, in fact they still don't know. Where did love come from? God is love, marriage is an institution created by God. Without God there is no love, your capacity to love will always be limited without knowing Christ and his love for you. Men and women turn towards sex, drugs and alcohol etc as a means to cope, to cover insecurities, traumas and fill voids that still leave them empty and dry. The flesh is never satisfied and becomes an endless well never giving a fill. But when you receive Christ and walk in his spirit you receive living water that never run dries and satisfied the deepest longing of the human soul because we were created for that void to be fill with him. So yes my husband and I love each other with Christ love, the spirit of God in us drew us to each other not fleshly desires so it's built on the rock the solid foundation in Christ. I pray one day you'll understand and even experience that type of love and how it supercedes human understanding and the will to marry someone with or without children. God bless.
Mike exactly they are for the streets/ they have no value it's all a game why didn't turn to christ before having kids.
Wow this comment is just ridiculous what is the world turning to smh
@@goddessk4610 still stands on what I said about a year ago. She’s just another babe mama with the same story … no accountability. Typical saying “ I was young and dumb “ , he was a narssassit, he was broke… he has five babe mamas… etc
What are you mad at her for? Because she still ended up being a Mrs. 😂😂😂😂😂
Ten years down the line, divorce him and make him pay child support for a kid that is not his.
Speak for yourself 🤔😂
Here comes the bitter hurt one 🤣. Go get healing you are bitter
It's funny yall always become so religious after they become a single mother.
She was always religious dummy. She talked about the time she made a mistake in life. Learn to listen