HOW I SAVE MONEY FOR LUXURY | Lydia Elise Millen

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  • HOW I STARTED BUYING LUXURY FASHION, TIPS FOR STARTING A COLLECTION, GETTING TO KNOW MORE ABOUT ME!
    A bit more information
    This channel was started as a fashion and beauty channel, not as a politics channel or a channel about my charitable deeds. This channel is a place for those with the same interest to come and hopefully share and discuss the same passion. I also have an interest in Beauty whether that is drug store or high end I also share this love via this channel. A recent introduction to the channel is more vlogs, which gives you a bit more of an insight into my life which I love so so much, I feel so much closer and in touch with you as we grow and I'm loving the entire process. But I always want it to be clear that just because I don't tell you I am saving money, doesn't mean I'm not. Just because I show you three handbags, doesn't mean I just dropped 10K in 5 minutes. I'm a very normal girl, who grew up with a love of things she couldn't afford, who decided to build a life where she could afford them. Blogging/vlogging or whatever this online thing is, is a FEMALE dominated industry and we are absolutely SMASHING IT, it is so cool to watch women from all walks of life change the face of media every single day, this is not something to be shamed. This is not something to be belittled or scoffed at. This is something to be celebrated. Women, smashing the shit out of life is something to be celebrated.
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  • @Dedeecheer
    @Dedeecheer Před 7 lety +715

    Since I was 17, I told myself I would own a Chanel bag before turning 30. After saving for 5 years, I went to the Chanel boutique and finally bought my GST. I've never felt so proud, I cried in the store. So at 22, I checked the number one thing on my bucket list. My heart sings every time I wear it. It's not just about the bag, it's more about the goal I achieved. Love your videos ❤

    • @nanamajeur1784
      @nanamajeur1784 Před 7 lety +78

      Andréane Bou lol so you saved for 5 years just to spend it on a useless bag, just because it has the tag "Chanel" on it, I understand where ur coming from but this is so superficial

    • @jessicamendez3486
      @jessicamendez3486 Před 7 lety +127

      One Chanel bag defines this girl's life? Aren't you the superficial one to judge her for one purchased item? That's as deep as you're willing to go in learning about a person before judging them? How do you know she didn't have other goals she accomplished? How do you know the fact that she was able to accomplish that one thing didn't give her the confidence to achieve other substantial things? We all spend many Chanel bags worth of money on coffee or eating out when we could of cooked in. She probably practiced discipline to skip these things over the course of 5 years to spend it differently. We all make our choices. Instead of congratulating someone on their discipline and success, you judge their personal choices.

    • @killerteddy100
      @killerteddy100 Před 7 lety +45

      Exactly girl, and this is what true saving and budgeting looks like. A real person with a real life income saves up for years to buy one luxury item but Lydia buys one luxury item every month. Unfortunately that's not realistic for 85% of us in the world. If I had $3-5k left over after bills every month, I wouldn't be watching this video looking for saving/budgeting tips.

    • @adam4025
      @adam4025 Před 6 lety +7

      yep ! and little saving she named is the purses $4k !!?? How about other bills and expense . well no matter how I work hard in 2 full time job I still cannot effort buying every month luxury items easily. Taking care parents and kids comes first .

    • @sinthuchiva515
      @sinthuchiva515 Před 6 lety +4

      So so so proud of you ! 💙

  • @diekeksdose2010
    @diekeksdose2010 Před 7 lety +218

    The worst thing is people hating on someone who spends money on luxury products. I'm still in university but love spending my hard earned money on more expensive bags. People have to understand that not everybody with a LV, Gucci or Prada bag is a millionaire. I don't go out every weekend, I don't smoke and I try to save as much as possible. Love your videos, Lydia x

    • @Wonyoungmilk
      @Wonyoungmilk Před 5 lety +1

      xthisischrissy true my mother said i am too rich😂

    • @adamkhabazian3249
      @adamkhabazian3249 Před 2 lety

      we hate on the narcissists and it is well deserved

  • @CarolSummer
    @CarolSummer Před 7 lety +733

    This video won't be formal, says the girl who wears some stunning lace and always looks like a million dollars!!! 😘😘❤️❤️❤️

  • @jordannurney6672
    @jordannurney6672 Před 7 lety +730

    I've always had a high respect for you Lydia, but I believe you being so genuine with us all the time confirmed more of why I respect and love you and your channel.

    • @warumdennkeinWunder
      @warumdennkeinWunder Před 7 lety +14

      yes daria, of course all your hobbies, habits and other actions never harmed the planet in any way ever, so I guess it's time to throw the first stone.

    • @BillieLovesYouu
      @BillieLovesYouu Před 7 lety +7

      Do you eat meat? or drink Milk? Because that harms animals too, I'm sure you do your fair share of harming to animals. Don't be a hypocrite.

    • @frankbigottho5795
      @frankbigottho5795 Před 7 lety

      daria morgendorffer zz

    • @ladygodivea6743
      @ladygodivea6743 Před 7 lety +5

      Can ppl not make a point without calling you names or using nasty language anymore? Get your vocabulary up hunny 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @asma1588
      @asma1588 Před 7 lety +1

      Jordan Nurney 100% i fell the same she's sweet but there's a major problem!! The videos are really long😂😂😂😂

  • @poisonedchalice
    @poisonedchalice Před 7 lety +711

    Not directed to Lydia...but I look at many YT videos and comments and its clear a lot of people dont realise how lucky they are. Despite having a masters degree and a hardworker I haven't been able to afford or save up for things which i would like - main reason being my father gambling. My sister and I have had to pay towards the mortgage and his debts. Be grateful.

    • @shefine04
      @shefine04 Před 7 lety +131

      Rosebud .....just read your comment. You have honored your parents by being a very rare gem; hardworking & got an education & that's enough! Now go get yourself something selfishly wonderful & reward yourself! Keep your head up & be encouraged!

    • @kli8469
      @kli8469 Před 7 lety +42

      Rosebud no one need to pay for their parents debts....

    • @ellamary3956
      @ellamary3956 Před 7 lety +12

      I hope he stopped 😕.. did he ?

    • @millybells
      @millybells Před 7 lety +21

      Rosebud Your one who lives in the real world

    • @DebraStephensslowtownchic
      @DebraStephensslowtownchic Před 7 lety +48

      +Rosebud Are you in the US? I work for a casino and there is help for your dad. 1-800-552-4700 is a number you can call in the US to get help with gambling problems. I'm sure there is a similar hotline in the UK or other countries. Please, call,for him, if not for you and your sisters sake. You are an honorable daughter, but your dad needs to take responsibility for his problem. Please, also seek help for you and your sister, the psychological effect is also very hard. You can fight this as a family. You can do this. My well wishes are with you and your family.

  • @beautyclassyfied
    @beautyclassyfied Před 7 lety +1086

    by far the most humble blogger out there xxx

  • @sylvialiu2946
    @sylvialiu2946 Před 7 lety +42

    When ur saying: believe me I'm really really good at saving. I was thinking wow this girl must earn A LOOOOOT!

  • @aliciamilan6199
    @aliciamilan6199 Před 7 lety +381

    I am right there with you. I rarely go out to eat, I don't go out for drinks and movies maybe once a year. I don't go on vacations etc.
    My extra money goes for the luxury goods I love, whether it's a Burberry trench, or Gucci shoes, or a Chanel purse. When I get the jealous comments about my riches, I laugh, and point out the 10,000 dollar cruise they just took etc. Everyone spends differently, and luxury goods are my pleasure. I get pleasure everyday I wear them and enjoy them. My income, my choice, no apologies.

    • @valeriab.3669
      @valeriab.3669 Před 7 lety +78

      I do respect people's choices in spending their own money, however, isn't this kind of lifestyle lonely? We don't go out solely for food or movie itself, that's a part of being social, getting experience and building memories with people that we like and love. As much as I appreciate luxury goods, I wouldn't want to sacrifice everything else out there to own them, just my opinion, i don't judge :)

    • @molly3900
      @molly3900 Před 7 lety +30

      I agree with this completely! A few years ago I used to never go out and spent my money mainly on possessions. I thought that if I exchanged my money for something that was immaterial, then I had wasted it. Recently, I realised that happiness does not depend on possessions as when you stop socialising everything else feels pointless. When you go out it is definitely for the experience or the company. You eventually run out of space for objects but you can have as many good memories as you like :)
      Whenever I buy something material now I always ask myself: "Does it have a use?" and "Is it really worth the asking price?"

    • @Apluschic
      @Apluschic Před 6 lety +2

      Alicia Milan well said!!!!!

    • @marialim114
      @marialim114 Před 6 lety +6

      if that's what you get pleasure from, i see no problem with that 👍

    • @bambina5604
      @bambina5604 Před 5 lety +9

      I'm sorry but reading your comment I just feel sorry for you.

  • @starabaker
    @starabaker Před 7 lety +37

    Following lots of youtubers and bloggers makes it somewhat "normal" to own a handbag that costs several hundreds and sometimes thousands. Sometimes I feel like owning a Chanel bag has become the new normal, if you get caught on social media and want to replicate what you constantly see. Thank you Lydia for putting things into perspective. Thank you for reminding everyone that going into debt and getting everything right away isn't healthy, more bloggers should address this subject. I own several luxury handbags myself and love them but I would never go into debt for that. Saving is the key.

  • @RangerMommy
    @RangerMommy Před 7 lety +66

    Lydia, I'm sure that you can also "write off" some of your purchases and your home against your income as business expenses. For example, if you show a luxury bag on your channel it is a business expense. Also, if you both work out of your home you can claim part of your home as a business expense against your taxes. This also makes a big difference.

  • @christinawilmowski6058
    @christinawilmowski6058 Před 7 lety +66

    A tip that others might find useful - I put 10% of my monthly pay into my savings, which isn't necessarily a huge amount, but it's enough to feel like I won't necessarily 'miss' the money, but over time it does add up to pay for things that are important to me - which is travel.

    • @jessicamendez3486
      @jessicamendez3486 Před 7 lety +9

      Travel is definitely my splurge! When I think about an expensive item I'd like to buy, I'm always convinced not to buy it when consider the vacation I could have with that money.

    • @QueenieBeenieBaby
      @QueenieBeenieBaby Před 7 lety +4

      Yes me too!!! I always save some from every paycheck and spend it on traveling which is my splurge too. My car is old and I've wanted a new car but I always find myself spending money on trips instead :) and I'm ok with that

  • @colettepippa6529
    @colettepippa6529 Před 7 lety +346

    Women smashing the sh💩 t out of life is totally worth celebrating... AMMMMMMMEN to that!! 😊💪💖✌ x

    • @annettecaitlyn1058
      @annettecaitlyn1058 Před 7 lety +6

      Colette Pippa I thought so too

    • @TWDxKILL3R
      @TWDxKILL3R Před 7 lety +1

      Colette Pippa ... fuckin feminists 🙄

    • @TWDxKILL3R
      @TWDxKILL3R Před 7 lety

      Colette Pippa .... yea wasting money on expensive clothes is "smashing life". Fucking feminists

    • @Sophia-uy3ye
      @Sophia-uy3ye Před 7 lety +3

      TWDxKILL3R Don´t use feminism as a bad term. It´s a perfectly understandable concept and gender equality is a very important issue. No hate please everyone is entitled to their own opinions.

    • @TWDxKILL3R
      @TWDxKILL3R Před 7 lety +2

      Emma Watson ... women have been equal to men for like over a decade now....are y'all gonna be just like the blacks and claim inequality until your actually given more and then still claim inequality?

  • @nikkiponcsak
    @nikkiponcsak Před 7 lety +214

    You have such a good head on your shoulders, Lydia, I really respect you for that. xx

  • @delthomas6479
    @delthomas6479 Před 7 lety +197

    This is great advice. I'm much older than you with a daughter your age. She's very successful because like you, she's very smart, ambitious and works darn hard. So, it saddens me to sense a kind of apologetic/"forgive me guys" tone to your advice. You young women out there work very hard! You're all clued up to everything and are fearless. With hard work comes sucess; whatever that is for you - a bag, a house or savings. Sadly, we live in a world where jealousy and poison exists. Don't let his deter you however. Don't apologise to anyone for your sucess. Those who can't be happy for you, it's their problem. All of you, enjoy the fruits of your labour, you've earned it. You young women ROCK! Best wishes. 👍👑👜👛👠🎓☺

  • @future288ify
    @future288ify Před 7 lety +30

    Another tip is to sale shop on luxury websites and stores I bought all my Louboutin's at a 40-50% discount from selfridges during sale period I sale shop twice a year summer and winter I save thousands on brands like Valentino,ysl Gucci, christian louboutin,Versace, fendi list is endless

  • @danae9089
    @danae9089 Před 7 lety +317

    Today was my birthday and all of my friends forgot. I was upset most of the day but when I watch your Snapchat stories and CZcams videos (and I know this sounds a lil cheesy) they make me so happy because you're such a great person. I know you don't know me but thank you Lydia 😌❤️

  • @ItsTashia
    @ItsTashia Před 7 lety +31

    Thank you for being so open on this topic, I've always wondered to be honest but didn't want to be so forward in asking. I will be using some of your tips on envisioning the item in my wardrobe being styled with pieces

  • @licensedandinsureda5698
    @licensedandinsureda5698 Před 7 lety +8

    I don't know about others but honestly I watch because I love the items you get,they way you style them, your a lovely person and seeing pretty items always makes most girls happy. I would not only never question your finances nor should anyone else. It's about what you show and how to style not really anyone's business otherwise. Sure people will come out of the woodwork with envy but it goes with anyone in the public eye and much more if that person happens to be beautiful. You do great work and your a breath of fresh air.

  • @nobodytoyou9965
    @nobodytoyou9965 Před 7 lety +2

    I swear you look like a queen, so elegant and classy, the way you talk, how you dress, your makeup and accessories, even the background is absolutely stunning!

  • @jocannon8190
    @jocannon8190 Před 7 lety +2

    I thought I'd seen every kind of CZcams video, but this is such unique content. Huge kudos to you for making this, it's so honest and informative. I've completely rethought the way I shop since I began watching your channel, and now my wardrobe is starting to look like something I'm proud of, rather than a mish-mash of items I don't ever wear!
    xx

  • @TheLuxuryHybrid
    @TheLuxuryHybrid Před 7 lety +4

    This was a great way to introduce someone who is not sure how to acquire luxury handbags. I'm mostly impressed by how much you emphasize the reality of how people can unassumingly fall into debt by not taking the necessary responsible steps. This is honestly the first video that stresses that important factor. DON'T FALL INTO DEBT OVER A HANDBAG! Bravo Lydia. You are fantastic!
    A tip that I would love to share with you is I actually have a separate bank account with a different bank entirely that I have set aside towards savings for shopping. And once I've paid my monthly bills (rent, car note, etc) I take 5% of what I call my "free money" and deposit it into my shopping account!

  • @annmariemerlino3102
    @annmariemerlino3102 Před 7 lety +10

    One thing I absolutely LOVE about Lydia is that she always thanks EVERYONE for what they sent her. I remember one CZcamsr going through her Christmas "unboxing" and just throwing the stuff on the side to quickly get all the shots of all her free stuff. Lydia never does that, she always says a very heartfelt thank you ... I hope that never changes!!! Love you Lydia!!!

  • @katja3705
    @katja3705 Před 7 lety

    Thank you soooo much for this video! Just what I have been thinking about. And a love this kind of chatty videos and also informal ones. And you are so sweet!

  • @lucyservo6574
    @lucyservo6574 Před 7 lety +1

    honestly my favourite videos from you 💓 everyone else is right, you're so humble and down to earth. I love it!!

  • @athomewithnika6459
    @athomewithnika6459 Před 7 lety +62

    for now, being married and saving up for a bigger house I started to buy a little bit more expensive bags. not luxury but I started my collectiom with Calvin klein and Michael Kors. now want to go up a little bit after we buy the house😍 But I love luxury perfumes. they make me feel great😊

    • @athomewithnika6459
      @athomewithnika6459 Před 7 lety +13

      key word is timeless pieces. 😊 you are so damn right about being monochronatic too. love you from Azerbaijan

    • @unfriendlyasianhottie
      @unfriendlyasianhottie Před 7 lety +4

      At Home With Nika I'm saving for a house too but my need for designer bags are outrageous. Everyday I look at them bc I keep telling myself someday after I buy a house lol

  • @Dalps93
    @Dalps93 Před 7 lety +3

    This is so lovely, you're so down to earth 😘 and good for you, working hard pays off! 👌🏼👏🏼 xx

  • @moniquefahy3695
    @moniquefahy3695 Před 7 lety +2

    Incredibly well said Lydia! I've been following you for the longest time and I resonate so much the feeling of buying something you have waited and saved so much for! Xx

  • @paigemweller4122
    @paigemweller4122 Před 7 lety +4

    So humble. So helpful. So motivating. So honest. And I'm SO appreciative. Adore you, Lydia ❤️

  • @gemqueen1866
    @gemqueen1866 Před 7 lety +19

    too late I am in debt but I've had fun spending, though now I'm being sensible and addressing my finances and making sensible purchases ☺

  • @michellejoseph8820
    @michellejoseph8820 Před 7 lety +3

    These are excellent tips Lydia, especially the one about prioritising your future. I have truly learnt from this video. Thank you so much. :) x

  • @mayamusa5208
    @mayamusa5208 Před 7 lety +2

    I love you so much I'm so glad you are humble and always pursuing what you love to do . Remember that we as subscribers will always keep supporting you no matter what. So thanks for the video

  • @andrearicardez3766
    @andrearicardez3766 Před 7 lety +2

    Lydia, your tips are so helpful and on point. We are constantly bombarded with the next it bag, the must have, or whatever item is on fashion right now and we instantly feel the urge to go and buy it so we can keep up with the trends. And, from a realistic point of view that is financially suicide when you are not born a millionaire or making tons of money. Thank you for taking the time to show the real behind the scenes process of acquiring a luxury bag.

  • @kittyp2297
    @kittyp2297 Před 7 lety +3

    Loved this video, Lydia! Love how down to earth and honest you are 🖤

  • @elifkursun
    @elifkursun Před 3 lety +3

    I absolutely love this! It's all about discipline and you seem to have a lot of it. I shall watch this a few more times so it sinks in.

  • @RobynsBeauty
    @RobynsBeauty Před 7 lety

    This was such perfect timing on your part - I needed this video, thank you! Beautiful as always, even when 'casual' xox

  • @mollyjustine
    @mollyjustine Před 7 lety

    love your note in the description! keep being wonderful!

  • @kellydavidson1236
    @kellydavidson1236 Před 7 lety +4

    I've been big into luxury items since I was super young and bought myself my first LV when I was 16. I'm definitely like you where I mull over things for a while. I've been wanting a Balenciaga classic arena city bag since I was 13 and finally bought it for myself a month ago as I haven't stopped thinking about it for 11 years, and I just turned 24! Can't wait to keep adding to my collection. Next purchases I'm eyeing are the Saint Laurent WOC and a Clic Clac H bracelet from Hermes. Love you lots!

  • @EEN63
    @EEN63 Před 7 lety +15

    Lydia, this was an EXCELLENT video with some very sage advice... especially the part about not going in debt and being very responsible with your money. I, too, am a saver and save up for all the nice things I want. Because you are very conscientious about your money, I'm curious why you avoid credit cards... we all know there is no such thing as free money!
    I am a stickler and pay off all my credit cards each and every month, without fail!!! But, I only have credit cards that have no service fees and pay me up to 5% on my purchases. As an example, if you buy a bag for $2500, you would get $125 back! I find it's a very effective way to handle my finances. I put most of my monthly expenses on my credit cards so I can take advantage of the cash back rewards (if there is ever a charge for using my credit card, I use another payment method). I might as well get paid a little something for buying my groceries, paying the water department, etc. Because you are smart and strict about not going into debt, you might find using credit cards with a cash rewards system very beneficial as well. I'm curious to know if they offer these types of reward credit cards in the UK...

  • @zoesmith4368
    @zoesmith4368 Před 7 lety +1

    I think this video is so useful and informative. I love that your such a big advocate of being responsible and saving money while still being able to treat yourself x

  • @IsobelCeline
    @IsobelCeline Před 7 lety

    I love how real this video is! Thanks so much for creating this Lydia!💕

  • @ejmadzik4097
    @ejmadzik4097 Před 7 lety +5

    It was so nice to see this video and I'm waiting for the next one! You're very inspiring person ☺️ greetings from Poland!

  • @48hm9
    @48hm9 Před 7 lety +12

    Thank you for talking about financial responsibility in this video. I work a job where I discuss assets and financials with individuals on a daily basis and it is scary how little people save, how little people have when looking at the big picture and what they would need to survive if someone thing unexpected happened. I'm so glad as a youtuber you used your platform to discuss living within your means and spending money only if you have it because you are right, credit cards aren't free money. I love luxury goods as much as the next person but people (myself included) shouldn't be buying goods they can't afford, especially if you don't have any savings.

  • @AdelineWelch
    @AdelineWelch Před 7 lety

    This was such a good idea of a video! Loved it and appreciated hearing the truth and reality of how you manage things 'behind the scenes'. I ALWAYS wonder about how things work etc.! Thanks Lydia!xx

  • @zaynkhan1356
    @zaynkhan1356 Před 7 lety +1

    I think this video was really important and informative! Good job on this new series of chats, I love them :)
    Great advice. I feel extremely motivated :)

  • @AmySarahx
    @AmySarahx Před 7 lety +4

    Loved this video so so so much, you're so real and down to earth. Please do more similar videos to this. Love these savings types of videos xx

  • @EmmaJacobVlog
    @EmmaJacobVlog Před 7 lety +5

    I LOVE this video, I'm so happy you made it. I honestly believed that a lot of your purchases were because you had a wealthy family behind you which is silly because people probably think I bought my house at 22 and travel all year round because of my parents, but I've always been completely self sufficient and have never had somebody to help me if I needed financial support. I'm am even bigger fan now (though you're already my favourite CZcamsr). I'm looking forward to seeing all your new purchases this year 😘

  • @starlinglothrop448
    @starlinglothrop448 Před 7 lety

    You look FLAWLESS and I love hearing your story of how to built your collection! Ps. The little disclaimer in the description is perfect, most of us are here to watch your videos because we also love luxury goods!!!

  • @GT-ro2tn
    @GT-ro2tn Před 7 lety

    So glad you did a video like this , so important to save and appreciate money and buy nice things with disposable income ! Rarely see anyone on you tube discussing this and you inspire us girls (and boys) to work harder and save money and train harder and get fitter etc
    I honestly believe you're making a big difference even in just a small time on you tube . I hope you and Ali get all the success you deserve xx

  • @summ3rnightfashion521
    @summ3rnightfashion521 Před 7 lety +7

    Thank you for sharing your tips with us! They were really useful. By the way you look stunning 😀

  • @IntrepidgrlVentures
    @IntrepidgrlVentures Před 7 lety +16

    GREAT VID Mad Respect for you now!!

  • @lottyhoad3209
    @lottyhoad3209 Před 7 lety

    Found this video SO useful! It's so easy to watch your videos and then want to go out and buy absolutely everything! So knowing how you save for these big purchases was humbling and super helpful. Both my bank balance and my wardrobe will definitely thank you for this vlog! x

  • @meganalexis96
    @meganalexis96 Před 7 lety +2

    It makes me so happy to see someone so classy and humble. You are the perfect example of someone that a lot of women can look up to. Love your videos ❤

  • @alice-ux9ld
    @alice-ux9ld Před 7 lety +4

    Such a real and inspiring girl! Soo much respect for her

  • @BugnLVoe
    @BugnLVoe Před 7 lety +21

    For me ~ I only spend money on handbags. It's my thing. I love them, I don't care if people make comments. But it's the only high end items I buy. If it's not a luxury handbag I am a tightwad. To keep my handbag addiction going, I sell the ones I don't use frequently even if I love them. ~ XOXO

  • @luisafelix3870
    @luisafelix3870 Před 7 lety

    I subscribed because of this video, you are actually helping other women in here, and just young people in general who are willing to listen. That's very commendable of you, thank you and keep it up!

  • @christianne1209
    @christianne1209 Před 7 lety +1

    This is very inspiring, Lydia! Thanks so much for this! ❤️❤️ You are awesome

  • @charlotteeyres4046
    @charlotteeyres4046 Před 7 lety +4

    I am not personally interested in buying luxury but this is such good life advice and refreshingly honest. Saving for the future is something I am forever conscious of and i get the same sick feeling when I've spent money in haste 💜

  • @pixie-rosethefrenchie4925

    The accounting geek in me is loving this advice

  • @nicolehemrova4122
    @nicolehemrova4122 Před 6 lety

    Wow. That was my first video I watched from you, and I was blown away. Really really refreshing in the world of fashion bloggers. Keep it up!

  • @MsMd29
    @MsMd29 Před 7 lety +1

    This has to be one of your best videos so far Lydia! Hopefully it will hush any haters out there, I see you as a true inspiration!

  • @1995BroadwayBaby
    @1995BroadwayBaby Před 7 lety +6

    I really hope you document some of the wedding planning process, your taste is exquisite!

  • @hollyroycroft5382
    @hollyroycroft5382 Před 4 lety +4

    Look how far you’ve come!!👏🏼👏🏼

  • @ElinaWe
    @ElinaWe Před 7 lety +2

    Lydia, you are my role model! So much inspiration. Always get so much happier after watching your videos :)

  • @sarahahmed7543
    @sarahahmed7543 Před 7 lety

    These are actually really good/important tips! Also, you look so beautiful in this video! That top and necklace is to die for!! Much love. Xx

  • @Curlsandbags
    @Curlsandbags Před 7 lety +72

    being self employed is such a challenge, some months you're like yaaaas let's spend hahaha, and then you regret it the month later :p. I think indeed you have to calculate well :) I bought Stuart Weitzman overknee's today at -50% I'm SOOOOO HAPPY :p

    • @mei1049
      @mei1049 Před 7 lety +1

      Curls & Bags. Was it the highland boots? Like what Lydia got? If yes please list me the site x

    • @Curlsandbags
      @Curlsandbags Před 7 lety

      Mei W yes those but in a local boutique...

    • @evekumari
      @evekumari Před 7 lety

      im so jealous I've wanted them for ages! how did you find them cheaper?

    • @Curlsandbags
      @Curlsandbags Před 7 lety

      a local store was doing sales on them, even in black :o too bad they weren't in my size :(

  • @allanaramaa
    @allanaramaa Před 7 lety +5

    Love this video, you are kicking the shit out of the CZcams game and I am so obsessed with ALL OF YOUR VIDEOS 🙌🏻🙏🏻✨✨✨ can't wait to see you hit a milli in 2017 👌🏻👌🏻❤❤

  • @Kelsears92
    @Kelsears92 Před 7 lety

    Truly enjoyed this video! Have not ever been one for fashion but watching your videos is educating so thanks!

  • @ellisbeth1
    @ellisbeth1 Před 7 lety

    ahhh i just can't get enough of lydia and how humble/genuine she is, how does someone look so good all of the time? :( jealous is an understatement! such an inspiration to me!!

  • @brinawidmer
    @brinawidmer Před 7 lety +70

    I'd really love to have a house. Sadly Switzerland is s country of renters. A simple 4 bedroom house (need that for my homeoffice and future 2kids^^) is easily around 1.5 million 😒 I stopped buying tons of cheap clothes that way I can afford to buy some more expensiv pieces. same with makeup I don't need 50 different drugstore nailpolishes or single eyeshadows - I'd rather have a few nice pieces I actually use.

  • @laurenelliott5125
    @laurenelliott5125 Před 7 lety +19

    Don't feel pressured to make videos like this. You don't have to justify to the internet why you buy luxury items. We work hard, we can get the things that we want. You have a great sense of style and personality and I look forward to seeing what you're rocking next.

  • @ktrayan
    @ktrayan Před 7 lety +1

    Lydia you are so far ahead of the crowd and such a good role model! I'm glad you made this video!!

  • @mechellepillay8801
    @mechellepillay8801 Před 5 lety +1

    Morning from South Africa! I started watching Lydia this morning and I have to say that I love her and will continue watching her... she is such a breath of fresh air

  • @sarahchamblee7674
    @sarahchamblee7674 Před 7 lety +10

    You're seriously the prettiest ever! You have the most perfect skin & lashes & body & teeth & hair 😩😩😩 I adore you! Loved this video. Thank you for this!

  • @ChristieRessel
    @ChristieRessel Před 7 lety +8

    Do you have your tanner rub off on your clothing and ruin it? Since I started buying nicer pieces I stopped self-tanning because I couldn't get it to stop ruining things. Do you have that problem?

  • @heatherhatfield4477
    @heatherhatfield4477 Před 7 lety +1

    Lydia, sending you love from Ohio! You are such a relatable, beautiful and humble person. What's even more special about you is you radiate as much beauty from the inside as we see on the outside. I adore your channel. I love watching Lumi too. And I wanted to thank you for recommending Emu slippers. I just purchased my first pair. I was surprised I could get them in the states. They are amazing and I cannot be without them now. ❤️

  • @issytobizzy395
    @issytobizzy395 Před 4 lety

    omg this was the first video I ever watch of Lydia I remember this was in my recommendation section on youtube and I haven't stopped watching since

  • @exclusiveaddition5491
    @exclusiveaddition5491 Před 7 lety +17

    One Year and all these subscribers?? Girl u poppin 💅🏽

  • @nadiastefan8875
    @nadiastefan8875 Před 7 lety +44

    It feels like you're justifying yourself.. you shouldn't do that. It doesn't matter if your family funds you, brands send you gifts, gifts from Ali or you save. And the reason why? It's enough that you like them! Nobody else's business, you don't steal or cheat people to get them. No harm done, no justification needed.

  • @sudetoros9830
    @sudetoros9830 Před 7 lety

    *a bit more information* part is literally on fire! Whoa!! Loooooads of love from Turkey❤

  • @lukasupranaviciute5085
    @lukasupranaviciute5085 Před 7 lety +6

    Lydia, you're soooo inspiring😍😍😍

  • @diaalwaa
    @diaalwaa Před 7 lety +20

    I really want to become a fashion designer and you have really inspired me even more. I am glad that I found your channel now ❤

    • @hermionegranger9683
      @hermionegranger9683 Před 7 lety

      Dia Alwaa Just curious (I'm thinking about doing the same): where are you studying?

    • @juliegregory7706
      @juliegregory7706 Před 7 lety +1

      Elisabetta G

    • @diaalwaa
      @diaalwaa Před 7 lety +2

      Elisabetta G I'm not in the UK. I moved to the Dubai not long ago. I'm still college I am going to uni next year. What about you? What are your plans?

    • @hermionegranger9683
      @hermionegranger9683 Před 7 lety +4

      Dia Alwaa Oh I'm not in the UK too; I'm italian! I'm studying languages at the uni at the moment, but fashion is one of my biggest passions, with makeup and cinema also, so I'm trying to figure out what I'm gonna do you know... planning some classes of fashion, design and stuff

  • @BriaMarieKP
    @BriaMarieKP Před 6 lety

    Just came across your videos today and omg I love you!!!! You seem so kind and genuine, and incredibly smart with the position you're in and not wanting to take it for granted!

  • @JaniVMD
    @JaniVMD Před 7 lety

    New subbie here, I started watching you just this past week and you are such an inspiration! I feel in the same boat as you, only I don't yet work so I cannot save to buy the things on my wishlist just yet, but soon. Thank you for sharing this and definitely be PROUD of everything you have accomplished! GREAT tips! I cannot wait to start saving again, the only thing I miss from working! Love from Puerto Rico!

  • @ashleyseveska3389
    @ashleyseveska3389 Před 7 lety +3

    i love your channel! and i am currently trying to save up for that pochete metis LV you have i absolutely fell in love with this bag when I started following your channel! and i also want to save up for a chloe bag!! today my goal is to go through all my highend bags and choose the ones i want to sell to give them a good home!

  • @sherineabdelhady
    @sherineabdelhady Před 7 lety +7

    there is no shame ever to have the stuff that makes you feel happy nonetheless working so hard to get what you want as long as its not something bad or evil .. I found you inspiring in many ways first of all you are strong independant person

    • @sherineabdelhady
      @sherineabdelhady Před 7 lety

      you are such a humble person it shows and feels how sweet your personality in too many obvious ways .. I dont know you in person but through your laugh your way of thinking and the rational choice of words it just shows

    • @sherineabdelhady
      @sherineabdelhady Před 7 lety

      I appreciate your tips and actually I found them were rational and helpful .. I applause your will in life ingeneral and how passionate, hardworking, STRONG woman you are .. God bless You and Ali .. wish you both the best ♡

  • @vanessamair1640
    @vanessamair1640 Před 7 lety

    Thank you for for sharing, Lydia! Your advice is so sensible and really easy to follow (once someone is able to overcome the urge to impulse buy!) 😊 You are such a great role model for your subscribers. Thanks for being amazing!

  • @lauraxblack
    @lauraxblack Před 7 lety +2

    Loved watching this and listening to your advice Lydia! Your smile literally lights up your whole face, it's lovely to see. I'm exactly the same with credit cards, I avoid them at all costs otherwise I would have all of the lovely designer items but a huge debt!
    It was lovely to meet you at the Go Glam Gala, you're just as lovely in person as you are in your videos! xx

  • @AstridClarke
    @AstridClarke Před 7 lety +3

    Love this! Am currently saving for a new Gucci bag 😩

    • @ariahlea1186
      @ariahlea1186 Před 5 lety

      Astrid Clarke me too, did you already get it?

  • @ralenesworld198
    @ralenesworld198 Před 7 lety +16

    Can you do a video about being self employed and making the transition

  • @clairegaudreau1396
    @clairegaudreau1396 Před 7 lety

    Thank you for making this video, it's great to hear from someone who buys things responsibly

  • @AbigailMason-AccordingToAbi

    I honestly found this video really inspiring and motivating! It's motivated me to both start saving more and treating myself. You go girl because you're doing amazingly! Lots of love x

  • @nicoleelton4069
    @nicoleelton4069 Před 7 lety +3

    Oh my god that blouse stunning!

  • @JosieIrons
    @JosieIrons Před 7 lety +3

    Loved this chilled chatty video - totally agree that you can save so much money by not going out drinking / fancy meals, makes SO much difference! (Also v hard when living in London!) xxx

  • @CassiaFooCY
    @CassiaFooCY Před 7 lety

    Always love watching your videos. Also, respects you and thankful for those tips and advice.

  • @veronicagualeni
    @veronicagualeni Před 7 lety

    This video was honestly so helpful! Thank you for all the great tips💗

  • @Minka_6
    @Minka_6 Před 7 lety +9

    Lydia, this is a very helpful video. I have always wanted a Burberry trench coat and maybe one day I will buy it. I think I like traveling too much to be able to save money on it. But this video definitely goes with other things, like my traveling, as well. There were times when I spent all of my savings on a plane ticket - very irresponsible.

    • @arletteschu
      @arletteschu Před 7 lety +3

      Alicja Mincewicz Well in the end when you're old you are going to remember all the time you spend in other countries with different cultures and not really the materialistic things you bought

    • @katrinefosgerau3351
      @katrinefosgerau3351 Před 7 lety

      You should try bying the trenchcoat second hand! If you can get your hands on one from the 90s they literally cost the same as one from Topshop. But of course just make sure it is not a fake!

    • @Lifeplasty
      @Lifeplasty Před 7 lety

      Alicja Mincewicz Sometimes they have great stock and you can buy a Burberry trench coat at the outlet shops at a discount!

    • @hollaaajess
      @hollaaajess Před 7 lety +3

      Alicja Mincewicz Try buying the trench coats at outlet stores! I got my Burberry trench for $600

    • @tofuteeth
      @tofuteeth Před 7 lety +3

      It's a bit weird for me to suggest this, but until you can afford the Burberry trench coat, maybe you could consider getting a trench coat of another brand first just to try and see if it's really for you (Burberry is such a lovely investment!). The reason being that I too, once, wanted to get a trench coat myself but after wearing one from UNIQLO for a long trip, I realised that the camel shade and the style of it just didn't seem to suit me very well, strangely.

  • @mifipfefferminz4957
    @mifipfefferminz4957 Před 7 lety +7

    Really helpful video :) I was wondering, what do you do for a living?

  • @michellerichardson5104

    Thank you so much Lydia! You're so down to earth and bloody inspiring! I have a pretty average paying job but am also trying to buy a house so I have been saving little by little for my wardrobe and hearing your tips just helps me feel like I am on the right track :) Thank you!

  • @Twilightluver30
    @Twilightluver30 Před 6 lety

    Such a helpful video! I've been saving up for a Louis Vuitton twist and these tips were definitely relatable and I loved how genuine it was! Xo

  • @selenaandashley
    @selenaandashley Před 7 lety +3

    Hey Lydia, can you do a video on living with Ali (basically a whole living with a boyfriend/fiance video). You mentioned you pay the mortgage for the house you bought--do you guys split all the costs?