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  • @davidjones4517
    @davidjones4517 Před 6 měsíci +61

    We are living in end times where people are lovers of themselves

    • @Lyrielonwind
      @Lyrielonwind Před 6 měsíci +5

      Book of Revelations

    • @michellewigirl2012
      @michellewigirl2012 Před 6 měsíci +3

      U got that right

    • @endtimesnavigation864
      @endtimesnavigation864 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yes. And the AI god has the reigns now on all kinds of targeting technology. Bad people are being used and selected to go to work against truth tellers. Be very careful and keep your crowns.

    • @justmichael6628
      @justmichael6628 Před 6 měsíci +9

      There are those who have been turned over to a reprobate mind .

    • @Cod12Osc
      @Cod12Osc Před 5 měsíci +3

      Yes we are. Thus the reason for us to study Scripture, memorize Scripture and apply it to our lives. God is the only solution and comfort.

  • @McgarickWAstate
    @McgarickWAstate Před 6 měsíci +26

    It's coming from the Pit of Hell...

  • @caroliney.4725
    @caroliney.4725 Před 6 měsíci +64

    This is soooo Good! Once I realized that I can say "No" to people and set boundaries my life has totally changed.- and I'm in my fifties! My entire life I never felt like I had a say in many of my draining friendships and it sure feels freeing to be able to say "No, this is not for me"! Thank you Kevin!

    • @orangecat1672
      @orangecat1672 Před 6 měsíci +8

      It’s so true .. I’m 45 and I think to myself , why did it take me so long to understand all this & how to protect myself by a simple no. Better late than never . What frustrates me now is seeing others I care about in toxic 6:15 relationships that they don’t realize are holding them back .. I think that used to be me !!! I literally want to ship all the narcs & A** holes to an island .. let them destroy each other & leave the rest of us in peace .
      Ahhhhh .. if only.

    • @justjosie8963
      @justjosie8963 Před 6 měsíci +5

      ​@@orangecat1672Yes, they all deserve each other, and leave the rest of us to peaceful, mutually beneficial relationships, now that we realize we're alowed to get benefit too.

    • @rwdchannel2901
      @rwdchannel2901 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Denying a narc the narc supply is a boundary.

  • @fabbi9548
    @fabbi9548 Před 6 měsíci +77

    I believe it'll probably get worse with these new generations. Technology and social trends are brewing a lot this too.

    • @EricGumerlock
      @EricGumerlock Před 6 měsíci +1

      its being propagated

    • @user-wm5jc3vl1y
      @user-wm5jc3vl1y Před 6 měsíci

      What you say in this comment is based on your own observation ? In that case have you sought how and why the technologies impact the socity? Have you sought what are the motivations that have pushed the technologies's maker.
      I whish you see the CZcams's terms to understand what I've talked about.

    • @Cod12Osc
      @Cod12Osc Před 6 měsíci +3

      This was a legitimate comment or concern you brought up.... VERY LEGITIMATE. Thanks for sharing your comments and thoughts fabbi9548. SOME individuals use social media for healthy and good things.... spreading the word of the Lord and education. Unfortunately, the majority of folks use it to gratify "self," and sadly people enable and agree by liking things and posting comments that enable and agree with their "self" way of living. God Bless, and thanks again for sharing 😊

    • @user-wm5jc3vl1y
      @user-wm5jc3vl1y Před 6 měsíci

      @@Cod12Osc what are the purposes of your subcomment ? Are you sure you go in the same video maker way ?

    • @pamlomeli1360
      @pamlomeli1360 Před 5 měsíci +2

      I definitely think that is true. Yes, it is good to have healthy boundaries and know one’s worth. Seems also this newfound communication of reinforcement of one’s boundaries seems to be going overboard with some however. Therapist & people supporting cutting people out of your life instead of working on one’s issues as well as working on proper communications to resolve issues has gone out the window.

  • @mmd9976
    @mmd9976 Před 6 měsíci +22

    I was told everybody deserves a second chance. Wish that sentence was never invented. Everybody doesn't deserve a second chance that's for sure and having boundaries and knowing how to use the boundaries is the key.

    • @billiemunn
      @billiemunn Před 5 měsíci +2

      When people conspire together with more than one person to destroy you in one way or another, do they deserve a second chance at that? Absolutely not. Even Jesus withdrew from the Pharisees when he realized they were conspiring to destroy him. See Matthew 12:14-15.

    • @Sherry-from-wherever
      @Sherry-from-wherever Před 5 měsíci +3

      Ugh. In my case, I allowed third and fourth chances. I see the good and ignore the 72 red flags. I have now learned why I accepted this thankfully.

    • @vanessamorey3812
      @vanessamorey3812 Před 5 měsíci

      AMEN!!! 🙏

  • @soozilasarge1495
    @soozilasarge1495 Před 6 měsíci +46

    I’m 74 years old. My nasty dad was a narcissist ❤Crazy life. I was chubby as a kid and he once told me I was the worst thing that ever happened to him. I won’t go into all the other insanity.

    • @michellewigirl2012
      @michellewigirl2012 Před 6 měsíci +8

      My cousin went thru this with her dad n she became anorexic n also had bulimia that shes been battling ever since.

    • @novakandfaith123
      @novakandfaith123 Před 6 měsíci +12

      It's really impressive that you made it this far. You're strong and courageous.

    • @rochellet1333
      @rochellet1333 Před 6 měsíci +10

      I am 70 and when I reflect on the emotional abuse I endured, I am surprised I am still here. I can relate to your situation. The evil inflicted on children is over the top and I am sorry you went through that.

    • @novakandfaith123
      @novakandfaith123 Před 6 měsíci +6

      @@rochellet1333 one fellow said in another video that, if your life was hell and a lot of people persecuted you, chances are that the Lord loves you a lot. Sorry I don't know if you are a believer before saying that. But you're loved nonetheless.

    • @anonymousbyname1121
      @anonymousbyname1121 Před 6 měsíci +10

      My mum is a narcissist she has told me repeatedly that when she was pregnant with me she wanted an abortion but my dad refused to sign the papers and she has resented me ever since needless to say they divorced when I was a child my life was hell with her and she treated my older brother like a king. She has also told me that I’m nothing but a piece of sh*t no provocation, no arguing just a matter of fact pure hatred spitting out of her mouth, my brother is a narcissist too mean, nasty, takes pleasure in inflicting insults and pain onto others, others meaning me.

  • @andron967
    @andron967 Před 6 měsíci +48

    Narcissism is a multi generation problem. It causes deep problems with consciousness and personality development. It's a needed step in a childs Individual development that goes wrong. The results are horrible. This is a major growing problem. I've suffered badly. I'm not a narcissist. This mental illness needs a therapy. I've been unfortunately involved with several female narcissist before I understood the situation. The results were horrible for me. Behind the mask It's horrible for them. They aren't complete people. They know it. Eventually the false self and lies shatter.

    • @sandrathomas2893
      @sandrathomas2893 Před 6 měsíci +8

      💥
      It's rooted in severe insecure attachment early on and the child never individuates; separates from the parent. They are psychologically infused as one with their abusive parent who dictates their reality and personality.

    • @novakandfaith123
      @novakandfaith123 Před 6 měsíci +5

      ​@@sandrathomas2893I really like this explanation. It's like you used words that explains exactly what happened to me. I had a psychological abuser and neglectful father. The worse thing is that I was very attached to him as I grew up with him and not my mother, they were separated since I was 3.

    • @sandrathomas2893
      @sandrathomas2893 Před 6 měsíci +1

      ​@@novakandfaith123 Are you saying you lived with your dad and not your mom??

    • @novakandfaith123
      @novakandfaith123 Před 6 měsíci +4

      @@sandrathomas2893 that's it, he was a very clever abuser. He said something like, "I would like to be close to the boy", my mother didn't have much choice nor financial condition to do anything. But it's ok, everything worked out for the best 🙂

    • @sandrathomas2893
      @sandrathomas2893 Před 6 měsíci +5

      @@novakandfaith123 praise God 🙏
      Blessings to you!
      I've been alienated from my son 13 yrs now. He's turning 26. My x narcissistic sociopath called him MY son from day 1. He sees him as an extension of himself only!
      They never reach object constancy so they see everyone as an object to possess.
      Lord help us all 🙏

  • @MissJacque87
    @MissJacque87 Před 6 měsíci +16

    Must be a narcissist epidemic…
    I truly never knew about this until 4 years ago…However with awareness like this I truly discovered this has been around me all my life…🤯

  • @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht
    @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht Před 6 měsíci +12

    It's sickkkkkkkkkkkk they are literally everywhere

  • @zippyz4170
    @zippyz4170 Před 6 měsíci +14

    I think we are taught in school to follow along and if you resist then you are seen as the problem because in the narcissists eyes they believe they have the right to use you. Cain was a narcissist as he was filled with jealousy and envy when he saw Abel causing Cain to kill Abel. The explosion of narcissism is due to social media and people not being held accountable in todays day and age. I've awakening to the realization while I was showing kindness to all that they were just talking behind my back with so much jealousy and envy seeking to destroy my goodness, my self control, my patience...so I'd be as miserable as they are. I'd rather be alone then surrounded by wickedness. People lie to themselves all the time and create "Their truth" and all they are doing is saying is their evil is good and people should accept it.

  • @SheldonBrown567
    @SheldonBrown567 Před 6 měsíci +25

    I agree with everything Kevin has said here, however I believe the computer age, along with it, the age of social media, has increased the sense of self importance, and self absorption. Almost making the focus of self, and narcissistic traits more socially acceptable.

  • @InvisibleWarrior279
    @InvisibleWarrior279 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I really, REALLY agree with you. The 10 commandments are the real deal. The lie was a misguided notion of “tolerance”.

  • @brentlybennett357
    @brentlybennett357 Před 6 měsíci +7

    People in the past would have taken out a narcissist, modern day times are evil and the evil are in positions of power and protect their own.

  • @annastone5624
    @annastone5624 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I’m highly suspicious of anyone who preaches ‘Connnection’
    Who wants connection most? People who want to access you to exploit you, so they make a religion out of it.
    Any sane person would preach balance, safety, due diligence.. but these people it’s all about ‘learning to trust’ when if fact they are just coaching you to drop your natural healthy boundaries. Highly dangerous.
    Well done Kevin excellent grounded content as usual.,

  • @syndisings
    @syndisings Před 6 měsíci +21

    I can't believe how naive I have been throughout the years! I truly believed that people were progressing. I feel like the character Sofia on " The Color Purple" I was such a spirited person. I believed that the world was getting better. I was looking forward to a happy life. I felt like I was on top of the world when my ribs were tucked in by my High School Crush. I still struggle believing that this type of abuse still existed and that it would ever happen to me. What was I thinking? My eyes are wide open. Thank you for being such a knowledgeable gifted speaker!

    • @TrevorHamberger
      @TrevorHamberger Před 6 měsíci +4

      I feel the same way but at least we know what we're dealing with now

    • @dakoderii4221
      @dakoderii4221 Před 6 měsíci

      It will much better than you thought it could be. First, we must go through a very dark and scary time. It's a zero sum game. Either we the people win or the Satanic eLiTe win. The other side dies.

  • @SuperBlakes2
    @SuperBlakes2 Před 6 měsíci +4

    The problem im facing now is the abondenment pain from my childhood. Saying no has worked, now im really on my own. And sometimes i think i have gone over board, because whats the difference between narcissistic behaviour and just people being imperfect. I really still can not distinguish the wolves from the sheep. People seem to be more and more insincere. 😮

  • @tracycampbell3060
    @tracycampbell3060 Před 6 měsíci +16

    In Charasmatic Christianty it's been about love and forgive everyone. Your messages, this kind of teaching we should have had decades ago

    • @MaryPothoven
      @MaryPothoven Před 6 měsíci +4

      Not just Charismatic. I come from a Reformed Presbyterian background, and it's the same there. In fact, I went to a bible study years ago where we were quoted Paul, who said he was "the chief of sinners." This phrase was used to tell us who are we to get upset when someone sins against us? We should all say we are, "the chief of sinner." So, quit complaining to the church that someone is abusing you was the message...

    • @rochellet1333
      @rochellet1333 Před 6 měsíci +1

      agree!

    • @4Mikes4Mindset4
      @4Mikes4Mindset4 Před 4 měsíci

      Religious Narcs are the worst

  • @WildWomanAwakening
    @WildWomanAwakening Před 6 měsíci +16

    You really took us to church with this one 🔥 🔥 🔥 no wonder you faced technical issues 🙏

  • @Whoamiiiiiiiiiiii
    @Whoamiiiiiiiiiiii Před 6 měsíci +4

    The enemy definitely tried to stop you on this one. Not today satan! 😂

  • @patricianeville1941
    @patricianeville1941 Před 6 měsíci +16

    Thank you, thanks again for talking about this question where is all this narcissism coming from? It seems like it’s getting worse people just don’t seem to care about hurting feelings! I sometimes think I must have a sign on my back that’s an invitation for abuse! Watching your videos helps me understand I’m not crazy and their treatment is not healthy! God Bless You Kevin!

    • @MaryPothoven
      @MaryPothoven Před 6 měsíci +5

      For years I thought I had an invisible power magnet that attracted crazy people. I didn't know they were narcissists... Back then I thought narcissism was some weird sexual self-love. Like Narcissus depicted in a cartoon looking in the mirror... not so.

  • @sarcasticcat4982
    @sarcasticcat4982 Před 6 měsíci +7

    3 But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. 2 For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, 4 treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people. 6 For among them are those who creep into households and capture weak women, burdened with sins and led astray by various passions.

    • @wk1810
      @wk1810 Před 4 měsíci

      Yes, and that scripture is aimed at the pseudo Christian.

    • @sarcasticcat4982
      @sarcasticcat4982 Před 4 měsíci

      @@wk1810 if the " pseudo christians" are this way,.then the rest of the world is in deep doo-doo and there are and will be very few left.at that day.
      Such is the state of things.

  • @tammyyeager8890
    @tammyyeager8890 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Something I just spoke to my child about, who is now 42. No need for those who are superior/fake. I'll accept all the blessings from God, to have such great knowledge!

  • @Imoenn
    @Imoenn Před 6 měsíci +4

    It's very much it's always been there we've only just noticed it. We didn't notice it because we were raised not to notice it.

  • @rita3604
    @rita3604 Před 6 měsíci +5

    People are feeling free to do what they want. Not caring about others.

  • @chellotrevino7323
    @chellotrevino7323 Před 6 měsíci +12

    Kids raising kids these days

  • @laurawilliams7407
    @laurawilliams7407 Před 6 měsíci +27

    Too many indulgent parents not willing to actually parent.

    • @sylon7717
      @sylon7717 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Parents have always indulged. I think it’s more pandering parents. Spoiled kids equals mean kids.

  • @emmarae4322
    @emmarae4322 Před 6 měsíci +11

    Emotional neglect raises narcissists. If parents expect smartphones to raise their children, their children will become narcissistic.

  • @user-uq6ic8pw8x
    @user-uq6ic8pw8x Před 6 měsíci +5

    The narcs are getting stronger and getting closer.

  • @dw2dw2
    @dw2dw2 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Its got worse because I think modern day tech has given them more tools to make the abuse easier - Information moves fast these days, far too fast for what we are designed for. Putting up a wall is great, but leaves us very lonely and afraid to let new people in.

  • @reneepeck9743
    @reneepeck9743 Před 6 měsíci +3

    This is absolutely healing and knowledgeable. The first time I have ever heard of the positive walls and proper entry. What a beautiful pathway to understanding the freedom to believe, heal and live. Thank you Keven.

  • @dolittle6781
    @dolittle6781 Před 6 měsíci +9

    A novel and powerful response to the question you were given to respond to. Very nice analogy! Really drives the point home in a way that we can always remember! I appreciated references to the Old Testament and the field trip, hippies, and Jesus. It all makes sense.

  • @Lyrielonwind
    @Lyrielonwind Před 6 měsíci +6

    Narcissists have been around from the beginning of times. The problem is that they have a longevity that empathetic don't have because the damage they produce on us. Good people die sooner and besides societies rewarding them, it makes sense that with each generation there are more narcissists and less empaths.
    That's why I believe in the book of Revelations (for the Catholic Church, the Apocalypse).

  • @chchwoman9960
    @chchwoman9960 Před 6 měsíci +10

    You make a very good point Kevin, and you describe a solution so helpfully. But I think when people ask this question they are asking why so many people in society in general now are so rude, angry, disrespectful. Not the narcissism that happens in close personal relationships

    • @MaryPothoven
      @MaryPothoven Před 6 měsíci +1

      I would have asked that question, and I sadly do understand what narcissism is about now.

  • @AnnaS-zh7ou
    @AnnaS-zh7ou Před 6 měsíci +4

    This video was so deep that I felt it in my heart. ❤ Thank you

  • @cr3062
    @cr3062 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Yes..We've had a lopsided indoctrination of walking in love and virtually nothing about how evil actually operates.

  • @michiganmymichigan
    @michiganmymichigan Před 6 měsíci +8

    It comes from no place Good. 😊

  • @Raiinydaylove02
    @Raiinydaylove02 Před 6 měsíci +11

    No it's been around since Adam and Eve and their children so really it's bn go n on since the beginning of time🙏🏾

    • @melindasmith3713
      @melindasmith3713 Před 6 měsíci +2

      They call it bi polar , controlling , a holes . Yes always been there I'm 46 , my dad was one and my husband of 27 yrs is one .

    • @homespace1268
      @homespace1268 Před 6 měsíci +2

      The snake was the narcissist!

    • @melindasmith3713
      @melindasmith3713 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@homespace1268 was it full of venium? Lol

    • @homespace1268
      @homespace1268 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@melindasmith3713 Well, I don't know what venium is....are you trying to say venom? All snakes and narcissists are filled with venom.🐍

    • @melindasmith3713
      @melindasmith3713 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@homespace1268 yes that's it ! Glad you figured it out ! Some can't use context of sentence ! 🙂 have a great weekend !

  • @michiganmymichigan
    @michiganmymichigan Před 6 měsíci +6

    It is a nice fence as privacy fences go. Racoons can be pests. Tip: Oppossum eat tons of ticks.

  • @terrim9885
    @terrim9885 Před 6 měsíci +11

    You make sense, Kevin. Thank you.

  • @AlanChesselow
    @AlanChesselow Před 6 měsíci +8

    Thank you for your perseverance with the message 🕊️✌️♾️

  • @dp5934
    @dp5934 Před 5 měsíci +3

    ❤God is separating his people. Thank God for youtubers who can help the abused break free. The mirroring that the narcissist does tricks us into believing we found our soulmate...and the contact keeps feeding the relationship...so no contact is the best way to stop feeding the relationship.

    • @ainahaga
      @ainahaga Před 3 měsíci

      All is love around me so I guess my twinflame is slowly awakening. All is love around my daughter too. She just needs to be more with me so I can affect her eating healthier too after living with my sister that is with a narsisist and she has bad eating habits but my sister is also slowly awakening is what I feel is happening! Even my brother has met a woman and went to the fillipines to be with her. We have never heard he ever talk about a woman! So I guess things are happening in my family too… Things are happening with people, love your videoes!!!!

  • @nancyP7448
    @nancyP7448 Před 6 měsíci +17

    I appreciate your message today. I got a letter from a no contact malignant narcissist I haven't talk to in 23 years. Boundaries. Thank you. I'm looking for words to assist me with this.

    • @laurawilliams7407
      @laurawilliams7407 Před 6 měsíci +16

      It goes like this: **silence**

    • @Honeychild5555
      @Honeychild5555 Před 6 měsíci +3

      Dont even go there!!!😢

    • @shawnmarie1912
      @shawnmarie1912 Před 6 měsíci +8

      Return to Sender
      Address Unknown

    • @InvisibleWarrior279
      @InvisibleWarrior279 Před 6 měsíci +6

      I was contacted by email after 20 years and made the mistake of responding (I was aware via the grapevine he had recently almost died). It was amazing - the tone of the communication; he hadn’t changed one iota in 20 years. It was horrifying. I said I didn’t want to talk to him and he blew an ALL CAPS gasket. I could say I regret responding even by email. But in an odd sort of way, it was closure for me. I hadn’t been wrong all those years ago - he was exactly who I had thought he was, though back then I had no language to describe it. Blocked and deleted! I am a grown up now - not inclined to be entertaining adult children anymore 🙃

    • @nancyP7448
      @nancyP7448 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@InvisibleWarrior279 Thank you for your words. I don't even want to respond. I know he is manipulating me. But I'm scared of him and don't want anywhere near me.

  • @SMR8554
    @SMR8554 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Thank you Kevin. 🙏🏻Jesus is the door to The Father.

  • @denise0777
    @denise0777 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Excellent teaching, Kevin...one of your best explanations! It makes perfect sense and gives me a visual. Proper walls/boundaries are good, because we still have a door to exit (or enter). We need to choose the right doors in life. We can open a door to the enemy by not being careful, discerning and prayerful. Thank you, Kevin!

  • @phillipfaile3122
    @phillipfaile3122 Před 6 měsíci +6

    This has been one of the best videos, you've made.

  • @carly106
    @carly106 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Gobsmacked again. I’m always completely amazed and grateful to hear you say what I think. Thank you. God bless you. 🙏🏼❤️

  • @rena523
    @rena523 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Love your message. You're so right on so many levels. Thank you. ❤

  • @elizabethdarley8646
    @elizabethdarley8646 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Hi! Kevin! Thank you! You read out my question today and answered it! Hey! I am really amazed and excited that you read this out! And- what a brilliant answer. Wow! No, I did not know that narcissism has always been around but now you inform us properly, I can possibly see it better.
    Yes, I fully agree with you about the Old Testament. It is where our Lord and our Lady are both prefigured. (I am very traditional Catholic SSPX Third Order) and the Holy Trinity and our Lady are all there in the Old Testament as pre figures.
    Also, once I read that all empires, religions and belief systems in any age or time actually believed in human sacrifice including child sacrifice and that the only one to NOT believe in doing this was Israel through all of the Old Testament times and up to today.., all over the world. South America, Africa, Asia....everyone everywhere... EXCEPT Israel ......because of the TEN COMMANDMENTS:
    THE Fifth COMMANDMENT. "Thou shalt not kill."
    Exodus 20:13 Douay Rheims Bible 1582.
    That is why Israel sacrificed animals. The very best of the flock, and NEVER humans/people of any age. The Hebrew Bible does tell us about the fact that there are different types of people in the world and that we are all called by God to come to Him no matter who we are.
    Kind regards,
    Bess in Yorkshire😊

  • @ksiebert631
    @ksiebert631 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Matthew 13. 30 Let both grow together untill the havest: and in the time of harvest I will say to the reapers, Gather ye together first the tares, and bind them in bundles to burn them: but gather the wheat into my barn.'

  • @user-dr8sc1gp4z
    @user-dr8sc1gp4z Před 6 měsíci +2

    Agree with you, but when the snakes are our own family , it can be doubly hard to boundary. Thank you for your videos!!

  • @rwdchannel2901
    @rwdchannel2901 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I learned about narcissism reading the Bible. Grey Rock Method is similar to forgiving people no matter what they do to you. The Bible doesn't say I've got to put myself around a person who wants to abuse me, especially if that person claims to be a Christian. Most Christians today mistake a forgiveness situation with a self defense situation. I'm not placing myself in the presence of someone who wants to hurt me no matter if its family or not.

  • @brigitteoudhini7622
    @brigitteoudhini7622 Před 6 měsíci +3

    That was a great analogy especially the part about awakening. This is one area among many.

  • @BonitaHighley-el4ed
    @BonitaHighley-el4ed Před 5 měsíci +1

    Yes, I agree. just before my 2019 divorce, I felt this separation coming. as painful as it was, after therapy, and these kinds of videos, I now understand what i've been through, what narcissim is. I have become stronger in myself.

  • @GretchenRunge-xv2hs
    @GretchenRunge-xv2hs Před 6 měsíci +9

    I WAS TAUGHT TO JUST DEAL WITH WHAT WAS DELT TO ME, AND NOT TALK ABOUT IT. AT AGE 4 MY GRANDFATHER SEXUALLY MOLESTED ME. I CRYED FOR MY DAD, HE TOLD ME MY D AD DIDNT CARE.

    • @AnitaD28
      @AnitaD28 Před 6 měsíci +2

      I’m so sorry. You are so much better than this.

    • @michellewigirl2012
      @michellewigirl2012 Před 6 měsíci +3

      So sorry that happened to you😥

  • @YODHANNAFELIPE
    @YODHANNAFELIPE Před 6 měsíci +2

    On point! Thank you for fighting through the circumstances and sharing this!

  • @smustipher
    @smustipher Před 6 měsíci +2

    Not only are these messages more FiRE than ever, it's good to see Kevin dispensing wisdom while enjoying a stick. Well done, much deserved.

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Where is smoking anything good with the True and Living God?

  • @lindawest4580
    @lindawest4580 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I'm 72 now and living in a senior Independent Living community full of such people. Living on an extremely low fixed income and no transportation (disabled ). Struggling with not having full independence right now (due to mistakes I've made health wise) Had narcissist care people and now refuse to allow anyone except my son in yet he's verbally abusive at times (has his own family issues).

  • @deebee4622
    @deebee4622 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Thank you for the fantastic video Kevin! The bright light of knowledge and awareness continues to expose the narcissist’s evil nature. We are told in 2 Corinthians 6 “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion hath light with darkness?” According to Proverbs 3:5 we need to trust in God with all our hearts and stop leaning on our own understanding. Daily dying to self in order to follow God’s guidance is not easy but keeps us from making so many mistakes.

  • @thefuturehumanchannel1909
    @thefuturehumanchannel1909 Před 5 měsíci +1

    In my experience, the fortifications are put in place because I have realized my true worth.

  • @pinkroses135
    @pinkroses135 Před 6 měsíci +3

    🤔 An era of enlightenment. I like that.

  • @billiemunn
    @billiemunn Před 5 měsíci +1

    So true! Sneaks & Snoops can only be kept out of your business by doors and gates with bars on them, lol. Not so funny when it's happening, but after you install the gates and bars, things get a lot better. Ps. 147:13, "For he hath strengthened the bars of thy gates; he hath blessed thy children within thee."

  • @dja192
    @dja192 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I like the correlation you made Kevin, with the hippie movement being replaced by Jesus in a sense. Great point. A warped theology came in and infiltrated much of Christianity with that phenomenon.

  • @reneepeck9743
    @reneepeck9743 Před 6 měsíci +1

    The best explanation and understanding of boundaries.

  • @nick8252
    @nick8252 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Narcissistic abuse has always existed! We were just trained to endure it😢
    No where in the bible does it say to endure the abuse.
    99%of people are abusive to some degree. I rather be alone now than be anywhere near abusive people.
    7:25
    11:11
    10:11
    Thanks for this video ❤

  • @toutlemonde5008
    @toutlemonde5008 Před 5 měsíci

    Kevin, thank you for such inspirational video which came right in time into my life. The problem is narcissistic people can well conceal their nature for years acting caring and altruistic but one day when you are sick and powerless they will use heavy artillery against you to smash you down and destroy. This is what is happening now with my friend who I thought I knew but only after several years she showed her true colors . My best response to such people is writing an open empatoc letter which reveals word by word what was being said and send it not only to this person but to all parties involved. Because surely after they mess it up they go behind your back and start a smear campaign. Vampires are scared of the sunlight and their actions exposed

  • @ryank6322
    @ryank6322 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I think it's important to mention that the "you gotta luv everybody" mentality seemed to coincide with the civil rights movement. It makes sense when viewed from the perspective of race and when tryin to set government policy... it doesn't make sense, and is hurtful, outside of that.

  • @shaycat5930
    @shaycat5930 Před 5 měsíci +1

    hallelujah thank you for this message!!!

  • @Cat-sx6ep
    @Cat-sx6ep Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thank you Kevin

  • @jenniferpoitier
    @jenniferpoitier Před 6 měsíci +3

    So deep. Wow. Weed for Jesus! By George I think you’re right, Kevin I always consider myself a hippie chick from California. I have suffered so much abuse in relationship. It makes sense. I thought it was cool to have no boundaries. I thought it was cool to be all inclusive And see in everyone. What a farce. #Revelation.

  • @cynthiahughes5504
    @cynthiahughes5504 Před 9 dny

    Eyes wide open see the unseen narcissism .most of us grew up with narcissist parents who we didnt choose. 😢 now i have to untangle parents disfunction to heal, too old for all this.

  • @hugmc
    @hugmc Před 6 měsíci

    Evil was always around the internet just allows us a opportunity too discuss it thankfully ❤🇮🇪

  • @aflack1000
    @aflack1000 Před 6 měsíci

    God has commanded us to "love" everyone as He loves us. He never, ever told us we had to accept abuse. OT, but I've never seen such a huge cigar 😄

  • @editbajkai2083
    @editbajkai2083 Před 6 měsíci

    Y are right . We see the world full with them because we woke up. They were always here ....just we didn’t see them.

  • @obiefuletochukwu2074
    @obiefuletochukwu2074 Před měsícem

    They have always been with us .... the difference is that the knowledge and specific study of the behaviour pattern wasn't there then, psychology as a discipline is even not that old.

  • @neveragain733
    @neveragain733 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Its true, the internet is making it almost trendy.

  • @MuslimGamer803
    @MuslimGamer803 Před 5 měsíci

    Rats, rodents and raccoons 😂 absolutely brilliant. Fix that faulty boundary 👍

  • @kristinachristian3914
    @kristinachristian3914 Před 5 měsíci

    THANK YOU SO much for this, Kevin. 💯🙌

  • @aunabreslingaming3279
    @aunabreslingaming3279 Před 6 měsíci

    The vibration of the planet is rising and disrupting all the lower energy Schumann resonance

  • @rachelfandel8536
    @rachelfandel8536 Před 5 měsíci

    Good stuff Kevin. Thank you!!

  • @s.h.8245
    @s.h.8245 Před 6 měsíci

    Brilliant! the Israelites should never really have been in Egypt, needed the boundaries, their own land. Relying on God to get them out, and taking God's discipline to get out of the narc abuse they were senselessly enduring. They received that abuse only because they were growing in number and power. The slavery was intended to weaken them and keep them down. By obeying God's gentle rules, they ended up blessed. PLEASE SEE THE CONNECTION TO ALL ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS IN THIS STORY. Excellent analysis.

  • @GretchenRunge-xv2hs
    @GretchenRunge-xv2hs Před 6 měsíci +2

    YoU ARE SOO RIGHT, I BELIEVED MY GRANDPA. OY SEEMS THAT LIND OF LIFE HAS FOLLOWED ME IN MY LIFE. ITS EVIL, SATAN! ITS TIME TO CHOOSE GOÐ AND WHATS RIGHT. ÑOW TO LEARN HOW AND YRUST GOD!

  • @cindihunter9119
    @cindihunter9119 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Timely message! Reminds. me of the lyrics of the Beetle song; "Come together, right now, over me!" Come Together, Beetles 1969

  • @marieeakin8534
    @marieeakin8534 Před 6 měsíci

    Excellent... Thank you!!!

  • @rochellet1333
    @rochellet1333 Před 6 měsíci

    This teaching is absolutely the best video I can seen in a very long time and it makes complete sense. Thank you for sharing!

  • @AnnaMishel
    @AnnaMishel Před 6 měsíci +3

    Bottom line: the increase in the incidence of narcissism is an unintended consequence of our industrialized civilization (easy travel by jet)

    • @Lyrielonwind
      @Lyrielonwind Před 6 měsíci

      (Anti) social media, commercials, TikTok, etc... being the number one "culture" is also behind as well as individualism vs collectivism (the second viewed as distorted "communism").
      Multinationals are ok but any other intended group to help others are not.
      Vicente Ferrer was a humanist who worked to help the poorest in India. He had to fight against many rich people who didn't like it.

  • @cathyestrada7553
    @cathyestrada7553 Před 5 měsíci

    Love the description ❤ your awesome

  • @staciehulm4595
    @staciehulm4595 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Yes and amen.

  • @terryfels6453
    @terryfels6453 Před 6 měsíci

    Wow Kevin! Spot on!

  • @4Mikes4Mindset4
    @4Mikes4Mindset4 Před 4 měsíci

    This is a crucial conversation. Thanks buddy

  • @velicad2905
    @velicad2905 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I'm a to open up a person I'm just learning boundaries ❤

  • @TheWayofFairness
    @TheWayofFairness Před 6 měsíci +2

    The battle is between truth and lie. More and more people have joined the lie. The pendulum has reversed to the opposite direction now life will be the pit for those with the lie. Poe power. My favorite is A Cask of Amontillado

    • @Lyrielonwind
      @Lyrielonwind Před 6 měsíci

      Mine is The Pit and the Pendulum (Spanish Inquisition).

    • @GaslightingIsEvil
      @GaslightingIsEvil Před 6 měsíci

      People believe whatever the majority believes.
      "All things are subject to interpretation. Whatever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth" Friedrich Nietzsche

  • @Metamorphosis318
    @Metamorphosis318 Před 6 měsíci

    You look so prestigious with your cigar! Keep up the good work.

  • @heathermixson1265
    @heathermixson1265 Před 6 měsíci

    THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!

  • @beingpallavi3272
    @beingpallavi3272 Před 6 měsíci

    Sir ,
    Wishing you a brand new year with lots of happiness & celebrations Ahead.
    You are very wise in Your knowledge on narcs 🙏

  • @gloriacoleman7012
    @gloriacoleman7012 Před 6 měsíci +2

    No it is not new it has been swept under the carpet..

  • @lydiabergmann4521
    @lydiabergmann4521 Před 6 měsíci

    That makes sense. Thank you!

  • @dja192
    @dja192 Před 4 měsíci

    Another point worth mentioning is that Narcissus was a Greek Mythological Figure in ancient times who was so enamored with himself once he looked into the river and saw his reflection. So it’s for sure been around that long. But actually I’d say since the Garden of Eden, when the serpent tempted Eve with the apple. 🍎 The first sin was due to pride. Pride is a sort of overly indulgent self-love. Narcissism entails the same thing. You could say that when Cain killed Abel …he did it for jealous reasons. Narcissists are jealous. It has been around since antiquity and since man first fell into sin.

  • @Lekikna
    @Lekikna Před 5 měsíci

    That’s exactly what I was discussing today

  • @danitajminer3279
    @danitajminer3279 Před 6 měsíci

    Everything breaks down over time, your fence is no different.
    That's a privacy fence, it is not a design to prevent creatures from entering, it only blocks the view from whoever is eye level with the fence.

  • @danielakolundzija50
    @danielakolundzija50 Před 6 měsíci

    Great video thank you. 🙏