My goodness young lady you are so on the ball with your comments I think all filipinas should watch this video, I have been in the Philippines almost 40 years and because i do the immigration work for these couples, I see the kinds of men you refer to every day, I get the guys that come saying how rich they are and then 6 months down the road when we have to do the affidavit of support for USCIS we find that the guy works at McDonalds flipping burgers and is no way qualified to sponsor a wife or fiancee. Every word that you said in this video is 100% and I could not have said it better myself. you are a remarkable young lady.
she is 4 sure 100% bang on with her observations and dead pan humour, I often wonder how she is able to be so well spoken and knowledgeable about both sides of what is really going on, smart smart lady, tons of respect!
My favorite thing about her videos is that each one is consistently intelligent and well balanced. She obviously puts a lot of time, thought and work into each one.
Uncle Joe the pedo hair sniffer just broke me up. The Pea has a great sense of humour if you listen carefully and not being 'full of herself' is just an added bonus!
May every young local watch this. Sadly, there are so many predator expats who think only with their small head. As a man planning to retire to sth-east Asia my peeve is the grumpy expat retirees who want to cherry-pick all the perks of the Phillippines while demanding their western comforts and grumbling about what they miss from the country they chose to leave! Assimilate, learn the language and culture and adapt to the country that has welcomed you, grumpy old farangs. 😉 Great content as always Pea. Sharp as a needle.
Thank you, I see it alot on some FB groups "PhIlIpInO bReAd Is ToO sWeEt" "nO pLaCe SeLlS cOfFeE aT 6Am" Etc etc. No one thinks that they're going to a third world that they'll Iikely not have what your used to in NA or Euro.
Justin, you seem a bit judgemental, if you are so offended then leave the Philipines. These "old" people are the saviors of the poor women that live there. The women are more than happy to sell themselves and the old men are happy not to be alone. It seems you are a grumpy A-hole that wants to tell how others how to live. I am sure you are just as much a predator as any "grumpy old man".
I know you have foreigners from every ethnicity in Phillipines. But, usually white guys complaining right? That's who I see complaining online like their way is superior
When I visit Southeast Asia I say hello to everyone I bump into. I talk to locals & I always visit the musuems to learn the history of the country, i learn a few words too. I always ALWAYS tip very well. Great video
You are spot on. Not only do you have an ability to precisely and accurately micro-analyze and then deliver reliable content to your viewers , but you actually do an amazing job at interacting with the comment section.
Good topic. It brings out the fact that the Philippines is not a country full of naive people that can be taken advantage of. Hopefully, women over there see this for their protection as well as the expats who think they can go there and exploit women or kids. Keep up the good work. 🇺🇲
Love the honesty, i despise the corruption and the sleezy excuses that men pull to get a "load" off. and you are so right when it comes to people getting hurt without any consequences. many women, not just flilpinas, every women should watch this. i have a fiancee there and we have been together for almost a year now, and i never promise what i can't deliver, she knows this, so there are no surprise's, i have been raised to be truthful, which has been my demise, but don't care, i can sleep at night and have a clear conscious, great video!!!
Hello Pea! I am an expat and I have another misbehaving foreigner I witnessed in person. The 'pastor' expat. Because I have been Christian raised, (my Grand father was even a minister in his local community), I began a conversation with a German expat who was thumping his Bible to the locals like Paul Bunyan whacks a log. No problem ...except he was using this to pry money from the local churches. Blood from a rock, not very much cash to get. He was married to a Philippina who had his child. She also worked and supported both their child and him, and herself. Tough lady! But eventually she wised up with him taking her hard earned money from her and left him. Eventually he was evicted and lived on the streets, picking up odd meals at local churches and sometimes sleeping quarters. However, because he was also trying to convert the church people to 'his church' eventually he ran out of churches who would allow him in. Heard that from a local church near my home. I bought groceries for him a couple times, but one day when he was feeling his oats, he told me he intended to find another pretty Filipino girl for love and entertainment because of his dashing German ways. (My words not his, but I knew his previous pattern) I challenged him face to face because God tells me to say what needs to be said, damn the torpedoes. He split and never spoke to me again. My food gift came with a price too high for him to pay. I am not a minister. I speak my mind. No collection plate to protect. But, his behavior got around locally, his Visa was expired, and the local government stepped in and deported him. He always said he would never go back to Germany because he loved the Philippines so much. My guess is, there was a warrant awaiting him there, based on my Law enforcement experience. Just my opinion though. .Because the Philippine people are so much against abortion, I am so much in Love with the Philippine nation for that and many other reasons! And I hope and pray that someday I can help the Philippine nation improve life for Her people! God bless you Pea!
I was in the Philippines back in 1986 to 1988 , I had a bad relationship with a Philippina woman, but I don't put every Philippina woman in the same category, I loved it there and would have came back, but I am happily married, I still love listening to your conversation, you bring back a lot of memories of when I was stationed there at Subic Bay Naval Base as a US Marine, keep giving good content
I was stationed at Clark from 1980 until 1983 and ended up married to a Filipina 41 years later still going strong with her and I am now her care giver as she has dementia. As far as I can see it never changes. I was a mechanic in the Air Force and for 30+ years in the civilian world. We have done several trips back to the Philippines and I have seen everyone of the ones Pea bought up and a few more. What always gets me is the one that thinks he is hustler you know pray on the fellow ex pats and think he is smarter then the others and I can read that one as I seen it so many times. Since I am retired we will probably be moving to the Philippines in a couple years anyway.
I think it's funny when someone says there x special forces and have no idea that those of us that were can see right through there bs. No I was not special forces but I was an airborne Ranger. I am also a 100% disabled combat veteran, that spent 2+ years homeless during the 16 year 3 month battle with VA (veterans affairs) for my disability. Real vets know how much of a pain in the ass it is dealing with them and I would love not having the physical issues I have. Let alone the nightmares and PTSD... keep up the good work Pea. You have helped me a few times with understanding my wife and her family.
Love the honesty Pea. There are some really creepy guys roaming this planet and many of them find easy targets in third world countries. Its a shame for the girls and as you say its even worse for the kids that get get abandoned. Keep the excellent videos coming...I love your work.
Pea, I watch your videos to learn about your culture. My wife is a Filam ( 1/2 Philipina). I met her when she was 15 and I was 16. I tease her and say that I'm going to run to the Philippines and get me a whole one. I have an awesome wife, and she's my girl! If something would ever happen to her I would be devastated! I've found my forever girl, and I hope the guys can find someone to love that much. God bless you Pea!
Another great video Pea! After 2,5 year in Thailand i recognize most of these guys you mention. But there are a lot of good guys too. I never mingle with the oddballs (mental) or alcoholics, which there are plenty of unfortunately. AND i just arrived in Cebu, Philippines. Currently in quarantine (unvaccinated) and incredibly happy to be back. Will hopefully be reunited with my girlfriend on Tuesday after 2,5 years apart! I must say that the reception on Mactan as unvaccinated was incredibly positive! Fantastic service and smiling pleasant people. The hard part seems to be getting through check-in at the departure airport. For me that was Bangkok, and Singapore Airlines. Had no issues as i had all the paperwork ready and was smooth sailing to Cebu. I never understood this focus about military service as a bragging point. Anyone who tries to show off with credentials i will brush off, as i am more interested in the human being and a positive life attitude. I did serve 1 year in Norway, as a medic, but every male has to do that there. Hopefully you will never see me on the front page of any Philippine newspaper or in any news clip in any negative way either hehe. Non-drinker, non-smoker and prefer to be around happy positive people which means i am right smack in the middle of Heaven because thats how i see the Philippine people in general :-D Thanks again for a great video and have a great day!
Hey pea, I dont know who writes your scripts or if you did it yourself. It's well written, spoken and presented in very well balanced humorous articulated manner. Bravo to you and your team for many of your presentation!!!
@@TheFilipinaPea you are gifted with words and ways to present them. Very much enjoyed your videos presentation. Keep upi the good work and continued success!!!!
There's another reason why expats move to the Philippines. The process of bringing their wives to the states is extremely lengthy and difficult. So instead of being alone in retirement, they / we decide to stay there during the process. And during this lengthy ordeal, we hear absolute horror stories of how much Filipina girls charge after moving to the States (or other countries). We don't want that change, nor do we want a divorce. If she's with a financially stable man in the Philippines, she's able to stay close to her family and friends. It's not the Philippines that she's trying to escape, she is wanting to be loved, respected and cared for. I vote to stay in the Philippines and keep my Angel happy.
Bingo! When I first started watching Pea’s videos, I thought it would be great to meet and fall in love with one of these amazing women. Then “rescue “ her by taking her to the US….. I went to the Philippines on vacation for 3 weeks and it turned into 30 days. During that time I fell in love with the Filipino people and culture. If I marry a Filipina and we decide to live in the US a portion of the year, fine. But I want to spend most of our time in the Philippines. I want to be more like Filipinos, not the other way around. I am a proud American, but we have lost sight of our most valuable asset….. each other. I miss my Filipino family. They miss me. I was treated with so much love and acceptance that it made a strong impression on me. Glad you decided to stay.
Filipino Pea We all have the inner voice that talks to us And says that is a good person that is a bad person Sometimes you listen to that Inner voice But sometimes we ignore it Then we learn the life lessons In life That teaches us To stay away from all the bad things that happened to us Is words of wisdom from Jerry Abbas From ST.LOUIS Missouri USA 🇺🇸 ♥️
And thats why people need to stop being afraid to be called JUDGEMENTAL.... Any opinion we have about anything... whether for or against, is using judgement. So we judge every single day. We may as well do it correctly and stay away from people that we know deep inside we feel are bad.
@@LoveyourLife-1970 Sadly just because a person or group uses judgement doesn't mean that they're RIGHTeous in their assessment of a person or a group! It's often not about that or about who's perceived as Good and Bad. To many in the world are wronged simply because of another's Perception! Seek Truth! And that rarely comes easily.
Any of my acquaintances that show an interest in the Philippines get directed to your channel Pea. You are definitely full of great information and entertaining too. Keep up the great work.
I confess in the past when I first saw this channel and made an at the moment comment that was I appropriate. No doubt, but I have since recognized the unique quality of your videos here and humbly apologize and do truely look forward to the informative and entertaining value here on this channel. I’m not a weirdo just an imperfect man who suffered a momentary lapse of reason and have since improved. A++ content here
You always make me chuckle 😂 The ugly probably outnumber the beautiful over there. I think the expats don't always set a good example of the American male or the true way of life here in the United States. So many vloggers sugar coat their ugly life in the Philippines. I used to follow a popular vlogger guy in the Philippines that seemed credible. He said he would never date a girl from Dumaguete because they are exposed to so many expats, never live there because of too many expats, he would never allow his girlfriend in the videos, etc. etc. etc. He met some bikini clad Filipina, moved in and settled in Dumaguete, and hasn't stopped filming her from the rear. I think there are a pretty high number of expat relationships that are pretty much based on physical desire above anything else. Thank you for always telling it like it is. Honesty is always the best policy on both sides.
Thoughtful and balanced views as always Pea. Also, thanks for sticking up for those of us who may not be in the first flush of youth (I’m in my 50s) or Brad Pitt lookalikes!! Can I also say…gorgeous hair today Pea 😍. I don’t tune in for bikini content - your wit and intellect are more than enough. All the same, you are always engaging for the eyes as well as the mind!
Eloquently said dawster 1. I wholeheartedly concur. Ms Pea ensnares with her beauty then keeps you enthralled with her thought provoking content and philanthropy.
I come to your videos for the information, the truthfulness and because you make me smile a lot lovely Pea. Thank you for all you do to keep us educated, real and happy! 🥰❤
Informative as usual Pea. And I should know since I am a retired Navy Seal and Delta Force Operative, who just so happens to have a Ph.D in Psychology (I gave up my lucrative practice in NYC) and this has given me insight into the human condition. Furthermore, my background in English Literature (I am a Professor of English in South Korea as well as a novelist) has also provided me with trained optics that can easily brush away the dim whitish coating of shenanigans that has settled over this breed of expat like juvenile glaucoma. Your words have been a boon to all those unsuspecting Pinays who fall prey to the lamentable desires of those pernicious expats. Keep up the good work sweetie ; )
OMG Pea...The uncle Joe actually gave me the creeps just thinking about it. I'm actually embarrassed that anyone from my country would disgrace himself, endanger a innocent child and disgrace his country. The other groups sound spot on. More reason to be considerate and careful who you allow in your life. Take care Pea
not sure what your country is but the uncle joe is a problem that once existed in the darkness but is now being brought to light. with the rise in left wing politics pretending to accept everyone for who they are and then starting movements in western countries for same sex marriage and the such, its been a slippery slope. claims of "love is love" and accepting everyone for who they are, kinks and all has allowed such predators to move to the forefront. they like to call themselves MAPS, or minor attracted people. at the end of the day they are paedos and they should not be accepted by anyone, in any country.
This was one of the best informative videos I've seen you produce. More of a serious matter, and so informational. First I was kind of set back when you mentioned the love them and leave them kind of ex-pat. I always thought a more mature and love lorne man would look at their Filipina as a more precious heart to care for than what they have experienced from Western Women. Even with your humor thrown in there, I was more concerned that women there would be more scarred by their experience with Western Men who did them wrong. I'm still in my 40s, and never found the true love of my life here in America. I've dated several American Filipina's here, including my very first girlfriend. Their dedication to family values, and their beauty has always drawn me. Always will. As it seems my engrained attraction is more towards Filipinas than any other nationality. My God Father, who is from the Philippines, and also the father of my first girlfriend is still a friend of my family. He told me to find pure Filipino family values I must go there myself and find a life time love. Although, I've seriously considered his advice. I know it would be hard on her to live here with my extensive travel requirements for work in some restricted areas, I decided to put that off till I can retire. Hopefully soon, as I have built up quite a nest egg not having children or a family to care for. There is a large ex-pat Filipino community in the New York / New Jersey area, so I know whoever I bring home, will be able to find a connection to her culture when needed. Especially in the medical field here. I will keep what you say in mind when I finally get to visit the Philippines. I know I will not find anyone on my first try. I will have to get to know the regions and the people to get trust and friendly with locals. Love will have to be spontanious and not planned. Sex is a primal urge without borders, but I will keep someone's heart in mind before other body parts. I am glad to have a resource such as you. My career is video production, so if you need any advice on using remote capabilty to connect with your viewers to do some followup with their experience, and how they used your advice let me know. -Hunter
Philippines has never been on my radar as a retirement destination because all the research I’ve done on CZcams looks like it caters to visitors who want to date/party or visit the amazing beaches but I’m not interested in either. But CZcams is not always a reliable source of information so booked a trip to spend 2 months in Manila and Cebu since I love city life and want to experience it for myself. But after watching this video from a local point of view, maybe my assumptions of what kind of visitors it attracts is not that far off. Thanks for your insights, it’s both educational and entertaining
(They managed to maximize their value by moving from a tough market to one that’s more favorable) by far the best description I’ve heard yet. Prophesied in the Christmas animation Rudolph the red nose reindeer, where the broken unwanted toys were taken to the archipelago to find new playmates. It is a win-win for everyone.
I am retired and staying at a resort and I have seen some of the bad types you mention pass through. I can see through these guys so easily. I wish Filipina women could as well.
@@TheFilipinaPea And more than a few are desperate. When you make $6 a day, a foreign man is going to have a halo effect. It is truly sad how corrupt the Philippines is. The poverty there is both widespread and unnecessary.
Just wanted to tell you that your insight is Amazing! Keep up the good work I'm sure you're helping countless foreigners make a educated decision on moving to the Philippines 🇵🇭. Your work is invaluable. Many Blessings to you and yours.
Your analogy of foreign men coming there is amazing. Very impressive. Our character flaws can show up in the Philippines if our intentions are not good. A few bad apples can give generally well intentioned expats a bad wrap and make us look a little shady in my opinion. Hopefully most of us can be respectful especially in a foreign country where things can go wrong for you if your not.
Pea, as usual your sense of journalism and social savvy is amazing! Topics that are truly informative and not pulling back any punches when it comes to the truth about life in the Philippines and of course your sense of humor really adds to your perspective while presenting your blogs! I will always enjoy your serious vlogs and your humorous vlogs! Keep up the great work you are doing. I wish you happiness and longevity Pea!
As someone who has lived here in the Philippines for quite a while; there's another one that you didn't speak up. The borderline crazies. Or maybe not borderline. well these guys might not be clinically insane; they are just very off. Difficult to describe but you know when you see one. These are the guys that pretty much fell out of their home countries and decided to inflict themselves on this country.
I think the worst expats are the stuck up and arrogant ones who look down on other people. They judge persons without knowing them or what they been through. If they have enough money to be here then they are no different from you then. Maybe you need to look yourself in the mirror and see who’s the off person. As you put it.
OMG! You are absolutely brilliant .. I am so glad I don't fall into those different categories but the way you explain it is so darling! My hat is off to you from San Francisco USA see ya soon.
dont give a simp response... you may be slimy and a creep but many of my compatriots are not.. you ever thought that the energy may be matched to what is given... you obviously haven't been there...
Very informative Pea , I'm half Philippino and half Japanese but grew up in Hawaii, it's very interesting to know where half my roots came from and learn of the people and culture there🙂🙂
The higher class of viewers is due to the higher class of videos and topics Ms Pea! And you certainly do offer a totally different perspective, and subject, for both foreigners and Filipinas. There are too many pathetic boring little channels filled up ad nauseam with the same tedious, useless, illiterate babble, relying only on pure plagiarism. And there is the one and only Filipina Pea! Yes Pea, very uncannily, you do know too well, and too much, about men motives and what’s making the boys club tick. It is always better, certainly more realistic, and much more true to real life, to look at, and in, people from an outside point of view. Amazing and amusing video, once again, counsellor Pea. Thank you 😊
Pea, Once again you are spot on! I laughed soo much at your humor. Your writing is not only witty but very entertaining. The bummer is most of all the content is true. Thanks for what you do. 😊
Nicely done, Pea! Having lived more than half my life outside the States, you can find these types pretty much everywhere. Some local variations, of course, but... Like you also said though, most expats are decent enough people, but the bad ones make it hard for all of us, but especially the locals that they hurt. Take good care! 😊
Love the way you weed out the undesirable foreigners Pea . As a foreigner it really annoys me when I see these types here and I always tell my girlfriend to warn her friends if I see anything suspicious . Unfortunately the problem I have is for the friends to believe me , some of them just don't want to listen ! I could tell you numerous stories of them getting fooled , but too late to realise 😏 . Oh and damn , must look up those swimsuit videos 😅 . Keep the instructional videos coming , it's good advice for both Filipino's and foreigners 🤗
Must be a goodie too shoe. Yes there re bad in ALL races and nationalities . There is nothing wrong IF you witness a one that does illegal activities, but to judge? OLD CLICHE: who made you GOD to judge. In old times we would say: FIRST LOOK INTO A MIRROR and see yourself as you point a finger always remember three point back.
@@lobosolo3215 Planning or trying to get somone pregnant and leaving should be classes as criminal. Even more so doing it by exploiting someone in a difficult situation. I'm not sure wich god you talk about, as there are so man thousand different ones, but sometimes we need to at least warn someone. Sorry if I step on some toes, but sometimes I try to be like the Pea, telling it like it is...
@@lobosolo3215 Me thinks you too critical of Lawson. Sounds like YOU have something to hide or wish to silence people from reporting their suspicions. Poor form!
so balanced Pea . there are some of us that are genuine. but you have covered rhe range of people that cone to the Philippines. well done Pea. it's all about not judging all foreigners with the same brush. love star trek . only if your in it. hehehe
Semibroke and just kind of ugly is pretty much where I fit. My reason for retiring in the Philippines is that I can either survive here in the States and be invisible or live a fairly comfortable life among friendly people who respect older folks. The answer is simple for me! And as far as the last type, while I am not a violent guy, if I caught one of them they would be going to prison in an ambulance. Period.
If you feel invisible then get off your butt and do something about it. Go workout, get in better health shape, go to meetups, meet other people. Stop hanging out with younger people who treat you invisible because most of them prefer people their own age. Brutally honest. When you were 25 did you think of hanging out with people over 50? Didn't think so.
What's your monthly budget... Pondering if I could be ok there on $1000 / month.🥱 I'm a non drinker,, don't care much for fancy restaurants... *Crap Game*
the thing that stood out most to me besides the guy making babies and leaving, was the “ex-navy seal” I mean they typically don’t get paid much more than a normal navy soldier in the same rank. But most people probably wouldn’t know that
This woman is so intelligent and funny, I wish more women were like her. I loved the end with spock and the pon far. I'm pretty sure alot of filipinas would not get any of the western jokes but they are awesome! ty!
Great Video! You have done a great job putting this together. I watch your videos because I would like to know more about your country. I may never get to see it in person. So you are a great guide in explaining your country. Thank you so very much for sharing
Your sense of humor is terrific! The outro skits never fail to make me laugh, and today's was no exception. I'm always impressed by your insights, how clever you are, and the way you use a turn of the word to make a point, or just make us laugh, as you do with the outros. i.e. "Is that the captain's log? Are you going to make an entry?"🤣 You are so naughty, but I like it!😜
No hidden agenda here Pea. Mid 50s with a good job and work out daily. I try to be the best person I can be. What attracts me to Filapinas is the sincerity, beautiful smile, long hair, and femininity. The US is not a hard market for me, but finding a feminine conservative woman that takes care of herself is difficult to find here.
My idea of leaving Australia for another land is to increase the money I have and maybe find a partner with a Christian basis. I lost faith many years ago and I know you guys are mostly Catholic so that is a huge plus to me as I want to get that faith back. 52 ex Australian Military but not dead yet.
So happy for you man!! I was born, raised and lived 63 yrs in the Bible belt USA, and I've noticed drastic changes here. I don't think you actually "lost" Faith, cause you want it back-and that means you just "throttled back" a ways. But I'm going over for the same reason, a predominantly Christian nation where i can afford to retire. It must be hard, being an Assie, cause i actually read up on the losing Faith there. In any case, I'm sure you'll feel welcomed in Philippines. Love in the Faith!
May Great video. I don't ever plan on coming over nor could I afford to. Just nice seeing some one state stuff in and honest and strait forward intelligent manor. Thanks
The first tagalog word I learned was from a little four year old filipina girl who would get mad at her older brothers for teasing her. I heard her call them pangit a lot and I asked what that word meant. I was told she was calling her brothers ugly (pangit) when they teased her.😅
I started watching these episodes to learn about my Filipina girlfriend and her strange ways. Pea explained why my girlfriend refused to talk to me and the way to resolve the dreaded ‘Tampo.’ Pea also enlightened me why my girlfriend refers to a girl as ‘he’ or her brother as ‘she.’ Yes means no and no means yes!!! Cracking open a boiled egg with a tiny face starring at you. Eating chicken wings with my pretty little Filipina was an experience when she devoured the bones. 😂😂😂 It’s been over two wonderful years now. THANK YOU PEA
You are absolutely amazing and talk intelligently about everything we need to know about The Philippines: people, culture, advice, etc. Keep up the good work. By the way, how do you find the time to do everything you accomplish day after day? Congratulations!
I like your videos you're very much on point I like it that you're so detailed and open keep making videos you're really helping a lot of men's back here in the United States thank you again for everything thank you again for your points I am looking forward to travel to thanks again.
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I saw the ex-pat drunks in Cabadbaran. They came in to the restaurant/bar most every day. I never saw them eat anything, just drink after drink, after drink. Also never saw them with a female partner, if they had any. They tried to get me to join them, but I was always with my very young gf, (who later became my ex-wife.) Their potty mouths were off putting. I'd not care to be around them, and certainly wouldn't expose my gf to them.
One reasons why we distance to most expats here. No.2 the accusations , for Filipinos its purely and real friendship but to expats taking advantages.smh Have a nice day!
I really had a hard time believing Filipinas we're actually as kind and sweet and happy as they all seemed to be. I was sure everyone was a scam in one way or another. I had come into it with my Western idea of women and assumed I was just being taken advantage of.... It took a while but I found out that they are just great people with a different, more traditional culture. I fell in love with my Filipina the moment I realized she was just as interested in providing happiness to me as I was in providing stability, love, protection and a family to her. She authentically wants to be a team and not just take from me.
You do a good job....lawyers, accountants, banking, homes and apartments, locations for fun and friends...interviews with locals and officail offices and the procedures to handle those offices...I seen a couple of videos of people hating on you , I can tell they just watch your videos to find flaws hate on you. When I do get to the Philippines I'm sure as a fan and only as a fan ...for information I will continue to watch you for safe info...until I find my own fillipina who I can trust....but I do want Gracey as a lawyer though...I hope I can afford her services by the time I get there...oh yeah I forgot...you also teach us about Healthcare and insurance.
Thanks Bryan! And yes, there are a lot of jealous haters (but what they don’t get is that every time they mention my name, they make my channel grow) 😂
@@TheFilipinaPea This is a little off subject, but that was and _is_ the news media's fatal flaw vis-à-vis Donald Trump. They've spent the last six years hating on him (well-deserved, IMHO), but he never cared whether it was positive attention or negative attention, so long as he was getting _attention._ That's his secret, and the media is utterly blind to that: All the negative attention he gets serves to make his persona and his popularity grow. Same with your channel, same with everyone trying to bring down somebody else. When the constructive alternative is to say nothing and let their target fall on their own sword, they can't help themselves; they've gotta say something in an attempt to steal attention away from their target -- and they wind up achieving the exact opposite.
Thank you for another great video. You always provide a unique and real perspective of the Philippines. This video is a great balance to the video you did on Filipinas. Thank you.
I hooked up with a Filipina I met in Singapore some years ago, and went back and spent time with her on multiple occasions. I never intended it to be anything serious, but I could see she had feelings for me one time when she cried when we parted ways. I still feel bad about that one - she was a great girl, and deserved better than a player.
Other than the few and very far in between expats I may meet over there, I really have no interest in making friends with most Americans over there as I'm about 99% positive that they will be just as arrogant and or ignorant as they are here. Not all of course and it's a case by case basis type of thing but for me its more about making friends and learning about the Filipinos that I'm interested in. After all it's YOUR country that ai will be living in not the Expats. I know that 99% of the time as long as I am good to Filipinos they will treat me better. That is your motto there and I believe in it. You are good people and that's why I'm coming to help. Because unlike a lot of the expats over there I actually care about people other than myself. It's the only way to be in life and the only way I know. Take care Pea and good vlog 🙏😊
You should not say this !!!! That is very wrong !!!!! There are many good expats in Southeast Asia …. If you take that attitude to the Philippines towards other ex pats I will promise you one thing Filipinos will notice this and it won’t be in a good way. One thing I have learned Filipinos are open minded and open hearted for the most part as well as other Asian countries in Southeast Asia. I have been study in the area for over four years now. So for you to say 99% of ex-pats are just mean angry bad people and that you’re not gonna talk to them. You might want to look at a different part of the world to go to because people over there do not take the attitude that you just said here… That’s my two cents about it. God bless you and I hope that helps you change your mind about people in general
And I will also say this. When you go to the Philippines Thailand Cambodia Vietnam any of these beautiful countries. Number one you need to understand people that go there to live spend her money most of them are not going there with negative attitudes. You can’t have the coin both ways. On one hand you say that you’re not going to communicate or talk with 99% of the ex-pats that you only want to talk with Filipinos. Yet on the other side of the coin you say auditor person bye person basis. Wrong attitude totally totally totally wrong attitude. Please do not take that attitude to the Philippines with you change it before you go otherwise I promise you this much. When you get over to the Philippines or whatever country you go over there when you’re over there for six months or a year and you don’t want to talk to any ex-pats you’re gonna be a lonely lonely person.
Pea, you are wise beyond your years. I come here for your savage humor as much as your control of the English language. It almost makes me want to come to the Philippines but alas I am not in the market (at least right now). Cheers
hi there! I have been watching your videos for a while now. What appeals to me most is your upbeat style, engaging content, and naturally vibrant personality! Thank you. 💟
As an expat living in the Philippines I agree with that message! Because she is only talking about those foreigners who come here and do those kinds of things.
I think one very common misconception is that people from different parts of the world are different. There are of course cultural differences but deep down people are still people wherever you are and it's important not to look on any population with rose tinted glasses. There are good and bad people in all cultures and people need to be careful not to let misconceptions stop them making their usual checks. I think there is a perception that western men are less likely to hit women than asian men and while there is perhaps some truth to this domestic violence is still a big issue in the west and often closer to home than we'd like. One of my grandfather's regularly went out drinking and was often violent when he came back home and there are still many people like that in society. I personally prefer to take people as I find them and try not to prejudge based on what I may have heard about them in advance. It's always best to form your own judgements on whether you can trust someone.
I agree. Some guys here act like all western woman are bad & all Filipinas R good. Sure, there R cultural differences but women ack like woman no mater they R from.
Great vlog again. I think everyone (?) thinks about sex, but sex can mean something different to every person. Sex can be just being with someone and feeling a deeper connection, aside from the physical part. I agree that the fatherless child who is the outcome of certain situations is the true victim.... One another impression, when I heard "honorable intentions," I am instantly reminded of one of my favorite films, DR. NO. When Connery as Bond meets Honey, he says his intentions are strictly honorable. We know where that relationship went!
The BabyMaker type really pisses me off. They screw up so many sweet, innocent Filipina girls' lives, turn them jaded against foreigners and men in general, and give the rest of us a bad name who may come there in the future to find a legit wife.
I've ran into just about every type Of Foreigner you described while in the Philippines and not all of those guys were bad people they just lost their way but some of them were downright despicable
So crazy to imagine the "Babymaker" expat. How could doing that not haunt you? You'd have to be a sociopath, surely? But you could definitely succeed with that kind of mission. The first Filipina I dated, asked me NOT to use a condom our first time. I refused and honestly I took it as a red flag.
Great video Pea. Are you familiar with the German guy that married a beautiful young Filipina but spends his time a bit too close to his best friend other Filipina. I was laughing hard about the "Uncle Joe" description as it fits another 'Joe' I know to a 'T'.
When you said that a woman having a mixed baby is a status symbol, that is true of a lot of women in America, whether the women like it or not.(and I'm not talking about any Asian women either). I've heard so many women here saying that they love having mixed babies because they're so cute but babies are cute no matter what their mixture is
I'm not sure. It might be the fact just like in your country, where you use your skin tone as a status symbol, the opposite is true, that whether the mother skin is darker or lighter, they want their children skin is the opposite from them. This is especially true with caucasian women
Hi Pea. Sadly, I feel that there are some, if not many ex-pats from various countries who come/escape to the Philippines to run away from various issues that are plaguing them in their home countries. Some are literally running away from their obligations, like alimony, child, support, taxes, and. familial obligations. And some are just fed up with the rat race and the political climate. They just want to get away because they’re not happy with changes taking place in their country. I think most men that come to the Philippines are of the conservative, thinking mindset who don’t adjust well to change. Their “life was so much better in the 1950’s or 60’s” crowd. You know back when there wasn’t civil rights for minorities or gay rights or women’s rights or rights for the handicapped or rights for the elderly or children’s rights. I’m a centrist and try to see things on both sides of the fence. Change is inevitable as the human race evolves constantly.
This is great information and cannot be said enough or too often. Trust goes both ways, of course, and I always tell young women that time is often a great equalizer and, "if a man (or woman) can't wait, they want something for the wrong reason(s)." "Don't fall for the weekend headlines, wait for the whole story to unfold." ~Thanks again, FP!
FP you leave me humbled in the most amazing ways! This video from start to finish (I loved the Star Trek at the end) was better researched and put together with better production than many Hollywood movies! These are the same types of guys in the US that western wm have to deal with. I’ve figured it out, why Some Asian women think western men have a sick asian fetish- It’s not us! It’s “these” guys… I hear about them from my western wm friends. These are the guys (not men) that hit on every woman they encounter, playing the odds, using the dumbest pick up lines, where are you from, you know Korea or Japan maybe… Asian women hate them, western wm love them and find them super sexually attractive, smh, I know right…lol. They are the ones making people think I’m a weirdo like them because I like Asian women. They don’t necessarily like Asian women like I do and others like me but they just hit on everything, playing the odds, and yeah I can see them going overseas to look for new hunting grounds, hunt gazelle instead of deer for a change. They are a big part of the reason that after I became widowed I wanted to date Asian wm. Here in US I’m not handsome enough, not big enough (I’m 6’ 190lbs, nicely just above average in other areas). And get friendzoned virtually every time because the wm here are so in love with these “guys”. I’m viewed as not sexually attractive because I’m quiet and not vulgar. I don’t send pics of my anatomy to them, so I am viewed as not a man, someone who can’t “give it to them” like they want it. All because I’m faithful to who I’m with and I’m classy. I could perform just as well as these guys but I will never get the chance from the friendzone. Western wm claim to hate getting hit on but the truth is they hate getting hit on only by people they don’t want to hit on them. They all end up giving these guys everything they want for free, while real decent MEN sit on the sideline and never get called up to play…. I’m so done with western women! I know Asian women appreciate real men more. And that makes beautiful women even more beautiful! My Chinese gf did not put up with cursing or being loud and quizzed me on 1st date with questions no western wm would ask even after two years! She would not have given me a chance if I was one of those guys. Point is that’s who’s making us look bad with the fetishizing Asian women! Those stereo types of submissive wm are so out of date you don’t hear them anymore and with the internet and literally videos like yours, that generation is gone. Every man like me watches this stuff, I listen to CPop, JPop, JRock, MandoPop etc. watch Asian movies, bloggers, reactors what to expect, the do’s and don’t of every country, etc…. So doesn’t it make sense the ones that make us look bad are those guys, who don’t care enough to research because why? Western women throw it at them whenever and where ever these guys want it. Sorry about the long rant but I believe I’m onto something here that everyone is missing, I’m connecting the dots. Anyone that watches this stuff KNOWS asian women run this world. They are not subservient and I wouldn’t even want that! Thank you for letting me get my theories out there! Fyi you are making me a huge fan of Filipinas…
Good evening, Pea. Great video. You hit the nail on the head. Most ex-pats are not the ugly ones ( not talking about physical appearances here ) and hopefully most arrive with something that resembles moral integrity. I knew guys in the military that I wouldn't leave alone with my pet cat, let alone with someone I cared about. Some of the guys I would trust with the lives of my wife and children. Those friends are worth gold. Ex-pats come in all shapes and flavors, you just have to separate the wheat from the chaff. See you Tuesday.
My goodness young lady you are so on the ball with your comments I think all filipinas should watch this video, I have been in the Philippines almost 40 years and because i do the immigration work for these couples, I see the kinds of men you refer to every day, I get the guys that come saying how rich they are and then 6 months down the road when we have to do the affidavit of support for USCIS we find that the guy works at McDonalds flipping burgers and is no way qualified to sponsor a wife or fiancee. Every word that you said in this video is 100% and I could not have said it better myself. you are a remarkable young lady.
Well you’re in a position to know, so I really appreciate your endorsement 👍❤️😊
she is 4 sure 100% bang on with her observations and dead pan humour, I often wonder how she is able to be so well spoken and knowledgeable about both sides of what is really going on, smart smart lady, tons of respect!
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A minimum wage worker does meet the income requirements though from what I understand.
My favorite thing about her videos is that each one is consistently intelligent and well balanced. She obviously puts a lot of time, thought and work into each one.
Pea is great !
Uncle Joe the pedo hair sniffer just broke me up. The Pea has a great sense of humour if you listen carefully and not being 'full of herself' is just an added bonus!
Brutal honesty as always, Pea, and you dealt with some taboo subjects here with elegance and class. This is why your channel is such a success
May every young local watch this. Sadly, there are so many predator expats who think only with their small head. As a man planning to retire to sth-east Asia my peeve is the grumpy expat retirees who want to cherry-pick all the perks of the Phillippines while demanding their western comforts and grumbling about what they miss from the country they chose to leave! Assimilate, learn the language and culture and adapt to the country that has welcomed you, grumpy old farangs. 😉
Great content as always Pea. Sharp as a needle.
Thank you, I see it alot on some FB groups
"PhIlIpInO bReAd Is ToO sWeEt"
"nO pLaCe SeLlS cOfFeE aT 6Am"
Etc etc.
No one thinks that they're going to a third world that they'll Iikely not have what your used to in NA or Euro.
Farangs…wake up 😂slick this isn’t Thailand
Spoken like a true SIMP.
Justin, you seem a bit judgemental, if you are so offended then leave the Philipines. These "old" people are the saviors of the poor women that live there. The women are more than happy to sell themselves and the old men are happy not to be alone. It seems you are a grumpy A-hole that wants to tell how others how to live. I am sure you are just as much a predator as any "grumpy old man".
I know you have foreigners from every ethnicity in Phillipines. But, usually white guys complaining right? That's who I see complaining online like their way is superior
When I visit Southeast Asia I say hello to everyone I bump into. I talk to locals & I always visit the musuems to learn the history of the country, i learn a few words too. I always ALWAYS tip very well. Great video
Can you turn water into wine ?
You are spot on. Not only do you have an ability to precisely and accurately micro-analyze and then deliver reliable content to your viewers , but you actually do an amazing job at interacting with the comment section.
Good topic. It brings out the fact that the Philippines is not a country full of naive people that can be taken advantage of. Hopefully, women over there see this for their protection as well as the expats who think they can go there and exploit women or kids. Keep up the good work. 🇺🇲
Love the honesty, i despise the corruption and the sleezy excuses that men pull to get a "load" off. and you are so right when it comes to people getting hurt without any consequences. many women, not just flilpinas, every women should watch this. i have a fiancee there and we have been together for almost a year now, and i never promise what i can't deliver, she knows this, so there are no surprise's, i have been raised to be truthful, which has been my demise, but don't care, i can sleep at night and have a clear conscious, great video!!!
Hello Pea! I am an expat and I have another misbehaving foreigner I witnessed in person. The 'pastor' expat. Because I have been Christian raised, (my Grand father was even a minister in his local community), I began a conversation with a German expat who was thumping his Bible to the locals like Paul Bunyan whacks a log. No problem ...except he was using this to pry money from the local churches. Blood from a rock, not very much cash to get.
He was married to a Philippina who had his child. She also worked and supported both their child and him, and herself. Tough lady! But eventually she wised up with him taking her hard earned money from her and left him. Eventually he was evicted and lived on the streets, picking up odd meals at local churches and sometimes sleeping quarters. However, because he was also trying to convert the church people to 'his church' eventually he ran out of churches who would allow him in. Heard that from a local church near my home. I bought groceries for him a couple times, but one day when he was feeling his oats, he told me he intended to find another pretty Filipino girl for love and entertainment because of his dashing German ways. (My words not his, but I knew his previous pattern) I challenged him face to face because God tells me to say what needs to be said, damn the torpedoes. He split and never spoke to me again. My food gift came with a price too high for him to pay. I am not a minister. I speak my mind. No collection plate to protect.
But, his behavior got around locally, his Visa was expired, and the local government stepped in and deported him. He always said he would never go back to Germany because he loved the Philippines so much. My guess is, there was a warrant awaiting him there, based on my Law enforcement experience. Just my opinion though.
.Because the Philippine people are so much against abortion, I am so much in Love with the Philippine nation for that and many other reasons! And I hope and pray that someday I can help the Philippine nation improve life for Her people!
God bless you Pea!
Oh my! Glad you finally got rid of him 👍👍
I was in the Philippines back in 1986 to 1988 , I had a bad relationship with a Philippina woman, but I don't put every Philippina woman in the same category, I loved it there and would have came back, but I am happily married, I still love listening to your conversation, you bring back a lot of memories of when I was stationed there at Subic Bay Naval Base as a US Marine, keep giving good content
Well I’m happy I could bring back a few memories 👍😊❤️👍
I was stationed at Clark from 1980 until 1983 and ended up married to a Filipina 41 years later still going strong with her and I am now her care giver as she has dementia. As far as I can see it never changes. I was a mechanic in the Air Force and for 30+ years in the civilian world. We have done several trips back to the Philippines and I have seen everyone of the ones Pea bought up and a few more. What always gets me is the one that thinks he is hustler you know pray on the fellow ex pats and think he is smarter then the others and I can read that one as I seen it so many times. Since I am retired we will probably be moving to the Philippines in a couple years anyway.
Sh$t River commando…
I think it's funny when someone says there x special forces and have no idea that those of us that were can see right through there bs. No I was not special forces but I was an airborne Ranger. I am also a 100% disabled combat veteran, that spent 2+ years homeless during the 16 year 3 month battle with VA (veterans affairs) for my disability. Real vets know how much of a pain in the ass it is dealing with them and I would love not having the physical issues I have. Let alone the nightmares and PTSD... keep up the good work Pea. You have helped me a few times with understanding my wife and her family.
Love the honesty Pea. There are some really creepy guys roaming this planet and many of them find easy targets in third world countries. Its a shame for the girls and as you say its even worse for the kids that get get abandoned. Keep the excellent videos coming...I love your work.
WICH COUNTRY WOULD YOU PREFER I TRY. MR CREEPY LOL
Pea, I watch your videos to learn about your culture. My wife is a Filam ( 1/2 Philipina). I met her when she was 15 and I was 16. I tease her and say that I'm going to run to the Philippines and get me a whole one. I have an awesome wife, and she's my girl! If something would ever happen to her I would be devastated! I've found my forever girl, and I hope the guys can find someone to love that much. God bless you Pea!
That’s so sweet that you two are still together!!
(Don’t ever go looking for that whole one) 😂😂😂
Cheesy!
Another great video Pea! After 2,5 year in Thailand i recognize most of these guys you mention. But there are a lot of good guys too. I never mingle with the oddballs (mental) or alcoholics, which there are plenty of unfortunately. AND i just arrived in Cebu, Philippines. Currently in quarantine (unvaccinated) and incredibly happy to be back. Will hopefully be reunited with my girlfriend on Tuesday after 2,5 years apart! I must say that the reception on Mactan as unvaccinated was incredibly positive! Fantastic service and smiling pleasant people. The hard part seems to be getting through check-in at the departure airport. For me that was Bangkok, and Singapore Airlines. Had no issues as i had all the paperwork ready and was smooth sailing to Cebu. I never understood this focus about military service as a bragging point. Anyone who tries to show off with credentials i will brush off, as i am more interested in the human being and a positive life attitude. I did serve 1 year in Norway, as a medic, but every male has to do that there. Hopefully you will never see me on the front page of any Philippine newspaper or in any news clip in any negative way either hehe. Non-drinker, non-smoker and prefer to be around happy positive people which means i am right smack in the middle of Heaven because thats how i see the Philippine people in general :-D Thanks again for a great video and have a great day!
enjoy your two weeks in jail for not getting protection from covid.
Hey pea, I dont know who writes your scripts or if you did it yourself. It's well written, spoken and presented in very well balanced humorous articulated manner. Bravo to you and your team for many of your presentation!!!
Thanks Danny! No team, just me and my cameraperson Lucy 👍😊
@@TheFilipinaPea you are gifted with words and ways to present them. Very much enjoyed your videos presentation. Keep upi the good work and continued success!!!!
I appreciate that, Danny 👍😊
Two thumbs up on this one, Pea. It's horrible how some "men" use and throw away girls without the slightest bit of moral character.
There's another reason why expats move to the Philippines. The process of bringing their wives to the states is extremely lengthy and difficult. So instead of being alone in retirement, they / we decide to stay there during the process. And during this lengthy ordeal, we hear absolute horror stories of how much Filipina girls charge after moving to the States (or other countries). We don't want that change, nor do we want a divorce.
If she's with a financially stable man in the Philippines, she's able to stay close to her family and friends. It's not the Philippines that she's trying to escape, she is wanting to be loved, respected and cared for. I vote to stay in the Philippines and keep my Angel happy.
Bingo! When I first started watching Pea’s videos, I thought it would be great to meet and fall in love with one of these amazing women. Then “rescue “ her by taking her to the US….. I went to the Philippines on vacation for 3 weeks and it turned into 30 days. During that time I fell in love with the Filipino people and culture. If I marry a Filipina and we decide to live in the US a portion of the year, fine. But I want to spend most of our time in the Philippines. I want to be more like Filipinos, not the other way around.
I am a proud American, but we have lost sight of our most valuable asset….. each other.
I miss my Filipino family. They miss me. I was treated with so much love and acceptance that it made a strong impression on me.
Glad you decided to stay.
Rule number 1. Never take her to your own country. Especially if there is an age gap. Rule number 2. See rule number 1
Why is it always the states. There are hundreds of other countries too. You philippinos are consumed with America. Grow up for Christ dake
Exactly. If you want a successful marriage, don't move to an anti-marital country.
@@michaeldbhawker3556 I hope this is the exception. I know Filipina woman here who are amazing faithful and quite the catch
Filipino Pea We all have the inner voice that talks to us And says that is a good person that is a bad person Sometimes you listen to that Inner voice But sometimes we ignore it Then we learn the life lessons In life That teaches us To stay away from all the bad things that happened to us Is words of wisdom from Jerry Abbas From ST.LOUIS Missouri USA 🇺🇸 ♥️
And thats why people need to stop being afraid to be called JUDGEMENTAL.... Any opinion we have about anything... whether for or against, is using judgement. So we judge every single day. We may as well do it correctly and stay away from people that we know deep inside we feel are bad.
@@LoveyourLife-1970 Sadly just because a person or group uses judgement doesn't mean that they're RIGHTeous in their assessment of a person or a group! It's often not about that or about who's perceived as Good and Bad. To many in the world are wronged simply because of another's Perception! Seek Truth! And that rarely comes easily.
Any of my acquaintances that show an interest in the Philippines get directed to your channel Pea. You are definitely full of great information and entertaining too. Keep up the great work.
THANKS so much for that, Kelly 👍
I confess in the past when I first saw this channel and made an at the moment comment that was I appropriate. No doubt, but I have since recognized the unique quality of your videos here and humbly apologize and do truely look forward to the informative and entertaining value here on this channel. I’m not a weirdo just an imperfect man who suffered a momentary lapse of reason and have since improved. A++ content here
No harm done (and I was probably nasty back to you anyway) 🤣🤣🤣
You’re too funny 😂 thank you so much for your videos. Is there a way to contact you and ask you a few questions directly
You always make me chuckle 😂 The ugly probably outnumber the beautiful over there. I think the expats don't always set a good example of the American male or the true way of life here in the United States. So many vloggers sugar coat their ugly life in the Philippines. I used to follow a popular vlogger guy in the Philippines that seemed credible. He said he would never date a girl from Dumaguete because they are exposed to so many expats, never live there because of too many expats, he would never allow his girlfriend in the videos, etc. etc. etc. He met some bikini clad Filipina, moved in and settled in Dumaguete, and hasn't stopped filming her from the rear. I think there are a pretty high number of expat relationships that are pretty much based on physical desire above anything else. Thank you for always telling it like it is. Honesty is always the best policy on both sides.
Thoughtful and balanced views as always Pea. Also, thanks for sticking up for those of us who may not be in the first flush of youth (I’m in my 50s) or Brad Pitt lookalikes!! Can I also say…gorgeous hair today Pea 😍. I don’t tune in for bikini content - your wit and intellect are more than enough. All the same, you are always engaging for the eyes as well as the mind!
THANKS for that, Dawster! I’m no ‘bikini girl’ 😂
@@TheFilipinaPea you might not be a "bikini Girl" in your mind, but you don't look too bad in a bikini
Eloquently said dawster 1.
I wholeheartedly concur.
Ms Pea ensnares with her beauty then keeps you enthralled with her thought provoking content and philanthropy.
@@MrBenHaynes... Oooooo You can speak pretty too! 🤭
I come to your videos for the information, the truthfulness and because you make me smile a lot lovely Pea. Thank you for all you do to keep us educated, real and happy! 🥰❤
Then I’ll definitely continue!! Thanks 👍❤️
Hi Pea, loved the reference to uncle Joe and hair sniffing.. haha I laughed out loud. That was truly creative and funny. Keep up the great work
Informative as usual Pea. And I should know since I am a retired Navy Seal and Delta Force Operative, who just so happens to have a Ph.D in Psychology (I gave up my lucrative practice in NYC) and this has given me insight into the human condition. Furthermore, my background in English Literature (I am a Professor of English in South Korea as well as a novelist) has also provided me with trained optics that can easily brush away the dim whitish coating of shenanigans that has settled over this breed of expat like juvenile glaucoma. Your words have been a boon to all those unsuspecting Pinays who fall prey to the lamentable desires of those pernicious expats. Keep up the good work sweetie ; )
Pea, you always impress me with your powers of empathy. Keep up the good work!
OMG Pea...The uncle Joe actually gave me the creeps just thinking about it. I'm actually embarrassed that anyone from my country would disgrace himself, endanger a innocent child and disgrace his country. The other groups sound spot on. More reason to be considerate and careful who you allow in your life. Take care Pea
not sure what your country is but the uncle joe is a problem that once existed in the darkness but is now being brought to light. with the rise in left wing politics pretending to accept everyone for who they are and then starting movements in western countries for same sex marriage and the such, its been a slippery slope. claims of "love is love" and accepting everyone for who they are, kinks and all has allowed such predators to move to the forefront. they like to call themselves MAPS, or minor attracted people. at the end of the day they are paedos and they should not be accepted by anyone, in any country.
You know who "Uncle Joe" is referencing. You can't possibly NOT know... especially with the "sniffing" part.
This was one of the best informative videos I've seen you produce. More of a serious matter, and so informational. First I was kind of set back when you mentioned the love them and leave them kind of ex-pat. I always thought a more mature and love lorne man would look at their Filipina as a more precious heart to care for than what they have experienced from Western Women.
Even with your humor thrown in there, I was more concerned that women there would be more scarred by their experience with Western Men who did them wrong.
I'm still in my 40s, and never found the true love of my life here in America. I've dated several American Filipina's here, including my very first girlfriend. Their dedication to family values, and their beauty has always drawn me. Always will. As it seems my engrained attraction is more towards Filipinas than any other nationality.
My God Father, who is from the Philippines, and also the father of my first girlfriend is still a friend of my family. He told me to find pure Filipino family values I must go there myself and find a life time love. Although, I've seriously considered his advice. I know it would be hard on her to live here with my extensive travel requirements for work in some restricted areas, I decided to put that off till I can retire. Hopefully soon, as I have built up quite a nest egg not having children or a family to care for. There is a large ex-pat Filipino community in the New York / New Jersey area, so I know whoever I bring home, will be able to find a connection to her culture when needed. Especially in the medical field here.
I will keep what you say in mind when I finally get to visit the Philippines. I know I will not find anyone on my first try. I will have to get to know the regions and the people to get trust and friendly with locals. Love will have to be spontanious and not planned. Sex is a primal urge without borders, but I will keep someone's heart in mind before other body parts. I am glad to have a resource such as you. My career is video production, so if you need any advice on using remote capabilty to connect with your viewers to do some followup with their experience, and how they used your advice let me know.
-Hunter
Thanks so much for that, Hunter 👍❤️😊
Love the video pea, thanks keep them coming
Philippines has never been on my radar as a retirement destination because all the research I’ve done on CZcams looks like it caters to visitors who want to date/party or visit the amazing beaches but I’m not interested in either. But CZcams is not always a reliable source of information so booked a trip to spend 2 months in Manila and Cebu since I love city life and want to experience it for myself. But after watching this video from a local point of view, maybe my assumptions of what kind of visitors it attracts is not that far off. Thanks for your insights, it’s both educational and entertaining
Oh you should definitely give it a chance - you can find what you’re looking for here 👍
(They managed to maximize their value by moving from a tough market to one that’s more favorable) by far the best description I’ve heard yet.
Prophesied in the Christmas animation Rudolph the red nose reindeer, where the broken unwanted toys were taken to the archipelago to find new playmates. It is a win-win for everyone.
Exactly, Leonard! I almost used the analogy of the Island of Misfit Toys!
Great minds think alike 😂😂😂
I am retired and staying at a resort and I have seen some of the bad types you mention pass through. I can see through these guys so easily. I wish Filipina women could as well.
Filipinas tend to be a little … naive 😳
@@TheFilipinaPea And more than a few are desperate. When you make $6 a day, a foreign man is going to have a halo effect. It is truly sad how corrupt the Philippines is. The poverty there is both widespread and unnecessary.
Most Asian women have white fever and will lower their standards for any white guy cause for Asian women white means status.
@@ligafftheindifferent3495
What's your monthly budget..? Trying to figure out if I got enough...
*Crap Game*
@@ligafftheindifferent3495 Like the U.S.
Just wanted to tell you that your insight is Amazing! Keep up the good work I'm sure you're helping countless foreigners make a educated decision on moving to the Philippines 🇵🇭. Your work is invaluable. Many Blessings to you and yours.
Your comment makes it all worthwhile - thanks!! 👍❤️
Found your channel a couple weeks ago. Can't say thank you enough for the enlightening videos you posted.
Your analogy of foreign men coming there is amazing. Very impressive. Our character flaws can show up in the Philippines if our intentions are not good. A few bad apples can give generally well intentioned expats a bad wrap and make us look a little shady in my opinion. Hopefully most of us can be respectful especially in a foreign country where things can go wrong for you if your not.
Whenever I travel to another Country , I consider myself a guest in that country and behave accordingly ‼️🇨🇦💕🇵🇭
Respect for all, goes a long way !
Pea, as usual your sense of journalism and social savvy is amazing! Topics that are truly informative and not pulling back any punches when it comes to the truth about life in the Philippines and of course your sense of humor really adds to your perspective while presenting your blogs! I will always enjoy your serious vlogs and your humorous vlogs! Keep up the great work you are doing. I wish you happiness and longevity Pea!
As someone who has lived here in the Philippines for quite a while; there's another one that you didn't speak up. The borderline crazies. Or maybe not borderline. well these guys might not be clinically insane; they are just very off. Difficult to describe but you know when you see one. These are the guys that pretty much fell out of their home countries and decided to inflict themselves on this country.
Kevin you speak the truth
I think the worst expats are the stuck up and arrogant ones who look down on other people. They judge persons without knowing them or what they been through. If they have enough money to be here then they are no different from you then. Maybe you need to look yourself in the mirror and see who’s the off person. As you put it.
@@47boogieman67 Absolutely 🇬🇧
Hey! Leave me out of this!
Yup, saw one about a month ago when I was in the PH at the Mall of Asia. I was embarrassed.
great video, Pea. Very informative and entertaining.
OMG! You are absolutely brilliant .. I am so glad I don't fall into those different categories but the way you explain it is so darling! My hat is off to you from San Francisco USA see ya soon.
Thanks for shedding light on the slimy Western man; we need more awareness of these creeps.
Thanks so very much for your support, Andrew 👍❤️
I don trust this guy;)
dont give a simp response... you may be slimy and a creep but many of my compatriots are not.. you ever thought that the energy may be matched to what is given... you obviously haven't been there...
Very informative Pea , I'm half Philippino and half Japanese but grew up in Hawaii, it's very interesting to know where half my roots came from and learn of the people and culture there🙂🙂
The higher class of viewers is due to the higher class of videos and topics Ms Pea!
And you certainly do offer a totally different perspective, and subject, for both foreigners and Filipinas.
There are too many pathetic boring little channels filled up ad nauseam with the same tedious, useless, illiterate babble, relying only on pure plagiarism.
And there is the one and only Filipina Pea!
Yes Pea, very uncannily, you do know too well, and too much, about men motives and what’s making the boys club tick.
It is always better, certainly more realistic, and much more true to real life, to look at, and in, people from an outside point of view.
Amazing and amusing video, once again, counsellor Pea.
Thank you 😊
Pea, Once again you are spot on! I laughed soo much at your humor. Your writing is not only witty but very entertaining. The bummer is most of all the content is true. Thanks for what you do. 😊
Thanks! Yes, humor mixed with truth is always the best 👍
You are the best infotainer on YT, you mix comedy with some really important lessons. Good for you. 👍
Nicely done, Pea!
Having lived more than half my life outside the States, you can find these types pretty much everywhere. Some local variations, of course, but...
Like you also said though, most expats are decent enough people, but the bad ones make it hard for all of us, but especially the locals that they hurt.
Take good care! 😊
Love the way you weed out the undesirable foreigners Pea .
As a foreigner it really annoys me when I see these types here and I always tell my girlfriend to warn her friends if I see anything suspicious . Unfortunately the problem I have is for the friends to believe me , some of them just don't want to listen !
I could tell you numerous stories of them getting fooled , but too late to realise 😏 .
Oh and damn , must look up those swimsuit videos 😅 .
Keep the instructional videos coming , it's good advice for both Filipino's and foreigners 🤗
Must be a goodie too shoe. Yes there re bad in ALL races and nationalities . There is nothing wrong IF you witness a one that does illegal activities, but to judge? OLD CLICHE: who made you GOD to judge. In old times we would say: FIRST LOOK INTO A MIRROR and see yourself as you point a finger always remember three point back.
@@lobosolo3215 Planning or trying to get somone pregnant and leaving should be classes as criminal. Even more so doing it by exploiting someone in a difficult situation. I'm not sure wich god you talk about, as there are so man thousand different ones, but sometimes we need to at least warn someone. Sorry if I step on some toes, but sometimes I try to be like the Pea, telling it like it is...
@@lobosolo3215 Me thinks you too critical of Lawson. Sounds like YOU have something to hide or wish to silence people from reporting their suspicions. Poor form!
@@olavlaupsa490 Lol...can only be One God
so balanced Pea . there are some of us that are genuine. but you have covered rhe range of people that cone to the Philippines. well done Pea. it's all about not judging all foreigners with the same brush. love star trek . only if your in it. hehehe
Maybe they’ll make another spinoff so I can audition 😂😂😂
@@TheFilipinaPea Filipina Pea there is on thing i know is true and it will never change napakaganda mo Pea
Very well Covered.
Thanks for this Enlightening Episode
Absolutely brilliant CZcams video. Thank you for posting such a honest video.
Semibroke and just kind of ugly is pretty much where I fit. My reason for retiring in the Philippines is that I can either survive here in the States and be invisible or live a fairly comfortable life among friendly people who respect older folks. The answer is simple for me! And as far as the last type, while I am not a violent guy, if I caught one of them they would be going to prison in an ambulance. Period.
Yup, me too, invisible is the perfect word to discribe what happens when you get older in the states, especially if your single.
I think Uncle Joe is Joe Potato, the American politician known for sniffing hair.
If you feel invisible then get off your butt and do something about it. Go workout, get in better health shape, go to meetups, meet other people. Stop hanging out with younger people who treat you invisible because most of them prefer people their own age. Brutally honest. When you were 25 did you think of hanging out with people over 50? Didn't think so.
What's your monthly budget... Pondering if I could be ok there on $1000 / month.🥱 I'm a non drinker,, don't care much for fancy restaurants...
*Crap Game*
the thing that stood out most to me besides the guy making babies and leaving, was the “ex-navy seal” I mean they typically don’t get paid much more than a normal navy soldier in the same rank. But most people probably wouldn’t know that
This woman is so intelligent and funny, I wish more women were like her. I loved the end with spock and the pon far. I'm pretty sure alot of filipinas would not get any of the western jokes but they are awesome! ty!
A great presentation Pea. Thanks.
Great Video! You have done a great job putting this together. I watch your videos because I would like to know more about your country. I may never get to see it in person. So you are a great guide in explaining your country. Thank you so very much for sharing
Your sense of humor is terrific! The outro skits never fail to make me laugh, and today's was no exception. I'm always impressed by your insights, how clever you are, and the way you use a turn of the word to make a point, or just make us laugh, as you do with the outros. i.e. "Is that the captain's log? Are you going to make an entry?"🤣 You are so naughty, but I like it!😜
As long as you folks give me permission to occasionally be naughty 😂👍
@@TheFilipinaPea Permission granted 😂👍
@@TheFilipinaPea hi pea. I’m sure you have plenty of admirers, but I think you are very attractive. I’m curious, how tall are you?
@@elpacho....9254 5' 5"
@@ky.gambler5281 perfect.
No hidden agenda here Pea. Mid 50s with a good job and work out daily. I try to be the best person I can be. What attracts me to Filapinas is the sincerity, beautiful smile, long hair, and femininity. The US is not a hard market for me, but finding a feminine conservative woman that takes care of herself is difficult to find here.
You forgot to mention your time in the Special Forces 🤣
@@jesse75 I have nothing 😉
Careful Mikey, you might pop a blood vessel trying to flex those noodle arms.
The older you get the more difficult it becomes 😂. Because then you have to complete with the younger better looking guys.
My idea of leaving Australia for another land is to increase the money I have and maybe find a partner with a Christian basis. I lost faith many years ago and I know you guys are mostly Catholic so that is a huge plus to me as I want to get that faith back. 52 ex Australian Military but not dead yet.
So happy for you man!! I was born, raised and lived 63 yrs in the Bible belt USA, and I've noticed drastic changes here. I don't think you actually "lost" Faith, cause you want it back-and that means you just "throttled back" a ways. But I'm going over for the same reason, a predominantly Christian nation where i can afford to retire. It must be hard, being an Assie, cause i actually read up on the losing Faith there. In any case, I'm sure you'll feel welcomed in Philippines. Love in the Faith!
Crikey!
May Great video. I don't ever plan on coming over nor could I afford to. Just nice seeing some one state stuff in and honest and strait forward intelligent manor. Thanks
Thanks for another great and very inform able video
The first tagalog word I learned was from a little four year old filipina girl who would get mad at her older brothers for teasing her. I heard her call them pangit a lot and I asked what that word meant. I was told she was calling her brothers ugly (pangit) when they teased her.😅
I started watching these episodes to learn about my Filipina girlfriend and her strange ways. Pea explained why my girlfriend refused to talk to me and the way to resolve the dreaded ‘Tampo.’ Pea also enlightened me why my girlfriend refers to a girl as ‘he’ or her brother as ‘she.’ Yes means no and no means yes!!! Cracking open a boiled egg with a tiny face starring at you. Eating chicken wings with my pretty little Filipina was an experience when she devoured the bones. 😂😂😂 It’s been over two wonderful years now.
THANK YOU PEA
Can we all just take a second to appreciate the awesomeness that is Pea's video outtros?
Hahahahaha
Please do 👍❤️
So I stay in Philippines iam sure the. Women will stay but if go Australia I lose
Awesome vid and gorgeous as always, and super cute dress⚘⚘⚘
Good video. I'm already subscribed so I gave this a like, also I love your Star Trek parodies. Thanks Pea!
There is only one Pea, her wisdom is beyond her years. We all love you, keep up the good work !
I appreciate that, Ralph ❤️👍
To Pea or not to Pea? Wait. That's not even a question!
When you gotta go … 😂
You are absolutely amazing and talk intelligently about everything we need to know about The Philippines: people, culture, advice, etc. Keep up the good work. By the way, how do you find the time to do everything you accomplish day after day? Congratulations!
I like your videos you're very much on point I like it that you're so detailed and open keep making videos you're really helping a lot of men's back here in the United States thank you again for everything thank you again for your points I am looking forward to travel to thanks again.
You're site and video's are well thought out, picking interesting subjects, you are well spoken and confront real life subjects. Well done.
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Miss Pea. Besides your hair, your BIGGEST gift is your ability to use natural judgement without being blindly judgemental, ROCK ON GWAPA.
what about the wonder
I saw the ex-pat drunks in Cabadbaran. They came in to the restaurant/bar most every day. I never saw them eat anything, just drink after drink, after drink. Also never saw them with a female partner, if they had any. They tried to get me to join them, but I was always with my very young gf, (who later became my ex-wife.) Their potty mouths were off putting. I'd not care to be around them, and certainly wouldn't expose my gf to them.
Aloha🤙🏾💟 Appreciate Your Wise Wisdom In A World of Heavy Darkness!
Dear Expats: Please don’t COMPLAIN too much! That’s one of the main issues that gives us a bad name. Complaining.
I was guilty of this at first but have learned to chill and adapt
One reasons why we distance to most expats here.
No.2 the accusations , for Filipinos its purely and real friendship but to expats taking advantages.smh
Have a nice day!
@Yhamie You make no sense.
@@ARedMotorcycle you are the one make no sense.
I really had a hard time believing Filipinas we're actually as kind and sweet and happy as they all seemed to be. I was sure everyone was a scam in one way or another. I had come into it with my Western idea of women and assumed I was just being taken advantage of.... It took a while but I found out that they are just great people with a different, more traditional culture. I fell in love with my Filipina the moment I realized she was just as interested in providing happiness to me as I was in providing stability, love, protection and a family to her. She authentically wants to be a team and not just take from me.
You do a good job....lawyers, accountants, banking, homes and apartments, locations for fun and friends...interviews with locals and officail offices and the procedures to handle those offices...I seen a couple of videos of people hating on you , I can tell they just watch your videos to find flaws hate on you. When I do get to the Philippines I'm sure as a fan and only as a fan ...for information I will continue to watch you for safe info...until I find my own fillipina who I can trust....but I do want Gracey as a lawyer though...I hope I can afford her services by the time I get there...oh yeah I forgot...you also teach us about Healthcare and insurance.
Thanks Bryan! And yes, there are a lot of jealous haters (but what they don’t get is that every time they mention my name, they make my channel grow) 😂
@@TheFilipinaPea This is a little off subject, but that was and _is_ the news media's fatal flaw vis-à-vis Donald Trump. They've spent the last six years hating on him (well-deserved, IMHO), but he never cared whether it was positive attention or negative attention, so long as he was getting _attention._ That's his secret, and the media is utterly blind to that: All the negative attention he gets serves to make his persona and his popularity grow. Same with your channel, same with everyone trying to bring down somebody else. When the constructive alternative is to say nothing and let their target fall on their own sword, they can't help themselves; they've gotta say something in an attempt to steal attention away from their target -- and they wind up achieving the exact opposite.
Thanks for the information, I will back to watch more video's Cheers.
Thank you for another great video. You always provide a unique and real perspective of the Philippines. This video is a great balance to the video you did on Filipinas. Thank you.
Thanks RJ! That’s exactly why I did it - to show both sides 👍
I hooked up with a Filipina I met in Singapore some years ago, and went back and spent time with her on multiple occasions. I never intended it to be anything serious, but I could see she had feelings for me one time when she cried when we parted ways. I still feel bad about that one - she was a great girl, and deserved better than a player.
Hell awaits u...!
Which happens to be you.
She made her choice, don't feel bad.. she knew what you were
Other than the few and very far in between expats I may meet over there, I really have no interest in making friends with most Americans over there as I'm about 99% positive that they will be just as arrogant and or ignorant as they are here. Not all of course and it's a case by case basis type of thing but for me its more about making friends and learning about the Filipinos that I'm interested in. After all it's YOUR country that ai will be living in not the Expats. I know that 99% of the time as long as I am good to Filipinos they will treat me better. That is your motto there and I believe in it. You are good people and that's why I'm coming to help. Because unlike a lot of the expats over there I actually care about people other than myself. It's the only way to be in life and the only way I know. Take care Pea and good vlog 🙏😊
You should not say this !!!!
That is very wrong !!!!!
There are many good expats in Southeast Asia ….
If you take that attitude to the Philippines towards other ex pats I will promise you one thing Filipinos will notice this and it won’t be in a good way. One thing I have learned Filipinos are open minded and open hearted for the most part as well as other Asian countries in Southeast Asia. I have been study in the area for over four years now. So for you to say 99% of ex-pats are just mean angry bad people and that you’re not gonna talk to them. You might want to look at a different part of the world to go to because people over there do not take the attitude that you just said here… That’s my two cents about it. God bless you and I hope that helps you change your mind about people in general
And I will also say this. When you go to the Philippines Thailand Cambodia Vietnam any of these beautiful countries. Number one you need to understand people that go there to live spend her money most of them are not going there with negative attitudes. You can’t have the coin both ways. On one hand you say that you’re not going to communicate or talk with 99% of the ex-pats that you only want to talk with Filipinos. Yet on the other side of the coin you say auditor person bye person basis. Wrong attitude totally totally totally wrong attitude. Please do not take that attitude to the Philippines with you change it before you go otherwise I promise you this much. When you get over to the Philippines or whatever country you go over there when you’re over there for six months or a year and you don’t want to talk to any ex-pats you’re gonna be a lonely lonely person.
Pea, you are wise beyond your years. I come here for your savage humor as much as your control of the English language. It almost makes me want to come to the Philippines but alas I am not in the market (at least right now). Cheers
Happy to have her as my neighbor. Good luck moving ahead with your outstanding videos which are spot-on.
hi there! I have been watching your videos for a while now. What appeals to me most is your upbeat style, engaging content, and naturally vibrant personality! Thank you. 💟
Well thanks for that!! 👍❤️
As an expat living in the Philippines I agree with that message! Because she is only talking about those foreigners who come here and do those kinds of things.
I think one very common misconception is that people from different parts of the world are different. There are of course cultural differences but deep down people are still people wherever you are and it's important not to look on any population with rose tinted glasses. There are good and bad people in all cultures and people need to be careful not to let misconceptions stop them making their usual checks.
I think there is a perception that western men are less likely to hit women than asian men and while there is perhaps some truth to this domestic violence is still a big issue in the west and often closer to home than we'd like. One of my grandfather's regularly went out drinking and was often violent when he came back home and there are still many people like that in society.
I personally prefer to take people as I find them and try not to prejudge based on what I may have heard about them in advance. It's always best to form your own judgements on whether you can trust someone.
I agree. Some guys here act like all western woman are bad & all Filipinas R good. Sure, there R cultural differences but women ack like woman no mater they R from.
You seem like a well-balanced, open-minded person, Andrew 👍😊
Great vlog again. I think everyone (?) thinks about sex, but sex can mean something different to every person. Sex can be just being with someone and feeling a deeper connection, aside from the physical part. I agree that the fatherless child who is the outcome of certain situations is the true victim.... One another impression, when I heard "honorable intentions," I am instantly reminded of one of my favorite films, DR. NO. When Connery as Bond meets Honey, he says his intentions are strictly honorable. We know where that relationship went!
You think about sex, Charles?? 🥺
😂👍😂👍
@@TheFilipinaPea Even when I'm sleeping!
Well, it is part of being a living being.
I like your channel, each episode sounds like a thoughtfully written essay read aloud rather than a random stream of consciousness...
Plain, straight-forward truths, well spoken. Great video!
The BabyMaker type really pisses me off. They screw up so many sweet, innocent Filipina girls' lives, turn them jaded against foreigners and men in general, and give the rest of us a bad name who may come there in the future to find a legit wife.
I've ran into just about every type Of Foreigner you described while in the Philippines and not all of those guys were bad people they just lost their way but some of them were downright despicable
So crazy to imagine the "Babymaker" expat. How could doing that not haunt you? You'd have to be a sociopath, surely? But you could definitely succeed with that kind of mission. The first Filipina I dated, asked me NOT to use a condom our first time. I refused and honestly I took it as a red flag.
Some people have no soul, it seems
I always enjoy your insights, very spot on!
Informative and covering such a wide spectrum of possibilities, well done Pea 👏👏
Great video Pea. Are you familiar with the German guy that married a beautiful young Filipina but spends his time a bit too close to his best friend other Filipina. I was laughing hard about the "Uncle Joe" description as it fits another 'Joe' I know to a 'T'.
Ohhh that can get him killed 😂😂😂
When you said that a woman having a mixed baby is a status symbol, that is true of a lot of women in America, whether the women like it or not.(and I'm not talking about any Asian women either). I've heard so many women here saying that they love having mixed babies because they're so cute but babies are cute no matter what their mixture is
Do they think they’re like pets or designer shoes? 😳
I'm not sure. It might be the fact just like in your country, where you use your skin tone as a status symbol, the opposite is true, that whether the mother skin is darker or lighter, they want their children skin is the opposite from them. This is especially true with caucasian women
Hi Pea.
Sadly, I feel that there are some, if not many ex-pats from various countries who come/escape to the Philippines to run away from various issues that are plaguing them in their home countries. Some are literally running away from their obligations, like alimony, child, support, taxes, and. familial obligations. And some are just fed up with the rat race and the political climate. They just want to get away because they’re not happy with changes taking place in their country. I think most men that come to the Philippines are of the conservative, thinking mindset who don’t adjust well to change. Their “life was so much better in the 1950’s or 60’s” crowd. You know back when there wasn’t civil rights for minorities or gay rights or women’s rights or rights for the handicapped or rights for the elderly or children’s rights. I’m a centrist and try to see things on both sides of the fence. Change is inevitable as the human race evolves constantly.
you are informative but you left out your sense of humor is another reason we enjoy your videos. :-) good job today as usual.
This is great information and cannot be said enough or too often. Trust goes both ways, of course, and I always tell young women that time is often a great equalizer and, "if a man (or woman) can't wait, they want something for the wrong reason(s)." "Don't fall for the weekend headlines, wait for the whole story to unfold." ~Thanks again, FP!
FP you leave me humbled in the most amazing ways! This video from start to finish (I loved the Star Trek at the end) was better researched and put together with better production than many Hollywood movies! These are the same types of guys in the US that western wm have to deal with. I’ve figured it out, why Some Asian women think western men have a sick asian fetish- It’s not us! It’s “these” guys… I hear about them from my western wm friends. These are the guys (not men) that hit on every woman they encounter, playing the odds, using the dumbest pick up lines, where are you from, you know Korea or Japan maybe… Asian women hate them, western wm love them and find them super sexually attractive, smh, I know right…lol. They are the ones making people think I’m a weirdo like them because I like Asian women. They don’t necessarily like Asian women like I do and others like me but they just hit on everything, playing the odds, and yeah I can see them going overseas to look for new hunting grounds, hunt gazelle instead of deer for a change. They are a big part of the reason that after I became widowed I wanted to date Asian wm. Here in US I’m not handsome enough, not big enough (I’m 6’ 190lbs, nicely just above average in other areas). And get friendzoned virtually every time because the wm here are so in love with these “guys”. I’m viewed as not sexually attractive because I’m quiet and not vulgar. I don’t send pics of my anatomy to them, so I am viewed as not a man, someone who can’t “give it to them” like they want it. All because I’m faithful to who I’m with and I’m classy. I could perform just as well as these guys but I will never get the chance from the friendzone. Western wm claim to hate getting hit on but the truth is they hate getting hit on only by people they don’t want to hit on them. They all end up giving these guys everything they want for free, while real decent MEN sit on the sideline and never get called up to play…. I’m so done with western women! I know Asian women appreciate real men more. And that makes beautiful women even more beautiful! My Chinese gf did not put up with cursing or being loud and quizzed me on 1st date with questions no western wm would ask even after two years! She would not have given me a chance if I was one of those guys. Point is that’s who’s making us look bad with the fetishizing Asian women! Those stereo types of submissive wm are so out of date you don’t hear them anymore and with the internet and literally videos like yours, that generation is gone. Every man like me watches this stuff, I listen to CPop, JPop, JRock, MandoPop etc. watch Asian movies, bloggers, reactors what to expect, the do’s and don’t of every country, etc…. So doesn’t it make sense the ones that make us look bad are those guys, who don’t care enough to research because why? Western women throw it at them whenever and where ever these guys want it. Sorry about the long rant but I believe I’m onto something here that everyone is missing, I’m connecting the dots. Anyone that watches this stuff KNOWS asian women run this world. They are not subservient and I wouldn’t even want that! Thank you for letting me get my theories out there! Fyi you are making me a huge fan of Filipinas…
"The ugly expat" I frown.
"Not in terms of physical appearance" I smile
SO YOU'RE SAYING THERE'S A CHANCE??? 😆😆😂😂😁😁
I was thinking the same thing. There is hope for me too🤣🤣🤣
With Filipinas, there is always hope 😂👍
Good evening, Pea. Great video. You hit the nail on the head. Most ex-pats are not the ugly ones ( not talking about physical appearances here ) and hopefully most arrive with something that resembles moral integrity. I knew guys in the military that I wouldn't leave alone with my pet cat, let alone with someone I cared about. Some of the guys I would trust with the lives of my wife and children. Those friends are worth gold. Ex-pats come in all shapes and flavors, you just have to separate the wheat from the chaff. See you Tuesday.
You do a vary good job with your videos “ Thank You “ I do enjoy your work.
Pea, you do such an amazing job on your videos, thanks for your hard work. I love the star trek ourtro that's the best!