Kenyon College: John Green Commencement Address

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  • Best-selling young adult author John Green ’00 addresses the 415 members of the Class of 2016 at Kenyon’s 188th Commencement ceremony.
    Read a transcript of his speech: www.kenyon.edu/middle-path/sto...
    Learn more about Kenyon College: www.kenyon.edu/

Komentáře • 184

  • @wayneearl7377
    @wayneearl7377 Před 8 lety +245

    "When you're a somebody, remember when you were a nobody and it'll keep you from being a jerk." You epitomize this, my friend. Beautifully done!

  • @Xavier0458
    @Xavier0458 Před 8 lety +377

    "This will be over in 14 minutes"
    *13 minutes 57 seconds*
    John is God confirmed

    • @Ross_mo
      @Ross_mo Před 8 lety +49

      Orrrrr John is a vlogbrother; and used to stopping just before the four(teenth) minute mark :P

    • @Xavier0458
      @Xavier0458 Před 8 lety +4

      +Rachael Williams nah that can't be it

    • @ninajung1306
      @ninajung1306 Před 8 lety +6

      or he already have practiced his speech -_-

    • @Xavier0458
      @Xavier0458 Před 8 lety +15

      Nina Jung Nah, this is the most evidence for omnipotents i've ever come across

    • @creeddax5132
      @creeddax5132 Před 2 lety

      InstaBlaster...

  • @LoopyLaloo
    @LoopyLaloo Před 8 lety +154

    "I lost my place."
    "Oh, there we go."

  • @Skip6235
    @Skip6235 Před 8 lety +354

    Prepare for this to be the most watched video on this channel

    • @vibraphonics
      @vibraphonics Před 8 lety +82

      Their top two videos are already John Green

    • @Shalom64221
      @Shalom64221 Před rokem +1

      @@vibraphonics, now it's the top three

  • @animeheartofpassion
    @animeheartofpassion Před 8 lety +92

    Few people like John can handle the "I lost my place...there we go" like a boss as he did.

  • @hopium7
    @hopium7 Před 8 lety +175

    DID ANYONE NOTICE THE BOY AT THE BEGINNING WHO INTRODUCED JOHN AND HIS EYES LIKE PHEEWW WHEN HE LEFT THE STAGE AND DIDNT KNOW HE WAS STILL IN FRONT OF THE CAMERA

  • @nope.13
    @nope.13 Před 8 lety +81

    why is it that every time I finish listening to any of John's speeches I always end up tearing up while still simultaneously having a wide grin on my face? This man is wonderful

  • @HexoNerd
    @HexoNerd Před 8 lety +176

    how much of a nerd does it make me that i clapped at the freaking computer screen, hand aching from history revision?
    Dear John,
    I hope the weather is good with you.

    • @Snaggums
      @Snaggums Před 8 lety +17

      Very much a nerd, which is okay.

    • @nsunnel5147
      @nsunnel5147 Před 2 lety +1

      Dear HexoNerd,
      I hope the weather is good with you.

  • @amanatee27
    @amanatee27 Před 8 lety +50

    (One of those so-called horrors of adulthood: losing your place during a speech.)
    Thank you, John Green, for being human - very wonderfully human - and by losing your place unintentionally providing an mini example and reminder that we are not alone in being human. You are appreciated. [:

  • @kporter002
    @kporter002 Před 8 lety +137

    As always, John's ability to smith words together into deep thought provoking sentiment is amazing. Thank you John, and DFTBA.

  • @Gyroglle
    @Gyroglle Před 8 lety +74

    damn john you got me all happysad

  • @Jindorek
    @Jindorek Před 8 lety +45

    Wherever Nerdfighters go the comment section is nothing but love and admiration. never been more proud of being a member of the best superhero group EVER - Nerdfighteria !!

  • @valjoy1507
    @valjoy1507 Před 8 lety +13

    All I remember from the speech at my graduation was the guy saying "You won't remember who I was or what I said.. " (*me thinking of course I would remember*) ".. but the one thing I want you to take away from it is this..."

  • @titania642
    @titania642 Před 8 lety +20

    "But living for ones self, even very successfully, will do absolutely nothing to fill the gasping void inside of you. In my experience, that void gets filled not through strength but through weakness. you must be weak before the world, because love and listening weaken you, they make you vulnerable, they break you open, and it is only when you are weak that you can truly see and acknowledge and forgive and love the weakness in others. Weakness allows you to see other humans not as enemies to defeat but as collaborators and co-creators. In the end, we're making humanness up together as we go along."
    Gives me all the feels! DFTBA

  • @FrenchToastAwsome
    @FrenchToastAwsome Před 8 lety +41

    This commencement address makes me happy because John Green, without a single doubt, intended it as a response to David Foster Wallace's commencement speech at the same college in 2005.
    He first talks, in his own ways, about the mundanity of life that so captivated This is Water, and then he goes off of that and responds directly to the Wallace thesis that liberal arts teaches you how to think with his "it teaches you how to listen".
    He also broadens the scope to include systemic racism and marginalization, which Wallace did not include, but if you compare the two speeches, without a doubt Green was very conscious and listening very closely to Wallace.
    Quite fascinating. Congratulations, Class of 2016 at Kenyon.

    • @christinacash
      @christinacash Před 5 lety +1

      David foster Wallace water speech is amazing

  • @SayItAintTso
    @SayItAintTso Před 4 lety +9

    My second favorite commencement speech ever, second only to David Foster Wallace’s (at the same college no less), which John’s speech is clearly a response to. I love it.

  • @ericabourland1012
    @ericabourland1012 Před 8 lety +35

    We love you, John. Thanks for always inspiring us to be awesome.

  • @superbubbleaquapower
    @superbubbleaquapower Před 8 lety +36

    That moment at 0:13 where the announcer looks like "Oh God, got through that without a hitch! It's over! Yes!"
    Congrats on delivering an amazing speech, John! DFTBA

  • @annikaclark2873
    @annikaclark2873 Před 8 lety +26

    So glad this was put up on CZcams so quickly. Thanks, Kenyon! :)

  • @Txjane52011
    @Txjane52011 Před 8 lety +21

    Love this speech. Real, truth, sincere, and made sense even to a 49 year old still trying to find out what I want to be when I 'grow up'. I forgot and stopped dreaming, now that my kid is an adult, I can go back and do what I forgot to do and re-learn to live, dream, and if I want to, grow up.

  • @ConditionOfMan
    @ConditionOfMan Před 8 lety +6

    Thank you, John Green, for the tears. Very cathartic.

  • @dariuso2657
    @dariuso2657 Před 8 lety +15

    Haha, the guy's look of relief at 0:13 is very relatable.
    Oh, and the speech is amazing, typical wiseful John.

  • @juliaz1422
    @juliaz1422 Před 8 lety +22

    Thank you John... that was very moving, deep and fun all at the same time. Thanks for providing me with constant inspiration! Thank you!

  • @pinkeysherbet7249
    @pinkeysherbet7249 Před 5 lety +10

    1:13 the part that makes me cry without fail every single time. My grandfather was one of the most pivotal people in my life until he died ten years ago and I always without fail think of him.

  • @ascatraz
    @ascatraz Před 8 lety +3

    The hand sign translator is amazing in this.

  • @bandgeek9723
    @bandgeek9723 Před 8 lety +26

    "...those people, they're so proud of you right now."
    ...dammit John. #Imnotcrying #yourecrying

  • @michaelhart1072
    @michaelhart1072 Před 8 lety +29

    at what age do you become so good at making elegant and insightful conversation?

    • @jpchevron
      @jpchevron Před 8 lety

      It takes practice, not age. Getting a job working people helps a lot as you get to practice your conversational skills everyday.

    • @michaelhart1072
      @michaelhart1072 Před 8 lety +6

      jpchevron yeah true. Joining the debate team in the new year so I can hopefully improve

  • @CrazyBookEater
    @CrazyBookEater Před 8 lety +7

    Probably the most beautiful speech I've ever heard. Thank you John for making my life wonderful. IS THERE RAINING IN YOUR POCKET OF THE WORLD?

  • @emilyheegaard1823
    @emilyheegaard1823 Před 8 lety +21

    at 5:59 the guy behind him is wondering whether allowing John Green to speak to a room full of college students is a good idea

  • @acdory
    @acdory Před 2 lety +2

    I revisit this when life pulls at my confidence. Thank you for your wise words. Keep humaning the way you do.

  • @CanMeHaveAPizza
    @CanMeHaveAPizza Před 8 lety +9

    That one guy at the front who didn't close his eyes..

  • @greyheists
    @greyheists Před 8 lety +2

    I'm usually not one to comment on CZcams videos. But for this I can't resist. Thank you John. For the hope you've given and for making my ass listen intently for 13:57, because you truly do give such amazing speeches. Phenomenal is redefined in your writing and your voice. It gives a deeper meaning to this miracle of human consciousness. Thank you.

  • @jeanrichter6657
    @jeanrichter6657 Před 4 lety +1

    Paused a dear Hank and John to come listen to this. Beautiful

  • @otatopthepotato6113
    @otatopthepotato6113 Před 8 lety +11

    I didn't understand some tiny bits of the speech, but I will watch it again, when I'll be fully bilingual.

    • @NickGreyden
      @NickGreyden Před 8 lety +1

      You are already worlds above me. Best of luck learning how to better speak and understand english.

    • @JatPhenshllem
      @JatPhenshllem Před rokem

      How are you two going?

  • @katoyukimaru
    @katoyukimaru Před 8 lety +50

    Hehehe I can see John's anti-Randian sentiments in this speech as well. Great speech, love it.

  • @donovankeating8577
    @donovankeating8577 Před 8 lety +2

    Now I remember why I love John Green so much :')
    This man is an inspiration

  • @Phabieau42
    @Phabieau42 Před 7 lety +1

    there is so much David Foster Wallace in this speech. John cites his commencement speech "this is water" as a major life influence - I recommend that to others who enjoy this speech

  • @AlphaphenomenonGaming
    @AlphaphenomenonGaming Před 8 lety +17

    I didn't even graduate and I thought about life. Great speech!

  • @ruleofhalves
    @ruleofhalves Před 8 lety +77

    They probably keep inviting John back just for the CZcams views lol

  • @clomino3
    @clomino3 Před 8 lety +5

    Now I wanna write a song called "Hows the Weather By You?" and have it be about this kinda thing.

  • @B3TT3RDAYS
    @B3TT3RDAYS Před 8 lety +2

    there is a quote that says "the wound is the place where the light enters you"
    i was recently in a situation where a group exercised this idea together, to be vulnerable with each other, to connect to one another. it was a very inspiring experience

    • @JatPhenshllem
      @JatPhenshllem Před rokem

      Oh yeag, I saw that quote on pdfdrive once

  • @alannar.8701
    @alannar.8701 Před 8 lety +15

    How awesome would it be if this was your commencement address?

  • @Dmosthenes
    @Dmosthenes Před 6 lety +4

    It's difficult not to hear DFW in this speech.

  • @deangoldenstar7997
    @deangoldenstar7997 Před 8 lety +30

    I really loved the speech and all, but why the hell is their a man on a throne?
    Anyway, great speech from the great and powerful. Almost wished that he'd say DFTBA at the end, but anyway, great messages and congratulations on making me actively listen to speech for more than three minutes without falling asleep.

  • @matthewweatherhead6002

    I’m watching this as I apply. I’m so excited!

  • @MrGraffittikid
    @MrGraffittikid Před 8 lety +7

    That one dude who doesn't close his eyes 😂

  • @ysabarro333
    @ysabarro333 Před 8 lety

    Thank you, John! 😭

  • @alexanderallison7131
    @alexanderallison7131 Před 8 lety +6

    Well done, John. I like the hat tips to DFW's 'This is water'.

  • @BbyPigeon
    @BbyPigeon Před 8 lety +3

    I love every word so much

  • @AwesomeCrackDealer
    @AwesomeCrackDealer Před 8 lety +38

    This is fantastic. John is really nice, somehow I like his speeches but not his writing haha

    • @JoyLyte
      @JoyLyte Před 8 lety +18

      Fair enough. Not everyone is into somewhat sappy YA novels. (I happen to adore them though!)

    • @JatPhenshllem
      @JatPhenshllem Před rokem +1

      @@JoyLyte Yep, same here

  • @_molamola
    @_molamola Před 8 lety

    Thanks for being awesome, John.

  • @laurennicole04
    @laurennicole04 Před 8 lety

    Awesome speech! Very moving and thoughtful.

  • @rebeccahaglund4633
    @rebeccahaglund4633 Před 8 lety +1

    Okay, I'm in tears, that was so beautiful

  • @Thekartikgoswami
    @Thekartikgoswami Před 8 lety

    Beautiful!

  • @trixa3667
    @trixa3667 Před 8 lety +3

    The sad thing is that even though that was an awesome speech, a lot of those kids won't remember a thing.

  • @williamwatterson8711
    @williamwatterson8711 Před 6 měsíci

    Very good, and much better than the usual cant one hears in such addresses.

  • @yuvalne
    @yuvalne Před 3 lety

    Honestly this video made me feel really good, and I'm a year and a half out of school

  • @tristannguyen786
    @tristannguyen786 Před 8 lety +2

    Not hating on Kenyon College or anything, but why do they get so many good commencement speeches?

  • @imalloutofgin
    @imalloutofgin Před 8 lety +5

    How did this make me well up with unshed tears? This hurts, because it is true and it is correct and it is right and it is good.

  • @EuropeanQoheleth
    @EuropeanQoheleth Před 7 lety +2

    John's a smart guy. This was a deep and inspiring speech.

  • @yoonminhope13
    @yoonminhope13 Před 8 lety

    i am a 32 year old woman and i still feel inspired.

  • @PatrickAllenNL
    @PatrickAllenNL Před 8 lety +2

    great speech!!

  • @theswaff699
    @theswaff699 Před 8 lety +1

    i could listin to this man talk all of time (still havn't read any of his books)

  • @Tom62psu
    @Tom62psu Před 8 lety +1

    I think a couple other people mentioned that this speech is definitely an echo of David Foster Wallace's "This is Water" commencement speech at Kenyon in 2005. Just a bump to the top - If you haven't watched DFW's speech, just search "This is Water" and give it a listen. Then read some George Saunders ("The Braindead Megaphone") and call it a day!

  • @loc5559
    @loc5559 Před 8 lety

    When it went to the profile shot I realized that there is an ASL translator next to John. Hopefully, in the future, that will become the norm at all public events where a speaker is involved, worldwide.

  • @Huntracony
    @Huntracony Před 8 lety +23

    Why does the sign language interpreter have a microphone?

    • @jdude99lolz
      @jdude99lolz Před 8 lety +12

      equality its 2016. Everyone must have everything everyone else has because otherwise people get offended. :/

    • @bball767
      @bball767 Před 8 lety +6

      You really are a Potato coz that was really stupid

    • @DoomedLich
      @DoomedLich Před 8 lety +9

      @Senor Potato
      The irony of you being salty enough to say something so dumb is so delicious.

    • @jdude99lolz
      @jdude99lolz Před 8 lety +5

      DoomedLich Wait it was clear i was being sarcastic right?

    • @Huntracony
      @Huntracony Před 8 lety +5

      Senor Potato It was to me.

  • @benjaminpark8176
    @benjaminpark8176 Před 2 lety +1

    John Green will always be the author that made the most impression on
    me, so much so that I have decided to start a PhD exploring the many
    subtleties of his fiction and how he creates unforgettable fictional
    landscapes

  • @busdriver428
    @busdriver428 Před 3 lety

    By the end I found my eyes welling up and an oceans worth of joy in my heart ❤. DFTBA

  • @joshlawrence8091
    @joshlawrence8091 Před 6 lety +1

    There is sooooo much of David Foster Wallace’s This Is Water in this. If you like this, go check This Is Water, you’ll love it

  • @billswingle2672
    @billswingle2672 Před 8 lety

    Golly this was great!

  • @wheeles7
    @wheeles7 Před 8 lety

    Well done John. Hit the right tones all the way through. DFTBA

  • @otatopthepotato6113
    @otatopthepotato6113 Před 8 lety +1

    Beautiful, by the way.

  • @rhiannakinsey-jones9060
    @rhiannakinsey-jones9060 Před 8 lety +1

    This was really inspirational *impressed face*

  • @anonymousperson2738
    @anonymousperson2738 Před 4 lety +1

    did yall notice the static at 3:30 or was that just on my side

  • @gitoshrisen7687
    @gitoshrisen7687 Před 8 lety

    I would have no problem if I was more than 14 mins.....I can listen to him alllllllllll Day....

  • @Chris_winthers
    @Chris_winthers Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thanks, youtube. Please keep sending me random john green speeches

  • @gwillad
    @gwillad Před 8 lety +1

    beautiful! reminds me a ton (im sure intentionally) of this is water.

  • @itskaylashley
    @itskaylashley Před 7 lety

    I LOVE JOHN GREEN

  • @otatopthepotato6113
    @otatopthepotato6113 Před 8 lety +3

    That guy in the front didn't close his (DAMN) eyes !!

  • @Glindaful
    @Glindaful Před 8 lety

    loved it! so inspiring and goosebump-prodcing :)

  • @peternicks6094
    @peternicks6094 Před 7 lety +1

    Did anyone else skip the minute of silence.

  • @madelinekrane3200
    @madelinekrane3200 Před 7 lety

    I think he used David Foster Wallace's speech as inspiration. They're both incredible speakers.

  • @christophervanburen8923

    Freaking brilliant!

  • @Itania333
    @Itania333 Před 8 lety

    amazing :)

  • @nyjonathan
    @nyjonathan Před 5 lety

    I wish John Green would speak at my university

  • @Bloodmuffin6
    @Bloodmuffin6 Před 8 lety

    Actual tears at the life insurance part

  • @gianpopo2007
    @gianpopo2007 Před 2 lety

    Wow

  • @cabe_bedlam
    @cabe_bedlam Před 8 lety

    Damn.

  • @karolynkeyser9883
    @karolynkeyser9883 Před 7 lety +1

    1:54 hey you, yeah you in the bottom rig corner with the green button down shirt underneath your gown, you're supposed to close your eyes!

  • @michaelsheffield6852
    @michaelsheffield6852 Před 8 lety

    That was a long minute.

  • @morgandavis9624
    @morgandavis9624 Před 6 lety

    We had to choose a speech for an assignment in class and everyone else is choosing speeches from presidents and stuff and I’m over here like SHARPIE FACE HAS A SPEECH I HAVE FOUND MY SPEECH HALLELUJAH

  • @UnchartedAtlas
    @UnchartedAtlas Před 6 lety

    Hahaha I would love it if he was there for my graduation

  • @leabluub98
    @leabluub98 Před 8 lety

    can I have John at my graduation, too, please?

  • @DrSpaceman69
    @DrSpaceman69 Před 8 lety

    they literally spend a minute in silence

  • @ari9638
    @ari9638 Před 8 lety

    1:49 There's always that one kid who refuses to play along XD

  • @bearbear44
    @bearbear44 Před 5 lety

    5:01 !!!!!!

  • @matthewcecil8552
    @matthewcecil8552 Před 6 lety

    Lol, I'm going to use that technique next time I have a speech I need to stretch out.

  • @The_Skrongler
    @The_Skrongler Před 8 lety +1

    That's odd..........because I have found growing up(so far, I'm only begining) to be at least in part a process of building emotional strength not hardness to others, but simply the werewithall to function under preassure without opening up when it would not help. Without being weak to those who would only crush you...
    I am trying to build myself up as a protagonist, because that is _not_ what I would be otherwise. If I was not the protagonist I would just grind along in the abiss of mundanity. As the protagonist I think, and love, and help when others might not.

  • @poorvapandey7767
    @poorvapandey7767 Před 4 lety

    0:13 THE BOY IS FLABBERGASTED

  • @tara.5986
    @tara.5986 Před 8 lety +3

    Gaaaaah John!!