Is it all really just about your mother? | Mental Health Mondays

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  • čas přidán 27. 05. 2024
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Komentáře • 28

  • @djhardcorehengst6356
    @djhardcorehengst6356 Před měsícem +5

    4 hours deep in the anima animus guide video :p

  • @n.p.mackenzie
    @n.p.mackenzie Před měsícem +2

    Great video. Bit of synchronicity in timing too (along with some help from youtube algorithms no doubt) as my son was starting nursery the day I watched this. Hello there alloparenting :D

  • @regalrivera
    @regalrivera Před 26 dny +2

    Thank you for this video Erik.

  • @gus8310
    @gus8310 Před 29 dny +1

    Thank you for explaining the terms with more depth and analogy. I found it hard to understand what they really meant by relating function on the jung to live by channel.

    • @theimaginarium
      @theimaginarium  Před 29 dny

      I'm here to help! Steve and Pauline operate and discuss at a very high level, so hopefully I can help when needed to explain some of the more sophisticated subjects that they talk about. Be sure to join the discord so you can ask questions in more depth!

  • @kcollier2192
    @kcollier2192 Před měsícem +3

    My own little definition of Mom/Mother and Dad/Father: Mother and Father are biological - while they are usually the ones that raise children not all of them are geared for it. Moms and Dads RAISE children - they may not have any biological connection but when those kids say who raised them, it's their Mom and Dad, which is not always their Mother and Father. 🧐

  • @organicenergy5124
    @organicenergy5124 Před 13 dny +1

    ❤Thanks so much 🙏 Dr G! Really happy to see you sharing this subject and your angle on it.
    There’s some questions on our mind we would like to know your perspective on please 🙏
    So from studying your work and JTLB’s Steve and Pauline, it’s seems relating is about the flow and exchange of energy and information, with it being socially to do with intuition as well as feeling, it is contextual and it has to feel right. Could you share your experience and perspective on how one should relate socially to be balanced and healthy, currently on my mind is to try not to overthink it, live and let live and seek out with curiosity the feeling and intuition of what is right in the context you are communicating in? Sorry long comment any response is greatly appreciated

    • @theimaginarium
      @theimaginarium  Před 13 dny +1

      IPSA and I have had a parting of ways, but I can still address these questions in future videos, no problem.

    • @organicenergy5124
      @organicenergy5124 Před 13 dny

      @@theimaginarium ok 👍 thank you 🙏 for getting back

  • @DennisBolanos
    @DennisBolanos Před měsícem +2

    Dr. Goodwyn-is it true that our unconscious mind remembers everything we’ve experienced?

    • @theimaginarium
      @theimaginarium  Před měsícem +2

      I would be very skeptical that it remembers absolutely everything.

  • @vitalfrontiers
    @vitalfrontiers Před měsícem +3

    You’re hitting on a much broader issue here that is yet another aspect of the crisis within modern Western culture. Mothers maintain 80% of single parent households with an estimated 10.9 million (and growing) one-parent families in the US. The absent father epidemic, and the absence of extended kinship relations, is very real. Looking to our ancestral history and attempting to return to certain generative aspects of individual/collective living is only part of the solution. The psychological repercussions of this are all too real and unfortunately have downstream effects which are hitting the downtrodden the hardest.

    • @theimaginarium
      @theimaginarium  Před měsícem +1

      Right you are my friend. Right you are. Big problem.

    • @vitalfrontiers
      @vitalfrontiers Před měsícem +1

      @@theimaginarium also… love a good power bar 😂💪🏻

    • @theimaginarium
      @theimaginarium  Před měsícem +1

      @@vitalfrontiers I mean, who doesn't? Why not? For those folks who can't commit to the long form videos necessarily right away. You might still need a boost!

  • @NilSatis1983
    @NilSatis1983 Před měsícem +1

    It’s basically described my marriage and my therapy.
    Like almost to the word

    • @theimaginarium
      @theimaginarium  Před měsícem

      Is that right? Want to share a little?

    • @NilSatis1983
      @NilSatis1983 Před měsícem

      @@theimaginarium in the section on transference right down to the Adlerian part of experiencing power in the relationship and intuition picking up all the leaks into the frame.
      I’m currently mulling of Pauline’s discipline that if the transference was unwelcome by the therapist, if she wanted to work with clean hands so to speak then it is abuse.

    • @theimaginarium
      @theimaginarium  Před měsícem

      @@NilSatis1983 rich, rich material, as always when it comes to Pauline.

    • @NilSatis1983
      @NilSatis1983 Před měsícem

      @@theimaginariumbeing from Liverpool myself, I can tell you it’s like a dressing down from your auntie

  • @NilSatis1983
    @NilSatis1983 Před měsícem +1

    So Doc, Don Juanism…. Is that adaptive? Asking for a friend?

    • @theimaginarium
      @theimaginarium  Před měsícem

      Hm....Freudian drives methinks run amok lol. Whether or not it is strictly adaptive depends on whether or not it results in any children who successfully make it to adulthood with good prospects.

    • @NilSatis1983
      @NilSatis1983 Před měsícem

      @@theimaginarium seems like I might be winning then.
      As the id goes marching on!

    • @theimaginarium
      @theimaginarium  Před měsícem

      @@NilSatis1983 I'll leave that to you