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  • čas přidán 29. 02. 2024
  • Vanderpump Rules’ Tom Schwartz has been doing a lot of introspection. He's drinking green iced tea, unsweetened. Almost a year after Scandoval, Tom is focusing on his own life: he’s dating, he’s working, and he wants to move on from what nearly ruined his life. We talk about his divorce, how he was left to deal with the wreckage Sandoval left behind, how they repaired their friendship, what he thinks of the castmates reactions to the scandal, his status with Katie Flood of Winter House and more!!!
    Not Skinny But Not Fat podcast
    Hosted by Amanda Hirsch
    Produced by Dear Media
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Komentáře • 82

  • @marisaconlon8938
    @marisaconlon8938 Před 3 měsíci +161

    This guy cheated on his partner multiple times, yet Katie gets so much hate for being 'mean' to him? Please.

    • @whispersonthestreet
      @whispersonthestreet Před 3 měsíci +13

      Katie was terrible, she knows his family history and would call him terrible things and compared him to his father. She isn't just mean she is emotionally manipulative and borderline abusive. He should have never married her but sometimes when you are in it you can't see it.

    • @alpal7779
      @alpal7779 Před 3 měsíci +2

      ​@@whispersonthestreetwtf

    • @Luckygingerslots
      @Luckygingerslots Před 3 měsíci

      I know he’s total trash.

    • @Agh576
      @Agh576 Před 3 měsíci +11

      If the person cheated and you decide to stay with them, it doesn’t give you the green light to constantly be mean and condescending. If she had that much resentment she should have chosen to leave the relationship.

    • @mxchellejxde
      @mxchellejxde Před 3 měsíci +6

      @@Agh576 can’t you apply the same logic to him? if she’s constantly mean to him and he chose to stay, it doesn’t give him the green light to cheat. he could’ve just left the relationship too.

  • @ningyding
    @ningyding Před 2 měsíci +23

    Schwartz is the master of avoiding questions and keeping everyone happy.

  • @Yash0613
    @Yash0613 Před 3 měsíci +15

    It was good to see Schwartzy finally speak on his own. I’m like Amanda, I can see all sides so just because I love him doesn’t mean I don’t love Katie.

  • @charizesantiago1429
    @charizesantiago1429 Před 2 měsíci +11

    Do people not remember Katie defending Tom verbally and physically against Stassi in season 1? He swore at Stassi which was so rude and so she poured a drink at him and even then, against her bestfriend, Katie defended him. Tom never defended Katie, if he shows a little bit of it people praised him which doesn’t make sense!

    • @rinmartell2678
      @rinmartell2678 Před 2 měsíci

      Tom poured a drink over Stassi first. How people keep forgetting this?

  • @smittsgirl2
    @smittsgirl2 Před 3 měsíci +22

    Love and honor, forsaking all others,not calling your wife a Karen or pouring a drink on her,kissing multiple other women, and when Sandoval disrespected Katie's Mom and he hid behind a plant, such a sweet human, IMO .I think he needs to acknowledge ,I don't think he's a terrible person, live and learn, Schwartz just admitted he was a loveable douche❤😅😅i stand corrected 😂

  • @magnolialoves
    @magnolialoves Před 3 měsíci +41

    Good Scott Disick comparison. I can’t ever dislike Schwartzy or Scott 😬🫠🥴

  • @ew7554
    @ew7554 Před 3 měsíci +10

    They’ve always covered for each other this ain’t nothing new. And the toms will never tell the 100% truth.

  • @a.m.3921
    @a.m.3921 Před 2 měsíci +5

    He's worse than Sandoval. The definition of a slime ball. Schwarz stands for nothing and just agrees with whoever he happens to be talking to.

  • @brookeursrey6454
    @brookeursrey6454 Před 3 měsíci +16

    Amanda: “I don’t wanna say what I’d do” I’m dying 😂😂😂

  • @tracim3080
    @tracim3080 Před 2 měsíci +6

    When people show you who they are BELIEVE them.
    Stop making excuses for assholes.

  • @rebeccacrakow2918
    @rebeccacrakow2918 Před 3 měsíci +16

    He is no better than Sandoval! He spent years cheating on Katie! Now he has become half of Sandoval’s brain! He just uses bigger words and I’m not impressed! He also manipulates the situation- I can’t explain except it feels ICK to me.

    • @thcwhat00
      @thcwhat00 Před měsícem +2

      I know EXACTLY what you mean!!! I say the same thing! It’s hard to explain but ick!!

  • @garberpartyof6
    @garberpartyof6 Před 2 měsíci +4

    loved hearing about the triplet brothers!! i have almost 3 year old triplets :)

  • @courtneyrenee_86
    @courtneyrenee_86 Před měsícem +2

    Scott Disick and Tom Schwartz was the PERFECT COMPARISON!! I know Scott was a mess, but Scott added humor to the Kardashians! It'd be so boring and bleak. He's loveable and so is Schwartz!!

  • @rachellewilson9030
    @rachellewilson9030 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Scott and Schwartz get grace from us because we all grew up together. We'd already been hurt, grew up and got standards by the time we met Tristan. That's the difference.

  • @user-kk7zo9sw2p
    @user-kk7zo9sw2p Před 2 měsíci +7

    Schwartz never stood up for Katie, he always sides with the Katie haters. Schwartz was a bad husband and he will also make a bad father. Stay single Schwartz and be miserable and silly by yourself !

    • @user-bf2pf7on7c
      @user-bf2pf7on7c Před 9 dny +1

      Well now he's practically dating a child. Sooo gross

  • @angelsplace
    @angelsplace Před 3 měsíci +17

    On Rachel's podcast, she said he knew all about her and Sandoval from the start.

    • @TC-nj8ug
      @TC-nj8ug Před 3 měsíci

      Rachel is also a liar. Hard to believe much of what she says given her history

    • @FaythHogan
      @FaythHogan Před dnem

      Oh shoot

  • @karlaviviana9258
    @karlaviviana9258 Před 2 měsíci +1

    The Scott Disick reference was spot on.

  • @mickeymcgalliard45
    @mickeymcgalliard45 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Good interview but I was SO distracted by her bun hitting the tree every time she moved her head! lol

    • @user-ly5bq7vo3d
      @user-ly5bq7vo3d Před 3 měsíci +1

      That or Tom and his fucking iced drink!! Absolutely hate when people drink or eat while podcasting!!

  • @jenniferb4527
    @jenniferb4527 Před 3 měsíci +2

    It’s good but stop cutting Tom off . Let the man speak and finish a thought geez

  • @LPnerd
    @LPnerd Před 3 měsíci +2

    When ya don't take care of business in your own yard, $hiT goes sideways pretty fast.
    Greg butted heads with Sandoval, Sandoval butts heads with everyone except this poor guy. He took sides with Tom over his wife time after time after time.

  • @rose_quartz_loveandlight
    @rose_quartz_loveandlight Před 3 měsíci +3

    loving the new Vanderpump season so much 💖

  • @presleyjillian3032
    @presleyjillian3032 Před 2 měsíci +7

    they can never make me hate Schwartzy. Met him in June and he is just the coolest and nicest guy

    • @user-kk7zo9sw2p
      @user-kk7zo9sw2p Před 9 dny +1

      Of course he was nice ! You're a fan, a stranger to him. U don't have a relationship or even know him personally. So like him all you want .

  • @danamaria80
    @danamaria80 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Happy Scandiversary

  • @heidiheidi
    @heidiheidi Před měsícem

    I don’t blame for her Katie’s meanness to Tom or the other Tom it’s her disposition In general

  • @tayloremerson6485
    @tayloremerson6485 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Do Tom and Amanda work together outside of this or are best friends? I love Tom and this show but it feels somewhat rehearsed/pro-Tom.
    Which he deserves to speak his peace! Just an observation.

  • @user-dy3yi5uw5u
    @user-dy3yi5uw5u Před 3 měsíci +5

    They Cheated in your apt. You knew. Until you get that there is no hope

  • @cloroxbleach3757
    @cloroxbleach3757 Před 3 měsíci +13

    schwartz is nothing like scott disick that comparison was so incredibly random and off based

  • @valerienelson3296
    @valerienelson3296 Před 3 měsíci +1

    People have alot to say but until you've walked in those shoes especially in a friend group. Walked in those shoes & this messenger got shot. Meanwhile they worked it out and I became the enemy. So its not as easy as you thinkto be the one to absolutly destroy someone's life? Next time I would pull away from the group a bit and mind my own business. There was even a S threat. I am not the cheater but could be part of a chain of events that destroys lives? NO THANK YOU. Respect their are so many different personalities, the way one handles things doesn't make it the right way for everyone. Had Arianna been the cheater & Schwartz knew, I have a feeling Schwartz would not have told his best friend Tom either. We constantly ask people to be who they are, live in their truth, then when their truth isn't our truth we judge them harshly for it. No 2 souls on this earth are alike. Seeing all thats happened Tom the cheater did Arianna a favor, look where she is now? Im not saying by any means cheating is O.K. but at this point holding a grudge over Schwartzy and demanding the other friends show total alliance is a bit immature IMO, no rights or wrongs here just opinions of INDIVIDUALS.

  • @marlenelopez4130
    @marlenelopez4130 Před 3 měsíci +10

    I love him! I was waiting to watch this all week!

  • @robertscranton8293
    @robertscranton8293 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Swartzy... are you gonna get sucked into the "new" Rachel lawsuit. A jury trial in LA...hmmm..(can you transfer your asset ownership offshore to like Belize? .. before Rachel takes em)

  • @FaythHogan
    @FaythHogan Před dnem

    When you get cheated on its Devastating and you feel not good enough and insecure not desired and when you lose trust n was his fault to really put in the work to repair it and it takes a very long time and it causes arguments and then men are selfish yet want to blame Katie its called gaslighting dude like seriously so i dont blame her for Dippin out dude ..James said it best hes his best Tom on his own and sometimes at some point you have to love someone from a distance and feel or wish he would bc i do like him but TomS tarnished him

  • @brendajablonowski1668
    @brendajablonowski1668 Před 2 měsíci +1

    YOU PEGGED HIM RIGHT ON!! HE IS A STINKER BUT A NICE STINKER!!! HE DOES GET AWAY WITH A LOT!!! I HATE THAT HE HUNG AROUND WITH DIP SHIT BUT NOW THAT I THINK ABOUT IT HE WAS SCREEN FOR THE STINKER!! OMG

  • @MissJ000
    @MissJ000 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Idk why anyone liked Schwartz. He’s spineless af.

  • @44nk96
    @44nk96 Před 2 měsíci

    Did the host just gloss over Tom’s friend’s death? 😅

  • @TeeVaPool
    @TeeVaPool Před 3 měsíci +2

    I used to love Schwartz but after scandoval when I see him he’s just gross 🤮🤮🤮

  • @ew7554
    @ew7554 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Schwartz is the weirdest 😂

  • @bernicehoggsfav
    @bernicehoggsfav Před 2 měsíci

    I'm glad you asked about James. I don't get James extreme reaction. I believe it was for the show.

  • @alishaschanz4532
    @alishaschanz4532 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Love me some Schwartzy❤❤❤❤

  • @FaythHogan
    @FaythHogan Před dnem

    I mean Sandavol did propose to him 2× lol jk

  • @yazminfair6660
    @yazminfair6660 Před 3 měsíci +7

    I love Tom he’s adorable and kind ! ❤

  • @bernicehoggsfav
    @bernicehoggsfav Před 2 měsíci +1

    My take has always been that Katie dumped him when he was going through the toughest time in his life with his family and the bar.

    • @FaythHogan
      @FaythHogan Před dnem

      Katie was still in love with Tom ; however he never put her 1st and continued to give him chances after he cheated and he never made her feel desired she says it in one of thr therapy sessions and had he actually changed and fought for her but he never did so one has to at a point respect one self and Katie was still there and wanted to stay friends and he said he would not hook up within the group...It's one thing if he truly fell In love with whomever and if so and he expressed that to Katie but Kissing Rachael for TOM to again chose Tom over her so let's be real here

  • @frankiegenevieve
    @frankiegenevieve Před 27 dny

    I love Schwartzy 💖💖💖

  • @iryna5644
    @iryna5644 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Im loving Tom from Germany

  • @frankir5587
    @frankir5587 Před 2 měsíci

    I love to not love Schwartz

  • @user-bd7xv5sm5y
    @user-bd7xv5sm5y Před 3 měsíci +4

    Girl he walked all over you this was pointless

  • @Edie3366
    @Edie3366 Před 2 měsíci +1

    💗Tom Schwartz

  • @emanuelanguiano-mz5dq
    @emanuelanguiano-mz5dq Před 3 měsíci +1

    Schwarts is so bori ( z z z z z z z ).

  • @user-xv1kp6qf7h
    @user-xv1kp6qf7h Před 3 měsíci +6

    Bored.. this is so boring

  • @user-mc9zv3yn1u
    @user-mc9zv3yn1u Před 3 měsíci +4

    I hate how everybody beats him down forbeung a nice guy..ppl always down him for not takin up for katy..i think tge poor guy got overwhelmed w who he had to b mad at cuz katy was always fightin w someone! Im glad to c tom gettin hisconfidence back After the katy best down !!

    • @marisaconlon8938
      @marisaconlon8938 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Can you please rewrite this in English

    • @Sharni_100
      @Sharni_100 Před 3 měsíci +2

      …. He poured a whole drink on not only his wife’s head but another woman’s head…. At 2 different times and 2 different years lol.
      He cheated multiple times on his WIFE who has never cheated ever…
      Tell me more about this nice guy… maybe I’m missing something…

  • @christin92
    @christin92 Před 2 měsíci

    i love love love schwartz! 🤍
    he’s such a genuine and chill person. Great Episode :-)

  • @bernicehoggsfav
    @bernicehoggsfav Před 2 měsíci +1

    I'm glad you asked about James. I don't get James extreme reaction. I believe it was for the show.