If my mom didn't call me my phone wouldn't ring. No DMs, no woman ever complimenting me. No place to hangout. No friends to workout with. Nothing..male loneliness is on a whole nother level. If your not attractive enough,tall enough, rich enough... Well your invisible. online dating crushing, to see that not one woman even liked your picture. This is how many men feel. I workout, go outside, read, pray and this feeling stalks me. I went to the store and the clerk reminded me they had my favorite drink in stock, she was actually nice to me. Just her brief moment of kindness made me feel better wow somebody sees me...
These are facts. I am not the best looking woman in the world, late 30s, but one day I was feeling bored and lonely and decided I wanted a date that night. I made a bumble account, put on a few cute outfits, snapped some selfies and within a few hours I had like 8 guys who wanted to take me out to dinner that night.
@AliSand I’m in my early 30’s no kids but I live with my family and it seems to be a problem. I feel kinda shamed for it. Or the guy will always ask what neighborhood I live in and if it’s more than a 20 minute commute they literally say no thanks. And this is in NYC! But I think it’s because there are SO many options out there the guys can be very picky. They can choose a girl that lives 5 minutes away and has her own place. Much easier to hookup this way
@@TravelBug189 I grew up very sheltered and lived with my parents. I also live in a very expensive State, so many people live at home or have roommates. With that being said, some men are looking for a woman that will move him into her home. Also whenever a woman lives with her family that includes her Father or a Father figure, men know it will be harder to use and manipulate that woman. So unfortunately some men will purposely seek single women that does not have a Father like figure in her life.
The average man gets nothing close to what the average woman gets in terms of online responses but he can still get someone offline. It's a matter of him accepting what he can get.
@@natashadickson4819 thats not true. Shows how out of touch with reality women like you are. There are literally thousands of guys who are invisible. Not even a single woman wants them since standards are sky high these days. Even being nice and sincere is wrong these days.
@@Lee0297556 Then that immediately invalidates his statement. He claims that single men are lonelier than single women, but that is clearly not the case. He’s wrong. Women and men have it equally hard when it comes to being single and trying to find a partner
He is speaking statistical facts. As a woman. I have emotional support from good friends and family. Woman seek therapy and more often men don’t. Y’all better listen to him.
@@christianhenry4173 therapy is treatment and YOU have to do the actual work on yourself. Therapy can only take you as far as YOU are willing to go in healing yourself.
@@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 no. Therapy can not help against demons. You have to seek Jesus for that. Treating spirits is a bad idea. I've seen demons possess people it's real
Because we know nobody gives a fuck lots of men go thru life knowing nobody coming to our rescue we’ll be told to man up and it and deal with it and stop crying be a man even from women …. But if a women breaks a nail the world stops what it’s doin to come to the rescue women even have other women that support their bad habits and decisions men don’t have the benefit
People need a real connection with someone, not just some temporary attention...that they will probably regret later. You can be around a crowd of people and still feel lonely if you don't feel seen and heard.
The thing is, women make connections with the opposite sex better than men, women can live of off temporary attention from men (non sexual) because they have other real life, solidified connections.
Nah I rather be alone I never was good being around other people. But if someone gets hurt I'll help him or her but hanging out no sir I'm the kind that do thing's alone. Does it hurt being alone perhaps would it feel better to have someone there to talk to maybe? But at the end that's who I I'm.
You've never seen a butt-ugly married dude? Isn't "she married down" one of the most overused jokes in the world? Join something, go make friends with people - make sure there's some girls in the friends mix. All of my married friends ended up with one of their friends. Because she knows them and LIKES who they are as people.
@@EaglesQuestions if he does he will be happy till he hangsout with them but at the end of the day he will be coming back to a empty house stop feeding people delusion . be realistic mate most men are lonely most of them are good men rejected by the society based on their looks even if they are working hard society ignores them and moves on
I'm a redpilled guy, but I know for certain there are great, and even very attractive women out there who would be amazing wives and mothers, but dudes be failing at recognizing them and being social with them. These women tend to be reserved and homebodies. you have to have an eye for them: minimal or no makeup...barely or no social media...few friends and quiet personality. You might see them around taking contemplative walks, enjoying nature or reading books. it takes a bit of old school dedication and persistence and making them feel safe and comfortable to get pass their barriers.
Hi Tim. With all due respect sir this sounds like a socializing problem. Great that your decent looking and financially secure. Women in the same category have needs beyonds that. Are you loyal, kind, charismatic, and patient? Do you take a genuine interest in the women you ask out. You described yourself like it was a job interview. A real relationship is more than that
Because you’re looking for a date. You’ll meet someone who you’ve never thought you could in the most unexpected places. Go out there enjoy life, and follow your passions and you’ll meet like minded people.
That’s the reality. That’s why these men alwz try to threatened women by saying that we will be the lonely catwomen in our 40s when in reality single catwomen r not at all lonely
@@Rieka.Chanel I'm not black neither do I live in America. I do often listen to Stephan but this statement is trash. Because a man says he doesn't have children doesn't mean he's telling the truth. A lot of men deny having children when they actually do. Stephan should know that. Too many Nick Canons and women who encourage his nonsense. Women need to wake up and realise the minds of most men these days.
Sometimes, a single mother could be a result of a being a widow ... A man won't know unless he's mature enough to understand her situation. In that case, she's not single by choice - but by circumstance. Each should be honest about what they need from the other and stick to their standards.
She will certainly be able to find a man to give her attention.. and her ideal man won’t be a man that can’t get a woman to say “hello” to him love him. A widowed woman is the only reasonable single mother.. she didn’t wreck her home. All was well until the man passed. So this doesn’t serve as a good parallel scenario to the clip
It's honestly hard alot of times to distinguish between a mother whose husband died and a single mother because the widows peers and family have convinced her that those two are the same thing. Therefore the widow ends up telling men they're a single mother without first clarifying that she's widowed, which drives good men away
@@Daniel-fh3tl How would that drive men away. Whether she's windowed or not...she still has a kid. Either you can deal with it or not. It is what it is
I’m a woman and there is a single guy who is and has been attracted to me for some time( 3 years). I’ve invite him out. He’s always busy. I call him. He never answers. I text him. He never responds. He won’t even sleep with me. But he gets extremely jealous if I talk about hanging with other guys. I don’t know what his issue is and I don’t care. There are other options, and if he’s to scared or whatever to make a move. I’m moving on to someone who will. Some of these guys are single because they let their hang ups hold them back. Women have hang ups too, but we are still open to dating someone we vibe with.
And how is this about male loneliness? Did he say to you like "oh I'm so lonely, I don't have attention from you..." and so on? I agree with you that it sucks if you don't have attention to him. But you know a lot of guys can't even start relationship, because girls are not showing any interest
Are you sure that you have self assesed the situation correctly. Woman always think they are higher than they are because they get attention and men not
Men: We're seen as batteries. Once we run out of power/energy, people will throw us away. We mean nothing to the people in our lives, other than what they can get from us and our hard work.
If you look at like that, you will never be able to have a relationship. Your contribution as a man is important and valuable to women; being a protector and provider is not a bad thing. Stop looking at it as something negative for people and women to need you and society wouldn’t be in this situation currently. Women and children have to be provided for, there’s no modern approach about it. No matter how much society develops and evolves; they need to be taken care of and cared for and they need stability or else they will have to leave and work and make a living for themselves and have less time to date. Women are traumatized of being abandoned and cheated on and lied to and abused by men that they literally are in survival mode 24/7 trying to be as less of a burden as they feel, they dont want to have to ask men for anything out of fear of being told no or controlled about it, they are all frantically staying in school “just in case” he leaves or they have to raise a child alone.Smh It’s sad how women were pushed to their limit almost globally smh
I don't have stats but I've seen a lot where it does come down to accountability. More women than men are going to therapy, are healing, are working on themselves to become better....now it's men's turn. I've heard more often than not that men do recognize their downfalls, their dysfunction, but they have that "that's who I am, it is what it is" mindset and use it as an excuse to hurt not only others but themselves as well. Growth and change is hard, the hardest thing I've ever had to do and it's a lonely journey, but worth it in the end. Recognize what role you play in any relationship and take time for yourself to heal and reflect and grow
Oh hell nooooo lol all the ladies I’ve seen in therapy are fuck boys minus the pee pee and the manliness. They never change. They just cry and manipulate and read horoscopes
You fail to realize that society and a lot of households tell men it’s not okay to show emotion and to man up when they feel pain or sadness. I was told the same thing. Especially in school growing up, if you were the boy who cried when he got hurt then you’re the weak one, you’re the one that’s teased for it. You eventually learn not to cry as a child under any circumstance in public to avoid ridicule. As a man I would never do so in a public place, a funeral? Maybe. Women are usually given a green light. Most men feel they don’t need help even in their darkest hour. A lot of that is denial, another reason is being too afraid to ask for help. I understand people need to be accountable, but walk in those shoes for a mile. It’s not as easy as just healing or going to therapy for most men. Think about this, around 80% of suicides in the US are by men alone in 2021.
@kieranmooney3453 that's my point, nowadays it's not a stigma the way it was before. Women are conditioned to get married, have kids, stay home, and now society is redefining typical gender norms. Break that old cycle and now more people are going to therapy, women are getting married later, if at all. Staying in old societal norms is what caused the issue of so many unhealthy relationships to begin with.
In all my years I have legit only meet one single dad … so they might put it on paper for there taxes but there are so fewww dads who actually have there kids . Usually it’s grandma who has the child while the dad is gone and kidless
I'm not even a mother, but the audacity of this comment. I know YOU have been ran through for sure. A woman creates life. You suppress life with your vile vitriol
I feel that some men choose to be single because they prefer the freedom and ability to focus on important things to them!!!! I also believe that not all men are fated to find true love and settled down
Bs , I realize how much men truly want female companionship. They just aren’t attractive enough or good enough earners or even good people . Men are biologically wired to want women in a very strong animalistic way.
It’s statistically proven that the minority of men impregnate the majority of women throughout history which is due to many factors. 40% of men have reproduced historically 80% of women have reproduced historically The number has gotten a lot closer to each other but women still are reproducing with the minority of men. That’s why you are able to find more black men who are single and childless than to find black women who are the same
Some men are noncommittal by choice like my ex who cheated and got his side hoe pregnant. Men make babies but choose to be single and they still have several babie mothers this can go both ways.
@@bunchielove6893 yeah, the average man doesn't have 'side hoes' or even a girlfriend to begin with. Blaming all men because the only ones you're willling to date are assholes is nuts
This is facts! I’m a lesbian y’all and the amount of men who try it is ridiculous to me. They literally tell me “I know you’re gay but I can love you better “ etc .. I feel sorry for them sometimes because I don’t even look that feminine and it makes me think wow these femme chicks out here really don’t want y’all
@@amazinggrace313 - No, he's not. He is hitting on femininity. Someone with a vagina and ovaries who can actually give birth, is female. For him, that is a valid option at reproduction. It has a low chance of success because you are gay, but it is also low risk. So he shoots his shot and move on.
I met a 70 year old white man at the dog park who had just moved to the city. He said that as soon as he got a dog and started getting out of the house he instantly met people. He is now in a relationship after being in a new city for 5 months. You have to try.
Well someone had to get her pregnant. Doubt it was another woman. I could go get attention, but that's not the attention I want. I see so many women looking for a good man. And I see men all bitter because someone hurt them. No woman wants a men who is going to say "she's only looking for a meal ticket" or "I don't want an independent woman." Maybe you dont see what I see on social media.
Let me translate what you're saying: "As a woman, I want only the best. Plenty of women are looking for the best (rich and handsome). I don't care if men feel used and less than human because my gender only sees them as resources. I will never admit that my gender also produces absolutely shitty women and goldigging princesses because we are allergic to accountability. I am blaming the men for not being better instead and being bitter. Step up and stand aside! Cos we are qweens!"
@muhammadhuzaifahmohamedsal2697 way to put words in my mouth. I don't need you to ASSUME what I'm saying. I speak pretty straight forward and completely. I don't have time or patience for petty crap like this. You bitter child. Such a turn off.
Why do men think sexual attention is something to be happy about. When they speak of all the attention women get it’s not for relationships it’s for sex . Just because y’all are horn dogs it’s our fault
That's why I find it hard to believe that when a woman says she's been single for long, hasn't had sex or prefers to stay single it's because she's cherry picking. If she wanted the D she would get it immediately from any guy she wants because she's got options. Us guys don't even have options 😂
@@motherhoodsbeauty9279yes. That's why prostitutes have been existing from before the beginning of sedentary societies. That's also why war is so prevalent throughout history. You need to dispose that surplus of lonely and dangerous men. Scary stuff, and can be used as a misogynistic argument, but sometimes reality doesn't give a shit about our feelings.
The thing about this argument is that it shows he really doesn't understand women, and is only thinking of his perspective. For women, it's not easy to find someone who wants to be a partner, only to find a man to get physical with. But just getting physical with a man doesn't make women feel less lonely, it can actually feed the loneliness in some. So a man can't find the physical attention he needs to thrive, a woman can't find the emotional attention she needs to thrive. Sounds like they are both lonely and that it doesn't need to be a ridiculous contest to the bottom.
@Christopher Orrante If men are actually lonely, maybe they just need to get out and meet people. Go shopping and you'll be surrounded by people. Get on a team sport and you will be surrounded by people. Oh, what's that? Men would still be lonely because their sexual needs aren't being fulfilled? That's just your feelings, sweety. See how feelings matter? If needs aren't being met, they aren't being met. It doesn't matter if you don't understand it, it's still a thing. Women don't always understand why men so desperately need sex for happiness...but it's still a critical need in most men's minds, isn't it?
@@DL-ce4vy lol I feel you but men can’t even get physical with woman. It’s easier for y’all to get that. It’s not the best, but at least y’all can find a sex partner 😂😂😂😂
@Kenneth Faried Sure, but finding a sex partner doesn't ease the loneliness. The problem with these videos, regardless or which gender is targeted is it uses the logic of one to evaluate the logic of the other. A man saying "women can't be lonely, they can always find someone to sleep with" is using the same logic as a woman saying "I'm a high value woman, I have an education and a great job".
@@DL-ce4vy of course finding a sex partner isn’t everything. All I’m saying is women complaining about getting crumbs as in “ sex, and men can’t even get the crumbs lol 😂 that’s all I’m saying. There’s levels to it.
It’s statistically proven that the minority of men impregnate the majority of women throughout history which is due to many factors. 40% of men have reproduced historically 80% of women have reproduced historically The number has gotten a lot closer to each other but women still are reproducing with the minority of men. That’s why you are able to find more black men who are single and childless than to find black women who are the same
The numbers aren't skewed. 54% of men are single and childless. 33% of men are married, leaving 13% of men. 25% of women are married. So 13% of men (you could add some married men and get it to 15%) are responsible for the 70% of children born out of wedlock.
Men know how to smash a lot of women but most don’t know how to create intimacy with one woman. *That* is where the loneliness kicks in, not being single in itself.
Women know how to smash a lot of men but most don't know how to create intimacy with one man. Actually, scratch that. Most women only "date up" and since most men who are at the top or even slightly above average(in all spheres like income, looks, status etc) get multiple dates and enjoy the fruits of their hard work(most of the time) or the fruits of luck, and cannot commit to multiple women by very definition(even if they wanted to), the rest of the men who for various reasons couldn't achieve the success of the men above, will stay single because the top are getting the majority of the women. Most women want the illusion of a relationship they don't want to build it from scratch even if there is a chance with an average guy. Because building is hard, and women don't want to take part in the heavy lifting.
@@gamesandthoughts2388 women don’t build relationships with average men? 🥴 We say yes so often to men our lives our literally threatened when we reject a man’s advances and men are quick to brag about that when they’re gloating about not being born a woman. For me it’s simple: make sure the one ball with is the one you can bawl with; I’m sick of the, “no one was there for me when I got nut cancer,” posts on SM.
Absolutely true! Me I feel like no woman interested on me then I focused more only on my self then I learned a lot in life, I became more educated and my mind learn fast how things work and I became financial stable and focus to help my father, my sister and my brothers!
Don’t assume that single men are lonely. Some are , some aren’t. I realized the need for some self improvement and embarked on that journey a few years back. One of the many items I’ve discarded is loneliness.
The loneliest person is the person that no one cares to understand. Tell me, who gives a fuck about men? Men aren't understood, they are valued for what they offer. Truly alone in spirit. We have to ve okay with being alone. We can never know the feeling of love the way we feel it for women and children. Men don't get that luxury. Maybe there's a Angel out there to break me from my cynicism but I doubt it.
Loneliness is a choice. We women put in a lot of effort to make and keep our relationships with friends and family. Men seem to approach women as conquests, not as people. Men approach other men as enemies or to impress each other. Men often don't stay connected to family members, to the point they avoid family, even avoiding their own partner and the partners family. If you are lonely, you need to build relationships with other humans and not just a romantic one. Women will avoid men that have no friends or family because we don't want to be the only person in a mans life, which often translates to being personal therapist, and only source of interaction. You can't expect one person to be the only person in your life.
Stop the cap and you just admitted that you keep lonely men lonely on purpose what logic is that most adults don't hang out with friends every day they have families, your just a narcissist.
@@ktv9247 boy logic. 'I haven't left the basement in three months but its so random strangers fault that I am not willing to meet people and make friends!' Did you know that not everyone you meet will be your new instant bff? Ive had to meet hundreds of people to have a handful of close friends. Do the work or stop whining.
@wolfdogg9938 whining about what because it could get violent no one is a basement hermit your a narcissist and a lame instead of offering friendship you victim blame
@@kennethfaried341 a man can so , get a lot of attention . After he build his self up , and establish his status . That is just the way of life a man has to gain status , to gain a woman's attention . Why because that shows he has ambition
@@Greatsouthernbelle of course. Most Men can get attention only when they put in the work forreal which takes time. Just saying a beautiful or even an average looking woman with a body can get more attention without becoming successful because men are less selective.
Dude, I survived being in a Hit & Run Car Accident, 6-month Coma . . . . . . . AND since They didn't Catch that other Driver . . . . . I Lost EveryThing !!!!! Even My 3-year GF, at that Time . . . . . had STOPped TALKing to Me But I that just gives Me more Time to Read & Study 🙏The❤️Bible🙏
Single man : Can spend time with parents and take care of them in their old age, help others, can do volunteer in community, interact with more people, travel world, have time pray, meditate, yoga, hiking, enjoying coffee at corner bakery, play any sport, explore different foods and cultures, stay connected with friends and siblings, follow passion, free to do anything, have time to work inner spiritual awakening, be grateful and remind everyday is bless to be alive, no arguments and drama, less pressure and responsibility, can love to themselves and to the world, change job or move wherever they want, they can take care their body, mind and stay fit, single is in peace, we came alone and we will die alone, within this body and mind, we are single. Society and our unconscious mind trained us not to see how beautiful life itself is, when we are alone. There so many things we can do when we’re single. Dont listen to outside noise and get distract. Work on yourself and make yourself wiser, better and happier than yesterday. Life itself is reason enough to be happy. If you live joyfully, everyday is holiday, whatever you do, do it with mindfully and joyfully. We are blessed to be alive right now, and that is the most important for you.
Most men get neither laid nor committed relationships despite trying to “better themselves.” Be grateful you have the human touch and validation given to you on the silver platter.
A female can get attention, compliments, and hell even hugs with little effort. A man can go YEARS without a compliment, a pat on the shoulder, a hug. You have no clue what loneliness is.
@@neoloanderson6676 Thats why nice guys finish last. The bad boy top 5% of men get the womens most fertile years. While the good men can have the leftovers and pick up the pieces and be a step-dad. Theres a reason convicted criminals have more children than non-convicted.
What men have is personality. If he has a crappy personality and no self confidence(cause even jerks can get girlfriends as long as they are confident), they are going to be alone.
Most of the time its not confidence...but ego. Yall be thinking they are confident, when it just be All ego. While a guy can approach you a lil nervous...but could be extremely confident. Its a reason hes nervous...but nothing to do with his inner confidence ma. FR. IJS
Oh yeah, and when you woo that girl she will then after some time like "I know it is [generic reason of break up that can be not even real], so it is your fault and I can't be with you, you know". [immediately leaves to another man] +1 to that giant pool of just break ups in general, not even talking about divorces (there are stats about it with pretty sad numbers) which are even occur less often as I think
That’s why women need to take control of their lives and bodies and get on contraception. I was a teen mom. I wanted more than one child but that would be irresponsible to do. I get so much crap from single women with multiple children. I tell them that’d be most unfair for the children and irresponsible. Children are a choice and the fathers are left with their freedom; women are left raising their children.
How does this clip have anything to do with women getting on contraception. He's literally talking about MEN being lonely. He's not talking about children although he reference it at the beginning. And I think his point there was that most women have kids so even if they are single (not married) they are not lonely because they have a family. Men who are single usually don't have kids or don't claim their kids. So they are alone and lonely.
Men who are semi-good looking and have money are never single. They can be short, fat, old and bald but the money makes up for everything. And forget about the men that are good looking and rich. They have a different girl every night
@@rebeccabillingslea Yes, that’s why I said “single”, not “lonely” for that reason. They might have a bunch of girls around and still be lonely, it’s true. But the average man is single, alone and lonely.
@@adangerousmind357 ur unfamiliar with science cus that’s not how that works 🤷🏽♀️ humans are social. you try hard to sound smart but it’s clear anyone’s better off not giving u the time of day
Matter of fact post a link to *Any Article* about a man being “lonely” that wasn’t written by a female.. we’ll die waiting. Keep Jordan Peterson out of it because he’s just repeating the BS women write 🙄 He lost *ALL* credibility with his No kids= immature comment
Also men by default are hardwired to look for many women to sleep with, they are literally looked at the top if they have more experience with women. Literally just look it up.
The sad part is people believe things they see on social media without researching actual statistics. 😢 Single men and woman go outside and go for what you want😊
1) there* not they're, makes no f ing sense just as everything else you said. 2) There is no equal amount of single people with children. Open google and find the god damn statistics for your region 3) Multiple women can be impregnated by one man.
I'm not here to bitch around this, but, single men are lazy to do something to attract a woman's attention. Women want attention, but looking around there are those men in personal limbo (not ready/wanting commitment) or players What is natural to humans is connection and intimacy. These days you have to be clever enough not to fall into a trap of relationship that is not for you. This always on the lookout, checking, questioning, is putting us (and some men) to the state of never relaxing and enjoying Yes, we enjoy the alone time, but together time with our special person.... I want to live this. I'm tired of games and the timing, and questions and all of this We as humanity are sick Narcissistic behaviour is advertised. I want to feel at home with my husband, and relaxed and normal. A human
Its true, I was 35 when I finally decided I wanted to get married and try having some children so I hit the online dating apps and found my husband within 8 months. By the time I was 38 I had two children. I also KNEW it was going to happen. Getting a husband and family life was as easy as ordering a takeout.
I'm a 34 year old man, I decides I wanted a serious commitment and tried the dating apps, not one woman like my profile unless i liked theirs first, sure I got a few matches, talked, but they'd always disappear on me. I'll admit it, I break down into tears at night and think of how my mother probably won't ever get to see me have kids of my own. And fucking kills me inside.
@@juleswinnfield9097 seriously, try out co-parenting or semen donation, lots of (lesbian)couples and singles are looking for donors or co-parents. If kids are your ultimate goal, there are numerous ways to achieve that, no need to just give up.
Best thing I could tell young men out there is this. Make some male friends. Thats it. Join a billiards club, go to a cigar lounge, go to a sports bar, try to hang out with that dude from work. Im telling you, thats the first step.
Women are also just better at being alone in general. We aren’t so desperate for sex either, like a lot of men are. Women can be abstinent for years happily working on her career while men are celibate because they can’t get any
It’s pretty nice. The worst thing a woman can do is have kids with the wrong man. Y’all see how men talk about single mothers. We are escaping a nightmare by being single with no kids
Dont Atlanta have much more women than men?? And regardless, the good men are a little more choosy when it comes to their mate...thats why we're more single. We dont holla at women all day every day. So maybe for a guy like me, it may be a little easier than say a big city like NYC where im at...where most ppl are not truly single, cause they got a lingering someone...same as other big cities like LA and stuff. But i Always felt that my ideal partner may live somewhere down south. Idk. 🤔
I'm a man and I like being single. I am not lonely. I don't know what you are talking about. My married acquaintances are harried and tired, I'm very glad not to be in their position.
Well said. Saw videos of reactions of girls who "transitioned" (became a guy). They all were crying like crazy saying "nobody told me how alone/lonely being a man/guy is". They wished to be a girl again and get that "easy attention" he AND those girls were saying.
It’s true! I went for my monthly grocery shopping & was complimented by a few people, It felt weird & awkward but it also felt good to know I’m desirable! I feel for the extroverts, they must feel so lonely being alone. YT is the only socialising I get, it’s my version of “touch grass”!
With all due respect, any person can make the choice to not be lonely by giving themselves out there and socializing with neighbors and family and friends and getting involved in activities that take your mind off being lonely such as gardening or riding your bicycle little hiking and swimming or doing other outside activities to prevent loneliness. I feel that it's a choice of a person wanting to wallow in the fact that they're lonely and doesn't have the capability to get out there and do things and be active so that they're not lonely
Yes, men just expect women to fall on their peen just because they exist. They don’t do anything to fix their shortcomings and just stay in their parents basement being resentful. You rarely see this problem with single women.
@@kezmenflowers8691 Then why are you speaking as in multiple comments that the everyday man (yourself) isn’t able to do these things when you aren’t in the same boat? What are stopping these men? Since as you know so much about them?.
WOOOWWW Brotha Stephan I NEVER heard of or knew about this DAMN EVERYTHING You said was ON POINT THANKS for ALL of your Wisdom LUV and Appreciate You ❤🥰👏🏾
It's not about growing a backbone. This generation has become VERY superficial standards so regular men are constantly being overlooked. A study showed that on dating sites women respond to men 4% of the time while men respond to women around 18% of the time. Average men are an afterthought nowadays.
@MCH Most quality people aren't even on dating apps because they loathe the experiences they provide. Looks only get either gender so far. I've tried to talk to average men and men I consider incredibly handsome alike and its like the initiative is gone. I know men have complained about women being lazy in dating as well when it comes to apps. Unless something is done to change the dating culture that exists today, I suspect more and more people will find peace in their singleness preferred over substandard relationships.
I became completely detached from finding women in these streets. It’s just not worth it at the moment. Everyone’s being not only selfish, but too selfish.
Your videos are usually on point, but I respectfully disagree. Men can go around promising things to girls and get all the attention...women have to fit a certain standard for men to even think about getting with them.
Not true. This means u r not getting the guys u want to come to you. Guaranteed you have some men trying to talk to you. Again all u ladies r dealing with the same 10 to 15 percent guys. The bad boys and f boys r the ones pursuing today. Im telling u if he comes up to u and comfortable he is a player in todays world.
This topic always reminds me of Norah Vincent. The woman who disguised herself as a man, just to experience life as a biological human-male, for a while. The experience caught her by surprise and she was startled at how lonely and unhealthy life is for men. The experience tumbled her into a deep depression, even after she transitioned back into being a woman and because of this, she later committed suicide (in 2022.) She has a book out, narrating her experience entitled 'Self-Made Man: My Year Disguised as a Man'
People GENERALLY feel sympathy and empathy towards lonely women. Yet they will fully blame men for their loneliness, telling them to fix it themselves.
I wish all the men in their 20’s who are going through this mental and physical isolation would stick it out into their 30’s. If you do this, you will unlock a new vigor in life, I PROMISE you! There will still be problems, but the smoothness and finesse in which you tackle those problems will radiate an attractive energy about you. Trust me. Hang in there 💪 30’s are where you’ll get your second wind.
I dont what anyone says, my truth is romance is a big fat joke because folks treat it that way for decades. Honesty, consideration, loyalty, faithfulness doesnt matter to most girls i tried to get to know because all they do is lie to me, reject me, ignore me and ghost me. Big money and good looks matter to them, i seen it all and i believe it. Im the only loser in my family whose never been in a relationship, but they are or used to be. Despite me working for over 4 and a half years, that never enough to show girls that i never cared about their money. I never cared about their looks, unlike the guys they choose over me.
I find this very hard to believe. To me it seems like it’s waaaaay easier for men to find women to date than for women. The guy I liked is dating 3 women right now…and I can’t even get 1 guy to take me on a date.
This is extremely true.. bro I'm only 19 and most the time I'm hella lonely, dont have friends irl who I can go and see or hang out with.. I only have my brothers and, well, they be mostly in their rooms playing xbox or some shit whilst I feel uninterested in most the things I'm supposed to like doing.. never been in a relationship, no girls message me, my notifications for example will only be related to whatever apps I have installed and the most messages I get are my twin sending me memes and I'm not even able to laugh at them sometimes coz I hate life so much.. the only woman who cares about my existence or where I go is my mother.. thats it. I could literally leave the house to go for a lonely ass walk by myself in the countryside and the only person who asks if I'm okay or if I'll be safe is her. No women want me even when I workout as much as I do, even when I take care of myself in all my spare time, even when I'm supposed to be "attractive" to some women that I've spoken to on dating apps before, I'm tall as well so anyone who says that height and attractiveness are what get you women.. it fucking doesn't. Most the time I feel like no woman even desires a person like me coz there's better guys, more attractive guys, guys who have their life together already, guys who can drive, guys who make lots of money, guys who ACTUALLY have friends.. the list goes on. I basically just wake up and do the same shit every god damn day and hope that something maybe comes up like going to the gym when my mum is off work or her shifts finished early.. or maybe for once if my bros actually wanna watch a movie or go for a night walk but other than that, I'm a loser living in the middle of nowhere with a boot load of anxiety about moving my life forward with no real support group to help me make the first step and I feel like everythings a pointless joke
Are you a woman? There is a feeling of being alone and like being alone in general, having no friends, no intimacy and sometimes even normal talking with someone at all. I never seen a woman who is that single as man could be. And yes, I know that one man who is desperate, but he is trying to find someone. He is in 30, pretty looking, but he "connected" to me, like for emotional support. And he can't get a gf, because he has a small salary and he wants only care and unerstanding for the gf. Yet all of them who he has met in his life were like "I don't really care about you actually" and showing small to 0 interest in him
@@w9906 and I have a right to disagree with you because of your POV. If by this comment you are "thats what I think and I don't care about this situation honestly" then we shouldn't discuss it at all
You females hear what you want. Instead of telling the small percentage of men that have children out of wedlock to not abandon their children, how about telling women to stop giving their womb up until they are married. But we know, it's easier to just blame men.
Ok Stephan....it is time to take a break. These generalizations are "killers". And I continue to question how you have been at this, this long and I never see you in a relationship. I would prefer to take advice from a healthy cardiologist, a fit fitness instructor, a realtor that owns a home, an investor with a solid financial portfolio.
If my mom didn't call me my phone wouldn't ring. No DMs, no woman ever complimenting me. No place to hangout. No friends to workout with. Nothing..male loneliness is on a whole nother level. If your not attractive enough,tall enough, rich enough... Well your invisible. online dating crushing, to see that not one woman even liked your picture. This is how many men feel. I workout, go outside, read, pray and this feeling stalks me. I went to the store and the clerk reminded me they had my favorite drink in stock, she was actually nice to me. Just her brief moment of kindness made me feel better wow somebody sees me...
Asian women
@@xyzyyyy night try
But instead of waiting for a woman to make a move why don’t men like you approach real women. Maybe men are also looking for stereotypes
I'm really sorry your experiencing this ❤
@@fedjynaaltine8492what stereotypes?
These are facts. I am not the best looking woman in the world, late 30s, but one day I was feeling bored and lonely and decided I wanted a date that night. I made a bumble account, put on a few cute outfits, snapped some selfies and within a few hours I had like 8 guys who wanted to take me out to dinner that night.
@AliSand I’m in my early 30’s no kids but I live with my family and it seems to be a problem. I feel kinda shamed for it. Or the guy will always ask what neighborhood I live in and if it’s more than a 20 minute commute they literally say no thanks. And this is in NYC! But I think it’s because there are SO many options out there the guys can be very picky. They can choose a girl that lives 5 minutes away and has her own place. Much easier to hookup this way
Lol. Yeah, i feel u. Mann
@@TravelBug189 No, those guys are just losers. We know how it is in this city mami. You good.
@Marcelina Single men who look at single mommas are doing so because they are considered a guaranteed lay.
@@TravelBug189 I grew up very sheltered and lived with my parents. I also live in a very expensive State, so many people live at home or have roommates. With that being said, some men are looking for a woman that will move him into her home. Also whenever a woman lives with her family that includes her Father or a Father figure, men know it will be harder to use and manipulate that woman. So unfortunately some men will purposely seek single women that does not have a Father like figure in her life.
I am 29 and he’s so fucken right a 22 year old man jumped off of my apartment building yesterday to his death. And yes, he was lonely, just as I am.
Smh everyone has choices
@@joeroot9142 that they do
Gotta work on yourself buddy and socialize
Why weren’t you friends? If you knew you were both lonely?
Do the same as him bub
The average woman has her DMs flooded with men ready to give time, attention, dates, etc. The average MAN is nothing close to this.
Is that why men hate women, but still want to date them?
The average man gets nothing close to what the average woman gets in terms of online responses but he can still get someone offline. It's a matter of him accepting what he can get.
@@natashadickson4819yes but still it’d take awhile for him to find someone is the whole point my g. It would take the chick no time at all
@@natashadickson4819 thats not true. Shows how out of touch with reality women like you are. There are literally thousands of guys who are invisible. Not even a single woman wants them since standards are sky high these days. Even being nice and sincere is wrong these days.
Y'alls problem is you keep looking for women on SM. Go outside and talk to people. Golly. Just looking for excuses and it's tiring.
She can't even fathom what he's saying 😂
Because what he’s saying isn’t true
@@MJ4lifecalifornia it might not be for you but on average it's very true
@@Lee0297556 Then that immediately invalidates his statement. He claims that single men are lonelier than single women, but that is clearly not the case. He’s wrong. Women and men have it equally hard when it comes to being single and trying to find a partner
@@MJ4lifecaliforniayou have zero idea what reality is
@@MJ4lifecaliforniawith all do respect, you’re completely delusional
He is speaking statistical facts. As a woman. I have emotional support from good friends and family. Woman seek therapy and more often men don’t. Y’all better listen to him.
Yeah men need to seek therapy, and do self care, self work!
Therapy only takes you so far. You still have to live reality.
@@christianhenry4173 therapy is treatment and YOU have to do the actual work on yourself.
Therapy can only take you as far as YOU are willing to go in healing yourself.
@@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 no. Therapy can not help against demons. You have to seek Jesus for that. Treating spirits is a bad idea. I've seen demons possess people it's real
Because we know nobody gives a fuck lots of men go thru life knowing nobody coming to our rescue we’ll be told to man up and it and deal with it and stop crying be a man even from women …. But if a women breaks a nail the world stops what it’s doin to come to the rescue women even have other women that support their bad habits and decisions men don’t have the benefit
People need a real connection with someone, not just some temporary attention...that they will probably regret later. You can be around a crowd of people and still feel lonely if you don't feel seen and heard.
Well put 🙌🏾
The thing is, women make connections with the opposite sex better than men, women can live of off temporary attention from men (non sexual) because they have other real life, solidified connections.
Nah I rather be alone I never was good being around other people. But if someone gets hurt I'll help him or her but hanging out no sir I'm the kind that do thing's alone. Does it hurt being alone perhaps would it feel better to have someone there to talk to maybe? But at the end that's who I I'm.
Social media fucked everything up.
I'll be 36 this year and I've never been in a relationship because of looks i just give up period
Dont give up you never know.
You've never seen a butt-ugly married dude? Isn't "she married down" one of the most overused jokes in the world?
Join something, go make friends with people - make sure there's some girls in the friends mix. All of my married friends ended up with one of their friends. Because she knows them and LIKES who they are as people.
Dam sorry bud really I am
@@EaglesQuestions if he does he will be happy till he hangsout with them but at the end of the day he will be coming back to a empty house stop feeding people delusion . be realistic mate most men are lonely most of them are good men rejected by the society based on their looks even if they are working hard society ignores them and moves on
Same, just turned 36. Virgin, no relationship experience, no real friends.
I want to give up on life.
The average everyday to day guy is not being shown no love or being respected. Men are in fact a lot more lonely now than before.
Yup yout right 👍🏿
You aren’t owed anything
@@ccleavemebe4790 neither are you
@@ccleavemebe4790facts
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Staying single is the best decision in life.
It’s sad because I’m a single dude in my late 20’s. He’s speaking facts.
In your 20s should be focusing on grinding anyways be strong brother
I’m still glad to be a man even tho the struggles, because being a dude is cool
I’m 19
@@Joe-fj6dj I really started grinding recently
But I still need to learn a lot
I’m 42, tall, athletic, decent job, almost mortgage free and can’t get a decent date at all
I'm a redpilled guy, but I know for certain there are great, and even very attractive women out there who would be amazing wives and mothers, but dudes be failing at recognizing them and being social with them. These women tend to be reserved and homebodies. you have to have an eye for them: minimal or no makeup...barely or no social media...few friends and quiet personality. You might see them around taking contemplative walks, enjoying nature or reading books. it takes a bit of old school dedication and persistence and making them feel safe and comfortable to get pass their barriers.
Take a vacation to Thailand you'll find plenty nice young ladies thin and in good shape, not a bunch of old and fat Karen's
Hi Tim. With all due respect sir this sounds like a socializing problem. Great that your decent looking and financially secure. Women in the same category have needs beyonds that. Are you loyal, kind, charismatic, and patient? Do you take a genuine interest in the women you ask out. You described yourself like it was a job interview. A real relationship is more than that
Because you’re looking for a date. You’ll meet someone who you’ve never thought you could in the most unexpected places. Go out there enjoy life, and follow your passions and you’ll meet like minded people.
Go asia then you'll definitely find more than a decent woman 😉
That’s the reality. That’s why these men alwz try to threatened women by saying that we will be the lonely catwomen in our 40s when in reality single catwomen r not at all lonely
Facts. That's threatening women with a good time. Women are actively opting out of relationships.
Sound like cat lady😂😂😂😂
The WALL is undefeated
Po baby, stay strong, like you been doing, you got this...😂😂😂😂
@@dmillionaire7 yes i am a cat lady with 2 cute dogs and a loving, caring man who earn her own money
@@rakhikar8416these Men? I never in my life made fun of a woman or anybody for having cats and loving them. Hell I have a cat 😊
So if there are more single women with children who's doing the impregnation ?
The same men getting multiple women pregnant unfortunately
@@Rieka.Chanel I'm not black neither do I live in America. I do often listen to Stephan but this statement is trash. Because a man says he doesn't have children doesn't mean he's telling the truth. A lot of men deny having children when they actually do. Stephan should know that.
Too many Nick Canons and women who encourage his nonsense.
Women need to wake up and realise the minds of most men these days.
Men constantly move around making babies with many women!
@@Rieka.Chanel Exactly
@@eac-guy7272 Huh??
Sometimes, a single mother could be a result of a being a widow ... A man won't know unless he's mature enough to understand her situation. In that case, she's not single by choice - but by circumstance. Each should be honest about what they need from the other and stick to their standards.
She will certainly be able to find a man to give her attention.. and her ideal man won’t be a man that can’t get a woman to say “hello” to him love him.
A widowed woman is the only reasonable single mother.. she didn’t wreck her home. All was well until the man passed.
So this doesn’t serve as a good parallel scenario to the clip
I think we know that already ma
It's honestly hard alot of times to distinguish between a mother whose husband died and a single mother because the widows peers and family have convinced her that those two are the same thing. Therefore the widow ends up telling men they're a single mother without first clarifying that she's widowed, which drives good men away
@@Daniel-fh3tl How would that drive men away. Whether she's windowed or not...she still has a kid. Either you can deal with it or not. It is what it is
@@Daniel-fh3tl that is definitely understandable
I’m a woman and there is a single guy who is and has been attracted to me for some time( 3 years). I’ve invite him out. He’s always busy. I call him. He never answers. I text him. He never responds. He won’t even sleep with me. But he gets extremely jealous if I talk about hanging with other guys. I don’t know what his issue is and I don’t care. There are other options, and if he’s to scared or whatever to make a move. I’m moving on to someone who will. Some of these guys are single because they let their hang ups hold them back. Women have hang ups too, but we are still open to dating someone we vibe with.
Your right in all honesty 😂
And how is this about male loneliness?
Did he say to you like "oh I'm so lonely, I don't have attention from you..." and so on?
I agree with you that it sucks if you don't have attention to him. But you know a lot of guys can't even start relationship, because girls are not showing any interest
@@mysentl24ep54But sometimes they do and they don't respond, maybe they're scared, but a woman can't do anything about that.
Are you sure that you have self assesed the situation correctly.
Woman always think they are higher than they are because they get attention and men not
Stop wasting your youth and precious energy on this dude. He's taken up far too much of your time already.
The reason women find this hard to believe is because women always see men with women or women after him vs a woman. If she is alone you SEE it.
wtf can't even decipher what you're trying to say here. please go back to school.
Men: We're seen as batteries. Once we run out of power/energy, people will throw us away. We mean nothing to the people in our lives, other than what they can get from us and our hard work.
True woman say stay commited to the relationship but then they leave you without loyalty
If you look at like that, you will never be able to have a relationship. Your contribution as a man is important and valuable to women; being a protector and provider is not a bad thing. Stop looking at it as something negative for people and women to need you and society wouldn’t be in this situation currently.
Women and children have to be provided for, there’s no modern approach about it. No matter how much society develops and evolves; they need to be taken care of and cared for and they need stability or else they will have to leave and work and make a living for themselves and have less time to date.
Women are traumatized of being abandoned and cheated on and lied to and abused by men that they literally are in survival mode 24/7 trying to be as less of a burden as they feel, they dont want to have to ask men for anything out of fear of being told no or controlled about it, they are all frantically staying in school “just in case” he leaves or they have to raise a child alone.Smh
It’s sad how women were pushed to their limit almost globally smh
I don't have stats but I've seen a lot where it does come down to accountability. More women than men are going to therapy, are healing, are working on themselves to become better....now it's men's turn. I've heard more often than not that men do recognize their downfalls, their dysfunction, but they have that "that's who I am, it is what it is" mindset and use it as an excuse to hurt not only others but themselves as well. Growth and change is hard, the hardest thing I've ever had to do and it's a lonely journey, but worth it in the end. Recognize what role you play in any relationship and take time for yourself to heal and reflect and grow
Oh hell nooooo lol all the ladies I’ve seen in therapy are fuck boys minus the pee pee and the manliness. They never change. They just cry and manipulate and read horoscopes
You fail to realize that society and a lot of households tell men it’s not okay to show emotion and to man up when they feel pain or sadness. I was told the same thing. Especially in school growing up, if you were the boy who cried when he got hurt then you’re the weak one, you’re the one that’s teased for it. You eventually learn not to cry as a child under any circumstance in public to avoid ridicule. As a man I would never do so in a public place, a funeral? Maybe. Women are usually given a green light. Most men feel they don’t need help even in their darkest hour. A lot of that is denial, another reason is being too afraid to ask for help. I understand people need to be accountable, but walk in those shoes for a mile. It’s not as easy as just healing or going to therapy for most men. Think about this, around 80% of suicides in the US are by men alone in 2021.
@kieranmooney3453 that's my point, nowadays it's not a stigma the way it was before. Women are conditioned to get married, have kids, stay home, and now society is redefining typical gender norms. Break that old cycle and now more people are going to therapy, women are getting married later, if at all. Staying in old societal norms is what caused the issue of so many unhealthy relationships to begin with.
From my personal experience women are less likely to take accountability and move on to another man easier
@@TheColtonStreeter I like to call them the Taylor Swifts of our time
Now watch all the Swifties come at me....
In all my years I have legit only meet one single dad … so they might put it on paper for there taxes but there are so fewww dads who actually have there kids . Usually it’s grandma who has the child while the dad is gone and kidless
63% of men are single, while only 34% of women are single.
Which means women are side hoes to a minority of men.
“Even a good dad is just an ok mom”-Michelle Wolf
Most mothers are trash
True. They put off the responsibility of being a real father.
So you chose pookie and Ray Ray for a so called father. Right pure BS. Every man I know is in his child's life
Stay strong brothers. DO NOT settle for a ran through single mother.
Much respect!
This advice is what keeps men single. And I don’t have kids, just being real.
I'm not even a mother, but the audacity of this comment. I know YOU have been ran through for sure. A woman creates life. You suppress life with your vile vitriol
@@AstroBaby91 The life you single mothers create primarily perpetuates other single mothers and criminal men. Destruction of society basically.
Indeed Please stay away....
I feel that some men choose to be single because they prefer the freedom and ability to focus on important things to them!!!! I also believe that not all men are fated to find true love and settled down
Bs , I realize how much men truly want female companionship. They just aren’t attractive enough or good enough earners or even good people . Men are biologically wired to want women in a very strong animalistic way.
Married women are the loneliest along with single men.
Married single mothers. It’s a real thing.
Yup, married single mother syndrome
Wrong
Not even close
Nope. The saying is true. Women FEEL lonely, feelings, men are ACTUALLY lonely. Big difference.
I am going to need to see some stats on this one. Where the documents that prove this Stephan?
I co-sign. Its true...for most Good Men though. Not the players.
It’s statistically proven that the minority of men impregnate the majority of women throughout history which is due to many factors.
40% of men have reproduced historically
80% of women have reproduced historically
The number has gotten a lot closer to each other but women still are reproducing with the minority of men.
That’s why you are able to find more black men who are single and childless than to find black women who are the same
@@jayc5756people who say how “good” they are usually turn out to be pos.
Some men are noncommittal by choice like my ex who cheated and got his side hoe pregnant. Men make babies but choose to be single and they still have several babie mothers this can go both ways.
😂😂😂😂
Exactly. They want us to feel sorry for these lonely men. A lot of them could be married if they decided to.
@@bunchielove6893NEVER. If you open your eyes, they deserve everything they get. This society was made for males by males and they still complain.
@@bunchielove6893 yeah, the average man doesn't have 'side hoes' or even a girlfriend to begin with. Blaming all men because the only ones you're willling to date are assholes is nuts
Yall don’t understand at all. You just compared a lonely guy who gets none to a guy whose got two women at once
This is why I gave up on women. You learn to avoid them as time goes on.
Loser😂
Exactly
i want to date a girl but i’ve lost trust in them cuz they all leave me after a negligible amount of time
@@kflats😂😂😂😂😂
This is facts! I’m a lesbian y’all and the amount of men who try it is ridiculous to me. They literally tell me “I know you’re gay but I can love you better “ etc .. I feel sorry for them sometimes because I don’t even look that feminine and it makes me think wow these femme chicks out here really don’t want y’all
If a guy shots his shot with a butch lesbian, then he is not gonna be lonely because he shoots his shot with all the women.
@@darriuscole8544 wrong. That’s desperate bs . You’re hitting on masculinity lol
@@amazinggrace313 - No, he's not. He is hitting on femininity. Someone with a vagina and ovaries who can actually give birth, is female. For him, that is a valid option at reproduction. It has a low chance of success because you are gay, but it is also low risk. So he shoots his shot and move on.
lol, these fools are just looking at you as an obstacle to conquer and probably aren’t even capable of live. 🤣🤣🤣
They don't want us. Your right.
I met a 70 year old white man at the dog park who had just moved to the city. He said that as soon as he got a dog and started getting out of the house he instantly met people. He is now in a relationship after being in a new city for 5 months. You have to try.
Good luck trying then people treat you inhumane for 20 years since being a toddler.
Well someone had to get her pregnant. Doubt it was another woman. I could go get attention, but that's not the attention I want. I see so many women looking for a good man. And I see men all bitter because someone hurt them. No woman wants a men who is going to say "she's only looking for a meal ticket" or "I don't want an independent woman." Maybe you dont see what I see on social media.
And I doubt your doubts because one man can impregnate multiple women
Top 20% of men for the 80% of women.
Not unless they are all dating the same men lol
Let me translate what you're saying:
"As a woman, I want only the best. Plenty of women are looking for the best (rich and handsome). I don't care if men feel used and less than human because my gender only sees them as resources. I will never admit that my gender also produces absolutely shitty women and goldigging princesses because we are allergic to accountability. I am blaming the men for not being better instead and being bitter. Step up and stand aside! Cos we are qweens!"
@muhammadhuzaifahmohamedsal2697 way to put words in my mouth. I don't need you to ASSUME what I'm saying. I speak pretty straight forward and completely. I don't have time or patience for petty crap like this. You bitter child. Such a turn off.
Why do men think sexual attention is something to be happy about. When they speak of all the attention women get it’s not for relationships it’s for sex . Just because y’all are horn dogs it’s our fault
That’s true about a man being lonely 😞
yepp and for some the loneliness will drive them insane which means more public tragedies will keep happening
That's why I find it hard to believe that when a woman says she's been single for long, hasn't had sex or prefers to stay single it's because she's cherry picking. If she wanted the D she would get it immediately from any guy she wants because she's got options. Us guys don't even have options 😂
That’s why you men go after prostitute?
Men are primarily seeking sex, not relationships. Anyone can have sex if they’re desperate or willing to debase themselves enough🙃
Sex is not the same as a compatible relationship!
@@motherhoodsbeauty9279yes. That's why prostitutes have been existing from before the beginning of sedentary societies.
That's also why war is so prevalent throughout history. You need to dispose that surplus of lonely and dangerous men. Scary stuff, and can be used as a misogynistic argument, but sometimes reality doesn't give a shit about our feelings.
More and more people would rather be alone and happy, than be with the wrong person and unhappy.
It's pretty simple
Also, single women understand how to build relationships that aren’t entrenched in transactional exchanges
I think women in general
Wow. What a bunch of bullshit.
The thing about this argument is that it shows he really doesn't understand women, and is only thinking of his perspective. For women, it's not easy to find someone who wants to be a partner, only to find a man to get physical with. But just getting physical with a man doesn't make women feel less lonely, it can actually feed the loneliness in some. So a man can't find the physical attention he needs to thrive, a woman can't find the emotional attention she needs to thrive. Sounds like they are both lonely and that it doesn't need to be a ridiculous contest to the bottom.
Men are actually lonely, women feel lonely
@Christopher Orrante If men are actually lonely, maybe they just need to get out and meet people. Go shopping and you'll be surrounded by people. Get on a team sport and you will be surrounded by people. Oh, what's that? Men would still be lonely because their sexual needs aren't being fulfilled? That's just your feelings, sweety. See how feelings matter? If needs aren't being met, they aren't being met. It doesn't matter if you don't understand it, it's still a thing. Women don't always understand why men so desperately need sex for happiness...but it's still a critical need in most men's minds, isn't it?
@@DL-ce4vy lol I feel you but men can’t even get physical with woman. It’s easier for y’all to get that. It’s not the best, but at least y’all can find a sex partner 😂😂😂😂
@Kenneth Faried Sure, but finding a sex partner doesn't ease the loneliness. The problem with these videos, regardless or which gender is targeted is it uses the logic of one to evaluate the logic of the other. A man saying "women can't be lonely, they can always find someone to sleep with" is using the same logic as a woman saying "I'm a high value woman, I have an education and a great job".
@@DL-ce4vy of course finding a sex partner isn’t everything. All I’m saying is women complaining about getting crumbs as in “ sex, and men can’t even get the crumbs lol 😂 that’s all I’m saying. There’s levels to it.
Does it not take 2 people to make a baby? How could the statistics be so skewed?
It’s statistically proven that the minority of men impregnate the majority of women throughout history which is due to many factors.
40% of men have reproduced historically
80% of women have reproduced historically
The number has gotten a lot closer to each other but women still are reproducing with the minority of men.
That’s why you are able to find more black men who are single and childless than to find black women who are the same
the subject is loneliness. Pay attention.
Because it's not true. Men walk away from kids and can say that they don't have children. These men also end up being lonely.
@@anticssmantics8446 actually he is right. You should pay attention.
The numbers aren't skewed. 54% of men are single and childless. 33% of men are married, leaving 13% of men. 25% of women are married. So 13% of men (you could add some married men and get it to 15%) are responsible for the 70% of children born out of wedlock.
Yep. I never had a date or gf ever in my life. I'm in my 30s. I pretty much gave up looking for a life partner. I don't fit women standards.
It's better that youre at peace than with bad company. Hope a good woman crosses your path really soon!
Attention from men- one thing- a healthy relationship btw a man& me and mutually attracted to- where are they 😉
Exactly 😂.
You can always cosplay
Men know how to smash a lot of women but most don’t know how to create intimacy with one woman.
*That* is where the loneliness kicks in, not being single in itself.
Women know how to smash a lot of men but most don't know how to create intimacy with one man.
Actually, scratch that. Most women only "date up" and since most men who are at the top or even slightly above average(in all spheres like income, looks, status etc) get multiple dates and enjoy the fruits of their hard work(most of the time) or the fruits of luck, and cannot commit to multiple women by very definition(even if they wanted to), the rest of the men who for various reasons couldn't achieve the success of the men above, will stay single because the top are getting the majority of the women.
Most women want the illusion of a relationship they don't want to build it from scratch even if there is a chance with an average guy. Because building is hard, and women don't want to take part in the heavy lifting.
@@gamesandthoughts2388 women don’t build relationships with average men? 🥴
We say yes so often to men our lives our literally threatened when we reject a man’s advances and men are quick to brag about that when they’re gloating about not being born a woman.
For me it’s simple: make sure the one ball with is the one you can bawl with; I’m sick of the, “no one was there for me when I got nut cancer,” posts on SM.
Most men don't smash. Inexperienced men are an ever growing share of the male population. Explain that.
@fashionablyate888 you cannot speak for attractive men who have Autism
The chads and tyrones are indulging in that behavior at high clip but majority is dating "PALMela."
If a girl thinks she’s ugly, no way is she going to make a move. Shell just stay single.. 😢
Absolutely true! Me I feel like no woman interested on me then I focused more only on my self then I learned a lot in life, I became more educated and my mind learn fast how things work and I became financial stable and focus to help my father, my sister and my brothers!
Get your passport men. That’s it
Yep
Don’t assume that single men are lonely. Some are , some aren’t. I realized the need for some self improvement and embarked on that journey a few years back. One of the many items I’ve discarded is loneliness.
Nice try
Sure lol
I’m definitely lonely but I’d rather be lonely than stuck in a relationship where I’m trapped and gaslit constantly.
You're lonely too. It's a cope
@@coreyarueckeryou'd bite my hand If I offered you a nice woman
The loneliest person is the person that no one cares to understand. Tell me, who gives a fuck about men? Men aren't understood, they are valued for what they offer. Truly alone in spirit. We have to ve okay with being alone. We can never know the feeling of love the way we feel it for women and children. Men don't get that luxury. Maybe there's a Angel out there to break me from my cynicism but I doubt it.
Yes there is. That angel is called a therapist. Women keep saying it, but it falls on deaf ears.
@@elyse443 they don't want help. They want you to just accept them being severely damaged.
Therapy doesn’t help at all
Loneliness is a choice. We women put in a lot of effort to make and keep our relationships with friends and family. Men seem to approach women as conquests, not as people. Men approach other men as enemies or to impress each other. Men often don't stay connected to family members, to the point they avoid family, even avoiding their own partner and the partners family. If you are lonely, you need to build relationships with other humans and not just a romantic one. Women will avoid men that have no friends or family because we don't want to be the only person in a mans life, which often translates to being personal therapist, and only source of interaction. You can't expect one person to be the only person in your life.
Stop the cap and you just admitted that you keep lonely men lonely on purpose what logic is that most adults don't hang out with friends every day they have families, your just a narcissist.
@@ktv9247 boy logic. 'I haven't left the basement in three months but its so random strangers fault that I am not willing to meet people and make friends!'
Did you know that not everyone you meet will be your new instant bff? Ive had to meet hundreds of people to have a handful of close friends. Do the work or stop whining.
@wolfdogg9938 whining about what because it could get violent no one is a basement hermit your a narcissist and a lame instead of offering friendship you victim blame
@@wolfdogg9938Yeah another internet incel spewing bad logic and hating on men behind a fake profile. Pathetic. What a pos
@@ktv9247 you modern males are so whinny. My god, it’s like taking candy from a child. So gross.
But she can get attention. Attention and a relationship is totally different
Both are intertwined
Men can’t even get attention lol
@@kennethfaried341 a man can so , get a lot of attention . After he build his self up , and establish his status . That is just the way of life a man has to gain status , to gain a woman's attention . Why because that shows he has ambition
@@Greatsouthernbelle of course. Most Men can get attention only when they put in the work forreal which takes time. Just saying a beautiful or even an average looking woman with a body can get more attention without becoming successful because men are less selective.
@@kennethfaried341Average still takes work!
Dude,
I survived being in a Hit & Run Car Accident, 6-month Coma . . . . . . .
AND since They didn't Catch that other Driver . . . . . I Lost EveryThing !!!!!
Even My 3-year GF, at that Time . . . . .
had STOPped TALKing to Me
But I that just gives Me more Time to Read & Study 🙏The❤️Bible🙏
I'm sorry to hear that but Yes Heavenly Father will renew our spirits, hope, faith
Single man :
Can spend time with parents and take care of them in their old age, help others, can do volunteer in community, interact with more people, travel world, have time pray, meditate, yoga, hiking, enjoying coffee at corner bakery, play any sport, explore different foods and cultures, stay connected with friends and siblings, follow passion, free to do anything, have time to work inner spiritual awakening, be grateful and remind everyday is bless to be alive, no arguments and drama, less pressure and responsibility, can love to themselves and to the world, change job or move wherever they want, they can take care their body, mind and stay fit, single is in peace, we came alone and we will die alone, within this body and mind, we are single. Society and our unconscious mind trained us not to see how beautiful life itself is, when we are alone. There so many things we can do when we’re single. Dont listen to outside noise and get distract. Work on yourself and make yourself wiser, better and happier than yesterday. Life itself is reason enough to be happy. If you live joyfully, everyday is holiday, whatever you do, do it with mindfully and joyfully. We are blessed to be alive right now, and that is the most important for you.
Man I really wish I had your mindset coz very rarely do I actually feel that way
Solitude is prison for the man who hates himself
Facts 💯
Getting male attention does not make a woman less lonely . Being able to easily find a man to sleep with doesn’t make a woman less lonely.
YES. Getting laid ≠ cured loneliness
As a woman. I agree
Most men get neither laid nor committed relationships despite trying to “better themselves.” Be grateful you have the human touch and validation given to you on the silver platter.
A female can get attention, compliments, and hell even hugs with little effort. A man can go YEARS without a compliment, a pat on the shoulder, a hug. You have no clue what loneliness is.
At least she's being acknowledged
Chase Your PURPOSE , Don’t Chase No Woman 💪🏾💵 Get To it
his 💰 🤑 can help him, alot of these men get good women ,then cheat, and end up lonely, cause they won't let him come back
85%of women are sleeping with 25% of Men leaving the rest of us Lonely af
SAD
Who fault is that.
@@joeroot9142 Yeah just grow taller and be a millionaire
Sex does not equate to not being lonely, you lot are confused!
@@neoloanderson6676 Thats why nice guys finish last.
The bad boy top 5% of men get the womens most fertile years.
While the good men can have the leftovers and pick up the pieces and be a step-dad.
Theres a reason convicted criminals have more children than non-convicted.
She’s too old to not know this.
What men have is personality. If he has a crappy personality and no self confidence(cause even jerks can get girlfriends as long as they are confident), they are going to be alone.
Most of the time its not confidence...but ego. Yall be thinking they are confident, when it just be All ego.
While a guy can approach you a lil nervous...but could be extremely confident. Its a reason hes nervous...but nothing to do with his inner confidence ma. FR. IJS
Oh yeah, and when you woo that girl she will then after some time like "I know it is [generic reason of break up that can be not even real], so it is your fault and I can't be with you, you know". [immediately leaves to another man]
+1 to that giant pool of just break ups in general, not even talking about divorces (there are stats about it with pretty sad numbers) which are even occur less often as I think
When she said in what universe that kinda pissed me off a little 🙃
Me 2
That’s why women need to take control of their lives and bodies and get on contraception.
I was a teen mom. I wanted more than one child but that would be irresponsible to do.
I get so much crap from single women with multiple children.
I tell them that’d be most unfair for the children and irresponsible. Children are a choice and the fathers are left with their freedom; women are left raising their children.
Me too, I would’ve had 10children if the circumstances were set up right, but oh well.
How does this clip have anything to do with women getting on contraception. He's literally talking about MEN being lonely. He's not talking about children although he reference it at the beginning. And I think his point there was that most women have kids so even if they are single (not married) they are not lonely because they have a family. Men who are single usually don't have kids or don't claim their kids. So they are alone and lonely.
Men who are semi-good looking and have money are never single. They can be short, fat, old and bald but the money makes up for everything. And forget about the men that are good looking and rich. They have a different girl every night
That doesn't mean you're not lonely. You can be with someone and still be lonely
So if you dont know they have money...does that still apply?
@@rebeccabillingslea True
@@rebeccabillingslea Yes, that’s why I said “single”, not “lonely” for that reason. They might have a bunch of girls around and still be lonely, it’s true. But the average man is single, alone and lonely.
This shorts made my day 😍.
Bet the woman on there just enjoys hearing how men are suffering, what a rude woman trying to talk him down. How rude.
Seems as if Those single men are lying
Restaurant serves men eating alone more the women
Id rather be single than be with any of these internet/social media-driven women who see men as non-human.
I only have youtube. Everybody is not the way you think they are😢
Real Men don’t get *Lonely* 😂 Y’all tryna but female characteristics on Us! That’s not how this works
r u unfamiliar with science? bc anyone get lonely 😂😂😂
@@careforjusticealways I said Real *Men* which You are clearly Unfamiliar with 😴
@@adangerousmind357 ur unfamiliar with science cus that’s not how that works 🤷🏽♀️ humans are social. you try hard to sound smart but it’s clear anyone’s better off not giving u the time of day
Matter of fact post a link to *Any Article* about a man being “lonely” that wasn’t written by a female.. we’ll die waiting. Keep Jordan Peterson out of it because he’s just repeating the BS women write 🙄 He lost *ALL* credibility with his No kids= immature comment
@@adangerousmind357 u have issues😂
Well why can’t these men be faithful then?? The math ain’t mathing!
The women aren't any more faithful, so your dichotomy is false.
Lmao women cheat all the time why can’t women be faithful y’all cheat like a MF ngl.😅
Also men by default are hardwired to look for many women to sleep with, they are literally looked at the top if they have more experience with women. Literally just look it up.
Because women want 1000 options and if they had then where is committed
Most men are very faithful. You just pick minority that are not since you like chad Tyrone
It’s always amazing that women are surprised by this
Maybe because a lot of men act like they only care about being physical. Stop lying about the amount of women you sleep with.
Yh only the top 20% of men are visible to them that’s why they think all men are like that
Because men say get a cat to women while they should be the one getting the cat.
The sad part is people believe things they see on social media without researching actual statistics. 😢 Single men and woman go outside and go for what you want😊
Soooooo are these women being impregnated by osmosis? Because they're are LITERALLY an equal amount of single people with children😂
In the black community there’s more women with children than men with children
1) there* not they're, makes no f ing sense just as everything else you said.
2) There is no equal amount of single people with children. Open google and find the god damn statistics for your region
3) Multiple women can be impregnated by one man.
No they aren’t
You LITERALLY have no clue on what you speak of.
I'm not here to bitch around this, but, single men are lazy to do something to attract a woman's attention.
Women want attention, but looking around there are those men in personal limbo (not ready/wanting commitment) or players
What is natural to humans is connection and intimacy.
These days you have to be clever enough not to fall into a trap of relationship that is not for you. This always on the lookout, checking, questioning, is putting us (and some men) to the state of never relaxing and enjoying
Yes, we enjoy the alone time, but together time with our special person.... I want to live this.
I'm tired of games and the timing, and questions and all of this
We as humanity are sick
Narcissistic behaviour is advertised.
I want to feel at home with my husband, and relaxed and normal. A human
wtf did you even just say?
What really pisses me off about women is they play a lot of Mind Games and for those women grow up.
Exactly
@@shmoofgang the fact that you couldn’t understand is one of the reasons why lonely men will most likely continue to be lonely
Non attractive men have a very low chance of attracting a partner. Unless he's crazy rich.
Its true, I was 35 when I finally decided I wanted to get married and try having some children so I hit the online dating apps and found my husband within 8 months. By the time I was 38 I had two children. I also KNEW it was going to happen. Getting a husband and family life was as easy as ordering a takeout.
I'm a 34 year old man, I decides I wanted a serious commitment and tried the dating apps, not one woman like my profile unless i liked theirs first, sure I got a few matches, talked, but they'd always disappear on me.
I'll admit it, I break down into tears at night and think of how my mother probably won't ever get to see me have kids of my own.
And fucking kills me inside.
@@juleswinnfield9097 aww I'm sorry about that
@Myview246 not your fault, just the way it is, I guess.
@@juleswinnfield9097 seriously, try out co-parenting or semen donation, lots of (lesbian)couples and singles are looking for donors or co-parents. If kids are your ultimate goal, there are numerous ways to achieve that, no need to just give up.
I'm crying 😭😭😭😭 as man.
Best thing I could tell young men out there is this. Make some male friends. Thats it. Join a billiards club, go to a cigar lounge, go to a sports bar, try to hang out with that dude from work. Im telling you, thats the first step.
Women are also just better at being alone in general. We aren’t so desperate for sex either, like a lot of men are. Women can be abstinent for years happily working on her career while men are celibate because they can’t get any
Oh shut up. You are definitely not better at being alone
You have it backwards so bad it hurts
Working on your career and not playing the feminine role to be a mother and start a family but working on your career to be lonely with no kids
It’s pretty nice. The worst thing a woman can do is have kids with the wrong man. Y’all see how men talk about single mothers.
We are escaping a nightmare by being single with no kids
Facts why That’s there woman and men in this world
I live in Atlanta and I don't find this to be true.
Right!!!they hv 3 or more on a regular 🙄
Dont Atlanta have much more women than men??
And regardless, the good men are a little more choosy when it comes to their mate...thats why we're more single. We dont holla at women all day every day.
So maybe for a guy like me, it may be a little easier than say a big city like NYC where im at...where most ppl are not truly single, cause they got a lingering someone...same as other big cities like LA and stuff. But i Always felt that my ideal partner may live somewhere down south. Idk. 🤔
Only Tyrones or Pookie and Ray Ray can score in Atlanta.
I'm a man and I like being single. I am not lonely. I don't know what you are talking about. My married acquaintances are harried and tired, I'm very glad not to be in their position.
You are the select few
If theres a single mother there is a single father. He just dgf about the kids and is MIA
Well said. Saw videos of reactions of girls who "transitioned" (became a guy). They all were crying like crazy saying "nobody told me how alone/lonely being a man/guy is". They wished to be a girl again and get that "easy attention" he AND those girls were saying.
It’s true! I went for my monthly grocery shopping & was complimented by a few people,
It felt weird & awkward but it also felt good to know I’m desirable!
I feel for the extroverts, they must feel so lonely being alone.
YT is the only socialising I get, it’s my version of “touch grass”!
With all due respect, any person can make the choice to not be lonely by giving themselves out there and socializing with neighbors and family and friends and getting involved in activities that take your mind off being lonely such as gardening or riding your bicycle little hiking and swimming or doing other outside activities to prevent loneliness. I feel that it's a choice of a person wanting to wallow in the fact that they're lonely and doesn't have the capability to get out there and do things and be active so that they're not lonely
Yes, men just expect women to fall on their peen just because they exist. They don’t do anything to fix their shortcomings and just stay in their parents basement being resentful. You rarely see this problem with single women.
Definitely not. It's not that easy for the everyday to day average man.
@@kezmenflowers8691 what’s stopping you from getting involved in a simple hobby with other people? 💀
@@solaris5922 I do those things
@@kezmenflowers8691 Then why are you speaking as in multiple comments that the everyday man (yourself) isn’t able to do these things when you aren’t in the same boat? What are stopping these men? Since as you know so much about them?.
How Moms become single? The men have to leave and choose to be lonley
Me staring at how beautiful her brows are while they talkin bout something so serious 😂😂😂.
Yet they all cheat once they get in relationships
I never come across so many crybaby men in my life what’s wrong with these men they need to grow a backbone
Tru
WOOOWWW Brotha Stephan I NEVER heard of or knew about this DAMN EVERYTHING You said was ON POINT THANKS for ALL of your Wisdom LUV and Appreciate You ❤🥰👏🏾
It's not about growing a backbone. This generation has become VERY superficial standards so regular men are constantly being overlooked. A study showed that on dating sites women respond to men 4% of the time while men respond to women around 18% of the time. Average men are an afterthought nowadays.
@MCH Most quality people aren't even on dating apps because they loathe the experiences they provide.
Looks only get either gender so far. I've tried to talk to average men and men I consider incredibly handsome alike and its like the initiative is gone.
I know men have complained about women being lazy in dating as well when it comes to apps.
Unless something is done to change the dating culture that exists today, I suspect more and more people will find peace in their singleness preferred over substandard relationships.
For real. They forget THEY are the ones who have testosterone and refuse to use it. SMH.
FACTS!!! 100% THIS IS DEFINITELY THE TRUTH. Stay strong my brothers.
I’m 39 and no kids and 😞.. gaved my best youthful days to the wrong person. As a result “No kids”
As a guy. Good stay like you are forever 😂
I became completely detached from finding women in these streets. It’s just not worth it at the moment. Everyone’s being not only selfish, but too selfish.
You did the right thing. Stop looking for a bunch of ferals. Hopefully youll meet someone who's emotionally healthy and mature
Find a man. Since you think those aren’t selfish.
Your videos are usually on point, but I respectfully disagree. Men can go around promising things to girls and get all the attention...women have to fit a certain standard for men to even think about getting with them.
Not true. This means u r not getting the guys u want to come to you. Guaranteed you have some men trying to talk to you. Again all u ladies r dealing with the same 10 to 15 percent guys. The bad boys and f boys r the ones pursuing today. Im telling u if he comes up to u and comfortable he is a player in todays world.
Wtf, men have to fit a certain standard too.
Men rather be alone in peace playing PlayStation other than dealing with wicked women
This topic always reminds me of Norah Vincent. The woman who disguised herself as a man, just to experience life as a biological human-male, for a while. The experience caught her by surprise and she was startled at how lonely and unhealthy life is for men.
The experience tumbled her into a deep depression, even after she transitioned back into being a woman and because of this, she later committed suicide (in 2022.)
She has a book out, narrating her experience entitled 'Self-Made Man: My Year Disguised as a Man'
People GENERALLY feel sympathy and empathy towards lonely women. Yet they will fully blame men for their loneliness, telling them to fix it themselves.
No they don't. They don't give a s--t about them either. Where's your evidence?
I wish all the men in their 20’s who are going through this mental and physical isolation would stick it out into their 30’s. If you do this, you will unlock a new vigor in life, I PROMISE you! There will still be problems, but the smoothness and finesse in which you tackle those problems will radiate an attractive energy about you. Trust me. Hang in there 💪 30’s are where you’ll get your second wind.
Right on
im 28y its bullsheet
My biggest fear is that I’m going to be lonely after high school for that reason
I’m a lonely 26 year man
I dont what anyone says, my truth is romance is a big fat joke because folks treat it that way for decades. Honesty, consideration, loyalty, faithfulness doesnt matter to most girls i tried to get to know because all they do is lie to me, reject me, ignore me and ghost me. Big money and good looks matter to them, i seen it all and i believe it. Im the only loser in my family whose never been in a relationship, but they are or used to be. Despite me working for over 4 and a half years, that never enough to show girls that i never cared about their money. I never cared about their looks, unlike the guys they choose over me.
I find this very hard to believe. To me it seems like it’s waaaaay easier for men to find women to date than for women. The guy I liked is dating 3 women right now…and I can’t even get 1 guy to take me on a date.
This is extremely true.. bro I'm only 19 and most the time I'm hella lonely, dont have friends irl who I can go and see or hang out with.. I only have my brothers and, well, they be mostly in their rooms playing xbox or some shit whilst I feel uninterested in most the things I'm supposed to like doing.. never been in a relationship, no girls message me, my notifications for example will only be related to whatever apps I have installed and the most messages I get are my twin sending me memes and I'm not even able to laugh at them sometimes coz I hate life so much.. the only woman who cares about my existence or where I go is my mother.. thats it. I could literally leave the house to go for a lonely ass walk by myself in the countryside and the only person who asks if I'm okay or if I'll be safe is her. No women want me even when I workout as much as I do, even when I take care of myself in all my spare time, even when I'm supposed to be "attractive" to some women that I've spoken to on dating apps before, I'm tall as well so anyone who says that height and attractiveness are what get you women.. it fucking doesn't. Most the time I feel like no woman even desires a person like me coz there's better guys, more attractive guys, guys who have their life together already, guys who can drive, guys who make lots of money, guys who ACTUALLY have friends.. the list goes on. I basically just wake up and do the same shit every god damn day and hope that something maybe comes up like going to the gym when my mum is off work or her shifts finished early.. or maybe for once if my bros actually wanna watch a movie or go for a night walk but other than that, I'm a loser living in the middle of nowhere with a boot load of anxiety about moving my life forward with no real support group to help me make the first step and I feel like everythings a pointless joke
I don't agree. I think both single men & women are equally lonely. I don't have kids & cannot attract a decent, straight, single man.
Are you a woman?
There is a feeling of being alone and like being alone in general, having no friends, no intimacy and sometimes even normal talking with someone at all.
I never seen a woman who is that single as man could be. And yes, I know that one man who is desperate, but he is trying to find someone. He is in 30, pretty looking, but he "connected" to me, like for emotional support.
And he can't get a gf, because he has a small salary and he wants only care and unerstanding for the gf. Yet all of them who he has met in his life were like "I don't really care about you actually" and showing small to 0 interest in him
@@mysentl24ep54Are you a man? I have a right to my opinion as you, yours. Period
@@w9906 and I have a right to disagree with you because of your POV.
If by this comment you are "thats what I think and I don't care about this situation honestly" then we shouldn't discuss it at all
Where do I find this single man without kids. I'm sorry but I've been waiting for a man without kids...
There's plenty. Theyre just invisible to you
They are everywhere. The ones you don't like and don't approach 😂
Be prepared to lead and take care of him like you're his mama😂
AN ACTUAL AND FACTUAL MESSAGE..💯✌
Maybe don't abandon your kids, go to therapy and acknowledge women's new role in society and its disparity..then you may not be so lonely.
There’s a crazy idea.
You females hear what you want. Instead of telling the small percentage of men that have children out of wedlock to not abandon their children, how about telling women to stop giving their womb up until they are married. But we know, it's easier to just blame men.
Ok Stephan....it is time to take a break. These generalizations are "killers". And I continue to question how you have been at this, this long and I never see you in a relationship. I would prefer to take advice from a healthy cardiologist, a fit fitness instructor, a realtor that owns a home, an investor with a solid financial portfolio.