By the time they come back though, I will have moved on! That’s the paradox. If they need that much time, they never valued you much to begin with and their actions certainly speak louder than their words!
That is so damn true. I am painfully feeling it right now. If we carried ourselves in the best way possible, it's easier to walk away knowing we did our best.
It's alright bro. Sometimes it takes time for them to understand what it meant to them. And when they come back, if you still want to go back to them... t's ok
Also they won't change because you will always have a weak spot. Working on why this person pr people mistreat you. Then change that. I wouldn't want to have these people around me.
By the time they take action, I’ve already travelled somewhere else 😂 rule n:1 never wait for ANYONE or try to convince them of your value in their life! It’s Their loss always! 👋
Totally agree to think they cared that much to let you go in the first place and if after that they’ve even moved on with someone then it’s pretty much game over for the foreseeable
I need space and I need a break are different things. It's a boundary, and it brings autonomy. It's healthy to have in a marriage as well. Life is a balancing act, but if they are prioritizing you, you are important to them. Some need more than others, some need less; so part of that is a compatibility aspect.
I never thought my ex would come back. Two years later she did, we hung out and it was nice but not something I still wanted. When we broke up I was devastated. When she came back I realized she wasn’t the person I had idealized in my head.
I agree with Craig. Leave them alone and let them reflect on things. They need time to miss you. It's challenging as our emotions are so tied into the other person. You may say, "but what if they forget about me forever?" No amount of begging or increased texting/calling them will change them. Only time alone and them missing you will they then reach out to you. During this time period, strengthen yourself and work towards being the best version of yourself. I know, I know, but I have all these emotions. Man/Woman, get your shit together and Do something during this empty space. It's not fun, but neither is being in the dark place. Live Your Life...Love Life...Love yourself and see what happens....
Yes, the main thing that I do that really helps, is workout, work and read books. The reading really helps me feel free productive especially when it’s teaching me things
I give people time and space. Result: I've been alone and lonely for years. People miss you when they need something from you. Otherwise they don't give shit about you.
Keep the ball in your court If you are valuable to a person it doesn't matter what, they will find a way to reach out to you or find you. If they don't you just got the answer Know your value❤
Put the phone down and the social media and live in the real world. Because that’s where you want certain people to show up for you. You don’t need a text from them you need their presence.
I agree with Craig. And while I am giving them time and space to miss me, I am taking the time and space to keep it moving because I am not going back. They will perpetually miss me. I am gone.
That's the issue, certain ppl are just twisted and only wanna regain access to you. They then show their true colors, devaluing you once again, and the toxic cycle then repeats itself...Work on "the cut them off" game and none of this will be necessary
perhaps you're not learning what the lesson is , you just let them come back w/no consequence and there is you can forgive and still be friends w/them or forgive and never speak to them again but once you learn the lesson you will figure out how to treat this person accordingly just saying!
During that time, I stay away. I'll make sure I'm meeting newer people who actually want to communicate, and I don't have to disappear. In fact, I'm a firm believer when he needs space because he doesn't know how he feels. I make sure I move on without him.
@@theempire00 true bro , when you truly ❤️ someone , you never stop 🛑 ❤️ing that person , no miles neither time will ever take that ❤️ away , I don't care how long it has been , they may have moved on , doesn't mean the ❤️ has , leaving is easier said than done
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Youre a cruel person. How do you know what people feel about me?
Exactly! I’m sorry you’ve had to go through that same terrible treatment. Our current society prides itself on narcissism, manipulation, abuse and selfishness rather than empathy, genuine love, balanced reciprocation and good natured persons and connections.
That’s what I’m going through and to be honest it hurt like hell when after a year and a half I still did not receive any apologies for their horrible treatment of me. It just shows that even though you give and give, it doesn’t necessarily make the person value or appreciate you; it just shows what a self serving taker they really are!!!
@@susiemac6295Your comment made me so happy! A fellow compassionate person. They say to be the best version of yourself is to be selfish, to embrace "The world doesn't care about your feelings. You are on your own." I'm been trying to implement that but it's been impossible.
Please listen to this older lady most guys came back. Work on yourself. Enjoy your summer. It is not easy but you will feel better later. I went almost 6 month. We reconnected and I went back to no contact. After 4 to 5 conversations he sound annoyed. Byye. I deserve someone who appreciates me. I have to let him call me. He is spoiled. I have been truly enjoying my summer. You all have this. It works. ❤ It will be him or a new guy.
Fact is a guy is never alone and you just can't leave him alone, because as soon as you leave him alone he will look for the other options, starts focussing on them and never come back. This is my personal experience.
Exactly. Many years ago my late husband left. He needed space. BS. I think He had a side kick. So I got My own place and carried on with my life. He started calling. I was ignoring the calls. Eventually I would answer and just say how I’m enjoying our separation , I think it was a good idea and told him how busy I am. He did not like that at all. I was supposed to be crying and begging but that’s not my style. I’m not begging anyone to stay with me or come back to me. I have more respect for myself. I wasn’t playing head games, I was reflecting too. 2 months later we got back together. We were happily married for 35 years.
Honestly, it's just sad that they have made this a truth that many believe. Why grown ups just don't act grown? Some of us are not grown mentally and just love to play.
The dating scene is just one big game. I wish it wasn't like this. Just be natural. If someone pushes you away it's them not you. They have serious problems with themselves that they feel they can't connect with someone, serious serious problems. If you need that much space, then you don't need someone it's as simple as that. Time apart and space is not good in My opinion it allows for disconnection and makes you strangers. Its all games tbh
This makes no sense. If both parties do this, no one will reach out. Open conversation is what's needed. If a person is telling you they're not interested or showing you, they don't appreciate you in their lives. Value yourself and walk away.
Eventually one party will reach out. The silence is the time for reflection. After reflecting you can make a wise decision. However, I don’t like it. If someone has to take time to decide if they want me, I get very hurt. If I want someone I know it. I don’t have to think about it. Usually time needed to reflect means your free to screw around. When and if they do come back, and you want them back I suggest you order them to get tested for STD’s and show you the report that everything is negative. Don’t let anyone walk all over you. Hold your head high.
You don't need people that make you sad to come back into your life! If they don't value what they have help them by removing yourself! You deserve better! Remember: The more you forgive them, the worse their behavior gets
And avoidants, anyone who is now exposed has to run and hide their head in the sand, bc of shame of self and in my experience their own inadequacies. Again, their loss, they didn’t have what it takes to do the work to keep you. This is in your favor, ultimately it still stings like a B!!
Any time a man needs that much space from his woman something is off it means he only comes around to use her as a resource this is why you can’t be quick to answer calls and text messages because anything can happen to a person during space and for a person not to check on you just for 1 minute is absolutely ridiculous
Time and space is a therapy to encourage yourself to think it over once again first of all how valuable that person really was Was it worth it? Analyzing each step 👍
This so true. Especially when you meet someone new and exciting and seem like “they are the one”. You’re so drawn to them in every way. You want to be around them more. You think they feel they same too. If the last is true, you have to give them time to respond by allowing them time and space to think of and about you. They will miss you if you place an emotional boundary between the two of you.
This is so true! I have been doing this exact thing with my family members for the past few months. NOW I am starting to perceive and sense that they are missing me lol. I see the difference now. Try this out people! It works! You MUST practice the discipline to AVOID being the first to make first contact!
I take it that this isn’t just for break ups but for any relationship, if it seems unbalanced, or that the connection has faded or that they don’t even respond when you reach out and ask how they are doing, then pulling back and not reaching out may be a good idea, if you feel like the ball is always in your court, then put it back in their court
Having this issue with my daughter. Never responds so I stopped and became silent. I was hoping she would reflect and reach out to me. But I don’t think she noticed. It’s been a 7 months though. I’m starting to believe everyone telling me she married a narcissist. We were so close. There was no fight or argument. Hurts my heart.
@@denisef1153what does her marrying a narcissist have to do with her being in touch with her own mother/parent? No one could stop me from speaking to my own parents.
I gotta say Coach Craig has been a lifeline during my last breakup (2 years ago). She did reach out eventually, I just decided to cut contact for good once the lower separation anxiety gave me a clearer perspective.
That’s very true, I keep in contact every day or other day to see how things are progressing, I understand her situation help her with encouragement & motivation as looking after her mum, she based in Columbia, long distance
Craig, you and everyone on your channel helped me through a breakup, even though I am pretty emotionless right now, you still helped me through the dark days where I didn’t think I’d be able to see the light so for that, I am forever grateful
They probably do. It took over a year for mines to reach out, but before he did I could sense that he wanted to reach out. They always come back when you completely detach.
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Oops ! I wasn't finished yet and accidentally posted my comment. Just want to say to all of you reading this, get the workbooks, and after finishing them, go back and review often. This will help you retain your new skills. You will change for the better and become more confident, secure and have a great understanding of why people act a certain way, including yourself. Be patient. People do not change overnight. Heal yourself through Craig's work books. At some point, you will realize you hardly ever have separation anxiety anymore. Now, people, do yourself a huge favor that will improve the rest of your life. Get the workbooks. I cannot stress enough to everyone out there how much they helped. Craig, lastly, any chance we could ever see a picture of your son and your wife?🙂
This is spot on. The man or woman who is blowing up your phone will be much less attractive to you than the one who gives you space and time to think and wonder about them.
@@CoachCraigKenneth I thought it was acceptable to respond if they reach out? My situation was odd, she didn't ask to leave but for space. And she contacted me after a bad wreck right after the breakup but was very short to respond and let her know I was alive. Then hadn't heard from her until today.
You are right Craig. I struggle with anxious attachment, and I have struggled with separation anxiety. I am working on it. This made me cry because this is so true.
I oft feel if I didn’t reach out to most people I know, I’d never hear from them. So I stopped reaching out and, no surprise, didn’t hear. Makes for a lonely existence, that’s for sure. But I guess I can hold my head high because I’m not appearing needy?
It’s good advice I think, but what if both people follow it? 🤔 I mean after a decent amount of time couldn’t not reaching out be more about your pride and less about waiting for them to miss you?
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Damn right!
Do you do the same? :)
That part❤
Exactly true 💯
By the time they come back though, I will have moved on! That’s the paradox. If they need that much time, they never valued you much to begin with and their actions certainly speak louder than their words!
That is so damn true. I am painfully feeling it right now. If we carried ourselves in the best way possible, it's easier to walk away knowing we did our best.
It's alright bro. Sometimes it takes time for them to understand what it meant to them. And when they come back, if you still want to go back to them... t's ok
I have an impeccable memory though and I remember all the bad that happened with a narc from my past! No second chance for that one…
Also they won't change because you will always have a weak spot. Working on why this person pr people mistreat you. Then change that. I wouldn't want to have these people around me.
Couldn't agree more
If someone needs ample amount of time to miss me…we might as well never speak again.
thats extreme ppl aint around u 24/7
@@ZhayBaeBlissbut dumpers shouldn't expect dumpees and such to almost wait for them for months to years on end, that's ridiculous
By the time they take action, I’ve already travelled somewhere else 😂 rule n:1 never wait for ANYONE or try to convince them of your value in their life! It’s Their loss always! 👋
Exactly right. Their loss will be someone else's gain.
Totally agree to think they cared that much to let you go in the first place and if after that they’ve even moved on with someone then it’s pretty much game over for the foreseeable
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Ameen 💞💞🙏
Sometimes even when you do this, they don't come back. In which case.. they've actually done you a favour
Good people take care of themselves.
Trash took itself out 😂
@@Abundance23164word! 😂
@@Abundance23164Exactly what I was thinking..I realized..
If they need space from me, they ain't the one 😂😂
Everyone needs space sometimes
not necessarily. Think of a time that you didn't act on something, then later we you saw❤ the light. It's all good.
I need space and I need a break are different things. It's a boundary, and it brings autonomy. It's healthy to have in a marriage as well. Life is a balancing act, but if they are prioritizing you, you are important to them. Some need more than others, some need less; so part of that is a compatibility aspect.
@@SirenUndineAmen
Dumbest comment yet. Everyone needs space sometimes.
I never thought my ex would come back. Two years later she did, we hung out and it was nice but not something I still wanted. When we broke up I was devastated. When she came back I realized she wasn’t the person I had idealized in my head.
Neither were my ex husbands or ex boyfriends!!! 😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉
That sounds like good ending for you. Question is. Have you found her replacement?
I agree with Craig. Leave them alone and let them reflect on things. They need time to miss you. It's challenging as our emotions are so tied into the other person. You may say, "but what if they forget about me forever?" No amount of begging or increased texting/calling them will change them. Only time alone and them missing you will they then reach out to you. During this time period, strengthen yourself and work towards being the best version of yourself. I know, I know, but I have all these emotions. Man/Woman, get your shit together and Do something during this empty space. It's not fun, but neither is being in the dark place. Live Your Life...Love Life...Love yourself and see what happens....
Yes, the main thing that I do that really helps, is workout, work and read books. The reading really helps me feel free productive especially when it’s teaching me things
Right after having his cake and eat it too now give them space to see if you’re worthy of that 😅
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Thank you for your kinds words 🫶🏽
@@a.prettiblessing1111 You're welcome. Take care of yourself. There's only one of you.
I give people time and space. Result: I've been alone and lonely for years. People miss you when they need something from you. Otherwise they don't give shit about you.
Fact !!
Yes yes and yes
The one who sincerely cares is far and few between…😢
Some people are just very very cold. They’re manipulative and malicious. They don’t mind hurting you… they never take any blame
Keep the ball in your court
If you are valuable to a person it doesn't matter what, they will find a way to reach out to you or find you. If they don't you just got the answer
Know your value❤
Put the phone down and the social media and live in the real world. Because that’s where you want certain people to show up for you. You don’t need a text from them you need their presence.
this words are needed and reduced my chest weight. will do
Well said!
Yes , right @christinefury1040 , you got that right , I have outgrown so much of it
Good point!
Yes!!
I agree with Craig. And while I am giving them time and space to miss me, I am taking the time and space to keep it moving because I am not going back. They will perpetually miss me. I am gone.
I love this🤣🤣🤣
That's the issue, certain ppl are just twisted and only wanna regain access to you. They then show their true colors, devaluing you once again, and the toxic cycle then repeats itself...Work on "the cut them off" game and none of this will be necessary
perhaps you're not learning what the lesson is , you just let them come back w/no consequence and there is you can forgive and still be friends w/them or forgive and never speak to them again but once you learn the lesson you will figure out how to treat this person accordingly just saying!
Narcissists 😔
During that time, I stay away. I'll make sure I'm meeting newer people who actually want to communicate, and I don't have to disappear. In fact, I'm a firm believer when he needs space because he doesn't know how he feels. I make sure I move on without him.
Pancakes
Its so sad cos if i really loved someone id want them to contact me continuously
These are wise words. Even applies to friendships.
Agreed. I think I'm learning this lesson now, maybe that's why this video popped up for me today.
Some People just don’t want a relationship with you anymore. They move on. And you have to learn to let go and move on also.
Nah never. I will always love her 💔🥺
@@theempire00 true bro , when you truly ❤️ someone , you never stop 🛑 ❤️ing that person , no miles neither time will ever take that ❤️ away , I don't care how long it has been , they may have moved on , doesn't mean the ❤️ has , leaving is easier said than done
Youre a cruel person. How do you know what people feel about me?
Who needs friends like that!! Please don't miss me.
The old saying
Set them free 🦋 if they come back great …if not that’s great too❤
Thank you for the encouragement to maintain the "no contact", now going on 10 days!
N🚫 Contact is a superpower.
any luck or response??
Any response?????
The right people will value you! The wrong ones won’t, no matter what you do!
I made myself even more scarce with people that I had supported my whole life and all it showed me was how completely irrelevant I am to their life
Exactly! I’m sorry you’ve had to go through that same terrible treatment. Our current society prides itself on narcissism, manipulation, abuse and selfishness rather than empathy, genuine love, balanced reciprocation and good natured persons and connections.
That’s what I’m going through and to be honest it hurt like hell when after a year and a half I still did not receive any apologies for their horrible treatment of me. It just shows that even though you give and give, it doesn’t necessarily make the person value or appreciate you; it just shows what a self serving taker they really are!!!
@@susiemac6295Your comment made me so happy! A fellow compassionate person. They say to be the best version of yourself is to be selfish, to embrace "The world doesn't care about your feelings. You are on your own." I'm been trying to implement that but it's been impossible.
Time and space basically means it's over from my experience
Please listen to this older lady most guys came back. Work on yourself. Enjoy your summer. It is not easy but you will feel better later. I went almost 6 month. We reconnected and I went back to no contact. After 4 to 5 conversations he sound annoyed. Byye. I deserve someone who appreciates me. I have to let him call me. He is spoiled. I have been truly enjoying my summer. You all have this. It works. ❤ It will be him or a new guy.
True. Always look out for your own health 1st.
Yeah I just find something else to distract myself & they always come back when I am not interested anymore lol💕🥶
CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS!!!🧘♀️
Fact is a guy is never alone and you just can't leave him alone, because as soon as you leave him alone he will look for the other options, starts focussing on them and never come back. This is my personal experience.
Also when you show them you have your own life going on and happy and confident by yourself in your own life. That's what attracts them too.
Exactly. Many years ago my late husband left. He needed space. BS. I think He had a side kick. So I got My own place and carried on with my life. He started calling. I was ignoring the calls. Eventually I would answer and just say how I’m enjoying our separation , I think it was a good idea and told him how busy I am. He did not like that at all. I was supposed to be crying and begging but that’s not my style. I’m not begging anyone to stay with me or come back to me. I have more respect for myself. I wasn’t playing head games, I was reflecting too.
2 months later we got back together. We were happily married for 35 years.
@@denisef1153 You are a badass!! 👏👏 Most women cannot keep it together like you did.
@@yanise1625 Thank You
Very true. Your energy is precious and people should not take you for granted. Don't reach out
Absence makes the heart fonder.
Too much absence makes the heart lose interest.
@@paulsanjurjo4390I think both are sometimes true!
An older man once told me, absence makes the heart grow yonder. Be cautious
They don't miss, because they have another supply!
Honestly, it's just sad that they have made this a truth that many believe. Why grown ups just don't act grown? Some of us are not grown mentally and just love to play.
And never waste your precious time reconnecting with a narcissist. They never change. Keep your standards high and the right person will meet you. 🙏❤🌎
Some would only reach out when they need something. It's a fact!
The dating scene is just one big game. I wish it wasn't like this. Just be natural. If someone pushes you away it's them not you. They have serious problems with themselves that they feel they can't connect with someone, serious serious problems. If you need that much space, then you don't need someone it's as simple as that. Time apart and space is not good in My opinion it allows for disconnection and makes you strangers. Its all games tbh
This makes no sense. If both parties do this, no one will reach out. Open conversation is what's needed. If a person is telling you they're not interested or showing you, they don't appreciate you in their lives. Value yourself and walk away.
It’s on the dumper to reach out
Eventually one party will reach out. The silence is the time for reflection. After reflecting you can make a wise decision.
However, I don’t like it. If someone has to take time to decide if they want me, I get very hurt. If I want someone I know it. I don’t have to think about it. Usually time needed to reflect means your free to screw around. When and if they do come back, and you want them back I suggest you order them to get tested for STD’s and show you the report that everything is negative. Don’t let anyone walk all over you. Hold your head high.
I agree it’s good to leave them alone. I am sorry it’s all BS! If anyone is like this, they are CHILDISH! Never ever respond or message them.
You don't need people that make you sad to come back into your life! If they don't value what they have help them by removing yourself! You deserve better! Remember: The more you forgive them, the worse their behavior gets
Craig saved my 6+ relationship..no contact works...have faith...and if they dont come back know you will find something even better....
Absolutely always lean back into you're feminine energy never ever ever chase ❤
Eva
You don’t need much of a time ….⭐️when someone is interested in you that person will do anything or find the way to be w you ⭐️… move on ….not worthy
Always focus on you constantly...prioritize your feelings to your time to your passions.
I need to hear this today. thank you
Who gives a shit if they miss you or not, life is too short
I actually feel relieved after no contact😅😅😅 ....I guess this is good for me.😂😂😂
Like thats what I wanted tbh
When they leave them, muster up the courage to move on.
This is ghosting and is also a trait of a narcissist
Exactly
And avoidants, anyone who is now exposed has to run and hide their head in the sand, bc of shame of self and in my experience their own inadequacies. Again, their loss, they didn’t have what it takes to do the work to keep you. This is in your favor, ultimately it still stings like a B!!
And if you leave them alone and they move on it's for your benefit bc they weren't for you and didn't appreciate you
But who is for me? And when will they come? I'm about to enter my 40's already here..
Men only look back when they realize they fucked up. Too late for that, she done moved on and happier than ever
How do you know?
You're a narcissist aren't you!??!
Cam a woman love a man after she has disconnected. She sees he is n new
@user-tc3zq7uy9m If he goes back with her after she's cheated she will cheat again. Go and be gone when someone cheats.
Become magnetic AF by knowing you're GOOD on YOUR OWN!
Any time a man needs that much space from his woman something is off it means he only comes around to use her as a resource this is why you can’t be quick to answer calls and text messages because anything can happen to a person during space and for a person not to check on you just for 1 minute is absolutely ridiculous
Time and space is a therapy to encourage yourself to think it over once again first of all how valuable that person really was Was it worth it? Analyzing each step 👍
This so true. Especially when you meet someone new and exciting and seem like “they are the one”. You’re so drawn to them in every way. You want to be around them more. You think they feel they same too. If the last is true, you have to give them time to respond by allowing them time and space to think of and about you. They will miss you if you place an emotional boundary between the two of you.
It’s not always about missing each other. It’s about strengthening each others will
This is so true! I have been doing this exact thing with my family members for the past few months. NOW I am starting to perceive and sense that they are missing me lol. I see the difference now. Try this out people! It works! You MUST practice the discipline to AVOID being the first to make first contact!
I take it that this isn’t just for break ups but for any relationship, if it seems unbalanced, or that the connection has faded or that they don’t even respond when you reach out and ask how they are doing, then pulling back and not reaching out may be a good idea, if you feel like the ball is always in your court, then put it back in their court
Having this issue with my daughter. Never responds so I stopped and became silent. I was hoping she would reflect and reach out to me. But I don’t think she noticed. It’s been a 7 months though. I’m starting to believe everyone telling me she married a narcissist. We were so close. There was no fight or argument. Hurts my heart.
@@denisef1153what does her marrying a narcissist have to do with her being in touch with her own mother/parent? No one could stop me from speaking to my own parents.
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I gotta say Coach Craig has been a lifeline during my last breakup (2 years ago). She did reach out eventually, I just decided to cut contact for good once the lower separation anxiety gave me a clearer perspective.
I really needed this today, thank you so much from my heart ❤️
They will start to miss you when you stop doing things for them. Especially if they don’t find a replacement right away
what if they find a replacement and what if the guy couldn't give the love and care humor fun happiness etc as ex did.
A good heart never gets its value , a good heart is misused by people.
Absence makes the heart forget ….
You are so right..
That’s very true, I keep in contact every day or other day to see how things are progressing, I understand her situation help her with encouragement & motivation as looking after her mum, she based in Columbia, long distance
Our tribe ancestors. Didn't take days. We took a few hrs... Then back to our loved ones... :))) much respecto senor!!! Keep leading well ~
Craig, you and everyone on your channel helped me through a breakup, even though I am pretty emotionless right now, you still helped me through the dark days where I didn’t think I’d be able to see the light so for that, I am forever grateful
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Time will heal. Give yourself space and time and most importantly invest and improve yourself.
10 months in and he's not missing me yet...😢
They do
He probably does, but try your hardest to move on as its not guaranteed that he will reach out even though he misses you
They always come back. BUT please take it into consideration if he’s worthy giving another chance ❤
May be he has moved on...??
Let him be
They probably do. It took over a year for mines to reach out, but before he did I could sense that he wanted to reach out. They always come back when you completely detach.
Friendly reminder that you don’t need her back in your life, it’s time to move on and improve, stay strong king 👊🏼
Absence makes the heart grow fonder
Thank you for this message in Jesus name amen 😇🙏
Your background scenery is beautiful and very tranquil. Thank you so much for everything you do. Not just your videos, but your yard work as well!😊
It took a lot of work getting the bricks back there and designing something nice! 🙌
I been in no contact for almost 4 months, after how many months can I just move on ?😊
@Coach Craig Kenneth I want to thank you for changing my life for the better. I purchased your workbooks 3 yrs ago and still review them. Eventually, with time, patience and reviewing the workbooks, you evolve into a new person. One has to apply this new found "KNOWLEDGE" to your everyday life, not just relationships. By practicing these new skills, eventually what you learned becomes part of you, infused in your brain, and all of this becomes a natural way of dealing with things that you are now a better, stronger, more confident person. To all of you
Oops ! I wasn't finished yet and accidentally posted my comment. Just want to say to all of you reading this, get the workbooks, and after finishing them, go back and review often. This will help you retain your new skills. You will change for the better and become more confident, secure and have a great understanding of why people act a certain way, including yourself. Be patient. People do not change overnight. Heal yourself through Craig's work books. At some point, you will realize you hardly ever have separation anxiety anymore. Now, people, do yourself a huge favor that will improve the rest of your life. Get the workbooks. I cannot stress enough to everyone out there how much they helped. Craig, lastly, any chance we could ever see a picture of your son and your wife?🙂
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They can reach out all the want. When you’re done you’re done!
As a father being part of my growing children life has more value then anything in this world
Craig, Margaret and Victoria coaches likes them, they are one in million human being.
Agree
This is spot on. The man or woman who is blowing up your phone will be much less attractive to you than the one who gives you space and time to think and wonder about them.
Im giving him ,them all the time & space they need! My future plans is to continue to move foward I have no intentions on looking back! #2024!
I really needed to hear this 🙏
AmenAmen Amen AmenAmen Amen thank you for the message God bless you 🙏 😊 ☺️ 😀 ❤️ ♥️ 🙏
He did alredy give me the sign he miss me, i gave him time and space i respect his time and my time to reflect ourself
Thank you for reminding us of this!
Heard from my ex today, talking to her right now for first time in 4+ months.
This already sounds like you’re not sticking to what I say when an ex reaches out…
@@CoachCraigKenneth what am I supposed to do?
@@CoachCraigKenneth I thought it was acceptable to respond if they reach out? My situation was odd, she didn't ask to leave but for space. And she contacted me after a bad wreck right after the breakup but was very short to respond and let her know I was alive. Then hadn't heard from her until today.
Yes respond! I don’t know your situation, so just search my channel on what to do when an ex reaches out! Bunch of videos. Follow closely!
Meet her up in person if you want her back I guess
True Words ❤
You are absolutely right.
Well said!! Thank you for sharing this I really needed to hear this
Im okay feel complete i put me first i love myself, Thank to you brother!❤
i will be reaching out, only once, confused them to think of me poorly so they can just stay tf away longer...
Thank you. I've come to realize that. I'm working on self-respect and valuing myself.
You are right Craig. I struggle with anxious attachment, and I have struggled with separation anxiety. I am working on it. This made me cry because this is so true.
if I didn't phone the ones I love ... my body would not be found for weeks
Same here (daughter)
I’m not reaching back because it’s time to end the chapter. I’m reaching ahead
Perfect
I oft feel if I didn’t reach out to most people I know, I’d never hear from them. So I stopped reaching out and, no surprise, didn’t hear.
Makes for a lonely existence, that’s for sure. But I guess I can hold my head high because I’m not appearing needy?
Self control is very important yes so true thanks for letting me know.
Damn
...even more reason she will never reachout to me. Lmfao. XD
Give them time and space to miss you!
So true! Shawn A Howell and Precious Darlene Marie thank you for sharing this with us Shawn A Howell Amen 🙏🙏
Right when I thought to send a text message 😂😂😂 thank you Lord .....Message
They don't need to come back
They can keep missing me from afar
It’s good advice I think, but what if both people follow it? 🤔 I mean after a decent amount of time couldn’t not reaching out be more about your pride and less about waiting for them to miss you?