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  • This issue has been solved. Watch follow-up video. Thank you to all the guys who wanted to lend me money.
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  • @brembodream
    @brembodream Před 2 dny +325

    Takk! What about the two Tesla roadster you deserve for Tesla referral? Resell value of these would easily sorted this cash problem. Maybe the absence of two roadster not coming create the problem in the first place, because I find it natural to calulate these big values (250k$ each) into the total, but the roadsters are never comming are they? or comming way to late for Bjorn at least. Telsa or Elon should be deasent enough to cash out the resell value of these Telsa roadsters for Bjorn. Bjorn is maybe the single most important contributer that saved Tesla in 2014 in their tougest financial times for Tesla. Reccord sales in Norway in 2014 and also the years to come soly because of Millenium Falcon videos from Bjorn proving that the TMS is capable of being the main Family car in Cold winters in Norway. I support you Bjorn! Let us not forget that Bjorn lend out all the chademo adapters he got from referral program when there was only a few SuperCharger in Norway. He could have sold them instead, but he rather contributed selflessly for the early ev comminuty. We owe Bjorn a helping hand her! Greeting from Oslo Norway😊

    • @bjornnyland
      @bjornnyland  Před 2 dny +75

      Thank you. That was one of the nicest comments here :) Pinned

    • @_kj2
      @_kj2 Před 2 dny +51

      I follow Bjorn since MF. Bjorn is a major reason, prehaps the biggest reason, why I drive an EV today.

    • @johnlovenhill1
      @johnlovenhill1 Před 2 dny +11

      @@_kj2same here. Proud owner of an eniro for 5 years due to KiaBjorn.

    • @CarViewer
      @CarViewer Před 2 dny +11

      @@bjornnyland maybe you can get the bank to give you a loan on the tesla roadster elegebility hence you would have to give them the rights to sell it off but it would give them something tangible that they can lend against. Even if they only lend 20% on each car with that kind of collateral but it still might help you.
      Maybe renting out the garage for some old car enthusiast who wants his cars at perfect tempreature this could give you a 3 year contract that you can lend against. If the renter has a good credit score the rental agreement is also something banks can lend against.
      I really hope you will make it through this difficulties good luck!

    • @christophspielmann316
      @christophspielmann316 Před 2 dny +2

      @@_kj2 Same for me.

  • @joris188
    @joris188 Před 2 dny +121

    A million euro home based on a single income coming from a 300k sub yt channel is insane to me. Taking out 15% loans to add stuff like outdoor pool and heated garage is completely beyond my comprehension. I love your reviews and tests that provide the most grounded data on Evs one can find on the internet. So it pains me to see you are so out of touch with reality when it comes to finances. You are living beyond your means and you need to act sooner rather than later. And an extra loan is not the answer

    • @stefan2796
      @stefan2796 Před dnem +4

      Agree, stacking loans will only make things worse. Bjorn should get rid of debt asap and try to lower the monthly/recurring cost as much as possible. That outdoor pool and heated garage will also give high energy cost. It's not just the building cost.

    • @bubbyboo
      @bubbyboo Před dnem +2

      Ditto. If he gets sick, injured or can't produce YT content for whatever reason it will get much worse.

    • @cristianmorar5558
      @cristianmorar5558 Před 11 hodinami +1

      Couldn't say better !!!

    • @RikHeijmen
      @RikHeijmen Před 11 hodinami +5

      Yes, Bjorn, I think the best and most durable way to move forward is to sell this place, and find a good, smaller house. You will get more life quality back.

    • @luisfernandes4145
      @luisfernandes4145 Před 8 hodinami +2

      It's not a million euros, it's a million NOK, about 100k€. You guys need to pay more attention.

  • @oddvar6654
    @oddvar6654 Před 2 dny +17

    «I dont’t drink, I don’t smoke, I spend my money carefully”, he says while sitting in front of a house he can’t afford.
    I’ve been a fan of yours for years, and enjoyed over a hundred videos at this point. But the fact that you decided to film this and actually post it, gives you no sympathy from me.
    You have worked your ass off with this CZcams-channel, we all know it. But asking for a loan from your audience while you already receive donations from your audience on Patreon every month, just to keep a very expensive house just makes you look desperate not to loose face.
    I understand it’s the dream house, but it doesn’t mean you should get to keep it just because you think you deserve it.

  • @user-yb7qj1hf9h
    @user-yb7qj1hf9h Před 2 dny +52

    I think your initial gut feeling of not doing this video was the right move. Very difficult to feel sorry for someone sitting outside a Mansion they can’t afford, sorry but there it is!

  • @johanwellens6499
    @johanwellens6499 Před 2 dny +378

    you need a financial planner, no loans for 10%, no bussines class flights, no houses renovating in thailand. You spend way to much, if not today, then another day you will drive yourself in a financial ditch.

    • @EnteiIsDoge
      @EnteiIsDoge Před 2 dny +19

      Nobody needs a financial planner. He just needs an excel sheet and some free time to look over his finances. This stuff is not that hard

    • @stefan2796
      @stefan2796 Před dnem +2

      @@EnteiIsDoge It's not that hard indeed. I'm also wondering because Bjorn is a tech/IT oriented guy when it comes to testing EVs. And he fills this Excel sheet with all his test data. But when it's about personal finance, this "skill" seems more or less absent. With all due respect to Bjorn of course.

  • @Cubeforc3
    @Cubeforc3 Před 2 dny +284

    There's families that raise two kids in a 1 bedroom apartment where both parents work. A house that's over €1M with a heated pool is not needed and seems almost laughable compared to what most people are going through these days. You have no money for curtains but have a giant pool? Almost two grand on a shower wall? Priorities mate.
    If you want to keep the house then you can't do it on one income. I can't imagine my wife not helping out if the family had financial problems.

    • @febrianadji5758
      @febrianadji5758 Před 2 dny +23

      Not mentioning 70k NOK garage floor heater that still hardly able to keep up in colder times
      Questionable priorities at best
      Even when we let it slide
      He make 11M loan to bank and some more millions with Idehus just to complete this half n half house

    • @WartornNOR
      @WartornNOR Před 2 dny +5

      As he said, he deserves it... 🙄

    • @michelgervais8607
      @michelgervais8607 Před 2 dny +2

      @@WartornNOR We all deserve...

    • @conceptt
      @conceptt Před dnem

      yup many here in the US work 2 or even 3 jobs just so they can afford feeding their families and put their children in daycare or have grandparents watch over so they have time to work.

  • @nts_nathaniel
    @nts_nathaniel Před 2 dny +39

    This is such a bizzare video to watch.... Content itself and the way you choose to frame this shot.
    I bought my apartment in 2019 and to this day, there are still some things missing because I simply did not have the money to buy them yet. Why did you prioritize building a pool of all things is beyond me. + all the weekend trips, eating out, etc...
    If you really want to keep the house, sell some other assets if you have them. Try to get a new, longer loan (mortgage) to get the monthly payments down.
    If not, sell the house. DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT GET ANOTHER LOAN., ESPECIALLY PRIVATE LOAN UNBELIVABLY EXTREMELY BAD IDEA!!

    • @stefan2796
      @stefan2796 Před dnem +1

      Agree, private/personal loans are cash killers by nature. Mortage rates are around 4-5%. Personal loans, 10% and up.

  • @ps5home
    @ps5home Před 2 dny +31

    The sunk cost fallacy at work. Check your biases.

  • @preacher197910
    @preacher197910 Před 2 dny +30

    3 years ago you made a rant video where you questioned why DNB didn't want to give you a loan for this house. Now you know why. And please do better than this: czcams.com/video/uOQIDJiu47I/video.html

    • @drfisheye
      @drfisheye Před 9 hodinami +1

      The video is deleted.

  • @LBolder
    @LBolder Před 2 dny +53

    I agree with some comments here. Some things is better to keep private, financial problems, kids, where you live. So was better not to put this video on the internet. This is indeed bad budgeting and that for a guy that is good with numbers, that surprises me. It looks like you went on a spending spree, big house, swimming pool, expensive kitchen, two kids (because they costs also a lot of money) and that all at once. A swimming pool in Norway for those few weeks per year that it’s there hot enough? Really? that’s pure luxury, a waste of money if you ask me. Now comes the reality check. Cut costs and have discussion with the misses what you both can do about this situation. And if needed sell the house and live somewhere smaller, because the bigger the house the bigger the costs.

  • @pnketia
    @pnketia Před 2 dny +42

    Bjorn you cannot get emotionally attached to material items that keep you in debt. If you do you end up working for the material item just to keep it and you lose out on the enjoyment of life and spending time with your kids. If you cannot come up with the money by renting out rooms or garage space, taking another job, have wifey work etc., you have to cut your losses and sell the house for a more affordable place.

  • @Garstonk
    @Garstonk Před 2 dny +38

    "I don't spend money on useless stuff"
    Has anyone ever been in the pool? Correction - heated pool?

    • @peacenpowder
      @peacenpowder Před 2 dny +7

      its about two three weeks its usable here in Norway a year. I use to live where the "mansion" is.

    • @mascot4950
      @mascot4950 Před 9 hodinami

      @@peacenpowder I get the point you're making, but that's BS. It's 2-3 months, not 2-3 weeks.

    • @peacenpowder
      @peacenpowder Před 9 hodinami

      @@mascot4950 I think you mix our summer months with actual days with summer weather. Then subtract the days you cannot use it.
      I will stick by my BS, and counter argue that you are the one BS'ing

    • @mascot4950
      @mascot4950 Před 8 hodinami

      @@peacenpowder If you feel a pool cannot be used if it's raining, that's a subjective opinion you're entitled to. But it's objectively incorrect. You're perfectly fine using your pool June through August without exorbitant heating fees.

    • @peacenpowder
      @peacenpowder Před 8 hodinami

      Whatever dude. It would have been easier for you to just dont bullshit.. You can use it in january too if you are a ice bath dude, but how many does that?
      Bye, I am not debating stupid, over a non issue..

  • @idiocracy9530
    @idiocracy9530 Před 2 dny +60

    I feel like this didn't come as a surprise. That you've known for a while that this was most likely pushing beyond the limits of what you could afford. 15% interest is also insane.
    Now, in the comments it's mentioned your wife is not working. Personally, i would find it unacceptable if my partner was not taking part in the financial situation.
    To me, it seems like there's an easy fix to this. Sell the house, get rid of the 15% interest loan, wife starts working, you rebuild.

    • @bounty112
      @bounty112 Před 2 dny +26

      And the crazy thing is that they even wanted to hire a nanny.

    • @georgeaudi
      @georgeaudi Před 2 dny +5

      @@bounty112that’s insane! If they didn’t fly business class every year that would have saved him tons of money too!

    • @sherlock_backs
      @sherlock_backs Před hodinou

      Yea, it looked like he had an expensive kind of living and i always wondered how he maintained it, seems like reality just catched up

  • @bartek5602
    @bartek5602 Před 2 dny +176

    I like your work and appreciate it a lot. But I'm seriously worried. You play a hero earning money for your family and wife's relatives. And you get no help from her side. She even doesn't know Norwegian and/or English. She never worked. She does nothing. And if shit happens she will be completely helpless. You don't help her by allowing her to do nothing. It's not a sign of love. You hurt yourself, her, and your kids this way. Take care and rethink your life before it's too late.

    • @berndine1
      @berndine1 Před 2 dny +40

      My wife has to work so we can afford our house. Totally normal.

    • @WreckedRectum
      @WreckedRectum Před 2 dny +16

      I doubt Bjørn is a controlling abusive husband refusing her to learn the language and work for a living. I bet it's more like the wife never had to work or learn the language because of Bjørns success, so why bother?
      Well, this is probably why. If things go tits up, you better be able to pitch in. Easy to say in hindsight, though. Bank would've given another mill in mortgage loan *easy* to the wife if she had steady income.

    • @iamtechnoman
      @iamtechnoman Před 2 dny

      she probably has him whipped, hence this situation

    • @Republic3D
      @Republic3D Před 2 dny +7

      Dude, that is a private decision between them.

    • @tholesund3760
      @tholesund3760 Před 2 dny +24

      @@Republic3D At this point, nothing about Bjorn's situation is private.

  • @shinkulau
    @shinkulau Před 2 dny +134

    Bjorn. You overstretched your finances. CZcams is the LAST place you should be coming on to seek help. You should know by now, youtube is full of crazies and people who hide behind their anonimity and tries to set the world on fire and happy to watch it burn.
    You and your wife need to figure this out privately, simple as. DO NOT go into any contract with anyone who approaches you off of CZcams, this would be most unwise.
    Good luck to you mate.

  • @dingsvomdach6764
    @dingsvomdach6764 Před 2 dny +230

    But why did you do everything at once?
    The Garage, the Pool, the second layer paint, even the kitchen
    You could have done that at a time you have the Money
    Im Kind of sorry for your Situation, but this Storys are Always the same ... You can only spend what you have
    Good luck ❤

    • @febrianadji5758
      @febrianadji5758 Před 2 dny +15

      We could justify the pool and garage as the both are reason they're moving
      But man never thought the house itself to be that big and empty yet still cost 14m NOK!?

    • @torotomika1911
      @torotomika1911 Před 2 dny +13

      It's usually the woman that demands the world even if it's unreasonable.

    • @drfisheye
      @drfisheye Před 9 hodinami

      It probably was cheaper to do it all at once rather then later. Easy trap to walk into. Like people who want to restore a classic car, then go too far to get everything right and end up with an unfinished project and no money.

  • @Lewis_Standing
    @Lewis_Standing Před dnem +6

    Sell the house, buy somewhere for half the price, be happy without financial stress

  • @turboclown
    @turboclown Před 2 dny +371

    This is really bad budgeting at work, I'm sorry. Yes, interest rates have been bad but not since yesterday. You overextended.
    I truly wish you the best though, maybe you should add more product placements or ads into your videos.

    • @midastouch1140
      @midastouch1140 Před 2 dny +19

      He could have saved a lot of money by just going to ikea thb.

    • @johnair1
      @johnair1 Před 2 dny +39

      he is a very hardworking and decent guy and the hardest youtuber i know in the ev segment with all that 1000km chalenges etc. Because of him hundreds of Tesla have been sold maybe even thousands. He deserves every support there is!

    • @Simon-dm8zv
      @Simon-dm8zv Před 2 dny +7

      @@midastouch1140 That's literally what Bjørn says in the video.

    • @M-hq9xz
      @M-hq9xz Před 2 dny +10

      He could sell his own car cleaning products 🙃😉

    • @ando5899
      @ando5899 Před 2 dny +2

      ​@@johnair1 can only agree, Bjorn's great but I've learned from hard experience that the hardest worker doesn't get the biggest rewards! It's how you work and what you do with the rewards.

  • @schunkelndedschunke6914
    @schunkelndedschunke6914 Před 2 dny +43

    Maybe you can separate the 1st floor, or half of the house to rent it. Not funny, but better to loose the house. Maybe only 1 or 2 rooms for tourists. Than the pool will be perfect.

    • @ydmf2
      @ydmf2 Před 2 dny +13

      Yes, he can AirBNB a room for $80-$100 a night easily. I looked at rooms around Jessheim..

    • @celeron55
      @celeron55 Před 2 dny +9

      This is the first thing that came to my mind but you're *so far* down in these comments with this! It seems silly to me not to. Of course, that doesn't provide immediate income to pay the 15% interest debt. For that he'll need to find a more reasonable lender.

    • @londonwestman1
      @londonwestman1 Před 2 dny +1

      Yes. This is always the suggestion from one of my friends.. And she has made loads of money over the years with a number of variations on renting out rooms. The baby changing room, for instance - that could probably be rented out and then use a mat in the bathroom for baby changing.

    • @lembas.
      @lembas. Před 2 dny +1

      But then you have strangers in your house with your vulnerable family.

    • @Cenon2_
      @Cenon2_ Před 10 hodinami

      Earn extra NOOKs for offering to replace the first word of BnB with Björn, and even more for the last

  • @bberis1
    @bberis1 Před 2 dny +231

    £8500 to paint the outside of a house. Ok. Time for some DIY.

    • @hannomatt
      @hannomatt Před 2 dny +4

      @@drsavage5597 lol

    • @dillerdallerglor
      @dillerdallerglor Před 2 dny +7

      This is Norway. Anything that requires manual work is expensive as fuck.

    • @MariusEV123
      @MariusEV123 Před 2 dny +2

      1 week painting house, or 1 week making videos?

    • @9-and-3
      @9-and-3 Před 2 dny +11

      @@MariusEV123 If he were earning 10k EUR per week from CZcams, the house would already be paid off.

    • @MariusEV123
      @MariusEV123 Před 2 dny

      @@9-and-3 it's no cost painting a house of this size and height if you do it yourself?

  • @enoughofthis
    @enoughofthis Před 2 dny +648

    Kids don't need big house, they need big love.

  • @niclaus01
    @niclaus01 Před 2 dny +84

    Some positive ideas:
    a) get down your spending by lowering ALL costs including heat temp (1 deg C saves 5%), restaurant food, buy used child equip
    b) get a better loan directly from another bank, may be via lendo (if possible for self-employed)
    c) get more serious affiliate/sponsorship, if necessary use somebody who knows
    d) sun shield market is overpriced, I bought so called "double rollo" with free competition and fittings to all kind of frames for 30EU piece (even door size)

  • @GManPT
    @GManPT Před 2 dny +234

    "(If I sell the house) I'm going to lose a lot of money".
    Reality: You are already loosing a lot of money money by having 15% interest rate.

    • @celeron55
      @celeron55 Před 2 dny +13

      15% interest on 100k€ is 75k€ in 5 years (if you pay the interest only). The house probably sells for at least like 300k€ less than he spent on it. So, it does make sense to want to keep it even at high interest.

    • @triggertits
      @triggertits Před 2 dny

      That would be the entire point of this video, to get rid of that high-interest loan.

    • @Teapode
      @Teapode Před 2 dny +15

      I don`t understand why did he choose to get Loan instead of Mortgage. 15% for Loan is a normal rate. Mortgage you could get for 5,8% in Norway, but you could get it much lower. So he could go and get Refinancing and get a Mortgage and bank would pay Loan, but for some reason he is not going to. 🤷
      Mortgage could be paid in 40 years, 1 200 000 NOK. So it just 2500 NOK per month. Instead of Loan, those are taken maximum 10 years. 10 000 NOK per month.
      So Bjorn shold tell us, why Banks would not give him cheap Mortgage and he only could get a super unfavorable Loan. Maybe something in the past? Maybe not paying taxes as banks do not calculate your income if it is not taxed?

    • @GManPT
      @GManPT Před 2 dny +3

      @@celeron55 dude that house is 1M/1.5M€

    • @dimitrimichaux461
      @dimitrimichaux461 Před 2 dny +12

      Maybe it's because he does not have a steady income? I know it's hard here for people without a steady income (artists, writers,... ) to get mortgages. They might make more than the average person, one month they make 1k, the other 8k, the next 6k,... The bank does not think this is a steady predictable income so they don't want to risk it.

  • @Wizzkidy99
    @Wizzkidy99 Před 2 dny +212

    Jesus, look at the size of your house with two children. I have 5 children and live in a tiny 3 bed house and can't afford anything bigger. Prices are insane here. Count yourself lucky

    • @LasVegar
      @LasVegar Před 2 dny +11

      And a pool that's quite unusual in Norway.

  • @gisobo
    @gisobo Před 2 dny +13

    Don't let the CZcams fame spoil your family! Get that house somehow finished and sell it. Live a happy life besides CZcams. Your family needs you as a father and husband. They don't need no fancy villa and no public exposure. And we don't need that stuff either. We love your content because you're the ninja of EVs and a nice guy. Your house, your pool, your private car are none of our business.

  • @jcnorway
    @jcnorway Před 2 dny +50

    Followed you for all these years, but wow…. Sitting in front of that palace of a house asking for money/more loan 🫠 Please seek professional financial help/advise - this is not sustainable. That house should not be a symbol of your life/achievement - your family is.

  • @jeemsi
    @jeemsi Před dnem +9

    Solution is easy, downgrade and don’t live above what you can afford.

  • @8est8its89
    @8est8its89 Před 2 dny +85

    I have financial problems as well... I doubt anyone gives a flying fck about me and my family

  • @robsengahay5614
    @robsengahay5614 Před 2 dny +48

    I’m sorry but it is really revealing that no family or people close to you will help.
    You have overextended yourself and still don’t understand that judging by your explanations.
    Your thinking here is insane. Huge house, pool, heated garage, expensive kitchen etc but no curtains on the windows. It sounds like you have a spendaholic wife too (my first wife was one of those and it dragged us both down and ended up in divorce with a long road to economic recovery afterwards.
    Sometimes you need to take a step back and put a mirror in front of yourself metaphorically speaking. I suspect that you are reading comments like this and thinking they are just negative when in fact they are giving you uncomfortable truth.
    If you get this loan and/or find a way to keep this house you can’t afford will you have learned or will it be a springboard to overextending yourself again in order to keep wifey happy. Believe me there is no way to appease a spendaholic.

  • @WilsonLeo
    @WilsonLeo Před 2 dny +8

    I just got up for work, and I see you're up now at 4 in the morning liking and commenting. It seems you've been up all night? You are in a stressful situation and I understand if your mind is spinning out of control. Just don't do anything really stupid! Remember people love you and need you! It will all work out, house or no house. Try to focus on sleeping and eating well and exercise, It won't help with the bank, but it makes things easier to handle. This comment section gets pretty vile sometimes, so remember that what some people write does not reflect on your worth as a human. If you choose to take down this video, its totally understandable. Financial troubles are stressful enough without having to share it with everyone and anyone. Wish you all the best!

  • @maniaclizard
    @maniaclizard Před 2 dny +145

    Sell the house. I was so unhappy as a child because all money went into the house. No vacations, not so many toys, no travel, no support during my studies at uni. In the end after years some large bills arrived and the house, which was unfinished for a decade, had to be sold.
    It was a big relieve to be frank.
    Try to get something cheaper than this house

    • @TheDjarEl
      @TheDjarEl Před 2 dny +10

      Get a smaller house in Norway and a nice house with pool in Thailand :)

    • @MariusEV123
      @MariusEV123 Před 2 dny

      Not 100% sure, but I would say selling the house now would mean at least -4M NOK prob more

    • @johnair1
      @johnair1 Před 2 dny +2

      your case is unfortunte but björns case is a total different with all respect he just needs some support now but later he will be fine! As he said just the last 5%

    • @maniaclizard
      @maniaclizard Před 2 dny +2

      @@johnair1 he overstretched his financial capabilities. It’s as simple as that. You can live years being almost broke just to own one thing. But life is more that just that building

  • @sn3lhest
    @sn3lhest Před 2 dny +23

    In Sweden we would say that you "live above your assets", meaning you have a lifestyle that you simply cant afford in the long run. Im a big fan of your channel and I have been watching for a long time, but honestly you have to start with your behaviour and change that first. Sure, more money now can maybe help you in the short run but not in the long run. You have a house most people could just dream of, but honestly you need to realize that also.
    If most of your income today comes from youtube directly then im sure you can make more money from adlinks, sponsored videos, selling merch or whatever. Doing car and tech youtube is on the more profitable side compared to other genres.

  • @dingsvomdach6764
    @dingsvomdach6764 Před 2 dny +76

    I am painting my house my self. It took me weeks to do it ... But i dont have the money to pay someone to do it. Why you take a lone for this stuff? I can not understand it... Sorry
    And by the way, a white house have to be painter every 3-5 years. Dont expeckt 15 years

    • @allusernamesistaken
      @allusernamesistaken Před 2 dny +6

      He might loose more money on not making youtube videos than he saves by painting.

    • @dingsvomdach6764
      @dingsvomdach6764 Před 2 dny

      @@allusernamesistaken 10k € ? For 2 weeks of painting ? Then i Wonder where the Missing Money is coming fromn

    • @ruyan247
      @ruyan247 Před 2 dny +3

      @@allusernamesistaken I work a job and paint my house.
      I actually work construction, that I got into after buying a 200 year old house and having to renovate it myself due to insufficient funds. People like Björn are a huge market, guys that have some money and weak wrists.
      Sell the damn house!

    • @BeyondWrittenWords
      @BeyondWrittenWords Před 7 hodinami

      best advice, this house will be misery beyond understanding, if you keep it

  • @dtbsz
    @dtbsz Před 2 dny +134

    Not a good look m8. Begging with the bigass house and pool and garage in the background... 15 mil... very cheeky... good luck tho' but this says a lot about you

    • @eyubbardakci1544
      @eyubbardakci1544 Před 2 dny +7

      True

    • @WreckedRectum
      @WreckedRectum Před 2 dny +14

      lol I thought so too.. "Look guys, just lend me million, I'm desperate" while sitting outside his grandiose house with a heated pool. Surely, he must be trolling us, the cheeky bastard.
      If not trolling, then oof... What were you thinking with these optics, mate?

  • @citogrid
    @citogrid Před 2 dny +108

    Björn, when performing your range tests you are exceedingly detailed and professional, figuring out every last bit of information.
    How is it possible that you've made such obvious errors in the most important purchase of your life? Not understanding the fees applicable to building a house is a pretty big mistake.
    Asking your subscribers to loan you money isn't a real solution. Unfortunately you've overstretched yourself, no one but you is at fault here, you should have foreseen the foreseeable and then added a contingency for the unforeseeable.
    You would have ended up with a nice house which may have been be 30% smaller, but affordable.
    Sell the house, take the loss and learn a valuable but expensive lesson from your mistake.
    Try again in 5 years when you've recovered your loss and have done some proper financial planning.

    • @joemcdonough7509
      @joemcdonough7509 Před 2 dny +8

      The former VP of Ralph Loreen once described a situation at his company where a top contributor was promoted to management and failed miserably at his new position. One great skill doesn't necessarily translate into another.

    • @joseangelestevez8367
      @joseangelestevez8367 Před 2 dny +9

      "How is it possible that you've made such obvious errors in the most important purchase of your life?"
      - Because not only dumb people make mistakes, "the same old story". We are all humans and we all make mistakes, Bjorn, me and you, but, if you are lucky, you'll have little consequences.

    • @lukasdolezal8245
      @lukasdolezal8245 Před 2 dny

      He explained that he calculated with smaller interest rates. Yes you could anticipate interest rates growing but if you could predict them then you could actually make lot of money...

    • @citogrid
      @citogrid Před 2 dny

      @@lukasdolezal8245
      If you're going to use a variable rate, then you should build in a substantial buffer, you can't walk on the edge of a cliff and hope there's no wind to push you over.
      If you can't afford the buffer then you're not ready to move forward.
      Full sympathy but literally 5 seconds work ... google it:
      How a Fixed-Rate Mortgage Works
      Several kinds of mortgage products are available on the market, but they boil down to two basic categories: variable-rate loans and fixed-rate loans. With variable-rate loans, the interest rate is set above a certain benchmark. It then fluctuates, which means it changes at certain periods.
      Fixed-rate mortgages carry the same interest rate throughout the entire length of the loan. Unlike variable- and adjustable-rate mortgages, fixed-rate mortgages don’t fluctuate with the market. So the interest rate in a fixed-rate mortgage stays the same regardless of where interest rates go-up or down.

    • @stefan2796
      @stefan2796 Před dnem

      @@lukasdolezal8245 But this is not rocket science. It's a mindset, just being careful with your expenses. Be realistic and not too optimistic. Some people don't like that mindset and live by the day.

  • @beloved803
    @beloved803 Před 2 dny +42

    oh my gosh. this is really bad. you are still in denial. you cannot afford the house. giving you money would just enable you to continue to make bad decisions. :(

  • @pasqualepellegrino2937
    @pasqualepellegrino2937 Před 2 dny +73

    Not another loan, you can’t meet your current commitment. This is like taking out a loan to pay for a credit card debit.

    • @Mike-kr5dn
      @Mike-kr5dn Před 2 dny +7

      But if he refinances from 15 % interest to maybe 9 % it helps for sure.

    • @paulrautenbach
      @paulrautenbach Před 2 dny +1

      He also said that he can afford the interest on an extra loan but can't get it from his bank.

    • @pasqualepellegrino2937
      @pasqualepellegrino2937 Před 2 dny +4

      @@paulrautenbach did he say why his current bank won’t give him an extension on his loan?

    • @pasqualepellegrino2937
      @pasqualepellegrino2937 Před 2 dny +2

      @@Mike-kr5dn refinance with whom?

    • @jkajolin
      @jkajolin Před 2 dny

      ​@@pasqualepellegrino2937yes the there seems to be some legal rules that the bank cannot provide more

  • @marconrustNL
    @marconrustNL Před 2 dny +80

    First, sell the frickin’ house, forget it and start all over again. Buy an existing house so you know what the costs are going to be. Second, tell wifey that she needs to take care of the kids full time. Period. Your focus is work, her focus are the kids. That may be old fashioned, but if she doesn’t work….. You can’t do both mate. And for the long term, tell her to learn the Norwegian language and to get a job so eventually you may be able to afford a more luxury house. I’ve been following you since the early days of your channel and I love you, but now you have to fix your shiiiiit. Asking for a loan to pay off another loan is not going to help you. I’ve seen people and companies go bankrupt on that so you need to make structural changes. That starts with accepting you made a (budgeting) mistake. Don’t try to defend your mistakes (‘we need this pool’) because that would be an insult to your viewers. They (or most of them 😅) are smarter than you might think.

    • @norboost
      @norboost Před 2 dny +14

      Child care is really cheap in Norway. Full time child care is €263/month and will be reduced to €175/month in august. You get 30% discount for the 2. child and 100% discount for the 3. child and upwards. If wifey is not working she needs to. Literally any job will bring in way more money than staying home with the kids.

    • @marconrustNL
      @marconrustNL Před 2 dny +2

      @@norboost Well, maybe they want to be with the kids fulltime. That’s what we did, 22 years ago (and now both back to work again). But we didn’t have a mansion like that and I had some money in the bank after selling my company. But I would agree, kids don’t suffer from going to child care and if the money is in the need then both having a job may be a better option.

    • @eddiehaug
      @eddiehaug Před 2 dny +10

      ​@@marconrustNL- Just for context, exceptionally few people would be able to live like that in Norway with just one income. For this reason, the vast majority of women work and help support the family. Kids are well taken care of by child care at a low price, so everyone can work.

    • @DimaStohr
      @DimaStohr Před dnem

      You nailed!

    • @themodfather9382
      @themodfather9382 Před 5 hodinami

      @@norboost He has absolutely no power to tell her what to do

  • @Jan_Ly
    @Jan_Ly Před 2 dny +148

    1 million may save you now, but in a little while you will be in the same situation. The best advice is to move to something smaller, not nearly as expensive. which fits your income or your wife start working and adds with an extra income.

    • @AaronStarkLinux
      @AaronStarkLinux Před 2 dny +12

      Best option for him now is to sell and to rent something in Germany and start making content there. German Autobahn content and the fact we will be closer to the big events.

    • @febrianadji5758
      @febrianadji5758 Před 2 dny +3

      Yeah
      I have relatives living off these "small loans"
      He now unable to do something meaningful due to stress managing all that loan

    • @frankbjrnsten7189
      @frankbjrnsten7189 Před 2 dny +1

      ⁠Germany is dead in the water now. They don't buy many evs. The German EV CZcamsrs are struggling big time.

  • @speedy24793
    @speedy24793 Před 2 dny +98

    Do you really need a 14 million NOK house with a swimming pool?
    Sell the house and move somewhere you can afford.

    • @jooptablet1727
      @jooptablet1727 Před 2 dny +5

      The problem of course is that that would create a huge financial loss, like buying a model S plaid and selling it second hand the same day. The house isn't even finished yet... But it's the only solution I'm afraid...

    • @michelgervais8607
      @michelgervais8607 Před 2 dny +8

      It seems his house is the biggest in the area. Bigger than neighbors around...

  • @mirrorking2
    @mirrorking2 Před 2 dny +54

    I would suggest you make changes to your youtube channel as well, it has stagnated pretty hard, most videos dont get a lot of views, but you still have decent content you just need to expand the delivery to todays consumers, you need a proper review video for each car you test, instead of having to watch 3-4different videos of anywhere from 5-60minutes. Your review style is already original and different but you need to get up to date on what gets view today, shorts and quicker recap reviews are what people watch. Probabaly should get an editor although more expenses dont sound great at the moment.

    • @Balud-j8m
      @Balud-j8m Před 2 dny +6

      new content is needed. too much repeat.

    • @Matt7895
      @Matt7895 Před 2 dny +7

      I agree with this. Chinese cars are so ubiquitous, unoriginal/derivative, and anti-consumer (the annoyances they seem to put in deliberately to annoy the driver, like the chimes, the things you can't turn off etc), they just aren't popular and you can see in the view count. I'd love to see in-depth reviews of western EVs, and like you said, not split out over multiple videos. I miss the in depth interior reviews where Bjorn would actually try to get under the seats and really explore every inch of the car. I think more road trips and epic races would be good too although Bjorn has two kids now which obviously limits how long he can spend away from home.

    • @Isaac-un4cn
      @Isaac-un4cn Před 2 dny +2

      @@Matt7895 I agree with you, the Chinese EV videos are very repetitive. Additionally, they aren't sold where I live, so no real reason to watch those videos.

    • @Matt7895
      @Matt7895 Před dnem

      @@Isaac-un4cn We have some in the UK, but they are budget family crossover SUVs, mostly MG - not competitors to Tesla, Mercedes, BMW etc

  • @RealRossini
    @RealRossini Před 2 dny +13

    Hey Bjorn, sorry to hear that, but man, with over 300k subscribers and 300+ patrons, something's not right. And I mean that constructively. Look, if I earn 10 million EUR, am I rich? Not if my expenses are 10.5 million EUR, right? What I'm saying is, you need to 1) figure out what's actually going wrong, and 2) fix it. A loan isn't what you need, trust me. I learned that the hard way (went broke, became homeless, lost my business, now I'm back in the saddle).

  • @Hazzard0
    @Hazzard0 Před 2 dny +88

    This is embarrassing. Live within your means.

  • @norboost
    @norboost Před 2 dny +27

    Is this a parody or something? If this is serious then please watch your own video and consider what you're saying. You've been overspending for years. Even saying yourself that you couldn't afford the Model X when you bought that. And now you're in the same position with a house that's bankrupting you. You don't need a loan/life line. You need a life style change. A life line at this point would probably teach you nothing and you'd just find yourself in the same situation later on.

    • @bjornnyland
      @bjornnyland  Před 2 dny +1

      Unfortunately you as many others here didn't know the story. I never bought a Model X. I won it as a Tesla referral price. No wonder why there's so much hate here. Everything is based on wrong assumptions.

    • @norboost
      @norboost Před dnem +2

      @@bjornnyland No just a minor mistake. I obviously meant millennium falcon which you talked about in the video. I just thought it was the X but it was the S.

  • @climb8169
    @climb8169 Před 2 dny +6

    «a small loan of a million NOK»

  • @antonydanby
    @antonydanby Před 2 dny +234

    10 to 12 years of CZcams gets you this? I studied hard for 7 years to become a Software Engineer. I've been working for 34 years and only now have I got something like this... But I didn't stick a pool in because energy prices are a rip off in the UK. Instead I stuck solar and batteries.... Anyhow, I have followed you for quite a number of years, your reviews are really good, but if I had any advice to give : Don't talk about your personal finances on CZcams, you will end up with split views and even more hate... I am fairly pragmatic, so I take a step back and view this for what it is, but if I was you I'd take this video down and chalk it up to experience..

    • @GoldenCroc
      @GoldenCroc Před 2 dny +17

      You cant get more culturally pragmatic than us nordics. Thats why he posted this video. Where he is at, far fewer than anywhere else (like Uk or US) would see anything wrong with it.

    • @silvacrest11
      @silvacrest11 Před 2 dny +37

      I've been reading the comments section for this video and im not seeing hate, just criticism which I think is fair, advice and even donations, youtube has surprised me

  • @priestland1
    @priestland1 Před 2 dny +29

    Yes Ikea kitchen, just done one £2000 and it works as a kitchen. Am hard pressed to see how it could be any better and to spent 30k, crazy.

    • @tobimai4843
      @tobimai4843 Před 2 dny +2

      Ehh 30k for a kitchen is kinda OK for a good, brand-named one.
      But in his situation, IKEA for 2k would be smarter. You can still put in a nice Kitchen if you have money after 10 years

  • @simonloder4964
    @simonloder4964 Před 2 dny +5

    Thanks for all you EV related CZcams videos Bjorn, you taught me so much before I bought one in the UK 👍🏻🏠🙏🏻

  • @robsengahay5614
    @robsengahay5614 Před 2 dny +9

    We live on a similar size plot in Queensland, Australia. Roughly 50% of the homes in my neighborhood have a pool but even though our summers are long and hot and our winters are really mild they are rarely used. People assume their kids will be using the pool all the time; they do at first but soon stop and lose interest in it. That’s kids for you. They actually are something of a curse because the costs associated with them aren’t limited to heating. Pool maintenance is an ongoing chore and cost.
    When we moved here from the UK 10 years ago we thought long and hard about buying a house with a pool or without but, as luck would have it, the house we liked didn’t have one. Knowing what I know now I would have rued the day we bought a house with a pool if we had made that mistake.

    • @sr20trx
      @sr20trx Před 2 dny +2

      100%
      I'm in Perth Australia and our pool never gets used, the kids never really wanted to use it of there own accord, I can't be bothered with it yet it cost a fortune in maintence, everything has been replaced, pumps, filters, chlorinators, pool heating tubes yet it still runs 8 hours a day on 3 phase power.
      Oh how I wish we never got it.....
      To have one in Norway is nuts!

  • @wch2186
    @wch2186 Před 2 dny +7

    It’s hard to loan money to someone who has more then 90% of us sorry

    • @NattKatt-w8q
      @NattKatt-w8q Před 2 dny +1

      It's a business proposal with a bit of unknown risk. He said he would pay interest. Just not as high as 15%.

  • @c1d2e
    @c1d2e Před 2 dny +16

    Very difficult situation that's not uncommon. I give you credit for coming clean in public. Many of your followers gave good advice when this project was in the early stages including myself, (buy a inexpensive home out of town) but it fell on deaf ears. Wish you the best Bjorn.

  • @Kinaboxlol
    @Kinaboxlol Před 2 dny +6

    What seems really weird is how analytical you are when analyzing a car, and the way you resonate your way to what a smart decision is when buying a car is a huge reason many follow you.
    Needless to say, this video comes as quite a surprise. Makes it seem like you have not thought anything through at all.

  • @kingboye2752
    @kingboye2752 Před 2 dny +220

    Reading the title I was thinking... "Guys... I'm going back to gasoline cars"

  • @ivanendicott3273
    @ivanendicott3273 Před 2 dny +6

    Champagne dreams on a lemonade budget. Sometimes its a hard lesson to learn, you are living beyond your means, borrowing more won't help as there will always be somthing else you need money for, its a slippery slope.

  • @ettoreroberto
    @ettoreroberto Před 2 dny +72

    Sell the house. The when you get the two roadsters sell them too and never ask for a bank loan again.

  • @ronaldderooij1774
    @ronaldderooij1774 Před 2 dny +176

    I have dreams too. I can't afford them. And buying a house like that whilst you complain that economic times were too uncertain to find buyers for your old house, well, don't you think that something does not add up? You say you should have done it a year earlier. Should have, could have, would have, will not save you. I don't want to sound jealous (I am not) but that house is far, far bigger than 99% of people have. You are a bit too materialistic in your ideals. That is your right, but yeah, that takes some luck and hard work to achieve. Luck is not on your side, so now with all due respect, you are in trouble. That's adult life man. You have children. They want a future. That house is your brainchild. Not your child.

    • @Guga410
      @Guga410 Před 2 dny +6

      you are so right. sad but true.

    • @yhfsywfit
      @yhfsywfit Před 2 dny +2

      Well said, Ronald.

    • @ildikopichler4349
      @ildikopichler4349 Před 2 dny +7

      Absolutely right. Nearly the hole house is build on money from the bank! Think about the loan interest of this borrowed 1,1 million Euro!!! I really don't understand this.
      He will have to sell the house!

  • @eyubbardakci1544
    @eyubbardakci1544 Před 2 dny +6

    Never thought i would write something like this but bro this is so messed up. You sit front of a big house, costs more than 15 mil, with pool and heated floor and you beg for money? Be a man and sell the damn house!

  • @NoelBarlau
    @NoelBarlau Před 2 dny +47

    "How much money is enough? Just a little bit more..." That saying rings true here. You're overextended and feeling the pinch, and I know that's a terrible feeling from personal experience. The only way out is to either reduce your financial obligations or increase your income. I hope you can make that happen, and I sincerely wish you the best. Your viewers know you're a good man who is just trying to take care of his family and be an honest dude. Please be sure your endorsements maintain your own personal high standards of quality, or you'll lose the trust of your viewers. Your wonderfully curated and lovingly tended channel can go downhill quickly if you don't. Once it has the scent of a paid shill channel, it's game over.

  • @kamma8659
    @kamma8659 Před 2 dny +51

    It is because of us viewers / followers that you have been given the opportunity to buy this house, and that you have bought a house beyond your ability to pay, it is only your own fault. I think it's quite sick to sit and beg for money from us viewers to be able to keep a luxury you can't really afford

    • @lembas.
      @lembas. Před 2 dny +1

      He put in the work and your viewership costs you nothing.

    • @sherlock_backs
      @sherlock_backs Před hodinou

      ​@@lembas.But it costs him everything...

  • @scubzi
    @scubzi Před 2 dny +14

    Thanks for all your great videos. I bought a TM3LR in 2021. I am at abort 150.000 km on the odometer. How many thousand DKK did I save on dino-juice? Time to pay you a bit back. Keep up the great work, Bjørn…

  • @user-ye1ui9uq8e
    @user-ye1ui9uq8e Před 2 dny +16

    Life style of the rich and famous. Should have built something small, comfortable and efficient.

    • @friedrichkoch5307
      @friedrichkoch5307 Před 2 dny +9

      He uses in one month as much electricity as I use in 3 years. And he says the house is efficient. I am speechless.

    • @user-ye1ui9uq8e
      @user-ye1ui9uq8e Před 2 dny +7

      ​@@friedrichkoch5307 exactly. I wish him and his fam best of luck but when I make unwise financial decisions I don't ask for money on CZcams to cover my mistakes. I take personal responsibility for my actions.

  • @itsyo42
    @itsyo42 Před 2 dny +72

    "It was out of my control", and that's exactly how you ended up like this.
    You have to face it, you made mistakes, yet you don't recognize it. Not a good look when you are begging for money.
    You can always start an OF and see how it goes, wish you good luck.

    • @bjornnyland
      @bjornnyland  Před 2 dny +3

      You don't know all the details. The contractor made a huge mistake delaying the house by 1 year...

    • @pristak
      @pristak Před 2 dny +9

      @@bjornnyland from my understanding you accepted that with the loan from the contractor. Now it is your problem that you have to own. You also sounded like you don’t know when that loan is due. Go and ask them about installments, most lenders are willing to postpone at least some of the repayments.

    • @itsyo42
      @itsyo42 Před 2 dny +8

      @@bjornnyland your own fault to not have this issue covered in the contract.
      When signing a contract, you always need to assume the worst can happen, and what is covered on your side.

    • @jcczz
      @jcczz Před 3 hodinami +1

      @@bjornnyland that is normal, building houses is the WORST thing you can do. Contractors can't be trusted.

  • @roadrunner222
    @roadrunner222 Před 2 dny +25

    Wow I have been impressed by all this guy does. Well done videos!
    But how could he be so naive about house costs…just stupid!
    Lend out money to this guy is like lightning a fire with money…….Björn I hope you get the money but please get real and shape up!

  • @ora10053
    @ora10053 Před 2 dny +5

    sell the house, you'll be a much happier and self respecting man without this burden

  • @winterwitter
    @winterwitter Před 2 dny +11

    Bought an eC4 then replaced with a TM3 SR under your guidance. My father ran his own company for 20 years, its a hard slog. Don’t give up, not just yet, looks like your viewers give you a bit more time ….

  • @jeffg9706
    @jeffg9706 Před 2 dny +17

    I grew up in a small 3 bedroom house rented by the council and it was great,
    I feel that you moved too quickly and working hard was a distraction too,
    I would consider selling the house for now and be happy you have a good family,
    Good luck i hope it works out for you all.

  • @davidmortensen4905
    @davidmortensen4905 Před 2 dny +11

    Many have written about the financial dispositions you and your wife have made. It is easy to look back in time, more difficult to look forward. So I don't want to comment on that, but I think you and your wife should ask the following questions.
    1. What is most important for our children's well-being and development?
    2. What is the most important thing for our relationship to survive?
    3. What will our lives look like in 1, 5 and 10 years with the choices we make now?
    I hope that together you will find a sustainable solution for the family.
    I hope you ride out the storm and come out as whole people on the other side.
    There are no right answers, but similar reflections.

  • @raisethereef
    @raisethereef Před 2 dny +9

    Welcome to being an adult. You made many mistakes in a row and are now paying for it. You don't need time as you claim. You need a reality check. Sadly, total failure may be that reality check you get. Of course, you can avoid the humiliation and failure by selling the house ASAP (even at a small loss) and accepting the mistakes have been made. Don't make more mistakes to try and correct all the original mistakes.
    The saying "you can't borrow your way out of debt" seems to apply here. Wifey needs to get out and work. Sorry. Life is hard. Pay for daycare. 99% of us have to live this way. Begging on CZcams is one of the worst looks you could possibly have right now.
    If all you need is a little time like you claim, wifey won't have to work long to get your finances back in check. Sadly, this isn't true but at least you can try and continue on this path of bankruptcy and no credit.
    YOUR WORRY SHOULD BE ABOUT YOUR KIDS, NOT KEEPING A TOTALLY OVERPRICED HOUSE.

    • @UndefeatedDeity
      @UndefeatedDeity Před 3 hodinami

      Sadly, he will eventually sell the house. Well-paying CZcams channels don’t last forever. The lifespan is +/- 7 years. So when the income runs dry on CZcams, then what? He still has to do this CZcams thing practically till he dies.

  • @superfly2nd
    @superfly2nd Před 2 dny +69

    Hi Bjørn, thanks to your video’s I’ve bought multiple EV’s for my family and also convinced friends and my parents to buy EV’s.
    All your detailed video’s and exceptional Google Sheet gave me the confidence to buy my first EV.
    It also showed how good the Scandinavian EV infrastructure is, which made us do 2 holiday roadtrips to Norway and Sweden. I’m actually typing this from our Airbnb is Sweden. It also made watching video’s about EV’s fun and I look forward to every new video you post!
    Let’s hope these small contributions help out enough so you don’t need to pay these huge interest rates anymore.

  • @buckymoto1784
    @buckymoto1784 Před 2 dny +45

    This situation happens everyday to ordinary people who don't own a YT channel to beg for money.. They don't have 300k subscribers to beg.. You didn't. Budget correctly and you made your own bed, you can lay in it...
    You didn't Need an enormous house to raise your family. You didn't NEED a swimming pool. I would have loved a swimming pool, but I was wise and built my house to what I could afford. I raised my 2 kid family in a 1000sq ft house with a single garage and not heated floors.. And my kids loved life just as good as if I had a fancy house 4x the size...like has been said in other comments... Kids don't care what size your house is... Live too your earnings... You got greedy and expect public to bail you out 🤷‍♂️

    • @buckymoto1784
      @buckymoto1784 Před 2 dny +1

      @@Ajay-kl8el if people are stupid enough.. 🙈

  • @KookyBone
    @KookyBone Před 2 dny +14

    Sorry to hear... The biggest mistake people now a days when building a house is to add extra stuff to the standard models (special kitchen, special color, bathroom changes)... This will explode the cost. Just build the standard model and than over time you can hire craftsman that can add the extras...
    Another thing i suggested to a friend... If you take a loan than with a fixed rate - yes here in Germany the rate wil be a bit higher 7-9% instead of 5-7%, but at least you can calculate all your financial burden... At the moment there is a huge risk that intrest rates could spiral out of control because the inflation is still not in control... Risky business to take loans right now.
    And the third thing is really important - when building a house, always calculate about 20% of rising cost... Often there come a lot extra cost on top (materials get more expensive, work needs longer, stuff was not correctly calculated and many more thing) that will add up... So if you get an offer to build a house for 1 Million, always be prepaired to pay 1.2 million or more

  • @iambenmitchell
    @iambenmitchell Před 2 dny +14

    Bjorn, I’ve been watching your channel for so many years and you’re one of the most talented people on the platform. I don’t know you personally but you seem really genuine and kind on camera. And I really hope you find a solution that is best for your family soon and this doesn’t hang over your head for too long.
    With that said, I think what’s happened is you’ve flown too close to the sun with this one. It seems like you’ve gone for the best of the best offering when it’s come to things like kitchen, garage, paint, etc.
    We have a saying in the UK “spend a penny (£0.01) to save a pound (£1)”
    But it seems like what you’ve done is spent a pound to save a penny. Yes long term it will pay off, but given the current financial climate since 2019 or so, I’m not sure that’s been wise.
    Yes long term I’m sure having a fancy kitchen will be better than an IKEA one, but it seems that short term you can’t afford it.
    I hope you can find some money through sponsors and you don’t dig yourself bigger hole.
    I think you have flown too close to the sun, buying a massive house for just 2 kids when something half the size would have been amazing for them, and something like a 2 bedroom apartment would have been acceptable.
    Personally I think (and this is not financial advice or anything) but I would sell the house and cut my losses, then buy another already built house that is half the size and live there for 3 or 4 years while you get your finances back on track. And then maybe you’ll be able to buy your dream house back, or be in a better position to build another one using the experience you’ve learnt from this house to make sure you don’t make the same mistakes again.
    Some of the prices I’ve seen you say for what you’ve spent just make no sense to me, obviously i understand that you and your wife probably don’t have the time to paint your house yourself, but £8,500 seems like a lot to me.
    Anyway, to put what I’ve said into more relatable terms:
    Your current house is a Tesla model S plaid
    You should get yourself a house that’s more like a standard range model 3
    But people are doing perfectly fine raising children in houses that are more like a Volkswagen Passat

    • @syedabid3010
      @syedabid3010 Před 2 dny +1

      Painting is very expensive in Norway. I wanted to get the entire interior painted on my 130+ sqm house and the estimates were somewhere in the range of 70k to 90k NOK, so i started doing it myself, one wall per weekend :) and now I have covered almost all of the interior. Paid less than 5000 NOK for the paint and the equipment.
      8500 pounds for the entire exterior on this humungous house is perfectly reasonable price in Norway (considering the scaffolding costs as well)

  • @michaelmeier2037
    @michaelmeier2037 Před 2 dny +11

    You shouldn't let your family put you under too much pressure. Sell the house and make sure your children are raised well and lovingly. When you're back on your feet financially, you can think about a new house, which you should plan in a modular way so that the size and features of the house adapt to the bank balance. Basically, in my opinion, you've got the order wrong. First comes the big bank account and then comes the big house. I hope you have a good financial advisor for all your future decisions and the balls to make tough and necessary decisions. Go for it.

  • @mimo5383
    @mimo5383 Před 2 dny +50

    It could be worse. Like me, you could live in Sydney :)

    • @b8xer0
      @b8xer0 Před 2 dny

      Hahahaha yes!!

    • @chris5248
      @chris5248 Před 2 dny +1

      Second worst place in affordability after Hong Kong

    • @Tommmmmmmmmmmm
      @Tommmmmmmmmmmm Před 2 dny +4

      A house like this in Sydney would be $8,000,000 AUD minimum

    • @uderzo1984
      @uderzo1984 Před 2 dny

      yikes, the second most expensive city in the world. The housing market in Sydney, and Australia in general, are insane :O and I thought it was bad here i Norway.

    • @yeahbuddy92193911
      @yeahbuddy92193911 Před 2 dny

      I saw Sydney in an article about unaffordable cities, I was shocked. These prices are unsustainable, the housing market needs a crash. And we can't blame the government for this, this is just capitalism with a bit of greed and FOMO and most of all over extending ourselves.

  • @vb8253
    @vb8253 Před 2 dny +13

    When I saw that house for the first time, I thought "He certanly have a good business or big passive incomes so he can afford all this and also have enough time for youtubing with car tests". And then was pool, garage, kitchen and so on. That prices are huge! I always wanted big house for my family, but we decided to bought big appartment rather then house to have good infrastructure around in walkaway distance. But the point is before we bought that appartment, we worked hard to make anough money to buy it without any loans or credits! Only this way can guarantee you that you can afford some thing because you already know you have all necessary sum for that thing. Yes, you should spend some time of your life to make that money without directly usage of it. But this gives you positive delta - it is your money and you are their owner, so you can feel how hard you got it and what part of it you are ready to spend for your dream.

    • @lkrnpk
      @lkrnpk Před 2 dny

      In some places it is possible, where real estate is rather cheap but you can earn a lot, sure. And usually such places/countries also have high mortgage interest rates which make it less appealing to take a loan. But in many places it would really take a long time to earn all that money. Like where I live my mortgage is actually lower than what I would pay if I rented the place, sure you also need to put down your own money to take out mortgage but prices of real estate have also risen. I took out my mortgage in 2017 and I am happy, because if I had not done that and just saved money, today I would be still renting some place and would not have enough money to buy an apartment as prices have gone up significantly. Thing is in the last 7 years real estate prices have probably gone up like 40%, while if I had invested all that money in some regular financial instruments, I do not see how it would have grown by 40%

    • @vb8253
      @vb8253 Před 2 dny

      @@lkrnpk Makes sense. Also you can firstly buy small apartment and after several years sell it and buy something bigger.

  • @Brzeczyszczykiewicz1
    @Brzeczyszczykiewicz1 Před 2 dny +8

    Buying a house over your budget is often not going to work out and sometimes you gotta face realities. Buy something cheaper and buy something that you know you can afford in difficult times.

  • @22Epic
    @22Epic Před 2 dny +13

    It's time to learn the difference between what you need and what you want. If you don't have the money you should focus on what you need, but I see a lot of what you want in the video. And now you're gonna learn it the hard way because even if you sell the house it will be probably for less than what you owe.

  • @Raiffa2
    @Raiffa2 Před 2 dny +13

    It's astonishing to see someone in such a position, seemingly oblivious to the financial realities faced by most people. The insistence on maintaining an extravagant lifestyle, despite the obvious strain it puts on others, suggests a level of megalomania that's troubling. It's not just about the money but the lack of awareness and empathy for those who struggle with far less. There's a fine line between enjoying success and indulging in excess. This situation highlights the importance of responsible financial planning and compassion towards others' challenges.

  • @chrisbailey5055
    @chrisbailey5055 Před 2 dny +65

    19:40 ummmm, you cant afford it, you are asking youtube viewers for loans...I would suggest taking this video down, and find a financial planner.

    • @stefan2796
      @stefan2796 Před dnem +1

      Or start filling an excel sheet with financial data, next to an excel sheet with EV data.

  • @yohan9577
    @yohan9577 Před 2 dny +17

    That's why usually people calculate a lot before buying or contracting a loan, with safety margins, just in case. It seems that you miscalculate the costs. Maybe you can redo the maths, find a descent house you can afford, slightly less expensive and stop struggling for one extra million. Then, when you'll become richer, you rebuy this house eventually !

    • @febrianadji5758
      @febrianadji5758 Před 2 dny

      Thing was those additional cost appear when the initial purchase has been done
      Ig he doesn't really spare a ton for urgent/unknown things that would happened

    • @yohan9577
      @yohan9577 Před 2 dny

      @@febrianadji5758 My point is that it seems that there was not enough "safety margin", and he seems to have caried out many works on the house which could have been postponed. Plus he seems to refer to his potential future financial capcacity instead of sticking to his current reality

    • @yohan9577
      @yohan9577 Před 2 dny

      @@febrianadji5758 My point is that it seems that there was not enough "safety margin", and he seems to have carried out many works on the house which could have been postponed. Plus he seems to refer to his potential future financial capacity instead of sticking to his current reality

    • @yohan9577
      @yohan9577 Před 2 dny

      and I don't blame him, because I have myself the exact opposite problem : I overthink and tend to calculate so much that I would never take any risk. I guess the best way is to go somewhere between.

  • @mikareinikka
    @mikareinikka Před 2 dny +6

    Honesty, just cut all non-essental shoppings/payments and sell the house asap. Those expeses, multiple loans and huge interest rates are a bomb just waiting to go off. Secure the family, save some money and aim for a smaller house. 😊

  • @roarjorgensen1166
    @roarjorgensen1166 Před 2 dny +21

    Please stop feeling sorry for yourself. The more you explain the more you come across as a big spender with limited self insight.
    You had a good house before, sell this and buy something cheaper.
    This feeling sorry for yourself if anything gives you less credibility.
    This is not a hate reply, just trying to give some advice.
    Consider a regular job for yourself and your wife, children in barnehage like everyone else in Norway.

  • @stealthirl
    @stealthirl Před 2 dny +7

    When we moved into our house we had no floor coverings upstairs and cheep carpet downstairs, no blinds/curtins and old funiture, it wasant untill 12-18 months latter we had most of it sorted. You realy need to talk to a financhal consultant and stop liveing beyond your means.

  • @Abendschnee
    @Abendschnee Před 2 dny +36

    Mhh 1000 qm for 2 kids and the parents and a dog. Do you really mean that this is nessesarry? I think you've bitten off more than you can chew. Downsizing, even with losses, makes you and your family freer!

    • @22Epic
      @22Epic Před 2 dny +3

      It's the size of the lot, not the house.

  • @WiZe1972
    @WiZe1972 Před 2 dny +30

    Hi Bjorn, I can relate in a way; I had a quite nice house but we were complaining about being at 900 meters altitude, snow, small kids around. So, in 2020, we decided to sell and move down close to the lake. We saw that cool project of a house with quite big land and the swimming pool. Mortgage rates were so low at that time that we decided to go on. Unfortunately we’ve been scammed by some criminals that took our money and went bankrupt, a legal action is in place but I’m not expecting anything out of it. We’ve been forced to rent a flat while our new house was having issues during the building, we had to redo everything and add 420k to the mortgage .
    It has been emotionally and financially really hard but we finally moved to our new house last April. Same as you, I’m not sure if it will be financially ok. Thanks God, despite having a 27k CZcams channel, I could never rely on it to pay my bills; I have a 8 to 5 job, wife also and CZcams is some little income.
    We will see how things evolve and, if needed, try to sell the house with a margin as land value went quite up since we bought it.
    There is always the sun after the storm, stay strong, see the glass always half full and smile to everyone!

    • @LittleSpot
      @LittleSpot Před 2 dny +9

      I don't really understand the swimming pool thing. For me a house is a really big project. And a pool is an extra of cost. In my head, i would build the house, and than add extras later when all in the house is stable.
      Sorry for all this shit you went through. I just try to understand what people feel about this pool thingy.

    • @WiZe1972
      @WiZe1972 Před 2 dny

      @@LittleSpot Your question is understandable, I decided to keep the swimming pool for two reasons: It will help for the resale value and I didn’t want to look at my land and think that, because of criminals, I would not have the swimming pool that was planned since the beginning

  • @enoughofthis
    @enoughofthis Před 2 dny +102

    Sell, lose money, gain peace of mind.

    • @Mike-kr5dn
      @Mike-kr5dn Před 2 dny +6

      Thats a loser take.

    • @Test4Echos
      @Test4Echos Před 2 dny +1

      @@Mike-kr5dn Not when you count in that Europes economy will get worse and worse.

    • @alfrredd
      @alfrredd Před 2 dny

      No, just make Idehus wait, they're a big company they can handle it.

    • @Brzeczyszczykiewicz1
      @Brzeczyszczykiewicz1 Před 2 dny +4

      ​@@Mike-kr5dnBegging for money when you obviously can't afford a house is a loser take.

    • @stefan2796
      @stefan2796 Před dnem

      Or: get rid of the loan with that insane interest rate (10-15%).

  • @MonsterSound
    @MonsterSound Před 2 dny +18

    17:52 "I spend the money wisely." Shiiiiiiiit. De-Nile is not just a river in Egypt. Sorry Bjorn, Whine by the pool is not a good look?
    Most people work hard too. Good luck btw
    Remember, you've got your health (which is way more important than a heated garage and a pool).

  • @FrankNolf
    @FrankNolf Před 2 dny +7

    I had a feeling that a video like this was coming. Bad look tbh

  • @orzelda9955
    @orzelda9955 Před 2 dny +7

    Appreciate the honesty and transparency. Sell that house asap.
    You’ll live as will the wifey and kids. There’s nothing to be gained from having this burden on your shoulders whilst also running a CZcams channel, being a father, being a husband and everything.

  • @hindafinga4890
    @hindafinga4890 Před 2 dny +7

    During the day the sun costs nothing compared to the heat pump - I see that kitchen pricing ripoffs are not only active in Germany.

  • @erikjacobsen444
    @erikjacobsen444 Před 2 dny +8

    Bigger the house, bigger the problem. Bigger the problem, bigger the headache.

  • @MagnusTheViking
    @MagnusTheViking Před 2 dny +9

    You should have built an utleiedel/hybel in your house. Then you can get tax free income, and use that future income to increase the limit on your loan in your bank. Wifey should also get a job after the maternity leave.

  • @allannielsen1546
    @allannielsen1546 Před 2 dny +148

    This is sad. Sell the house - get your dignity back- and focus on your core strenghts: The EV reviews.

  • @zero1666
    @zero1666 Před 2 dny +15

    All the best Bjørn! Get those sponsorships man!

  • @konradfichtner112
    @konradfichtner112 Před 2 dny +7

    I wish you all the best - thanks for all your content. You paved the way for so many people (and perhaps even companys) concerning EVs.

  • @madsjakobsen5102
    @madsjakobsen5102 Před 2 dny +20

    It's never a good idea to spend to the entire extend of your means. And you most likely knew that, but feeling successful and rich is a very blinding "drug". I wish I could help you, but I honestly think that you already know what the proper and reasonable solution is.
    I really feel your pain, though. The house looks awesome and I think it would be really cool to live such a place.
    Can you not take up some of the loan in your company, since the company is being run out of your house as well? I don't know Norwegian laws, of course, but it's pretty common in Denmark. Or maybe actually spend some money on an accountant, that specializes in situations like yours, being "buried" in loans. 🙂
    Best of luck to you and your family. And I've subscribed, you're making great videos!

    • @Fs0n1ine
      @Fs0n1ine Před 2 dny

      I doubt Björn feels "successfull and rich" so I don't really get that part. The rest, sure, reloaning sounds like part of the equation.

    • @madsjakobsen5102
      @madsjakobsen5102 Před 2 dny +5

      @@Fs0n1ine yeah, it came off a little wrong. It’s just… you don’t accidentally build a home for 10+ million NOK. But when making decisions, it’s easy to get drawn into the premium choices all around. There’s a reason a lot of reality TV is being made about this issue - in Denmark we have “the luxury trap”. Because as Bjorn states in this video, he’s basically stuck now, due to price fluctuations. Had they reasoned for the IKEA kitchen and so on, in many cases, they could instead have had a much larger monetary safety, and gradually been able to upgrade these things when they actually had the funds. And it’s not like they can’t have a heated pool. I think that’s a great choice. But opting for an insanely expensive (in my opinion, ofc) kitchen, doesn’t make sense, when you still have to loan all the money.

  • @rexburgemeister1766
    @rexburgemeister1766 Před 2 dny +4

    Thanks, I have been watching your channel for a long time at no cost. Probably since 2015 when I bought my first EV. A lot of car channels don't review cars truthfully because they don't want to offend manufacturers. Your channel is different...

  • @CheddarKungPao
    @CheddarKungPao Před 2 dny +146

    Love to you and the family, Bjorn. Your channel is an unbelievable resource for all EV drivers.

  • @Igor-ok7ru
    @Igor-ok7ru Před 2 dny +9

    I hope you find a solution and keep everything you've worked so hard for. Wishing you the best

  • @christophernoble6810
    @christophernoble6810 Před 2 dny +8

    Brings to mind the TV series in U.K. Grand Designs where almost all participants over extended on their building costs and yet most did not resort to selling. Did the Company making the series help them out financially?

    • @londonwestman1
      @londonwestman1 Před 2 dny

      Yes. I think the TV company will have found ways to help a bit sometimes. Besides some of those houses, Bjørn's one is almost modest😉.