सर आप हमेशा हिंदी में बोला करो ताकि हम छोटे गांव में रहने वाले सरकारी हिंदी मीडियम स्कूल में जाने वाले आपकी बात को अच्छी तरह समझ सके! हमें आपके बातों से और आपसे बहुत प्रेरणा मिलती है बहुत ज्यादा ऊर्जा मिलती है 🙏🙏🙏
5 cheezein jo aadmi ki life barbaad kar sakti hai! 1. Internet(po*n, video games, etcetera) 2. Junk food 3. Laziness 4. Lack of risk taking 5. Wrong partner
Pta nhi porn dekhne ki jrurat hi kya prti h. Kon dekhta h porn. Man v gnda hota hoga . Time v waste. Isse acha to insaan so jaye. Rest kre. Din bhar kaam krne k bad .
Ego mein yeh bhi hota hai ki koi Aapki baat mein interfare karta ho "ki yeh galat hai" aur "iska meaning galat hai according to u" ... aise jo karte hain log unpe mujhe ghussa aa jaata hai ki woh har baat mein choti choti galtiyaan ya Gyanchand kyun bante hain. Yeh ghussa bhi mera Ego ke kaaran hai? Ya woh Banda Rude ya entitled hai ? Mujhe lagta hai akad toh mere mein hai. How should I reply to such comments?
Ego is necessary but in a positive way because it does helps in achieving your goal. Dont be egoistic to other people, you should compare yourself to you only.
@@monurajput5608 many people think that whatever they know about a particular thing/person/ situation is the ultimate truth but always forget that the perception that they have built about the situation is a reflection of their personality traits. There are various ways to look into a particular situation and people chose the way they are most comfortable with. When people force their views on you and try to disregard your way of thinking, it’s simply because of their insecurity and ego. A truly genius person will always value other’s opinions along with his own. But everything has its own pros and cons. One should follow the path which is more suitable to him and be ready to embrace the cons that come along the way…….therefore if someone is finding little little mistakes, he is either behaving out of his own insecurity/ego or living with the notion that whatever he has experienced in life is the ultimate truth. It’s always better to ignore such people than to prove your points to them. But at the same time, you have to evaluate his perspective with respect to the situation you are in and take a decision whether to accept the other person’s opinion or just let it go, because what matters in the end is your actions and your ability to handle the consequences. Therefore if someone is discarding your views, the wisest thing to do is to see whether his views, if applied in your life, can bring in some positives in your life/ add some values to your life or not. If yes, then follow his views and if not, just ignore his views as they may not be applicable to you. Always count on the positives you get rather than the negatives that you may endure. Your anger may be due to your ego / frustration when something doesn’t work according to your expectations . You have to look within yourself to see you are on which side and then work on it
@@chinmayachirasundaranayak889 thanks Alot sir ..mam🙏🏻🧡I will read Your comment and try to fully understand all of it. I think I also have insecurities and ego because I felt neglected in childhood so I was always competing with other kids. And I have always been a irritated moody person since childhood. I get easily upset and bothered by people not considering my emotions or when u feel like ppl only want their way. I kno you can't expect from others .
Chetan, Brother ... I'm "successful"... in a good job, but in my comfort zone and with poor health... and I know that I can do much more with my potential. Thank you so so much for inspiring and guiding me to do better.
Due to lack of "confidence" & shy nature I lost most of the things I liked/Loved. So add one more point "confidence" Under confidence/over confidence both can ruin one's life...
I used to not like your books after reading half-girlfriend even though I loved 2 of your books earlier and fell into accord with the reviews of many people who called your content mediocre. Today after watching some of your content my perception has totally changed. Thank you Chetan sir, glad to find this channel!
Some of your words hit hard and it's really helpful for the growth. It really pushes me to get up and work. Sadly,When we "grow up" there is really nobody to scold us. Thank you for being there and make us see what reality actually is !
Sir you are changing life of youths.... Big thanks to you... I know this kind of video don't get much views but still you are doing.... That is the honesty...
This young generation could learn a lot from u sir , just due to u i started zym & m feeling a different energy in myself & i truely believe in ur saying "Make muscle & make money" Thnks a lot sir🙏
Hats off! Broadly all your points have covered almost everything. It's a self check for all of us. This generation also needs to look inwards. We should not get carried away only by looking to the outside world.
Sir mujhe aapki baate suna bahuut accha lagta hai.... Aap hamesha reality ki baat karte ho.. Aap mujhe bahut inspire karte Ho. Thank you soo much dil se ❤❤
Dear brother Chetan thanks for making such brilliant life changing videos. I am not alone in my family who is learning continuously from your videos, but my wife and son (14 yrs) also watch all your videos. Our family environment is getting better day by day because of practical solutions to life problems. Keep up the good work. Best wishes. 💐
He's such a pristine character! Thank you for igniting the fire inside the youth of today! Your videos hv been really inspirational, y doing a great job out there! 🙆♀
I am not going to tell you that which things destroy you but here I am gonna tell you only one thing that make you successful which is Your one an only *Stubbornness* . I can give it to you in writing, apart from your stubbornness, nothing in the world can make you successful, be stubborn, just stubborn. All the best warrior 🍷..😎..👍
Chetan sir!!!! It’s been very long I can here for your videos, I used to keep checking if any new video comes from you…but due to some busy schedule I am not able to hear from you..but here I scroll my CZcams and grab on to your video,,,,seriously Chetan sir you are a true gem….whatever I do In my life your videos are the true mirror for me…and it’s feels like a sense of liveliness. Your line “killing time till death for binge watch” is something a deep issue that everyone needs to take care. Because these things are okay for a certain age and time…but at the end of the day the only thing matter is how productive you are toward your life…. Chetan sir huge fan of yours❣️….I always dreamed to meet you one day in my life since my childhood ..from the days I used to addicted to your books…I hope one day I meet you. 🙏
Chetan sir ,, you are absolutely fantastic ..after listerning to you , it feels like you are modern day Socrates.. thank you for being there. Your presence on youtube is like a lotus in the mud..
I always feel motivated after listening to you sir the way you explain everything is really osam and its true . Thank you sir it meant a lot for me .❤️ Always love for you ❤️
6 cheez hai...not learning to manage money..people from best colleges or schools do not know how to handle money..would like to see chetan sir talk about handling wealth among young millenials, who are falling into debt trap these days...please use your stature to educate them
i am watching this video again and again...because many lesson's in one video....again thank you sir...hume seekhane ke liye...sir suna tha ki apne se better/bade logon ke sath raho qki real life ke bare me imp cheezen seekhne milti hein..meri life mein woh experienced/bade person banne ke liye Bigg thank you..yeh internet ka 1+point hai😊
You r doing great work and the things that you share as ur experience from a Middle class family is grtt. I really appreciate that you are honest and take unbiased side of Kashmiri Hindus and justice for them. Because that was a real genocide which CLEARLY for personal means and neglegance was played by Demons of our society.
I respect your insights sir ✨🙏. So much in-depth analysis you have told!!!! Mad respect sir. P.S. I don't support & watch porn since 1+ years and semen retention is on 💙. You really deserve beyond 1+ million subscribers 💯
Chetan sir. For me u r like god. Your suggestion saved and changed my life completely. Apne chamanlal bnne se bacha liya thank you very much for your valuable videos. Thanks a lot 🙏
Thanks for this nice video. I just want to mention about-Addictions-alcohol/smoking/drugs. Also talking about a solution to all of this- please lets not forget to introduce atleast a spoonful of spirituality in our lives
I think..one more thing: lack of zeal to do something worth in life...mindset also ruins life. Please make a video on How to Quit Job and starting your own sir...please..
Aaj 7 baje first day gym karke ghar aya and youtube on karte hi apka ye video dekha .i am only 28 i did so many good and bad thing in my life last year i was confident ki job to nahi karna hai ...i make music ..usally i quit job last year after save money wanna take risk to became rapper .but now from last month i broke. I loose ,some amount in tradind after that i qiut trade .. now har bar deemag me khayal ata hai ki wapas job karloo ya passion follow karoo...but bhale kuch bhi karoo soch. Soch k 1 saal bita die maine now aaj se gym and hard work start kardia hai thanks for boosting me
Amazing...mind blowing video. I am surprised to see that this kind of people,this quality of people is available in india, what else we expect. I will recommend chetan bhagat's videos to everyone.
Thank u Sir, for sharing such valuable knowledge, which no school or college will ever teach us. Especially how boldly u talk about porn is so much appreciable.
Collective information in one video. However I would like to add more points like tension, bad character, cheating but not having courage to accept the truth, not respecting parents.These eventually leads to unsuccessful life.
You're such an awesome bully...the moment you said..."tum binge watch krte ho... really"... I really felt that big bro vibe who's humiliating you for your own good.... 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻 I'm looking at you as one of my mentors
Do not chase money which most of people doing this time instead of this chase excellence , self growth and focus on learning. Everything will automatically come to you. Thankyou chetan sir.
Things that did harm some time of my life, I've commented below but now hopefully, I'm practicing being aware and I'd say the journey has started. --CZcams (basically, binge watching and motivational videos, real motivation comes when u actually get up and start progressing in ur work) --Porn (definitely, I'd call the most addictive and most destructive element out there for the boys)
सर आप हमेशा हिंदी में बोला करो ताकि हम छोटे गांव में रहने वाले सरकारी हिंदी मीडियम स्कूल में जाने वाले आपकी बात को अच्छी तरह समझ सके! हमें आपके बातों से और आपसे बहुत प्रेरणा मिलती है बहुत ज्यादा ऊर्जा मिलती है 🙏🙏🙏
5 cheezein jo aadmi ki life barbaad kar sakti hai!
1. Internet(po*n, video games, etcetera)
2. Junk food
3. Laziness
4. Lack of risk taking
5. Wrong partner
Bhai Teri understanding ko hats-off..
Thank you bhai
Pta nhi porn dekhne ki jrurat hi kya prti h. Kon dekhta h porn. Man v gnda hota hoga . Time v waste. Isse acha to insaan so jaye. Rest kre. Din bhar kaam krne k bad .
Paanchon gun hai mere pass...
@@amisha.3079 Mardo ko bhagwan n jaan bujh k ye s ex jada diya huwa h taki insan aage bdh ske
One more thing is Ego can also ruin one’s life…..a person should always be down to earth and be willing to learn.
Ego mein yeh bhi hota hai ki koi Aapki baat mein interfare karta ho "ki yeh galat hai" aur "iska meaning galat hai according to u" ... aise jo karte hain log unpe mujhe ghussa aa jaata hai ki woh har baat mein choti choti galtiyaan ya Gyanchand kyun bante hain. Yeh ghussa bhi mera Ego ke kaaran hai? Ya woh Banda Rude ya entitled hai ? Mujhe lagta hai akad toh mere mein hai. How should I reply to such comments?
Ego is necessary but in a positive way because it does helps in achieving your goal. Dont be egoistic to other people, you should compare yourself to you only.
@@monurajput5608 many people think that whatever they know about a particular thing/person/ situation is the ultimate truth but always forget that the perception that they have built about the situation is a reflection of their personality traits. There are various ways to look into a particular situation and people chose the way they are most comfortable with. When people force their views on you and try to disregard your way of thinking, it’s simply because of their insecurity and ego. A truly genius person will always value other’s opinions along with his own. But everything has its own pros and cons. One should follow the path which is more suitable to him and be ready to embrace the cons that come along the way…….therefore if someone is finding little little mistakes, he is either behaving out of his own insecurity/ego or living with the notion that whatever he has experienced in life is the ultimate truth. It’s always better to ignore such people than to prove your points to them. But at the same time, you have to evaluate his perspective with respect to the situation you are in and take a decision whether to accept the other person’s opinion or just let it go, because what matters in the end is your actions and your ability to handle the consequences. Therefore if someone is discarding your views, the wisest thing to do is to see whether his views, if applied in your life, can bring in some positives in your life/ add some values to your life or not. If yes, then follow his views and if not, just ignore his views as they may not be applicable to you. Always count on the positives you get rather than the negatives that you may endure. Your anger may be due to your ego / frustration when something doesn’t work according to your expectations . You have to look within yourself to see you are on which side and then work on it
@@chinmayachirasundaranayak889 thanks Alot sir ..mam🙏🏻🧡I will read Your comment and try to fully understand all of it. I think I also have insecurities and ego because I felt neglected in childhood so I was always competing with other kids. And I have always been a irritated moody person since childhood. I get easily upset and bothered by people not considering my emotions or when u feel like ppl only want their way. I kno you can't expect from others .
Chetan, Brother ... I'm "successful"... in a good job, but in my comfort zone and with poor health... and I know that I can do much more with my potential. Thank you so so much for inspiring and guiding me to do better.
Crypto me kitna loss khaya
@@sagarkadam13 not selling my crypto for next few years
@@shaxter oho
@@shaxter kitna invest kiya haiq
where do you do your job.....?
Due to lack of "confidence" & shy nature I lost most of the things I liked/Loved.
So add one more point "confidence"
Under confidence/over confidence both can ruin one's life...
Same here
@@apu8223
Like? What did u lose?
what u lost
I'm on a good path & I realised that after watching this video. Thank you Chetan sir! 🤗
I used to not like your books after reading half-girlfriend even though I loved 2 of your books earlier and fell into accord with the reviews of many people who called your content mediocre. Today after watching some of your content my perception has totally changed. Thank you Chetan sir, glad to find this channel!
Some of your words hit hard and it's really helpful for the growth. It really pushes me to get up and work. Sadly,When we "grow up" there is really nobody to scold us. Thank you for being there and make us see what reality actually is !
Sir you are changing life of youths.... Big thanks to you... I know this kind of video don't get much views but still you are doing.... That is the honesty...
This young generation could learn a lot from u sir , just due to u i started zym & m feeling a different energy in myself & i truely believe in ur saying "Make muscle & make money"
Thnks a lot sir🙏
*Thank you so much chetan Sir Pure desh me sirf aap hi ho jo clearly saaf bolta he verna sab ghuma rhe he* 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Overthinking at its best can ruin everything but it's a prolonged habit i guess
Next topic -how to accept
Your mistake and move on
And how to start from a zero level!
there is a malayalam movie called
vellam 2021 may be you will get an idea
Save Yourself❤
Thank you chetan sir to remember these point!!
Hats off! Broadly all your points have covered almost everything. It's a self check for all of us. This generation also needs to look inwards. We should not get carried away only by looking to the outside world.
Sir mujhe aapki baate suna bahuut accha lagta hai.... Aap hamesha reality ki baat karte ho.. Aap mujhe bahut inspire karte Ho. Thank you soo much dil se ❤❤
You said the truth... thank you for all your support & contribution to focus what's important in life! 🙏🙏
Dear brother Chetan thanks for making such brilliant life changing videos. I am not alone in my family who is learning continuously from your videos, but my wife and son (14 yrs) also watch all your videos. Our family environment is getting better day by day because of practical solutions to life problems. Keep up the good work. Best wishes. 💐
He's such a pristine character! Thank you for igniting the fire inside the youth of today! Your videos hv been really inspirational, y doing a great job out there! 🙆♀
Best thing to excel in life and be successful is to make progressive and enthusiastic friends. It will matter a lot who you are in company with.
Thank you sir for awakening the present generation with your valuable words.
I am not going to tell you that which things destroy you but here I am gonna tell you only one thing that make you successful which is Your one an only *Stubbornness* .
I can give it to you in writing, apart from your stubbornness, nothing in the world can make you successful, be stubborn, just stubborn.
All the best warrior 🍷..😎..👍
Love Chetan in this new avatar; he is adding immense value through these videos
Shukriya guruji for all your valuable content and helping us to change our life🥺❤️
Chetan sir!!!! It’s been very long I can here for your videos, I used to keep checking if any new video comes from you…but due to some busy schedule I am not able to hear from you..but here I scroll my CZcams and grab on to your video,,,,seriously Chetan sir you are a true gem….whatever I do In my life your videos are the true mirror for me…and it’s feels like a sense of liveliness. Your line “killing time till death for binge watch” is something a deep issue that everyone needs to take care. Because these things are okay for a certain age and time…but at the end of the day the only thing matter is how productive you are toward your life…. Chetan sir huge fan of yours❣️….I always dreamed to meet you one day in my life since my childhood ..from the days I used to addicted to your books…I hope one day I meet you. 🙏
Yes sir 😊 -*Time once gone is gone forever* so don't waste time in these stupid things. 😊😊❤️❤️
Chetan sir ,, you are absolutely fantastic ..after listerning to you , it feels like you are modern day Socrates.. thank you for being there. Your presence on youtube is like a lotus in the mud..
BIG BRO jb aap smjhate ho na toh aisa lgta Mera apna bada bhai smjha rha muje... Thank you Man
This person knows everything like he knows and shows it through his books and all time favorite author for sure
I always feel motivated after listening to you sir the way you explain everything is really osam and its true . Thank you sir it meant a lot for me .❤️ Always love for you ❤️
iss podcast ko dekh ke aisa lagta he sir mujhe bol rahe he vo bhi mere samne mere pass beth ke , i mean amazing wow.
you are the influencer that all the indian youth wants..great man...i just cant express your efforts in words...keep motivating,, great work..
6 cheez hai...not learning to manage money..people from best colleges or schools do not know how to handle money..would like to see chetan sir talk about handling wealth among young millenials, who are falling into debt trap these days...please use your stature to educate them
Any kind of addiction will barbad life at some point....sir plz talk about balancing in life❤
i am watching this video again and again...because many lesson's in one video....again thank you sir...hume seekhane ke liye...sir suna tha ki apne se better/bade logon ke sath raho qki real life ke bare me imp cheezen seekhne milti hein..meri life mein woh experienced/bade person banne ke liye Bigg thank you..yeh internet ka 1+point hai😊
Amazing Sir!
Chetan , I find your videos more straight forward which makes u different from other motivational speakers .
You r doing great work and the things that you share as ur experience from a Middle class family is grtt.
I really appreciate that you are honest and take unbiased side of Kashmiri Hindus and justice for them. Because that was a real genocide which CLEARLY for personal means and neglegance was played by Demons of our society.
Thank you so much Sir for this motivation dose, fully pumped up now! ⚡❤️
I respect your insights sir ✨🙏. So much in-depth analysis you have told!!!! Mad respect sir. P.S. I don't support & watch porn since 1+ years and semen retention is on 💙. You really deserve beyond 1+ million subscribers 💯
true sir....aap hmesha right time pe sahi guide krte h thanku so much for like a good friend ..u r the inspiration of mine
Thank you Sir for putting my life on the right track again ❤🙏
♥️lovely♥️this video is giving me confidence that I'm going on right path by the grace of God.
You're absolutely right as always Sir. I feel Perfectionism and negativity etc. can be added ..
Chetan sir. For me u r like god. Your suggestion saved and changed my life completely.
Apne chamanlal bnne se bacha liya thank you very much for your valuable videos.
Thanks a lot 🙏
Thanks sir for regular uploads bahot energy milti hai aap ki videos se vaise bhi exam paas hai. Thanks Chetan sir ❣️
Thanks for this nice video.
I just want to mention about-Addictions-alcohol/smoking/drugs.
Also talking about a solution to all of this- please lets not forget to introduce atleast a spoonful of spirituality in our lives
Perfect advise to the youngsters..these things are ruining the future of current generation. Thanks for such good talk. You are doing RASHTRA SEVA...
I'm a clat aspiration, sir your videos are helping me very much, im overcoming my devils and your videos play a great great part in that
THANKYOUUU SO MUCH SIR. EYE OPENER VIDEO!
Informative vedio..👍
Awesome.... practical points
Great !! So apt Hitting the nail
I think..one more thing: lack of zeal to do something worth in life...mindset also ruins life. Please make a video on How to Quit Job and starting your own sir...please..
Thankyou for your thought provoking msg, stay blessed
Rightly said Sir, the way of talking, seems like conversation with friend and at the same time very hard-hitting & true
Thats the content which people should get, kudos to you Chetan sir ❤️
Aaj 7 baje first day gym karke ghar aya and youtube on karte hi apka ye video dekha .i am only 28 i did so many good and bad thing in my life last year i was confident ki job to nahi karna hai ...i make music ..usally i quit job last year after save money wanna take risk to became rapper .but now from last month i broke. I loose ,some amount in tradind after that i qiut trade .. now har bar deemag me khayal ata hai ki wapas job karloo ya passion follow karoo...but bhale kuch bhi karoo soch. Soch k 1 saal bita die maine now aaj se gym and hard work start kardia hai thanks for boosting me
Amazing...mind blowing video.
I am surprised to see that this kind of people,this quality of people is available in india, what else we expect.
I will recommend chetan bhagat's videos to everyone.
Loved the video sir. Thank you!
It was an amazing video I have ever come across.
Big thanks to sir.
LOVE FROM TRIPURA
THANK U SIR 👑🌟👏
APNE DARING TRUTH BOLA...
jo sabko accept krni chahye. Bcz 99.99% k sath same h. So Accept & CHANGE 👊
YES SIR YOU ARE RIGHT , I AM TRYING MY BEST SINCE I HAD STARTED LISTENING YOU.
Thank u Sir, for sharing such valuable knowledge, which no school or college will ever teach us. Especially how boldly u talk about porn is so much appreciable.
Great knowledge everybody knows it but after listening from you I really changed my habits not totally but still changed more than 90% bad habits
Sir.. I say sir because you desire it. Your advices comes from heart & it touches our heart. Keep doing great work
Awesome video
Love you sir
Itne true words me CZcams per koi nahi batata
Amazing video Thanks
I was down and wrote, "Where am I going wrong?" And your video cropped out.
Thank you✨✨✨
Sir when you said kabb start karoge it literally moved me abhi start karunga krr ke dikhaunga
❤️
Feedback - Your mic is really good, but I don't know why the audio quality was not that good.
I turned notification on and that's how I found video and also shared with my best friend 😃
Really eye opening video..made me think about by current lifestyle and what mistakes I am doing.. Thanks for posting this insightful video
iss duniya mein sabse bada paap hai apne aap ko kamjor samajna 🙏🙏🙏nd thanx for ur valuable suggestions sir one day l will meet u👍👍
Sir .
I just wanna say 'THANK YOU' for being motivate me to do more and more.😊❤️
Maine aap ki video se bahut kuch sikha... Thank you
So informative and motivating video specially for younger generation. Thanks for sharing. Hope it would help many.
Absolutely agree & you are awesome always Sir 😊🙏..
I got ur channel at my worst time.. thank u nd thank god.❤️
Collective information in one video. However I would like to add more points like tension, bad character, cheating but not having courage to accept the truth, not respecting parents.These eventually leads to unsuccessful life.
Lack of consistency is another factor although can be added to laziness. Laziness leads to inconsistency.
Laziness leads to procrastination and procrastination leads to inconsistenncy which leads to mediocrity
Absolutely right Sir.We all should try to implement your advices in our lives.
Chetan u r a big asset to youth of india
Superb.. Perfect explanation...
Thankx for your guidance and support...Chetan sir!
Nice informative video
The only thing that makes me move is your video. Thank you
Thanks for uploading this sir ❤️❤️
You are doing great job sir ..i respect...and you always show me the real path..👏👏
I'm 25,i feel lost in life, thanks for uploading, i needed to listen this 🙏
Thank you sir
For guiding us 💯
He doesn't mention CZcams 😜
Juss kidin.... 🙂
Very informative video
You're such an awesome bully...the moment you said..."tum binge watch krte ho... really"...
I really felt that big bro vibe who's humiliating you for your own good.... 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
I'm looking at you as one of my mentors
After watching your videos you motivate me about health and i m omad diet from last 50 days and i lost 24 lbs
Do not chase money which most of people doing this time instead of this chase excellence , self growth and focus on learning.
Everything will automatically come to you.
Thankyou chetan sir.
Namaste sir🙏🏻... Your advices are truly admirable
Things that did harm some time of my life, I've commented below but now hopefully, I'm practicing being aware and I'd say the journey has started.
--CZcams (basically, binge watching and motivational videos, real motivation comes when u actually get up and start progressing in ur work)
--Porn (definitely, I'd call the most addictive and most destructive element out there for the boys)
I love your first point on motivation
Thanks for your advice
Very insightful
My favourite youtuber and inspiration💯