Is Prince Harry SUFFERING from NARCISSISTIC ABUSE?
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- čas přidán 13. 06. 2021
- Recently, Prince Harry revealed a lot of details about his relationship with Meghan in the Oprah documentary - The Me You Can't See. The details reveal some darker aspects of the relationship that we all need to understand.
Being in a relationship with a Narcissist is extremely painful. In this video I dive into the intense ways that a narcissist exerts control on their partners and how it can cause you to complete change and be manipulated into working for the Narcissists every need.
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For a man that has supposedly been "saved" from his toxic family, Harry looks more miserable than he's ever looked. He used to be social, playful and jovial, now he constantly looks as if he is fed up with his life.
I completely agree.
Absolutely noticed this also.
notice ..SHE is the one who was supposedly suicidal ..but SHE is not doing therapy ?????????????????? she is not looking for her inner peace ...because she is actually happy just the way she is
You must be a drone..flying over their community. Either that or a witch flying on a broomstick.
Agreed he constantly seems angry and depressed
Very interesting that he never realized how miserable he was, until he met her. 🚩
Lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂he has years to process his misery now. She will never let him out of her jaw
@@puffpiece1375 She'll drop him when he can no longer help her reach whatever social pinnacle she has in mind. That's her pattern.
I started to catch on earlier this year. Its crazy
@@stsolomon618 I didn’t pay much attention to them until a few months ago, when they started to to trash the Royal Family. I’ve learned a LOT since then, and it is not very good.
My son married a narcissist as well. I was the first person on her hit list. All of his friends were soon eliminated from his life as well as other family members who saw through her. It's been excruciating to endure. The way that Harry's father, brother, sister in law and other family members have handled these two brats has set a powerful example for me to admire and learn from.
Exactly having family members married to one also it seems to start with one person then escalates to others family members and then friends. Me sister was married to one thank God the marriage only lasted a year My father in law was not so lucky he died on his deathbed realizing it to late. He told my brother in law with tears in his eyes 👀 how sorry he was that he let to much time go by my brother in law was the only family member still speaking to him after his second wife pretty much cherry picked who could be in his life and who couldn’t and the sad part was he let it happen. If she didn’t like you for whatever reason and believe me she would find something you were no longer part of his life anymore. She actually told me that her and I would never have a relationship because she didn’t like my husband.🤷🏼♀️ even though I knew my father in law years before his son and I got married. So I can relate to what you are saying like you said everyone see right through these people and everybody is a threat to them. Meagan knows people see through her nonsense thats why she wants to isolate Harry from his family and friends. Like my father- in - law I think Harry will realize it too late.
@@marwatson7408 If I'm not mistaken your brother in law was the narc's son and hence allowed in his life? While your husband was a previous wife's? Out of curiosity, did your husband make peace with his father on his father's deathbed?
No I’m not trying to be rude but let me give you some idea of how it was my husband never made peace with his father because for 25 years 3 out of his 4 children weren’t allowed in his home. That’s where we placing the blame on my father in law because you don’t let someone come into your life and start cherry pick your family or friends. He wants his children out of his life the only person they better hear it from his him not their step mother. Over the years my father in law had numerous confrontations with other family members, friends, his employees , business associates you name over the way his wife has treated them by the way all of these people are no longer part of his life anymore.When when he died my father in law had a wife, 2 stepsons, about 18 grandchildren, 5 siblings, numerous nieces and nephews and the only one standing in the room holding his hand when he passed away was a nurse. Not his wife who he spent 25 years defending with one lame excuse after another for her horrible behavior towards everyone. She had a memorial service and called his family after the fact and the same went for their wedding when they got married his family was told after the fact when her family/ friends got invited to the wedding. This give you an idea of what kind of person she is and like I said my father in law realized it to late. My father in law like Harry had no balls to stand up to the people they are married too.
She is so wicked. Imagine using someone’s biggest unresolved trauma to manipulate them into doing whatever you want. Imagine being that sick and cruel to do that to someone who has genuinely suffered a terrible loss and never fully recovered from it. It baffles the mind. But I’ve dated a narcissist so it’s hardly “unbelievable.” Oh, I believe it alright. I just can’t imagine what it is like inside a narcissists head.
Exactly! Meghan is a sociopath... just watch how quickly she cycles through different facial expressions. They fall from her face so quickly because the emotions are fake. Classic sociopath behavior
If only Harry could see the Meghan he can't see.
Very good, this observation.
This!
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The moment that hits his frontal cortex... 🤣🤣🤣
The irony
She has isolated and turned him against his family, moved him to CA. Even if he woke up and wanted out, he has two kids. She would get half, healthy child support and full custody-hey it's CA. He would never leave his kids...at the end of the day, she is disgusting and he is screwed.
Not quite. Harry has diplomatic immunity. No legal proceedings including divorce can be registered or dealt with in the U.S. Meghan would have to file for divorce in the UK.
Plus, how much money does he have? Isnt child support 30 percent of your income? I could be wrong. Idk
@@anireseegam6128 no, he's not here as a diplomat, nor on a diplomatic Visa, or he wouldn't be able to work.
Also, custody of royal kids lies technically with the Queen. I’m not sure if her Majesty would pull that card, but if I was Meghan I wouldn’t trust that she won‘t.
California actually has some of the hardest divorce rules, in terms of gaining alimony payments, and in some cases child support. Other states, like mine in Connecticut, almost always side with a wife in a divorce, even if she's the primary earner. California does not. And if the marriage is short, that's a strike against getting alimony. To get it, you have to prove first that you really tried to make it work, and part of that is time. The standard is before the 10 year mark, alimony is only granted for half of the length of the marriage, so if it's lasted 4 years, you only get it for 2. Then there's a bigger qualification, that you can't maintain the standard of living on your own without spousal support. And if you can, no alimony. However, if she starts acting and earns big bucks, while he barely works, she could end up paying him! They have this all in place specifically because of celebrities, who get into a 6 month marriage and then divorce.
I was in a narcissist relationship for about 40 years. I believed in marriage. I had children who needed a father. I look back and I can't believe how stupid I was to go on living like that. I had no self esteem. I thought all the problems were my fault. I wasted my life. Get out when ever you can.
Me too. I got out without a penny but I was out.
@@ruthfarlow2892
I'm proud of you. At first a narcissist can seem heaven sent. No one has ever loved you like that. No one cares like the narcissist.
IT WAS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE.
God bless.
That happened to me also
Often a narcissist looking for a toxic empath. Toxic empath is a person that do anything for other to feel loved. So they put the partner, kids, family, friends before their own needs. Narcissist love toxic empath
@@shereehudnall9704 Your comments were my life & exactly how I was and felt. Only difference is I put in 33 years. Narcissists pull you into a worm hole with no way out because they’ve drained your soul.
Finally being free is a multitude of contradictory feelings of fear, relief, rote habits, excitement, and discovering the person you truly are because with your self esteem gone, you become afraid of your own shadow. But there is light at the end of the tunnel with therapy and patience in getting there.
As someone who’s been through this specific abuse, I can see similar patterns. It’s really sad and it’s also the reason I’ve been following this whole debacle so closely.
Yep...💯...
Trust the person.. nope..
Trust the pattern...ALWAYS...💯
Also remember they will NEVER change they are incapable of change
Apple needs to do a new show called "The Meghan Harry Can't See"
Oprah needs to retire. She’s just as manipulative as his wife, a master puppeteer pulling his strings.
@@jayesimond9301 Yeah, Oprah isn’t what everyone thinks she is. She is evil. Not only did she backstab Michael Jackson but there are also rumors of her trafficking young actresses to Harvey Weinstein.
@@jayesimond9301 👏👏👏👏👏
lol
😂😂😂 brilliant
I am a qualified psychologist and she is a full blown narcissist. I gave their marriage 5 yrs tops way before they got married. The alarm bells went off for me from day one, as in day one of their relationship going public.
Yes, the first time we saw her with him it was the ripped jeans that made me exclaim. Definitely not suitable for the royal family.
She will drive him to you-know-what. She does not want to be a divorcee, she wants to be the grieving widow.
@@Chahlie oh my word! what a terrible thought, but I think you are on to something
@@Chahlie 😥😥😥😥
@@Chahlie so can be rich!!!
I started to suspect this about three years ago. I escaped a marriage with a narcissist. As I healed, and educated myself, they seem so obvious to me now.
I never seen Harry smiled naturally or happily since he got married
Just when he's out with the guys or at a kids' event and lighthearted stuff like that.
Since Meghan entered Harry's life, he seems subdued, ill at ease, and unhappy.
Rubbish
@@paulinedickson3324 explain
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@@paulinedickson3324 spot on!! .....come into my lair Said the spider 🕷 to the 🪰
Sorry, it was ment for Nina Eckhoff ..
My red flag went up about her after noticing how many times she nudges or pushes in front of Harry to greet people first. It has happened so many times that compilation videos have been made .
Even though she claimed she never received any training, we know she received 6 months of training from the Queen's former assistant and should know better.
She also had aids that were there to help her every step of the way. Being an actress do people really believe the little innocent act she puts on?
She's just so stupid. Like... how are you going to lie SO badly... about easily verifiable things? Like.. is she delusional? I bet you, the man who filed that HR complaint in 2018 is writing a book. I bet. He used to be H & M's communications director or something after the wedding. He saw the bullying, filed a complaint. Then he started working with William & Kate instead. BUT... even though W & K made him CEO of their charity... he just suddenly quit. After the Oprah interview. He said, "My husband's job is taking him overseas, I have to go with him". I GUARANTEE he got several book offers to spill the tea. But he won't be writing the book for tea spilling's sake. He'll write a book to protect the honour of the Royal Family. And in that book, he'll debunk literally every silly little lie that Meghan's blasting about the RF. "I got no training, none was provided to me." Alright bud. Sure.
yeah, such a good point...
@@Lee-fw9mr narcs lie about really really dumb things
@@britanynmartin6076 they do indeed! they are not afraid of being caught out, they think others are too stupid to do such a thing.
How does one's self-centerdness, one's ambitions & need for control, blind them from seeing the harm they're causing to another person. The extreme ends to which Narcissists go in order to get what they want is mindblowing.
Thing is, narcissists usually are usually devoid of empathy. They're incapable of recognising the needs and feelings of others.
Netflix needs to do a special on spousal abuse
Harry forgot that William convinced him to open up and talk about their mum, that Prince Charles helped him, etc., because Meghan told him so. Meghan has Harry so messed up he doesn’t know if he’s coming or going. I’ve never seen Harry look or act more miserable in his whole life.
Agreed. Before Meghan he looked happy but now tells us he was a miserable, trapped prisoner. Now he looks miserable but tells us he is happy!
So true
I worry about if he ever does cut ties with her, she will be unmerciful.
Gaslighting.
Who’s Harry trying to convince he’s so happy now?
Hes making such a fool of himself. It's really sad.
Your absolutely right about that!
Absolutely right about that I agree 100%
Harry is not a fool. He's a victim. So many get Trapped by a narcissist because of the circumstances. All you can do is learn and realize the Situation youre in and eventually free yourself. And its not foolish of harry not beeing on this point yet.
@@turquoise4793 But, the things he said about his family's private conversations are on him. I'm a victim of a narcissist too, but I would never have done that. The narcissist can't completely hijack every bit of your morals.
Honestly, I have second-hand embarrasment for him. Absolutely cringeworthy watching the way he's conducting himself.
As a man who was married to a female narcissist, I know exactly what you're talking about in this video. Everything you said is true about these narcissistic people. I'm happy she cheated and filed for divorce. In the beginning, it feels like something was ripped out of you and this is the addiction that these people purposely induce unsuspecting victims into. I'm so happy to be out of this slav3ry cuz it was h3ll. To all of you recovering from narcissistic abuse, you will get there, you will break the trauma bond, you will find yourself again, you will be much happier without these parasites in your life. God bless.
100% correct. Hope the public forgive Harry
There us no way She would take her own life, she sees herself as too important.
@@lavette916 - Oh, but she's an "actress", though, and the key part of what you said was: "It's a card that she'll play" -- and play it, she will. But that does not mean there's a millimeter of TRUTH in what she says/said. She was manipulating him, using him. And it's pathetic how easily he falls for it.
Ur both right!
@@bethanne1221 - Yes, of course. I didn't mean to sound like I was contradicting her -- not at all!! I absolutely believe she'd ^say^ it, but I don't think she'd EVER actually go through with it!! She does not have that kind of fortitude, and couldn't stand the thought of no longer being the center of attention!!
@@maburg713 oh no I was agreeing with you!! Lol sorry didn’t mean to come off as otherwise or argumentative
@@bethanne1221 - Neither did I! We're fine. We're both good!🤗
143 when she turns and looks down, when Harry calls her a ‘team player,’ that look says she has no intention of being that. Quite the opposite.
The way her expression changed from smiling to anger in a split second 😖
There is a guy on CZcams who does body language analysis and he pointed it out right away. Hidden anger comes to the surface every time he says something that she perceives as diminishing her.
Plus when she looked up again, the clenching of her jaw!
@@bijoumwaura3735 When the narcissists fake facade slips.
She plans to ‘run the show’ or else!!!!
You have really hit the nail on the head. Having been through this myself I know exactly what Harry is going through. I really feel for him and people are to quick to judge him.
Great video. Heartbreaking to see Harry at the beginning actually seeming like himself.
That was so sad with the suicide threat. He literally looks frazzled, besieged and I don't think it's because of his family or the media. Harry is not capable of deception like most people, he's extremely expressive and so I believe he genuinely did go through a period of healing and acceptance after the troubled years. For MM to dig up and weaponize his trauma like that is horrendous
I still cannot believe that she had the audacity to actually say to ANYONE that she was so lonely and mistreated and thought of taking her own life. First, she loves herself way too much to attempt suicide, all she was trying to accomplish was to want to BE Princess Diana, as Diana did admit later on that the felt like killing herself. That's it. Simple as that. And nobody caught that? She was doing all she could to bring these things up to the man, knowing exactly who he was, and made she she was protected at all times.The problem with that is Prince Harry believed every word she said. She is using him beyond belief. She cares nothing about HIM. If the Brits have a morning show and I think they do, she was on his program with Peirs Morgan, and something happened so disturbing that I've only heard bits and pieces of it. Way off topic. I only wanted to say if she is doing anything, anything at all you better believe she is being compensated for it. I feel so bad for Prince Harry. He will come to realize it much to late. He has not even grieved his own mothers death. And pulls something like that ( Meghan)
@@ellenreyes7874
I concur with your sentiment 100%
mm showed the entire world who she was whilst wearing a brilliant white bridal gown for her second wedding.
When someone shows you who they are believe them the first time.
Australia.
@@carringtonlefayette8644 How is that so obvious to some and not others. I was just waiting to hear that she had thrown herself over balcony inside the Palace, just as Princess Diana did all of these years ago. She is every women want to keep out of their lives. Every thing is about them.
@@carringtonlefayette8644 It truly is devastating. Throughout her entire pregnancy she she tried to emulate Princess Diana in every way. And that is classic text book narcissism. If you truly love someone, why did you do everything in your reach to take Prince Harry into the same exact Hell he went through when he lost his Mom? No, its undeniable. She actually went through these thoughts and than go out of your way to reenact the situation again. Who can answer such a question.? Only The Good and Holy God. Thank you for listening. Sincerely, Ellen from Oregon! Love and Blessings for you and your Family.
@@ellenreyes7874 exactly
Meghan has preyed on his insecurities and used then to manipulate him into a place of darkness, a better woman/wife that truly loved him would have helped him heal and bring him to a place of joy and peace.
Exactly! A good wife would do what is best for her husband-not worst!
However who would want a red headed mountain Neanderthal? I know not one.
@@rnempson1 wow, you are a special level of ass hat aren't you?
You are exactly right.
I think Meghan also gives him drugs in the name of ancestral healing..she is something..
This is the best explanation of their relationship - it is SO SAD! I hope he comes to his senses soon.
Well said. Can relate to this. Narcissists are masters in manipulation.
Breaking from from a narc feels EXACTLY like waking up from a trance and then you go through a fear stage because you can’t believe what you just went through.
I went through the stage of hating myself because I fell for that. It took a while and research to acknowledge and integrate that other women have been through this and that I wasn't the stupidest on this planet for letting him trample all over me and to finally forgive myself. The moment I accepted that he is a narcissist and trust me it was difficult because I was denying it and felt the need to protect him, to shield him because he was misunderstood I forgave him immediately because he suffered trauma as a kid and no one in his family made time to help him heal from it. However I had the hardest time forgiving myself. Rationally I knew I didn't do anything wrong, but I felt so ashamed and angry at myself because I was supposed to love myself and protect myself and I didn't. Now I'm good, but sometimes I find myself remembering how sweet he could be and regretting that it ended. Usually the tears that accompany those memories get me back to reality from memory lane and I remember what he told me that made me get out of the relationship. Oh well, life goes on. ☺️
So true!!! That is how I felt going no contact with my family of origin!!
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I've never been in a relationship like that. How does it feel when you are on the inside?? This is so interesting for me.
@@malovina Not sure whom exactly you are asking. ☺️
It's all a matter of character, not gender , not Color or lack of it.
The problem is quite a few people would never believe there could be a fault in their character and that any criticism could only be racially motivated. There is no way to fix that as long as the society keeps nurturing the same narrative. There is no reason for those people to think otherwise.
I wish they would stop calling Harry’s lies “truth bombs” I think history has proven that very little of what Harry & Meghan say has ANY truth it in!
@@chloepatt1661 it is very unfortunate and true, 😕 unreflective people project their fears and predjudice on others .
@@chloepatt1661 " as long as society nurtures the same narrative " that is the real problem . ✨
Dicks are dicks regardless of any stereotyping..
You don’t realize you’re in a narcissistic relationship when you’re in it….it’s very difficult to disengage and think rationally without emotion taking a hold of you. The narcissistic partner is very good at confusing you, telling you that you are their world, and at the same time making you feel like you’re not good enough for anyone. They’ll say they’re sorry, only to repeat the behaviour over and over. They’ll blame you or others for their behaviour, never taking responsibility. They’ll turn themselves into a victim so you, the loving partner you are, will take care of them, and protect them.
I left my narcissistic husband over 14 years ago and even though I had to go to a shelter with my children to escape, it was the best day of my life. I felt so liberated, I felt like I could breathe again. And even though he suckered me into going back to him twice more before finally leaving for good, I am so glad I took the steps to leave. He was a dangerous person, he threatened suicide as well, he made himself out to be a victim, he blamed me for all his shortcomings, he praised me, and when I didn’t agree with his behaviour he put me down and called me names.
Leaving a narcissistic partner is tricky, you really have to know them and talk to professionals before taking any steps on how to leave with minimal risk of safety.
I haven’t watched their documentary or any documentary pertaining to them as a couple, I can’t bring myself to watching her. Makes me cringe.
Agree up to a point. Haz was complicate, he just needed a 'strong woman' to get him the attention he saw William getting, for himself. His jealousy was a huge motivation for him.
Threatening suicide, even in a subtle way, is the oldest trick in the book.
Before they were married she told him she was pregnant. The old ones are the best.
@@kelsogirl562 thats why family readily accepted her and didn't do the background on her.....
@@adeledorman6447 I bet they did do the background, but probably thought that she had got what she wanted and would be satisfied. Their checks would have shown that she wanted wealth, prestige and fame and had achieved that by marrying a prince so would be happy.
@@kelsogirl562 No she did not tell him she was pregnant before they were married! Where on earth have you heard such gossip to make Meghan looked bad?
Or, saying you are pregnant and then had a miscarriage.
This relationship will have a terrible ending...
I just hope this terrible ending is for her, she deserves it.
#SavePrinceHarry,
I hope her karma gets her .
@Jane Whitaker I'm actually quite worried for him. She's capable of anything and may wanna acquire a saintly widow status.
De-bunking Harry and Megan lies | The Me You Can’t See debunking | Harry and Megan truth czcams.com/video/uSWS3fQVx8A/video.html
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@@aylacristina7295 we need to make that trend.
I think this analysis is spot on. It's what I was thinking myself. I hope Harry wakes up to this manipulation and finds his way back to his family. It'll take them time to trust him again, but I'm sure they will once he's distanced himself from Meghan.
Very insightful and educational.
Great job. Thank you.
IF HE DIDN'T REALIZE HOW BAD HE HAD IT UNTIL MEGAIN TOLD HIM..WHAT MORE NEEDS TO BE SAID. GREAT VIDEO
yeah, seriously, as if she knew him better than his family...anyway, his big brother has always been there for him and so has Kate...you can see that love in so many videos... ;(
Meghan hurried to have kids so she got him by the b....she will say its because she was getting older...we can all see her answers before she even says them.... !!!
She needs to boost his confidence instead of telling him he needs to feel miserable. It's shocking how she's abusing another human being, absolutely shocking
If their roles were reversed, you can guarantee Harry would be accused of emotional abuse & controlling etc etc.
@@lyndsaycrawford exactly
The way Megan slide open her red coat to reveal the pregnancy and constant holding of the pregnancy disgust me 😣😣
I knowww... caught in the act
How about when the bump ell , The purple dress and the red coat, or when it changed sizes in the same day. How crazy is this woman?
Never in history have we ever seen such embarrassing behavior
@@Medame88 now THAT is bizarre
watch this video that shows how often she would slide her coat to the side, not just the red coat but with other outfits as well lol czcams.com/video/dZQAX8v17ww/video.html
I feel sad for him.😔...I hope someday he'll find joy again with his children...sending him positive energy💞
I didn't fully identify and understand the traits I was being subjected to until after I got out of the relationship. It only started after our child was born. Lovebombing relationship up to baby. Then the devaluing/criticism/ controlling aspects began after baby.
He feels safe and secure, he’s handed his power over. His inner grieving little boy needs are being met by her. When she turns nasty he is gonna suffer and fall hard.
Correct
When MM has gotten all she can from him, H is no longer useful to her, she will leave. MM will also take the kids (if they exist, which I personally doubt they exist). THEN he is going to suffer, and be in beyond a bad way.
It is so dangerous to open up someone's childhood wounds and say or show you're going to provide a solution to that childhood wound. The inner child in you that so desperately craves it finally feels like needs are being met and it can get to a point where you can't extract from the situation because you feel like you can't function anymore if that wound hasn't been completely healed by the other person. And I'm guessing that usually people who use the strategy to win someone over by opening up their childhood wounds and posturing like they're going to save them eventually grow tired of it and discard the individual and when they do, they leave the other person with an open psychic wound. I'm not the biggest fan of therapy but this is why this work has to be done in therapy with a competent therapist and support of loved ones, not by a random person coming in and ripping out your stitches.
@@Sidera17 : Absolutely. The roles of partner and therapist should not be mixed or confused.
@@timonsolus There are people out there who use therapy tactics expressly in the courtship process to find a person’s vulnerability and ten feel out how to get them to open up. It reminds me of playa tactics, finding someone with unresolved trauma under the surface and making oneself the safe person to open up to. Creates a huge power differential and a potential dependency, and then these people are perplexed when suddenly their partners can’t let them go or put them in a position of therapist or authority- it’s bc the person is using “trauma grooming” as a wooing strategy, not necessarily indicative of intent of commitment.
Relationship with narcissist in a nutshell:
You will go from being the perfect love of their life to nothing you do is ever good enough. You will give everything and they will take it all and give you less and less in return. You will end up depleted emotionally, mentally, spiritually and probably financially and then get blamed for it.
Perfectly put..
This is chillingly spot on.
They are soul vampires! Every horrendous word you said is true!!! And worse!
I re read your comment again and it really is quite amusing if it wasn't so tragic, but so,so true
I think we can all see that with her husband now. How he has changed beyond all recognition from that happy bridegroom who genuinely loved her to how he is now, unhappy, depressed, lonely and confused. It’s heartbreaking to see the change in him.
Thank you for your analysis, it helped me to get clear about the abusive relationship I want to get over so badly and still cannot....
So, how to rescue him? I was married to a narcissist for 10 years, although I didn't know that! I thought I was just going mad!!! Eventually, I left him, with 5 children, no car, no money!!! I knew I had to get away from him!!! I still have that hope for Harry!!!
When he talks, nutmeg has that look on her face like "how dare he interrupt me and get the attention."
He looks like “ oh god, I interrupted her, I’m going to get tazered when I get home”.
Nearly everyone on the planet could see how toxic this very minor actress was, the only reason I can see why the wedding was studded with Hollywood elite was for the Royal connection certainty not for megham, megan WHO ????????????????????
She is checking everything he says. She needs total control, but the game is up.
@@sandyno1089 😆
Keep this nutmeg away from the royal family. She will manipulate people and possible make will and Kate upset. These we have the need to avoid.
Couldn't agree more. She's done women of colour such a disservice.
Meghan Markle appropriate Black culture to monetize race and adorn herself in a cloak of victimhood. Born and raised in Los Angeles, attending private schools including the very prestigious Immaculate Heart independent Catholic girls school in the exclusive area of Los Feliz. Moving to Toronto, Canada for a role in the nighttime soap opera suits and expanding herself socially on her lifestyle blog, The Tig. Marrying Trevor Engelson, a film producer, in a lavish wedding in Ocho Rios, Jamaica where the people of color were mostly the servers. Now lauching the Archewell Foundation online content for compassion with action. No boots on the ground civil rights or social justice credentials, while all those whom have sacrificed their lives are an anonymous to her while serving her ends.
I don't see her as representing black women or white women. As a born and raised southern Californian myself, I don't see her representing Californian women either. She is who she is as a person - no need to see her as tarnishing anyone else.
She is as black as Michael Jackson and her children don't even have a suntan
I disagree. Most people would be able to separate a whole demographic of people from the actions of one incredibly shitty person. At least that's what I would hope!
@@codeXenigma MJ was way blacker…
Your research rings true because I lived it in my first and only marriage...I see Harry and I see what I went through... seeing him living it scares me.
I never thought I'd say this today but I am beginning to feel sorry for him. What a mess he has got himself in to as he did everything to please her at the expense of anything that was of value to him
Yes we saw her facade at the interview. Her falseness was palpable. Harry is addicted to her and will be punished if he falls out of line.
Your analysis is spot on. He is a mess. So worrying to his family who do actually love him.
I’m really triggered by how tightly she clings to him with both hands, as if he’ll slip away in a moment’s notices.
It’s all optics. She knows the cameras 🎥 are on her every move
It;s an arm lock!
Probably will.
She reminds me of a kid showing a steer at the county fair.
It’s called “ Love Bombing “ I would imagine Harry thought all his Christmases had come all at once when this malignant creature got her hands on him and showered him with all this false affection….
Thank you for sharing your experience. I've never been around a narcissist. I know what to look out for now.
Such a great podcast!
I always felt she was a phony from the beginning. I especially loved how she pretended she didn’t know much about him in their first interview. What a bunch of bs!!! I am around her age and knew who he was my whole life as I saw his and his family’s faces in the tabloids every time I went through the grocery store check out.
That engagement interview….. it was too…. Schmuck….. she was overacting. I said so to my friends and they said “ do you know she is an actress?”….. I hadn’t known.
Some people are not interested in the Rotal family. Especially since she is an Anerican. A lotmpf people in the Monarch countries want the " establishment" gone. J.m.o.
@@evitasdad I did not know she was an actress either until the press said she was when Harry was dating her. Just proves a point doesn't it.!!!
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It sure does, Valerie!
You "felt", huh? And went with that? You dontvhavr any direct knowledge of this. None of us do so perhaps we should leave them alone.
Relating Diana's death to the fact that she was in that moment dating non white Dodi Al Fayed is a malicious low blow. His mother had had previously a two years affair with british pakistani heart and lung surgeon Hasnat Khan and nothing was said in the moment about his skin color nor Dodi's either.
DODI WAS WHITE NEVER BEEN TALK ABOUT BEING COLOUR IN ANY WAY
So sick of her. Her career in cable tv is pathetic. Shes no Hillary Swank for sure. And her book??? What the heck was that.?? I think my cat could do a better job .
@@barbarafarmer8092 yup. She is utterly disgusting
Any criticism towards Dodi was because of his father. Dodi’s father was scrutinized because he was shady when it came to running businesses. Harry and Meghan need to FOH with that racism bs.
Both, Egyptians (excluding Nubians) and Pakistanis, are NOT people of colour. Perhaps because they are/were of islamic religion.
I was in an abusive marriage for 13 years. There was physical & verbal abuse.
The first thing he did was cut off all relationships I had. Family, friends and neighbors I would be friendly with.
I remember my ex would tell me how horrible my father was and how he didn’t treat my mother well….it sounds exactly like what Harry is going through.
I hope he gets free and goes home to his family and country. I know they would welcome him with open arms. ❤️🇬🇧
Girl, this channel! I'm so happy I discovered you. Sharing links with my friends. 💪🏻
She was expecting a whole different situation at this moment. She never expected the backlash.
And now look at her. BACKLASHED!!!
Yes, she expected this to work out like Amber Heard situation. But the media does not have the balls to go against Royal family, every media outlet has bashed H&M instead of RF.
I refuse to watch The Me You Can’t Unsee, but watching Harry’s downward spiral since his wedding I completely agree with the claims in this video. He is being emotionally abused.
Why cant he see what she is doing to him and his family look what she has done to her own money and control thats it poor kids and there daddy
@@karend4280 You can’t see it when you’re in it.
At best he probably feels something is off. And when he realizes she’s not everything she pretended to be, he’ll start questioning more and more.
@@karend4280 He's probably still chasing the feelings he had when he first met and dated her, it must've been all roses and rainbows. Then once she was married to him, it all started to change but Harry probably thinks that it was all his fault and he needs to change things to earn the same amount of love and attention from Meghan that he had before. In reality, it's the narcissist's weapon to get even more out of her partner by making him feel that he's at fault and needs to do extreme things to earn her trust again.
I refuse to watch it too - Harry needs an intervention, similar to being in a cult intervention (cults separate people from their families to gain complete control)
@@fanni24 nailed it! I've watched this exact scenario happen.
That is the cruelest thing I’ve ever heard. That she was like his mother and he had to save her. Just wow! Who could be that cruel to a man already dealing with mental problems from his own insecurities (spare) and ptsd from war??? She’s really a piece of work!
I really enjoy your videos, i watchem all. Please keep up the great work!
That's so dark that she would threaten suicide to subconsciously parallel his mother.
Interesting..af
I’m sure she spent days on researching him so she would have the advantage over him.
He doesn’t even know what’s happened to him..
you cannot convince me otherwise in that MM has a coach or several coaches to get into Harry's head (especially when he broke up with her, they turned up the heat); she may be trained in NLP (neurolinguistic programming), anchoring and triggering him because the stakes are high and her and her "team" have much to gain in absolutely controlling him; I would hope his family would investigate and intervene for the sake of Harry's mental and spiritual well being; who knows who comes around and programs him to reinforce her control; it is highly possible
That's proof of a cruel narcissist. For those who look at him and say, well he is a grown man and can make his own decisions was never under thumb of a narcissist at the worse end of the spectrum.
@@beth7437 The worst part is he loves his wife so dearly that he even call her his "rock". Meghan also loves Harry from head to toe.
He looks miserable sitting in the royal box when she’s smiling like a Cheshire Cat and forcibly grabs his hand.
Oh but she had tears when the lights went down...yeah right what manipulative b.s.
Yes ' shes perfected that grin that she uses when being interviewed !
What Husband after hearing your wife saying im going to ki ll myself and your baby would still make her go to this event surely an excuse could be made to say sorry can go but no they went she looked like the cat that got the cream he looked totally miserable Total Narc
If I may opine again, thank God Catherine will be the Queen of England one day and not the former briefcase woman!
I don't think I've ever seen him look truly happy with her. He's always got a distressed look in his eyes even when smiling
this was so great! thank you so much for putting this together : )
I agree with you 100%!!!!
I was in a relationship with a narcissist for 23 years. It has taken me about as long to realize the fog I was in. Now, just as your analysis of Prince Harry makes clear, I don't know why I didn't get it sooner.
I was in a relationship for the same amount of time. I had a year long severe breakdown during that time, not knowing what was wrong with me. I separated from him during that year but kept going back. Finally I ended up staying for another 10 years. So after 23 years it ended by my leaving him for good because he'd done something completely unforgivable. He blamed everyone else. It was my adult son who saw long before I could, he was also severely damaged but very intelligent and insightful. He told me his side of the story and my eyes were opened. Since then I've realised that I had grown up amongst narcissists and though I grew up feeling unhappy and that something wasn't right it wasn't enough for me to see what was wrong.
My ex has been out of my life for 20 years but my other family members weren't. In the past 6 years I have stopped seeing them one by one. But although I sometimes am in the moment and can laugh and feel okay it comes back and I feel doomed and depressed.
I understand how you feel and hope that things will get better for you if they haven't already. My son says we're survivors, but damaged.
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Obviously she was really good at putting the wool over your eyes. Happy you got out of it. Thats what counts, better late than never. ;)
@@SigrunHT try ur best to leave the past behind. Enjoy life bcz both ur son and ur life is precious. You are here on earth for a reason. Laugh often, hv joy, breathe, look ur best, eat healthy. It's ur life ur happiness!! I've been in similar path. Today I've not one single family member close to me not even my children but I live for myself. You are very blessed you hv ur son with you so rejoice. Live love laugh!! 🙌🏽
@@blissful249. Thank you for your caring comment. I was going to delete it but now I'm glad I didn't. You were worth waiting for 😄♥️.
God this is so sad. I can only imagine how painful and utterly heartbreaking it is for his family, William in particular, to witness.
frr
Been there too Mlady. Thank you for this.
You are spot-on! Great episode
The fact that she described in great detail how she would ki ll herself while pregnant and then in the next breath the days she would “never do anything to hurt her baby” . Isn’t attempting sui/cide going to hurt the baby??
I've never been suicidal but people who have been don't they not think about anything in that moment from what I've heard from people who attempted. So how nice of her to think about Harry she's manipulating him with suicide
What baby!! You mean the pillow she is holding for dear life!!
Time stamp?
Tricky, she never said she would kill herself, she plainly said she had thoughts of it. I think giving the stress she was under it’s quite possible, but since you do t see her as human, I understand your willful stupidity’s!
Made up as it goes along
I think the facts speak for themselves. Pre-Meghan, Harry was well-liked and likeable, had a good relationship with his family, and the respect of most British people. He was down to Earth, at least as down to Earth as you can be when you are literally a Prince, and now he's miserable, and all he's got is Meghan, she's all he has now. And I think that's exactly the arrangement she wanted.
This is the best sum up of it all I’ve seen on YT!!!
I agree with you 100% - poor guy never smiles anymore
The way she constantly clings to him creeps me out.
And stares at him
Hand on his back pushing him. I’ve seen him try to wriggle her off , but she’s having none of it
I think she's very insecure when she was part of his world. And now he has become clingy as if he can't stand on his own without her. Notice Will and Kate have moments of affection like hold hands but they are still confident not holding hands or doing seperate events. I never see Harry alone without Meghan strangling the life out of his hands. At first it's cute but now It's really weird.
She’s stopped that now she has him where she wants him
Control!
My heart breaks for Harry, but if there is anything good to come of this situation, it is that it is bringing a huge amount of awareness to a wide audience surrounding Narcissistic abuse.
Many people who are trapped in these devastating relationships will be exposed to this information and hopefully become empowered to get out.
Thank you for your valuable work in educating others 🙏
Yes
I fully agree!
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Well said, I never knew how to articulate this behaviour and I thank for explaining it so clearly. I almost feel sorry for poor not so smart h.. not sure he’ll ever be smart enough to work it out, but humiliation will give him a cold wake up shower.
💯💯💯at least there's awareness now on how to spot the signs
Really good analysis. Thank you for posting. Xx
You are absolutely CORRECT
Every one of us who have experienced narcissists can relate to the depth of these words in this video. Thank you
Fkn oath.. a relationship with a narcissist is something u never forget and not for good reasons that’s for sure.
I have not been in a relationship with one but I have a narc father and I spotted it from the interview. They are salesmen, they are putting on a fake front to win their audience over and once you have experienced it, you can see usually see it more quickly in other narcs going forwards.
Don't speak for me. As someone who has experienced narcissistic abuse my whole life in my childhood and marriage and is diagnosed with C-PTSD, I found this video profoundly lacking in depth and information
1000 percent
@@supernova2875 I seem to have a similar background to yours, but I don't understand your comment here. Seems a bit over the top, frankly.
She has a death grip on him in that engagement interview.
@Queen Bee From the moment I heard of the relationship and looked up who she was I knew she wasn’t right for him. I’m an 🇺🇸but had never heard of her. When I saw the engagement video which is the first time I saw them together I felt she was controlling him and that this relationship was not good. Then when I heard that he had said whatever M wants, M gets, I knew she was trouble. H has gone from the cheeky chappy to a very sad and confused man.
That's when I knew for fact she's a narc. The narc I dated would do that. Even when I'd try to get away, she'd grab and pull harder; I felt like I was being trained, of sorts, like a dog.
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@@ottomusprime5028 And you were! I think many of us have been pushed around by those people and are realizing more and more from these videos.
The "tell" in the interview was when she used her right arm to sweep into his personal space, to get in front of her Prince, a member of the most powerful family in the world. This shows he would be second fiddle to her always since she was willing to show that behavior to the world in her first interview as his "financed".
What a shame. I hope he can get out of this situation.
You are absolutely correct and explain their relationship the best of anyone I’ve heard.
Brilliant video and analysis. She’s really a character out of Stephen King’s thrillers
So true, good analogy. Maybe 🤔 King’s next novel.
Annie S can’t wait for Greek tragedy opera w her as the main character.
Kate Middleton suffered so much worse treatment by the press, they followed her and stalked her.
We need this to happen. I would watch that movie.
For real
Harry also said that he didn't tell his family about Meghan's suicidal thoughts because he was "ashamed" during the first Oprah interview but he said he told his family and didn't get any help during the me you can't see. He keeps contradicting himself and I don't think even he realises it...
P.S. Love your videos!
that poor guy, his brain is now scrambled so badly he cannot reason at all
Could be the family could see that she was lying, and he couldn't.
Zueda they tell so many lies they can't keep track. Once upon a time he praised William for arranging therapy for him.
Wow you are brilliant - so on the money and I learned a lot. Thanks for making it
Always love your spot on take on matters.. and agree with you 100%
Meghan scares the blank 😱 out of me
My neck prickled TWICE during their engagement interview. I was shook. There were 2 points at which she was sooooo obviously lying, and my body just had this... visceral reaction to her.
@@Lee-fw9mr which two points are you referring to?
1) When she said she didn't know who Prince Harry was bc she's American (ok buddy)
2) When she said, "My friend wanted to set me up on a blind date and I only asked her one thing about him.. I asked.. Is he nice?" Girl... nah. Maybe if you're 21. If you're a 35 year old ambitious woman who wants to start a family, with a super busy career, super busy social life, and your fertile years are running out? No WAY you're going on any date without asking your "deal-breaker" questions (whatever they may be): How old is he? What's his deal? Kids, divorced/separated, where does he live, what does he do, what's his personality like.... OF COURSE you ask if he's nice. Duh. But we're not 21 year Instagram babes with flowers in our hair. We're busy. We have goals. Our time is limited and thus precious. Gotta screen men before we spend hours getting ready and give up an entire night of the week only to find out..... he's got that dealbreaker thing. ---- Just... obvious lies. That was just the first interview. Lies have been spilling out weekly since then, for years. What was the ridiculous lie that even made Oprah go wtf. I think she said, "I've never Googled my husband" and "I never researched anything about what the royal life would be like. I was SUPER naive. I didn't know a single thing. I never looked anything up." Oprah was like... You never researched? Like.. girl it's a job.... you're quitting your entire career and American life to start a NEW job... that you didn't even read about? Really? Alright boo.
@@Lee-fw9mr didn’t she go to buckingham palace as a teenager though, how did she not know the sons of princess diana lol i saw a childhood video of her pretending to be queen and what caught my attention was she kept saying “your royal highness” which is something that ive never heard kids say when playing dressup queen or princess. And she also talked about William/Kates wedding on her blog back then. In these days who doesn’t search or lookup information on their potential boyfriend/husband lol
@Mami Makala which ones were you thinking about. Mine was about her being vegan then her stating they were roasting chicken when he proposed 😅
She’s so full of it!
“I didn’t kill myself because I didn’t want to hurt your feelings ….•
Yeah right ……
And he’s stupid enough to believe it!
shes not the type to kill herself and those who do dont tend to tell their partner or nearest and dearest how they plan to do it.., its b.s
And kill herself for what ? Because she was denied the tiara she wanted ?
she didnt mind if it killed the baby she was carrying for Harry Just his feeling what a crock
Narcissists aim for the most empathetic people, that doesn't make him stupid, just vulnerable. He has been gaslighted and can't think or see straight.
@@lesleymcshanemitchell9651 she knew that if she offed herself it wouldn't bother him as much as if she offed herself and his kid. Literally taking everything that means anything to the dude and using it against him, pure evil
I pray Harry comes to his senses someday.
It wont happen as she convinced him to fake pregnancies
This video is spot on, perfect analysis.
Being in a Narcissistic Abusive marriage, for almost 2 decades...(I've been saying from the first time that I watched they're sit-down interview. That she's a Narcissist)...It was shortly after I found out about the kind of abuse that I had been living through, and what it was.
He played the suicide game, while I truly became suicidal...which made me try twice, and was found both in comas, by accident (with someone finding). I still have problems, but I'm getting help, and on medications to help me.
NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) is very destructive, to the victims.
MM most definitely has NPD, possibly with other forms of personality disorders, too...Harry is a victim of NPD Abuse, with the whole world watching it happen, and the only people who don't see it, are either Narcissists themselves, in a relationship with one, or don't know anything about it.
I hope that Harry wakes up soon, and gets out of it...sadly it gets worse with children, and harder to leave, knowing that the children will be used as a weapon, and an easier way to get the victim back (or do more harm). The children are going to be abused by her, too.
MM always grabbing his hand, is her showing dominance over him, and if he doesn't say exactly what she wants him to, she squeezes his hand, for Harry to correct what he was saying; to what she wants him to say.
NPD, and Narcissism, is finally becoming a Big Topic, now...Finally.
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Too bad it wasn't in .my day. I left after 50years of marriage. Sometimes wonder how I have kept my sanity.
I have been in a relationship with a narcissist since 3 years. My father himself was a narcissist. I am struggling to get free bc I lost my job, friends and relationships with my relatives and I pardon and forget a lot. I am very sad and miserable, the only person who comforts me is my mum, she doesn’t want me to suffer like her. I always feel lonely, but he tells me he is my family, but later on treats me like shit… Before I met him, I was an optimistic and energetic person, now I lost hope. I feel like I lost so much time and feel powerless. Please pray for me to start a new chapter and get my life back away from him 😢
When I seen their engagement announcement I said she was going to be trouble for Harry and his family!
@@Takiki 🙏👍
My heart goes out to you Brenda 💔. At least Megagob has, at the very least done some good, by bringing attention to narcissism, and people who suffer for years at the hands of a narcissist. I have never had that misfortune thankfully, but that doesn’t stop me feeling very sorry for those who have. It must be hell on earth with no escape at times. I hope you have now found peace and happiness in your life. xx
I’m so glad that people, like yourself and saying this publicly. It’s so 100% obvious that she is a controlling narcissist !
I started to follow your channel because, when one has dated a narcissist, they can spot the red flags.
The person I was with also mentioned suicide to try to keep me hostage, but at that point I already knew that I needed to get out.
100% true. My daughter went through it. Every step of the process is narcissistic abuse.
..."and make no mistake: this is narcissistic abuse." - Soooo true
Finally left a narcissist 7 months ago after being anything and everything he wanted me to be for 13 years. I can finally love myself and grow as an individual.
Well done!!
“He did not feel trapped in his life until Meghan ‘helped’ him see it that way”
*I’m screaming* someone save this man!
This tells us all we need to know about Markle.
You make great points!
I survived a narcissist too. This is spot on. My ex was physically abusive as well. It took me a while to see it and get my self esteem back.
And you wonder how it managed to slip slip slide away. And then you think and realize how you repeatedly and continuously gave up little bits of yourself in order to please the narcissist.
Harry's wife's control of him and his "addiction" to her make them to unpredictable and dangerous to be around the RF. Addicts must acknowledge that they have a problem and seek "real" help. Even more, they must show real signs of improvement; otherwise, they will lash out and hurt those that truly care about them. That hurt can be both verbal as well as physical. My opinion, the RF should keep these two at a far distance for their own mental and physical safety.
As far as I can see you are all a bunch of haters !
Harry is happily married & has 2 Beautiful children
He was so unhappy being a Prince, why don't
All research his life & find out the truth instead
Of listening to to someone who spreading
Her own opinion ! !!
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@@drumclean9384 obviously you have NO idea how very evil Megan is. We feel sorry for Harry.
@@drumclean9384 OMG! 😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣 You haven’t got a clue!
@@drumclean9384 oh they deserve each other...... you have a fluffy brain. They are both shams and a laughing stock.
I once dated a narcisist. I can sense one from far. Now, I have a pre-date test b4 letting him move any closer.