This is life on $7.50 an hour

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  • čas přidán 26. 05. 2024
  • Safiyyah Cotton makes $7.50 an hour working at McDonald's. So how does she stretch her budget? With a lot of help from the government. Here's a look inside the life and budget of a low-wage worker.

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  • @Ionwonk
    @Ionwonk Před 3 lety +6621

    "I’ll rather struggle for him, than him struggle for me." - The love of a mother

    • @dynamichunter843
      @dynamichunter843 Před 3 lety +156

      I mean that’s pretty obvious, she’s the one who chose to have him it’s not his responsibility to help his mother, it’s hers.

    • @lilmaster3273
      @lilmaster3273 Před 3 lety +25

      @@dynamichunter843 I agree with u

    • @charlest2858
      @charlest2858 Před 3 lety +1

      @@dynamichunter843 Lol

    • @RK-ep8qy
      @RK-ep8qy Před 3 lety +113

      Not just the love of a mother, the love of a GOOD mother
      There's mums that berate their kids and abuse them for being a 'burden' then force them to get a job very very young

    • @tlockerk
      @tlockerk Před 3 lety +10

      This can be good or bad, depending on the kid; some will work hard, graduate, get a trade or college to take care of Mom. Others will start making money earlier in illegal ways. it's a damn hard way to live, and she's past worry, and feels she has no ability to change her circumstances. She should qualify for WIC, wonder if she applied?

  • @levelupwitharie
    @levelupwitharie Před 5 lety +7102

    Lord forgive me for ever saying there's nothing to eat in the house when there was a refrigerator full of stuff. I pray this young lady is in a better situation now.

    • @larandle
      @larandle Před 4 lety +219

      I'm trying to tell you. It's humbling as hell

    • @janetyamashige9573
      @janetyamashige9573 Před 4 lety +13

      @@larandle Yes!

    • @MrThinkEncourager
      @MrThinkEncourager Před 4 lety +87

      Snappingturtle 267 You may have a point, but I don't think she knew the dad would get incarcerated. Looking at the price of public schools per student, I don't think anyone would be able to afford a child, lol. Some poor or middle class might could, but after the second and third child, one would be close to being broke from the cost I'm seeing.

    • @levelupwitharie
      @levelupwitharie Před 4 lety +11

      Dee M Preach!!

    • @tompain2751
      @tompain2751 Před 4 lety +14

      She gets food stamps,and other assistance!

  • @christophm860
    @christophm860 Před 2 lety +3107

    Personally, I think we should pay our politicians $7.50 an hour and see how quickly they pass a federally mandated wage increase to a living wage.

    • @CRYPTOETV
      @CRYPTOETV Před 2 lety +15

      Sick politicians don't give money printed FIRCFREE and at will to poor people so they can maintain and increase class difference and keep slaves they can control and exploit at will always..evil GOV

    • @GreenGretel
      @GreenGretel Před 2 lety +45

      That doesn't work. State-level politicians receive relatively low pay (not minimum wage level of course), but all that has lead to is their ranks being filled with rich businessman who can afford to do legislating as a sort of hobby and often fundraise their own campaigns (and make laws that suit the interests of themselves at the expense of the rest of us). You need publicly financed elections and a fundamental overhaul of the lobbying/legalized bribery that dominates the political process to get real change. Constitutional amendment-level overhaul because the corporatist Supreme Court justices were literally appointed _because_ of their willingness to enable/legitimize the bribery, so they'll gut most federal laws meant to change things.

    • @arthurfisher7198
      @arthurfisher7198 Před 2 lety +42

      Saddest part about it all is politicians decide their own salaries and also decide when they “deserve” a pay raise

    • @HazyEmpathy
      @HazyEmpathy Před 2 lety +8

      Most of the politicians with offices are given a budget higher than the average American salary, SOLEY for furniture. And they get it every year.

    • @PirateCat822
      @PirateCat822 Před 2 lety +2

      Not much will happen as they usually get money from big companies

  • @jermainelatimer804
    @jermainelatimer804 Před 2 lety +692

    I'm friends with her on Facebook and she's doing better now.

  • @lalelulallo
    @lalelulallo Před 4 lety +7590

    The real sad part is even if she gets a slightly better job, she will lose all those benefits and be in the same hole again.

    • @lorizline3457
      @lorizline3457 Před 4 lety +562

      EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!! IT IS A VICIOUS CYCLE!!!!!! ... Stop this world, I wanna get off!!! 😩🙈

    • @dimplez2u228
      @dimplez2u228 Před 4 lety +393

      Omg I felt that ! That’s what happen to me , seems like when I got better job more bills and food stamps cut off !

    • @johndavis8457
      @johndavis8457 Před 4 lety +30

      Bingo 100 right

    • @keyannalee2432
      @keyannalee2432 Před 4 lety +12

      lalelulalo yes

    • @darlenegallegos8908
      @darlenegallegos8908 Před 4 lety +112

      Right ! I agree with you. Never ends. This is why education is so important. For all our children !

  • @skinnywizard103
    @skinnywizard103 Před 3 lety +7840

    This is not living, this is existing & it is extremely depressing to watch.

    • @4agony777
      @4agony777 Před 3 lety +250

      Yeah fr. If I ever end up like this I’m spending my paycheck on a gun

    • @mistaandason6159
      @mistaandason6159 Před 3 lety +55

      To be honest where i live minimum wageis about $3.50 an hour thats $1.75 US.Still people are living comfortable with just that.and mofo around here has 3-5 kids on that salary .

    • @whoisylo
      @whoisylo Před 3 lety +5

      whats the difference

    • @davidwest8375
      @davidwest8375 Před 3 lety +23

      Go to school or fine a job that pays 15 or 20 and leave small business alone

    • @sophyli3101
      @sophyli3101 Před 3 lety +107

      @@mistaandason6159 you should consider the living cost.The u.s is expensive .

  • @ruzzelladrian907
    @ruzzelladrian907 Před rokem +34

    An advice to everyone in poverty’s, don’t get pregnant or get someone pregnant.

    • @RONEFFECT
      @RONEFFECT Před rokem +4

      Preach!

    • @beetlejuice424
      @beetlejuice424 Před 16 dny

      Who the f*ck penetrated that bitch? That’s my question 🤮

    • @robertmasina7388
      @robertmasina7388 Před 4 dny +1

      I think this nation doesn't do enough for prevention of unwanted pregnancies with its youth, something European countries do right.

  • @KittyCelestialx
    @KittyCelestialx Před 2 lety +43

    I make $16 an hour and that still isn’t enough, and what sucks the most out of it is that the government claims that I make too much to receive assistance such as housing or WIC/Stamps. I have a two year old daughter and in a month we’ll be bound to be homeless due to the whole renting progress being broken as well. I cannot get into a place without somebody telling me that I need a co-applicant, but I don’t have anybody. I don’t care if I have to live in a studio apartment, I just want the best life for my daughter that’s not in a shelter.

    • @brianjones7660
      @brianjones7660 Před 2 měsíci

      a two year old daughter....and your husband does what?
      Oh, I see.....

    • @TinkOutLoud
      @TinkOutLoud Před 27 dny

      @@brianjones7660 Your comment helps her how? Oh, I see.

  • @hayleykitty401
    @hayleykitty401 Před 7 lety +6003

    that's why I don't want kids until I make good money

    • @cris_here
      @cris_here Před 6 lety +475

      you make it sound like she planned this.

    • @diegolopez3434
      @diegolopez3434 Před 6 lety +677

      Christin K that's the fucking problem, she didn't and that's what's wrong... telling your boyfriend to put a condom on is way better than 200K through out 18 years shiiii

    • @KrustyKlown
      @KrustyKlown Před 6 lety +240

      Christin K: surely some of these women, do plan for this .. "suicide of ambition" .. the ultimate excuse for not finishing high school, or going to college, or getting a better job .. "I had a kid .. oh well, it happened ..." .. LOL, well ... birth control, abstinence, sex without intercourse, and abortion ..can all "happen" before the 3rd trimester of pregnancy .. there is no justifiable excuse for being such a poor provider for a child. Women & Men can do MUCH better, and by doing so, uplift our entire country.

    • @NUCLEARARMAMENT
      @NUCLEARARMAMENT Před 6 lety +87

      This is why I'm fucking traps, no need to worry about kids.

    • @92web34
      @92web34 Před 6 lety +78

      Hayley Kitty kid are expensive I wouldn't want kid

  • @gowwf6046
    @gowwf6046 Před 5 lety +4301

    She is clearly very sad , I pray everything gets better for her

    • @AmberAmbwee
      @AmberAmbwee Před 5 lety +88

      Cutie Fruity You can see it in her eyes immediately. :(

    • @oopsiepoopsie2898
      @oopsiepoopsie2898 Před 5 lety +44

      That’s not gonna do anything

    • @gowwf6046
      @gowwf6046 Před 5 lety +26

      Oopsie Poopsie boi stfu

    • @oopsiepoopsie2898
      @oopsiepoopsie2898 Před 5 lety +27

      Cutie Fruity why it literally won’t do anything there are things you could do. You don’t even have to give her money, a better job, better skills, better education, things for her child, a husband or wife.

    • @joeblack2113
      @joeblack2113 Před 5 lety +7

      Life is what you make it,
      This is not a 3rd world, she lives in the greatest country in the world.
      She is a flat out loser, and mostly likely her child will be part of the cycle

  • @andrewheffel3565
    @andrewheffel3565 Před 2 lety +117

    Tough to watch. She works and collects multiple government benefits to barely get by. She seems very responsible. So sad. I spent my 20's in poverty, it was hard. I found a career path in my 30's, and when I had kids at 40 I pushed them hard to take school serious and I put them both through college. They have good careers and didn't have to go thru what I did. I hope her son does well, but the odds are not in his favor.

    • @wavylol1
      @wavylol1 Před 2 lety +5

      responsible? getting pregnant and the father leaving? she didnt even grad highschool bro. dont feel sad for a bum like this lmfaoo. i wonder why theres no father

    • @Vertekmaster
      @Vertekmaster Před 2 lety +10

      @@wavylol1 government and CEOs did a good job brainwashing the public to hate anyone that doesn't follow their path to work for their own corporate interests.
      Anyone who doesn't make the same decisions: "lmaooooo screw this bum she should've just followed the latter like everyone else"

    • @wavylol1
      @wavylol1 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Vertekmaster you mean a girl who did absolutely nothing in life except get pregnant and cry ab working at mcdonalds? youre a 100% Radical left sheep. Lmao.

    • @wavylol1
      @wavylol1 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Vertekmaster Brb in a few years when shes covered in tats and selling crack. lmao

    • @Vertekmaster
      @Vertekmaster Před 2 lety +7

      @@wavylol1 of course the "anyone who disagrees with me is radical leftist sheep" retort anytime someone disagrees with poor living conditions.
      Just how far are you down the "pick yourself up by the bootstraps" rabbit hole?

  • @latisha334
    @latisha334 Před 2 lety +81

    She gets almost twice as much money from the government aid than work. Wow.

    • @JC-fd8ho
      @JC-fd8ho Před 2 lety

      @Mariah Lee why?

    • @nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751
      @nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751 Před 2 lety +5

      @Mariah Lee you literally cannot save up or get a better job it's not that simple stop being ignorant and close- minded.

    • @latisha334
      @latisha334 Před 2 lety

      @@nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751 why can’t she get a better job? McDonald’s is literally bottom tier.

    • @nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751
      @nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751 Před 2 lety +4

      @@latisha334 instead of asking people to get better jobs ask the government to raise minimum wage I worked at macdonalds as a 16 year old in England and I got 15 dollars an hour because the minimum wage is higher. Stop shifting the blame onto employees someone has to have these jobs. No job is "bottom tier" She is a essential worker who feeds the community.

    • @Ms9mmBeretta
      @Ms9mmBeretta Před 2 lety +4

      @@nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751 the part where you said "no job is bottom tier." THANK YOU FOR SAYING THAT, AND I COULDN'T AGREE MORE. That's people's problem right there. They're brainwashed to think that way, when EVERY job is important. Her condescendingly looking down on this woman for the job she works says more about her than anything else. Smh

  • @86bmiller
    @86bmiller Před 4 lety +3612

    I wish more people understood that in life you are only a paycheck away from becoming homeless.

    • @americancreole6299
      @americancreole6299 Před 4 lety +329

      Not if you plan accordingly, live BELOW your means and invest in something that will create PASSIVE INCOME. I am ALWAYS saving because you never know when you will need it for a rainy day (e.g. car breaks down, medical bills, etc).

    • @ikrame8442
      @ikrame8442 Před 4 lety +138

      If you suck at money management and if u have bad luck yea

    • @sammlotshwa2140
      @sammlotshwa2140 Před 4 lety +188

      Yea because some people don't make enough to actually save any of it

    • @armeniajones7873
      @armeniajones7873 Před 4 lety +25

      He said I will never leave you or forsake you

    • @mossyteef
      @mossyteef Před 4 lety +133

      American Creole some people genuinely cannot afford to save any of their money, and have to use their entire paycheck each time they receive it

  • @edra2005
    @edra2005 Před 2 lety +4335

    I'd rather my taxes go towards helping people like her than selfish and entitled politicians and millionaires

    • @lauraenright3667
      @lauraenright3667 Před 2 lety +92

      I thought taxes went towards schools, public roads, healthcare etc..

    • @edra2005
      @edra2005 Před 2 lety +268

      @@lauraenright3667 they also go towards politicians and 'government subsidies' aka Elin Musks Space Force

    • @edra2005
      @edra2005 Před 2 lety +207

      @@lauraenright3667 don't forget Trump's weekly Golf Trips

    • @lauraenright3667
      @lauraenright3667 Před 2 lety +115

      @@edra2005 oh you live in America. Now it all makes sense

    • @iwillnotcomply5475
      @iwillnotcomply5475 Před 2 lety +19

      Don't vote Democrat. The billionaires support Democrats. Why do the plebs vote against their own interests?!

  • @caitlynwright8526
    @caitlynwright8526 Před 2 lety +151

    It breaks my heart that the childcare benefit is more than what she makes a year. At that point she's just missing time with her son :( this is so sad

    • @orlandocarrillo7132
      @orlandocarrillo7132 Před 2 lety +3

      But she's only 22. There are people who at 22 still make 0 dollars per month because they are studying. He should set apart some time to learn new skills, preferably online. Many times its free, only time and dedication is needed.

    • @myrddinemrys5599
      @myrddinemrys5599 Před 2 lety +3

      That's true for a lot of families. Plenty of stay at home moms until kindergarten because they won't earn enough working to pay for the child care. That's with a second income of course. Single parents or anyone on assistance of course has to follow the rules set by politicians who are convinced everyone is out to game the system. They need her to "prove" she earned the assistance by working, never mind that it makes zero financial sense. She doesn't work she won't qualify for any of the programs, so she works, costing the government more money.

    • @No29999
      @No29999 Před 2 lety +2

      @@orlandocarrillo7132 a real American there. You’re a joke. Have some heart before saying such bs. Egocentric piece of crap.

    • @orlandocarrillo7132
      @orlandocarrillo7132 Před 2 lety +2

      @@No29999 ok, then sorry for saying that. Then she should rather cry and do nothing and accept there is nothing she can do to stop being poor.

    • @No29999
      @No29999 Před 2 lety +1

      @@orlandocarrillo7132 OR fight the state??! Fight for a better life! There are too many sheep, y’all so dumb. Really. You have all the prove in front of you, and y’all can see how USA has shifted to the worse since WW2, yet idiots like you keep blaming the people in the bottom half of society for doing too little. Really?. You’re a joke, but so are many parts of the world. 🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑

  • @maryelvis3172
    @maryelvis3172 Před rokem +180

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    • @dralfred2400
      @dralfred2400 Před rokem +1

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    • @nyreggie
      @nyreggie Před rokem +1

      I keep wondering how people earn money in financial markets, i tried trading bitcoin on my own made a huge loss and now I'm scared of investing more.

    • @maryelvis3172
      @maryelvis3172 Před rokem +1

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    • @nyreggie
      @nyreggie Před rokem

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    • @zombie15ish
      @zombie15ish Před rokem

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  • @abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwyxz102
    @abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwyxz102 Před 3 lety +3324

    It's sad how kids earn millions by flailing their hands on tiktok but people who actually work, like her, don't get a lot.

    • @SamanthaMac912
      @SamanthaMac912 Před 3 lety +267

      This is the world we live in 😔

    • @SurrealisticSlumbers
      @SurrealisticSlumbers Před 3 lety +207

      When I have a child, I will inform them that being a social media star or an influencer is not a real job. If they like the camera, I will arrange for acting lessons so they can become a legitimate actor, or work in broadcast journalism or something along those lines. The day is coming when these platforms will be demonetized (Tik Tok, CZcams, whatever else is out there) and brands will come to realize that partnering with these "influencers" is hurting their bottom line (well, that and the fact that their products are of cheap quality, vastly overpriced and produced via child slave labor in places like Guatemala). The day of reckoning is upon us. Workers unite!

    • @oliviadinges3255
      @oliviadinges3255 Před 3 lety +43

      I know its bull and most already rich from there parents

    • @staticfuture251
      @staticfuture251 Před 3 lety +55

      Lynx Lefay it is a real job though. I’ve got plenty of sponsorships and opportunities because of it. Yeah it sucks because it’s basic shit but in reality that’s just how the world is moving on now. Social media is key, the shit you mentioned is dead af. People do vlogs, and make their own skits and all sorts of shit now. Acting lesson is whatever, the thing about now a days you don’t need to act no more

    • @SurrealisticSlumbers
      @SurrealisticSlumbers Před 3 lety +37

      @@staticfuture251 Interesting; your channel has no videos.

  • @terracottabrown4178
    @terracottabrown4178 Před 3 lety +1562

    She looks sad, depressed, stressed, mentally and physically exhausted but she needs to survive for her son..

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před 3 lety +71

      Update: she raised in her Gofundme 10k and is licensed in CNA and working to make a better life for herself.

    • @jammysandwich4079
      @jammysandwich4079 Před 3 lety +4

      @@shimmer4771 where’s the update story

    • @christopherkeller6367
      @christopherkeller6367 Před 3 lety +18

      She should have thought it through before having a kid with some low life dude.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před 3 lety +56

      @@christopherkeller6367 How about we show compassion and kindness? She's a person and deserves empathy. 🙂

    • @ughwhatever6380
      @ughwhatever6380 Před 3 lety +28

      @@christopherkeller6367 stfu white boy

  • @AR_119
    @AR_119 Před rokem +12

    I'm 27, making $75k a year (soon to be 90k) own a home in a good neighborhood, no car payment, no kids, and have a 401k yet still feel like everyone else is making more and has more. I can only imagine how these people feel. Puts things in perspective.

    • @Quit3Cut3
      @Quit3Cut3 Před rokem +1

      I make 47 a year and struggle to get by. My husband does much better than I do, but we still struggle to get by and try to save for a house. It’s really a struggle these days.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před rokem +1

      @@Quit3Cut3 It is. The problem is the cost of living. A house in Ga is 365k! That's twice what it was in 2020. This is just sad and frustrating. It's almost impossible for anyone to afford homeownership.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před rokem +1

      The woman in the video is a licensed CNA, raised 10k in her GoFundMe, and spends time with her son. She's doing well!

    • @alessandrasouza3979
      @alessandrasouza3979 Před rokem +6

      I think this isn’t the best video to flex anything you have tbh

    • @DominantBtch
      @DominantBtch Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@alessandrasouza3979how is it flexing, you sound dumb

  • @mrrayonsplayz350
    @mrrayonsplayz350 Před 2 lety +33

    i can't lie i feel really bad for her i hope she gets a better life :(

    • @sombitmukhuti2660
      @sombitmukhuti2660 Před 2 lety +3

      Why would you lie about that

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před rokem +2

      She raised 10k in her GoFundMe, licensed CNA, and spends family time.

  • @raapo4530
    @raapo4530 Před 7 lety +680

    "Whenever you feel like criticizing any one...just remember that all the people in this world haven't had the advantages that you've had."
    F. Scott Fitzgerald

    • @rebeccadawson5636
      @rebeccadawson5636 Před 7 lety +1

      That's an amazing quote

    • @raapo4530
      @raapo4530 Před 7 lety +1

      Its from the great gatsby... i try and remind myself it whenever i see people struggling

    • @thatperson420blyat
      @thatperson420blyat Před 7 lety +12

      +True Music why did the bitch get pregnant in the first place. Typical

    • @komalkaur2620
      @komalkaur2620 Před 7 lety +9

      +Danny Reyes things happens, MISTAKES happened. Why should one mistake make her life that miserable?

    • @wrany72
      @wrany72 Před 7 lety +4

      I don't know what I think about situations like this. At first you want to criticize and say "don't do this" "don't do that". I have been lucky, but I came from very little. I was also fairly smart, but I worked hard in school and got a doctorate. I'm not sure why some people fail to see the importance of school and others are lifted out by gifts, luck, or opportunity. It's unfornately the reality we live in. If we make it easier to be lazy then more people will be lazy. If we make it harder than we are failing as a society.

  • @abbymora1569
    @abbymora1569 Před 4 lety +3164

    I hope the broadcasting network gave her some money. I think it would be rude if they just made this story then left her in the same situation

    • @doriildn2170
      @doriildn2170 Před 4 lety +118

      abby mora. Exactly

    • @iamcringe.4343
      @iamcringe.4343 Před 4 lety +125

      TrUe because no one wants to be a camera for no reason

    • @princesse0920
      @princesse0920 Před 4 lety +58

      abby mora
      Same. I really hope they paid her.

    • @keishasims3192
      @keishasims3192 Před 4 lety +116

      No, they didn't. She stated she wanted to show struggle. I'm glad she did it, though. She's better. Check her update on her page.

    • @keishasims3192
      @keishasims3192 Před 4 lety

      @Pro Everything Look her up on Facebook.

  • @jikal9032
    @jikal9032 Před 2 lety +125

    Boomers be like: "Well, just don't buy shoes or use the heat lol"

    • @khaz8460
      @khaz8460 Před 2 lety +1

      You forgot the quintessential proverb of theirs saying that people are not forced to work in these sorts of conditions in the first place if they're being paid such 💀💀

    • @bm-rf4bc
      @bm-rf4bc Před 2 lety

      Please, compare the two generations in depth. You might uncover the secret to not being worthless.

    • @khaz8460
      @khaz8460 Před 2 lety

      @@bm-rf4bc >young America foundation subscriber
      there is nothing more than could be said here lmfao

    • @bm-rf4bc
      @bm-rf4bc Před 2 lety

      @@khaz8460 the depth of your intellect is unmatched. lol yourself to the food shelf.

    • @khaz8460
      @khaz8460 Před 2 lety +1

      @@bm-rf4bc tHe dEptH of YouR iNtellEct is unmatched
      Will do good sir, will do. If that is what it will take to appease to the all too "righteous" conservative ego sphere :))

  • @meeks1201
    @meeks1201 Před 2 lety +37

    I know she is so tired, the look in her eyes 😢 Privileged folks judge and say things like ‘work harder’ when they have no idea what it’s like to struggle. My heart hurts for her, she’s a great mama doin it all on her own

    • @SquirrelHill
      @SquirrelHill Před rokem +4

      Just because someone decides not to have a baby out of wedlock doesn't mean they are "privileged." A more accurate word would be "responsible."

    • @IIIII...
      @IIIII... Před 7 měsíci +1

      ​@@SquirrelHill ​ SquirrelHill
      Even if she was married her situation would still be the same because her son's father is most likely broke.

    • @DanielaBodoh
      @DanielaBodoh Před 2 dny

      Exactly, I hate when boomers say crap like "you're not making enough money because you're lazy and don't work hard!!!!!" when people like this woman bust their tails off working at retail stores or fast food places (I've worked retail before and it is NOT easy and you are on your feet all day, so don't even start with the laziness thing) and they still don't make enough money to survive. It's not that people aren't working hard, it's that companies aren't paying people living wages.

  • @kimberlyruiz8643
    @kimberlyruiz8643 Před 3 lety +3685

    Don't make fun of other people's struggles because God will humble you so quick.

    • @Abjecthda
      @Abjecthda Před 3 lety +117

      Facts! Some of the comments on here smh they don't understand the struggle.

    • @michaelcager6449
      @michaelcager6449 Před 3 lety +59

      @@Abjecthda The struggle is real but not impossible to overcome. There are many factors that can make the struggle harder then what it is. One is by having kids out of wedlock at a young age. Two is by engaging in criminal activity resulting in a built up criminal record. The 1964 War On Poverty Bill passed by President Lyndon B. Johnson give poor Americans huge opportunities to rise up the economical latter.

    • @lana_6336
      @lana_6336 Před 3 lety +5

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @kimberlyruiz8643
      @kimberlyruiz8643 Před 3 lety +75

      @Shinobu Kawajiri You must havr never struggled in your life. Godbless your ignorance.

    • @kimberlyruiz8643
      @kimberlyruiz8643 Před 3 lety +29

      @Shinobu Kawajiri you're fucking weird lmao

  • @melo.472
    @melo.472 Před 3 lety +6800

    she went from McDonald’s worker to law student now that’s one hell of a comeback story respectable

    • @kevinfowlks7351
      @kevinfowlks7351 Před 2 lety +145

      Hell yea 🔥🔥

    • @Pcarnevaaa
      @Pcarnevaaa Před 2 lety +641

      And now she has 300k law school debt. Much better.

    • @24sirosaydeacker57
      @24sirosaydeacker57 Před 2 lety +210

      @@Pcarnevaaa she can probably pay it back

    • @Pcarnevaaa
      @Pcarnevaaa Před 2 lety +512

      @@24sirosaydeacker57 HAHAHAHA a law student in 2021 paying back 300k debt? not likely. Unless you graduated a top 3 and working 85 hours a week at a large firm.

    • @itsmause8715
      @itsmause8715 Před 2 lety +832

      @UCCNAbAN6f7pLcIuOQ9a6wqg stop being fucking negative you sad fuck

  • @sophieseverson8465
    @sophieseverson8465 Před 6 měsíci +8

    People need to stop having kids when they are not in a position to take care of them financially. Having a child is a major life decision. But too many people don't plan responsibly for one (let alone multiple kids). It's truly mind-boggling.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Her son is already here. What should she do now?

    • @goldfishcrackers9419
      @goldfishcrackers9419 Před měsícem

      Her situation of how her son got there might not have been that simple. Considering that she's alone should say enough. Don't judge a situation you don't understand.

    • @robertmasina7388
      @robertmasina7388 Před 4 dny +1

      European countries do a good job of teaching unwanted pregnancies with its youth, why can't the US do the same thing?

  • @jennaguig
    @jennaguig Před 2 lety +35

    Sophia,
    I hope you're doing well. I hope you and your son are living the life you both deserve. You're a great, hardworking mom, and I have tons of respect for you ❤️

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před rokem +7

      She's doing better now. She is licensed as a CNA, spends time with her son, and doing well.

    • @SRP3333
      @SRP3333 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@shimmer4771that is such good news I remember watching this video a couple years back and I randomly thought of it and her and had to come back to rewatch and check comments and see if there’s was an update. So happy to hear that, thank you for sharing!

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před 9 měsíci

      @@SRP3333 She raised 10k in her GoFundMe.

  • @29xs19
    @29xs19 Před 7 lety +594

    Dear lord, please watch over this mother and son. In the name of Christ please help this mother and son though life. Please, please give this mother and son what they need to survive.

  • @dhouston1451
    @dhouston1451 Před 4 lety +1989

    Having a college degree doesn’t guarantee you’re going to make more than minimum wage. Don’t believe the hype.

    • @miguelbermudez5426
      @miguelbermudez5426 Před 4 lety +242

      That is why you don't get useless degrees like sociology or any other liberal arts degree. Go for a STEM program.

    • @dhouston1451
      @dhouston1451 Před 4 lety +60

      Miguel Bermudez , or Business Administration and Economics apparently.

    • @miguelbermudez5426
      @miguelbermudez5426 Před 4 lety +44

      @@dhouston1451 unless u get an MBA and go work as a restaurant manager to become an area supervisor or something like, they are useless.

    • @dhouston1451
      @dhouston1451 Před 4 lety +46

      Miguel Bermudez , true. I wish I knew that beforehand. I have a son now along with tons of student debt. I can’t afford to get an MBA at this point. I’ve came to terms it was all a big waste of time and so I will not push my son to put in the waste of time as I did. Anymore it’s all about who you know. College doesn’t matter.

    • @miguelbermudez5426
      @miguelbermudez5426 Před 4 lety +36

      @@dhouston1451 yeah i regret studying political science and getting $30K in debt.

  • @metv4254
    @metv4254 Před 2 lety +6

    I was in her position and I was homeless many times. In the end...I moved back in with my parents and went to the career center and got a good job. I never stopped striving for a better career.

  • @lifematch
    @lifematch Před 2 lety +12

    My parents both worked minimum wage job so that my siblings and I can have a better life. Now we are all pretty successful in our career thanks to my parents. It was very difficult for my parents to raise us, so i cannot image what she is going through as a single mother.

  • @RobWillx
    @RobWillx Před 5 lety +3719

    She sounds so defeated. Nobody should have to live like that. 😓

    • @andreagreen1133
      @andreagreen1133 Před 5 lety +113

      Robyn Williams this struck me as well i pray her life gets better she looks so young (to me) and she’s lost her smile and her spirit is broken

    • @ryman1933
      @ryman1933 Před 5 lety +112

      No one did this to her except her. She made bad choices and now others have to pay for her bad choices.

    • @tehagan37
      @tehagan37 Před 5 lety +75

      Robyn Williams. She has no hope left. She probably has a family she can't depend on. Some people are blessed to have a strong support system.

    • @ryman1933
      @ryman1933 Před 5 lety +20

      damien neimad Pretty good advice.

    • @septembersapphire347
      @septembersapphire347 Před 5 lety +30

      Sadly millions of people live like this.

  • @pennylane611
    @pennylane611 Před 7 lety +1915

    shes not looking for pitty just giving us an idea of what life is like at $7.50 an hr

    • @Sonia-iy3rj
      @Sonia-iy3rj Před 7 lety +12

      Tel F Don't be a rude bitch

    • @pennylane611
      @pennylane611 Před 7 lety +13

      Tel F WHOs talking to you!

    • @competetodefeat4610
      @competetodefeat4610 Před 7 lety +30

      Maybe you missed the part where she mentions her 2 week earnings indicating she's working part time. This is NOT a representation of working for $7.50 an hour it's a representation of somebody working PART TIME making 7.50. She needs to work full time, get a second job to get more hours or a combination of both. And here's a thought how about going after the deadbeat dad. She also chose to have a child in what i promise you was with some complete loser. Seems to be that basically ALL of her issues she brought on herself and it's complete and utter bullshit to claim this is a representation of what it's like to live on that wage because she is only working, again, part time.

    • @bmxmyth166
      @bmxmyth166 Před 7 lety +75

      +Vicious Circle she can't work full time because *she has a fucking kid to look after*, did you even watch the video? And her boyfriend is in prison (for all we know he could be in there for something as harmless as cannabis possession)... think before sounding like a condescending dumbass.

    • @2georgiamom
      @2georgiamom Před 7 lety +43

      At the end of the day, who's responsible for her situation? (Hint: it's not McDonald's, the government, or me).

  • @andrewdean4359
    @andrewdean4359 Před rokem +11

    Startıng early is the best way of gettıng ahead
    to build wealth, investıng remaıns a priorıity.
    The stock market has plenty of opportunities
    to earn

    • @russellwilliamson2147
      @russellwilliamson2147 Před rokem

      you're right, the importance of multıple
      stream of income, unfortunately having
      a job doesn't mean financial ,freedom or
      Security

    • @martinadangana8954
      @martinadangana8954 Před rokem

      speakıng of been successtul. I know l
      am blessed if not I wouldn't have met
      someone who is as spectacular as Mrs Stacy Griffin Kartn I wouldn't have met
      someone who is as spectacular as Mrs Stacy Griffin Kartner

    • @oliviaanderson5389
      @oliviaanderson5389 Před rokem

      I have been surviving through my
      fr with her, AM so glad I
      Invested when I did. I'm earring
      $25,000 weekly wth her

    • @kathleengeorge5516
      @kathleengeorge5516 Před rokem

      Investment is that thing Iine that
      Separates the rich from the poor

    • @nankardomyil7783
      @nankardomyil7783 Před rokem

      I'm so happy trading with I'm so happy trading with her

  • @ladderup6584
    @ladderup6584 Před 6 dny +1

    The strength of this woman to navigate so much injustice is awe-inspiring. What an incredible mother. I’ve always tried to be nice to fast food workers, but now I 100% will commit to leaving them with a smile and whatever kindness I can offer them.

  • @melissas6446
    @melissas6446 Před 4 lety +1272

    Breaks my heart. She’s trying and feels hopeless. I hope she is blessed in some way.

    • @lovelythomas8837
      @lovelythomas8837 Před 4 lety +25

      Bless you for saying such kind words I hope she is in a better place now

    • @keishasims3192
      @keishasims3192 Před 3 lety +4

      Thank you for such kins words... many commentators are very mean and harsh... she's trying to do better! She raises 10k in her Gofundme. She's trying to do better.

    • @melissas6446
      @melissas6446 Před 3 lety +4

      Bitch Pudding where is this information?

    • @melissas6446
      @melissas6446 Před 3 lety +13

      Bitch Pudding and those are very harsh words. It doesn’t change the fact that she doesn’t deserve an easier life. There are so many in her situation. It’s truly sad and the innocent children that are put in the middle

    • @melissas6446
      @melissas6446 Před 3 lety +5

      Bitch Pudding that’s sad. I really do wish her the best. I get what you’re saying just seemed harsh.

  • @LeeyaAre
    @LeeyaAre Před 4 lety +2092

    This hurts my heart man. She is depressed but has to survive

    • @Isoye
      @Isoye Před 4 lety +9

      LiayahR Not anymore she’s rich now check her fb

    • @KadrinaA
      @KadrinaA Před 4 lety +7

      Glicks Prod. Fr ? What does she do

    • @Isoye
      @Isoye Před 4 lety +15

      Champagne K She got married to a doctor 👨‍⚕️

    • @sumirekakei6999
      @sumirekakei6999 Před 4 lety +7

      Glicks Prod. can you send me the link?

    • @Isoye
      @Isoye Před 4 lety

      Sumire Kakei Nah

  • @SPtheGREAT
    @SPtheGREAT Před 7 měsíci +4

    This is WHY I COUNT MY BLESSINGS...my ❤️ goes out to her...

  • @JohnHernandez-uu1id
    @JohnHernandez-uu1id Před rokem +4

    Make better decisions in life and you don't have to worry about min. wage.
    1) graduate from high school
    2) don't do drugs, which includes marijuana
    3) don't have kids until your married
    4) if you get a min. wage job you can always show up 10 minutes before start time, look professional, work hard and get promoted!

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před rokem +1

      Waiting till marriage to have children doesn't mean the father will be involved nor does it mean you will be well off.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před rokem

      The woman in the video studied law school and raised 10k in her GoFundMe and enjoys spending time with her son. She's doing well now. 😌

  • @jasminewilliams8064
    @jasminewilliams8064 Před 7 lety +1332

    Wow that's pretty sad. I understand this 100% because I make 8.50 an hour and I still live with my mom and that's still not enough at all. My prayers go out to her and her son.

    • @rebeccaatkins6299
      @rebeccaatkins6299 Před 7 lety +10

      Why didn't you plan your life out? If you are a teenager ignore this but if you are over 20 and out of college it is your fault.

    • @jasminewilliams8064
      @jasminewilliams8064 Před 7 lety +11

      rebeccaatkins_ um I'm 18

    • @rebeccaatkins6299
      @rebeccaatkins6299 Před 7 lety +1

      Jazzi Williams I said if you are under 20 ignore this.

    • @jasminewilliams8064
      @jasminewilliams8064 Před 7 lety +38

      rebeccaatkins_ okay well don't reply to my comment then. State your opinion independently please. Otherwise I think your talking about me.

    • @jackiemontrose1279
      @jackiemontrose1279 Před 7 lety +2

      Jazzi Williams z

  • @filthysaltine3368
    @filthysaltine3368 Před 7 lety +417

    Minimal wage is made from teenagers not adults.

  • @rkotitan10
    @rkotitan10 Před 2 lety +12

    Reasons like this make me feel better about tax time. You deserve help! You’re a hard worker and keep your head up. Hope everything is better since the video

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před rokem

      She raised 10k in her GoFundMe and is licensed as a CNA. She's doing well!

  • @swenzybeatz3156
    @swenzybeatz3156 Před 2 lety +8

    Bruh she only works 16 hours a week…. seems like the problem is deeper rooted

    • @xiscaw
      @xiscaw Před 2 lety +1

      Bro you cant work full time when you got a child and no other person to watch out for them

    • @raymondreddington9788
      @raymondreddington9788 Před 2 lety +2

      @@xiscaw who told her to open her legs then?

    • @xiscaw
      @xiscaw Před 2 lety

      ​@@raymondreddington9788 it doesnt matter how she got the child, the fact is that she has a child now

    • @raymondreddington9788
      @raymondreddington9788 Před 2 lety

      @@xiscaw yeah yeah perfect idea bring child to the world and then cry about how life turned about to be

    • @xiscaw
      @xiscaw Před 2 lety

      ​@@raymondreddington9788idgaf about what youre talking about you're completely off topic from what i was saying to this guy

  • @NatsuoxOkami
    @NatsuoxOkami Před 5 lety +823

    "I'll struggle for him so he doesn't have to struggle for himself."
    "I don't want him to struggle like me and I want him to get a good paying job."
    Those are the most heartwarming things to say. She truly is a good mother, I hope she gets a higher paying job to better support herself and her son.

    • @sofiasalas1336
      @sofiasalas1336 Před 5 lety +23

      kommisar try living in her shoes

    • @rubenescalante7998
      @rubenescalante7998 Před 5 lety +6

      @kommisarYou need a reality check!!!!!

    • @vavale13
      @vavale13 Před 5 lety +13

      I'm sorry Kamisar, but in what Alice in wonderland alike world you are living in? People don't plan to life like this, life wasn't easy on her and if you lived in her shoes for two days you would run to mommy for sure. It's about being brave and giving your best to do everything that is possible due to the situation you're in, and she's doing it, with every single right to complain about what she struggles with in a >interview< made exactly for that

    • @sofiasalas1336
      @sofiasalas1336 Před 5 lety +6

      kommisar that’s not what I meant stupid. What I meant was people weren’t expecting to live like this and for you to say that is disrespectful is an awful human being. So shut your mouth and remember this. Ps making a homemade food is over her budget

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před 5 lety +3

      @@vavale13 Thank you! Someone who gets it! She's doing better now, she raised money and trying to find another job. She seems to be having a little trouble finding a place.

  • @Tony-gt1ow
    @Tony-gt1ow Před 7 lety +2415

    Give her the money this video earned

    • @jenna3937
      @jenna3937 Před 7 lety +52

      Tony Lopez good idea

    • @Tony-gt1ow
      @Tony-gt1ow Před 7 lety +5

      im.superman101 yeee

    • @NybKww
      @NybKww Před 7 lety +94

      a lot of channels get paid by the amount of views. Its not just ads.

    • @jayyyayyy7712
      @jayyyayyy7712 Před 7 lety +24

      나서린이 channels don't get money for views it's the advertisements of products that do idiot

    • @Tony-gt1ow
      @Tony-gt1ow Před 7 lety +9

      Jayyy Ayyy but vids bring subs and those subs see other vids related to the channel and those have adds so it's her help as well tht they gain subs money and views so why can't u just help her out just a little at least any help is better than no help

  • @user-cz9mj7od3k
    @user-cz9mj7od3k Před 9 měsíci +6

    Crazy we allow McDonalds and these horrible businesses to pay such an unacceptable wage.

    • @Editzz2024
      @Editzz2024 Před 9 měsíci +1

      In the uk mcdonalds workers get paid quite well

    • @BerryKind
      @BerryKind Před měsícem

      Facts

  • @dankkeesha7279
    @dankkeesha7279 Před 2 lety +3

    This is why you don’t have kids until your financially ready to do so

  • @grubhubguy9629
    @grubhubguy9629 Před 7 lety +266

    This woman chooses to get pregnant with a dead beat whose in jail, and is complaining about her living situation? Sorry, you made your bed, now you gotta sleep it. And before you attack me, saying I'm a privileged white man... Listen to this.
    Grew up dirt poor. Had no one but my parents. Both my parents worked retail jobs at the mall. They always told me to study hard and stay in school, to stay away from drugs and make friends with the right people. I listened to EVERYTHING they told, and I'm glad I did.
    When I got old enough, I started working to help my parents out with bills. We couldn't afford a car, so we took the bus everywhere. I used to stay up until 3a.m doing homework and sleep about 4 hours. High school was hell for me, but I was the first in my family to graduate.
    Couldn't afford university, so I went to my local community college. Fell in love with Biology and decided to pursue a career as a Registered Nurse. Took me 5 - almost 6 years to complete my Associates Degree because I had to work 2 jobs just to support myself and my parents. Now, after 26 years of busting my ass, it's all paid off.
    Currently a Registered Nurse, making close to 70k a year. Saving money to attend university and complete my BS to further my career. Nothing was handed to me. I worked my ass off for everything.
    It pisses me off when people like this woman here, who makes all these shitty choices, then expect other hard working people to help them out because they're too damn lazy to get an education. I grew up with nothing. Now look at me. I started from the bottom. You make the bed you sleep in. Listen to parents. Stay in school. Don't have kids until you have a career. And don't expect people to hand you anything.

    • @spookyshark29
      @spookyshark29 Před 7 lety +1

      I'm 20 an I'm self employed

    • @spookyshark29
      @spookyshark29 Před 7 lety +1

      College Dropout

    • @wanyasmith2443
      @wanyasmith2443 Před 7 lety +2

      +Napoleon that's what I'm saying a little, why are you putting your life on the internet like people care about your mistakes on life, LOSER!!!!

    • @datboidego
      @datboidego Před 7 lety +9

      good for you son. this makes you immortal and it also let's you have superpowers.

    • @IBZI7
      @IBZI7 Před 7 lety +52

      Careful with trying to motivate people on CZcams , they will send you death threats. I liked your story though.

  • @tamekamccain5594
    @tamekamccain5594 Před 4 lety +583

    This girl sounds tired and defeated.. almost to were she has given up.. I pray things get better for her and her son💜

    • @Starfish6
      @Starfish6 Před 4 lety +9

      I do too😭😭😭

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před 4 lety +22

      Thank you. The more she works, the higher her rent will be. The racist commentators don't understand struggle. She raised 10,000 in her Gofundme. She's trying to finish college. I'm glad you understand.

    • @juanshaftpatel7488
      @juanshaftpatel7488 Před 4 lety +1

      if god cared, she wouldnt be poor

    • @analisae4233
      @analisae4233 Před 4 lety +4

      Spartan 91 like god says the last will be first and the first will be last god sees everything

    • @ilovebeingamomgomez9394
      @ilovebeingamomgomez9394 Před 4 lety +2

      Juan Shaft Patel people tend to forget that theres also a devil.....

  • @kyriakimbler8183
    @kyriakimbler8183 Před 2 lety +10

    I struggle time to time making $12 an hour with no kids So I can Only Imagine What she had to endure making $7.50

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před rokem

      Yep. In Philly, too. Poor girl, she's struggled so much. She raised 10k in her GoFundMe, licensed as a CNA, and enjoys spending time with her son.

  • @Aly-hk6mg
    @Aly-hk6mg Před 2 lety +5

    its been almost 7 years from when this video was made to today. i hope she is doing better financially, emotionally, mentally, and physically.

  • @nikoflowers1635
    @nikoflowers1635 Před 4 lety +328

    The pain in her face and eyes. I pray blessings for her.
    The sad part is this is reality for a lot of individuals in this country.

    • @moisesfrias1117
      @moisesfrias1117 Před 4 lety +3

      due to been irresponsable...

    • @stephaniezuniga5835
      @stephaniezuniga5835 Před 4 lety

      @@moisesfrias1117 exactly

    • @michaelg7251
      @michaelg7251 Před 4 lety

      That's gas from eating Popeye's sandwiches. Mamm!es love thugs and fast food.

    • @tonycash5550
      @tonycash5550 Před 4 lety

      May The Lord bless you Safiyyah. I will pray for you sister. I'm glad that you and your sister help each other out every month.

  • @bougelaal
    @bougelaal Před 4 lety +1040

    This is the side of the USA that social media doesn't show... Only Lambos, Palm trees and yachts

    • @ivyrainbitch
      @ivyrainbitch Před 3 lety +6

      Yes they do

    • @nicoleharrington9086
      @nicoleharrington9086 Před 3 lety +15

      Im South African, I thought all Americans are rich.

    • @justsumteennn6778
      @justsumteennn6778 Před 3 lety +17

      @@nicoleharrington9086 lol

    • @vinukabest3
      @vinukabest3 Před 3 lety +25

      @@nicoleharrington9086 It is like every other country. You have people struggling like this in every nation. Not just the US.

    • @icemike1
      @icemike1 Před 3 lety +5

      @@vinukabest3 yeah but every other country's not fronting

  • @southernbeauty36
    @southernbeauty36 Před rokem +4

    I remember living this way for years. I wanted to off myself. Stress on top of stress and people don’t understand why Im so humble and work the way that I do. Scared to go back to living this way. I hope she is doing better now.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před 5 měsíci

      She raised 10k her GoFundMe, she's licensed CNA, and enjoys family time with her son. She's doing well! 🎉😊

  • @liam2246
    @liam2246 Před 2 lety +8

    It's up to the government to increase minimum wage. In Australia, our minimum wage, for a 22 year old and older, is USD$15 if you are part-time/full time which includes paid leave, sick leave and guaranteed number of hours per week, or USD$20 if you are a casual employee. Both include a bonus 10% on whatever you earn which goes towards your retirement fund. This is all legislation. It's up to the government. Why would McDonalds want to voluntarily pay more money!? They don't gaf about their employees. McDonalds is a business. They want to earn as much profit as possible.

    • @ashotofmercury
      @ashotofmercury Před 2 lety +1

      This! And American's still yap on about it being 'the greatest country in the world!' Erm, compared to where?!..... 🤷🏻‍♀️🙄 Maybe it was in the 1950s, but those days are looooooong gone! 🤨

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před rokem

      @@ashotofmercury Ah, Jim Crow era.

  • @scooters47
    @scooters47 Před 5 lety +751

    America we can't be proud of the way we treat our citizen's. $7.50 an hour 16 hours a week how the hell does she survive and our priority is giving the super rich a huge tax break.

    • @Casinodemedici
      @Casinodemedici Před 4 lety

      Catch Amazon

    • @bigmeatyclawzz
      @bigmeatyclawzz Před 4 lety +43

      @Teddy James you tried to blame feminism, a movement created by women who want equal treatment as men receive, on the reason why america has wage shortages. pure comedy.

    • @bigmeatyclawzz
      @bigmeatyclawzz Před 4 lety +17

      @Teddy James then you could've said women, not fucking feminism LMAO

    • @shreksboyfriend2572
      @shreksboyfriend2572 Před 4 lety +6

      Why cant she work 8hours a day?

    • @sh0rtyb0yp1mp
      @sh0rtyb0yp1mp Před 4 lety +9

      sh0rtyb0yp1mp
      1 second ago
      minimum wage is for kids going to college until they are done and are able to get a better job , it is not ment to raise a family , this is why we must show our kids that they need to better them selves before starting a family , be able to pay for child care , food , rent , and insurance , if not you fall into this type of situation on foodstamps housing assistance childs assistance , and once you fall in its is one of the hardest things to come out of it could take generations or never happen, but the youth doesnt listen as didnt i and had to learned the hard way ,

  • @lisasteadman619
    @lisasteadman619 Před 2 lety +5027

    Such sadness in her eyes. Hope she is doing better today. Much respect for even working.

    • @marisoltorres9027
      @marisoltorres9027 Před 2 lety +103

      Yes exactly, at least she was trying God willing she is doing better today

    • @TheLatinoRedneckCowboy
      @TheLatinoRedneckCowboy Před 2 lety +135

      Well maybe she shouldn't have wasted time with poor relationships & instead of getting knock up. She could've went to schooling first ! Trade school

    • @fordgalaxiefanclub7733
      @fordgalaxiefanclub7733 Před 2 lety +383

      @@TheLatinoRedneckCowboy u speaking facts but atleast have some humanity

    • @amaliasafaryan4256
      @amaliasafaryan4256 Před 2 lety +41

      @@TheLatinoRedneckCowboy True we women have like eight different types of birth control most of them are free LOL we don't live in the 1800s anymore we have options

    • @adamk9677
      @adamk9677 Před 2 lety +25

      @@TheLatinoRedneckCowboy this is why school is ver important and listen to your parents.

  • @thomasd9237
    @thomasd9237 Před rokem +7

    Shouldn't be making babies if you cannot afford to take care of them properly

  • @Jaytee1765
    @Jaytee1765 Před rokem +3

    CAN YOU IMAGINE $7.50/hr in 2022? This is criminal.

  • @AshzxQuidYT
    @AshzxQuidYT Před 4 lety +234

    This video was 7 min long but it felt like 7 hours, my heart breaks for her. By sharing her story I know she’s got to be in a better place financially. God bless you wherever you are!

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před 4 lety +9

      She raised 13,000 in her Gofundme. She's trying to finish school or get a better job. She really is working her hardest to make a better life.

    • @aparnapolisetty9571
      @aparnapolisetty9571 Před 4 lety +1

      Hi
      Can you share her go fund me page

    • @fixmepainreliefyogamhac4563
      @fixmepainreliefyogamhac4563 Před 2 lety

      I hope the GoFundMe is in someone else's name or something
      They can take insurance or assistance away

  • @JaneDoe-cy3nc
    @JaneDoe-cy3nc Před 8 lety +2449

    The fact that people are judging this women is beyond me. Put yourself in her shoes. No one wants to live like that, what if one day you find yourself in her shoes cause something terrible happens? Don't say "That would never happen to me" because life is so, so unpredictable say "I hope to never find myself in this situation." I pray for nothing but better for this lady and her son.

    • @jrenae4057
      @jrenae4057 Před 8 lety +26

      Exactly!!!

    • @vegasgirl3538
      @vegasgirl3538 Před 8 lety +76

      Nobody's stopping her from changing her life. There's only about a billion different scholarships and grants available to low income single mothers. She's working 16 hours a week, she could easily find a second job or go to school.

    • @JaneDoe-cy3nc
      @JaneDoe-cy3nc Před 8 lety +14

      +VegasGirl35 all we know is a 6:42 video about this women. If it was more in depth and it came to light she was just doing this cause she wanted to, then I would say maybe you should try a little harder for a better life for you and and your son.

    • @oo-eu6qz
      @oo-eu6qz Před 8 lety +41

      Why would you allow yourself to become pregnant to include another life into your shitty one? People like this deserve SHAME!

    • @JaneDoe-cy3nc
      @JaneDoe-cy3nc Před 8 lety +48

      +o¿o no, they do not. Shame on you for saying that! Like I said, you don't know her story and even so she had her son and she is doing what she can for him. Let her be and if you have a better life be thankful.

  • @gaibriellahunter4173
    @gaibriellahunter4173 Před 2 lety +6

    I feel that look in her eyes, I’ve been there. Glad to hear she’s doing better!

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před rokem

      She is. This is what determination does for someone.

  • @metallizationofficial980
    @metallizationofficial980 Před 2 lety +7

    How could a Billion Dollar Company pay the backbone of there money that low

  • @emmasmith5676
    @emmasmith5676 Před 6 lety +1566

    She may not live the high life but she has her mind straight for her son so he doesn’t need to struggle,in my book she’s a good person and mother

    • @Jaisee14
      @Jaisee14 Před 6 lety +18

      She's a good mother but she cannot give him what he needs. She should have put the baby up for adoption so that he could have the life she cannot give him. I was adopted and I am grateful for my parents who gave me the life I knew my parents could not nor did they care enough to do so.

    • @jrkarmagetugud
      @jrkarmagetugud Před 6 lety +75

      Your lucky to have been adopted, not every child that goes into that system does.

    • @agramon9940
      @agramon9940 Před 6 lety +10

      emma smith If she has her mind straight for her child she wouldn't be in that situation. She's lazy and lacks discipline. Words don't mean anything until you put it into action.

    • @PlaceholderDoe123
      @PlaceholderDoe123 Před 6 lety +5

      +Chris LaVey What I'm wondering is why she doesn't get a second job...

    • @kimberlythunert6968
      @kimberlythunert6968 Před 6 lety +58

      Chris and Victoria...if she got a second job, who would pay her child care for those hours? And lazy? I see a young mother struggling to do the best she can for her child. Perhaps you're missing the point. NO ONE can live on $7.50 hour!

  • @JessicaGail
    @JessicaGail Před 3 lety +1895

    She said she makes $230-$240 every TWO weeks. That’s $115-$120 per week... And $436 per month. Oh my god. I made that at my first job at a grocery store and I can attest to the fact that it’s nothing. I didn’t even have bills at the time, I just lived at home. I can’t imagine the stress of trying to support yourself and a child on this amount of pay. Our system is so broken and it breaks my heart. I hope they paid her well for this interview and I hope she and her child are doing better now. I wish we could get an update. Also social programs are a lifesaver, we need more of them in this country.

    • @FlansyLinny
      @FlansyLinny Před 3 lety +40

      I didn't even know places gave that little of hours even at part time. At the very least she could find a job paying a little more, even $10 an hour isn't hard to find and would increase her income a lot.

    • @Faeborn
      @Faeborn Před 3 lety +19

      And I thought 1600 a week was very little

    • @GLAMZARAM
      @GLAMZARAM Před 3 lety +42

      Minimum skill minimum wage

    • @Faeborn
      @Faeborn Před 3 lety +3

      @Arrow Right 🤣 I make 1600 and my husband makes the same. So 3200 a week.

    • @mayymayy6822
      @mayymayy6822 Před 3 lety +10

      @@FlansyLinny this video was shot 5 years ago. No one was paying minimum wage at 10 an hour

  • @domc5849
    @domc5849 Před 2 lety +4

    I hope she is in a better place.i live in Philly as well n it's definitely hard out here.stay strong sis it will get better keep pushing n never give up!!

  • @manestage5403
    @manestage5403 Před 2 lety +3

    She broke my heart because I've been there before. I reflect sometimes and don't even know how I and my son have come far now. 🙌🏾

  • @kstrimm8014
    @kstrimm8014 Před 4 lety +1464

    The sadness in her eyes is heartbreaking...I wish i could give her a hug and tell her it's going to be OK!!!

    • @tylermccall2584
      @tylermccall2584 Před 4 lety +30

      A Mc let’s say she does the udemy course and does find them on sale.... wow she got anther job making 12 bucks a hour😱. Oh shit I lost health care, shit food stamps are gone or practically nothing.... back to the same shit hole again..... gotta love America

    • @kstrimm8014
      @kstrimm8014 Před 4 lety +9

      @A Mc well this information is not useful to me...why don't you inform her

    • @killaa1028
      @killaa1028 Před 4 lety +39

      A Mc it’s not always the persons fault, you’re clearly too privileged to understand that

    • @jesuswilljudge7296
      @jesuswilljudge7296 Před 4 lety +5

      Hugs dont help telling ur man to use a condom and her going on birth control helps boo..

    • @killaa1028
      @killaa1028 Před 4 lety +12

      Jesus will Judge birth control is dangerous for a lot of women, and you never know she could’ve been using a condom they don’t always work.. and often times people don’t know that they are pregnant until after the fact, you were probably an accident yourself

  • @amberndavid53
    @amberndavid53 Před 6 lety +873

    She's a Good Mom, I hope everything works out for her. God bless Her in every which way possible.

    • @acrossgames4347
      @acrossgames4347 Před 6 lety

      Amber Alegria Amen

    • @dogdoggman4971
      @dogdoggman4971 Před 6 lety +19

      Amber Alegria single moms are not good moms.

    • @dk-vo3tr
      @dk-vo3tr Před 6 lety +8

      dog doggman just as bad as the one that raised you.

    • @chergilles
      @chergilles Před 6 lety +5

      dog doggman lol what?
      What if the father died?

    • @nickobrien2478
      @nickobrien2478 Před 6 lety +13

      not really, she has a baby by a criminal and is a societal leech

  • @CaptchaNeon
    @CaptchaNeon Před rokem +3

    People do the best they can and you tell she loves her baby. Apparently, there are people in the comment section who do not understand welfare.

  • @reposter6434
    @reposter6434 Před 2 lety +17

    Mad how I'm only 18 and get paid more than this woman, makes you think about life more.

    • @lmd1034
      @lmd1034 Před 2 lety +1

      When this came out she was making more than you and she probably does to this day now

    • @mohawk4759
      @mohawk4759 Před 2 lety

      @@lmd1034 what

    • @wallyy6223
      @wallyy6223 Před 2 lety +1

      inflation

    • @BigBoiTurboslav
      @BigBoiTurboslav Před 2 lety

      Lmao I get paid half of this woman, why is she complaining

    • @monicawilson8075
      @monicawilson8075 Před 2 lety +1

      @@BigBoiTurboslav doing what and what region of the world.

  • @naeemahbadia4266
    @naeemahbadia4266 Před 4 lety +440

    Aww we went to high school together and she’s so cool and silly, and I I’m happy to say she’s doing a lot better than she was when this cane out

    • @americancreole6299
      @americancreole6299 Před 4 lety +30

      Are her parents alive? Why is she not getting any assistance from her family members so that she can try to go to school? I really feel for her and I hope that she can move out of that job to something better.

    • @naeemahbadia4266
      @naeemahbadia4266 Před 4 lety +77

      American Creole she has an associate degree, and her mom is Alive but her mom has responsibilities too, everyone’s mom isn’t the same

    • @americancreole6299
      @americancreole6299 Před 4 lety +27

      @@naeemahbadia4266
      Understandable. I know it can be tough without family support. I hope that she continues to move on to bigger and better things.

    • @saucesfc8946
      @saucesfc8946 Před 4 lety +7

      wow the american school system is great for spelling

    • @NBA_Z0
      @NBA_Z0 Před 4 lety +6

      Why the fuck you lyin? Why you always lyin? Mhmm oh my god! Stop the fuckin lyin!

  • @iamtroll2487
    @iamtroll2487 Před 5 lety +380

    She looks so exhausted. I feel so bad for her omg

    • @InSaN3ViSioN
      @InSaN3ViSioN Před 5 lety +13

      Exhausted working only 16 hours a week. Meanwhile, Elon Musk works over 100 hours a week and is changing our world with 4 revolutionary companies. Says a lot about people's mindsets.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před 5 lety +17

      @@InSaN3ViSioN Or, she can't work more than that or else her rent will be too high or her son won't have a babysitter. (She can't work weekends, holidays, or without daycare.) Her foodstamps would be cut, leaving her with NO money, and her benefits would be cut. Some people have disadvantages. Doesn't mean they're a bad person. Just saying.

    • @BurningMoonlight
      @BurningMoonlight Před 5 lety +3

      Ice Cream Lover At least someone understands.

    • @skip031890
      @skip031890 Před 5 lety +4

      @@shimmer4771 Thank you for nicely pointing out how welfare, ultimately, does not allow people to progress in life. She's going to be perpetually stuck in a system of poverty if she doesn't make the right choices for her own life. Government assistance is not the answer, but that's all she probably knows; sadly.

    • @rosegoald
      @rosegoald Před 5 lety +4

      S3 XY just because she doesn't work alot of hours at her job doesn't mean she can't be exhausted. She's a single mom. Work is never done

  • @thehollyannrose
    @thehollyannrose Před 2 lety +7

    I still don’t understand why Medicaid doesn’t have better dental benefits. I used to have it and they wouldn’t even deep clean my teeth when they were coated in plaque from years without cleanings or help cover the cost of a crown when I fractured my tooth!! 🥺🥺

    • @GTAIVisbest
      @GTAIVisbest Před 2 lety

      I can't cope over our healthcare system anymore. I keep trying to cope and say "well, it's not so bad, you just have to keep your max yearly OOP in an HSA and.... and...." before I remember a max yearly OOP is like $4,000 and most people live on federal minimum wage paycheque to paycheque. Goddamn it

  • @SRP3333
    @SRP3333 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I wish we were able to see how she’s doing now ): I remember watching this years ago and I just randomly thought of this video and her and had to come back, hopefully they’re in a better place now she seems like a good girl and is trying her best to be a good mom❤️

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před 4 měsíci

      Update: she raised 10k in her GoFundMe and is licensed as a CNA. She enjoys spending time with her son and doing better.

  • @opinionated
    @opinionated Před 7 lety +834

    She seems so tired and depressed. I can't wait for her to have a success story.

    • @kinglongdong9820
      @kinglongdong9820 Před 7 lety +30

      That or she blows her brains out.

    • @vannagonzalez7690
      @vannagonzalez7690 Před 7 lety +8

      +KingLongDong Jesus Christ!!! smh

    • @poppyseed1000
      @poppyseed1000 Před 7 lety +28

      You're right. People don't want to talk about it, maybe it crosses the line into the subject of mental illness but so many people commit suicide because their financial situations make them feel like there is no other way out. It's a shame, all that wasted potential.

    • @elu5334
      @elu5334 Před 7 lety +2

      She probably on some drug 2 calm her down

    • @yourstruly_777
      @yourstruly_777 Před 7 lety +10

      I agree, msleilani15. I though she seems so defeated. I'm sure she's quite depressed about her situation, and thats understandable, but she keeps on pushing.

  • @normatobias328
    @normatobias328 Před 4 lety +860

    That's why I open a daycare where I charge you according to what the parents can afford because some moms have it really tuff

  • @robloxglowiee4315
    @robloxglowiee4315 Před 2 lety +6

    Shame there are millions just like her. If I see anyone struggling like this I want to help and make difference to their life.

  • @janadalby7519
    @janadalby7519 Před 2 lety +6

    "This is life when you have a premarital baby and don't graduate high school"

    • @mars_bars3428
      @mars_bars3428 Před 2 lety +1

      not you blaming this on her.. regardless of her situation, 7.50 an hour is absolutely ridiculous and not ok.

    • @robertmasina4610
      @robertmasina4610 Před 2 lety +1

      One should know that even when one is in high school that if one doesn't graduate, a future of low skilled, low paying jobs awaits one.

  • @dixiekongfan1
    @dixiekongfan1 Před 7 lety +246

    I bet you she works 100x harder than some of these youtubers that get paid thousands of dollars a week just to talk to a camera and basically do nothing

    • @kevinc4123
      @kevinc4123 Před 7 lety +15

      you make it sound like youtubers don't have to do anything except talk to a camera

    • @kristalnicole118
      @kristalnicole118 Před 7 lety +20

      So now you have to "have it hard" in order to deserve a living pay. ? lots of youtubers struggled before they became "famous" lots of them STILL struggle. it's not that black and white. And there's much more to CZcams than just vlogs.

    • @carmelocepeda4563
      @carmelocepeda4563 Před 7 lety +5

      if only you new how hard it is to be a youtuber

    • @nodnarb6171
      @nodnarb6171 Před 7 lety +4

      It's just McDonalds not that hard

    • @freekodak3387
      @freekodak3387 Před 7 lety +8

      Her jobs easier....

  • @mursalarabia
    @mursalarabia Před 5 lety +684

    I was in her shoes not a long ago.. darkest time of my life.. I knew I had to make changes.. no company or corporation will look after you.. you have to be actively looking for another job or another skill to learn.. get yourself out of the hole .. the longer you wait the harder it gets.

    • @cdm386
      @cdm386 Před 5 lety +6

      mursalarabia what did you end up learning?

    • @mursalarabia
      @mursalarabia Před 5 lety +48

      cdm386 IT.. I worked as an IT guy for a home care agency for awhile.. and I ended up learning how they do their scheduling and doing payroll.. today I'm one of the managers( not bragging) .. if it wasn't for me willing to learn stuff I had no business learning I wouldn't be here or improved my situation.

    • @docfabz
      @docfabz Před 5 lety +27

      @@mursalarabia congrats to you, not everyone's situation is the same however but congrats

    • @jasmine-dq5vc
      @jasmine-dq5vc Před 5 lety +1

      mursalarabia same

    • @vanessayoung4396
      @vanessayoung4396 Před 5 lety +2

      GOD BLESS YOUR DAUGHTER WHERE SHE GO TO school TO GET SOME SKILLS FOR SHE CAN MAKE AWAY BEAUTIFUL YOUNG WOMEN TOUCH HER FINANCE

  • @goldenhourss
    @goldenhourss Před měsícem +2

    Her blank expression.. omg I pray for things to get better for her. She deserves better❤

  • @matteotarantino758
    @matteotarantino758 Před 2 lety +15

    Love how this was uploaded 6 years ago and the minimum wage is still the same

  • @GeeLeslie
    @GeeLeslie Před 5 lety +1292

    Yall want to exploit her struggles but did yall help her?

    • @eledesma5478
      @eledesma5478 Před 5 lety +20

      The Notorious TG hold the fuck up This Leslie person has a point so shut your crusty-ass mouth with all your crusty-ass vibes🤪

    • @eledesma5478
      @eledesma5478 Před 5 lety

      The Notorious TG they would donate. No shit sherlock👌

    • @GeeLeslie
      @GeeLeslie Před 5 lety +10

      The Notorious TG damn i feel sorry for whoever raised you, ik they did better than that 😂

    • @tghamd9327
      @tghamd9327 Před 5 lety +1

      pSyChobUns ;c lol y’all still didn’t answer my question

    • @momoblue1691
      @momoblue1691 Před 5 lety +2

      why not just keep sharing the videos, so people can learn ?

  • @oliviatashti4475
    @oliviatashti4475 Před 3 lety +1143

    when the federal miminum wage doesn't increase a PENNY since 2009, THAT IS SCARY..yet everything has gone up. absolutely ridiculous.

    • @bubbarts8021
      @bubbarts8021 Před 3 lety +18

      Rent in California is 2000-3000 and people don’t get paid that much an apartment in the tenderloin in San Fran cost a lot just to live by homeless people,poopy sidewalks,and a street full of needles they don’t thin about minimum wage families or elders they want money and that’s it you’ll be lucky to not find a slumlord

    • @mr16325
      @mr16325 Před 3 lety +29

      It should go up, but we have to be careful how much. If it skyrockets, then companies might stop hiring unskilled people and go to cheaper machines

    • @ja-is1dt
      @ja-is1dt Před 3 lety +6

      The problem is the constant increase in cost of liveing every year.

    • @crab2195
      @crab2195 Před 3 lety +44

      Minimum wage is the “minimum” for a reason, it’s not meant to be lived off of... you can’t pay bills making $7.50 an hour, and it’s set up that way for a reason.

    • @alisagraham6513
      @alisagraham6513 Před 3 lety +4

      INCREASE minimum wage! That makes sense. People could make a decent living.

  • @zimtheinvaderofficial
    @zimtheinvaderofficial Před rokem +4

    money is the key to happiness

  • @CrazyAlienLady051
    @CrazyAlienLady051 Před 2 lety +3

    It makes me sick that the majority of our money is going to greedy old millionaires and politicians and not people like her. Every year, the rich get richer as we all grow poorer. Ugh, I’m sick of it all.

  • @Dreaming875
    @Dreaming875 Před 5 lety +180

    Awe she looked so depressed :/

    • @mimineabdou7852
      @mimineabdou7852 Před 5 lety +6

      Mel takes on the world so Tired

    • @Dreaming875
      @Dreaming875 Před 5 lety +1

      Mimine Abdou that too :(

    • @jspurs22
      @jspurs22 Před 5 lety +4

      But she pick to be with an idiot who made her depressed

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před 5 lety +9

      @@jspurs22 There's nothing she can do about her past mistakes, all she can do is try to do better now. There's no going back. But, she's working, taking care of her son, and doing it all on her own. She's not a bad person, so stop judging her. You aren't in her position. Not everyone is going to technical college, as mentioned. But, does that mean she shouldn't be able to make a good life for herself? Should she work like a slave? Should her son suffer. Bottom line, people shouldn't be punished for mistakes. They still have to survive.

    • @iamdavid2372
      @iamdavid2372 Před 5 lety

      Roblox Player 2013 What the, kind of comment is this, how hateful Look ur 7 years old and u shouldn't discriminate at such a young age. Ppl of all ages and diversity shouldnt discriminate in general so pls love all and not hate because of color

  • @thelegendarysupersandwich7671

    Here's a few suggestions, don't drop out of school, go to college, and don't have a child if you cannot support that child.

    • @ARalph-gz8hf
      @ARalph-gz8hf Před 7 lety +15

      1. she never once said she dropped out. and 2. who's to say it was her choice to have a child? there's such thing as rape... assuming it's even her own child.

    • @alangramajo3980
      @alangramajo3980 Před 7 lety +5

      +Joshua Ralph 1 she works at McDonalds and shes 22 common sense 2 Give it up for adoption dont let the baby struggle with you

    • @madelinewhitmer8868
      @madelinewhitmer8868 Před 7 lety +5

      @the legendary super sandwich// I am 13, and even I can comprehend the fact that sometimes things are unplanned. She never said that she dropped out of schooling. Maybe the protection she used malfunction (ed or something, and now she has a kid. But she is hauling butt, and doesn't have time to read your petty youtube comments. Be nice or be gone, foul beast!!!!!

    • @madelinewhitmer8868
      @madelinewhitmer8868 Před 7 lety +2

      *malfunctioned (I have fat fingers 😂😂😂)

    • @thelegendarysupersandwich7671
      @thelegendarysupersandwich7671 Před 7 lety +2

      I apologize if I offended you in any way, but if she was raped, they would have obviously pointed that out, but they didn't.

  • @MTTT19
    @MTTT19 Před 2 lety +5

    Whenever someone says that the minimum wage rate is fine and enough for people to live off, this just proves how wrong they are.

    • @vanillapinkfluff3477
      @vanillapinkfluff3477 Před 2 lety

      It's depressing the way the money and work force operates.

    • @giggoty4926
      @giggoty4926 Před 2 lety +1

      shes alive has a place to live and clearly able to feed herself and her kid. thats more then a ton of people get

    • @robertmasina4610
      @robertmasina4610 Před 2 lety

      @Matt Thornton. The way to get to a "livable wage" job is for one to graduate high school and after that get an education or learn a job skill.

  • @IbnWahab
    @IbnWahab Před 2 lety +2

    Its so sad people have to go through this in a country that is so rich. The sadness in her eyes is heart melting. I really hope she is in a better place today. Much respect for working so hard instead of "fast ways"

    • @SquirrelHill
      @SquirrelHill Před rokem

      She didn't "have" to do this. She made the choice to have a baby out of wedlock.

  • @brocklanders6011
    @brocklanders6011 Před 4 lety +649

    This is someone that is trying to be a good citizen, there should be a education program to help young people like her

    • @allthingschristina9242
      @allthingschristina9242 Před 4 lety +15

      Many good programs that she could qualify for and it would be free. I hope she is in a better situation:)

    • @21natalia211
      @21natalia211 Před 4 lety +14

      Patrick Turlan there are programs but that means putting her son in daycare for longer periods of time, they’re already cutting her hours having an open schedule imagine if she were to change it to go to school, also she’ll end up spending more on bus far to get to the location. Those are little extra expenses that add up when you’re nickel and diming it

    • @brocklanders6011
      @brocklanders6011 Před 4 lety +5

      She should leave him in the car

    • @zacharyschafer9493
      @zacharyschafer9493 Před 4 lety +4

      Maybe like free college for low income citizens 🤔

    • @Lovely_1One
      @Lovely_1One Před 4 lety +7

      Patrick Turlan youre sick. What do you mean by saying she should leave a BABY in the car??!! Your ignorance is typically astounding.

  • @sheedevil3367
    @sheedevil3367 Před 5 lety +879

    Don't judge her until you walk in her shoe's

    • @frensplace5576
      @frensplace5576 Před 5 lety +10

      Let me just act like a crackhead in an Elementary School and expect them to understand the position I’m in

    • @Krazidawg
      @Krazidawg Před 5 lety +20

      I made sure that i would never walk in her shoes at 22yrs old. It’s called hustling, do it hard in your twenties, easier to recover when you’re young, take aggresive, calculated, sometimes risky investments, you can take losses when your young. Do more, you have a Son.

    • @yunga8305
      @yunga8305 Před 5 lety +7

      Krazidawg real shit You gotta risk your life for it at times to if you really want it ... McDonalds paycheck aint gonna do nothin .

    • @MENLOROGUE14
      @MENLOROGUE14 Před 5 lety +8

      They probably stank. Im good

    • @phenitagomes1292
      @phenitagomes1292 Před 5 lety +14

      Judging this woman would be more easy than to understand where she came from n what she's been through. Ppl can be real asawholes

  • @helenapereira8547
    @helenapereira8547 Před rokem +2

    I also told the dentist to pull one tooth out because I couldn't afford the treatment 😞

  • @TheJimprez
    @TheJimprez Před 2 lety +3

    McDonalds pays 16$/h here. WTH is wrong with the USA? It's not Capitalism, it's slavery...

  • @indicababez
    @indicababez Před 6 lety +3389

    This makes me grateful for everything that I have

  • @cocokissas4359
    @cocokissas4359 Před 4 lety +284

    Damn I felt that! "I'll wear the struggle so he can live."😭😭😭

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před 4 lety +10

      Black women gotta stand strong as no one else cares for our struggles! 💯

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před 4 lety +11

      She raised 13,000 in her Gofundme. She also has an Associate's degree. 😄

    • @nickabbott319
      @nickabbott319 Před 4 lety

      Princess Emerald you a black women too,ohh

    • @TheColumbiakid
      @TheColumbiakid Před 4 lety +3

      Yall gotta stop fucking with losers. Dudes with no future no skills just want to sell drugs

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 Před 4 lety +2

      @@TheColumbiakid i kmow for a fact no woman or man wants to struggle. You have to remember that women aren't meant to work hard jobs, we're not like men... nor are we built like them. No woman plans on being a single mother. Trust me, most women choose a man thinking he's a good one and then he leaves/ abusive. How about we teach women to choose good men and men how to treat a woman? No man who doesn't respect women will get respected. I can promise you that.

  • @alexh6767
    @alexh6767 Před 2 lety +2

    I remember being offered an internship for less than 3 dollars an hour, 30 hours a week for 6 months. I refused and got told to grow up

  • @jacksonowens8216
    @jacksonowens8216 Před 2 lety +4

    That’s why you have to be grateful for even the smallest things in life

    • @vmobile890
      @vmobile890 Před 2 lety

      Always live in a trailer in a nice safe nice community with elders .Always stayed on a budget and bought cheapest nice things worked as good as expensive things . Life has and is rewarding and good . Moved to nice trailer park in upscale town with expensive homes very low crime . Plenty of stores close no shortage of food nice people .