The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane (animated book summary) - How to Become More Charismatic

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  • čas přidán 31. 07. 2024
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    The most common charisma myth is that you either have it or you don't. Which is unfair since charismatic individuals often make more money.
    It determines if you are seen as a leader or a follower and it's critical in business.
    Anyone can learn to be charismatic by learning a set of non-verbal behaviors.
    Body language plays a big part in charisma, so it's really important to get your internal state right, since we can't micro manage all our body language consciously.
    Charisma can be broken down to three main components: Presence, power and warmth. What kind of charisma we will present depends on those three components.
    We can alternate between: Kindness charisma, visionary charisma, focus charisma and authority charisma.
    We can also blend the charisma styles together. We should adapt our charisma style depending on the situation at hand.

Komentáře • 53

  • @joshiyamamoto2068
    @joshiyamamoto2068 Před 2 lety +7

    Very good sum up from olivia fox cabane charimatic video. her video is 45 minutes long and u compact the informations in short video. love it!

  • @oswaldrabbit1409
    @oswaldrabbit1409 Před 4 lety +22

    Older video, same quality as your newer ones. Learned a ton, although you've improved for sure. 😁👍

  • @NystektVaffel
    @NystektVaffel Před 7 lety +5

    Wow! I'll share this right away to my friend that i'm coaching:3 So glad i subbed to you!

  • @vaisakhvm1726
    @vaisakhvm1726 Před 2 lety +2

    Well summarized!!! Thanks for the clear and big picture :)

  • @jasonpham6422
    @jasonpham6422 Před 7 lety +22

    Thank you for the video. Best animated version of this book.

  • @VentureAHighway
    @VentureAHighway Před 4 lety +3

    This was a very well done and interesting video.. thank you for creating this!

  • @TomyBach
    @TomyBach Před 4 lety +4

    Really great video❤️ this is what I really need thank you ❤️

  • @TheShaunSwanson
    @TheShaunSwanson Před 7 lety +5

    Hey, phenomenal work! I have heard about that book for awhile but I will probably check it out.

  • @ELgeneral-pl9yg
    @ELgeneral-pl9yg Před rokem

    The book is longer than it should be. This is a good summary.

  • @foodiemoodie1512
    @foodiemoodie1512 Před 4 lety

    In love with your voice

  • @ryanlozon5712
    @ryanlozon5712 Před 4 lety +2

    Love the videos @Better Than Yesterday, do you happen to sell posters of the finished images?

  • @Acceptence
    @Acceptence Před 4 lety +15

    I would cry 😅 of happness ...I can blieve now I have changed alot since I watched your videos oh man thank you from the bottom of my heart . I watch your videos daily (at least 1 video every day) I knew from your video [ lazy or tired] that Iwas lazy knew and practise [2 minutes rule] I became active and the video of [ elastic habit ] I practice exercise daily read daily joural plan my day oh my god I love you my brother my life is changing I can feel
    that . go on I liked your way so much even if I heard videos fom others but no you are the one . gon on

  • @traderB21
    @traderB21 Před rokem

    thank you!

  • @ricoramahutasoit821
    @ricoramahutasoit821 Před 2 lety

    good to listen👍🏽👍🏽

  • @k8margcuizon
    @k8margcuizon Před 4 lety +14

    I certainly agree to everything!
    And I could relate it to my personal experience.
    I'm an introvert and I have an impediment which gave me no other options but to stay at home with my mom. She is at the same time my only true best friend. Recently when I'm facing some problems, or overcoming some sort of mild depression due to self-pity, she is too busy chatting with other people. I'm not jealous but I feel so disappointed when I'm talking about my concern and she's nodding, yet when I will ask her advice, she'd reply with a very innocent face, "Sorry, are you talking to me? I was thinking what's the best song to play on our prayer meeting later the whole time😁By the way, which do young people like? Classic or kinda rock? ". I don't really feel so good even if she's physically present with me. 😬💦 I better chat with my dad, even if he's so far physically but I'm closer to him by heart ❤️

    • @mattlane4761
      @mattlane4761 Před 4 lety

      That sounds a bit annoying/frustrating, but I get it. My mum does the same. How are you now? I know this was posted 2 months ago, but how are you feeling? Do you feel better now or still a bit depressed. I know I'm a random stranger on the internet, but if you're struggling to find someone to listen to you I'm happy to lend an ear and offer my advice (I don't know how much I can help but I can listen).

    • @bermgeit
      @bermgeit Před 2 lety

      @@mattlane4761 and listening really is 90% of the helping so you are rocking trough life , both of you

  • @debiduttapradhan1628
    @debiduttapradhan1628 Před 4 lety

    Hello thanks for making these videos, they are wonderful. I want to know what tool(software) do u use for making these vdos

  • @rizalintelect
    @rizalintelect Před 4 lety

    Thanks 😊

  • @puterihumairah812
    @puterihumairah812 Před 5 lety +2

    The voice was so cool

  • @kimanhchung8372
    @kimanhchung8372 Před 4 lety

    Thanks 🙂

  • @ainathegumiho
    @ainathegumiho Před 7 lety +12

    finally, practical tips! good job

    • @Emperor90201
      @Emperor90201 Před 7 lety

      Read her book, it's brilliant and contains many excercises

  • @BetterThanYesterday
    @BetterThanYesterday  Před 7 lety +4

    If you enjoyed the video, you should check out the book for yourself. It goes in much greater detail. :)
    EU: amzn.to/2lxOiMs
    US: amzn.to/2mcpY6K

    • @anonymousyoutube5801
      @anonymousyoutube5801 Před 6 lety

      I've read that book and I'm completely confused about how to use warmth. It is very difficult to exercise compassion goodwill and self love at once. Also,the mindset fades away pretty quickly,. It Isnt possible to do those exercises when you're talking! will you say them'give me 2 mins I wanna take some time close my eyes and do charisma exercises?'
      Would really appreciate If you help. I've integrated power and presence in my behavior, only this thing got me stuck.
      Respect

  • @emreozbek11
    @emreozbek11 Před 2 lety

    hey. why u are not sharing video anymore? I would like to see new videos and learn more things from you

  • @aliabdelnaeem3438
    @aliabdelnaeem3438 Před 5 lety +3

    I had red this book,impresive book

    • @Nycolas9929
      @Nycolas9929 Před 2 lety

      i am reading this book now. It's very good, but i want to know the experiences of other people while reading the book. You have become more charismatic with this book?

  • @danielo9097
    @danielo9097 Před 3 lety +4

    4:50. GET OUT OF MY HEAD

  • @hyu7335
    @hyu7335 Před 2 lety +3

    Amazing video.. Unlike the videos from those fake charisma gurus 😁

  • @harshada2925
    @harshada2925 Před 3 lety +3

    You read innumerable books ! Have you ever read " wings of fire " by apj abdul kalam.. I'm 14 but really have trouble in understanding that book could you please make an animated version for that book? It would really benefit me a lot.. lots of love and support from india😁

  • @savierosj74
    @savierosj74 Před 3 lety

    Amazing

  • @Jarooo
    @Jarooo Před 5 měsíci

    Frank killer as always, man I love your delivering! Your book ,,I don’t have enough faith to be an atheist’’ proved me how foolish I was without THE GOD!

  • @FarazKhan00
    @FarazKhan00 Před 7 lety +2

    reddit brought me here
    love your work

  • @bhargavimurali2621
    @bhargavimurali2621 Před 5 lety +4

    Good content, but don't put background music, it is very distracting and reduces effectiveness of communication as it induces noise into the channel. I love the research done.

  • @katsukibakugo5029
    @katsukibakugo5029 Před 4 lety +1

    So, you're telling me there's haki in real life.

  • @theawkwardcurrypot9556
    @theawkwardcurrypot9556 Před 3 lety +6

    Fake motivational gurus like Charisma on command..
    BTY;: "I'm going to destroy this man's whole carrier".

  • @jcronin3155
    @jcronin3155 Před 4 lety +11

    Scientifically proven!?
    It's ashame the way this is term is totally abused as back up for every opinion.

  • @learnonedooneteachone3822

    The vignette makes your videos harder to focus on.

  • @khubchandsahu2697
    @khubchandsahu2697 Před 3 lety

    Watching In 2021😂

  • @015kj
    @015kj Před 4 lety

    Shitebul

  • @CryptopediaNetwork
    @CryptopediaNetwork Před 4 lety

    He doesn't know what he's talking about