The 4 Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss (animated book summary) - Escape The 9-5

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  • čas přidán 13. 12. 2018
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    This is how today's society thinks your life should look:
    You have go to school for the first 20 years of your life. Then you have to find a high paying job that you'll work for the next 40 years. And after that, you can retire and finally enjoy your life for the last 20 years. If you're lucky to live that long of course.
    The 40 years of soul-crushing work has been accepted as the default path. But is this the only way? Not at all.
    Today we're going to challenge this notion by summarizing one of my favorite books. The Four Hour Workweek by Tim Ferriss.
    Many people think that the point of this book is to work just four hours per week, however it's actually about working smarter and not harder.
    I would recommend this book to anyone with aspirations to have more freedom in their life.
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  • @BetterThanYesterday
    @BetterThanYesterday  Před 5 lety +90

    You can get this eye-opening book here:
    US: amzn.to/2rCb76r
    EU: amzn.to/2S2NnE3

    • @drgilbertourroz
      @drgilbertourroz Před 4 lety +12

      The general assumption is that we hate our jobs. I actually loved my job as a engineering professor, and now I’m enjoying retirement in a foreign country where my money goes a long way.

    • @YISHRAELi
      @YISHRAELi Před 4 lety +5

      Good advertising

    • @ThetennisDr
      @ThetennisDr Před 4 lety

      I have always felt too stupod to make money online.. But thats my dream....aa of now i bought refriferated trucks in mexico...and is ok.. I have no time for anything. How can i do onkine business.

    • @armansebastian1252
      @armansebastian1252 Před 4 lety +3

      Money cannot buy happiness

    • @Love.Laugh.Lorcana.
      @Love.Laugh.Lorcana. Před 4 lety

      I’m reading it now! Very good, I’m highlighting so much to prepare for the 2nd read through where I’ll take notes of it. So damn good

  • @martinh1437
    @martinh1437 Před 4 lety +215

    Meditation, study, exercise, explore where you live, support others and avoid working too hard

  • @Visual_Writer
    @Visual_Writer Před 4 lety +1097

    I’ve been a freelancer all my life. Here in Germany everybody is telling each other how long and how hard they work. I discovered those are lies necessary to be respected in a performance society. I reduced my schedule to 6x45min each day, on 5 days a week. Within these 45min I work focused on clearly defined tasks. I achieve anything I need to match my goals.

    • @DivineProphetessCoral
      @DivineProphetessCoral Před 4 lety +8

      22.5 hour week. What is your annual income approximately, if you don't mind saying? Many thanks.

    • @Visual_Writer
      @Visual_Writer Před 4 lety +5

      Istari 2 Ich bin Illustrator.

    • @Visual_Writer
      @Visual_Writer Před 4 lety +30

      Coral Harmony Knight don’t wanna share my income online. It’s not huge but enough for me and my kids.

    • @Visual_Writer
      @Visual_Writer Před 4 lety +28

      I 1. reduced my work to stuff that actually generates income. I 2. really work hard and focused within my time frames. I am pretty exhausted after every 45min block.

    • @Visual_Writer
      @Visual_Writer Před 4 lety +26

      Coral Harmony Knight but I have to say I spend 5 days a week 8-17 in my studio. It’s just that I put the actually work in the 45min timeframes. This commentary for example is written outside my worktime but inside my studio. 😉

  • @MylesKillis
    @MylesKillis Před 4 lety +1378

    Once you realize time is the ultimate currency you radically change your lifestyle and habits.

    • @MylesKillis
      @MylesKillis Před 4 lety +19

      @Garrett Patten yeah i dropped out of school and enlisted in the infantry. You gotta find what you want

    • @christianjamesguevarra6257
      @christianjamesguevarra6257 Před 4 lety +5

      I learned that precious lesson after I graduated from college right after I quit my first job. That was one of the most pivotal moments of my life.

    • @williamstanley4960
      @williamstanley4960 Před 4 lety +15

      Time is the only asset that exists. It is the bedrock foundation of all assets. Time is the most real thing there is.

    • @damonm4440
      @damonm4440 Před 4 lety +7

      Trouble is most never realize this hence why most are born float around and just exist and slowly die

    • @williamstanley4960
      @williamstanley4960 Před 4 lety

      @@damonm4440 The problem is that the realization of any particular truth is easier, or harder, based on whether you have rejected The Truth or not.

  • @texmexi9131
    @texmexi9131 Před 4 lety +173

    My grandparents worked like crazy all their lives. Never went on holiday. Finally after decades of this grind and ONE year into retirement my Grandad was playing tennis. He had a heart attack and sadly passed away. My grandmother was left over 25 years alone. Never assume your next day is guaranteed.

    • @Hyrtsi
      @Hyrtsi Před 3 lety +7

      Maybe they couldn't do it to raise their children and pay their debts. Or maybe they were raised like that. Seeing the war and hunger makes people prepare for the worst. The older people get the less they change so thats why they lived always like that.

    • @TheVictorious98
      @TheVictorious98 Před 3 lety +3

      That's so sad 😞

    • @impcareer4055
      @impcareer4055 Před rokem

      sad

    • @Mor2gain_760
      @Mor2gain_760 Před rokem

      They say retirement kills people... Active people who stop being active often die soon after they retire...

    • @EB-ok3io
      @EB-ok3io Před 26 dny

      This is why I refuse to work until retirement age. Both my parents died not even 2 yrs into retirement.

  • @johnpaulrivera9210
    @johnpaulrivera9210 Před 4 lety +454

    Recommend to set playback speed to 1.25x

  • @johnhoward1181
    @johnhoward1181 Před 4 lety +450

    This is so spot on. I retired three years ago and it was one of the worst decisions I ever made. My Dad told me retirement wasn't what it was cracked up to be. He was right. We've all been lied to about it. I have arthritis in my feet and felt I had to retire to get off my feet. But I went home and did nothing because that's what society tells you you're suppose to do. Society is oh so wrong. I'm working on changing that. It's harder because nobody wants to hire retired people but I know I'll be okay. Thanks for the encouragement.

    • @pappas610
      @pappas610 Před 4 lety +33

      John Howard pick up a hobbie you enjoy..there is an infinit amount of them. People get brainwashed in thinking life is about working and Bill's. Good luck mate:)

    • @rickhibdon11
      @rickhibdon11 Před 4 lety +36

      At 66, I have NO intention of retiring... ever. I have saved over the years, invested wisely, and lived below my means. I've seen too many folks retire,, and die. "Success" is simply peace of mind.

    • @TimTamSlam7
      @TimTamSlam7 Před 4 lety +3

      Yeah, everyone just tells us to retire and move to QLD 😭
      I’m still playing around with what I want to do in life and am thinking about selling art. You could always try your hand at a TAFE course? I have always thought about just doing an apprenticeship or a trade that doesn’t require too much manual labour- being a baker for example. They’re always in high demand.

    • @imthebestthingsinceslicedr5400
      @imthebestthingsinceslicedr5400 Před 4 lety +1

      My dad is the same where he thinks the concept of retirement is still the same as how it is back in the old days.
      Now its starting to creep up to him on how we keep telling him hes wrong

    • @CharruaRegio
      @CharruaRegio Před 4 lety +14

      Hey John pick up a hobby or volunteer it will keep you alive
      We are like cars, if you don't drive it it becomes scrap💯🍺😎
      I semi retired 7 years ago and the reason I could cause I moved to a third world country that allows me to do so. We all get caught up on the rat race and don't realize that time is the only one thing you can never get back.I work seasonal work 6 months then the other 6 months I relax in beautiful Mexico 🇲🇽💯🍺🥩
      You associate yourself with people that have free time like yourself.
      Join a club of any hobby you love and that's how you meet new people. I never get bored, cause there's so much to do and discover the beautiful world we live in.
      I always love painting and could never get a chance when I was working 50 hrs per week.
      So now I'm blessed looking at nature and with a glass of wine I can paint whenever I want.
      There are many more activities I do, we have BBQ'S with friends every weekend etc God Bless 💯🇲🇽🇨🇦🇺🇾

  • @Takemysenf
    @Takemysenf Před 4 lety +212

    Guys, since I am in poor health at a young age and forced to live like a 70 year old most of the time and knowing I will not reach retirement - let me tell you this: Your lifetime and energy are ALL you have. Once you look your mortality into the face, you will learn exactly the same lesson every person learns at a certain point in life. However, most are just not forced to realize their mortality, because they are young and sure that they have a „later“. It is like the recklessness of adolescence that needs some kind of age to wear off. Well, here I am, not even middle aged and already learnt: Every hour of my life needs to be spent well, in a sense of me feeling content. Stuff that I do needs to „earn“ my time, because that has the highest value. I have a seriously hard life, but that gave me a gift: seeing the value of life in its best way. I can be happier watching some birds on the balcony or enjoying the light on water than anyone drinking their ass off or anyone buying a new car.
    So yes, if you are not in danger of dying from hunger or living on the street, then you CAN work less and do something you enjoy. And because you enjoy it, you willprobably excel at that! What you lack, is not opportunity, but guts.

    • @quarantinelife.
      @quarantinelife. Před 4 lety +3

      I wish you happiness and so that you can enjoy your time. 😊🤗

    • @MarcelPetit
      @MarcelPetit Před 4 lety +3

      Very useful and sincere advice, thank you

    • @1dyrfullymade
      @1dyrfullymade Před 4 lety +2

      GOD BLESS YOU AND THANK YOU FOR THIS COMMENT. IT WAS REALLY NEEDED!

    • @pussinboots9983
      @pussinboots9983 Před 4 lety +2

      It's good to have people like you to share your experiences. You help other people to grow.

    • @timothydugan2841
      @timothydugan2841 Před 4 lety

      😪

  • @firebird77clonefirebird89
    @firebird77clonefirebird89 Před 4 lety +40

    I walked out of my job and went back to school. I got my degree in two years, then took a year "off". That was an extremely busy year. You would be amazed at how much you can accomplish when you don't have a job.

    • @TheBlink247
      @TheBlink247 Před 3 lety +4

      @Wojciech Pordzik You missed the point Debbie Downer.

  • @CatGuy969
    @CatGuy969 Před 4 lety +57

    This "9-5" is the most soul crushing thing anyone can put on a young person. That's the reason I quit my job 3 days ago. I only worked here because my parents put me here, and whenever I wanted to leave, they said no and yelled. Take control of your future, you only have one life.

    • @brockjazz8838
      @brockjazz8838 Před 4 lety +1

      Who works 9-5? 8-5:30, 6:00, etc. work thru lunch, or 1/2 hr lunch, is more what most managers do.

    • @erzcav4793
      @erzcav4793 Před 4 lety +3

      U shod see some people work 10 to 11 hours here

    • @erzcav4793
      @erzcav4793 Před 4 lety

      I hope ur doing well now!

    • @lancehetfield6396
      @lancehetfield6396 Před 3 lety

      Here in Mexico all the works minimum wage or not are 12-15 hours work shifts. All I want is to leave this country asap

    • @magnusolufsen9715
      @magnusolufsen9715 Před 3 lety

      How you doin now my dude? What do you do to make money?

  • @sprockkets
    @sprockkets Před 4 lety +56

    Tim's book is filled with unrealistic goals. Outsourcing your time to others usually means you are just passing the shit to someone else, which doesn't really solve the underlying issues. Instead of trying to be rich with 4 hr work weeks, do what you love but be happy with what you have if you can.

    • @Emma-dh7by
      @Emma-dh7by Před 3 lety +6

      How does outsourcing not solve the underlying problem?

  • @tonystark-gz5no
    @tonystark-gz5no Před 4 lety +14

    thanks! for me... try to enjoy every moment of your life.. even if youre working... its so true... dont wait to retire and enjoy or do what matters to you..by that time...youre old..fragile... you may not have enough energy...may even be suffering to an illness already..since our body doesnt last forever... its inevitable to get weak at old age....do it while youre still strong...and dont forget exercise... i read in a book before.. the only time we live.. is in the present...not in the past nor in future...i wish you all a happy life! lets figure this out! ..love from the philippines! 😊

  • @Matt-oo2gq
    @Matt-oo2gq Před 4 lety +136

    **Takeaways:**
    * Retirement is also very boring.
    * What if retirement wasn't an option?
    * Don't have the retirement as the end goal!
    * One dollar could value more than one dollar!
    * It depends where you live and how much the cost of living is.
    * The absolute income is not correct, but the relative income is.
    * Avoid work for work's sake
    * Doing less is not equal laziness.
    * Efficiencty vs. effectiveness.
    * Efficienency:
    * Performing a task in the best way.
    * Effectiveness:
    * Doing the right thing.
    * **So be effective then be efficient!**
    * Pareto's Law
    * 80% of consequences come from 20% of causes.
    * 20% of your efforts produce 80% of the result.
    * Identify the 20% and focus on efficiency.
    * Buy youself time by outsourcing
    * Doing is not the end goal. Doing what you love is.
    * Spending your free time to learn. (**To live is to learn**)

    • @CuriousFascination
      @CuriousFascination Před 4 lety +6

      I have a pretty great memory, so I just put my effort into memorizing everything he said in the video while watching it, so I could save myself the time of writing it down. But now you did it for me, so now all I have to do is copy and paste it into a document. Indeed, not all heroes wear capes..

    • @halo37253
      @halo37253 Před 4 lety +5

      This video is wrong in many ways.
      I make 120k working 50hr a week living in the midwest. This isn't a crazy goal to achieve. I have a family and my Wife is soon to be a nurse. We save a lot, but still put enough money on the side to do fun things. We saved over 45k last year, all went into ETFs and Index funds. Sure I could have spent this on improving our lifestyle, but honestly people are better off trying to create generational wealth. My kids are being taught the value of money, so they can use it to their advantage. Not their disadvantage.
      I'm sorry, but you can't just think about the now. You gotta plan for the future too, and balance both. Sure a freelancing job with low hours and good pay is great, but if you are not investing money for the future you are screwing yourself. Which is sadly why the lazy people in my generation that think living the luxury life now is the way to go are going to get hurt the worse later in life.
      Unless you like the idea of working until you die, you better plan on having around 2million+ in your retirement accounts when you retire.

    • @markbaker8849
      @markbaker8849 Před 4 lety +1

      Ty

    • @vracan
      @vracan Před 4 lety +1

      @@halo37253 good argument but key is balance of both worlds I think!

    • @shaunwatts9455
      @shaunwatts9455 Před 4 lety +3

      @Andrew LaRue If you're able, do it now. It's the best advice I never took.
      Travel the world, climb those mountains. Once you get into the 'work to live' cycle you'll find it hard to do all those things later. Also, as you get older your priorities will change.
      So do it, go now and don't regret a thing.

  •  Před 4 lety +39

    I'm nobody but I wish to leave my 2 cents on this:
    A good job for me is a job that enables me to learn new things everyday. Everyday being a different day, with different challenges. Experience comes from learning.
    If your job is tedious then the only benefit is the salary. If you are learning, then you are taking something that is worth more and you probably can use it as an leverage to a new, more valuable job.

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 Před 4 lety +1

      Stuff like this is for people who don't want to work. They fall for it because it makes them feel good, when the truth is right in their face. The people who have done this and who are not trying to sell you something can tell it's 50-80 hrs a week to be successful at this scam.

    • @brandobeezy9863
      @brandobeezy9863 Před 4 lety +3

      @@JaysonT1 what are you talking about? I've done exactly what this guy is describing and it's worked wonderfully for me. The main thing is finding jobs that can teach you how to advance and that have an advancing opportunity in same or similar fields. For instance I started washing dishes for 2 different restaurants which lead me to a car washing job. That car washing job taught me how to detail a car completely, wash, wax, and buff a car the right way completely. Wasn't long until I started using tools and helping with body work. The four years there lead me into a job building tractors with similar tools and auto body experience. Which lead into construction, heavy machinery operations, which lead me to an engineer position where I'm now going to school to because a architectural engineer. It's all about your drive, intelligence and strategy.

  • @esmcl
    @esmcl Před 4 lety +28

    I was blessed enough to be able to retire early 11 months ago, after doing almost 40 years in a job I hated of course. It was a cheating wife and divorce that drove me to re-evaluate everything and get out a few years early. I love retirement. This past 11 months have been the most enjoyable and satisfying of my whole life... maybe retirement isn’t for everyone, but it worked for me.

    • @esmcl
      @esmcl Před 2 lety

      @Mochizuki Tadayoshi I wish you well 😀. Three years in and I’m still loving this life.

  • @sminthian
    @sminthian Před 4 lety +87

    Everyone in my family has always been telling me that you need to make as much money as possible. You then use that money to buy a giant house, and new fancy cars. That's just what you do, that's the goal of life. It took me many years to realize that I don't care about giant houses and new fancy cars. It took me many more years to realize that if I don't need that expensive stuff, I don't need a lot of money. Why am I aiming at making a lot of money, if there isn't even anything that I want to buy with it?

    • @richyoung4051
      @richyoung4051 Před 4 lety +12

      thats because they have the wrong idea of what life realy is. but you know what life is realy about. but you do want to make as much money as you can. notfor materialisticthings, but for financial freedom and make sure you will never be in a money pickle

    • @sambobarretta269
      @sambobarretta269 Před 3 lety +7

      @@richyoung4051 this is the only reason i want money stability, i decided i dont want all the fancy things im not 10 years old anymore dont need shiny things. Am happy to have a flat/ appartment but travelling the world making memories with or without family is what life should be about.

    • @sorakisuke7453
      @sorakisuke7453 Před 3 lety

      You may want to read this book: "rich dad poor dad".

    • @everydayfun9531
      @everydayfun9531 Před 2 lety

      I think I Just Want Freedom and To Be Able to Go live Near a Beach and Just Enjoy Life!

  • @Khaltazar
    @Khaltazar Před 4 lety +19

    If you're bored on retirement, it is because you have no hobbies. In your 30-40 years of working, you should be building your hobbies up and when you finally retire, you devote your time to that rather than giving up 1/2 of your day you are awake. If you retire with no hobbies, you will probably go nuts (especially since you will likely be alone - your kids grown and left and your wife/husband won't want to be around you 16 hours a day).

    • @jcman240
      @jcman240 Před 4 lety +1

      My dad's hobby in retirement is watchimg TV. It's hasn't been a very healthy retirement imo.

    • @judyk.657
      @judyk.657 Před 3 lety

      Ya or pay it back! What the heck. Life is what you make it, no matter where you are in your life. Volunteer. Do something for your community or those in need. Make a difference, lend an ear...small narcissistic whats in it for me thinking is the silent pandemic

  • @mistique142
    @mistique142 Před 2 lety +9

    I read this one recently - your summary is great and you really get to the point. I love this refresher!

  • @BratvaTV
    @BratvaTV Před 4 lety +196

    This reminds me of a story read once where an IT guy out sourced his job to somebody in india and basically had the guy do his job for him. lol

    • @randalthor647
      @randalthor647 Před 4 lety +22

      True XD I live in Bangladesh and I work for 5 dollars an hour xd it's good pay here though.

    • @thomasfrenette5010
      @thomasfrenette5010 Před 4 lety +5

      @TJ Thunder Guys, thanks for these infos, it is such a goood thing to know lol!

    • @kadijanyambi
      @kadijanyambi Před 4 lety +2

      @tj thunder couldn’t have put it into better words 👌🏾

    • @BratvaTV
      @BratvaTV Před 4 lety

      @TJ Thunder I work in Mortgage.. A company I worked for once had a call center in Mexico. They were great and did a really good job. And getting paid like 300 a month. I knew once I was done training them Id be let go. Lol

    • @KollegeKnowledge1
      @KollegeKnowledge1 Před 4 lety +2

      BodhiZaffa lol I remember this story. The guy got in massive trouble does because it was a government job. It had a lot of personal information included.

  • @jamesdunkerson2908
    @jamesdunkerson2908 Před 4 lety +151

    I remember working in manufacturing where there was "mandatory overtime". These generally hardworking but underpaid guys slowed down in the first 40 hours to make sure they would get the overtime they needed to pay their bills. I was called to the carpet by my boss for a lack of willingness to work overtime, despite getting more work done in 40 hours and chewed out by my coworkers for threatening their overtime. Ugh!

    • @josephmarx4695
      @josephmarx4695 Před 4 lety +1

      James Dunkerson, well yeah. They want the extra pay

    • @AlterEgo-kun
      @AlterEgo-kun Před 4 lety +1

      well to be fair, if you could you should've just ask that you want don't want to do overtime and get home early than the others. I just tell my boss that i'll be going home early since I finished my work on the day and it ends up just fine.

    • @ChrisfromGeorgia
      @ChrisfromGeorgia Před 4 lety +11

      This isn't so much a reply as it is a comment on overtime. Overtime is a game. Some people want as much overtime as possible because it usually pays time and a half here in the USA. I found out real quick when I thoroughly looked at my check stubs that I was getting bent over barrel by the tax I was paying by working overtime! Don't mget me wrong, some overtime is good, but it can work against you if you have too many hours of overtime. Too much overtime can also take a serious toll on your body and overall health. Take care folks and don't get taken advantage of. Peace

    • @Angelas.Eye_
      @Angelas.Eye_ Před 4 lety +1

      八雲黒崎 well unfortunately not all bosses are so understanding... I’d think that if this person could’ve just asked and gotten that granted, they probably would’ve

    • @ogshitler220
      @ogshitler220 Před 4 lety

      "lack of willingness to work over time" what does this bitch expects?? That you waste even more time in that shitty office?

  • @mikichihiro2073
    @mikichihiro2073 Před 4 lety +5

    You are amazing! I'm so happy and blessed to even see you in the sea of videos in youtube! You explain things in ways that are easy to understand even have examples of it! I hope many people will see your videos! They make my day :)

  • @JK-ct7cs
    @JK-ct7cs Před 4 lety +10

    "What if retirement wasn't an option?" I haven't read a phrase that forces me to think about in such way in a long time.

  • @blorksprite3087
    @blorksprite3087 Před 4 lety +2

    First being effective(doing the right thing) then become efficient(performing a task inthe best way possible). 🔥🔥🔥this enlightened me!

  • @rogerwprice
    @rogerwprice Před 4 lety +2

    Brilliant summary of a great book - THANKS!

  • @michaeljoseph597
    @michaeljoseph597 Před 4 lety +5

    I received my confirmation from this video that the DEVINE has sent to me....i knew i was doing the right thing....working smarter not harder....thank you for the Awesome video...will get that book!!

  • @eric.m5790
    @eric.m5790 Před 4 lety +125

    Working for a boss sucks after 40 years you have lost every thing good (Time, Health, dreams, Hope) To pay for the last +-20 Years medical bills and making The Pharma Industrie Richer

  • @house-be-gone8521
    @house-be-gone8521 Před rokem +2

    I am loving your videos man. Thank you very much for posting these.

  • @PatchworxStudios
    @PatchworxStudios Před 4 lety +2

    Never got bored at home...

  • @bgates275
    @bgates275 Před 4 lety +19

    Something my math teacher said in high school stuck with me, and that was over 20 years ago. He said, 'Mathematicians are some of the laziest people in the world.' Lazy? Maybe. Stupid? No. This guy was a Mensa member and ran circles around most people.

  • @luckyscrote
    @luckyscrote Před 4 lety +5

    I think outsourcing can quickly become a slippery slope. Outsourcing a lot of things is an efficient way of doing things, but only works provided your income remains high. If your situation changes, you may find yourself molding your life to facilitate all the stuff you've outsourced in the first place (cleaner, gardener, accountant). A lot of menial jobs that we don't like are often outsourced first, and it's those jobs that should give you joy, they can be the most mindful!

  • @laurag5214
    @laurag5214 Před 4 lety +1

    So grateful for this video. The book has always intrigued me, but now I know it is full of basic info I'm glad I didn't waste time on this.

  • @fatemehhosseini305
    @fatemehhosseini305 Před 2 lety +1

    So happy your channel is baaaackkkkk

  • @unleashingpotential-psycho9433

    The four hour work week is a book that changed my life.

  • @jlrodriguesadv
    @jlrodriguesadv Před 4 lety +3

    Great subject!
    Right now I can't buy you a coffee but I can express my gratitude for this video!
    Keep going, nice job!

  • @TheNewjanaful
    @TheNewjanaful Před rokem +1

    As the other videos, I love this a LOT ! Thank you for creating them!

  • @GeckoHiker
    @GeckoHiker Před 3 lety +1

    If you refuse to go into debt or rent your lodgings you never really need to work a standard week in a standard job. You may have to make early sacrifices in your life to do this, but you'll reap the rewards in time and money.
    By the time I started college I'd already paid cash for a VW camper to live out of--in a southern state. I bartered my cooking skills for the opportunity to park my van on rural land, which also allowed me to cook on the cheap. By living in a minimalist way while pursuing my education and doing odd jobs, I'd saved enough to buy a small piece of land.
    Marrying a likeminded person allowed both of us to live out of that van while building a basic home. Eventually, we hooked up electricity, put in a well, and converted the outhouse area to a septic system. Our first refrigerator ran on propane and we still have it. Since then we have put in solar ourselves, to run LED lighting and supplement. Instead of getting jobs, we created jobs in the local farming industry. By keeping our needs small we kept our dreams big!

  • @porter009
    @porter009 Před 5 lety +3

    Thank you for this 👏

  • @JackRowsey
    @JackRowsey Před 4 lety +8

    You’re not going to feel like doing too much when you’re old if you get bad arthritis in later years. Live your life now.

  • @tadaspetra
    @tadaspetra Před 4 lety +1

    Currently reading 4 hour work week. This is a great refresher for whenever I need it

  • @CaiBeamMusic
    @CaiBeamMusic Před 4 lety +2

    The first video of yours I watched was about doing a dopamine detox.
    I did it and that day was better than the day before.
    Most every video you put out is literally helping me to be “Better than yesterday”.
    Thanks for putting so much work into explaining things clearly. Also you have a cool accent!

  • @timefoxx
    @timefoxx Před 5 lety +5

    Thank you for this video, really enjoyed it and helped a lot! 👍🏻

  • @lawyeroutlaw
    @lawyeroutlaw Před 2 lety +5

    What you call outsourcing makes me think of Ricardo's Law of Comparative Advantage
    Great video 👍

  • @Dennis6819
    @Dennis6819 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you ,God bless you.

  • @davidhack2409
    @davidhack2409 Před 4 lety +1

    Great summary of a classic 👍🏼

  • @PurpleHazel
    @PurpleHazel Před 4 lety +4

    Great video! I'm still very young so I definitely try to build my life according to all these tips

  • @ericktamasiro
    @ericktamasiro Před 4 lety +13

    Jane: I've won. But at what cost?

  • @fashion4point0
    @fashion4point0 Před 3 lety +1

    This was a great video! Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @HarperHealthAZ
    @HarperHealthAZ Před 4 lety +1

    I can recommend the book. It does a great job of giving you examples and tools you can use to streamline your work. The virtual assistant was one of the best parts for me. The first half of the book was more to inspire the change, the second half was how to continue that change and make you more efficient. At least that's how it came across too me.

  • @jeffreydunford9251
    @jeffreydunford9251 Před 4 lety +5

    I agree. Want to mention though, when deciding if you should do something yourself, it is important to think about your income divided by 16 hours. We don't make money every hour of the day. We are awake for 16. Otherwise you could say getting food delivered if better because it is not worth your time, but in reality you should go get it because you do not make enough divided by 16 hours

    • @hansdegroot8549
      @hansdegroot8549 Před 4 lety

      Why 16 hours? A day has 24 hours. Not everybody sleeps 8 hours a day. Some people less. Some people more. Some people earn money when they sleep
      (a so-called passive income, for which he invested time on forehand) but we all spend money while we are sleeping.

  • @Tetianka.Ukrainka
    @Tetianka.Ukrainka Před 3 lety +18

    A millionaire: “Hey cook, I am hungry, serve the dinner.”
    The cook: “Can’t do it, I am in Thailand, focusing on a more important things.”
    How you are going to live if people who fix roads and pipes, sell food and cook, wash your cars, all start living what you recommend? Where you are going to take time to do all of that yourself? Can you even? Any approach should be a thoughtful win-win system for each and everyone, not a recipe for privileged to use others. Otherwise it is a dead end, it is not scalable, there is no synergy. If there are 8 billion people and all 8 billion need a cook to delegate to, then no one gets a cook, not a single one, so this entire idea is conditional, selective, and thus not working for everyone.

    • @ticklerick7218
      @ticklerick7218 Před 3 lety +3

      If everyone did their part, we would have already been working FEWER hours and increasing the quality of everyone's lives. But greed and lust turned the rich and middle class into, entitled entrepreneurs. I see why few righteous people would tell me to walk in Christ's footsteps. Because if we all contribute for the greater good fairly, the world would be a better place. I'm personally working on that while I'm unemployed and newly homeless. I pray the world would share this vision together now. There's no need for billions of dollars sitting in banks when our full potential in humanity is priceless! The most precious resource is caring for each other.

    • @benbosco7904
      @benbosco7904 Před 3 lety +7

      This is a ridiculous comment. If I am the only cook in the entire world, I'm going to charge $10,000 for 30 minutes of my time so only the ultra rich can afford me, and then I'll pay someone to do everything else for me.
      If you don't understand how basic supply and demand works, this video is going to be very confusing for you. Also, you shouldn't even be thinking about scalability without basic economic knowledge.

    • @Tetianka.Ukrainka
      @Tetianka.Ukrainka Před 3 lety +7

      @@benbosco7904 Well, you won't have people to delegate to. They all are dead because they starved, because they were not ultra rich enough to efford the food from you. So ... doesn't work.
      Imagine an 8 hour surgery, and right in the middle the surgeon says it has been 4 hours already so he is going home. Or the power grid damaged, and electrical engineer will be available next Monday at 2 pm only. What I was trying to say, is that there are so many hard working people behind the infrastructure we live every day, we take it for granted. But they have to keep going those services 24/7. Here and now. Not via zoom from Fiji.

    • @ticklerick7218
      @ticklerick7218 Před 3 lety +1

      @@benbosco7904 you're going to charge 10K for ramen noodles? You're part of the problem, money was used in early civilizations to civilize barbarians who were tired of their miserable existence in the natural world.. also universal income is nearly here and China is implementing Social Credit by the end of 2020. So we can expose the bullshitters like you (I hope). We're slowly phasing out money and focusing on merit because there's alot of snakes in the grass. But there's enough good people in power that see the potential in the general population. People like you is why past civilizations and societies collapsed. Because eventually tyrants get decapitated. You wouldn't be a cook, you'd be a crook!

    • @ticklerick7218
      @ticklerick7218 Před 3 lety

      @@Tetianka.Ukrainka that rebuttal was well put. If I had a friend like you to talk about the "funnies" in the comment section I'm sure we'd be best friends by now... because you're absolutely right. It takes a village was not just an expression. I'm sure tribesmen figured out that they should take turns sleeping in the middle of the night, JUST IN CASE. No need for further explanation... not unless that ultra rich cook has an ultra rich solution for that situation as well...

  • @sanjaybhatikar
    @sanjaybhatikar Před 3 lety

    You are doing a wonderful and necessary work. Thank you and cheers!

  • @Resource.Management
    @Resource.Management Před 4 lety +4

    Hmm this gives me an idea. Very interesting ideas. Thank you for filling in a blank or 2 I was missing some info to make some things happen.

  • @Dave2170
    @Dave2170 Před 4 lety +16

    There are a few good concepts in this video but that comparison was so extreme and rare that it hinders the author’s point. I’ve never worked more than 48 hours in a week and don’t know anyone that topped 70 so the regular 80 hour work week in the example is ludicrous. That’s 13 hours and 20 minutes of work every day for 6 days a week for 50 weeks! Also, I doubt the cost of living for both cases. I know that travel home to visit family, visa costs, and health insurance add to the Thailand living expenses. I think a better comparison would be the median wage, work week and living expenses. Then, how easy is it to make $50,000 working 20 hours a week? It’s kind of rare. So, the comparison is bogus but it does illustrate the point to consider all costs when evaluating employment opportunities. I agree with considering alternative work and self-employment but most folks in the gig economy and vloggers are working more than 20 hours a week and few are making $50,000 or more.

    • @Zorish373
      @Zorish373 Před 4 lety +1

      Americans work more than 40 hs/week because they can't pay shit.

    • @Dave2170
      @Dave2170 Před 4 lety +2

      Zorish, the average hours worked per week in the US was 34.4 hours in April 2019 and 34.2 hours in April 2020 (for those that have employment) according to BLS.gov.

    • @jordanovalle92
      @jordanovalle92 Před 4 lety

      You haven’t been to Texas lol 70 hours a week is normal

  • @ishworshrestha6575
    @ishworshrestha6575 Před 4 lety

    Thank you for summarizing..

  • @greenearthblueskies8556
    @greenearthblueskies8556 Před 4 lety +1

    Best video I’ve seen today 👍🏽

  • @johns8065
    @johns8065 Před 4 lety +17

    the thing I always get stuck on is the following: imagine we all would do this, found companies and stuff. We still need the people that work for us, need the amount of people to pay for our product or service. Even real estate, it would not work if everyone would start to buy real estate. Because there simply is not enough.
    That's the question I always ask myself. Can this work for all of us?
    And if not, what I think so far, what can we do?
    And thats why I think concepts like UBI are so great. Everyone would receive enough money to survive and on top of that they can pursue a job they really enjoy. I mean, not everybody wants to found a business. And people like us need good employees.

  • @basspig
    @basspig Před 4 lety +19

    Property taxes have made retirement impossible.

    • @alphacentauri7381
      @alphacentauri7381 Před 4 lety

      In TX

    • @basspig
      @basspig Před 4 lety

      @@Gyaj2 I haven't had health insurance since 1985. Anyway, I'm retired, so I have Medicare.

    • @brockjazz8838
      @brockjazz8838 Před 4 lety

      Healthcare costs are more.

  • @shaylerg4660
    @shaylerg4660 Před 4 lety

    Thanks for Givin the advice on life lessons truly means alot.

  • @vncntc8165
    @vncntc8165 Před 3 lety

    "You are not a brand, you are not a job title, you are not a social media bio.
    Whatever set notion you have of who you are, what you're capable of, what you're supposed to be doing, forget it.
    You're a complex human being filled with imagination and wild ideas.
    You can pursue any and all of them anytime you choose.
    Go ahead, explore every talent, every interest and passion that no one, not even you saw coming.
    The world is full of surprises. But so are you."

  • @thelegend3680
    @thelegend3680 Před 4 lety +6

    Definitely productivity is the most important thing and companies are slowly shifting their organization structures to apply these concepts. In the example of the video, sure Mike might have more time but Jane can leverage that experience to earn more and eventually become a CEO or start her business which will generate her good amount of compensation. It's not necessary a bad thing if you work 80 hours a week for a year or two in order to set yourself up for bigger things. Of course that's not for everyone though. Like the video mentions in the end, you should do what excites you and have a plan and purpose of what you want to achieve in life.

    • @Angelas.Eye_
      @Angelas.Eye_ Před 4 lety +2

      Good point! Like you said it depends on each person’s goals and what excites them... but if you do fall in that category of people working a ton to advance and become CEO, make a ton of money etc, it’s definitely important to ask yourself why you desire to have way more money than you need. Like he mentioned in the video, wealthy people often end up feeling depressed and empty, and that could be because wealth really didn’t bring them the happiness they sought. Studies have shown that there’s a plateau of level of happiness once a person reaches a certain salary (not a very high number, I think it was about $75,000 if i remember correctly)... just goes to show that chasing money is probably a waste of time to a point

  • @randywa
    @randywa Před 4 lety +108

    Mikes eyes are drifting a little below Jane’s eyes there

  • @nicolo.lazzaro
    @nicolo.lazzaro Před 4 lety

    Well deserved cup of coffee. Thank you for the content you make

  • @delythealth5560
    @delythealth5560 Před 3 lety

    Powerful life-changing concepts inside this book. Thank you for the review

  • @dalliboyrt9927
    @dalliboyrt9927 Před 5 lety +3

    Your channel needs more subscribers

  • @GeekyMino
    @GeekyMino Před 5 lety +23

    Absolute awesome summary! Very well structured video. Great work. I need to reread this one :)

    • @BetterThanYesterday
      @BetterThanYesterday  Před 5 lety +4

      Thanks! I skim through it at least once a year, to remind myself of some key lessons :)

    • @GeekyMino
      @GeekyMino Před 5 lety +2

      @@BetterThanYesterday I'll adopt that practice as well😊 That's smart.

  • @DewiPrastika
    @DewiPrastika Před 4 lety +1

    I like the narrator. Clear pronunciation.

  • @Dreamer12120
    @Dreamer12120 Před 4 lety

    Thanks for an amazing video & I just bought the book aswell. So looking forward to it. Thanks

  • @damirapevec6203
    @damirapevec6203 Před 4 lety +110

    So, the answer is that everybody should work online.. Clever

    • @mothurman
      @mothurman Před 4 lety +1

      Or it means not to try so hard at werk

    • @Ukri1
      @Ukri1 Před 4 lety +33

      Thats also my issue with this video. Not everybody can just outsource and work online, though those who try hard enough might achieve this lifestyle.
      And some work isn't that boring, it's just what you do with it and how you feel about it. Some people work a meh job and are just content with what they do. And any job can get shitty, even if it's a dream goal you work towards. And some people are happy with a simple lifestyle and feel alright. It's the stress that stresses you out and not the job itself

    • @Ronny165715
      @Ronny165715 Před 4 lety

      I got an opportunity that may work for you, let me know 💪🏽

    • @gittin_funky
      @gittin_funky Před 4 lety

      This app makes perfect sense until I remember I have a wife and kids who don't think the same and are quite happy Eith their lifestyle

    • @olafyp7154
      @olafyp7154 Před 4 lety +5

      I think the point is work the way you love, if you love your job the way it is, then do it

  • @pahinablanca5034
    @pahinablanca5034 Před 4 lety +4

    What program did you use for the animation?

  • @vartannechanian8293
    @vartannechanian8293 Před 4 lety

    i really love what you put out there

  • @MarktMorris
    @MarktMorris Před 4 lety +1

    I read this book in 2016 and it changed my outlook on my life and my career. Fortunately, I love my job but I'm also developing a side business that means I'll should be financially independent in the years ahead and free to do whatever I like. If that means staying in my job, that's OK. If it means doing something entirely different, that'll be OK too. Either way, I'll be free to choose.

  • @andyc609
    @andyc609 Před 4 lety +10

    wowww i didnt know i needed to be on 50 grand a year and only work 4 hours a week, thats where i going wrong, thanks for telling me it would of never of occurred

    • @OGCreaMer
      @OGCreaMer Před 4 lety +1

      Have fun with your retirement! All concepts just flew right over your head :)

  • @troycambo
    @troycambo Před 5 lety +3

    good presentation

  • @pegasusproduction7204
    @pegasusproduction7204 Před 4 lety

    This book has helped so many entrepreneurs, it is amazing.

  • @davidgarcia6296
    @davidgarcia6296 Před 4 lety

    Good job man, its just another perspective to see the same world we all live in. Very motivational.

  • @motivationalstories7712
    @motivationalstories7712 Před 5 lety +6

    Great book...Clearly explained..Loved this video...

  • @MegaTeeruk
    @MegaTeeruk Před 4 lety +122

    Its funny, one of the attributes I look for in employees is laziness. I want the person who doesn't want to work 12 hour days and is going to find a way to speed up and automate everything.

    • @aaronr8684
      @aaronr8684 Před 4 lety +14

      Are you hiring?

    • @peterfallon4018
      @peterfallon4018 Před 4 lety +7

      I just heard this!! NASA often hires the laziest people as they find the quickest way to get something dobe

    • @peterfallon4018
      @peterfallon4018 Před 4 lety +1

      ‘I’m the laziest person I know’-Benjamin Franklin

    • @MegaTeeruk
      @MegaTeeruk Před 4 lety +7

      @@peterfallon4018 Winston Churchill also famously lazy and would often work from his bed. He referred to it as "an economy of effort."

    • @karar7796
      @karar7796 Před 4 lety +21

      That's not how the real world works... in my experience the hard working employees are the ones trying to maximise their value to the business, and they also try to automate as much as possible & eliminate manual tasks as part of this. Lazy employees, on the other hand, are happy with the status quo, they don't try to innovate or change things, they just keep doing the same thing over & over again, and clock off at 5 on the dot every day. I think you might be talking about "lazy" people amongst a pool of brilliant candidates, who are already amongst the smartest & most hardworking of the population.

  • @ThisisDaniel
    @ThisisDaniel Před 4 lety

    Great tips, grateful for the wisdom.

  • @johnpenningtoniii2086
    @johnpenningtoniii2086 Před 3 lety

    I really enjoy your videos, they're quite informative and very knowledgeable. Great job man 💪😎🤘 you got a new follower

  • @KittyClark4433
    @KittyClark4433 Před 4 lety +28

    Time is money & money is time. U either pay money to free up time or use time to free up money.

  • @DeedeeDirt
    @DeedeeDirt Před 4 lety +9

    this is me, I make 20,000 a year and can't save money cuz literally the cost of living is too damn high

  • @paige4450
    @paige4450 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for saving my job and my life.

  • @dalecarpio1778
    @dalecarpio1778 Před 2 lety

    i always go back to your page for reminder, your content really help me thank you

  • @richelsagario1436
    @richelsagario1436 Před 4 lety +28

    So nobody's gonna talk about what mike's eye is lock onto?

    • @grubiinthetrap8858
      @grubiinthetrap8858 Před 4 lety +1

      LMAO

    • @mikebarron8702
      @mikebarron8702 Před 4 lety +4

      Mind your own business.

    • @toyboatt
      @toyboatt Před 4 lety

      I thought I was a perve. So many other people caught Mike's gaze and I missed it. Well done. Perve =D

  • @Dangic23
    @Dangic23 Před 4 lety +31

    I was able to retire at 40....I'm 45 now, and have been enjoying freedom.

    • @boneymacaroni13
      @boneymacaroni13 Před 4 lety +2

      So are you saying you agree or disagree with what's being presented here? Did you get there by just working like crazy, or with the methods explained here?

    • @Dangic23
      @Dangic23 Před 4 lety +5

      @@boneymacaroni13
      I do have an MBA and was planning on following the mindless way of life of the USA......but I found a short cut without planning it.
      Retired from the military, my wife retires next year at the age of 40 also.
      And we will move to the Philippines to stretch even more our retirement.
      So in part...yes.....we had already planned to follow the concept of lower cost of living for better quality of life.

    • @boneymacaroni13
      @boneymacaroni13 Před 4 lety +4

      @@Dangic23 So part planning, but also kind of blind luck in a way... man if that doesn't seem to be the common thread for experiences such as these.
      Thanks for sharing, and I hope you both really enjoy your freedom 💜

    • @Dangic23
      @Dangic23 Před 4 lety +2

      @@boneymacaroni13
      Yes....the military one was blind luck...lol....had no plans to stay in, was just taking advantage of the free education benefits to complete my MBA.

    • @8scatterbrain8
      @8scatterbrain8 Před 4 lety +5

      Dangic23 how can people NOT know what to do with their freetime? that’s the most depressing thing about a capitalistic society: you’re so not used to have freetime to just BE YOURSELF that when you do you don’t know what to do with it. all we are taught to do is work. is this what human life came to be?

  • @nikhilverma708
    @nikhilverma708 Před 4 lety +2

    Best video I have ever seen👍

  • @MH-ix6er
    @MH-ix6er Před 3 lety

    This video clarified a lingering question.....ty!

  • @danyosuna7276
    @danyosuna7276 Před 4 lety +6

    I work from 8 am to 6 pm 5 days and then from 8 to 2 on saturday, sometimes we do not finish the job on time and gotta work after hours or skip our meal time
    9-5 and weekends off seems like a dream to me

    • @titan9663
      @titan9663 Před 4 lety +2

      Quit. Plain and simple. Quit. Quit. Quit. Quit. Quit. Quit. Quit. Quit. Quit. Quit. Quit. Not worth it bro.

    • @sjfhdqksjx
      @sjfhdqksjx Před 4 lety

      It's sometimes not that easy. But yeah. If it's possible

    • @robertasvaicius4437
      @robertasvaicius4437 Před 4 lety +1

      Had to work a job where traveling back and forth took one and a half hours. I was young then and it was my first decent paying job plus my parents really put the pressure on me to keep this "dream job". It turned out to be a nightmare, the monotony and almost no time broke me and i ended joining the military for a short contract to reset myself. It i had known that im better than that worthless job i could have found another one to pay my rent instead of falling to depression..

    • @hansdegroot8549
      @hansdegroot8549 Před 4 lety

      What kind of job do you have?

  • @Dymangel
    @Dymangel Před 4 lety +3

    Man thanks. I just finished university last year and before the lessons ends, i find a job with a company in Swizerland, which wanna make a videogame with educational purpose.
    Now i study videogames for 4 year and this opportunity is something amazing, i still work now. But i had to change place again and now i'm in Germany, so learning a new language, new home and still living with my parents.
    They(as i think) want that i try to find a job in a company here... but i pref live by working from home with my current job and game development, and after this game i still have one idea i wanna show them and maybe get another opportunity for my game(yes, even mine have educational purpose).
    I really wanna work from home by making games and having my fun time, my breaks, etc... i don't really wanna wake up in the morning, go to the office and stay there till the end of day! kinda boring.
    It's better like i do now, i'm only the programmer and i'm not alone in this development. What i like is i decide how/when to work, ofc i do it in balance, and i can keep a break or end when i want or i can be free to take a day and go out to meet new people and speak better Germany.
    That's my dream and i hope i can achieve that one day. But first i have to finish this project and hope it can help me make enough money to move out from my parents and be able to live alone and without their help(financial support i mean).
    PS: who know's maybe one day i will meet a girl like who have some skill in game development and we will work from home as life style :D now that's an EXTRA on "My Dram+"

  • @kelmohror6960
    @kelmohror6960 Před 3 lety

    Excellent summary! This is "food for action" for me. 10:32
    "Again the point is to free your time to focus on bigger and more important things." Or more profitable.
    11:40
    So the basic idea here
    is to get in to the habit of outsourcing unimportant things and to buy yourself time so you can
    focus on the things that are important to you.
    3:31
    You want to continuously challenge yourself, not be idle. Start playing a sport, learn a
    new language or play an instrument. Read more books, focus on improving yourself....
    14:00
    ... Always keep on improving yourself and do what excites you.

  • @ChrisLitton
    @ChrisLitton Před 4 lety

    Great video really insightful.

  • @brandonopheim944
    @brandonopheim944 Před 4 lety +3

    Brother, this content is so refreshing. Everything the next generation needs to hear as they step into the work force. Keep up the work!

  • @christophdenner8878
    @christophdenner8878 Před 4 lety +3

    I never understood people who become depressed when idle, i.e. during a long period of no work. I once made a sabbatical for 1 year and 3 months and did not work a job at all, apart from some work in a garden to grow my own vegetables. It was one of the best times of my life. I didn´t miss the fucking office a single day. It is just awesome to wake up in the morning without alarm clock, no annoying e-mails to check, no horrible useless meetings, no phony pretending that you like your job. You can just be lazy all day long, perhaps not even get out of bed until 3 or 4 in the afternoon, you can read the greatest novels of the greatest writers that ever lived, learn languages, work in your homestead, whatever, or just sit around and be with your thoughts for hours. I think depression due to idleness is only happening to people with low intelligence. Intelligent people on the other hand see the profane tasks of earning money as a necessary ordeal and once they´re free from this annoying obligation, they can finally start their "real life". I can´t wait to finally retire early and say goodbye to office life forever.

  • @mikaelhugg1112
    @mikaelhugg1112 Před 3 lety

    Thanks! Keep up the good work :)

  • @RestartDrinkRomania
    @RestartDrinkRomania Před 4 lety +1

    Good summary! If someone already read it. But the book keeps a lot of important details to offer. So, for those, who only saw this clip, don't rush to make final conclusions... Especially if You are looking in a real change in your lifestyle...

  • @Viorin1
    @Viorin1 Před 4 lety +35

    “There’s only so many pina coladas you can drink before you want to do work again”
    Say what now?

    • @davidp605
      @davidp605 Před 4 lety +3

      This theory has not yet been proven

  • @BijanIzadi
    @BijanIzadi Před 3 lety +3

    The “deferred life enjoyment” plan

  • @DRGene-wk5vt
    @DRGene-wk5vt Před 4 lety

    Great animated summary!

  • @dafingaz
    @dafingaz Před 3 lety

    Great summary!

  • @Andie_Shore
    @Andie_Shore Před 4 lety +16

    We've got an important update. We've contacted Jane and Mike for comment.
    Jane said that job was her life passion, which made her feel blessed and excited for every new day. Those 80k was enough to care for her sick mother and to provide both of them with everything they needed to live in the city they loved. The other 20k they donated to various charities every year. Eventually, she took over the CEO chair of the compny she had helped to built from scratch.
    Our email to Mike has been left unreplied. Later, his father, Anthony, shared with us that unfortunatelly Mike had tragically passed away from choking on a durian after he learned somebody had stolen a hosting password to his funny socks dropshipping business and his blog on how to start a blog. The two hadn't seen each other for 7 years prior to the accident.

    • @roloorozco1489
      @roloorozco1489 Před 4 lety +5

      What if Jane should have been taking care her kids like God intended and finding a good man like Mike. If Jane was there like a good mother her kids wouldnt have joined the local street gang and hooked on that good San Francisco Crack Rock. Now all Janes neighbors are mad at her because her kids are stealing there stereos and laptops.Thats my thought

    • @trishhamilton6550
      @trishhamilton6550 Před 4 lety +2

      Rolo Orozco, No one deserves to be poor just because of old fashioned values. Though it would be nice if at least one parent could always be home to look after the children, that can’t always happen. (I know of a lot more men willing to stay home with the children and be a househusband though, so I said parent rather than mother).
      I have a coworker so dependent on her job (missing is detrimental) that she can’t afford even one day off to take care of her son, so she brings him into work when he doesn’t have school or is sick.
      Be more flexible and don’t judge. But live the life you want to live. That’s one of the best things you can do. :)

    • @brittanydiamond6772
      @brittanydiamond6772 Před 4 lety +1

      @@roloorozco1489 - ..........or Jane simply never wanted kids so she didn't have them. Or maybe she had them and her spouse was the primary at home parent. I dunno where you pulled 'Jane must be a single mom neglecting her kids' from but your hypothetical sounds like it's from 1958.