Japan's SECRETS To A Healthier Life!

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  • čas přidán 3. 11. 2023
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Komentáře • 145

  • @MrsEats
    @MrsEats  Před 6 měsíci +1

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    Which secret could you incorporate into your life right now?

    • @GR8119
      @GR8119 Před 5 měsíci

      Can you make a video explaining "Toyoko kids"??? I don't really understand it 100%.

  • @atomicdiscobiscuit
    @atomicdiscobiscuit Před 6 měsíci +59

    I am an American and I have lived in Japan for over 23 years. Many of the "harmony" things you talk about I just call "Zen" but I practice them in every part of my live. When driving, I used to be an aggressive driver but thanks to the Japanese culture, I have learned how to be a better, non aggressive driver and actually enjoy the ride. The same can be said about my job. I have distanced myself from "friends" who just want to be negative and try to stay positive and smile most of the time. There is a downside to this though. When I travel back to the states, my family still want to argue a debate politics and when I don't argue back, they actually get frustrated with me and become angry. I think they should adopt the "Keep Harmony" lifestyle. The world would definitely be a much better place!

    • @timm285
      @timm285 Před 6 měsíci +8

      There is nothing wrong with healthy political discussion. People can’t avoid conflict everywhere all the time and as long as it is peaceful it’s fine

    • @atomicdiscobiscuit
      @atomicdiscobiscuit Před 6 měsíci

      I agree with you whole heartedly. However, "healthy " political discussions with my family are nonexistent. @@timm285

    • @ddot4516
      @ddot4516 Před 6 měsíci +1

      So you rather text a book on youtube than talk to your family. The point of just being at peace is you can disagree while being perfectly content with the outcome, whatever the outcome. You cant control other people’s emotions. So no point in dwelling in it. Especially if you laid out your thoughts respectfully.

    • @Unknown_rbnx19
      @Unknown_rbnx19 Před 6 měsíci

      Sadly American culture sucks. Its where Karen's/Ken's, Negative Nancy's/Nick's, & Entitled Elizabeth's/Earl are thriving. It sucks being an American

    • @mlem6951
      @mlem6951 Před 6 měsíci +3

      But i think, one of the weaknesses of Japanese, is their passiv behaviour. Why they also have a lot of problems.
      I agree that harmony is important. But it is also important to talk about important stuff, which concerns us all, Politics for example.
      Of course, this should be in a peacefull way, where everyone can say his opinion whitout being hatet for it.

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd26373 Před 6 měsíci +27

    We will always support you no matter what. Keep up the good work.

  • @TeacherinTraining39
    @TeacherinTraining39 Před 6 měsíci +4

    There are times when I don't realize I needed to hear a message until I hear it. This is one of those times. Thank you both.

  • @Jaimico380
    @Jaimico380 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I remember my first time in Japan as a tourist (been born and raised in Mexico), I knew some things in advance but every hour I spent in Japan was filled with things that really surprised me, things that I never expected a society could achieve (super clean streets, excellent service at stores, polite people, perfect transportation, ease of access for disabled people, friendliness towards tourists and the list goes infinitely on). Thanks Mrs. eats for going beyond and sharing all of this with the rest of the word.

  • @ricardoalexandres.filipe8272
    @ricardoalexandres.filipe8272 Před 6 měsíci +10

    I agree with the harmony 100% just as long as it doesnt turn into no one being able to say what they truly want to, just to avoid issues or arguements which is something that ' s not good because people have to be honest with eachother and sometimes feelings gotta be hurt, even to help in some situations where someone might need to just have a reality check. I do love Japan and the language but I'm really sorry that I could not live in a place where you don't know if people are being honest with you... That's my opinion but I love you and your husband all those great content creators that entertain us everyday with brilliant content😊

    • @user-rr3fo6hy9q
      @user-rr3fo6hy9q Před 6 měsíci +4

      I'm the type of person that loves brutal honesty and constructive criticism. The truth shall set you free. You also don't always have to agree on everything, you can politely disagree. It's all about having emotional maturity. However, I think what they are referring to here is there is a time and place for everything. Having a debate about politics or abortion is probably not the best idea during a family function. Combine it with alcohol and all hell breaks loose haha.

    • @mbklig
      @mbklig Před 5 měsíci

      @@user-rr3fo6hy9q yeah but that is not how it works in Japan context, it is more of an canned soup people bottle it up whatever they think and they don't share it is such a degree that sometimes even they don't know what is inside and I don't think that is healthy for human animal, humans are social creatures we are not robotic mechanical systems human nature needs to be messy not bottled up canned and stored in a shelf nice and tidy, that is unnatural

  • @guillaumesp7240
    @guillaumesp7240 Před 24 dny +1

    3:33 That sound is actually from the horror movie "The Grudge" filmed in Japan 😂 you nailed it, croakkkkkkkkkkkk

  • @jonathansakura
    @jonathansakura Před 6 měsíci +8

    I lived in Korea 4 years and visited Japan many times
    I was extremely impressed
    I returned to America recently and i can't do it 😅😅😅😅😅
    Planning to move to Japan next 😊❤
    The respect and order and best customer service made me a super fan

    • @TheCyberMantis
      @TheCyberMantis Před 6 měsíci

      Yeah, the deep-state globalists ruined America.

  • @Rinace13
    @Rinace13 Před 6 měsíci +10

    The last 3 videos have been very good! Reminding me to be compassionate in every aspect of my life! Thank you for these powerful messages! 😊

  • @Haph3us
    @Haph3us Před 6 měsíci +10

    I think keeping harmony and avoiding disagreements is important, but a lot of understanding can come from disagreements once they're resolved. Also, I think somewhere like Japan it's easier to have a lot of people agree culturally when a large majority of the population comes from that same cultural upbringing. We have so many disagreements in the US because we have so many cultural differences here. At the same time, a lot of people can understand different cultures when they live in the same areas together. Even if we might be different, and we might not agree on things, I can still respect and understand your position, and hopefully the feeling is reciprocated. But, if we never have those conversations, it might never happen, you know?

  • @vividtoto
    @vividtoto Před 6 měsíci +4

    Mrs Eats you look really lovely with this hair length.

  • @mlem6951
    @mlem6951 Před 6 měsíci +3

    The last thing was important, how i find. It's easy for people to say(and often time judge) do just this and this and everything gets better. But when your'e mind is not in the right state, eg. depression and stuff, it's really hard. And this is the point where it's important that you can ask for help. Real help.

  • @talleyman2744
    @talleyman2744 Před 6 měsíci +6

    If I have 4 things on my plate, does that turn my triangle eating into a square meal? 😂
    Seriously though, great stuff! I heard about a few of these reading about Blue Zones, but most are new. Kotodama and keeping my space clean are definitely things that I need to work on, so now I'm off to do some laundry. Keep up the great work, Mr. and Mrs. Eats!!

  • @stevenh.2459
    @stevenh.2459 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This was a great video. I myself struggle with letting negative thoughts impact my daily life.
    To stop doing that, and being positive in every situation, is so incredibly hard.

  • @haroldkoenig3532
    @haroldkoenig3532 Před 6 měsíci +2

    All this is true! (I love you two, by the way.) I've been in Japan 13 days. I walk a LOT in the US. I walk more here! And triangle eating plus soup, usually miso soup, means I am lightly satisfied quicker. I've lost an inch or more around my waist in less than 2 weeks.
    In the US, I eat as I drive ... a LOT. My "triangle" is cheeseburger, french fries, diet Coke. What Im doing here FEELS better and IS better.

    • @Frivals
      @Frivals Před 4 měsíci

      😂😂😂😂 nice triangle

  • @pqrstsma2011
    @pqrstsma2011 Před 6 měsíci +1

    0:54 in Indian cuisine too (mostly only in restaurants nowadays) you can get what is called a _thaali_ (lit. means 'plate), which is a large plate with bread, rice, and multiple main dishes served in tiny little bowls (think of the size of an espresso mug). When i was about 14-15, there was a restaurant that would have like 15-20 different dishes on a buffet-style table; i would always want to taste all of them; but when i went to get a second round, i would always be amazed at how full i had already gotten from just 'sampling' the food...

  • @teh_rei
    @teh_rei Před 6 měsíci +1

    I have done 'triangle eating' my whole life without realising it was a thing. It's just how I did it cos it's enjoyable

  • @matsalvatore9074
    @matsalvatore9074 Před 3 měsíci

    I had a lumbar sprain, had a week to get it better cus i had to go to work, and just simple moving around really healed me. Along with a geat pad n massaging the area.
    I follow the triangle movemrnt when eating and it has really helped me with pacing myself. I love stuffing my face.
    I love that these are things a cukture does. It really validates what i improvised for myself

  • @rafaelbernal9153
    @rafaelbernal9153 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thanks Mrs. Eats for bringing up this video, now i know that showinf appreciation for the food is healthy and good, im learning japanese and im starting to use this method to learn it ❤

  • @amandahayward
    @amandahayward Před 6 měsíci +3

    Thank you so much for this inspiring video. 6 months ago, I started learning about Japanese culture (to prepare for my trip to Japan). The more I learn, the more I am taking things on board here in the UK. Your video has helped expand my understanding even more. Thank you 🫶 ❤

  • @kevin-jojo
    @kevin-jojo Před 6 měsíci

    You guys are looking so good !

  • @blombastique
    @blombastique Před 6 měsíci +3

    Wow, great message guys. Thank you! I needed to hear that this morning 😊

    • @MrsEats
      @MrsEats  Před 6 měsíci +1

      I'm glad you enjoy it!! Which one did you feel was most helpful?

  • @dukejaywalker5858
    @dukejaywalker5858 Před 6 měsíci

    Such good advice!

  • @andrettax6052
    @andrettax6052 Před 6 měsíci

    Wow, long time no see! Glad to ahve a new video :)

  • @fenrir-art4742
    @fenrir-art4742 Před 6 měsíci

    Thanks for the great info. I liked how you explained about what is necessary to help each other with harmony and be better people.

  • @SailorGreenTea
    @SailorGreenTea Před 6 měsíci +1

    I was eating a green tea mochi and suddenly thought of mrs.eats.

  • @GaryAa56
    @GaryAa56 Před 6 měsíci

    I try never to miss any of Mrs Eats videos.

  • @garryferrington811
    @garryferrington811 Před 6 měsíci

    This was a very nice video with some very good information.

  • @terubokmasin3247
    @terubokmasin3247 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Your vids have always been awesome. Lately they're getting even more with positive messages. Keep being amazing, Mrs & Mr Eats!

    • @MrsEats
      @MrsEats  Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you so much!

  • @jimwhite1756
    @jimwhite1756 Před 6 měsíci

    #4 is gold

  • @ChristopherVaughn
    @ChristopherVaughn Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you both, Mr. & Mrs.Eats. I think I'll make an effort to try these tips to help better my lifestyle, too.👍

  • @allentxjason
    @allentxjason Před 5 měsíci

    I needed every one of those tips 🤯 Thank you so much for posting!

  • @jasonfanclub4267
    @jasonfanclub4267 Před 6 měsíci

    Wow perfect timing

  • @romanmesina
    @romanmesina Před 6 měsíci +1

    Love your show!!!

  • @ZER0_G
    @ZER0_G Před 5 měsíci

    Definitely agree with the kotodama concept. For anyone who wants to change the soundtrack of your brain, I recommend the book, Soundtracks by Jon Acuff. It's about that very concept. The power of words.

  • @madelinetracy3847
    @madelinetracy3847 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing! These videos are always so uplifting! This may sound a little weird, but some Japanese advice that has really helped me was about cleaning the toilet. I have OCD and anxiety, so I used to stress out over cleaning the toilet because it’s gross and not fun (germs 😓) But then I saw a Japanese video about cleaning that said if you can change the (negative) way you think about cleaning your toilet and turn it into something positive, it can make you a hard, successful worker. It totally changed my perspective and now I don’t dread this simple chore- in fact, I’ve gotten really good at it! But I had to work on it a little bit every day. I can’t wait to add the positive lessons from this video into my life! We definitely need more harmony in the U.S. right now, so I will be the change I want to see in the world! ありがとございます ❤
    じゃまたね

  • @saltygravy6928
    @saltygravy6928 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you for the video. That was some beautiful advise and I plan on sharing it with friends and family.
    Thanks again and have a wonderful day.

    • @MrsEats
      @MrsEats  Před 6 měsíci

      You are so welcome!

  • @danielucha1310
    @danielucha1310 Před 6 měsíci +2

    What''s really impressive is how walking-friendly Japan is. In my country, for example (somewhere in South America that's mainly known for beauty pageant queens and other negative things), only in parks you can walk easily. From what I've seen of Japan (not only Tokyo), the roads and streets are quite comfortable to walk in without the fear of a motorbike/car running you over, or that you might not find a walking path. The one city in my continent I can think of that is as walkable is Buenos Aires, I enjoyed my walks there (and Madrid in Europe)
    I work from home, but if I lived in a place like Japan, damn would I walk my butt off with gusto.

  • @BookNerd4Music
    @BookNerd4Music Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for the tips. sometimes its easy to get down on oneself but have to remember to give myself grace and try again. I appreciate the message and love you mr and mrs Eats. you always bring smile to my heart.

  • @admiralyamato299
    @admiralyamato299 Před 6 měsíci

    Thanks

  • @Ozzymandius1
    @Ozzymandius1 Před 6 měsíci

    After being introduced to Coolish and having it at least once daily on my trip to Japan, I trust this channel with my soul.

  • @AuntieDeeDee
    @AuntieDeeDee Před 3 měsíci

    You have the Ueda symbol in the background!!! Samurai ❤ Love it!!!

  • @SailorGreenTea
    @SailorGreenTea Před 6 měsíci +1

    0:46, interesting

  • @haroldkoenig3532
    @haroldkoenig3532 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I love you guys.

  • @Xanthi_S
    @Xanthi_S Před 6 měsíci

    I’m Greek and I have been living in Sweden for 14 years. Japan is a dream destination of mine and I want to visit it someday. The Harmony point is something I experience a lot in Sweden as well, so politics or other subjects like this, are not things you would discuss in a gathering.
    I loved all the points and I want to absorb and implement as many Japanese lifestyle habits and mindsets, as possible ❤
    I’m very appreciative of what you are doing with your videos for us 🙏

  • @biteofdog
    @biteofdog Před 6 měsíci

    Wonderful video. Having a healthier life is important to me, and I'm working on refreshing my home so that I don't stay in my usual pattern.

  • @LENZ5369
    @LENZ5369 Před 6 měsíci +1

    By far the biggest impact to a country's health metrics (like lifespan, infant mortality, etc.) is the country's wealth and how well it's distributed.
    Pre WW2 Japan's health metrics were similar to it's regional peers like China, only drastically improving during it's post WW2 economic boom.
    Currently on things like life expectancy; Japan is a only marginally ahead of other (USA excluded) developed countries and that is with several times less obesity (JPN's rate is

  • @ayanokoji888
    @ayanokoji888 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thanks for the info, I need to follow them

    • @MrsEats
      @MrsEats  Před 6 měsíci

      You can do it!! Which one did you feel most useful?

    • @ayanokoji888
      @ayanokoji888 Před 6 měsíci

      @@MrsEats 1st one eating chicken 1 piece and 🍚

    • @MrsEats
      @MrsEats  Před 6 měsíci

      Oh triangle eating! Yes it's very useful! Just eat a little bit at a time and try everything!! It works!!

    • @ayanokoji888
      @ayanokoji888 Před 6 měsíci

      @@MrsEats Thank you🤩

    • @andrasize
      @andrasize Před 6 měsíci

      @@MrsEats definitely - harmony!

  • @RHCole
    @RHCole Před 6 měsíci +2

    New Mrs. Eats, yes!

  • @iakikhongsngi3715
    @iakikhongsngi3715 Před 5 měsíci

    wow it so nice to hear me also I'm doing exercises everyday

  • @gregramirez7337
    @gregramirez7337 Před 6 měsíci

    Very helpful video indeed, something small as making your bed every morning. Can set you off on the right foot.

  • @BinroWasRight
    @BinroWasRight Před 4 měsíci

    This is really good life advice! Japan, like all countries, has much to teach the world ❤🤍.

  • @CaptainCautious
    @CaptainCautious Před 3 měsíci

    Very good video.

  • @dianeharrison4975
    @dianeharrison4975 Před 4 měsíci

    Watching you on tv ❤

  • @ShadowsandCityLights
    @ShadowsandCityLights Před 3 měsíci

    Hmm. Never thought of eating that way, may have to give it a try!

  • @CyberMercy
    @CyberMercy Před 6 měsíci +2

    Canadian: much the same here with me & my peeps except Politics. Politics is Canada's Other Favourite Full Contact Sport. But seriously, great vidi. Very inspiring 😎☕💋

  • @Truecrimeresearcher224
    @Truecrimeresearcher224 Před 4 měsíci

    i have to figure out the 80% full thing
    i do walk as much as i can
    i cut back on soda and switched to sparkling water and normal water
    i have to do more movement. i live alone now so i can do some home workouts. i live in a one bedroom apartment so i can get creative

  • @sonoftheredfox
    @sonoftheredfox Před 6 měsíci +2

    I always look forward to your videos. Today has kind of been a rough day and I really found myself dwelling on a lot of negativity. I guess the timing was perfect for you two to pop up just to remind me to shift my mindset. 😀😀😀😀

    • @MrsEats
      @MrsEats  Před 6 měsíci

      I'm so glad! You can do it!!

  • @fosterfuchs
    @fosterfuchs Před 4 měsíci

    This is really great advice for people outside of Japan to have a better life. Better eating, positive thinking, conflict avoidance for better relationships. That being said, none of us are perfect. Neither on an individual basis nor as a country. Is there a time and place in Japan where the imperfections can be discussed ? If so, I'm sure it's being done respectfully. If not, I'm concerned that problems are simply being swept under the proverbial rug. I can truly testify to the respect in Japanese culture from what I experienced during my travels to the country. Both towards things that everyone uses, and towards each other.

  • @drusmith3480
    @drusmith3480 Před 6 měsíci +1

    My Japanese friend just returned to the US from visiting her home in Japan. I want to visit Japan so much.🫡

  • @Unknown_rbnx19
    @Unknown_rbnx19 Před 6 měsíci

    I eventually planning to stay in Japan for at least 3 weeks to a month. I definitely need to get healthy.

  • @ofadetergentsud
    @ofadetergentsud Před 6 měsíci +1

    I'm pretty sure I was Japanese in a former life because I already did most of this stuff naturally.

  • @admiralyamato299
    @admiralyamato299 Před 6 měsíci

    おはよう
    今日はどうだった
    I always appreciate your videos about Japanese culture I learn something new every time ありがとうございます

  • @ombrom.6040
    @ombrom.6040 Před 6 měsíci

    I will have to give being more positive a try

  • @geminidawn7315
    @geminidawn7315 Před 6 měsíci

    I'm an American and I know I was raised being told never talk about politics, religion or money with people to avoid conflict about differing views on these things.

  • @corruptedfiles1989
    @corruptedfiles1989 Před 6 měsíci

    I watched this whilst at the pub drinking a Sunday beer. So im sure, its not a great example of good habits.😅 That said, this was a very nice video 🇯🇵👍👍🇯🇵

  • @TheCyberMantis
    @TheCyberMantis Před 6 měsíci +1

    #6 - My brain is highly organized clutter. 😆

  • @JoshArtisto
    @JoshArtisto Před 6 měsíci +1

    It's funny, I actually do triangle eating naturally. It's not satisfying to me to eat all of one thing first and so on. I never knew triangle eating was a thing in Japan until this video.

  • @jerrycapizzi2081
    @jerrycapizzi2081 Před 6 měsíci +1

    So much truth here. Americans could learn so much from beautiful Asian culture and traditions.

  • @cantsay
    @cantsay Před 6 měsíci

    In america we used to have more harmony, there used to be the "three things" you never diacuss outside private conversations. Those three were politics, sex, and religion. Now all three are fair game and it is causing a lot of rifts

  • @postbreak
    @postbreak Před 6 měsíci

    Only eat until 80% full, but don't you dare leave rice on your plate. Starts sweating in gaijin.

  • @TheBDT87
    @TheBDT87 Před 6 měsíci

    I agree with all of these things BUT #6 too I think this is true: “A bit of a slob isn't he? All brilliant men are.”

  • @Truecrimeresearcher224
    @Truecrimeresearcher224 Před 6 měsíci

    Oh Japan you wonderful confusing place. One day I will get there. I wanna see the Sakura on bloom

  • @Fygee
    @Fygee Před 6 měsíci

    Another awesome video!
    Gonna skip the tip on the thumbnail though of using your toothbrush to clean a toilet seat. ;)

  • @CerridwenAwel
    @CerridwenAwel Před 6 měsíci

    I'm one that subscribes to the idea that words are vibrations, and as such they reverberate and influence other things and people vibrating nearby. But that said, words in and of themselves have no meaning. I can turn to you and say "massa!", and it will strike no chords in you. You have to be taught what it is supposed to mean, then you will rebuild the memory whenever you hear the word. The word has power when you're able to reconstruct its meaning in your mind and heart. That said, it's useless to hold in "bad" words and fabricate dishonest "good" words, that's just blowing empty wind. The true source of vibration is in your mind, so you have to address that's throwing it off balance, instead of trying to brainwash yourself out of your mood. No amount of "I am happy" will fix someone who's depressed, and refraining from expressing one's pain will only make it worse, as pain and suffering tends to ferment in the mind. Kotodama is useful for setting intentions. It doesn't solve problems.
    Ah, Harmony. I sincerely think it's a beautiful concept in theory, but a disaster in practice. It breeds cowardice and avoidant behaviour. It breeds disasters such as the Johnny Kitagawa serial sexual abuse of boys, in which no one intervened, even when law demanded so, for the sake of ✨ harmony,✨, and just let the case die until western media and a brazilian talent decided to stand up. Even the journalist from the BBC was flabbergasted at japanese people's indifference and avoidance, as it's a "disharmonious subject" to talk about. I personally found it to be of inhumane coldness to turn one's back to the suffering of kids who couldn't defend themselves because first and foremost is ✨harmony✨. It breeds black companies, labor abuses, moral abuses, It breeds increasing child abuse, it breeds increase in tachimbos in kabukicho and elsewhere, it breeds people walking into train lines seeking for some respite for having nothing they could count on. So much for a society that proudly proclaims mindfulness and respect for others. Well, definitely not their human rights, nor their struggles. Have a cardiac arrest in the middle of shibuya cross, and be sure that far from being helped, as you're an egoistic asshole that breaks everyone's ✨harmony✨ by becoming an unexpected hurdle when they're busy, no less, they will criticize you, perhaps even say you deserve to just pass away to make the world a better place. Just like "human accidents" of people jumping in front of trains are seen but an egoistic act of the desperate, who dares breaking the ✨ harmony ✨ of the living, causing them to be late to their errands. People are unable to give their seats to disabled, even if they have that unnecessary tag stating their condition for all to see. And upon criticism, the japanese say it's the disabled man that should personally ask for someone to give up their seat. ✨Harmony✨ prevents the japanese from standing out and disrupting what's comunnally comfortable, and I sincerely see no nobility about avoiding discomfort. My understanding of true harmony, true nobility, is dealing with discomfort, pain, even violence, with the grace of an aikido master, that strives for a spaciousness of heart that isn't tainted by external negativity, and that is even grateful for it, as they pave the way for one's growth. I do think people should be able to deal with life, as it really is, because that's where we are, with an open spirit, not a reactive one, and change adversity into opportunity, instead of clamming up at the slight break in routine. Hiding up conflict under the rug because it feels bad to deal with it won't make it go away. I see true respect from people that are upfront to show their weapons and stand as equals. There's no honor in cowards that put on smiley masks hiding their knives behind their backs because of ✨harmony✨.

  • @EnriqueGarcia-tc6uy
    @EnriqueGarcia-tc6uy Před 3 měsíci

    Mrs Eats, you are s cute and funny. You crack me up.

  • @ronmontoya3673
    @ronmontoya3673 Před 6 měsíci

    Iyan ang lihim ng mga Hapon kung bakit mahahaba ang kanilang mga buhay

  • @PrehistoricMeatEater
    @PrehistoricMeatEater Před 6 měsíci

    Excellent video and excellent eringi earrings (' ')b

  • @ReciesLovelyThoughts
    @ReciesLovelyThoughts Před 6 měsíci

    💕

  • @guilherme5094
    @guilherme5094 Před 6 měsíci

    👍

  • @jlnow6588
    @jlnow6588 Před 6 měsíci

  • @Juan.Padilla1998
    @Juan.Padilla1998 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Would living in Okinawa forever count as well?

    • @MrsEats
      @MrsEats  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yes! They do many of the thing we mention in this video!!

  • @DavidCruickshank
    @DavidCruickshank Před 6 měsíci

    The problem with "keep the harmony" is that very often it becomes "keep the status quo". Western countries (sometimes only specific ones) are the best place in the world for Women's right, Queer rights, Non-native rights, Workers rights, Animals rights, and many more, because people didn't keep the harmony they stood up and demanded better rights.

  • @neutraltral8757
    @neutraltral8757 Před 6 měsíci

    Fortunately for many of us, going out for some Fakkin is NOT a tip for enjoying a healthier life. 😇

  • @acommenter
    @acommenter Před 6 měsíci +1

    What do you say at the end of your videos?, I keep hearing 大きに

    • @MrsEats
      @MrsEats  Před 6 měsíci +1

      That's right! It's Kansai dialect for 'Thank You!

  • @Endoplasmastischer
    @Endoplasmastischer Před 6 měsíci +6

    However, after living in Japan, I would like to say that their (sorry) obsession with harmony also has its downsides. The famous Japanese meltdowns can occur after essentially accumulating negative feelings and not expressing them at all. Even some Japanese people I met preferred the “Western” way and a more direct approach to issues.

    • @telegramsam
      @telegramsam Před 6 měsíci +5

      Any idea can be taken to too much extreme. Bottling everything up forever is bad, especially when something has gone wrong in a relationship and someone is hurting you and the only way to address it is to speak up about it, but it's also maybe not the best idea to just start an argument at dinner over politics while everyone is trying to eat and enjoy their meal. There's a time and place for everything, and I think a lot of people just never learn that, and either do too much (Americans) or too little (Japanese). Healthy communication can be hard wherever you are from.

  • @bigguy7353
    @bigguy7353 Před 6 měsíci

    So eating less and more disciplined while increasing physical activity leads to a healthier life? Well who knew!

    • @Frivals
      @Frivals Před 4 měsíci

      USA don't know this

  • @luckytai-lan2166
    @luckytai-lan2166 Před 6 měsíci

    Interestingly enough, in the cyberworld Japanese tend to be rude maybe because it's a way to loose steam and it's anonymous. This is not my personal opinion but the opinion of Japanese CZcamsrs like Nobita San, Yuta San and Meshida San.

  • @nBasedAce
    @nBasedAce Před 6 měsíci

    I urge all American guys who live alone to sit down when you pee. I swear that makes cleaning the bathroom a lot less gross.

  • @frankicool4
    @frankicool4 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I agree with all the topics except avoiding controversial topics. It's our national sport in France hahaha. You can disagree with the other person as long as you think his opinions are legitimate.

  • @dealman3312
    @dealman3312 Před měsícem

    It’s like Dr. Jordan Peterson says, “make your bed”

  • @124marsh
    @124marsh Před 6 měsíci

    I have two words, intermittent fasting”

  • @aakhthuu
    @aakhthuu Před 6 měsíci

    0:22: 💡 Japanese people have six habits for a healthy and long life, including triangle eating, eating until 80% full, and moving more.
    2:26: 🇯🇵 Japanese culture emphasizes the importance of appreciation and taking care of things.
    5:28: 🇯🇵 Appreciation and positive thinking are important in Japanese culture.
    8:17: 🌟 The video discusses the power of positive language and the importance of maintaining harmony in relationships.
    11:09: 🧹 Cleaning and organizing your home can help regain control and improve your mental state.
    Recap by Tammy AI

  • @KacyJones
    @KacyJones Před 5 měsíci

    Lots of great tips here for sure. I think the harmony part has a dark side though. Harmony is great if you’re someone who fits in, but if you’re someone who is considered disharmonious because your existence doesn’t comport with what the majority, then it’s not such a great philosophy for you. I think there’s a reason that the LGBT community is in a worse place in Japan.

  • @steemlenn8797
    @steemlenn8797 Před 6 měsíci

    Who eats first the chicken, then the salad, then...???
    I mean there are those people who believe that this helps you slim down (because it makes a boring meal), but those aside? Personally, if it's possible, I lilke to mix everything together.
    As for the 80% thing I once heard a nice description in a German documentary: You don't eat until you are full, you eat until you are satisfied.

  • @DICKSILLY
    @DICKSILLY Před 6 měsíci +1

    Live in U.S. and it's definitely filthy. Nobody takes care or pride in anything for public

    • @steemlenn8797
      @steemlenn8797 Před 6 měsíci

      Of course not! It is something the damn government is doing!!!
      If you have so many people who believe that everything a group (other than their own group) is doing is bad, then you can't get appreciation or pride.

  • @Quazlor
    @Quazlor Před 6 měsíci

    You're so beautiful

  • @J-B-J
    @J-B-J Před 5 měsíci

    If you want "more harmony" with other person just to keep that friendship, then you are exploiting that friendship. "more harmony" means less sincerity. I want the opposite. If someone can't handle the truth, find someone else sooner then after 10 years of some relationship (of any kind). Other people thoughts, ideas, believes.... do not bothers me at all, we can talk and discuss, but the only thing i hate is insincerity and just because time is wasted. It is not about "more harmony" but more understanding and accepting differences. Americans are not very open into discussions, but come to Europe to experience art of arguing about everything (mediteranean countries).

  • @methylmercury
    @methylmercury Před 6 měsíci

    your channel meantions eating but you're not eating in this video

  • @jasonfanclub4267
    @jasonfanclub4267 Před 6 měsíci

    Dear Westerners,
    please take notes and learn