Lili Reinhart’s Revealing Speech About Body Image | Glamour WOTY 2018

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  • The Riverdale actress opened up about self-love at the Glamour 2018 Women of the Year Summit.
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  • @Li2A_.z
    @Li2A_.z Před 5 lety +14410

    “We aren’t born with these insecurities,we are told to be insecure” THAT TOOK ME TO REALITY GIRLY

    • @gabrielamoncayozerga2214
      @gabrielamoncayozerga2214 Před 4 lety +24

      facts

    • @larajeancovey2677
      @larajeancovey2677 Před 4 lety +10

      My baby

    • @mentalbreaker74
      @mentalbreaker74 Před 4 lety +15

      this one really got to me

    • @AppleBottomJ
      @AppleBottomJ Před 4 lety +50

      exactly. I mean, a couple decades ago 'big butts were disgusting.' 'Now, if you don't have a butt, you are disgusting.' That's just looking at a logical standpoint but who's to say stretch marks, cellulite, stomachs, etc are ugly? We have those insecurities b/c we are told to have them. Sad. I am glad she is using her platform to spread this message

    • @radkafeichtingerova4940
      @radkafeichtingerova4940 Před 4 lety +4

      Exactly!

  • @carola6056
    @carola6056 Před 4 lety +8582

    "Everyone wants to see the flaws of another person because we wanted to see glimpses of our own insecurities in them," that hit hard

  • @claradyson3625
    @claradyson3625 Před 4 lety +7693

    "People told me I didn't have the right to talk about being insecure about my body, because I was skinny" wow. im so glad she brought that up.

    • @kspuck79
      @kspuck79 Před 4 lety +35

      ikr

    • @maeverose6856
      @maeverose6856 Před 4 lety +32

      Yeah same

    • @mariakiwi1428
      @mariakiwi1428 Před 4 lety +185

      Literally people make fun of girls for looking “anorexic” or “twig like”,but thensay that these girl have no right to complain,I hate it so much,we need to stop commenting on other people’s bodies

    • @claradyson3625
      @claradyson3625 Před 4 lety +80

      @@mariakiwi1428 ik I've been called so many hurtful things and told to eat more and then when i complain they tell me to shut up bc im skinny. and im really tall so it makes the comments even worse

    • @maeverose6856
      @maeverose6856 Před 4 lety +40

      @@claradyson3625 I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. I've been having the same problem too all my life. And people tease me for being skinny. Then I complain about how I don't like my body, and they're all "but you're super skinny, so stop complaining." It just hurts me.

  • @jj-lg3lu
    @jj-lg3lu Před 4 lety +3893

    'We aren't born with insecurities, we are told what to be insecure about'
    Okay, why did I feel that so deeply?

  • @mustachecake3.081
    @mustachecake3.081 Před 5 lety +26705

    winnie the pooh ate what he wanted, never wore pants, and wore a crop top. you can too. you're beautiful.

    • @sagetilley4257
      @sagetilley4257 Před 5 lety +178

      True tho

    • @marthavelasco6585
      @marthavelasco6585 Před 5 lety +149

      Haha true😂

    • @chloeholzman
      @chloeholzman Před 5 lety +83

      MustacheCake 3.0 so tru, but I don’t understand why people make her feel like she looks like Winnie the Pooh. You are so right, but people also need to realize that they are the problem and she already is have a hard time

    • @emilyb4812
      @emilyb4812 Před 5 lety +71

      MustacheCake 3.0 nah it was a normal shirt, it just fit him like a crop top lmao... but I like your point

    • @annabellejindra4189
      @annabellejindra4189 Před 5 lety +18

      Living for this

  • @parisb5735
    @parisb5735 Před 5 lety +13970

    She is so beautiful , and inspiring. And I find comfort within her , I’d love to just sit and talk with her..

  • @hannah-op1bt
    @hannah-op1bt Před 4 lety +9245

    i pray lili goes on to be a big actress after riverdale, i don’t want this amazingly inspiring woman to only be remembered through a show with bad writing.

    • @emilyfan505
      @emilyfan505 Před 4 lety +136

      First of all: rude.
      Second of all she is in 2 movies this year.
      Third: Riverdale wasn’t her first job.

    • @emilyfan505
      @emilyfan505 Před 4 lety +69

      Emily Hernandez if the writing was really that bad no one would watch. Lili is amazing on Riverdale so saying she shouldn’t be remembered for it is just rude. No show has perfect writing so to say that this show is bad for her to be recognized for is rude af. She is going to be remembered for being a great actress on everything she’s in including Riverdale.

    • @biancadesousa
      @biancadesousa Před 4 lety +6

      She seems like a nice person but her acting sucks though, so does cami. Madelaine has potential though

    • @evsterplays7162
      @evsterplays7162 Před 4 lety +65

      wildflower or your living up to way too high expectations, their acting is awesome, they all have good acting. I doubt you got onto a big tv show. Half of the people in this world are scared to go onto a stage! All these actors have talent and are brave for being on tv shows and not acting up,such as getting scared. Smh.

    • @saanvisaahu1591
      @saanvisaahu1591 Před 4 lety +18

      Let's not forget that she is what she is today only because of riverdale, and she knows that too!

  • @nikolasedlakova4397
    @nikolasedlakova4397 Před 4 lety +891

    "we aren't born with insecurities, we are told to be insecure"
    THATS SO TRUE, it really opened my eyes

  • @sophiethatcher875
    @sophiethatcher875 Před 5 lety +8936

    Cole is the luckiest man alive to have this wonder by his side you are such an inspiration to me lili

    • @keisharwodzi7944
      @keisharwodzi7944 Před 5 lety +31

      Sophie Thatcher not any more since they broke up

    • @Officiallxllx
      @Officiallxllx Před 5 lety +8

      The Gamer Xx they what?

    • @Officiallxllx
      @Officiallxllx Před 5 lety +6

      The Gamer Xx how do you know?

    • @matildaxx1945
      @matildaxx1945 Před 5 lety +39

      Sophie Thatcher when she said about future kids I was like “aw Cole must be so proud”

    • @teeolatunde5279
      @teeolatunde5279 Před 5 lety +32

      itslillime they didn’t 😂😂

  • @kellymanke179
    @kellymanke179 Před 5 lety +19501

    lili is going to make an amazing mother.

  • @aj_1207
    @aj_1207 Před 5 lety +3138

    I was crying about my weight for half an hour and then i saw this.....i stopped surprisingly
    Thx for 4 likes

    • @kimberlybrinkhuis5215
      @kimberlybrinkhuis5215 Před 4 lety +35

      A J no number can define you, what makes people beautiful is their personality, vibe, way of handling stuff and so much more. Have a good hart is so much better than having the perfect weight.
      As long as you feel comfortable, healthy, happy ect in you’re own skin. that’s what really matters. I look at people all day and to be honest I haven’t seen a ugly person, not by their weight or looks ect. but I felt like I looked bad, fat and I felt ugly compared to other people.
      (Also because I have a big back injury, it’s going on for around 1 year now. And I can’t even run so I had to stop exercising (horse riding, free running and running))
      Then I realized that if everybody I see looks good in their own special way, I probably don’t look that bad.
      And remember, when you look at people you see all the good flaws but when you look at yourself you barely find a good flaw. Well you got plenty of beautiful flaws but you’re so used to your own features that you don’t see that in the eyes of someone else they are beautiful!!
      And I don’t know what you look like, but I do know that you’re pretty and wanted in this world. And no weight number can chance that.
      YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND GOOD LOOKING!! NO MATTER THE WEIGHT.❤️

    • @adriana-no2jh
      @adriana-no2jh Před 4 lety +4

      Kimberly Brinkhuis thank you❤️❤️❤️

    • @kimberlybrinkhuis5215
      @kimberlybrinkhuis5215 Před 4 lety +3

      Adriana W. No problem, it’s the truth and i’m just putting it out here. Everybody deserves to know that❤️❤️

    • @anaj6263
      @anaj6263 Před 3 lety +7

      Well, now u have over one thousand:)

    • @lucyrae6246
      @lucyrae6246 Před 3 lety +1

      Aww you are beautiful!

  • @naxmijadee_8271
    @naxmijadee_8271 Před 4 lety +2228

    The fact that most of the comments are about Cole is so sad, like Lili is her own person and this is her speech and you all are just talking about her boyfriend.

    • @rd-dnd
      @rd-dnd Před 4 lety +112

      What you are talking about?!! Most of the comments are about lili and how she is a role model almost 80% of comments are about her

    • @ayabouchair1861
      @ayabouchair1861 Před 4 lety +21

      @@rd-dnd exactly, i only saw like a comment or two about cole

    • @dannamorales5645
      @dannamorales5645 Před 4 lety +8

      RD DND frrrr that’s what I was thinking!!!

    • @clairewaugh6965
      @clairewaugh6965 Před 4 lety +6

      Naomi Jade You are so right she has spoken about something that touches people so deeply and people are saying ‘oh will she have kids with Cole then’. I find it disrespectful

    • @ariannar4153
      @ariannar4153 Před 4 lety

      RD DND uh i saw most comments about riverdale...

  • @alvildamariereinholdpoulse1868

    Me:watching a speech about body image
    CZcams:sup man here is an ad for Facetune

  • @Hisuik
    @Hisuik Před 5 lety +3667

    “and acne”
    That hit me the most.

  • @samhackbarth6364
    @samhackbarth6364 Před 3 lety +487

    Please tell me that I am not the only 14 years old watching this, feeling a lot better because of what she said.

  • @yunxi8634
    @yunxi8634 Před 4 lety +456

    I swear every woman sitting there was profusely clapping Inside

  • @sararoach1934
    @sararoach1934 Před 5 lety +6251

    You have no idea how BAD I needed to hear this.

    • @stephanieleguori9553
      @stephanieleguori9553 Před 4 lety +16

      Girl, of that is you in that picture, your GORGEOUS :D, and yeah, I needed to see this, too :D

    • @monicav9151
      @monicav9151 Před 4 lety +3

      I’m sorry. It’s hear I think

    • @sararoach1934
      @sararoach1934 Před 4 lety +9

      @@stephanieleguori9553 Thank you! It is me I used to model.

    • @ale5703
      @ale5703 Před 4 lety

      I had now ides how bad I needed to hear this😂..

    • @nashrah9335
      @nashrah9335 Před 4 lety

      @@sararoach1934 why did you stop modelling

  • @brileylopez5964
    @brileylopez5964 Před 5 lety +3215

    Now that is a girl who is dedicated and not afraid to speak up for what is truly right . women should not be afraid to be expressive .size dose not matter! I love Lili a lot now. I am self conscious and this mad me go out in public in short and a tank top thanks for the inspiration Lili!!

  • @_itsnotjayyy_1094
    @_itsnotjayyy_1094 Před 4 lety +699

    I bet god looked down and smiled listening to lili say that speech

    • @Huntercooks
      @Huntercooks Před 3 lety +4

      Your so right.

    • @ES11777
      @ES11777 Před 3 lety +3

      god is not real

    • @_itsnotjayyy_1094
      @_itsnotjayyy_1094 Před 3 lety +8

      @@ES11777 If that is what you believe then that is okay and I support you. I am sorry if I offended you, or any beliefs you have in any way, shape, or form.

    • @ES11777
      @ES11777 Před 3 lety +1

      @@_itsnotjayyy_1094 No problem.
      You are very kind. I hope you have a great day 😊

    • @hwlsgrl
      @hwlsgrl Před 3 lety +3

      @@_itsnotjayyy_1094omfg yes this is the right way to reply to people who disagree with your religion, simply be okay with their beliefs and not force it down on them 😭❤️
      Other religious people should be more like you lmao

  • @mychemicalromanceann
    @mychemicalromanceann Před 4 lety +543

    This sounded like a TED talk. 👍🏻
    I could watch Lili talk for hours. 🤗

  • @noelledford
    @noelledford Před 5 lety +5221

    Really random, but Lili would be the best camp counselor, just sayin.

  • @gigi_monster
    @gigi_monster Před 5 lety +1592

    "You are helping the movement of strong, modern women by showing the parts of ourselves that we've been forever told to hide."

    • @scandalousporpoise8405
      @scandalousporpoise8405 Před 5 lety

      chunchun so the same doesn’t go for men or does it only apply to woman

    • @Miya-tc9gf
      @Miya-tc9gf Před 5 lety +4

      Scandalous Porpoise that’s not what she meant :/

    • @mcpartridgeboy
      @mcpartridgeboy Před 4 lety +1

      you dont find it slightly hypocritical that she is in a beautiful expensive dress and impeccable make up without even a strand of hair out of place ? that would bother me if she wasn't living the message she is telling others to live ! im surprised you didn't notice this contradiction !

    • @hannahk.summerville5908
      @hannahk.summerville5908 Před 4 lety +1

      That made me tear up. It's so accurate!

    • @paulinahernandez3884
      @paulinahernandez3884 Před 4 lety

      Literally i was scrolling in the comments while listening to the speech and when i saw your comment Lili said this exact part WTF

  • @nia_xoxo1654
    @nia_xoxo1654 Před 4 lety +381

    Lili would do a better job at being a therapist than my actual therapist just saying

  • @Roma-dx1oj
    @Roma-dx1oj Před 4 lety +650

    Stop talking about her boyfriend or her future kids, she's giving this amazing speech and it seems like no one is paying real attention to what she's saying. Like literally all you're talking about is her future kids and her boyfriend and she is so much more than that.

    • @annngelina7108
      @annngelina7108 Před 4 lety +5

      Y! E! S!

    • @biancadesousa
      @biancadesousa Před 4 lety +6

      Sadly, before they even get to that stage in their life, society shapes a woman’s identity by her marriage and kids.

    • @grapesoda6651
      @grapesoda6651 Před 4 lety +3

      wildflower It ain’t that deep

    • @emilyblack2126
      @emilyblack2126 Před 4 lety

      grape soda 😭💀💀💀

    • @deeshax
      @deeshax Před 4 lety

      Roma it literally is not that deep, people aren’t saying anything particularly offensive by referring to Cole or her future children. I’m sure they respect what Lili has to say. Stop looking so deep into a simple comment!

  • @abbey872
    @abbey872 Před 5 lety +7081

    PETITION TO GIVE LILI HER OWN PODCAST/CZcams CHANNEL
    (Like)
    I'm not trying to clout I'm trying to get them to see this lol

    • @abbey872
      @abbey872 Před 5 lety +11

      And tweet/dm Lili too!!! 💜🌼💜🌼

    • @emilysolo3078
      @emilysolo3078 Před 5 lety +3

      Yessssss

    • @tiagolla665
      @tiagolla665 Před 5 lety +18

      Her voice is so calm. I agree she should man.

    • @ironictrollface443
      @ironictrollface443 Před 5 lety +6

      You can literally make ur own channel. Like you just create a channel

    • @denisekira9211
      @denisekira9211 Před 4 lety

      yesss yess yesss yessss🙌🏼

  • @vanshikasangal7249
    @vanshikasangal7249 Před 5 lety +8470

    Judge me when you are perfect.

  • @juliavatte
    @juliavatte Před 3 lety +154

    “We are all imperfectly beautiful” “let’s celebrate each other as we are, as we will be and as we are meant to be” these are the words I needed

  • @lilygrace4189
    @lilygrace4189 Před 4 lety +164

    I think Lili is the most inspirational person in the world. She has struggles with depression,anxiety, etc and now is a young powerful woman inspiring other woman and men. She loves to show people how much she loves body positivity and I think that is an amazing personality about her.

  • @lisenormann4102
    @lisenormann4102 Před 5 lety +2557

    How does people dislike this woman? So well spoken, I adore her.

  • @jmheirloom794
    @jmheirloom794 Před 5 lety +3048

    and yet here i am looking at lili thinking i wish i had her body lol

    • @hilarylarkin9530
      @hilarylarkin9530 Před 5 lety +16

      JM heirloom same

    • @livparkinson2939
      @livparkinson2939 Před 5 lety +175

      This is not what this is about watch the video again I completely get what you mean but in my opinion she’s not just talking about her struggle but everyone’s

    • @gloriaaxrosee
      @gloriaaxrosee Před 5 lety +112

      Honestly there are probably people that wish they had your body too. This speech is about saying that EVERYONE has their own insecurities.

    • @jmheirloom794
      @jmheirloom794 Před 5 lety +65

      yeah i know i just found it funny how when i look at her i see my goal but yet even she has insecurities even though we/i think she is so beautiful and perfect just goes to show even if you dont see yourself as perfect others will thats my point i was trying to make :)

    • @serrasimsek8872
      @serrasimsek8872 Před 5 lety +9

      You obviously missed the entire point of her speech. Moron.

  • @skymilano973
    @skymilano973 Před 4 lety +184

    *cries* she’s so inspirational. This is exactly what every. Single. Female. Ever. Needs to hear, sadly. ❤️

  • @jeanineosborne1045
    @jeanineosborne1045 Před 3 lety +113

    Body image is such a sensitive topic to most people, and Lili spoke about it in such a delicately, beautiful way. I'm so glad that we have her as a romodle and a person who can represent such an important message to not only women, but everyone in the world.

  • @laylarami2739
    @laylarami2739 Před 5 lety +1598

    Can we all just take a sec that she literally looks like a goddess, bright and beautiful, glowing and that Lil slit... she looks happy and healthy xx

    • @ecaterina4997
      @ecaterina4997 Před 4 lety +1

      layla rami so did you not saw her without makeup

    • @sabz1461
      @sabz1461 Před 4 lety +76

      Ecaterina With or without makeup, she is stunning. I am sure you are too.

    • @ye9411
      @ye9411 Před 4 lety +16

      Sab Z that is the sweetest comment ive ever read im gonna cry

  • @RidaKn
    @RidaKn Před 5 lety +3170

    Loved. Lili is so simple - be it her poetry, speeches, acting or just general outlook on things and the way she portrays and handles herself makes her out to be so relatable. I genuinely relate to her and this speech just adds to my appreciation for her.

    • @silvianaa
      @silvianaa Před 5 lety +10

      Khwabeeda she needs a podcast, her voice is so important and what she says is inspirational.

    • @3inchMorningwood
      @3inchMorningwood Před 5 lety +1

      the roll she plays on riverdale is pretty much how she is in real life lol. So true and honest in all ways possible. Shes someone that is extremely easy to get along with

    • @jadefo2433
      @jadefo2433 Před 5 lety

      Shane carwin exept in Riverdale shes creepy and gullible.. no I think its a bit of an offense to say shes the same.. the seems so much more interesting and smart in real life

    • @anjalichoudhary4253
      @anjalichoudhary4253 Před 3 lety

      Same here

  • @renderosia8123
    @renderosia8123 Před 4 lety +256

    I felt this really close because I have anorexia. I love lili. She is so kind

    • @Zerin666
      @Zerin666 Před 4 lety

      Don't let ppl get to u

    • @juliaromain767
      @juliaromain767 Před 4 lety

      Take care! Lots of love coming your way

    • @emilia8629
      @emilia8629 Před 4 lety +2

      Dont let society tell you how to look like. You are beautiful. For now try to get better remember there is a light out of tunel

  • @de4830
    @de4830 Před 4 lety +71

    i was here crying and feeling really bad about myself both physically and mentally, and someone told me to watch this. yeah, i don’t feel amazing, but this speech is amazing. everyone should hear this.

    • @fandomsandfiction_
      @fandomsandfiction_ Před 4 lety +4

      Take care of yourself. You deserve all the love and happiness in the world! If no one will give it to you, give it to yourself ❤

  • @GlitterPenPerspective
    @GlitterPenPerspective Před 5 lety +806

    I wish I could go back in time and show my thirteen year old self this speech. She was a girl who didn’t attend a pool party because she was to self-conscious to be in a swimsuit around her classmates. She was a girl who cried in the back of the ballet studio changing room because her instructor advised getting a costume two sizes up. She was a girl who dangerously experimented with eating-disorder tendencies such as fasting/purging because she read that her favorite celebrity did it to lose weight.
    Thankfully, I’m not that girl anymore. Ten years later, I’m a twenty-three year old that treats herself a lot more kindly than she use to. The road to body-positivity has been a struggle and I’m still on that path. Like Lili said, some days are harder than others. To this day I still look in the mirror at my big hips and thighs and I turn into that thirteen year old girl again. But Lili is absolutely right. There are so many body shapes in the world and they should all be embraced and celebrated. No more body shaming, and that starts with ourselves and then we encourage each other. I love when Lili said “embracing your natural beauty does not exclude anyone. You can be naturally beautiful with acne or scars, cellulite or curves. So let’s celebrate each other, and ourselves, as we are, as we will be, and as we were meant to be.” Can I get an amen?
    I’m so thankful and incredibly happy that the younger generation has someone as bright, honest, and positive as Lili to look up to. Thank you, Lili. Thank you!

    • @shannonbatty937
      @shannonbatty937 Před 5 lety +12

      aseashelly • shelly ray I am 13 right now. Thank you so much for saying this

    • @bass1018
      @bass1018 Před 5 lety +3

      Amen

    • @vibeyvibevibes
      @vibeyvibevibes Před 5 lety +5

      I’m the same thirteen year old girl as you were not going to swim parties because I am self conscious. But...we have to do swimming at school next week and I don’t want to be teased 😔

    • @jennymehl6671
      @jennymehl6671 Před 5 lety +4

      I love this comment so much. Thank you for sharing. You’re incredibly strong ❤️👏.

    • @bananamuffinshawn7025
      @bananamuffinshawn7025 Před 5 lety +2

      aseashelly • shelly ray You are so strong and powerful! Much love💛

  • @starkberries
    @starkberries Před 5 lety +1381

    I have never came across someone like her in my life, she literally explained in detail the struggles and habits that I had to deal with on a daily basis and I never imagined in my life for my self esteem to improve or increase at least not until I was introduced to Lili Reinhart . I love this incredible brave woman and I’m rooting for anyone who’s going through any similar struggles or insecurities, just know that you’re not alone and there is nothing to be ashamed of.

    • @nittoburn4
      @nittoburn4 Před 5 lety +2

      OMG, I love you so much!!!!! Thank you for saying that!!!

    • @starkberries
      @starkberries Před 5 lety +1

      nittoburn4 omg of course I’m really glad I hope it helped! your comment made my day, I love you xx

    • @nittoburn4
      @nittoburn4 Před 5 lety +2

      @@starkberries aww your welcome 💓💙💙😁

  • @susanackermann9328
    @susanackermann9328 Před 3 lety +24

    ¨we aren't born with insecurities, we are told to be insecure" PERIOD .

  • @laaurasophie
    @laaurasophie Před 4 lety +55

    This is why I deactivated my instagram a few weeks ago and I already feel so much better. It almost drove me into depression and it's so hard to realize since all the memes and quotes make you feel like insta is a relatable place that comforts you. UNTIL you think about why you even feel that certain way. You don't need social medias comfort when you don't put yourself through its toxic traits in the first place. Also your wasting so much time watching others live your dreams instead of working on yourself.
    Not saying you'll have a perfect life without social media. But a much more focused and real one for sure.

  • @serenarivera310
    @serenarivera310 Před 5 lety +700

    everyone who is calling her perfect is missing the message. the point of this speech is to say she isn't perfect and that's okay. nobody's perfect. yes she's amazing and inspiring but to call her perfect is to disregard this speech.

  • @khiawhitney6841
    @khiawhitney6841 Před 5 lety +354

    I'm so happy that little girls look up to women like Lili. Females who are strong enough to talk about the real things because they know they should be talked about.

  • @theatrekid3567
    @theatrekid3567 Před 3 lety +56

    Lesson of the day: “do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (romans 12:2)

  • @sparrowwilson4514
    @sparrowwilson4514 Před 3 lety +64

    She’s such a lovely, eloquent young lady. I can’t help but like Lili.

  • @louisetorronen6277
    @louisetorronen6277 Před 5 lety +912

    All I have to say is:
    Powerful.

  • @yasminofoghi9121
    @yasminofoghi9121 Před 5 lety +922

    SHE IS THE ONLY REASON I WATCH RIVERDALE 🙌🏼

  • @aknurlukpan8542
    @aknurlukpan8542 Před 4 lety +57

    I was / am very insecure about my body because I wasn’t the “ideal” shape and my face wasn’t “perfect”. I constantly judged myself against other people. I belittled my self, catcalling myself constantly. I took a lot of time and effort to realize that my relationship with my body was beyond toxic, that it had affected my self esteem and confidence. I feared that people would leave me because I was “ugly”. I couldn’t be truly open with other people when all I was thinking about was my acne showing and if I looked presentable.
    I am still on my journey to acceptance of my appearance, I say that I have a way healthier relationship with my appearance, but there’s still room for improvement.
    I want to thank Lili Reinheart for speaking about physical insecurities and opening about her vulnerabilities. She took one step help us to accept ourselves and be happy with our appearance and is continuing her journey to promote inclusive standards in the mass media.
    Thank You Lili❤️✨

  • @hopeashton1754
    @hopeashton1754 Před 5 lety +1238

    I could listen to her talk all day someone give her a podcast❤❤

  • @elzamonbebe1612
    @elzamonbebe1612 Před 5 lety +636

    Didn't realise how much I needed to hear this.

  • @rosemaryazelton2734
    @rosemaryazelton2734 Před 4 lety +101

    As someone who struggles with anorexia, this meant a lot.

    • @sabrinadavies3247
      @sabrinadavies3247 Před 3 lety +2

      Wish you happiness and recovery :)

    • @ivenalanko2462
      @ivenalanko2462 Před 2 lety +1

      idk if I had anorexia but I had struggles eating but then I started eating just cause ppl were judging me...

  • @benedetta8001
    @benedetta8001 Před 3 lety +24

    "We aren't born with these insecurities. We are told to be insecure. The perfect world you see is presented you under filters. You are beautiful naturally, embrace it, practice it. Let's celebrate ourselves as we are, we will be and for what we are meant to be...unique, imperfect, beautiful and powerful."

  • @CallMeNana
    @CallMeNana Před 5 lety +1357

    Why she hasn’t talk yet on TED talks ??😳🙏🏻💕💕

    • @alyssab4938
      @alyssab4938 Před 5 lety +38

      right?! this sounds like one, she is great at speaking.

    • @iamimana
      @iamimana Před 5 lety

      On TED talks, the speaker talks personally about an event they had to go through that no one else could imagine. Like I watched one on a girl who escaped North Korea successfully. Lili does talk about herself but she is also speaking for many other people with insecurities. How many people do you know have escaped North Korea? I assume less than 10, because it really is not that common.

    • @jadefo2433
      @jadefo2433 Před 5 lety

      Are you feeling it now Mr Krabs? I get your points but its more than 10! Far more even though yes its very rare..

    • @ellarose2389
      @ellarose2389 Před 5 lety +1

      Are you feeling it now Mr Krabs? That’s not what ted talks is about. There are ted talks on an extremely wide range of subjects. Not just extreme events individuals go through

  • @nano1593
    @nano1593 Před 5 lety +469

    She didn't say this but "You can't blend in when you were born to stand out"

    • @elise3851
      @elise3851 Před 5 lety +9

      Slime Addict ok.. my new life quote. Thanks, It's beautiful.

    • @annah5334
      @annah5334 Před 5 lety +7

      U must’ve read wonder

    • @pariswerly3778
      @pariswerly3778 Před 5 lety

      If everyone was born to stand out, does that mean they’re blending in?

    • @nano1593
      @nano1593 Před 5 lety

      Annah W Yep

    • @nano1593
      @nano1593 Před 5 lety

      Elise Awww thank you

  • @kitsunevideo947
    @kitsunevideo947 Před 2 lety +4

    I can’t stop watching this video. For so long I’ve felt alone. I felt like no one liked me because of how I looked, but Lili reminds us that we’re not alone, nobody is. She reminds us that looks shouldn’t matter, everyone is beautiful in their own way.

  • @marthedevliegher7367
    @marthedevliegher7367 Před 4 lety +51

    I could listen to her for days. She’s so inspiring and has a nice voice to listen to

  • @digitalbrianna
    @digitalbrianna Před 5 lety +5180

    can u all stop focusing on her boyfriend in the comments this has nothing to do with him lol
    edit: made this comment a *year* ago when the majority of the comments were about her boyfriend and nothing to do with this video, or the woman speaking about her body-issues. wouldn’t you be frustrated if you had the bravery to give this presentation and all everyone was talking about was the man you were dating instead of...you and your thoughts??? moral of the story is women are worth more than their relationship

  • @amgonzales808
    @amgonzales808 Před 5 lety +553

    Ugh, I could listen to her talk forever! She has such a relaxing voice. How refreshing it is to listen to someone speak so open and honest about things a lot of us struggle with. She is such a wonderful role model for individuals of all ages. 💕✨

  • @deanixara1390
    @deanixara1390 Před 4 lety +32

    I dont like riverdale but I have always thought that she is a really mature person and I know she is really talented

  • @Apricity_Asmr
    @Apricity_Asmr Před 3 lety +36

    The perfect body is the one that has a happy woman inside it.

  • @aliceb9274
    @aliceb9274 Před 5 lety +2755

    Hey person scrolling down the comments👋

  • @juliafrost4967
    @juliafrost4967 Před 5 lety +1084

    Are we too blind to see that beauty lies beneath the skin?

  • @Bob-zt6ry
    @Bob-zt6ry Před 4 lety +6

    I love how human she is in this. She stutters and wears a form fitting dress and you can hear all the emotion in her voice and I know these are tiny things but they just add to how much she actually cares.

  • @ies16
    @ies16 Před 2 lety +4

    i love this girl she is so beautiful 🥰

  • @Dream1ng
    @Dream1ng Před 5 lety +712

    I don't even know how many seconds of the day i think about my weight, all i know is that it's too much. I loved this speech, and its absolutely true. We are all beautiful in our own way, we need to learn to love our bodies and be healthy not to fit measured sizes but to live longer happier lives.

    • @charavaiou7538
      @charavaiou7538 Před 5 lety +2

      Dream1ng I know that this will make no difference to you, but I'm sure you are perfect and amazing in your own way. I know that weight it something many people struggle with, and i have struggled with it too, and it got to an eating disorder. I really hope others don't get the same happen to them, so even if you feel bad, try not to diet or starve yourself, go to a dietician to get professional help and not do anything that will hurt you in the future. Be safe, but with or without weight loss, I'm sure you're perfect 💜

    • @Dream1ng
      @Dream1ng Před 5 lety

      @@charavaiou7538 thank you that means a lot, its a struggle but im getting to be more confident in my self.

    • @lockec3269
      @lockec3269 Před 5 lety

      Same I’m just a 13 year old girl who’s friends all have 6 packs and has nothing

  • @xxmiadalyxx5489
    @xxmiadalyxx5489 Před 5 lety +395

    ‘We are told to be inscure about certain things’. Can I just say this is such a true statement I was like wow! That is one powerful statement. Lilli Reinheart is an amazing speaker and person ❤️

    • @jassu1321
      @jassu1321 Před 4 lety

      U are only listening cause u are a fan.... A lot of people talk about this stuff

  • @jamiepiearcy5618
    @jamiepiearcy5618 Před 3 lety +15

    As a young girl, I'm so glad I watched this. I've had the same struggles and it's important for messages like this one to become widespread, so that girls like me and my friends can feel happy and confident and secure in our own skins.

  • @isabelzweir9906
    @isabelzweir9906 Před 5 lety +34

    Ugh. I love Lili Reinhart! She’s so inspiring and REAL.💛

  • @sandranobs1945
    @sandranobs1945 Před 5 lety +518

    How she reads everything off screen but still you don't really realize until 7:40 cause she is brilliant !!!! Thank you Lili

    • @gracies5806
      @gracies5806 Před 5 lety +56

      Sandra Nobs I think she has it mostly memorized, they just put it on the screen just in case she forgets a word or sentence.

    • @nadirahvlogs5577
      @nadirahvlogs5577 Před 5 lety +28

      I didn’t realize it till this comment 😂😭

    • @mariabedoni7294
      @mariabedoni7294 Před 5 lety +34

      I think she wrote this whole thing, but she cold have been nervous or something and in this case it's easy to forget things (sorry my English is bad)

    • @ellegarrels2317
      @ellegarrels2317 Před 5 lety +8

      She wrote it tho

    • @jessh0906
      @jessh0906 Před 5 lety +2

      Yes u can she keeps lookin up..

  • @isabelbalcom2410
    @isabelbalcom2410 Před 5 lety +1572

    So true!!!!! I LOVE this!!!!! Beauty lies within not without!!! No one is without beauty on the inside!!!! Don't judge others, because they look different!!!! And don't judge yourself because you look different!!!! Blending in is boring, standing out is hot!!!!! Have confidence in yourself!!!! Perfect people aren't real! NO ONE IS PERFECT!!!! So embrace your imperfections!!!! That's how you standout in a crowd!!!❤❤

    • @nano1593
      @nano1593 Před 5 lety +2

      Isabel Balcom You can't blend in when you were born to stand out

    • @graceharrison9199
      @graceharrison9199 Před 5 lety +2

      Beauty is withing AND without is a point I think she is trying to covey. Just because you do not look like a super model on the outside does not mean that you do not have outward beauty as well. Beautifully said :)

    • @BritanyOsorto
      @BritanyOsorto Před 5 lety

      Ikr I love seeing ppl who look different , and not having the same looks bc thats boring

    • @samanthaiya
      @samanthaiya Před 5 lety

      Isabel Balcom I’m going to make this comment 1000 likes

    • @sophie-sk9zw
      @sophie-sk9zw Před 5 lety

      Isabel Balcom Is

  • @sofiaavouri
    @sofiaavouri Před 3 lety +2

    This speech will go down in history.

  • @ellabella2025
    @ellabella2025 Před 3 lety +3

    she is going to be the worlds most amazing mother. the way she speaks is so formal and mature and smart. shes so... just amazing honestly

  • @oliviavall5800
    @oliviavall5800 Před 5 lety +764

    The *world* is lucky to have her 💕💕

    • @jassu1321
      @jassu1321 Před 4 lety +2

      She jsut talks.... but does nothing.

    • @jordanjay8314
      @jordanjay8314 Před 4 lety +5

      Jassu i can tell your the kinda person to like their own comment

    • @medoingrandomthings4288
      @medoingrandomthings4288 Před 4 lety

      Olivia Sera no, we are not. She means nothing

    • @jordanjay8314
      @jordanjay8314 Před 4 lety

      Sansa Stark sis YOU mean nothing 🤣

    • @rOxene0
      @rOxene0 Před 4 lety

      @@jassu1321 wow like you did something and not just hating 😐

  • @minaschein5551
    @minaschein5551 Před 5 lety +333

    I’m speechless and actually shaking. Wow that was incredible, I respect and love her so much

  • @marshayhorne3634
    @marshayhorne3634 Před rokem +6

    This is so captivating! I’m so glad more people in the industry are coming out and expressing how toxic some of the standards are we have to conform to! It’s so vital for young women to hear these things when they are constantly surrounded by a world that refuses to accept them for who they are naturally. I’m so proud of Lili for standing up and sharing her experience!

  • @j.r.carter8265
    @j.r.carter8265 Před 3 lety +7

    Lilli is a beautiful kind hearted soul

  • @emilyirene890
    @emilyirene890 Před 5 lety +260

    these things really put what i see about my own body into perspective. i look at lili’s body and think maybe I should lose weight so i can look like her, i think she is one of the most gorgeous women ever. while watching this video i went to look up her measurements because she said something about being average when I thought she was skinny, and turns out my measurements are smaller than hers. it really shows how distorted we see our own bodies and how warped that reflection that we “see” actually is

    • @misswelrahma2264
      @misswelrahma2264 Před 5 lety +6

      Emma Swan you got this hunny!! You and your body are beautiful just the way you are 💝💝💝

  • @kaylitaylor9349
    @kaylitaylor9349 Před 5 lety +386

    IRL version of her speech at town hall in RIVERDALE
    Love you lili

    • @morgan4237
      @morgan4237 Před 4 lety +3

      Kayli Taylor Just no murderers!!! Please let’s not have that happen!!!

    • @lv3r742
      @lv3r742 Před 4 lety +3

      Before the BlAcK hOoD sTrIkEd

    • @jisooturtlerabbitkim3013
      @jisooturtlerabbitkim3013 Před 4 lety +1

      @@lv3r742 hi, blinkeu!

    • @lv3r742
      @lv3r742 Před 4 lety

      @@jisooturtlerabbitkim3013 yahooooooooooooooo!

  • @moodie7798
    @moodie7798 Před 4 lety +10

    I started crying when I saw this and how she talked about her insecurities because I related to her so much

  • @isabellaquick4193
    @isabellaquick4193 Před 4 lety +16

    I watch this every night to go to sleep because it makes me feel better about myself and also because I live Lili ♥️

  • @shl56__
    @shl56__ Před 5 lety +332

    lili and cole have the same eye smile. I love her

    • @innitparody5209
      @innitparody5209 Před 5 lety +2

      sheilla feolino Cole has nothing to do with this it’s lili who is amazing

    • @guestuser3113
      @guestuser3113 Před 5 lety +13

      @@innitparody5209 chill omg she literally said they have the same eye smile. who said she isn't amazing? she literally put "I love her," what more do you expect.

  • @hannahchurchward6203
    @hannahchurchward6203 Před 5 lety +113

    Lili is my actual queen. Not because she is an amazing actress but because she is so inspiring. So many girls and women should listen to Lili. She is so amazing and beautiful (in both ways).

  • @ivanka8859
    @ivanka8859 Před 2 lety +2

    She is absolutely gorgeous🌸

  • @Lin-bz8bp
    @Lin-bz8bp Před 4 lety +203

    By this we can conclude that "Blondes are not Dumb." Cheers.

    • @vickyschnell3199
      @vickyschnell3199 Před 3 lety +10

      Lin Harold she’s a brunette but riverdale told her to dye her hair

    • @Lin-bz8bp
      @Lin-bz8bp Před 3 lety

      @@vickyschnell3199 Oh I see!

    • @rubyyy325
      @rubyyy325 Před 3 lety +3

      Vicky Schnell no shes a blonde

    • @jkg2088
      @jkg2088 Před 3 lety +8

      Her natural hair colour is dark blonde

  • @elizabethjones5248
    @elizabethjones5248 Před 5 lety +91

    “You agent born with insecurities, the world teaches you where and what they are”
    - beautiful x

  • @josefinebrinks8995
    @josefinebrinks8995 Před 5 lety +226

    This is why she is my rolemodel

  • @oliviareiling8454
    @oliviareiling8454 Před 4 lety +38

    This is exactly how God created us to be ❤️❤️

  • @ellabella2025
    @ellabella2025 Před 4 lety +11

    shes such an underrated human being...

  • @rianah5387
    @rianah5387 Před 5 lety +182

    As someone who’s relapsing in an eating disorder, it’s so comforting to hear someone I idolize so much opening up 💗

    • @tonta3983
      @tonta3983 Před 5 lety +4

      Riana H I'm relapsing with an eating disorder too. but we're strong and we can get through this!

    • @wanrongggx
      @wanrongggx Před 5 lety +2

      Hi guys I’ve been there and i know it’s not easy but trust me when I say that it’s really worth it 💪🏻 you guys can do it! Fight the demons ❤️

    • @jaydedipaolo9866
      @jaydedipaolo9866 Před 5 lety +2

      Y’all got this! I’m rooting for y’all! ❤️

    • @johannabeanie
      @johannabeanie Před 5 lety

      yes 💓

  • @sophiemirabelle4825
    @sophiemirabelle4825 Před 5 lety +65

    sis why is she so perfect tho like listen to her she’s an amazing actress, she’s beautiful, and she’s giving this beautiful speech ilhsm

  • @charly9033
    @charly9033 Před 4 lety +10

    lili reinhart is a bless for this world 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @i3ateyeb4llz
    @i3ateyeb4llz Před 4 lety +17

    Wow. Just wow. That was the most empowering, beautiful thing I have ever seen. Thank you so much lili! I have struggled with self image issues for so long and watching this helped so immensely. I am in tears right now just based on how much I absolutely love this video. I find so much comfort within seeing you say this. I could find myself listening to you talk about stuff like this everyday. It would be so amazing if you could have your own podcast. I can see just how passionate you are about this topic and I really thank you. It feels reassuring to see that someone with such a platform can struggle with the same things as we all do. Thank you❤️

  • @hugsnotdrugsfriesbeforeguy5968

    Lili is perfect inside and out

    • @classymonkee08
      @classymonkee08 Před 5 lety +6

      We all are! :)

    • @lavendior
      @lavendior Před 5 lety +1

      @@classymonkee08 Yes, we all are :)

    • @mariaopel1874
      @mariaopel1874 Před 5 lety +10

      Emma Higgans no she isn‘t. No one is and that‘s fine:)

    • @lavendior
      @lavendior Před 5 lety +1

      @@mariaopel1874 And, yes no one's perfect, but I think she meant like a very kind and good girl. If you know what I mean.

    • @classymonkee08
      @classymonkee08 Před 5 lety

      @@mariaopel1874 Yeah, we're all perfectly imperfect is what I meant

  • @sophiecooper7841
    @sophiecooper7841 Před 5 lety +290

    I love lili reinhart.
    that's all I have to say

  • @lizzied.9262
    @lizzied.9262 Před 4 lety +6

    lili is so inspiring and that’s why i love her so much, she has such a kind soul and is so incredibly inspiring. she’s so beautiful and i love her in riverdale too. she’s just so amazing❤️❤️

  • @trinityneal6058
    @trinityneal6058 Před 4 lety +4

    literally whenever i feel insecure or just un-like myself i just watch this and it always inspires me. thank you lillie for what you have taught me. keep paving the future for women. ily 💫💛

  • @samb6684
    @samb6684 Před 5 lety +143

    It's so amazing how she uses her power to influence young girls in a positive way
    I can say soo much about this but then it would literally turn into an essay all i have to say is that Lili Reinhart is an amazing human being and there needs to be more ppl out there like her, cause some girls put each other down instead of making each other feel confident
    To anyone who reads this
    - Give someone who you don't usually compliment a nice comment
    - For those girls who bully other people, Dont, you will regret it in the future and see how stupid you were for thinking it was cool to do that. and you can actually make someone have mental issues or anxiety problems by doing that and even suicidal thoughts by something that you didn't even think would affect them that much you don't know a person's personal problems and the person that they could be when they feel more confident to be themselves this is why you should make them feel more confident instead of putting them down and you don't need to make fun of them to look good in front of your friends or to make you feel better about yourself,you don't need that and they definitely don't need it either, would you wan't anyone doing the same to you? no.so put yourselves in their shoes .
    We the younger generation can change the world by doing something small like that
    P.S Sorry bout the essay y'all

    • @starlight9447
      @starlight9447 Před 5 lety +1

      Let’s be friends 💖💖😂😂😂😂this really is something I will say try to love yourself more than hate

  • @briterry4961
    @briterry4961 Před 5 lety +142

    Omg I felt like they pulled back the curtain in the Wizard of Oz when thy showed the prompter! LOL I was wondering how she was speaking so fluently off the top of her head haha either way it was a wonderful speech!

  • @renataiveth
    @renataiveth Před 5 lety +7

    This was really inspiring, honestly she made me cry...

  • @alyshakayyy979
    @alyshakayyy979 Před 2 lety +1

    I’ve been listening too this every time im at my lowest your such an inspiration too others.

  • @livb8541
    @livb8541 Před 5 lety +135

    This speech was so moving,I have those feels about my weight.I would like to say thank you Lili Reinhart for saying this amazing speech.