"Extramarital Affairs" | Nigerian Independence Day | EP132 | The BTS Podcast ft

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  • čas přidán 5. 07. 2024
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    TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains details of abortion.
    0:00 - "9 Married Men Talk About Extramarital Affairs"
    25:17 - Intro + Rate your Week
    32:42 - Nigerian Independence Day!
    45:36 : Rate Your Week + Song of the Week
    31:35 - Dealing with Liars
    55:35 - "Surprise Baby Affair"
    1:00:32 - "I Just Found Out That My Children Aren't Mine"
    1:10:02 - FatherHood
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Komentáře • 74

  • @321330078
    @321330078 Před 9 měsíci +164

    It's always the collective "YEEEHHHH! 😲" for me 😂

  • @itsetosanerewa9222
    @itsetosanerewa9222 Před 9 měsíci +69

    Cohabiting doesn't stop cheating tbh, i have seen couples cohabit before marriage and still end up stepping out of their marriage. Sexual discipline is lacked amongst lots of people.

  • @TasheenParrishThomas
    @TasheenParrishThomas Před 9 měsíci +106

    1. This is the most wild first 5 minutes of a podcast, ever!
    2. This makes Monday mornings so much better.
    3. I love being Black!
    Much love and appreciation from the U.S.A

    • @blossom.0773
      @blossom.0773 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Like the "Endsars" 5:16 was too funny 🤣

  • @asimwesamantha1976
    @asimwesamantha1976 Před 9 měsíci +161

    You guys should do an episode of reading boy and girl math😂❤

  • @ayomidedareabel5525
    @ayomidedareabel5525 Před 9 měsíci +26

    Men don't understand it's quite easier for girls not to fall under pressure unlike guys. My friend are the types talk and be flirty with guys and all but I'm not and that is how I am. I think one thing I realized about guys growing up is that one they do not have a mind of their own. Anything the are doing it's to impress their friends even though they feel uncomfortable doing it. 2 they have very shallow friendships with their friends and they cannot open up and be vulnerable that is why they put being in a relationship on a pedestal so much because that is their only outlet to be vulnerable and be taken care of

  • @jadaw7819
    @jadaw7819 Před 9 měsíci +18

    10 mins in and laughing out loud at work😂😂

  • @daveella9880
    @daveella9880 Před 9 měsíci +14

    Beatrice and killing me with her laughter 😂😂😂😂

  • @gastllyxo
    @gastllyxo Před 9 měsíci +13

    God that energy y’all 😭 these boys wild. Love u guys

  • @joshuamaxey3288
    @joshuamaxey3288 Před 9 měsíci +18

    We need a live podcast in the US

  • @wanahsims
    @wanahsims Před 9 měsíci +23

    cheating in marriage has lowkey always been accepted because it BEEN happening (talk to your elders). The thing is we’re now starting to talk about it so it’s become more evident that it happens a lot more than some of us think. 13:53

  • @amberriyaz3026
    @amberriyaz3026 Před 9 měsíci +7

    Loved this! The dilemmas CHILEEE😅😂 but especially the mom and dad closeness at the ending! Time spent is soo important and what you remember the most when you grow up ❤ it’s actually been proven most children remember activities/doing stuff more then gifts they’ve received 🙏🏽❤️

  • @natalyathompson774
    @natalyathompson774 Před 9 měsíci +17

    Guys are influenced by their guys. Women are influenced by their own minds.

  • @natalyathompson774
    @natalyathompson774 Před 9 měsíci +23

    What's funny is.. we are not having kids sooner than our moms and grandmothers... we are having kids later actually. They were having kids at 14 and 15

    • @gracethompson6926
      @gracethompson6926 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Average age used to be 18-21. That was normal. Now it’s like 32-35!

    • @natalyathompson774
      @natalyathompson774 Před 7 měsíci

      @gracethompson6926 yes. Average depending on where in the world you lived. But still. Very correct.

  • @all_things_busishozi1721
    @all_things_busishozi1721 Před 9 měsíci +8

    I’m here to say I love Sharon with my whole heart 😂😂❤❤❤❤❤she’s so beautiful 😻

  • @ThingsbyAnthea
    @ThingsbyAnthea Před 9 měsíci +9

    6:34 Sharon’s laughhhhhhh 😂😂😂

  • @onlykba
    @onlykba Před 9 měsíci +7

    This was a funny, good epsiode - my two favourite podcasts 💘

  • @daniellebeaton4552
    @daniellebeaton4552 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Living together before getting married, I get it. But I don’t want to end up getting married in 10 years cuz you’re comfortable now and I’m basically already a wife. If you’re already engaged that’s different

  • @Tee_kayy
    @Tee_kayy Před 9 měsíci +4

    Nah the reactions 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Sharon and Beatrice 😭😭😭 the way he was reading it sef 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ayomidedareabel5525
    @ayomidedareabel5525 Před 9 měsíci +13

    1:02:51 why can't you just leave 😭😭these men will do everything but leave. It's not a good look. They are just eating their cake and having it

    • @Notbuyinganyofit
      @Notbuyinganyofit Před 9 měsíci

      Don’t worry. That’s changing with this generation. Man dem marrying less, leaving responses for less, or not getting in them at all.

  • @darleneaustin403
    @darleneaustin403 Před 9 měsíci

    Such a great episode ❤

  • @chrissybear4lyfe
    @chrissybear4lyfe Před 9 měsíci +1

    Yesss Antigua! Didn’t expect to hear that

  • @alissandreeugene3321
    @alissandreeugene3321 Před 9 měsíci +10

    1:10:57 how do you think the woman feels? The girl does not have that option. It is crazy how the man has the option to say “Hey I don’t want to be in this situation, I want my freedom” and no judgement will be passed but imagine if the woman did the same thing.

    • @alissandreeugene3321
      @alissandreeugene3321 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Honestly this podcast was a great one. Good conversation and an enlightening one. The guests were great. Having their input as well just provided another aspect to everything. I honestly enjoyed it. 😊

    • @Adaeze-
      @Adaeze- Před 9 měsíci +1

      Honestly that part made my blood boillllll. Men forever running away from humans they created. So selfish! Really appreciated that the other guy who's a dad listed thing he does to challenge him and break the mould

    • @drdaviddasilva
      @drdaviddasilva Před 9 měsíci

      27:59 😊😊

  • @gracethompson6926
    @gracethompson6926 Před 8 měsíci

    5 mins in and it’s wild 😂😂😂 love this podcast

  • @user-rq4wt2ot1p
    @user-rq4wt2ot1p Před 9 měsíci +2

    Yall are funny affff😂

  • @ohhmyyken
    @ohhmyyken Před 9 měsíci +3

    “Can we stop.” 😂😂

  • @user-nm6uj9gx4t
    @user-nm6uj9gx4t Před 9 měsíci +7

    Happy Independence🟩⬜🟩

  • @queens261
    @queens261 Před 9 měsíci

    I am Crying real tears!!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ihuomaeze
    @ihuomaeze Před 9 měsíci

    I love it here😂😂

  • @maxinealore4812
    @maxinealore4812 Před 9 měsíci

    “Hold onto this message” hahahahahaha

  • @wywy4803
    @wywy4803 Před 9 měsíci +9

    My dad had the sex talk with me and also bought condoms lmao mom on the other hand its like me, and my siblings all 4 of us came here through osmosis

    • @c1nder
      @c1nder Před 7 měsíci +1

      OSMOSIS😂😂☹️

  • @DL-go7xj
    @DL-go7xj Před 8 měsíci

    These guys saying “can’t” is killing me. The accent is too much 😂

  • @toluwani10
    @toluwani10 Před 9 měsíci +1

    amala is made of yam, you're correct. It is made of yam, cassava flour, or unripe plantain flour

  • @briannawatkins2981
    @briannawatkins2981 Před 9 měsíci +10

    Sharon said “y’all can’t go sight seeing?” 😂😂😂😂 NO SHARON THEY CANT!! Jk jk

  • @Hoilboys
    @Hoilboys Před 9 měsíci +2

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @daveella9880
    @daveella9880 Před 9 měsíci

    The guys killed me too😂😂😂😂

  • @twosistershappysisters5465
    @twosistershappysisters5465 Před 9 měsíci

    Where do y'all be getting theses dilemmas from

  • @bibifrancis758
    @bibifrancis758 Před 9 měsíci

    Don’t eye if you’re sly😂😂😂😂

  • @christalmiller2335
    @christalmiller2335 Před 9 měsíci

    Safe what 😂😂😂

  • @RobynGipson
    @RobynGipson Před 9 měsíci +1

    14 is crazy!!!! Dating does not equal sex!

  • @mizancrossfield4678
    @mizancrossfield4678 Před 7 měsíci

    Mannn yall need to figure out word problems😂😂😂😂

  • @Natalia-ns7jf
    @Natalia-ns7jf Před 7 měsíci

    The dilemma! Honestly, unless you are prepared to potentially do it alone, an abortion is your only option. Keeping the baby, is you taking responsibility to do it alone. Can't complain about him not being present or paying money.
    Make your decision wisely.

  • @magnoliah6476
    @magnoliah6476 Před 9 měsíci +1

    22:00 I’m sorry man we aren’t kids just because people are talking to men doesn’t mean I have to I’m sorry it sounds like a lack of mental strength

  • @ayomidedareabel5525
    @ayomidedareabel5525 Před 9 měsíci +3

    I guess we know why men aren't doing well in school these days. But that's something I already observed as a college student

  • @bryansl0587
    @bryansl0587 Před 9 měsíci

    Yes she had 2 kids on him, but having the university ex during the marriage is unfair to the university ex. Respect her enough to be divorced before getting involved, or was he not planning to leave??

  • @kylaehiarinmwian
    @kylaehiarinmwian Před 9 měsíci +1

    This guy really does remind me of tyrique tho

    • @Hoilboys
      @Hoilboys Před 9 měsíci +1

      How lol

    • @c1nder
      @c1nder Před 7 měsíci

      @@Hoilboyshis voice for sure

  • @magnoliah6476
    @magnoliah6476 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Yeah I hate the way that most men just don’t have their own mind I’ve only ever liked the men that don’t care about cool it’s just pathetic to me

  • @DhiyaSingh-co5ed
    @DhiyaSingh-co5ed Před 9 měsíci +1

    What episode if the friend stealing AirPods?

  • @liathames1541
    @liathames1541 Před 8 měsíci

    Nah, ya gotta separate and/or divorce before moving on. 2 wrongs don’t make a right.

  • @alissandreeugene3321
    @alissandreeugene3321 Před 9 měsíci +3

    1:05:45 just leave at that point.

  • @WestCoastStefi
    @WestCoastStefi Před 4 měsíci

    Nahhhhhh he brought it full circle with HE WAS CHEATING WITH A MARRIED WOMAN ☕️

  • @karlagonzalvez4703
    @karlagonzalvez4703 Před 3 měsíci

    That guy saying 90 percent of the time the kids are closer to the mom is because the man has more responsibility I so delusional. It's because more often than not the mom is the ONE BEING A PARENT. Boy bye. There's countless videos of fathers not knowing basic things related to the children. It's your duty to have a bond with your child. Every woman pretty much out here working a job or two and cleaning and cooking and knowing so much about them while having a connection. Its not about rhe responsibilities upon the fathers it's about the FATHERS EFFORTS, WANTING TO BE A PARENT.

  • @raphaeltaylor4956
    @raphaeltaylor4956 Před 9 měsíci

    Hope y’all leave how milf and honey did 😳

  • @RetiredOne313
    @RetiredOne313 Před 7 měsíci

    Nice podcast but tooooooooooooooooo much shouting from the ladies!!🤦‍♂🤦‍♂ learn to give the guests some time to speak without cutting them off and the noise!!!! yo!

  • @TheFuckYou214
    @TheFuckYou214 Před 9 měsíci +1

    What podcast are the guys from?

    • @Hoilboys
      @Hoilboys Před 9 měsíci +1

      Hoilboys Podcast

  • @kishorewalsh9031
    @kishorewalsh9031 Před 7 měsíci

    Antigua