These 9 People Don't Deserve Your Trust and Respect (Stoicism)

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  • čas přidán 9. 09. 2024

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  • @stoicmindguy
    @stoicmindguy  Před 7 měsíci +32

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  • @lindsey1044
    @lindsey1044 Před 7 měsíci +79

    Every single "friend" I had. I am so very happy in my own company and always have been. Dealing with people in this world is very draining to me. I absolutely love and adore animals though, and have several. They are my true best friends!

    • @anonymousbyname1121
      @anonymousbyname1121 Před 7 měsíci +9

      Me too!! I’ve had my jewellery stolen from a so called friend, had a friend flirt with my boyfriend in my face, then another behind my back not to mention the competitiveness, jealousy, back stabbing spreading untrue rumours, I’m done. My fur children are my best friends and best loving companions ever!! They offer unconditional love and commitment that most humans not only don’t offer but can’t even comprehend.

    • @ILOVEGOD806
      @ILOVEGOD806 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Well said❤ im with u in this

    • @madelinebigio7565
      @madelinebigio7565 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I know a few young guys who tried this on me to tried to manipulate me ! ❤❤❤

    • @marthabunting2833
      @marthabunting2833 Před 7 měsíci +2

      You are an empath read the empath’s survival guide.

    • @josephrego2527
      @josephrego2527 Před 7 měsíci +3

      There are few real friends...those willing to share as much as they take. Most people are looking to stroke their ego at the expense of others. The older we get, the more we recognize this. Thankfully, there are rewards, we learn to love, respect and grow as human beings. We learn to be our own best friends.

  • @henriettasaldanha2178
    @henriettasaldanha2178 Před 7 měsíci +37

    Makes sense.. to distance away from toxic people.. but hard if the person is a relative😢❤

    • @josephrego2527
      @josephrego2527 Před 7 měsíci +3

      It's hard but not impossible. You simply distance yourself from them as much as possible. The "new relationship" may be superficial, but it's always been. You just didn't realize it. You were too busy always placating them.

    • @Hithere2002
      @Hithere2002 Před 7 měsíci

      Why…..just stay away, do no contact, don’t engage.

    • @hf..7271
      @hf..7271 Před 7 měsíci

      Henrietta I’ve feel you it’s hard and heavier feeling when it’s your relative that done this to you I’m on the same boat as you are. I’ll always forgive their mistake or their bad intent but they keep doing over and over then they complaint why I stop my commitment with them and say that I love God ?? My respond is love don’t hurt others and don’t abuse people emotions over and over. Since I’m ocean apart and still do offers services to others strangers and they are grateful for simple things that’s I’ve done to them. I’m a happy human being by living the standard of stoic lifestyle . Amen 🙏 ❤

    • @Mo39631
      @Mo39631 Před 7 měsíci

      You can do it; I have made it, trust me :)

    • @scribemanjustice2028
      @scribemanjustice2028 Před 7 měsíci

      My father is too toxic

  • @gigit1111
    @gigit1111 Před 7 měsíci +26

    I'm beginning to feel like I need to wipe the smile off my face and stop being kind so as not to be perceived as a fake human.The truth is there are people who have survived many battles and avoided death so we've learned to be grateful and smile to bring joy and light in this compassionless apathetic World.

    • @karlmiller4061
      @karlmiller4061 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Well my friend. I'm not very well read. But wisdom!? Yes. People are like computers, the hard drive is the same but the software is different none are the same. And I've noticed the more advanced technology gets ,human nature seems to be going backwards. People are losing their instinct ( spirit). If you have noticed , tell people you trust them, they walk all over you. Tell them you don't trust them, and they will do what they can to earn your trust.

  • @robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939
    @robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 Před 7 měsíci +109

    The narrator’s voice is GOLDEN!!!!

  • @Ann-hm7gj
    @Ann-hm7gj Před 7 měsíci +11

    It's to the point where you can't show your personality, you can't show anything not even your daily routine.
    You can't show your happiness you can't show pretty much signs of life it's always an offense.
    No being human isn't the reality.
    It's like walking around with a poker face that's the only way of survival.

  • @Ruck9081
    @Ruck9081 Před 7 měsíci +13

    This by far the most illuminating for me. I am truly free. I am now emotionally armed, emotionally mature to face existential challenges.

  • @lilray7210
    @lilray7210 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I was always taught as a child that respect is earned, not given. If a person doesn't respect me, then I don't respect them. Simple 💯

  • @elizabethandiosa4579
    @elizabethandiosa4579 Před 7 měsíci +12

    Such awesome information and such an effective strategy. I certsinly have learned the hard way that walking is healthy and silence is golden and distance lends a new perspective.

  • @mysticalMELODY
    @mysticalMELODY Před 7 měsíci +12

    I love your videos so much!! Every one of them hits exactly where it needs to hit in my experience.
    I share them all the time and have so much love and gratitude for your work. 🙏🏽

  • @juliemiller4461
    @juliemiller4461 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Bang on accurate and true……happily for me I came to this realization 5 years ago and gave all users, manipulators and narcissistic family members and friends the gift of PERMANENT GOODBYE. I have not looked back nor regret my decision…..I’m happiest today and so much more mentally and emotionally and spiritually stable. You all can do it to…..choose you….lover yourself the most and best

  • @user-vy8km9xl2g
    @user-vy8km9xl2g Před 7 měsíci +10

    EXCELLENT ANALYSIS AND VERY USEFUL.🎉❤

  • @Gfy187
    @Gfy187 Před 7 měsíci +6

    They rarely take responsibility for themselves.

  • @MichaelAlbrecht-d7z
    @MichaelAlbrecht-d7z Před 7 měsíci +6

    Yes I now keep to my self more and more so.I have been used and cheated upon in areas around recovery and I am just so tired of it. I won't be going back there.

  • @LuvOfLalaland
    @LuvOfLalaland Před 7 měsíci +1

    Emotional distance is what I learned from this episode.
    This has explained what has been going on from my past 10 years of life experiences that the people I've been so struggling on getting away from one by one. I've just gained the assertiveness for the basics of self protection level. More importantly mirroring myself from becomes someone I don't like. Thank you so much ❤

  • @ILOVEGOD806
    @ILOVEGOD806 Před 7 měsíci +6

    I wanna thank personally to the team/author of this wonderful video and channel! U saved me therapy sessions, and your videos help me to overcome & beat an emotional breakdown from someone i considered a soul mate...your videos are a real authentic tool giving to beat depression/ emotional breakdown/upheaval as a result of interacting with the type of people uv'e mentioned in this video...please do continue to be creative and make more quality videos like that...❤🎉😊

  • @shirleykilbride4555
    @shirleykilbride4555 Před 7 měsíci +2

    The most valuable lesson ive leared is acknowledging my own part in the drama of i in a toxic relationship .Ive walked away ..feeling compassion for the other as i no they are damaged and im on my healing journey ..realised i still got more work to do on my own healing so i dont let such people into my life again ..namestee...

  • @barbarabutler9203
    @barbarabutler9203 Před 7 měsíci +9

    Thank you for this video. It is very essential for me to strengthen and maintain my wellbeing. Being silent is powerful attribute, also recognizing and confronting a toxic attitude can bring balance to the relationship by distancing self.

  • @rokiahrahman5654
    @rokiahrahman5654 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Great insight. Opportunity given to look into oneself if u possess any of the 9 characteristics.

  • @shanhans3945
    @shanhans3945 Před 4 měsíci

    Now, I am approaching the age of 66. I was living in darkness whole my life, before I am now enlightened by stoicism, by you. Late better than never😢
    Thank you

  • @maryryan
    @maryryan Před 7 měsíci +8

    Excellent 🌹 👌 🙏🏻
    Absolutely brilliant 👏
    Thank you for these words of wisdom....👍🏻

  • @sycamoreknox9419
    @sycamoreknox9419 Před 7 měsíci +5

    When this is played at 1.75 speed I can absorb it's genius advise.

  • @jennifersullivan1914
    @jennifersullivan1914 Před 7 měsíci +7

    I have learned so much from all of your videos. I've been waiting for this for so many years. Thank you!!! ❤

  • @sunny_dhende6289
    @sunny_dhende6289 Před 6 měsíci

    Wow! My eyes are wide open! I really needed this education today, and boy, did I get the assignment. I'm dealing with a person, with narcissist tendencies. This video confirms everything I was feeling about this person. I will definitely be more cautious in everything I do n say around him! My well-being will come before any man. In fact, today, I will start distancing myself from him and his texts. Im so greatful for this video and all the others I'm about to embrark on. Thank you, Stoic Mind, for your intellect and putting things in perspective!!🤗🥰

  • @brendasmith9180
    @brendasmith9180 Před 7 měsíci +7

    I definitely know a person who displays characteristics of #3 and she calls me her bff yet she talks about everybody to everybody

  • @anniegeorgep1569
    @anniegeorgep1569 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Interesting and useful messages to guard ourselves. Thankyou 🙏👍♥️

  • @gerarddancer3832
    @gerarddancer3832 Před 7 měsíci +7

    I love this.chanel.keep coming. Withh those lessons of timeless wisdom. Beautiful.

  • @rosebrazil3241
    @rosebrazil3241 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Just Absolutely Truth!💯💯💕

  • @glorykale9818
    @glorykale9818 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Oh man !! 😢 I see many like this in my community. In my family too. 3:21

  • @ramimogotsi6347
    @ramimogotsi6347 Před 7 měsíci +5

    This is such an insightful information and wow what an eye opening perspective of acknowledging the difference in relations with fellow humans.couldnt have been presented differently i love this

  • @Gfy187
    @Gfy187 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Praise God for everything.

  • @themindsetandattitudeofatr7835
    @themindsetandattitudeofatr7835 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Wisdom well spoken!

  • @krishnamurthymarella1902
    @krishnamurthymarella1902 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Wonderful insights thank you!

  • @user-st8jm1xs1p
    @user-st8jm1xs1p Před 7 měsíci +3

    Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you, we are what we repeatedly do. Failure is the opportunity to begin more intelligently, mistakes are proof that you are trying 😢 /some tips emotional breakthrough/👏, God bless the author of this video 🙌🏽 trying to learn more 😊

  • @lillianlogan3141
    @lillianlogan3141 Před 7 měsíci +6

    I have identified 2 of these people in my circle

  • @snezanatomic4391
    @snezanatomic4391 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Thank you very much❤

  • @SleepyNarwhal-mj3fj
    @SleepyNarwhal-mj3fj Před 7 měsíci +1

    I used to be a people pleasure - now im
    A God Pleaser.... Help me HAVE HEALTHY BOUNDARIES

  • @otiliahugelschaffer1028
    @otiliahugelschaffer1028 Před 7 měsíci +8

    I wonder if my friends think I am one those personality 😮

  • @ghostwitthamost71
    @ghostwitthamost71 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Every word has sparked me to become greater. Amen. Thanks guys I'm Angel. The Sorcerer Ghost

  • @lolitaoxendine7184
    @lolitaoxendine7184 Před 7 měsíci +2

    These things are so beautiful true And express through your voice I love it

  • @LittleIslandgirlFrGuam
    @LittleIslandgirlFrGuam Před 7 měsíci +5

    OMG I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS!° indeed help..😢

  • @LittleIslandgirlFrGuam
    @LittleIslandgirlFrGuam Před 7 měsíci +7

    Holly hell I needed this so bad ❤❤❤❤❤❤😅😅

  • @shawndalittle1074
    @shawndalittle1074 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I truly got some understanding of myself and others from this video.

  • @madananoel5869
    @madananoel5869 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Beautiful voice❤ WELL DONE!

  • @deekromie396
    @deekromie396 Před 7 měsíci +15

    Sadly u can't trust anyone anymore, when ur whole betrays u just cuz they can't or won't stand up to the bullies of the family, I have No Respect for them!!

    • @angelastearns3837
      @angelastearns3837 Před 7 měsíci +3

      I agree! Trust no one. We put our faith in Jesus, not man!!!! God bless you. ❤

    • @coupecruiser
      @coupecruiser Před 7 měsíci

      @@angelastearns3837 so are you telling me that a 93-year-old person who has served all her life faultlessly in the church then get served with a slow death, starting with dementia and then a stroke? Why should we trust in God?

    • @ednasierzant3682
      @ednasierzant3682 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Don't rule your life with distrust I had the family from hell cruelity abuse for away made a life cut them off good people out here take your ti.e and look don't judge clean your mi d move on ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @manjumalhotramalhotra1023
    @manjumalhotramalhotra1023 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Thanx..for helping to derstand the people around urself.

  • @johnferreira6738
    @johnferreira6738 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thank you for all this information.. I am going thru a toxic relationship because she's surrounded by toxic people, and beeleaves everything toxic people tell her...

  • @user-ez5bq6zb7s
    @user-ez5bq6zb7s Před 7 měsíci +2

    Thank you for your wonderful analysis, and very relatable to many lve encountered through my life , you narrated beautifully

  • @ztet3205
    @ztet3205 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Amen!, I believe and trust, I like and love, well verse, well shared and truth, so do it, thank God, we trust thy true info and messages, we understood well, we trust and love thy meaning striking words, lord, we believe, love and trust in you, amen thanks for sharing, let's be fair and love one another, says the lord, lord we understand much of thee, we love and like thee lord, yes lord, you are the truth, the way and the life, amen, we love and trust in you, amen 💙💚❤️💕🤗🙏🙏🙏🌹🌷🥀🙏

  • @stoicgoing101
    @stoicgoing101 Před 2 měsíci

    "The best revenge is not to be like your enemy." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @AdvancedMachinesUs
    @AdvancedMachinesUs Před 7 měsíci +5

    "The soul becomes dyed with the colour of it's thoughts"_Marcus Aurelius

  • @lakshimil3933
    @lakshimil3933 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Very beautiful video I am glad still I have to change myself with the wisdom I just gained in this discourse and undo my mistakes and try my make more peaceful reflecting on this golden voice which is soothing and helps to live a better life and realize bliss within
    Thank you am indebted ❤🙏🙏🙏

    • @lakshimil3933
      @lakshimil3933 Před 7 měsíci

      Humbled I thank you and seek blessings

  • @dahliaeharvey4521
    @dahliaeharvey4521 Před 7 měsíci

    Thanking the author for this audio video in CZcams as I truly value every minute of each line each words speaks louder to my heart and soul.❤

  • @sandlamaseko
    @sandlamaseko Před 7 měsíci +3

    I like the element of humor, particularly on character 3. 😅❤❤

  • @thephoenix2176
    @thephoenix2176 Před 7 měsíci

    Amen! I run, and every chance I get when, I feel the energy vibers!

  • @fernandoparaiso-oy9ct
    @fernandoparaiso-oy9ct Před 7 měsíci +1

    i take down note amd i thank God about this it make me aware whom to be friend for

  • @markescarcega9579
    @markescarcega9579 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thank you so verymuch! God bless and keep you always, I pray. Aman
    ❤️☝️🙏🙇‍♂️😊😇👍❤️

  • @keulashilla9780
    @keulashilla9780 Před 7 měsíci +1

    The best arrangement and choice of words. Listen to the narrative you feel like commucating with an outer space human calling you to join the club of intelligent brains.

  • @violethayles4358
    @violethayles4358 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Thanks very much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @krishnamurthymarella1902
    @krishnamurthymarella1902 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Thanks

  • @NegarRiahi
    @NegarRiahi Před 7 měsíci +3

    Never trust anybody

  • @dianacovarrubias9764
    @dianacovarrubias9764 Před 7 měsíci

    Gem after gem thank you ❤ 🙏

  • @user-xu8gk2fu9w
    @user-xu8gk2fu9w Před 7 měsíci +1

    What can I say
    Wow!Wow!!

  • @Koyasi78
    @Koyasi78 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Character 6 sounds like social media itself.

  • @markescarcega9579
    @markescarcega9579 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I will share this video, that is Nota problem, it's a blessing!
    Aman

  • @karrenofarc
    @karrenofarc Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thoroughly enjoying these age old truths. ❤

  • @minervalanuza6207
    @minervalanuza6207 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you very much for sharing your wisdom with us who long to change our lives for the better. God bless you .

  • @fredanturibi9540
    @fredanturibi9540 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Very revealing. Learning about relationships thanks

  • @madelinebigio7565
    @madelinebigio7565 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Wow the narcissist is like this toxic behavior! 😮😮😮😮❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jamesbrucemaner7154
    @jamesbrucemaner7154 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Yes I am experiencing this issue it's strange you don't know whom people really are.

  • @PamClarke-xq3mb
    @PamClarke-xq3mb Před 7 měsíci +1

    Truely said thank you it leave me thinking

  • @RiverRaii-ii1dq
    @RiverRaii-ii1dq Před 7 měsíci +2

    That was awesome. But unfortunately, I'm displaying the characteristics of 7, except I don't broadcast all my problems , and try not to burden anyone with then, but still,jn want to change but need help

  • @dorcasolaer5786
    @dorcasolaer5786 Před 7 měsíci

    I learned my lessons in life,and these are all true,Thanks God Im happy to where and whom I'm with,used this formula,keep your distance.♥️

  • @user-is1jv7gf7e
    @user-is1jv7gf7e Před 7 měsíci +1

    This is a must see valuable source of knowledge

  • @Benjamin9563
    @Benjamin9563 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I really appreciate this video

  • @vinodkumar-bp3pf
    @vinodkumar-bp3pf Před 7 měsíci +4

    Great picture ❤

  • @fannyreisman5962
    @fannyreisman5962 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Thanks,👍

  • @TrueStoicWisdomAcademy
    @TrueStoicWisdomAcademy Před 3 měsíci

    This is a fantastic breakdown of personality types that can challenge our trust! The idea of the "perpetual critic" hiding behind a facade of advice particularly resonated with me.
    One thing I'd love to hear more about is how to navigate these situations without completely withdrawing from social interaction. Are there specific ways to communicate boundaries or tactics for disengaging from negativity in a healthy way?
    Also, are there any tell-tale signs to watch out for that might indicate someone is a "master of duplicity" early on in a relationship?
    Overall, this video is a great reminder to be mindful of the people around us. Thanks for sharing!

  • @fatalitydnb
    @fatalitydnb Před 7 měsíci

    This channel is great. Informative and also confirming things I have long suspected and discovered myself. Thanks 🙌🏼

  • @dipamosala7606
    @dipamosala7606 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Powerful and very inspiring 💪❤

  • @Meta-hybrid
    @Meta-hybrid Před 7 měsíci +3

    Thank you.

  • @MrLoreto99
    @MrLoreto99 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thank you 💯🇸🇧

  • @LittleIslandgirlFrGuam
    @LittleIslandgirlFrGuam Před 7 měsíci +3

    The best!!!!!

  • @fredericayapwantha6121
    @fredericayapwantha6121 Před 7 měsíci

    Extremely useful information. It should be insightful to relate these physical gems to spiritual truths 🙏

  • @mirandagaga9221
    @mirandagaga9221 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Thank you ❤

  • @shamnarinepersaud1942
    @shamnarinepersaud1942 Před 5 měsíci

    So true Thanks

  • @stanleyhall1804
    @stanleyhall1804 Před 7 měsíci

    ❤thank you..its a real perspective un my life..continue im listening..

  • @user-ce3tv5mp8c
    @user-ce3tv5mp8c Před 7 měsíci

    Very helpful and educational

  • @Ann-hm7gj
    @Ann-hm7gj Před 7 měsíci +2

    If you cough or sneeze it's on offense.
    If they hear a water bottle rattling it's a problem.
    It's completely dead The mentality.

  • @katamsanjeevaiah7778
    @katamsanjeevaiah7778 Před 7 měsíci

    Excellent audio and video

  • @madelinebigio7565
    @madelinebigio7565 Před 7 měsíci

    Yessss this happened to me too with a lady that has a lot of problems and she be looking at her phone or disrupting information ℹ️

  • @elenbayaua6683
    @elenbayaua6683 Před 7 měsíci

    Learning fr. Soic minds make me play psycology to others' minds n attitudes. Thank you

  • @kathybochicchio1411
    @kathybochicchio1411 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Than you ❤

  • @karlmiller4061
    @karlmiller4061 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Amazing. Truth.

  • @nayanmdesai
    @nayanmdesai Před 7 měsíci +2

    CORRECT.

  • @dahliaeharvey4521
    @dahliaeharvey4521 Před 7 měsíci

    I truly enjoy this video. Thank you so much and I ordered the book now. I also subscribed and downloaded some of your videos. Well done.

  • @johnkafwembe8748
    @johnkafwembe8748 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Very wonderful

  • @LisaYork-tu8og
    @LisaYork-tu8og Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thanks!

  • @cassandra2685
    @cassandra2685 Před 7 měsíci +1

    The word “clown “ should be used more often
    Say it to someone’s you don’t want around you and watch them be all confused 😂

  • @anthonyconyer7158
    @anthonyconyer7158 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Enlightening