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Maybe lose the background music/ sound effects. Distracting. Makes you seem like a lightweight.

I have all of these but I still feel like it’s just me being selfish about it😭 they are also online friends so it’s a bit different but I really wanna stop being their friend

This is really helpful, I needed to hear this today! Great video! Sometimes it’s not a dramatic or toxic reason, sometimes you just change and grow apart from old friends. I don’t ghost, but some people just drift away and that’s okay. Others grow with you. No guilt for letting go!!💕💕💕💕

Hi there! I've just discovered your channel! I would love to be friends and connect! You are so easy to listen to and just love your videos! <3

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This video confirms what I’ve been going through and my choice to end a friendship of over 10 years. We are definitely not on the same page nor should we be. My new found boundaries helped me come to this conclusion. Hasn’t been easy and most definitely mourned our friendship. I’m happier and won’t be trying to return to what I wish we had.

There are a couple people that I trust looking through all my stuff. Other than that, it's no one's business. I'm over unreliable friendships. If you resent someone needing you to get them anything during a crisis, or an emergency, you aren't a real friend.

My friendship with larissa i got hurt i need help

Randomly found your channel. Absolutely love this!! My dream trip is to visit Japan ❤

Also you are who you hang out with . So if you have a friend who hangs out with drunks druggies and other people who get in trouble. I realized I outgrew a friendship as we have nothing in common. She talks about the past . She married a guy who is a druggie and drinks a lot. And now most of her friends are like that. After my divorce I worked a lot I made my goal to make my money and retire. This girl never was there for me. I have my girlfriends from work we all worked hard I’m a different person and I realized I outgrew her. And it’s ok to let people go. .

Was left out of a group event that hurt my feelings. I didn't say anything, but it is making me realize we have outgrown the friendship and the group has become toxic

It's all so relative. I've recently lost someone to cancer and I feel like I am not even allowed to be disappointed about my friends not showing up, because suddenly I'm the "negative dragger" that no one needs in their life, I'm overwhelmed and can't give anything and my communication skills are really less than what I know them to be. I don't have the capacity to reach out to someone who doesn't show initiative. So I am to blame? Of course I can shift my attention to other people. But is it wrong to expect something of a friend of 10 or 30 years? I feel like if someone is only there for good times that's just an acquaintance and not a friend.

I’m so glad I found this!!!! Needed to hear every single point here. Friendship grief is just rough especially as you get older :( Thanks for your honest thoughts!!

What a nice a video!! I realate a lot w 7th one. They'll always make fun of high ambition or success, always focus on what's going wrong, a total pity party, always gossiping about celebrities, what's viral etc. I feel so drained ! Loved your video , love you ❤

Hmm this is great advice. Thanks for posting this😊. I’ve had this experience before with a teammate of mine after leaving the sport we were both in together. It just got harder to share common interests or find things to talk about after that no longer being in the same sport together. But I guess from what you said about if you’re not losing friends, you’re not growing up is true. Losing friends I guess is just part of life.

I'm so tired of being the only one who listens to my friends problems. I love to listen but no one ever lets me talk. Fuck that. I'd rather be alone then drain my energy that fast.

2:53 Coco's!!!!

I hope you enjoyed your stay and have fun New subscriber here Watching from Jeddah KSA sending support without skipping ads

Another good classic video from you Katlin.

Another Konbini run?!

this is such an amazing video. i enjoyed it so much

11:14 A melon... WHAT

this is such an amazing video. i enjoyed it so much

this is such an amazing video. i enjoyed it so much

Great good part 2 video in Japan. Kaitlin I love the picture quality and sound quality of the video. Shibuya is so packed with lots of people. Glad you both enjoyed Disneyland in Japan.

I just came back from japan as well but ur video makes me miss it even more!

I know this is off topic, but I love those earrings!😍

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Kaitlin I'm so happy that you are doing a Japan series. This was a excellent new video as well. Kaitlin you all should go to the Godzilla Hotel in Tokyo.

I know we feel this way at times, but I think it would be kinda crappy to toss a friend out that was with you during tough times.

Nicole and I just finished watching and it was such a treat to be able to relive the moments! You did an amazing job capturing your trip and can’t wait to see Japan! Let’s do another trip soon!

I'm so glad to see you back on CZcams. I missed seeing your beautiful face on youtube. This is a beautiful new Philippines video. Hope you remember me.

this is such an amazing video. i enjoyed it so much

Thanks for sharing this awesome recap! You guys looked like you had a lot of fun!!

Congratulations kait! Happy to see you posting 😊

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The 3rd sign is spot on. Would you be friends with them if you met them today? That's the only question we need to ask ourselves.

I so needed this! Are you accepting new clients?

Apparently a certain friend needed me to stay miserable at my job, continue self medicating with alcohol and not work out because as soon as I chased a professional dream got sober and became fit it messed with our friendship. Bro no one put a gun to your head and made you settle for a job spending all your free time on escapism✌

I recently had a "movie montage" moment and saw a friendship filled with moments of being used. Yeah peace out. 22 years down the drain but that's okay. Btw they still owe me $475 🤷‍♂

Thank you nice vidéo....maybe u could share tips to forgive s.o

This is such a beautiful new video of you on your trip to New York City. I'm so happy to see your beautiful face back on CZcams uploading videos. I always show you love respect and support my friend.

Hello dear friend Kaitlin 😊 Amazing amazing video sharing ❤️📷 Really enjoyed watching Thanks for sharing this with us giving another a big Big like thumbs up 👍👍👍👍 See you again take care GOD bless 🙏🙏🙏🕊️

I definitely stand by The Negativity part. It's always so exhausting having to be there for a friend who never sees the goodside of anything and just drains your Energy all the time making you as their journal and putting all their stress on you.

Love this 💗

Long time no upload How have you been doing? We as subscribers missed you.

This was scarily accurate. I’ve had a best friend for nearly a decade, and we’ve been there for each other when nobody else was. But now, I think the friendship has run its course.

I became quite distracted by your happiness when sharing this, since it's a pretty serious topic yet I appreciate that you touch on this topic

Global issue? Tf do you mean, we need wayyy more Asian hate in the world.

If you think gender can change then you're an enabler.