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You mean generation narcissist.

58% of tiktok users wish it didn't exist. There is a REALLY simply solution. Stop using it and delete the app. I have never used TikTok never watched a TikTok.

And this is being posted on as shortform content

Name the guy, @juliasamuels.

I feel for you Charles 😥 I too was sexually abused at 3 and a half and was assaulted at just turning 14. It has affected my relationships I find it hard to trust and I seemed to attract relationships that were fleeting. I guess this suited my fear of commitment despite wanting a genuine partner. You inspire me. Thankyou 🙏🙏🙏

I think smart phone free schools and not having a smart phone or a social media account until 14 or so but I also think that for some young people access to social media is essential for their mental health but I guess having better access to mental health services or support might be part of it;its difficult as I think for some young people who feel so at odds with their immediate social environment or a lack of peer support or a tribe need to find that online sometimes..like lgbtq or others who simply do not fit in easily to their social milieu. I would love to see how this plays out in schools and what effects can be measured of these provisos are picked up by school,the fact that schools allow phones at school is rediculous.

So much loss for this man.

He resembles Diana.

He has my utmost respect!

Thanks Photon Tube I’m @ Belchers Bar , With Maddie Argy And Big Clive : Hilda

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Parents must always pay close attention to their children. Mothers in particular. Follow your children everywhere and suspect everyone. This has been my number one rule. ☝️ Deep gratitude for having brought the truth to light. This is a very difficult undertaking. For many it is impossible. We listen to you and embrace you with our minds.

This kind of shit is what i want from CZcams

I think he's a hero, what a lovely guy...... and the poisoned bowl by higson, then Robert montague

While reading this book, I paused put the book down and screamed, THIS IS AN INSANE HOUSE OF HORROR WITH A SADIST FOR A SCHOOL MASTER!!

Being from a poor background I thought if you had money you had no problems, the naivety of a child. So glad you are turning this whole subject around. I wish you well.

2:50 What I Can Do by Mary Oliver The television has two instruments that control it. I get confused. The washer asks me, do you want regular or delicate? Honestly, I just want clean. Everything is like that. I won’t even mention cell phones. I can turn on the light of the lamp beside my chair Where a book is waiting, but that’s about it. Oh yes, and I can strike a match and make fire.

2:50 What I Can Do by Mary Oliver The television has two instruments that control it. I get confused. The washer asks me, do you want regular or delicate? Honestly, I just want clean. Everything is like that. I won’t even mention cell phones. I can turn on the light of the lamp beside my chair Where a book is waiting, but that’s about it. Oh yes, and I can strike a match and make fire.

2 lovely, intelligent, well spoken ladies, wishing you a good and speedy recovery Julia.

The ‘Shitty Committee’!!! Love that! Another great/helpful show

What a touching interview - it helped me a lot. Really thankful that Annabel was able to be so open. Julia, I’m so impressed by your hosting, the show format and your incredible daughters who provided me with more thought and comfort. I think the show title ‘Therapy Works’ might put some people off though. Comes across a bit arrogant. It doesn’t work for everyone.

All private health care for MP's should be outlawed. There is no way our MP's would want to suffer what they seem quite content to put us through. They'd soon be singing from a different hymn sheet if this were to occur.

Oh Annabel, I'm so sorry for your experience and for your loss. I used to be a nurse, and can assure you this woman's cold demeanour (24:57) was not in keeping with those of us who loved our profession and demonstrated respect for our patients, and their relatives. I can feel your pain and resonate with a lot of what you describe from my own grief journey. Julia, you are amazing and thank you for your work.

Thank you Charles, the world needs this speaking out from a place of great articulation & from 'having done the work'. My friend was also nicknamed Buzz, it's a name I have great affection for.

I really think people judge us so much in grief

I think the children and adult children take the death of their parents very hard. I lost my husband two months ago, but he was battling cancer for over 5 years, and he suffered so much for so long, it was as relief to see him out of his pain and suffering. Our kids are still having a difficult time with it, but I am at peace. I cried a lot over the past few years, but when we brought hospice in, and I had to take daily care of him, with all the equipment and the nurses coming and going, it was not pleasant, but I was pleasant to him and ran myself ragged for the past few years. When death comes slowly, over a long time, it wears you out. I believe when a death is sudden, untimely and out of the blue, it’s more difficult for the loved ones. I am done crying and I am at peace. I still wish my mother, father, grandfather and brother were alive, but we all must accept life as it is and find our happiness within. I am looking forward to each new day again, accepting life as it is, and grateful for every thing. It is the ancient stoic wisdom for peace and happiness.

My mum is dead 7yrs I'm 62 and still cry for her I still miss her

My mom died of lung cancer with 4 months to live without treatment and 2 yrs with treatment at age 52. I Had suffered my fathers grandparents losses a year prior to finding out only 4 months apart due malpractice and broken heart syndrome for my nana. We moved into their house and after my mom died almost to the date of the 2 years with treatment. I talked about it for a year in every conversation. Not realizing it until friends had told me so. Many deaths came after as well. Not including multiple overdoses of friends and acquaintances. It was very hard and even though i did shed tears. It wasn't enough.

Cauterise emotions! My goodness! Could England be reaping in 2024? So much self hatred?

Dear Charles Spencer, wholeheartedly embrace and allow the Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ to fill every part of your being and heal all the wounds you have suffered! He is our loving merciful Creator, He and only He is able to completely heal us and fill us with His Peace and with His Joy! God bless you..

You are 100 present correct.. and even put some things into prospective. Thank you

May allah cure you 🙏

I just lost my grandfather last month. He was pretty much like my dad. Still doesn’t seem real. Its has broke me down to bad place.

I have turned my back on therapy through the fear of facing terrible things that happened to me in my life.. Charles has inspired me it is never too late even at 56yrs..

I totally get this ,I shed many tears before the loss of my mother On the day of my moms funeral i never shed a tear,I was in that altered state of shock.,there isn't much I remember about that day ,I deeply loved my mother and miss her everyday ,it's nearly 9 years and I still feel the loss 💔 Thank you for sharing Much appreciated ❤🙏

Always love listening to you all, I have realisations due to your gentle acceptance of what is somehow (raised in harsh critical env hence self critic comes to the fore regularly!) I grieved for years whilst my mother was alive as she had the painful dementia for 12 yrs and I always feel others have got it sussed rather than myself. Helps me go into my body and connect to myself with your gentleness thank you dearly ❤

I’m more of a 2 but it feels like in the end I will have to conform either way to have success

Type 1 all the way, Jesus man moneys everything, like it’s actually too fucking important to not care about it and if you don’t then your fucked, and you gotta climb the ladder to get more of the most important thing in the world, why tf not?😂

I know I'm type 2. We dont want boring.

My volume is on highest and I am only getting a soft sound.

A beautiful conversation, thanks for letting us share in it x

Thank you for your honesty x

Makes us realize how traditions can be dangerous; just because things were done a certain way, like sending children to boarding schools, does not mean we have to keep doing it. We must constantly think anew and re-evaluate our priorities.

What an interview, conducted with such sensitivity. I am so sorry to Earl Spencer and others who experienced Sexual Abuse. This will help so many. And to add, the emotion shared by you both at the end speaking about Diana demonstrates the raw and personal grief and loss, still felt over her death. Thankyou for doing this interview

I'm glad to hear that you cannot get on drugs or surgery as a minor in the UK.

I found this very helpful. I lost my partner in January this year. He was just 41. II feel traumatised too. He was also the love of my life. My heart breaks for Annabel and her family. I also found some of the medical staff very unsympathetic. I was in the hospital the week my partner died, sitting in a chair. I hadnt sleep or eaten anything for days. My Dad was so worried about me one night that he convinced me to go home to try and sleep and shower. As I left the room, the nurse kept questioning how I could leave and pulling faces at me. At that stage we didnt know how long he had and my family were concerned that I couldn't carry on without sleep for another week. She made me feel so awful that I didnt sleep and I still berate myself for leaving now. He died 3 days later.

Love this family ❤

Wonderful reminder that we have that ability within our own bodies, it helps me feel less powerless… thank you as ever Julia ❤

Lovely perspective thankyou ❤

Thank you for this incredibly moving interview. Congratulations. I am dreadfully sorry Charles, that you had to endure such isolation and neglect as a child, and the trauma of abuse as well. I know for myself the numbness and deep emotional corruption experienced when there is nobody to protect or support one, as a child growing up. I am the same generation as you, and have only realised recently, that the majority of our parents were incapable of giving more than they did. I also believe that it wasn’t just private schools that were full of brutality. State school pupils also suffered at the hands of perverted staff and that life at home was often not any better. Thankfully we have evolved a little and I hope your story will help many others who suffered in the same way. It is most inspiring to hear that you have worked hard at healing so successfully. Welcome back Buzz ⭐️