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My dude actually Dodge a tactical nuke😊

There is no such a thing as an open marriage since marriages are by definition closed, committed unions.

Congratulations, you played yourself.

Nah, OP fucked up. Deal with the consequences.

Op sounds like she needs to get her on straight. Idk why you are looking for another relationship when you are IN A RELATIONSHIP!!!

What song did use for this video?

In the end is the OP choice, he’s his decision if he wants to keep this relationship going whitout sex or not! I also think is a good idea to talk whit his gf about this so they can both find a common ground!

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I don't condone cheating at all, but given that she did I think it's reasonable to want to attend his funeral. I also think you have already essentially decided you want to divorce, whether she attends the funeral or not. Good luck!

Haha, the hidden point of this is likely a sans OP night.

Abdul, get the rocks

I’m confused on why the OP seems so upset, I mean she practically seems to have to perfect bf and it seems like he showed her what is like to have a good bf, plus the 2 are still together so why is OP so upset that his bf gave her such highstandarts! It seems like Op didn’t really want to be whit her Boyfriend in the first place, it feels like OP is a giant Red Flag!

Dump her

YOU OPENED THE MARRIAGE, NOW LIVE WITH , YOU CANT HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT TO

Congratulations for reaching 400 subs Man 🎉🎉🎉

She fucked around and found out. boo hoo hoo.

What’s this song name?

Wow this story is so sad 😢

"I have read online..." And there's your problem. You literally f*kd around and you literally found out. YOU started to open up the relationship because YOU were bored, then YOU took full advantage of it and when it stopped working for YOU, YOU demanded your husband drop his entire life for YOU, and then YOU started to complain about cheating. This is 100% YOU.

Incel rage bait lol

Hey what the name of the song you used?

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you made your bed, now lie in it.

What is that saying? Fuck around and find out?

Ah yes, going full send and crashing hard… I know that feeling 🫡

Open relationships are just asking to get ditched that’s your fault, not his

Well if it isnt the consequences of your actions

Op husband should have divorced her when she asked for an open relationship they don’t exist… mind as well asked your partner hey could I sleep with other guys?

Dad sounds jealous because he now knows he's not the only man who can provide things for her. Notice he said HE was enough?

open relationships are messed up

Okay, Grammar Nazi (tm) here. The point of communication in general, is to get across the thing you’re trying to convey, without wasting precious time conveying stuff that doesn’t matter. And “what doesn’t matter” is very dependent on the context. Who you’re talking to, how often you will speak to them later, etc.” I am divorced, and currently not seeing anyone else. When I am here in the comments section, and I’m telling a story about how we structured our relationship, what was or was not on me to fix… all the stuff these sub-Reddits exist to address, the important thing to the story / point I’m trying to convey is that the person I’m talking about was a wife, and not a friend or stranger on the street. And commonly, since it’s a thread about how someone he trusted did OP dirty, her having my wife (and therefore was more trusted) was relevant. I found that when I said “my ex”, it actually detracted from my message. “My ex-wife used to do <blah> automatically implies that whatever <blah> is, it’s bad, because ex’s are bad. Plus, the intended audience is people with a parasocial connection to me, at best. It doesn’t help them follow my point about <blah> . In your case, the amount of confusion you’re being forced to correct, means that he is not giving them all the info they need. Since they may encounter both you and the ex, knowing which one of you did it, absolutely matters, and he needs to specify that fact. I feel like calling you his wife… solid choice. She has a title for a condition that is no longer true. The prefix “ex-“ carries a lot of baggage. If he’s talking about child stuff, he could cay “their mother” since the topic is the kids, anybody in the story should show their connection to the kids. You would be “step-mom”. Pretty sure you’re child-free, so that part doesn’t matter so much, except as a case study. I would suggest that any story will spread to the town you’re in. He needs to describe you as his wife (the obvious solution), and that he call her “my then wife). It points out exactly who she was at one point, it makes it clear she’s no longer serving in that role. And it doesn’t imply anything bad, like”ex-“ would. And since he’s talking about you, or someone else who is being mistaken for you because of his actions. And if he’s doing on purpose, because he’s still carrying a torch for her, then he is not boyfriend material, or husband material. I am generally against ultimatums. But the situation you’re dealing with was created by him. Tell him that is it is bothering you, and suggest alternatives. And then let him act. If he values you, then work with him to help solve it. If he does nothing, he doesn’t value you. You are an objects, not a person in his eyes. In which case, he’s not worthy of groveling at your feet. All behavior is communication. And his actions say that you are not important. You are a minion, not a partner. And your actions say you’re scared to rock the boat, lest you drive him away.

women ☕

You get what you ask for

Now shes beginning to regret her choice of opening the relationship after her little fling with Jake ended, well you brought this upon yourself lady. Good riddance

Why is he with someone with previous child when he has problems with it???

Oh god I hope she leaves him

*The guy is narcissistic and autosexual.*

bro got mad that she lost 😭

Cake eater!!!!

You get what you deserve

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Wacked , Wacked , no really Wacked !

she's right, man don"t cry

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Soo OP is purple

Surprise, surprise. Men have feeling too. Those of us with vivid imaginations will sometimes have trouble coping with these things. This is a part of the paradox that men deal with day to day. Women want men to be sensitive while also showing no weakness. So men have to be professional actors, but then get accused of lying. The crux of this problem is that men and women have different triggers for their emotions. For example. While watching a movie, I may get teary eyed over a tear jerk-er moment in a movie. My wife will sit there unaffected. She will not get emotional when it requires her to put herself in someone else's situation. Conversely, if we were to argue. She may begin to cry, while I get stone cold emotionally. Men and women are not the same. Who knew!

Closer to kids is abit more serious. Also its not easy to plan because you already payed for the seat.

Men really need to pay attention to the signs. A woman that's interested in you is going to make it completely obvious. The second a woman tells you that she's not looking for a relationship or anything resembling an FWB situation, run! She pretty much just told you that she wants boyfriend perks without the boyfriend work! A woman that's truly interested in you will not put you in the friend zone. Ever!

He didnt do anything wrong. He clearly texted exactly how he felt and thats a good thing. She wasnt in to him and that was clear as day.

how can someone be so unaware of themself? 🤣