My girlfriend wants to stop having s*x with me until marriage. What should I do?

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  • čas přidán 14. 06. 2024
  • My girlfriend wants to stop having s*x with me until marriage. What should I do?

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  • @iltipodeltrolling
    @iltipodeltrolling Před 10 dny +6

    In the end is the OP choice, he’s his decision if he wants to keep this relationship going whitout sex or not!
    I also think is a good idea to talk whit his gf about this so they can both find a common ground!

  • @chrisbeer5685
    @chrisbeer5685 Před 7 dny +2

    She is definitely not telling him the whole truth as to why she doesn't want to have sex.
    My first thought is that she's not enjoying it but doesn't want to tell him that. Of course it could be something else, like her having a pregnancy scare, having a sudden change of view on peemarital sex, just being scared of the condom breaking.
    Either way, he should get to the bottom of what is real issue is.

  • @tonyhaynes9080
    @tonyhaynes9080 Před 7 dny +2

    A woman doesn’t have to have sex with you if she doesn’t want to. If you can’t accept it, then break off the relationship and find someone else. And why don’t these videos say the word sex rather than spelling it? It’s ludicrous.

    • @rainynight02
      @rainynight02 Před 7 dny

      It's CZcams, and other platforms they post to, censorship.
      It's the same with "unalive" instead of saying dead.
      The algorithms will ban or shadow ban the content.
      Why do they do that? Idk, idiocy to me.
      But the creators are dancing to the tune of the algorithm overlords.
      Comments will even be automatically deleted if they have certain bad words in them.
      Has happened to me countless times.

    • @ordinaryreddits
      @ordinaryreddits  Před 7 dny +3

      Censorship, that’s it 🙃

  • @redrackham6812
    @redrackham6812 Před dnem

    Break up with her. Don't get me wrong, I think people should, ideally, remain virgins until marriage, but that ship has sailed a long time ago in this case. This video did not even mention whether she was a virgin before him, but I'm guessing she wasn't. Either way, if she was already sexually active and now she is saying that she does not want to have sex with you anymore for the next three years, it is because she does not want to have sex with you at all, ever. She probably will have sex with other men, though. She clearly does not want you. So break up with her and find a woman who does.

  • @rainynight02
    @rainynight02 Před 7 dny +3

    There isn't nearly enough information here.
    It could have been that it was a fear building for a while.
    Could have been she thought she was pregnant and she doesn't want to risk that actually happening right now.
    He should actually just talk to her and tell her that he wants to understand where she's coming from.
    After that, he has to decide, does he live HER or does he just want sex?
    If you love her, than once you understand the issues, you can wait.
    If you want sex more, than she's better off without him as he goes off to try to find a new partner.
    I've gone years without sex.
    Unhealthy way to handle it is masturbation and porn.
    Healthy way is simply to acknowledge you occasionally have desires and they will pass and you go on with your life.
    Though this idea of "dead bedrooms because they didn't have sex before marriage" is a total heap of bullshit.

  • @bluephoenix_z3364
    @bluephoenix_z3364 Před 8 dny +4

    Womp womp sounds like a you problem lil bro.