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A Four-Step Approach to Working with Anger – with Ron Siegel, PsyD
For many clients, expressing anger can feel overwhelming, shameful, or even downright scary.
Problem is (and as I know you know), when a client takes great pains to avoid anger, it often just leads to bigger problems.
So how might we resource clients with skills that can help them respond to and manage their anger more productively?
Well, have a look at the video below - Ron Siegel, PsyD, walks through four key steps to get you started.
You can read the full blog and more from NICABM here: www.nicabm.com/anger-four-step-approach/
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Recognizing the More Subtle Signs of the Freeze Response
zhlédnutí 6KPřed 3 měsíci
It’s often easy to identify the obvious cues that your client is in freeze . . . . . . but what about times when the signs are so subtle, you might dismiss it (or even overlook it)? In the video, Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD shares how recognizing a more subtle sign of freeze helped her through a sticking point with her client. You can read the full blog and more from NICABM here: www.nicabm.com/subtle...
An Attachment-Based Approach for Clients Who Avoid Conflict
zhlédnutí 5KPřed 3 měsíci
When clients avoid conflict, it can make sustaining relationships difficult. And that includes the therapeutic relationship. But according to Eboni Webb, PsyD, before you address your client’s conflict avoidance head on, you might want to consider their attachment style. In the video, Eboni walks through her attachment-based approach with clients who avoid conflict or confrontation. You can rea...
The Intersectionality of Depression & Racialized Trauma - A Case Study
zhlédnutí 1,9KPřed 4 měsíci
Race and trauma can often be intertwined, particularly for BIPOC clients. And these experiences can leave them feeling disempowered and hopeless. What’s more, for clients with a history of racial trauma, this sense of hopelessness can deepen into depression, especially in a society that often fails to recognize the impact of racism. So how might we help when a client’s depression stems from exp...
Confront Distressing Emotions: The Ultimate Titrated Solution For Clients
zhlédnutí 3,7KPřed 4 měsíci
When a client hits a roadblock in therapy, it’s sometimes because they’re actively trying to avoid stirring up (or even talking about) painful memories or emotions. Now of course, it’s understandable why most clients skirt around painful topics to some extent . . . . . . but as we know, it can also become a major impediment to healing. And so, to restore therapeutic progress, we often need to h...
Helping Clients Make Meaning Out of Loss
zhlédnutí 3,5KPřed 4 měsíci
When a client experiences a significant or sudden loss, it can feel all-consuming . . . . . . especially when they start to sift through the layers of emotion that so often accompany grief. So how might you help a client process those intense emotions, so that they can begin to make meaning out of their loss? In the video below, Elliott Connie, MA, LPC walks through his approach with a client s...
Three Questions to Help Clients Process and Release Regret
zhlédnutí 6KPřed 4 měsíci
When regret takes hold, many clients spiral into self-criticism and self-blame . . . . . . and too often, it becomes a debilitating loop that only deepens their regret. But according to Ron Siegel, PsyD, there are three key questions you might ask to help your client begin to disrupt this cycle and release feelings of regret. You can read the full blog and more from NICABM here: www.nicabm.com/...
Pat Ogden, PhD’s Go-To Strategies for Working with Clients who Please & Appease
zhlédnutí 6KPřed 5 měsíci
In the aftermath of trauma, getting to the heart of your client’s pain can be complex - especially when that client is caught in a defense response pattern that trauma researchers often identify as please and appease. For many clients, chronic people-pleasing bleeds into every relationship. . . . . . and when that includes the therapeutic relationship, it can block your client’s ability to open...
Four Key Components of Confronting a Narcissistic Personality - with Ellyn Bader, PhD
zhlédnutí 6KPřed 5 měsíci
When it comes to confronting a client’s pattern of narcissism or grandiosity, it’s safe to say you might meet with some pushback along the way. So to up your chances of success (and also mitigate the risk of damage to the therapeutic relationship), it can be helpful to pad your treatment plan with a few key components. In the video, Ellyn Bader, PhD takes us through them. You can read the full ...
A Sensorimotor Technique To Guide Your Self-disclosure
zhlédnutí 5KPřed 5 měsíci
When it comes to self-disclosure in our clinical work, it can be critical to weigh very carefully just how and when we use it . . . . . . especially in cases where a client relays an experience that bumps up against a painful or overwhelming experience, we may have had ourselves. But according to Ray Rodriguez, LCSW-R there’s a sensorimotor approach that can help guide you, if or when such circ...
Strategies to Help Clients Who Feel “Never Good Enough” - with Steven Hayes, PhD
zhlédnutí 8KPřed 6 měsíci
Ever notice how some of your most highly skilled, successful clients often find themselves burnt out and unsatisfied? That no matter how much they achieve, feelings of inadequacy leave them believing that they’re just “never good enough”? To help them move out of this belief, one critical first step can be getting them to identify what’s driving it. In the video, Steven Hayes, PhD walks through...
A Parts Approach for Restoring Pleasure and Vitality After Trauma with Janina Fisher, PhD
zhlédnutí 16KPřed 7 měsíci
After trauma, there’s one (critical) stage of healing that can often feel elusive. You see, even when a client has made significant progress in therapy, they often still report feeling numb, and not fully present in their own life. That’s why interventions designed to help clients reconnect with their sense of vitality and pleasure can be crucial in the treatment of trauma. So in the video belo...
How to Help Traumatized Patients Restore their Vitality - with Bessel van der Kolk, MD
zhlédnutí 15KPřed 7 měsíci
So much of our work with traumatized patients is often centered around trauma stabilization and processing. . . . . . but if we don’t help patients move beyond these early stages of recovery, they’re at risk of staying stuck in the past, repeatedly re-engaging with their trauma. So in the video below, Bessel van der Kolk, MD shares what can help patients reclaim their vitality and move beyond e...
Recognizing and Treating Moral Injury - with Bill Nash, MD
zhlédnutí 10KPřed 8 měsíci
Moral injury is not necessarily a new phenomenon in the human experience, but it’s a relatively young concept in the field of psychology. The research is still evolving - but we’re discovering more about the overlapping similarities and key differences between moral injury and PTSD. And as leading researchers like Bill Nash, MD uncover more insights, they’re finding that conventional trauma int...
How To Overcome PTSD And Traumatic Invalidation With Martin Bohus, PhD
zhlédnutí 13KPřed 8 měsíci
It used to be that when working with trauma, so much of our focus centered on helping clients process their traumatic experience. But over the past several years, we’ve gained a better understanding that that’s just one piece of the work - and perhaps now more than ever, we understand that multiple approaches are often needed to address different facets of a client’s trauma. For example, resear...
Treating PTSD and Traumatic Invalidation with Martin Bohus, PhD
zhlédnutí 2,9KPřed 8 měsíci
Treating PTSD and Traumatic Invalidation with Martin Bohus, PhD
How Neglect Can Impact Brain Development - with Bessel van der Kolk, MD
zhlédnutí 17KPřed 8 měsíci
How Neglect Can Impact Brain Development - with Bessel van der Kolk, MD
Shelly Harrell Phd Shares A Strategy To Help Clients Repair Ruptures.
zhlédnutí 6KPřed 10 měsíci
Shelly Harrell Phd Shares A Strategy To Help Clients Repair Ruptures.
Working with Deep Fears of Rejection - with Lynn Lyons, LICSW
zhlédnutí 12KPřed 11 měsíci
Working with Deep Fears of Rejection - with Lynn Lyons, LICSW
Working with Emotional Triggers and Trauma - with Bill O’Hanlon, LMFT
zhlédnutí 7KPřed 11 měsíci
Working with Emotional Triggers and Trauma - with Bill O’Hanlon, LMFT
Strategies for Working with Narcissism - with Jennifer Sweeton, PsyD
zhlédnutí 9KPřed rokem
Strategies for Working with Narcissism - with Jennifer Sweeton, PsyD
Working with Feelings of Defectiveness and Shame - with Ron Siegel, PsyD
zhlédnutí 18KPřed rokem
Working with Feelings of Defectiveness and Shame - with Ron Siegel, PsyD
Working with a Client’s Sense of Disillusionment - with Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD
zhlédnutí 4,5KPřed rokem
Working with a Client’s Sense of Disillusionment - with Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD
Addressing Trauma-Fueled Jealousy- with Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD
zhlédnutí 8KPřed rokem
Addressing Trauma-Fueled Jealousy- with Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD
A Key Sign of Dissociative Identity Disorder - with Kathy Steele, MN, CS
zhlédnutí 65KPřed rokem
A Key Sign of Dissociative Identity Disorder - with Kathy Steele, MN, CS
Working with Racial Trauma and Gaslighting - with Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD
zhlédnutí 5KPřed rokem
Working with Racial Trauma and Gaslighting - with Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD
Working with a Client's Emotional Triggers - with Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD
zhlédnutí 7KPřed rokem
Working with a Client's Emotional Triggers - with Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD
A Polyvagal Approach to Working with Shame - with Stephen Porges, PhD
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A Polyvagal Approach to Working with Shame - with Stephen Porges, PhD
Working with the Freeze Response with Peter Levine, PhD
zhlédnutí 84KPřed rokem
Working with the Freeze Response with Peter Levine, PhD
Treating Relational Trauma - with Terry Real, MSW, LICSW
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Treating Relational Trauma - with Terry Real, MSW, LICSW

Komentáře

  • @robynhope219
    @robynhope219 Před 20 hodinami

    The only shame I had is who my parents were...and the place of my birth.

  • @richardferrara
    @richardferrara Před 21 hodinou

    Why do I keep seeing this?

  • @janiceclarfield7094

    Magnificent insightful

  • @jean6460
    @jean6460 Před 3 dny

    Thanks

  • @nightbell999
    @nightbell999 Před 3 dny

    the hug made me feel instantly safe and sad at the same time. i remembered what i once had and then lost at an early age.

  • @fortune.
    @fortune. Před 3 dny

    This is Bessel van Der Kolk. He wrote the book The Body Keeps The Score. It has changed my life for the better and I can safely say millions for the better, fellow trauma survivors. Please give it a read and do not rush through it even if the topic may not apply to you. This man is a wonderful source of knowledge on how the mind and events in our lifetime (good and bad) can affect our very physiology. The blue book with the figure of a person on it, thats the one. All the best!

  • @peterlegg1039
    @peterlegg1039 Před 4 dny

    This mans so right

  • @katiehealer8861
    @katiehealer8861 Před 4 dny

    I recently bought a body pillow to help me to learn to sleep on my side. I find it comforting and soothing and helping me to sleep better. Now i understand I'm soothing my trauma. ❤ Thank you. Also explained why i felt sexual feelings for a guy who gave me a great hug even tho i didn't know him well. I really loved the hug at the time. However, afyer i attached to him in an unhealthy way.😮

  • @misscelinateloexplica

    As a BPD diagnosed person, Marsha did sell me the idea of "lets do this, it will hurt but when you finally get to the top of the ladder, the horrible pain finally will end." ❤ Lets focus on effectiveness and wise mind. ❤

  • @mehtapkaplan5446
    @mehtapkaplan5446 Před 5 dny

    ❤❤❤

  • @RayMilland-tf2we
    @RayMilland-tf2we Před 5 dny

    I've been rejected by women all my life. I'm now 75. Rejection saps confidence, induces resentment, jealousy, bitterness, low self esteem - and loneliness. It affects every aspect of one's life including working life - as it did in my case. I feel worthless. For me it's been the worst thing in my life - and I've had cancer!

  • @user-py5xh3jb2o
    @user-py5xh3jb2o Před 6 dny

    I found a way to fall asleep with a self hug and my legs intertwined. Very comforting.

  • @cacampbell3654
    @cacampbell3654 Před 6 dny

    Did this exercise for the first time briefly. Am on the edge of terror, despair, frozenness. Will continue to try this exercise off and on, today and tomorrow especially.(Summer Solstice today 20/06/24; Full moon tomorrow; triggering happening on the property I live on)

  • @ts3858
    @ts3858 Před 7 dny

    She seems so angry...😔🙏

  • @user-dz5rr1yr8r
    @user-dz5rr1yr8r Před 7 dny

    oh man! exactly😮

  • @user-dz5rr1yr8r
    @user-dz5rr1yr8r Před 7 dny

    i was in the military and i dont remember my 6 weeks of basic training. the bad thing is that no one believes me.

  • @MsRomashka1990
    @MsRomashka1990 Před 8 dny

    Such simple things and I realise I do these all the time spontaneously myself. When we are in our body we do this naturally ourselves because we are attuned and our body always communicates about what we need. Holding self and letting the emotions flow is one of the best Inner child work/healing work you can do. Not running away but holding yourself through them and giving yourself love and reassurance and the words that you always needed. You do this often and your grown body will start to feel different. More present and alive. May everyone who reads this find their inner support to help them heal themselves and find the deeper meaning to their life experiences and find utter peace about their past. ❤️

  • @deehuckleberry3999
    @deehuckleberry3999 Před 8 dny

    I have a question about NARM. I have cptsd, abuse amnesia/dissociation, anxiety, and depression. I've been in sessions for 2 months. My therapist starts out by asking what I want for myself, then has me talk about what I'm going through, with the pauses to sit with the feelings. Just when I am the most emotional and upset and at the topmost branch of the trauma tree, the session ends, he recaps what happened and it's over. I'm left with all the feelings and flooding and no way to get back down, no direction or guidance. Then I take a shower and nap, and am very sensitive and extra reliant on my service dog for a few days. Is that how NARM is supposed to go?

  • @292Artemis
    @292Artemis Před 10 dny

    Very interesting, thank you! Engaging with others....well, it does make a lot of sense now that I used to enjoy Aikido and still love horseback riding. Plus interacting with horses in general.

  • @cindysmith6612
    @cindysmith6612 Před 10 dny

    Thank you for this information❤ I don't have it as severely as others in coments but I am always in a lot of pain because of this.Can you help with sleepwalking? I notice if I take care of what I'm worried about and take care of it I don't do it as often. Any tips would be greatly appreciated ❤

  • @cindysmith6612
    @cindysmith6612 Před 10 dny

    I'm 61 had this problem for years cacked teeth ear ache for years thinking ear infection very painful thank you❤ I can work with this😊

  • @cindysmith6612
    @cindysmith6612 Před 10 dny

    Thank you ❤ I can't believe how easy that was to fix. How about sleep walking do you have any tips for me?

  • @sophiaadams73
    @sophiaadams73 Před 11 dny

    2.1k likes over 4 years isn’t nearly enough. THESE are the type of videos I deem worthy of going viral. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @brittanyjewell6756
    @brittanyjewell6756 Před 12 dny

    Seeing Peter skip was exactly what I needed this morning

  • @lisarumble3518
    @lisarumble3518 Před 12 dny

    Thankyou bessel 😊 I'm reading your book, body keeps the score, collapsing into silence pg 293, this as been occurring to me fir last 20 years, I thought I had a fear of silence. Now I understand

  • @FirefliesMulti
    @FirefliesMulti Před 12 dny

    Other specified, use to be called "Dissociative disorder not other wise specified".(ddNOS) We were dx with this at first, and it was so invalidating as many of the younger alters were so confused. How could they not be specified? did that mean we were an oddball that just didnt' fit into any other category? They were upset that no one was being specific. I mean we had to be either one thing, or another. We couldn't just be some non specific thing! You're correct that dissociating has a bad name, but even more so, more than one personality/identity has a really bad name! and some therapists dont' even believe that it's a real thing. so we were told that DID wasn't a valid diagnosis at all. so what did that make us? invalid? we didn't exist? because a therapist said that calling us by our names would "cement" us in and make our condition worse? how? He just made our condition worse by saying that alters weren't even real! It did so much damage. In his opinion, alters were created by a former therapist putting the idea into our head, and to "people please" we took on the symptoms to appease the therapist. What in the actual..... ? You've got to be kidding me right? this therapist seriously thought that they had that much power over people that they could put some notion into their head and suddenly the person takes on the symptoms? If the above is true... then why can't another therapist, such as themselves, put the idea into our head that it's all made up and we are really just one person. Guess what? despite what they said, we are still multiple people. Therapists, need to be very mindful of what they say to their patients. And how they label them.

  • @wzupppp
    @wzupppp Před 12 dny

    Why would movement help me if im in shutdown? Im exhausted and exercise gives me more symptoms and PEM