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Rice costs tm rs 60 for them also

Why are you speaking in a general tone, talk about which companies are encouraging tipping culture in India and shifting their responsibility to customers.

You need to invest time for yourselves, you should create a local support system for kids rather than nannies. You can stay in your hometown during those time with parents and in-laws. You should better go back to your home town. Why you are yet in Bangalore???

Salaries for technology related gone up maximum and keep going up basically if you want services plus loyal people you need to pay well enough to run household too right or not? Educated don't get jobs just because they were not downloaded from technology? So learn to do own work maximum as much as possible or be ready to pay for services karnataka government may be giving citizens and voters money but other places like up government not bothered too just want votes and power too? Society's should fix the salaries for part time workers like 30 mins morning and 30 mins evening amount per home like and the person should get like 5 homes bare minimum too? Where are the so called mentors now? Pardon if you don't like this but blr is a overpriced and overhyped city too?

7:58 Just a perspective, these Freebies available in Karnataka has significantly affected the financial status of the government employees salary and pensions. Lower midle class and poor are the ones here in bengaluru who are actually enjoying these facilities. Most of the times we travel by metro trains. Literally NO MAID cleans any house properly no matter how much ever you pay them, within 20-30 minutes they finish all there work and leave, and in the meantime we have to be all eyes so that no thing goes missing. We always have to watch over them. And when we are not in home we from our side have to ask them to skip the work to be on our safer side.

Exactly same problem in chennai also. She kept on asking for more money, she joined for 3k , in 1.5 year she raised her salary to 5.5k.she used to bring her freind or lady relatives then they ll loudly laugh and talk and do job which was a huge hindrance because I had a baby back then, I told her many time u come alone and do chores,she said it's so boring to do alone.Then I said to myself enough is enough. Then I bought bosch dishwasher, cleans vessels like charm. Then invested in vaccum cleaner too. Then I told her thanks for the help so far kindly don't come from tomorrow.she was schocked, I rocked😂😂😂😂😂

These type of issues always been on the earth. So Genz got down from the lap of parents now, seing this😂😂😂

1. Live-in need space 2. Have only need things and appliance Helps in easy chore

Do your own chores at home..why depend on maid... In USA indians manage their own chores..

Very true ... maid's work as per their own whims and fancies.

I guess a lot of these problems also apply to SW Engineers .. that's why enterprises are trying to automate coding and testing with LLMs and stuff. No I am just kidding. Go on .. nice video!

Learn to respect the maid. Give her atleast 10 percent increment every year. When u get 15 to 20 percent hike, the maid also needs to be motivated. Many people n India don't treat them as human beings. Don't keep gold and cash in your homes if u have mids. Either u stay at home and keep things safely locked or keep in locker These days money is needed for not just food and clothes but also for top up for so many things. Be helpful and kind. Still they are not thankful, depend on machines.

Thank god you are not in USA or Europe.

Same in south Bengaluru also. Everywhere it’s the same .

For less than 5k salary you get only such kind of people. The person you are getting as a maid most probably have lot of family issues and have no other option to work. I have talked to some of these maids. Almost all of them have no education and thier sons ans husband are mostly addicted to drug/ alcohol.

Minimum wage should be made mandatory in India.We can increase the tax base that way.

If you travel abroad, you will not complain. You will do all the works on your own. Stop complaining

While working only we find such cities expensive, how will we survive post retirement.

The owners are telling lies. When people use phrases like “we trusted you” what it really means is that they wanted to under pay and overwork the maid. Most proberbly the maid told them to f**k off so in order to save face they accused of stealing gold.

We should never live with a consideration that maids are available in India. We should do our work. That's the best way.

This is an excellent topic. I stay in individual house in ecity since 8 years. These maids create an artificial demand and form a group among themselves. Then they demand more money and if we don't give, they don't allow anyone to join even from outside. I faced theft once and there was another lady checking my cupboards etc. fortunately we have camera at home. Anyway i finally decided to buy robotic vaccum and dishwasher. Using since two years and I don't have regrets. UC for bathroom cleaning and i clean the garden, terrace etc. problem solved

Dyson is best real removes the dust. The sweeping is just perfunctory by maids. 700 sq ft is tiny apne aap saf karlo and keep a robo vacuum. And if you are not at home as a working couple house doesn’t need to be cleaned every day

Same in south Bengaluru, coz same issues i am also facing but yes maids are not trust worthy anymore 👍

You are talking through your hat. You don't know or realise what you are saying. 6 to 8 days of leave per month is ok ? 3500 per month plus the days off, adds up to another 1000 ! This is just one example. A lot of your age working kids even guve their two wheelers to these maids. No wonder they are arrogant and demand more. You know nothing but talk through your hat. Get your facts first.

Maids are not affordable in india they are exploited perennially and now more and more of them are able to see the leverage they have in the privileged society. Inequality leads to worsening of trust, morals and ethics.

Women's problems with women.

This mAid problem has become universal ,esp in India...hamesha chhuti..some have stealing problem.....if u jus leave them ki kaam thik kr kenge......they will jus make a mess of your house....salary is not fixed...they demand anything....

This is the grand technocratic agenda. Do not trust humans. Depend on machines for everything.

Unless we live within our limits like our previous generations , we are doomed.

Excellent post. Thank you so much ji. Iam in coimbatore.i too faced the same problem. Now iam doing all the work myself, I manage cleaning vessels with dish washer. It's really a boon. It cleans super good. cleaning the floor I do daily and mopping twice or on alternate days. Bathroom cleaning on Sundays.make it a point to ask everyone in the family to contribute to the house cleaning and this way children also learn the household responsibilities. Iam happy managing alone , got rid of maid tensions . thank you so much for posting this useful and true picture of the reality. The young generation should learn from this 😊

Good effort. I watched with 1.5x speed. Try to speed up a bit as all of us are attention deficit.

Correct Sister. You are always talking correctly. My friend lives in Bangalore and she also faces terrible problems , almost similar to what you are facing. I just woke up for drinking water but am going to stay up till morning till my 2 year old daughter goes to sleep. My husband has also woken up. Nice husband. Okay Sister, thank you. Good morning...

They need money and not respect. Pay 6,000/- instead of 3,500/-

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You seem to have a poor idea of the vessels needed to be washed,cleaning them up immediately after dinner is at the end of the day.After a day of office work ,with or without commuting,it would be tough to pick up the washing.And what happens to the breakfast vessels,can you wash them before you leave for work? When you have kids,their eating,their snacks dabbas all add up. Loading and unloading a dishwasher is not an easy ,it’s also time consuming Vacuuming can be done only on the weekends-- there goes your weekends. I’m not being a kill joy,but being a realist only. It’s tough running a house,best of luck.

As living standards in india are improving, you will generally find less people willing to take up cleaning other peoples dirty dishes. Get a dishwasher and a wet mop. Forego Gym membership, this burns enough calories for a typical person. Hire a cleaning company fortnightly to do one off cleaning the whole property, they charge hourly. Its a standard thing in the west.

US based VC companies investing in Indian startups. They are trying to introduce the tipping culture in India. So that they can increase their profits.

Middle class just tries to copy rich by following these practices. Its problematic for those few who have no shame in accepting their actual financial status. Also bargaining culture is losing its ground among the middle class. Bargaining is very important for Middle class so that they are not mistaken as rich by lower class. If you are not actually rich and just perceived to be rich, thats when it gets messed up. So its for middle class and even upper middle class folks, don't feel any shame in bargaining on streets, do not give extra allowances and gifts to your maid regularly, and never give tip to anyone. Leave these tasks for rich class.

Hebbal is full of Nepali maids and demand 7k to sweep n wash vessels.

You see all those reports of income equality, that 3% of population having all the wealth. But no one addresses the real reason. What you said is the real reason. The people who are not making progress, are the ones who dont want to work. For those who are willing to work hard and hustle, there are enough opportunities to advance in life. Even with small scale businesses, I have heard friends running these complain that the guys come, sign on the register and expect to get paid. They dont want to work or they put in minimal effort. Also with gated communities etc, they are jealous and resentful of what they refer to as outsiders.

This woman wants to starve the poorest of the city so that they can be used as slaves in her house. The "freebies" that the govt provides them is making it a bit difficult to exploit cheap labour. My heartfelt sympathies. I think she should move out to Sweden or New York where she will not face such inconveniences.

I would get a second wife who is traditional. . . .

Rich people's problems. Yo lady, they hate the job because people like you don't pay them the money they deserve. The most vile video I have seen on CZcams. I wish I could unsee this crap.

We moved in our new apartment last year. I did not have a help until this year February. Now I have a help who helps me with only utensils cleaning. It is only me and my husband who are staying so the number of utensils are usually less but on days when there are more utensils she acts like she is doing a favour to me. We too are contemplating getting a dishwasher!

I have used a dish washer, robot n automatic mop I still keep them for an emergency but I have a maid I feel we can adopt all these only if all the members take up one job each like they do abroad Working couples cld be fine wth cleaning during weekends but stay at home moms need the entire house to be mopped daily; b’ rooms mopped every day n kitchen cleaned I certainly cannot do it all alone Plus Indian Rds n infra r so messy that all the dust n dirt comes into the house thru our footwear n the breeze coming in thru the window One reason why NRI r coming back in their silver yrs They have made enough to pay more in order to be comfortable

Taking people for granted who are nice to them (Y) So true!!

Hikes in every three months Absolutely relatable (Y)

Only veg food?

Madam there is one more BIG scam happening. Maid will join and work for like a week then will file fake police complaint for molestation/ rape for extortion. There are gangs that recruit such maids and police/lawyers are also involved.

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