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Dudes go after what attracts them. You masculine he's masculine, You a top He's a top. Can you just walk away. NOPE...Let the lies began.

My husband of 30yrs is a total top, He's also 16yrs older than me, Who happens to be a masculine young father who dealt with both and he knew of this. So when I told him I like our situation, But, your not gonna take that experience from me if wanting to be the top as well. Now, you have a choice to make. And, No you will not be there when it happens.

Can African American homosexuals , ever Elevate the conversations in the morning to whom is getting topped or bottom?Can't we talk about politics?Ro versus wade global community ?, Anything other than who's fckng who?

so me and my partner has been together for a year and a half. were both verse (im usually verse when single, anyway). i have been the bottom for most parts in our relationship. I finally topped him once. And I asked (just in case he wanted to be a top only) what do you think about our sex? is there any thing we need to change (trying to be smooth with it) and just said "IM VERSATILE" Question: how would you partake in that? should I just go back to being a BOTTOM majority?🎉

What boots are these?

Total tops do exist however I think that type of man especially if he is very masculine has a hard time identifying with gay culture. So he might identify as anything but gay. And is really mostly interested in femboys, sissies, and twinks. He might identify as pansexual, hetero/homo flexible. I think a tops who is mostly into guys has an easy time having sex with women, because women’s are “natural bottoms” but that isn’t his preferred gender.

So, you would not recommend vivishining for long term storage? Thank you.

I'm a fem total ebony goth bottom..

Spoiler alert: lace colors don't mean anything,real boot boys wear what looks good and matches their particular outfit they're wearing. BTW, there's an easier way to lace up boots 😂😂😂

Super interesting ThankU Due to severe ptsd, i am so painfully tight, i started out tt. Then I saw my bottom having such a great time, I got inspired, I learned, improved. I am limited, though, need a guy with a small organ, at least a slim one. Let the queens have the big ones lol. Sadly, the emotional part of the ptsd proved intractable. Cannot pairbond. Resigned from dating. I do miss it, still fall in love like a teenager. Best keep it platonic. Looking back, hmm. I'm not as visual as most guys. Sometimes the less visually attractive had the sweetest touch. But what am I if I simply adapt to the partners' choice? "He's the top, he gets to choose" vs "He's the bottom, he gets to choose"?? I love the female body. Including the blood, it's totally aphrodisiac. What i can't do with women is "Lead", the way a woman needs. What am i.... Once as a joke i said i was schizo-sexual

Thank you master, I finally got my tall boots properly laced❤

I will wear WHATEVER I want WHEREVER I want. I have worn these boots with red and/or white laces all around England and Germany- no one gave a shit. Lace code is bullshit. Let it go.

You chose the worst colors💀

Some of you don’t know that lace colours mean different things (or have no meaning and are just personal aesthetic) in the context of the gay fẽtish scene. It’s not the same as like punks/skinheads from the eighties.

Everyone sayin lace code doesnt exist anymore but would damn well knows if they see someone with red laces in their docs they'd get the message

Why everyone is so obsessed of someone’s position in sex. These topict stigmatize people who are selfconfident not enough for accepting themself. For example me. Having sub preferences I am so sick of everyone around told me that bottoms are not needed because they are too many. So I just stoped looking for sex and relationships at all. Because averyone said I didn't fit. The shame became unbearable. Ye maybe I am just weak, but not everyone is strong.

Not everyone is a total bottom or fully vers...that's okay.

I personally don't believe there's no such thing as a total top, & that's because it changes with the circumstances & the person. I'm versatile & it depends on the person I'm with & what I'm wanting sexually at the time.

There is something wrong with the start. Should You not get someone to do it for You....

I'm a 100 percent TOP and would not even let the thought cross my mind no matter who I'm in love with

I do believe there are 100% bottoms and same for 100% tops, reason for them being what they identify does not really matter. Some you already discussed. Of course part of the journey is to try different things. You might have tasted clam, you might have tried bottoming, or topping. But in the end of the day, you will have a strong preference, and that is what is it about. I concider myself a total bottom. Yes I tried topping, but find it hard to keep it hard, and yes one can take a pill for that, but that does not fix the emotional and psycological aspects one have to be in for say topping. So I don't enjoy it, even if I would have used a pill to fix the medical issue. Compared that with say bottoming, I absolutely enjoy it and will do it any day, especially if there is a great top who knows what he is doing. Add a nice sausage, personality and other things, and I am in heaven. I know some people to abstain from sex purely because they are bottoms, and don't have the size to top, but they find is painful to bottom, so they don't enjoy it. I know of tops, who for example will never bottom for also the pain aspect. As I said, I believe your question is about who you really are by fact of your preference more than 90% of the times, not the once in a blue moon exception. Would I do clam? hell not, maybe only if I got paid, and even then that would be a complete turnoff for me.

to the communist bro who keeps crying in replies: nobody asked lol (waiting for ya reply 😂)

There are, in Turkey.

I'm 100% top have been for many years. Was more verse when I was younger. I don't have any internalized homophobia and have NO interest in bottoming so we DO exist. Having a dick in my ass just doesn't interest me and never even crosses my mind.

How do you get them off when there soo tight

I don't agree tops bottom to some just do speak about it to others 2/1/24 .

white and red but you're black? I dunno man

Bro used white and red laces 💀💀

She was MESMORIZED

Tops r us

I just don’t understand why people feel the need to inform you what they think you are. At the end of the day, people will always try to enforce their opinions and life experiences on you. You have to know yourself. And that may take some time. Once you do, you’ll realize that people were wrong about a lot of restrictions put on you.

Now I guess the real question is, do real tops like sucking c*cks???

No lie Mac, you look fine as hell. 😩 lol but I do believe there are 100 percent total tops. I''ve been with them before and THEY WILL NEEEEEVRRR ALLOW U play in the back door, but their invitation is strictly for the front door ONLY 🤣 total tops are absolutely REAL!

Look at this nazi with his red Laces

Small penis can do the same job just like big penis dr sue said all hole it’s only 2 inch after that it’s a big whole for every body

Great topic I always want to know how can you tell who’s who

Wow.... your skinhead stompers

you could not have picked two worse colors to use man💀

It’s hard to put them on tho

If you need a ten minute video to lace a pair of boots, then maybe you should be wearing those trainers with the velcro straps. Just tie a knot in the end of the lace and stitch it all the way up, as we have been doing for decades

There are a lot of masculine men who let trans women topped them in bed.

thanks, video clear and helpful. my boots look great now

woah why the red and white laces???

thanks just laced my boots this way and they are so much tighter then the normal lace is came with

Dude thank you so much for this video. Now I can wear my doc martens the REAL way!

My brother in christ, red laces on boots are a BIG nono.

White AND red laces damn

mate what u doing with them coloured laces?

Seeing The Village People and run up against Skrewdriver would be educational to say the least.

Do you guys work for CHP too?