Issa Rae’s “Insecure”, Meagan & Devon's Divorce, Nene's New Man & More | Cocktails with Queens

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  • čas přidán 29. 08. 2024
  • The Queens talk about Hollywood's hottest topics including The final episode of Issa Rae's hit show “insecure” premiered last night, and it was the number one trending topic on social media, After nine years of marriage, Meagan good and devon franklin are getting a divorce & NeNe Leakes enjoys a romantic date with new boyfriend Nyonisela Sioh & Much more!
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  • @lovereconciled4210
    @lovereconciled4210 Před 2 lety +334

    The best way to keep a relationship strong is to keep it off of social media, especially Fakebook.

    • @ew0711
      @ew0711 Před 2 lety +27

      And that's what most people ON FACEBOOK don't do, keep their private business private. That's one of the reasons I deactivated my page 3 years ago

    • @christie8532
      @christie8532 Před 2 lety +8

      @@ew0711 I need to do the same

    • @kamonirenee
      @kamonirenee Před 2 lety +9

      I agree, i would not even post it!

    • @KM7661
      @KM7661 Před 2 lety +12

      All social media, fre-enemies and family. Period. Happy New Year.

    • @gladysstewart9011
      @gladysstewart9011 Před 2 lety +1

      Amen

  • @ms.mcghee8682
    @ms.mcghee8682 Před 2 lety +152

    I agree with Vivica. Keep your relationship private. Keri Washington is a perfect example of keeping it private. Haven’t seen a lot of photos of her with her husband and I’ve never seen pictures of their child or children .

    • @sherriwilcox6916
      @sherriwilcox6916 Před 2 lety +10

      STAY PRIVATE!!!!!

    • @historiqueafricaine
      @historiqueafricaine Před 2 lety +2

      I wholerteadly agree👍 Issa Rae did the same and just mentionned that she got married. She apparently was never fond of exposing a boyfriend on social media or talk about her relationship to the press I like that mindset👍

    • @TSM-tv8hy
      @TSM-tv8hy Před 2 lety +1

      You don’t see a lot of photos of kerrie with her hubby because he horrible to her and treats her really bad and she too embarrassed to put herself out there in fear he will embarrass her in front of folks. And it’s known he didn’t want her to have kids because he low key didn’t want to marry her🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @MarcusMartn
      @MarcusMartn Před 2 lety +1

      So true keep your relationship private these celebrities and ig influencers love posting their relationship

    • @hermitvr3773
      @hermitvr3773 Před 2 lety

      @@TSM-tv8hy wow. How did you know all this information?

  • @resat1830
    @resat1830 Před 2 lety +491

    This year I had to walk away from a group of ladies I had been friends with for over 20 years (since highschool). This happened in March and although I still cry sometimes, I'm grateful that I chose myself in the end.

    • @nanaobben5166
      @nanaobben5166 Před 2 lety +31

      Similar story here too. Good for you. Wishing you well 💐💖

    • @phyllisbrown6916
      @phyllisbrown6916 Před 2 lety +44

      Sometimes those old pair of jeans don't fit anymore and you have to get rid of them. You have to do what's best for you.

    • @RadiantRuby
      @RadiantRuby Před 2 lety +31

      Thank you for your comment. I stepped away from my friend of 10 years and I cry every now and then as well. I’m learning people act as a reason, season or lifetime in our lives. Sending love your way ❤️

    • @idriselbaswashcloth1904
      @idriselbaswashcloth1904 Před 2 lety +7

      I did that and you have to know it’s what’s best because that took a lot of soul searching

    • @bathizide-tshabalala6281
      @bathizide-tshabalala6281 Před 2 lety +22

      This gave me confirmation that I made the right decision as well.
      My best friend since we were 4yrs old (we're in our 30s now) had been saying mean things about me behind my back...
      So, I had to move on from her. The pain is still so raw, but I have to move on. Clearly she's dangerous. It hurts though.
      Thank you for sharing. It is helping me.🙏🏾💖

  • @mka6671
    @mka6671 Před 2 lety +178

    I can tell Vivica has been hurt a lot. Her work has protected her from feeling all her pain. I want her to be happy and whole.

    • @cherylleech785
      @cherylleech785 Před 2 lety +5

      Absolutely!

    • @anavarela6958
      @anavarela6958 Před 2 lety +11

      Vivica is carrying pain

    • @tinamock6940
      @tinamock6940 Před 2 lety +7

      Vivica is definitely still hurting and she needs to acknowledge that sometimes we just pick the wrong men to try to have an relationship with then move on and find happiness with someone that's worthy of her love.

    • @turnthepage867
      @turnthepage867 Před 2 lety

      Vivica carries the pain on her sleeve even when she doesn't think so...

    • @ll6256
      @ll6256 Před 2 lety +2

      U don't even know her...lol

  • @ChandaOnly1
    @ChandaOnly1 Před 2 lety +111

    Real Love is sacred and not to show off. Thank you Vivica for finally saying it!

  • @prtdiva
    @prtdiva Před 2 lety +295

    I’m with Syleena. Stop idolizing celebrities and their relationships. They only show us what they want us to see. I wish them both the best but my only “goals” are between me, my future partner and God. Das it.

    • @DWeb0414
      @DWeb0414 Před 2 lety +4

      Perception Isn't Always The Reality.

    • @bf1822
      @bf1822 Před 2 lety +1

      @Autumn Cast WHATEVER

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 Před 2 lety

      No lies told.they are people too

    • @primosmith4866
      @primosmith4866 Před 2 lety +1

      It have ppl out here living like or worse than Celebrities. Everybody know about them because they are famous.

    • @unanuevapecula
      @unanuevapecula Před 2 lety +1

      Don't have to be a celebrity. Have couples right in your neighborhood or church that you shouldn't look up to.

  • @gospel4303
    @gospel4303 Před 2 lety +83

    Syleena as always‘Voice of Reason’, on every topic today 👏🏼

    • @tinastardust7793
      @tinastardust7793 Před 2 lety +9

      Syleena is the most intelligent one. Most well rounded one. Claudia and Vivica are Hollywood, childless women types, who haven't had the experience of caring for a child--it changes your humanity. Their whole adult lives have been shaped by Hollywood, so their world view is warped. Lisa Raye is pretty, got her career on pretty privilege, but she lacks the intellect to discuss topics. Syleena is the smartest and sensible one, hands down.

  • @TiffanyRayneOfficial
    @TiffanyRayneOfficial Před 2 lety +131

    I loved how Issa Rae wrapped up Insecure. Definitely real, relatable, and proof that black women can and do have the healthy love they deserve. The only sad part about Ms. Good and Mr. Franklin is the speculation on social media. None of these people know what happened yet they have so much to say. The way they went in on Meagan Good is uncalled for. And the church folks never fail to get on their high judgmental horse. Anyway, I'm glad they're not slinging mud publicly. Let them divorce in peace.

    • @dreesecup1103
      @dreesecup1103 Před 2 lety +10

      So true! And I believe since Devon was the one who filed for the divorce, it makes her look worse. People just run with stuff!

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 Před 2 lety +6

      Whoever filed shouldn't matter . It's over and they both are moving on .

  • @blondelefant2119
    @blondelefant2119 Před 2 lety +122

    The whole panel looks STUNNING!! The variety is so refreshing! Love black women!

  • @refinedqueen2260
    @refinedqueen2260 Před 2 lety +97

    This was a really good segment. I actually enjoyed every topic of discussion. No talking over one another and each beautiful Queen added valuable content.

  • @bakeembakeem9852
    @bakeembakeem9852 Před 2 lety +43

    Slyeena is speaking the truth about therapy, there were times i was abled to leave a session, fully empowered, and over times felt like i need a stretcher to carry me out but honestly, the main key of therapy is to have a great therapist, one who gives you feedback instead of sitting there like a robot

  • @pamelaison7380
    @pamelaison7380 Před 2 lety +42

    I love that Vivica can't stop saying"This, that and the 3rd"🤣🤣

  • @kellygibson8937
    @kellygibson8937 Před 2 lety +130

    Vivica THANK YOU! Your statement about learning that some people just will not or cannot give what you give and it is ok to notice it and let them go! My theme in 2021 also was to protect my peace as well and I have done that more than any other time! I need to shed even more than I have this year.

  • @CocoChanelle-1
    @CocoChanelle-1 Před 2 lety +55

    Yeah, I went through that too Syleena. Some people will hang around just for the opportunities you provide. It’s easy to tell, ask them for a favor and it will show. Vivica is right, Me Time is so important.

  • @ReReJSB
    @ReReJSB Před 2 lety +120

    Best thought said by Vivica….”less is more.” I totally agree with this about Megan and Devon…..less is wayyyy more. I also hope it doesn’t get messy and that they remain friends.

    • @yolandabain8405
      @yolandabain8405 Před 2 lety +9

      The ladies are on point today...

    • @traceygrant3386
      @traceygrant3386 Před 2 lety +14

      They seem mature enough to not get messy. I believe they are genuinely friends. And they love each other they just can’t be married anymore.

    • @charjay3318
      @charjay3318 Před 2 lety +3

      Exactly

    • @CAMeade85
      @CAMeade85 Před 2 lety +5

      Yep, take it from Beyonce', she is the Queen of Private!

    • @drinkwatereatmelons7048
      @drinkwatereatmelons7048 Před 2 lety +2

      When exes can separate and still respect each other it speak volume. They may not be in love, but still have love for one another. When 2 ppl stop liking one another as a person then it can be/get nasty.

  • @dBarb1999
    @dBarb1999 Před 2 lety +34

    These ladies are more beautiful with every passing week. Wowwww 🤩🤩🤩. Claudia, Vivica, LisaRaye and Syleena are gorgeous!!!

  • @lasonyabass4424
    @lasonyabass4424 Před 2 lety +48

    Vivica “girl” you Rock
    Syleena “you” Rock
    LisaRaye you Rock
    Claudia you Rock

  • @taliagoodwomanmann
    @taliagoodwomanmann Před 2 lety +17

    Vivica looks so vibrant and peaceful. You all look marvelous. It sound like Vivica took the time out with herself to further find herself. Go Vivica! You are glowing 🥰😍.

  • @msworthy_27
    @msworthy_27 Před 2 lety +98

    I’m so happy WE as a people want better for our lives and doing the work!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @TheSlw531
    @TheSlw531 Před 2 lety +44

    I’m so glad y’all said that about Nene. I’m with Syleena. I lost my husband last year and I am so broken. I can’t believe Nene is doing this at such a vulnerable time. Someone said to me that when you lose someone that you loved so much your mind is just effed up. I agree. I just hope Nene is alright.

    • @paulawoodard5526
      @paulawoodard5526 Před 2 lety +13

      When you lose a spouse it takes a lot out of you I am a living witness. But one thing I can say is there is a God and he is the only one who can get you through along with 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏!!!

    • @lapx1
      @lapx1 Před 2 lety +5

      She use to be a stripper you know

    • @Undaunted2012
      @Undaunted2012 Před 2 lety

      I so agree.

    • @kmeeks92987
      @kmeeks92987 Před 2 lety +7

      I lost my husband and best friend 3 years ago. I was completely broken. For a while I was just walking around like a zombie completely numb. Then, I was so numb that I wanted to feel something and my personal medicine is sex. It may have been too soon for some but for me it was what I felt like I needed at the time. I now know that I needed to sit with my feelings but at the time I wanted to feel "normal". We have to realize that Graig had a terminal illness. His death was not unexpected. They both had the time to accept and process his death. Nene is a wife. She's naturally going to want a man and despite what others feel is appropriate for her life she's going to do what SHE feels she needs to do. Like I said, I only lost my husband 3 years ago but I am now in a relationship with a man who understands, honors, and protects the love I have for my husband. Peace and blessings to you sister. May you be healed and whole. May you know with all of your soul that life doesn't end with the earth. Power to your protectors on the other side!

    • @ccr6088
      @ccr6088 Před 2 lety

      I think we have to consider that everyone’s relationship isn’t the same. Nene explained that they sorta had an open relationship so while she might have been a caretaker to Grep she probably was still dating and using it as an outlet

  • @romanjones5723
    @romanjones5723 Před 2 lety +26

    Vivica!!! Yessss. Protect your peace at all costs. If a person can't give you what you need it's alright to move on.

  • @colethecancer
    @colethecancer Před 2 lety +24

    I freaking love Syleena like omg she's so real & funny asf. She said "Hello somebody, is anybody there" lmaoooo. They honestly need to take all her funny saying & put it in one video.

  • @kellygibson8937
    @kellygibson8937 Před 2 lety +47

    Syleena is right on with the reality of a couples relationship because we don't really know the inside but it surely gives single women hope!

  • @YouKnowDOMO
    @YouKnowDOMO Před 2 lety +29

    I’m Glad To Hear That I’m Not The Only One Who Woke Up To How Important It Is To Have Discernment About Who To Have In Your Life & Who To Let Go Of! One Of The Biggest Lessons I Learned This Year! I See It As A Blessing & Clearing Of Space.

  • @hammejharris267
    @hammejharris267 Před 2 lety +161

    This was on point. I can relate to all three of you. I literally blocked and deleted family and friends. I've came to the realization that I am a great person and I deserve to be treated as such and not be drained all the time. Great topic! Claudia, if any time you feel unloved and uappreciated know that I'm out here and that you can always count on me. We're best friends in my head😘💙

    • @dorothymatthews6690
      @dorothymatthews6690 Před 2 lety +10

      Yes!. Just distanced my self from a brother and his wife that was keeping an inheritance my Dad left me. Guess I will see them in court.

    • @cherylbutler9225
      @cherylbutler9225 Před 2 lety +5

      Ty hammer Harris I love the fact that you spoke about having to delete and block family members. I have no regrets because some people are miserable, and they will never do anything to change their status. And we know misery doesn’t just love company-Baby listen! Misery DEMANDS company. So I’m like you, I’m ridding my life of ALL toxins, places, and things. Plus, I am not willing to have or allow anyone to stay in my life, who doesn’t want the absolute best for me!

    • @taz9234
      @taz9234 Před 2 lety +2

      Yes, had to do this with family and friends. I was putting more energy into them than they put into me. It is about me and my mental health. Amen 🙏🏿 🙌🏿

  • @supermommy2717
    @supermommy2717 Před 2 lety +30

    It’s funny how Devon said Megan is still the love of his life, but he’s the one who filed for divorce…. But hey you never know what he wasn’t willing to deal with 🤷🏾‍♀️ wish them both the best of luck.

    • @TheDjdot20
      @TheDjdot20 Před 2 lety +1

      I couldn't understand that reunion I'm the only one say that was unhealthy for that minister 🤔🤔

    • @Dablkwid0w2008
      @Dablkwid0w2008 Před 2 lety

      He gotta understand Meagan DA GOAT
      She's like every dudes fantasy girl

  • @SJ-ni6iy
    @SJ-ni6iy Před 2 lety +126

    NeNe’s husband Greg always appeared on the show to be the voice of reason or a peace maker. I think Greg helped to balance her out in a positive way. I like watching NeNe, she has an entertaining personality but I think she would be a toxic person to deal with in real life.

  • @suzybeebuzz3924
    @suzybeebuzz3924 Před 2 lety +11

    I'm happy to have 1 hour a day of "ME TIME" , it's 24 hours in a day and I feel like I deserve at least 1 hour

  • @amarige25
    @amarige25 Před 2 lety +26

    Syleena gave a word! 36:10 That part! I’ve been in therapy since June 2020 and I realize I suppressed a lot. Here’s to 2022 and taking those rose colored glasses off. I now choose to see exactly what people are showing me instead of seeing what I want to see - and I will act accordingly.

    • @nanaobben5166
      @nanaobben5166 Před 2 lety +3

      Absolutely 💐

    • @nanaobben5166
      @nanaobben5166 Před 2 lety +2

      It was so good I watched it twice. Went through the same realisation 🙏🏾💖

  • @daniellemitchell3118
    @daniellemitchell3118 Před 2 lety +8

    I once met Susan L.Taylor, former Editor-in-chief of Essence Magazine, at a book signing. She told me something I live by, "Give yourself unto yourself before you give yourself away."

    • @conniemoore4801
      @conniemoore4801 Před 2 lety +3

      Whenever she left Essence & her personal word in the end; I ended as well with that magazine!!

  • @Allisonmia1
    @Allisonmia1 Před 2 lety +186

    I'm with Vivica. This Christmas was about me and relaxing.

  • @tsb8769
    @tsb8769 Před 2 lety +11

    VIVICA!!!
    This was definitely a season of shedding for me as well.
    The "loss" of 30-40 year relationships was a necessary ending.
    I mourned the "loss" of what I wanted to see but instead I saw behind the veil of tolerance towards me.
    I decided to be where I am celebrated not tolerated.
    I am good!

  • @cumberland19132
    @cumberland19132 Před 2 lety +70

    Im living for Syleena lioness hair and energy this week she's on point

    • @sheshowoutmedia
      @sheshowoutmedia Před 2 lety +1

      Yes her hair is bringing a deeper energy to her lately!!!

  • @mitchell6349
    @mitchell6349 Před 2 lety +23

    Less is more is so true. The less people know the better.

  • @amarige25
    @amarige25 Před 2 lety +15

    Selena’s hair is giving me life!

  • @Shay1147
    @Shay1147 Před 2 lety +30

    Russell and Ciara are clearly soulmates. They wanted a family and stability. Meagan and Devon obviously didn't have the hard conversations about what they wanted from the relationship. She wasn't sure about having children.

    • @dafonkybassmusic
      @dafonkybassmusic Před 2 lety +11

      I just said thats probably what happened… all prechers wanna leave a legacy

    • @lsmith2951
      @lsmith2951 Před 2 lety +2

      I'm sorry, but how do you know this? Are you living with them? Do they call you and divulge all their business to you? They let us see what they want us to see; as it should be. It is their personal business.

    • @Shay1147
      @Shay1147 Před 2 lety +5

      @@lsmith2951 Megan said herself that she wasn't sure if she wanted children and if so she wasn't sure when. That's a conversation a couple should have before marriage. The uncertainty could have been a factor as she spoke on it more than once in interviews. His ideas of marriage and desire to have children could have played a major role in the dismantling of their union.

    • @TheProfessor__
      @TheProfessor__ Před 2 lety +4

      @@Shay1147 you answered this with so much class and restraint considering how the inquiry was posed to you.💓

    • @Shay1147
      @Shay1147 Před 2 lety +1

      @@TheProfessor__ Thank you!

  • @blondelefant2119
    @blondelefant2119 Před 2 lety +62

    Selena same lessons about 2021! Its eye opening when you start paying more attention and seeing that some people around you just trying to get what they can from you. This year allowed me to really see what I really want and what I really like!

  • @t.s_s.8132
    @t.s_s.8132 Před 2 lety +91

    My male cousin said to me, "When a man picks his bride, he will never stop loving her, even in divorce."

  • @JOANACHONG
    @JOANACHONG Před 2 lety +13

    I love what Vivica and Syleena said about accepting themselves and letting go off people who are not good for them, who don't place value in us...I have let go of them without any malice and hate...I say, do you.

  • @gwendolynwhite4962
    @gwendolynwhite4962 Před 2 lety +17

    Lisaraye's makeup is very pretty and soft. Best natural look I've seen in a while.

    • @mskita007
      @mskita007 Před 2 lety +1

      It’s gorgeous! Very beautiful and natural.

    • @ellejaydotson5406
      @ellejaydotson5406 Před 2 lety +3

      Y’all can’t be serious! That contour on her nose is too much. There’s nothing natural about it.

    • @MakeYouTubeGreatAgain1
      @MakeYouTubeGreatAgain1 Před 2 lety +4

      @@ellejaydotson5406 Those are fanatics. She can do no wrong in their eyes. Let's keep it real, Lisa looks like Raven Simone and Jasmine Guy combined. Vivica Fox is pretty AF at 60!

    • @mskita007
      @mskita007 Před 2 lety +2

      @@MakeCZcamsGreatAgain1 How in the world are you speaking for us? We don’t have to be Fanatics to give a compliment to someone. 🙄

    • @marilynharris4831
      @marilynharris4831 Před 2 lety

      She needs a bit more tho

  • @mrogers7110
    @mrogers7110 Před 2 lety +12

    I loved the “Me Time!!!” What each shared was so real and refreshing! I love you guys!

  • @sandrayoung6270
    @sandrayoung6270 Před 2 lety +12

    Vivica you are so correct. Less is more. You are all beautiful souls,Lisa Raye, as well as all the other ladies.
    You ladies are so on point.

  • @MuniEve
    @MuniEve Před 2 lety +17

    First of all Syleena I can’t imagine anyone not liking you because it’s clear from the comments you are our fav.

  • @ursuladean6427
    @ursuladean6427 Před 2 lety +37

    The Queens so glad I found y'all ! Yes Insecure has ended and that was my sh*t but the realness of black girl magic , sista with knowledge who aren't afraid to share continues thru y'all . Much love and Happy New Year !

  • @DonnaInTheBlack
    @DonnaInTheBlack Před 2 lety +12

    Some people aren't meant to be in your life forever. When we think of "meant to be" we assume forever. Some people are meant to be in your life simply to teach you something. "Forever" may not be the person, but what you learn from them.

  • @lashellmoss1697
    @lashellmoss1697 Před 2 lety +4

    SYLEENA 👏👏😂😂😂😂"HELLO SOMEBODY, IS ANYBODY THERE"!!! LOVE IT SYLEENA IM HERE👋👋👋

  • @jankam2418
    @jankam2418 Před 2 lety +13

    Syleena Johnson is stunning and the most insightful and introspective.

  • @bettymsullivan3553
    @bettymsullivan3553 Před 2 lety +7

    Syleena, you really touched me tonight. You spoke my truth…I’m shedding even into the new year. It’s absolutely necessary. Real talk💯

  • @nyanisamajavu4508
    @nyanisamajavu4508 Před 2 lety +9

    This resonates with me busy doing my me time right now from 27-31 December,taking walks on the beach, napping, reading and doing absolutely NOTHING. My soul and spirit really needed it. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @sonyabattle9600
    @sonyabattle9600 Před 2 lety +6

    Syleena's authentic concern for NeNe is refreshing. I do not watch Cocktails with Queens often. However, when the topic interest me, I left click and look forward to Syleena's commentary.

  • @Adorleea
    @Adorleea Před 2 lety +33

    I never comment on shows but I just Lovee you Selena. Your light, your energy, the truths, your mind. Pleaseeee stay on this show!!! And producers please show her my comment 💖 All you ladies are inspirations to me.

  • @tysonb3568
    @tysonb3568 Před 2 lety +6

    Vivica is looking beautiful, and more like her natural self here....
    I hope she continues the way shes going...
    🙌🏾

  • @Taker51796
    @Taker51796 Před 2 lety +8

    I love all 4 of you ladies. This is a very special group and I feel privileged watching you all. Black excellence at its finest.

  • @shar7629
    @shar7629 Před 2 lety +39

    Nene may have been at peace a long time ago. No one knows how they would respond... it could also be a distraction for her. It does seem soon.. we just never know😪

  • @auntypeewee4393
    @auntypeewee4393 Před 2 lety +3

    BLACK WOMEN, BLACK WOMEN, 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽 IM PROUD OF ALL OF YOU….

  • @nanaobben5166
    @nanaobben5166 Před 2 lety +30

    I absolutely loved the Queendom session and felt everything the ladies described especially Syleena saying some people will not be going into 2022 with her. I also feel as my friends didn't see me (or like me but were happy to get the attention I was giving them) - exactly what Syleena said! 👌🏾. Yes, I've definitely shed some people this year! 🙏🏾💖

  • @teamplay5847
    @teamplay5847 Před 2 lety +23

    I really really really enjoyed the ME TIME chat♥️! Very important for US as women. I identified with much of what you ladies have said. Keep it up! And, I get Claudia now. I like her as a host after all the challenges of the year. I'd say...defend yourself, yes, but don't take things so deeply within. Leave them on the outside of your heart. Only open that door to the good things. Have a Happy Blessed New Year to ALL!

  • @CocoChanelle-1
    @CocoChanelle-1 Před 2 lety +5

    Claudia and the “concern” impression! 😂🤣

  • @dushii.bonita1305
    @dushii.bonita1305 Před 2 lety +17

    Nene and Tamar look like they are all about themselves and all the attention they can get

  • @greenbyrd3665
    @greenbyrd3665 Před 2 lety +75

    Vivica is having the hardest time not saying "this,that and a third". So funny to watch! Stay the course Vivica. You can do this!😂

  • @ju-stil-ien-en90
    @ju-stil-ien-en90 Před 2 lety +40

    Yes I understand Selina about her son. My little brother is also on the Spectrum. (Aspergers) and routine is soothing for him. Any sense of change can make him feel a way and he feels his emotions very strongly. Don't feel bad Selina, u did ur best. They dropped the ball not you. ❤ Happy New Year Queens. ❤❤❤

    • @conniemoore4801
      @conniemoore4801 Před 2 lety +2

      I'm just upset that Ms Jordan said, you did your best, he'll get it; dismissing the diagnosis of the son😣

    • @jupiterskiss3473
      @jupiterskiss3473 Před 2 lety

      @@conniemoore4801 grace is a great skill. Her intent was not malicious. People make mistakes.

  • @dwaynedavis3416
    @dwaynedavis3416 Před 2 lety +8

    After break up with somebody,no more contact involved PERIODT

  • @Taker51796
    @Taker51796 Před 2 lety +3

    I am definitely an over-giver. Giving too much of myself physically, mentally & spiritually. People will feed off your energy & light and your compassion and kindness. And after that they leave you dry and withered. I’m going into 2022 definitely shedding people and habits. Protecting my personal peace all 2022 and forever 💯

  • @klove_life_blessings
    @klove_life_blessings Před 2 lety +4

    These ladies spoke some true gems tonight. 💎 💎 💎 Powerful words...Queendom

  • @blaquebutterfly5438
    @blaquebutterfly5438 Před 2 lety +15

    I agree with everything Vivica said regarding shedding people that's not giving me same of all that I give.

  • @dBarb1999
    @dBarb1999 Před 2 lety +18

    Syleena, I’ve learned the same thing this year. I thought I was doing the work until I finally had to do the work. Whew! Therapy has me twisted weekly.

    • @mskita007
      @mskita007 Před 2 lety +2

      Yes! I feel all of this comment (regarding therapy and thinking I’m doing the work). Lawwwwwd!

    • @dBarb1999
      @dBarb1999 Před 2 lety +5

      @@mskita007 Right! I was skating by and simply picking and choosing what I wanted to work on in therapy. Now that I’m being led and the right questions are being asked I’m like, “WHO SAID THAT!?!?!” (In my Porsha voice). 🤣😂🤣😂🤣

    • @mskita007
      @mskita007 Před 2 lety +1

      @@dBarb1999 LMAOOOOO! When mine ask me thought provoking questions or shows me how I didn’t do/say something correctly….I’m like, “Oh!” 😳😳😳

    • @dBarb1999
      @dBarb1999 Před 2 lety +1

      @@mskita007 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @besmithj167
      @besmithj167 Před 2 lety +1

      @@dBarb1999 🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I AM SCREAMING 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @dreamqueen317
    @dreamqueen317 Před 2 lety +7

    Claudia: Tristan and khloe
    Syleena: I’m SICK OF IIIITTTT!

  • @kyeshiawickware6295
    @kyeshiawickware6295 Před 2 lety +7

    This is my first time here and I love the vibes!!! You all were spot on with the advice….. I resonated with everyone’s learned lessons for 2021. Glad to see I wasn’t the only one going through….

  • @Bexinja
    @Bexinja Před 2 lety +8

    Love these ladies and how supportive they are of each other

  • @cbreez40
    @cbreez40 Před 2 lety +19

    Thank you ms Vivica,, that letting go of lopsided relationships is difficult..I love all you Ladies.. Happy Holidays and God Bless you, May the New Year bring you a Peace you've never known and protect you from hurt and secure your families..

  • @Msladyrae92
    @Msladyrae92 Před 2 lety +4

    Someone can absolutely still hold a deep place in your heart and you love yourself enough to walk away. Everyone has their dealbreakers and it doesn’t always have to revolve around infidelity.

  • @nicoleward4633
    @nicoleward4633 Před 2 lety +9

    Yessss 👑’s!!! Great conversations as usual. You ladies are the perfect combination of REAL!

  • @dinkinsdinkins6678
    @dinkinsdinkins6678 Před 2 lety +38

    Let Syleena Johnson talk more I love her responses

    • @dedeelliott6745
      @dedeelliott6745 Před 2 lety +3

      Naw. She talk enough🙄

    • @duvalgirl6541
      @duvalgirl6541 Před 2 lety +2

      I appreciate her insight. Would love to hear more from her too.

    • @dedeelliott6745
      @dedeelliott6745 Před 2 lety +3

      @Cereal_killa true..

    • @ACETHEEGR8
      @ACETHEEGR8 Před 2 lety +1

      @Cereal_killa 🗣AT ALLLLLLLL. I wish LR would shut up 78.98989% of the time 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @melaninrx
    @melaninrx Před 2 lety +9

    I need a sit down dinner with the Queens, yall are all friends in my head!

  • @valeriecarre8967
    @valeriecarre8967 Před 2 lety +8

    Claudia you said a word today. Sista!
    You are right I used to be in my feelings too when people take advantage not me. Now I am not because I see it early and keep it moving

  • @melaninrx
    @melaninrx Před 2 lety +9

    I agree with Lisa Raye, doesn't change the relationship goals. Just sad they are not together. But we see glimpse of things we want in our relationship.

  • @melodyarunga6264
    @melodyarunga6264 Před 2 lety +8

    Expected more commentary on Insecure… that was a revolutionary show for the culture…

    • @ak24553
      @ak24553 Před 2 lety +5

      They sound like they didn’t know much about it.

    • @besmithj167
      @besmithj167 Před 2 lety +5

      @@ak24553 That part🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @ivy1908pearl
    @ivy1908pearl Před 2 lety +16

    Thank you Ladies…I’m so with you on the “2021” personal testimonies and thoughts….growth…never stop doing it!!! 🙌🏾🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️

  • @chanelchanel8466
    @chanelchanel8466 Před 2 lety +11

    You 4 woman are soooooo beautiful inside and out, I absolutely look forward to this show every single week. The content is very useful too.💕😘🙏🏾💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕🙏🏾

  • @KeeKeeSoto
    @KeeKeeSoto Před 2 lety +6

    I feel you Claudia! I spent my birthday sick & will have to celebrate this wkd along with New Years! Feel better soon Sis 🙏🏾

  • @ParisArmaniTV
    @ParisArmaniTV Před 2 lety +7

    Coming from the same woman who said: “Close ur legs to married men” -Nee nee 👀☕️☕️

  • @CHRISFREE84
    @CHRISFREE84 Před 2 lety +8

    Insecure really is a good show I really like that show been watching for years very well done 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

  • @diamondt1426
    @diamondt1426 Před 2 lety +2

    Vivica always understand the assignment. All the ladies look great. Happy New Years world

  • @kayjay5143
    @kayjay5143 Před 2 lety +8

    Vivica with the “Me Time” sentiments! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @pockahantiss
    @pockahantiss Před 2 lety +9

    My Christmas/birthday was great. Happy 2022 y’all! I can’t believe this show is almost 2 years old. This show has been my favorite. I can relate to all of these “aunties.” Celebrate yourselves next year. Me time is a must! Happy new year 🎆🎊🎈🥂🍾🍷🍸🥃

  • @elshawnajenkins4185
    @elshawnajenkins4185 Před 2 lety +5

    I always look forward to tuning in with you Ladies.

  • @ritaj.9880
    @ritaj.9880 Před 2 lety +9

    In 2021 I am absolutely and currently where LisaRae and Vivica is/are at. Period. Point Blank! Thanks Syleena. Yep. I cried too. Same realizations happened to me. No therapy for me just shedding. "2022 is not about you boo! I am #1 not #2!"

  • @maudavercher6418
    @maudavercher6418 Před 2 lety +9

    I love me some y’all!! Keep growing strong, Queens! 👑👑👑👑

  • @heathercole4899
    @heathercole4899 Před 2 lety +15

    It would be fun to go for drinks with these ladies and just listen to the stories🥂🌷willing to sign an NDA😊

    • @Dablkwid0w2008
      @Dablkwid0w2008 Před 2 lety

      They are sooo beautiful and they were so transparent on here.

  • @lastdays3148
    @lastdays3148 Před 2 lety +28

    I totally understand what Mr. Devon meant about his soon to be Ex being the love of his life. I myself ended up two Months ago leaving a long-term relationship with the love of my life. He and I were going in different directions and not the same directions. Mr. Devon is a Seventh Day Adventist Sabbath Believer. I've studied their Teachings. They are taught to stay Celibate until marriage. And to marry other Seventh Day Adventist Believers. The Scriptures even says to stay celibate meaning no fornication, before marriage. I should have follow that teaching Years ago. I wish the best for them.

  • @sbrownie
    @sbrownie Před 2 lety +10

    I'm with Claudia. I usually wait for the Woop Woop to quiet down and watch without public distraction.

  • @vaneshadavis1290
    @vaneshadavis1290 Před 2 lety +8

    Cocktails with the Queens - TAKE IT!! All of you are awesome!! Happy blessed New Year to all🙏🏾💜💜

  • @yvettepatterson7299
    @yvettepatterson7299 Před 2 lety +13

    Perfectly honest Nene was probably seeing another man while Greg was still alive because he was chronically ill and he probably wasn't able to fulfill her in certain ways and maybe they had that understanding because when you have a partner that's chronically ill for a long part portion of time you guys have to have different kinds of conversation because you still need physical touch enjoyment and they may not be able to do that and so they may allow you to step outside of the marriage even while they're still there so that you can be satisfied in other ways

  • @n.v.1173
    @n.v.1173 Před 2 lety +3

    Viv you are rocking that hairstyle & color! Love it, 💃🏻

  • @deborahford3790
    @deborahford3790 Před 2 lety

    Syleena is bold and honest enough to speak the truth.

  • @lolitamoore7786
    @lolitamoore7786 Před 2 lety +8

    I so agree with the sentiments about the disappointment of people oftentimes in our friends and family Circle. I can so relate to all; my mom always says people are funny, now I truly know what she means; they can be fickle and unpredictable, disloyal, disrespectful. One minute they r for you and then against you: and for any number of reasons; usually jealousy Envy contempt insecurities and maturities and the list goes on. I applied you all and congratulations on your show growing with much more success. This was a heartfelt segment for me. Great job ladies and happy holidays.

    • @stacystacy9491
      @stacystacy9491 Před 2 lety +1

      My sayin"ppl change every day,move accordingly"... 🤷🏽

  • @tangiermcgowan6105
    @tangiermcgowan6105 Před 2 lety +11

    For once Claudia have something nice to say about NeNe. To show concern about NeNe’s image is commendable. Very good.

  • @williamswbb3
    @williamswbb3 Před 2 lety +5

    I ❤ Cocktails with the Queens. Happy New Year's, Queens

  • @Blueprintforauthors
    @Blueprintforauthors Před 2 lety +1

    My son is on the spectrum and is the SAME way I can so relate lol! It was refreshing to hear someone else speak on that dynamic.

  • @user-be9ck5ir5h
    @user-be9ck5ir5h Před 2 lety +12

    lisa raye really been fine her whole life

    • @Dablkwid0w2008
      @Dablkwid0w2008 Před 2 lety

      She like my big sister in my head..she probably younger than me lol