Walking tour of the CASTRO STREET neighborhood of San Francisco & a personal trip down memory lane

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  • čas přidán 11. 07. 2024
  • Today, I took my gay grandson on a walking tour of the historic Castro Street and neighborhood of San Francisco, CA.
    It's one of the most famous "Gayborhoods" in the world and I also have a very personal connection to the area. One of my closest friends, who died from AIDS in 1993, used to live there. So, this was also a very personal and emotional trip down memory lane for me.
    During our walk we viewed the Rainbow Honor Walk and the Pink Triangle Memorial.
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    #castrostreet #gayborhood #walkingtour #walks #gayhistory

Komentáře • 144

  • @andytaylor5476
    @andytaylor5476 Před 26 dny +9

    Hi Steve- The gold domed Victorian on 17th St. was my home from 83-99. I rented the first floor flat. Wonderful memories of living there. I still live here in a different area. I teared up at the selfie of you, Harvey Milk and your grandson, I was struck recalling Harvey's words to come out wherever you are and his hopes for the future wide acceptance of LGBTQ folks . Thank you!

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 26 dny +2

      Hi Andy, omg what a small world. So you were neighbors with my friend Fritz who lived just a block up the street from you. What a beautiful home you live in. Thank you for sharing that memory with us. 🏳️‍🌈😄👍

    • @andytaylor5476
      @andytaylor5476 Před 26 dny +1

      @@theretiredlifewithsteve Yep and I remember those crazy Halloween's in the Castro. BTW the pic of you and Fritz and the guy- well, you were quite the looker! Very nice.

  • @welcome_Moscow_walks
    @welcome_Moscow_walks Před 26 dny +9

    Thanks for showing life in San Francisco!

  • @sharonobryan9713
    @sharonobryan9713 Před 26 dny +6

    Pretty area. I'm sorry you lost your friend, it's sweet that you still remember him with so much fondness.❤ Thank you for including us!

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 26 dny +2

      Thank you, Sharon. Some people you just never forget. 😊💙

    • @derekwalters4980
      @derekwalters4980 Před 24 dny +2

      I thought the same thing. Such a lovely lasting legacy true friendship and love are. This is one of the things I like best about Steve and his videos, he remembers so much, but even more, he remembers so many of the feelings and emotions that he, and many of us, attach to them. I like to think I do the same thing, I'm just not as eloquent as Steve is in talking about it.

  • @AZguy55
    @AZguy55 Před 26 dny +6

    Walking on Castro Street was one of the first times I felt in the majority, unlike growing up thinking I was a minority of one. Mini history lesson while getting your steps in. What a beautiful day to share! 🏳️‍🌈 Paul

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 26 dny +2

      That’s a good point Paul. I guess that’s why neighbor is like this was so important. 🏳️‍🌈😄👍

  • @cathpeterson1944
    @cathpeterson1944 Před 26 dny +5

    I enjoyed your walk thru the neighbourhood luv all the architecture, beautiful Pink Triangle Memorial gardens, thank you Steve for bringing us down memory lane with you the old townhouses there are so beautiful

  • @Linda-in9ns
    @Linda-in9ns Před 26 dny +6

    Nice area there! I had a nice friend who died of aids. He passed in 1993. Such a good ❤️ heart so kind he was. Good day to you both! 😊

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 26 dny +1

      Thanks for sharing the memory of your friend Linda. It reminds me of the Billy Joel song, only the good die young. 🥲💙

  • @Bazerkly
    @Bazerkly Před 26 dny +3

    So nice to spend time with your Grandson..... Also nice he wants to spend time with you ! 🙈🙉🙊

  • @palmaleestephens1906
    @palmaleestephens1906 Před 26 dny +3

    Thank you, Steve, for the tour! It was very interesting. I’m so sorry that your good friend died so young. I know you have great memories.

  • @virginiacaston1456
    @virginiacaston1456 Před 26 dny +2

    Happy to see you and your grandson spending time together. I always enjoy your videos Steve. 😊

  • @derekwalters4980
    @derekwalters4980 Před 26 dny +3

    People come from all over the country to live on the streets of San Francisco. The weather, services and, like it or not, acceptance. Love the photo of you two with Harvey's photo. He was a force, no doubt about it.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 26 dny

      Hi Derek, I just heard the other day that something like 75% of all the homeless people in the country live in California! 😳

  • @janicewright4164
    @janicewright4164 Před 26 dny +3

    Mr. Steve, I enjoyed the walking tour of the famous Castro St. area, & Harvey Milk Plaza. I'm so glad you and Mason get to enjoy each other. I look forward to seeing new places through your eyes. Greetings from your friend in the great Peach 🍑 State of Georgia 🍑 until next time.
    ❤🎉❤🎉

  • @wlwal1
    @wlwal1 Před 26 dny +2

    Thanks Steve, Castro brings back memories of old high school ( Norwalk High) lover joining the ballet in San Francisco.
    Always enjoy watching these SF videos!!

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 26 dny

      I hope they were good memories w!

    • @wlwal1
      @wlwal1 Před 26 dny

      Well, he lived with other ballet hopefully and the building had roaches! 😮😮😮
      Lost track of where he went !

  • @monikameza4107
    @monikameza4107 Před 26 dny +4

    Thanks Steve for taking me to San Francisco. Last time I went in 1994, thanks for the memories ❤

  • @uncledavid31
    @uncledavid31 Před 26 dny +1

    Thank you Steve and Mason for the walking tour. My first visit to San Francisco was in 1998 and I participated in the "Cruisin' the Castro" walking tour with Trevor Hailey. Then again in the 2010 with a friend of mine. I have a picture with me and my friend at the Pink Triangle Memorial and I still have a piece of the pink rose quartz.

  • @robbiedetroitstigermanviny8883

    So Cool, I'm so happy the both of you had a wonderful time. Enjoy Steve!!!

  • @maryturko6490
    @maryturko6490 Před 26 dny +2

    What a wonderful trip with your grandson ❤San Francisco is a magical place. Thanks for sharing this.

  • @texadonkey34
    @texadonkey34 Před 26 dny +3

    Thank you for the very cool tour, San Francisco is soo beautiful. Luv the old front windows and the colorful art work. Great tour 🌼🌼😎

  • @kbVACArestatecarsnrvs
    @kbVACArestatecarsnrvs Před 26 dny +3

    Interesting to be back on Castro after all of these years! You had friends on Castro, wow! My friend Bill (before he met his lover-lawyer partner from TX and bought a B&B on the Russian River) lived on upper Castro. One of those older three/four story Victorians (he had the upper two floors and rented the basement/1st floor out) in the early 80's. He was working for the SF General Hospital as the main Pharmacist. My, my. We can say the "good ole days" can't we?

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 26 dny

      Hi kb, thank you for sharing that memory with us. It’s such a small world. And kind of bittersweet to witness how time just marches on. And yes, we can definitely say we the good old days lol! 😆👍

  • @timkenyon2382
    @timkenyon2382 Před 26 dny +1

    Enjoyed this tour. I housesat for a friend for a few times and he lived a stone's throw away from that Safeway on Market. He has since moved, unfortunately. Always enjoyed my "work" housesitting for a cat all those years in San Francisco. Thanks for posting your walking tour.

  • @judegabbard2081
    @judegabbard2081 Před 26 dny +2

    I love that you were here! We have to have a cocktail next time I'm in Palm Springs. Love your POV.

  • @veganpeace_ATX
    @veganpeace_ATX Před 26 dny +2

    Thanks for the tour, enjoyed hearing about your friends back then. Reminded me when I was in my twenties living in Montrose (gay neighborhood in Houston at the time) all during the 80's in an old victorian house across the street and close to all the gay bars. Such fun times! Of course there was a lot of sadness when at the end of the decade and into the 90's almost everyone I knew died. Will definitely grab one of those pink quartz when I make it up to San Francisco. : )

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 26 dny +1

      What a small world. Back in the early 1980s I spent a few days in Houston in the Montrose gay neighborhood. Our paths probably crossed. 🏳️‍🌈😄👍

  • @EarlyRiser--
    @EarlyRiser-- Před 26 dny +1

    That was a fun walk exploring the area and buildings. But you left us hanging, we were waiting for a Vegan Buffett! Mason has a beautiful smile! I've done the same thing trying to find a house in the City many years later. I'm sure when they paint the exterior a different color it does trick the mind. Luckily you remembered the address. I liked the new colors vs the old brown. Sorry Fritz died so young. That was a wonderful tribute to your friend. I'm sure Mason will remember this trip with you for a long time!

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 25 dny +1

      Hi ER, I’m glad you enjoyed it. Unfortunately, we were not able to find a single vegan restaurant in the Castro area. 😲 and Mason is extremely picky about what he eats so he didn’t want to eat any pasta or falafel or salad. We walked over to the Haight Asbury neighborhood and finally found a vegan restaurant. Coming up in the next video. 😄👍

  • @steveir1837
    @steveir1837 Před 26 dny +1

    Loved the castro video Steve. Your videos are so real. Passing on memories is great. Wish I could have joined you. Very 👍 nice another TEN stars⭐. Look forward to every one. 😊 Your very appreciated. Thank you from another Steve 😊

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 25 dny

      thank you, Steve. That’s very nice of you to say. I’m really glad you enjoyed it! 😄👍

  • @jackiekonrad859
    @jackiekonrad859 Před 26 dny +2

    What a cool area thanks for the walking tour! Looks like you guys are having a great time ❤

  • @catherinecepuder3520
    @catherinecepuder3520 Před 24 dny

    Hi Steve, I'm really enjoying your time in S.F. My first visit to the U.S. was in 1992 and I flew direct from London to San Francisco and visited with a friend and her parents who lived in Burlingame. We planned a road trip and traveled throughout parts of California, Nevada and Arizona. But S.F. was my first experience of an American city and I guess I left my heart there as I returned to live in 2000! Life is full of wonderous adventures and memories and I'm glad you're getting to sharing some of yours with your grandson now.🌈😊🌼🌴🏫

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 24 dny

      Hi Catherine, thank you for sharing your wonderful memories with us. So fun to hear. 😄👍

  • @rockyroad-hq7hz
    @rockyroad-hq7hz Před 26 dny

    Thanks for showing us the AIDS Memorial. Haven't been to Castro St. since 97'. Too many memories of old friends. I think most cities now have a small gay center/neighborhood. Following in the footsteps of SF.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 25 dny

      Hi Rocky, yes, I think every large city now has one which is awesome. And yes, these trips down memory can definitely be bittersweet. 🥲😊

  • @kenmoreSF
    @kenmoreSF Před 10 dny

    I lived in SF for almost 30 years until I moved out in 2020 during the pandemic. Never have I seen a pride weekend where there's hardly anyone out in the Castro. This area was a blast in the 90's!

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 9 dny

      Thanks for sharing that with us Ken. I was surprised that there weren’t more people there too. 😳

  • @thomasmccardle725
    @thomasmccardle725 Před 26 dny +1

    Steve your grandson is very beautiful and so are you 🥰

  • @bethtyree6346
    @bethtyree6346 Před 26 dny +3

    Have fun in San Francisco Steve pretty city Steve

  • @leeannbarber2820
    @leeannbarber2820 Před 26 dny +1

    Thanks for the video. Going to put flowers on my moms grave today since it’s the 3 year anniversary ttyl

  • @garyphil5432
    @garyphil5432 Před 26 dny

    Hi Steve. How cool is that????? You taking your grandson to SF for his first time. This video chocked me up a bit. I used to go to SF a lot from the 70's into the mid 90's. I met Harvey one day outside his camera store. He was a huge influence in my life. I took Gary to SF a couple of years ago for his first time there. I know it had been 30 years since I'd been there, but I couldn't believe how much everything had changed. Thanks for the walk down memory lane.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 25 dny

      Hi Phil, wow, that is awesome that you were able to meet Harvey Milk. I’m envious. I’m glad you have a fond memories of San Francisco too and that you guys were able to go there together. Thanks for sharing these memories with us. 😄👍

  • @dsinavich5141
    @dsinavich5141 Před 26 dny +1

    Hi Steve and Mason...I get to see San Francisco through your eyes....love the buildings....the beautiful flowers....vintage looking shops....and the .lifestyle there .glad you guys are having a great time ....lots of walking tours ...I believe Robin Williams lived in SF.. somewhere,,..I think his house was almost on the street ....have a great time take care..... Deborah 🇨🇦..

    • @andytaylor5476
      @andytaylor5476 Před 26 dny

      Robin had a home in SF in the Seacliff neighborhood, right by the ocean.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 26 dny

      Thanks Deborah. I’m glad you enjoyed it. 😄👍

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 26 dny

      Thanks Andy. Thanks for letting us know. I didn’t know where he lived. I’m sure his home was spectacular. 👍

    • @dsinavich5141
      @dsinavich5141 Před 26 dny

      Thanks ... sounds cool.... Deborah 🇨🇦

    • @andytaylor5476
      @andytaylor5476 Před 26 dny

      @@theretiredlifewithsteve A quite beautiful mansion. Later on, he moved to across the bay to Tiburon.

  • @angelamatthew1487
    @angelamatthew1487 Před 25 dny

    Hi Steve, I loved your video today the area looks so lovely plus the blue sky you can almost feel the warmth of the sun. You are right what will be will be , great pics of you 3 in your younger days x

  • @sharonc6505
    @sharonc6505 Před 26 dny +3

    💛Thanks for showing the places there ❤ So Beautiful ! 🌈💖🌉 😊 want to go there somday!

  • @eileendaly13
    @eileendaly13 Před 25 dny

    The first time I visited the area was about 30 years ago and it was a bit neglected. A few years ago I revisited on a holiday to the USA and was pleased to see regeneration. I had a lovely day walking around and like you used public transportation to get there.Good video!

  • @alextaffera6962
    @alextaffera6962 Před 26 dny +1

    Steve nobody does it better than you love you in Gettysburg Penna .❤❤

  • @kellygraftwalz8891
    @kellygraftwalz8891 Před 15 dny

    Hello Steve , I have not been to San Francisco for a long time , I am so glad you got to show us it. Wonderful you were able to up there during Pride , what a special trip

  • @toddstropicals
    @toddstropicals Před 25 dny

    Wow, the changes since the 80's when I visited just before I went to Europe to study culinary arts.

  • @MarthaJOHNSON-iu4wk
    @MarthaJOHNSON-iu4wk Před 26 dny +2

    Great video

  • @cheribee968
    @cheribee968 Před 20 dny

    Use to be a treat to drive the fifteen minutes to get to SF and have a beautiful day.
    That was back in the day and it was fun

  • @robertjeremy9147
    @robertjeremy9147 Před 12 dny +1

    I'M HETERO N' I EVER THOUGHT GAYZ N' DIKEZ R' ON WEIRDO SEXUALITY WAY BUT I APPRECIATED THE MAGNIFICIENCE OF THEIR NEIGHBORHOOD, LOVELY FOR EYES !!!!

  • @texadonkey34
    @texadonkey34 Před 26 dny +3

    Always follow the gays (my 92 yr old father n law says that). They beautify areas & the millionaires come in & want to take over the area. Happened in Houston, when Montrose was a cool with clubs & cute houses. 30 years later, it’s a high dollar area and all the cool stuff got pushed out. Clubs all closed. 🤨

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 26 dny

      Hi Tex, sorry to hear that about Montrose. I spent a little time there back in the early 1980s. Sadly that does seem to happen to a lot of the gayborhoods for the exact reason you just mentioned! 😲🙁🏳️‍🌈

  • @janeS9773
    @janeS9773 Před 25 dny

    Just love your videos, Steve! Thank you! xox

  • @reneerednour3951
    @reneerednour3951 Před 26 dny

    Such lovely homes. I really enjoyed it.

  • @stevehaynes7516
    @stevehaynes7516 Před 26 dny +2

    I hope you found that boy some vegan food! I used to stop at Orphan Andys after a hard night on the town for a jelly omelet.

  • @carolgillis5265
    @carolgillis5265 Před 26 dny

    Thanks for the walking tour

  • @jenniferh8961
    @jenniferh8961 Před 25 dny

    How great you have those old pics and able to go back to same house down Memory Lane!! 🏡 😅 PS I know you said the one friend died from AIDS but what happened to the other? Maybe I missed your
    comment about him. 😮😅

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 25 dny +1

      Hi Jennifer, sorry about that. I should’ve mentioned. Fritz’s partner Les is still alive. Miraculously he didn’t get AIDS.

  • @jodywoodruff6473
    @jodywoodruff6473 Před 25 dny

    Awesome video 😊👍

  • @johnwhitlock7469
    @johnwhitlock7469 Před 26 dny +3

    Fifteen triangular granite pylons, or columns, are dedicated to the thousands of homosexual, bisexual, and transgender victims that were killed during Hitler's Nazi regime. In the center of the park is a loose rock-filled triangle that includes rose crystals. Visitors are encouraged to take a crystal as part of the memorial experience

  • @DanaPretzer
    @DanaPretzer Před 26 dny

    Hey Steve thanks for the tour. Great to see you spend time with Mason. Hey did you see Fidel when you were at Castro? Was he smoking that smelly cigar😂

  • @esliet
    @esliet Před 23 dny

    Loving this trip ❤

  • @mariaday712
    @mariaday712 Před 26 dny

    Mason has such a lovely smile. This has made me home sick. Been a long time.

  • @jons.6216
    @jons.6216 Před 22 dny

    Actually The Cove on Castro offers vegetarian and vegan on their menu! Not every place calls attention to it, but I've been eating there since 1990 when I moved here. I still do when I'm running late errands in the Castro.

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 21 dnem +1

      Thanks for the heads up for next time Jon. I don’t know if we passed the cove or not. A lot of the restaurants are closed because it was so early. 👍

    • @jons.6216
      @jons.6216 Před 20 dny

      ​@@theretiredlifewithstevethe Cove is actually almost directly across the street from the Castro Theater!

  • @marksears1124
    @marksears1124 Před 26 dny +2

    Couldn't pay me enough to live around Castro, it depresses me.

  • @rinaticson390
    @rinaticson390 Před 21 dnem

    My hometown, i miss it . But i don't miss the cost of living. 😊😊

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 21 dnem +1

      Yes, unfortunately, too many people are being priced out of this beautiful city! 🙁

  • @wandahall4435
    @wandahall4435 Před 26 dny +2

    ❤❤❤😮😮😮😊😊😊

  • @shosmyth1454
    @shosmyth1454 Před 26 dny +2

    Did you find a Nice Vegan Restaurant to treat Beautiful Mason?

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 26 dny

      Shockingly no!!! After this video, we walked over to the Asbury area and we were finally able to find a vegan restaurant, but the food was awful. I really ordered the wrong thing. I think I was so hungry. I wasn’t thinking straight. Anyway I’ll be sharing that in the next video.😄

  • @craigster1244
    @craigster1244 Před 4 dny

    You walked right past the Slyvester plaque. Yes, you're invited to take a pink crystal for a memory. you missed the sign.

  • @sharonobryan9713
    @sharonobryan9713 Před 26 dny +1

    Life is weird! Wonderfully weird.

  • @shosmyth1454
    @shosmyth1454 Před 26 dny

    Why was Gertrude Stein plaque on ground? Where you can walk all over her face?? I find that troubling??

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 26 dny

      It was a walk of honor with dozens of faces on the sidewalk. Did you miss the others?

  • @craigster1244
    @craigster1244 Před 4 dny

    It's not the Capitol building, but the City Hall of SF/

  • @charlenemariecoraninmemory5130

    desolate no people???

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
    • @charlenemariecoraninmemory5130
      @charlenemariecoraninmemory5130 Před 26 dny

      @@theretiredlifewithsteve ??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

    • @charlenemariecoraninmemory5130
      @charlenemariecoraninmemory5130 Před 26 dny

      @@theretiredlifewithsteve Next punctuation mark is !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @charlenemariecoraninmemory5130
      @charlenemariecoraninmemory5130 Před 26 dny

      @@theretiredlifewithsteve Any more

  • @mmjcra
    @mmjcra Před 12 dny

    gay friendly yes, vegan friendly the castro is not.

  • @Beinglm
    @Beinglm Před 26 dny +1

    Nice tour!! I was just curious do you save all your videos after you upload on CZcams? I’ve been saving mine, but I’m wondering if I should still do it! I don’t have a computer so hard to get everything off my phone.. I was just curious. I asked Adam and he said he deleted so I was just wondering what you did.. hope you have a great day!

    • @theretiredlifewithsteve
      @theretiredlifewithsteve  Před 26 dny +1

      Hi lm, that’s an excellent question and you were the second person to ask me that recently. Yes, I save every single photo and every single video I’ve ever filmed. I back everything up onto external hard drives. I have hundreds of thousands of photos and film footage. I think of these as priceless pieces of history, both personal and gay history that should be passed down from generation to generation. I love watching documentaries where they use old photos and vintage film footage. If everyone threw away their old film footage and their old photos, we would have no record for history or ancestry, so I think it’s extremely important to save everything. Most people donate their old photos and vintage footage to libraries in archives after they die. Plus, I spent thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars to take these photos and videos, so it would just be a waste to throw them away. CZcams could close down at any time at all the footage could be lost so it’s always good to have your own back up of everything. I hope you keep all of your footage. You never know who might appreciate it someday once you were gone. 👍

    • @Beinglm
      @Beinglm Před 26 dny

      @@theretiredlifewithsteve thank you for answering my question! I try to save everything also but I was feeling a bit overwhelmed about it because I don’t have a computer and it’s just harder, but your words really makes sense to me! I will continue saving everything!! Thank you so much for answering my question and again I hope you have a wonderful day and a wonderful weekend!🎉🎉🎉