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- Melody's attempts to grey rock Martell have failed as he continues to undermine her parenting while bribing their children for information about Melody's life.
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I highly appreciate your commentary. For those who have never been in this situation or never seen it happen, this is as close to the abuse of a narcissist you will see. Martell is extremely manipulative and evil. What you see happening from the other cast members towards Melody is Martell holding indiscretions over these peoples heads. It’s more than just them being mad Melody pulled out of a deal. This man needs to be placed in a mental institution or jail bc until he does some intensive therapy and work on himself, he will endanger anyone who is in his reach. That includes family, “friends”, associates, whoever. These type of people won’t quit until they see you harmed. Your pain is the only thing that brings them satisfaction. I will continue to pray for Mel and her children. This man is psycho.
I agree with you 100%. I have seen this quite awhile back. He will ultimately end of in a situation where he is going to be told exactly how he is going to live. I hate to say it but he is going to harm someone physically because his demented rage is going to explode.
I am in prayer for Mel also! I believe Carlos should take action against this maniac! Thank you for responding to my comment! You are amazing!
Martel is trying hard to set the scene of Melody Not having a man or husband. It won’t work.
Did anyone notice the man with a chef and a successful wine launch was having Popeyes for dinner?
He needs to provide the courts with his financial information so that this case can move forward and Melody can change her name.
Yes, Mel definitely needs you as one of the content creators that should be invited.
Sistah Girl Sp , she would be great 👍👍.
@Sisrah Gurl Speaks yes she does because she is the one who peeped him from the very beginning and taught me who a malignant narcissist is. I pray she us one of them.
Facts!!!
I just want Mel to get it all out her system so she is not blocking the next man from showing her and the kids the love they deserve! She has to get it all out and if that means exposing him I’m for IT!!
I agree 💯
If Mel and Tell did decide to share a chef, babysitter, nanny, etc. how would Tell pay his share? This is another example of that liar wanting to eat off of Mel’s dime.
Good commentary. For those who have been calling Melody a narcissist? Learn the true definition of one because that is something Melody is not. Narcissists don’t sacrifice themselves. Melody has protected Martell for too long and I’m glad she’s pushing back and hard! Bout time!
100% true.
It is about time!!!! You are right!!!!
Send this analysis to Mel and the court Judge!!!!!!!
Melody has to protect the kids from their own pathetic father..smh😡
Regarding bloggers doing these videos for profit, For the past week, I have deliberately ignored 99% of videos that include Clow slaw in it. Bc that girl is boring as hell but these bloggers play all her lives for clicks even when she is literally sitting staring at her phone playing with her hair. Can't do that to myself, lol
He does not want Mel to date! Mel needs a very strong man in her life that will put Martel in his place-that part.
Did you hear him say how his followers should tell Mel to settle with him? Mel said on her stories she ain't settling. He wants her to agree on his terms only
Martell doesn't want his children around other men, especially Melody's brother and his husband, because he is jealous and insecure, during the second season, Marcus confronted Martell during some Halloween event, and told Martell that the children told him that they wish his husband could be their new daddy or something similar to that. Telling that to someone as emotionally immature and unstable as Martell, only serves to heighten his already self-loathing. Marcus and his husband are excellent male role models for the children, Martell knows deep down inside he doesn't measure up and wants to isolate the children from other male influences.
Shirley sis that was the funniest part of that season, I laugh everytime I see it 😂😂😂🤭🤭🤭. how are you doing today sis 👋👋👋.
Martell is trying to lay the groundwork that if Mel starts dating. Those children won't want or accept any man being around them whenever Mel gets serious enough with a guy and thinks it's time that he met her children. Martell is laying the groundwork to try to stop those children from being opened to any man their mother wants in her life. That's exactly what this is all about.
Carolyn your definitely on to something! He does not want Mel to remarry etc. He wants to control her! But she is not going for it!!!
I can’t wait until Mel gets a real man in her Life that will knock Martell out if they have too to check his behind!! God will definitely send Mel a strong man that will truly love and commit to her!
This is part of the reason why she’s not dating, or at least being extremely discreet with her movements. This fool is sick.
It’s not about the kids. It’s about controlling Mel and I’m glad Melody is enjoying success all in his face.
Lilith you and I think alike. I have been thinking this for awhile but never commented it until last night. That he wants to prevent her from finding a man as well, bc no sensible man would want to take up a woman that is dealing with all of this so publicly. That would be too much drama for that man. He is deliberately trying to keep her suitors away from her
Like Arrione does to him…
Bingo!!!!!!!
Martell's is a P.O.S! He wants her to agree to his terms! Mel is going to have to nail that slug to the wall, enough of his shenanigans!
Talking about Mel should hire nannies and chef for both houses.
Thanks for your commentary. Control over Melody's life and money is Martell's ultimate goal. Once the court case is settled, I hope the judge makes the right decision. Martell doesn't need to have full custody. He needs to have limited supervised visitation. He needs to be forced into mental health counseling. I say that he needs weekly sessions but monthly might be more affordable. He cannot be trusted around his own kids. He is using them again their mother and he has the nerve to say that he loves them. Disgusting.
I agree
How he doesn't want men around their children but he's been around AC's daughter for years 🤔 make it make sense
Martell is a very disturbed individual! He wants Melody's spirit to be destroyed, because he is a dark spirit. I hope that both attorneys are watching, and the judge orders supervised visits of the children when they are with him. You were right in saying that he doesn't want custody, but I am concerned that he will harm them.
I just think Mel should do the Live with Content Creators and be done with Martell once and for ALL! Continue to be the beautiful person, lady, mother, and boss that she truly is!!!! She had a right to tell her story and Expose everything!!
He forgot taking his kids to meet different women in his life Sheree and coslow without his ex wife consent
Lilth you hit the nail on the head. MARTEL is more dangerous to his kids than Marcus or his husband. MARTEL bashes Melody around his kids and questions them about their mother. Martel is dangerous to his kids hit Tank and crack his head.
Since he is acting this way, why not go to the court and demand he goes directly into the court ordered therapy, which he has not done , now immediately and watch what will be wrong with that. The hole he is digging for himself let him fall in it legitimately.
He did not want full custody of the kids when they were married 5:31-5:35 BOOM!!!
I guess Martells been really organizing Mel's life like he wanted, A ROBOT. AS LONG AS he had the power and control over Melody he was okay with himself. He woke Mel the F$$$ up!! Now she have to go to work on his dum ass.
Martell is a liar, he does not have a chef he live with his Mom, he stated himself he don't want custody, and he stated he don't want men watching his kids but Melody stated but he can have his uncles watch his kids really, this so call man just wants control. He stole Melody money the judge order him to return he never did, the judge ordered therapy for Martell he didn't do that either. Melody needs security once this case is completed for her and the kids he is not stable.
That snake doesn't have food let along a chef to cook it.
If Martell grills his children and bribe them with sweets. If Mel shared a babysitter with him (because we know damn well he won't have a chef). He will be grilling the hell out of that babysitter about what's going on in Mel's house. Marcus and Troy have NEVER been accused of abusing anyone especially not his niece's and nephew. Martell is the only one who was made by a judge to stay away from his children for 56 days after Abusing Tank. Tank told his mother he had been hit by his father.
@@carolynminter162
😆 Say it loud!!!
Martel is one of the biggest liar I've ever seen in my life.
Hopefully, Mel will hire a nanny to be with her and the children on her weeks- nanny will have 7 on and 7 off. So, she doesn’t have to hear this fools mouth. But, Mel doesn’t have to share anything with Martell who should hire whoever he needs to in order to make life easier for himself when he has the kids.
However, I would advise the court of what I’m doing on my end and also relay the information that Martell has had 19 people watching the kids (if it can be substantiated) including his uncle who was a male the last time his status was checked.
In Martell’s own words, “Martell, do better”.
You need to be on the panel Lilith!
I think a one on one is better with Lilith
This is the truth and NOTHING but.
I don't agree with some of the bloggers she named, but Lilith should definitely be a contender. I don't think Mel should include bloggers who've gone out of their way to express their dislike of her or who simply phone in their reviews, IMHO.
AND Mind Of Lilith should be on the list 🔥
Yes she would be Great
Let's look at the kind of mother Coleslaw is. If she is like this with hundreds of people watching. What is she like when they aren't. 1. Her 10yr old daughter has to take care of Knox not her. 2. She has left Knox locked in a hot car in the garage because she forgot he was in there and Paris had to go get him because she didn't want to leave her live and get him out herself. 3. She left him unattended at a public pool and let him run around the edges of that wet floor near the pool and did NOTHING, and the only reason she got him and left is because the other parents were complaining about Knox fighting and hitting and bitting them. He was sick and could hardly breath for 2 months. He can't talk and the only way he can express himself is by hollering, biting, and grunting. 3. He beats and kicks his sister and her anytime he gets ready, and Coleslaw tells her daughter he really didn't hurt her even after he kicked her in the eye twice. Now mind you all of this takes place live and in living color because Coleslaw can't get off of IG lives and tend to her children. Everyone who follows her have seen this. I have seen it but not because I follow her because you couldn't pay me to follow her PERIOD, but I have saw it when other CZcamsrs have posted these actions of a (So called good mother) child protection services have been called on her several times, and they should have been called on her even more. Yet she is a good mother but he is suing Mel because she isn't a good mother. NO SIR Martell is FOS. POINT BLANK and PERIOD.
I'm glad I listened to your entire commentary. I agree with most of what you said. Mainly he is attempting to prevent her from having a relationship with anyone else. I believe Mel wouldn't bring anyone that she is "dating" around her children unless it was serious and she has already said that she is not interested in a relationship right now. He is too much.
Relationships take energy and she is dealing with a sociopath who views her as his property
Yet he can bring his children around Sheree. Make it make sense.
I think she should invite you first. Your commentary is so on point.
Yesssss
💯% agree. Mind of Lilith you would be great on that panel.
me too she’s great at breaking down the pieces
Yes!
I think Mel should do a one on one interview with her.
He's so disappointing, I totally agree. He hears himself talking & still doesn't see anything wrong with the idea, If only Mel would do what I say mentality. Like dude! Cut the foolery and stop questioning those babies! He can't wait until they get in that car, just to ask. What did y'all do, who kept you and who all were you with. I dealt with that same thing. You have to tell them straight up, don't mess with the babies and show them you mean business. Mel continues to try and pack fair & he keeps trying to slander her character. Cut him to the white meat Mel! LMBO, Mel FNF!
Your commentary is always on point!
Good morning Ms Lilith I think you should put in a bid to meet with melody, she is selecting people/bloggers/vloggers, you have been on point with everything you said 👍👍👂👂👏👏🙏🙏🧡🧡.
You’re correct. Martell was never worthy of Melody. He is insecure and jealous of her success
I agree with you and HATE that she gave him what he wanted…on the other hand…she kept quiet for SO LONG…I am not mad that she aired him out
I think u should interview Melody.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you, but there are other content creators that would be better suited for the opportunity, and that's not really my kinda thing lol.
@@mindoflilith Lilth I absolutely love you. I pray that you are one of the bloggers. You are wise beyond your years. You have helped me and the females in my family and my friends so much and I appreciate you being so generous with your knowledge and wisdom. Accurate as always. God bless you.
Hoetell is so LAZY. He fired his tutor and failed his builder's license exam again allegedly. Melody and Hoetell was unequally yolked. Melody divorced to attend the attack by parasite/energy vampire 🧛♂️ aka Hoetell.
This is a case of narcissistic abuse for sure but it have open the eyes of many women living in this situation and did not even know.😲
When she had a lot of babysitters was before the divorce was final and HE was not showing up to pick up the kids when it was his time to get them so she had to scramble because she already had business appointments engagements commitments that she had made thinking that he was going to have the kids she had to scramble and find babysitters. The audacity of this man to be fussing at her about how many babysitters when if he just picked up his children there wouldn’t of been any problem at all there would not have been a bunch of different babysitters
Great commentary, I wish you could interview her.Mel fighting back in his mind is her losing control,he loves a good fight.The most important trick to disarm him is to control her emotions.
They my be true, but Mel is human and iron wears out. She has been drug through the mud by that snake and his side 🗑 and she can't keep taking it. Mel has to get this off of her chest before she explodes in a way that someone gets hurt. Mel can go back to paying him dust but this is something she has been holding it in for way to long.
@@carolynminter162 Facts,I'm suprised she held on this long, other women would have snapped a long time ago. However she has 15 years to coparent with this man ,she needs to preserve her energy.
Straight Success PUBLICALLY AND CONTINUE GREY ROCKING
@@Tammy-se2hu yes,and never communicating with him again, not even a hello.
Martell is setting up that Melody never gets a man.in her life. I see that a mile away. I really feel for her, constantly dealing with Martell narriscists. God is about to strike Martell down..just watch
I wrote this comment three weeks ago:
Mel has concrete evidence thanks to her fans that send her everything Martell posts in the past. She made the statement that she received information that Martell posted and what he fail to understand that once she share her concrete evidence he will be shut down. Mel is very intelligent, and she do not show her hand at all until it's necessary remember she pulled information showing proofed about Density's hotel stay. Mel is not to be played with she can be very calculating too. Joan
Martell thinks him soiling Mel's image as unfit is what's going to win him the case; however, he needs to prove how he is the more fit parent to have the kids. His lawyer is going to have to prove Mel is unfit and he is going to be hard pressed to find that. Martell's unsubstantiated lies doesn't count.
Martell reminds me of my soon-to-be ex husband supreme cheaters. When the women leaves the marriage bc they refuse to continue to accept the man's garbage behavior, the men turn into violent, vindictive, lying bullies. I pray that Melody remains safe and that she continues to move forward.
Exactly Martell is upset she divorced him and truly never went back to him!!!
Kiran stay focused and strong. Life without him is so much better and peaceful. I wish you happiness and joy . Stay blessed 🙌.
Nothing more to say after your commentary. You might as well have been a psychologist ... Spot on.
Thank you!
Yes Lilith, your commentary on the previous video was right on 🎯.
1 and 1 allows Mel to neutralize the toxicity Hoetell is leveling on the kids. The kids can’t take 2 and 2 on the weeks.
He wants Mel’s attn so bad, so Narc, hope you’re ready cuz now you got it! You pushed it too far and about to get stung HARD before Mel goes back to minding her and her kids’ business.
I don't think she should do the "receipts" panel. It's unnecessary. This woman has nothing to prove to us or anyone else. Anyone with half a brain can see thru Martell's lies and fallacies. Those Twitter or Instagram posts she put out was a knock out punch to me. Shiiiid, say less. I must admit, it would be good and messy to see the receipts but it's time for her to let go and let God battle with that fool. She needs to let someone else drop them off when it's his week so there's absolutely no interaction between them. She just needs to sit back and collect her evidence for her full custody case.
Martell’s wish to not have men babysitting his children is bs. Mel said in her Instagram stories that his uncles watches the kids too.
Grey Rock, yes. It is a technique that the Narc finds irritating and frustrating but it can eventually bring things to a boil as they get pissed after a while and needle and poke their victim to the point of blowing up. It’s a short-term solution when your Narc is burning you out and draining you but not always sustainable over time. Something always gives. Hopefully Mel re-sets the boundaries following this off-gassing of emotions and re-establishes her peace for now cuz she stuck with this fool for quite a while to come.
Definitely been waiting for your response to all of this..
Me too and I think Martel listen too. She just said he didn't want those kids full time and boom "I don't my kids 100%". He's a joke and we all know it
Yes Lilith is so talented. Alot of her content is now floating around these you tube streets
Melody he wants you back but RUN!!????He only miss the money you made for the family.
You hit the nail on the head
I want you to be one of the bloggers Lillith!
I hope you are definitely on the list. One or two of those you named do not like Melody and she definitely don’t need a hater on the panel!
Not true you always need at least 1 hater to hear your truth
@@naturallynailah6983 lol…if you say so! After battling haters for years sometimes you just need to be in friendly territory! When I say friendly I mean ppl who can call you out right or wrong but don’t preface their statements with I DONT LIKE ME BUT…..
@@trisha1989 I don't want to see Funky Divnea in Melody presence. He lacks integrity.
@@Theblackbumblebee Isn’t he in with Wanda and The Scott’s ? I remember he went down to AL and was laughing and hanging out with them . He doesn’t need to be there.
@@VioletThorn47 Funky Divnea is a A typical bitter gay man who have a disdain for feminine women. Funky Divnea is messy like Carlos because that's their real truth. Keep them devils far away.
Martell would be better off with no kids, this man is not a good father. I see how he moves. He is doing just what a dad is supposed too. Martell have them kids at his mom's house most of the time. I wished that own would just fire this guy, then.maybe he will moved on
I hope she invites you! I would love to hear your perspective with all of Melody's factual evidence presented to you.
🤣🤣🤣, "She will not want a bunch of Martells around her children".
Exactly, what makes him he think she does not have her kids best interest at heart. Matter of Fact, most women ve discernment about things like this more than men.
I vote Mind of Lilith to be in attendance for sure.
Who did lilith list??
I picked Funky Dineva, Dr. Heavenly, Bondy Blue, ColormePynk, Erica Dinero, Rodney the Voice, and Gigi but I forgot to add Kempire and DJ Richie Sky.
@@mindoflilith and I chose you because you will educate everyone on Narcissm and what it really entails and I pick Bondy Blue.
Amazing content, I love your videos. You bring a very rich perspective on these relationship dynamics, especially how they manifest and impact the family structure. You should record a video series on relationship dysfunction/dynamics and sell those- I know many would invest in that to learn for themselves. Thank you again for this platform!
That's what she has been doing from the time she started posting on CZcams.
Good morning, and thank you for bringing content to educate us. I've confirmed and learned so much. You're the Best
You are so welcome
I appreciate your commentary! I can always learn something new! I really hate that he is putting those kids through that, he’s yet to think of their well being.
It turns out that he was the one who has a lot of babysitters including coleslaw.
Yesss! Great video as always! I would love to hear more about your thoughts on Diddy and the other community vampires in the music industry and R& B music! I watched the video about Mos Def and that was awesome too! Many blessings Sis! 🌻🌻🌻
Thank you!
I can't wait to hear your commentary on the downfall of R&B, sounds interesting.
Yes. Sh caught my attention with that one.
Omg I was waiting patiently.
Excellent Commentary, Lillith! You need to start a Patreon! I’m in! Lillith, You would be my first pick without any hesitation to go meet with Mel!!
I love your commentary. So insightful ❤️❤️❤️
Hello my sister. I been waiting for your commentary and thank you!!
You are so welcome
19:34 Alright Ms. Humble include yourself in this list but I know it would probably be very emotionally draining for you but I feel you know how to cleanse your energy before and after.
Good afternoon Lilith
11:27 - 11:40 - That is a good point!
Lilith I too have life experience and academic experience to see into this situation. I am very fearful of the outcome of this court case because when this man is told point blank period off and what he will and will not do, when authority looks straight through him, he is going to be bullistic. There is going to be shutdown followed by an explosion. I understand Melody clapping back now however, I think she slow it down and go the legal route and let it all come to a head. Just my opinion. When you reopen your readings, I will have one done for myself. I will check out your Tarot readings in the meantime. Peace Love Joy Healing Prosperity Supernatural Miracles Angels Surrounding Blessings Abounding 😊.
Arionne didn't care about having a baby it was only to get back at Melody If Martell would have been more careful and put on a condom. He wouldn't have this problem. This is all about Martell and Arionne problem. Why do you keep making Melody the issue?
I'm pretty sure he implemented the one week on one week off cause instead of seeing her once a month for the 2 weeks he gets to see her 2x a month
ROFL...that makes sense.
You are on point like always
Love your commentary, but glad you cleared it up, but you are on the money..
He wants her money 💰
He wants Mel to continue to play for his lifestyle and sidechicks like she was doing before
He is the same a s that Nigerian actor Hul Edochie cheated with an older married woman for six years then blamed his wife whom God is blessing just like Melody
100% FACTS!!
Martell is like most people. They will try to force there partner to do there part. Martell is a joke and he doesn’t know how to except that Mel has no love for him.
Hi Lilith, thanks for sharing this teachable moment! 🙏🏽❤️
Why do you think that Martell want to have the same baby sitter and chefs that Mel have another form of control he will still be able to question them and try to get melody information by turning on the charm because he can do that really well every thing he come up with is always something that will allow him to be in Mel's face somekind of way. He want to sit down and talk he want her to call him when he have the kids always stay in touch with him when he have them it is his responsibility unless they become sick and they will still be with him so he should know what to do he can handle it that is what coparent is he didn't call her when he Crack tank up side the head he sent him home and said she should have called him want control he still think that he is her husband boy by
He wants to use his children to remote control Melody.
Your commentary is great. Will you be doing a read on his family and friends as to why they don't talk about how wrong this is?
That's a great suggestion!
@Catherine Branson so much so he left the office fuming and blaming Dr. Francis. As we know, Martell is never at fault.
Martel doesn’t listen to anyone
Good Blessed Sunday morning
I liked your commentary. Thank you.
Great commentary 👌 peace and blessings sis ❤️
Ty!
When it comes to R&B well at least the 90’s, there was a running “joke “ that all the girls were ugly but the music was good.
What the hell I don’t have to cook cuz I have a wife sounds like the dark ages. Even the proverbs 31 woman had servants aka help.
I cam see why you stepped back from Huntsville. It's making me anxious and I'm not even apart of it. While I think it's a mistake for Melody to even hold some kind of conference especially during a custody battle. If there is going to be a conference I think you should be one of the people chosen because you don't approach this from the perspective as gossip and won't be messy.
Ok Melody Brother is in Her Corner that's why He us trying to take Her Down it's not about the Children I look at it this way is not the Producer of the Show C K the same way Ge don't seem to have a problem with them being around Him Right?? It's I know the kids don't spend the quality time they do with the Uncle but it seems as if He actually had a problem with Marcus He would have a Problem with C K
Martel has this image of gay men and Marcus does not take his BS so he doesn't want the kids around him or his husband.
Thanks!
Thank you!
Martell wants those kids so he can get child support. Why he doesn’t want the other little boy, bc coleslaw is broke and that’s the one needs rescuing.
So MARTELL didn't work during their marriage?
Wonderful commentary 💕
Thank you! 😃
Nooo to funky dineva he does not like her I think ppl who truly support Mel and also can be unbiased shuld sit wit Mel I dnt trust that funky dineva😒
It was 17000,
He took the whole thing but $17k was hers so that’s what he owes her
You are an exceptional analyst! I’m learning so much! You’re explanations are so clear! One question. Do you think melody is in physical danger from martell?
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I wish Melody would put her stinger away but I understand she can only take so much of this nonsense.
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When is the show coming back?
Next week.
are you on audea?
No, never heard of it.