Why Did I Make Grandma Move Back To The Village?

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Komentáře • 201

  • @chosen_one1602
    @chosen_one1602 Před měsícem +32

    You did nothing wrong. You have to keep the family at arms distance. Given the opportunity, the whole family would prefer to live with you! Dating a Filipina definitely has some pitfalls, especially ones from the province.

  • @frankinla
    @frankinla Před měsícem +20

    “He likes to mush that
    box.” 😂😂

    • @james9044
      @james9044 Před měsícem +3

      That comment has caused me great concern moving forward unfortunately I can’t delete the image from the brains trust 😂

    • @bobnewhart4318
      @bobnewhart4318 Před měsícem +2

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @terrenceabate1116
      @terrenceabate1116 Před měsícem +1

      @@james9044 right!! 😂

    • @jerichojohnson3219
      @jerichojohnson3219 Před měsícem

      MUNCH BOX - LUNCH BOX ? ARE YOU SURE IT WAS MUSH ?

  • @markdavid4773
    @markdavid4773 Před měsícem +25

    Na Marco you did the right thing even though we love Grandma it’s the right choice 👍

    • @eddieBoxer
      @eddieBoxer Před měsícem

      Never loan money to any Filipino, they'll never pay you back.

  • @THEPAPASMURFTHEOG
    @THEPAPASMURFTHEOG Před měsícem +10

    grandma is a beautiful soul, I would not hesitate to have her watch my children when needed.. grandma will always be there for her family. nothing wrong with how she wants to live and where.

  • @mauiseason5826
    @mauiseason5826 Před 14 dny +1

    After all this years Living in the Philippines you sure do understand more than a Pilipino man good job marco you are the real deal

  • @LarryFournillier
    @LarryFournillier Před měsícem +7

    Big Dawg, please keep Calamansi around, she's funny and I like seeing her interact with everyone.🤣

  • @julieaguigui3837
    @julieaguigui3837 Před měsícem +7

    You’re always doing the right thing Marc💙

  • @mitchbromwell9554
    @mitchbromwell9554 Před měsícem +15

    Peace and Quiet.. that's why. , lol 😂

  • @seantaylor4107
    @seantaylor4107 Před měsícem +10

    100% legit reasons. Not that you needed to tell us either way. Cheers 🍻 Marcos and family.

  • @juancarrasco104
    @juancarrasco104 Před měsícem +10

    Thank you so much for this amazing video in this reading. 📚

    • @doneown503
      @doneown503 Před měsícem

      , I got lost at "enabler" , now , here is the diff! , in Texas , in South Platte, in Virginia ! , u could, just get a part-time. But this is PI ! , as a US born , u don't go taking a possible job from a Filipino. 😮

  • @Thedubesdailyvlog
    @Thedubesdailyvlog Před měsícem +1

    That was the right thing to do Mark, never blame yourself. You needed your space with your little family so did they, keep doing the good work

  • @RoyGJones-bd7jw
    @RoyGJones-bd7jw Před měsícem +10

    Brother they are always talking about you behind your back, trust me if you run out of peso, they will leave you, just like they used up taytay and leave him, brother make the back up plan just in case, get a safe from shoppe with finger print recognition, put your important things in there, that's no good what they are doing to you, I know you not making any savings now, plan to protect yourself, could be a year or three years but continue the fall back plan

  • @dave-d-grunt
    @dave-d-grunt Před měsícem +4

    Good thinking. You’ve done the right thing.

  • @pigadmirer905
    @pigadmirer905 Před měsícem

    I started following you recently. Good stuff. I have a pinay `digital chat mate' as you would say. So I am learning a lot from you. keep up the good work

  • @scottmason6282
    @scottmason6282 Před měsícem +2

    Mark Makes Perfect Sense ! You Do You ! Hope You And The Family Have A Wonderful Day ! 🙂🙂🙂🙏🙏🙏💯💯💯

  • @edic2619
    @edic2619 Před měsícem +2

    All good thoughts. Great job. I am sure all your family enjoyed each other when you were able to be together.

  • @PhilippinesMyParadise
    @PhilippinesMyParadise Před měsícem +1

    A short, though to the point video. Another great sharing. Best of luck po/Ned 👏🎉👏

  • @BoonieDocks
    @BoonieDocks Před měsícem +3

    Just started my channel, i been watching Overstay road since the channel had 10k subscribers

  • @robertmolenaar5033
    @robertmolenaar5033 Před měsícem +1

    Fully understand where you getting at and hey shows the great heart you got. Good on you 😊😊

  • @julieaguigui3837
    @julieaguigui3837 Před měsícem +3

    Sir Marc, enjoy watching your vlogs. Such a good guy with a loving❤️ knowing what’s best for you/kids and her family from the village.

  • @br6021
    @br6021 Před měsícem +8

    If you really think about it, you were doing the same thing to Fatima and your kids when you used to travel everywhere and stay gone for periods of time. They all need you too.

  • @TheMuttonHeadDigest
    @TheMuttonHeadDigest Před měsícem +4

    Man, that was pretty cool to let us know where your head is at!!

  • @hobbexp
    @hobbexp Před měsícem +3

    Mush that box. Best expression I've heard in a long time.

  • @michaelfeehily5926
    @michaelfeehily5926 Před měsícem +2

    you did great gives tatay time with his wife and she can visit anytime haha...

  • @mdasget-a-way376
    @mdasget-a-way376 Před měsícem

    Excellent video with a clear explanation of your reasoning. Family unity is everything, even when family members aren;t seeing eye to eye. Kudos to you for ensuring the family members remain together.

  • @blackdiamond696
    @blackdiamond696 Před měsícem +1

    That's why I watch your award winning videos😅 because you are a good man with a beautiful family. ❤

  • @14koala
    @14koala Před měsícem +3

    You You did the right thing...with the new rental next to your place maybe grandad can come sometimes too and so he is not missing out on spending time with grand kids.

  • @retiredveteran200
    @retiredveteran200 Před měsícem +1

    You did the right thing. Thank you for being you. Thank Veteran.

  • @malloywest8766
    @malloywest8766 Před měsícem +1

    You made all the sense in the world brother. Good thing now too you have that home extension, you can have a guest room and this time encourage both Grandma and Grandpa to have a nice weekend or time away from the village together. This is their golden years and am certain it would be a very happy getaway place for them both.

  • @nap41hb67
    @nap41hb67 Před měsícem +3

    You do what you have to do,you are a good husband and a good dad,firm and assertive,you did right 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌⭐️⭐️⭐️🤘⭐️

  • @twofarfromhome
    @twofarfromhome Před měsícem +6

    In (Upper) East Tennessee, we have a rule of thumb when it comes to kin- you live far enough away so you don't see them every day, but not so far away that they need to stay overnight! 😂

    • @christopherwalker8327
      @christopherwalker8327 Před měsícem

      we got lost in the mountain roads east of Butler, beautifull area`😁

    • @twofarfromhome
      @twofarfromhome Před měsícem

      Yeah, IMHO it is some of the most beautiful terrain on earth, until you have to hump it with a 60 lb ruck in the middle of July! ✌🏽

    • @CoconutDreams123
      @CoconutDreams123 Před měsícem

      Amen to that, twofarfromhome!

  • @richardb.pepperman3460
    @richardb.pepperman3460 Před měsícem

    You are a very good man Sir. Much respect.

  • @user-jv4gn9hu1z
    @user-jv4gn9hu1z Před měsícem +6

    It's making their life better. If they are with you all the time they are watching TV , eating junk food, living like they are single. Meanwhile their home life is on hold. Eventually things at home blow up, and you get blamed. Don't become the guy everyone blames their problems at home on. It will happen.

  • @prestonhogg6086
    @prestonhogg6086 Před měsícem +8

    You are a cool dude man. You treat the Filipinas great man. Keep up the good work.

    • @jackblah5842
      @jackblah5842 Před měsícem +1

      Dang, one more 'man' at the end of the last sentence and you would have had the hatrick

  • @glenclarkchidley3637
    @glenclarkchidley3637 Před měsícem +4

    Sobriety equals Clarity

  • @PhotoDaveJax
    @PhotoDaveJax Před měsícem +3

    Good thinking. 👍

  • @JohnnyLawrence293
    @JohnnyLawrence293 Před měsícem +10

    the fact that they don't care about their own spouse/bf speaks volumes right there.

    • @poundtrader1414
      @poundtrader1414 Před měsícem +4

      makes you wonder and think, just saying you not wrong

    • @michaelhenry6558
      @michaelhenry6558 Před měsícem +1

      Spouse boyfriend kids... They can leave all...

  • @HWYHUSTLA
    @HWYHUSTLA Před měsícem +1

    Mush that box😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️. Thx for the visual

  • @Charlieavala
    @Charlieavala Před měsícem +7

    Right on homeboy! You're a straight-up dude in my book. You get nothing but love from my section. 💯

  • @lloydguarnes2021
    @lloydguarnes2021 Před měsícem +3

    Nah, you absolutely did the right thing Marcos, you did nothing bad even to hurt Grand Ma's feelings, I know she would understand the whole situation. The Good part is that you looked at the great picture, and made your decision of what's right, you are the King of the Castle and you must be followed as long every thing is nice and is with perspective. You have a wonderful Chanel Marcos, more power to your upcoming videos and as long everybody gets along we all shall continue to be happy campers.

  • @OLHIPPIE420
    @OLHIPPIE420 Před měsícem +15

    KING, Please don’t put out Kalamansi. She’s hilarious cracks me up & she’s a good girl… ❤ Kalamansi

  • @tboyz1
    @tboyz1 Před měsícem +2

    You made the right calls for the right reasons and the kingdom is better for it - Long live the king 👑

  • @HereIGooooo
    @HereIGooooo Před měsícem +7

    The king has spoken

  • @bobnewhart4318
    @bobnewhart4318 Před měsícem +3

    You did the right thing once you open the door to one of them more will just sneak their way in slowly but surely. And you didn't put them out you sent them back home.

    • @mistersniffer6838
      @mistersniffer6838 Před 12 dny

      I would move them in closer to the city. I would build a compound. I would love to have family around!

  • @randybarlow8822
    @randybarlow8822 Před měsícem +2

    Younger generations don't think like us.

  • @hitechburg
    @hitechburg Před měsícem +2

    MARK what you did will help 3 families.

  • @rp2pierce
    @rp2pierce Před měsícem +2

    You might be a little rough on the outside? But you have a big heart and great father and husband.

  • @davelangi3913
    @davelangi3913 Před měsícem

    Looking out for the family. Great job

  • @sunnydazz7
    @sunnydazz7 Před měsícem +3

    DOCTOR PHIL ALWAYS says HOWS THAT WORKING FOR YOU? and it wasn't NOT FOR TAI TAI Husband and wife NEED to SPEND TIME WITH EACH OTHER 😎You did NOTHING WRONG💯

  • @crazykiwican
    @crazykiwican Před měsícem +2

    In-laws are outlaws and in-laws need to be outlawed . You have done well for yourself no need to self destruct just keep on smiling and winning

  • @PaulWaikatoTauranga
    @PaulWaikatoTauranga Před měsícem +2

    Your a bloody good man buddy don't forget it

  • @MRSTONE969
    @MRSTONE969 Před měsícem +2

    NO FLO IS NO SHOW!! nah just kidding...HALFWAY KIDDING! but seriously...your reasoning is correct.

  • @nicklanger9600
    @nicklanger9600 Před měsícem +2

    Nice

  • @milypang
    @milypang Před měsícem +2

    You did nothing wrong your a good son in-law

  • @charlesalvarez2421
    @charlesalvarez2421 Před měsícem

    You a cool buddy to me so keep doing what you doing okay ✅ 😊

  • @stussy8472
    @stussy8472 Před měsícem +3

    Public enemy number fun😊

  • @janetceniza8091
    @janetceniza8091 Před měsícem +1

    husband speaking age 81 Saw this story up near the Canadian Boarder yesterday on my I-phone but does not always allow me to comment.
    My mother - in - law was with us for many years in the U.S. - only works if the daughter is willing to let her mother be the boss in " her " house. The husband
    is out of it. IF the wife wants to be the Boss in the home, there is going to be conflict.. Had some heated arguments between them ( glad I do not speak their
    language ) Mom had a serious stroke and we were able to put her into one of our Adult Care Homes - and give her a good as pollible rest of her life. She never
    stoped working around the garden , always wanting to do something. She got to travel with us though to Vegas ( wow ) Canada, Calif., and several other states.
    "" If we were in the PH., mom would NOT be living with us, wife would let her stay in her own home surrounded by HER old friends. "" Nice Story.

  • @stevengonyaw1617
    @stevengonyaw1617 Před měsícem +4

    Guys , find an orphan girl with no family , problem solved !! 😜

  • @RedneckandPinay
    @RedneckandPinay Před měsícem +2

    CZcams should pay you double. You have to endure a lot of stress to film a video. Good video

  • @pbrewer32
    @pbrewer32 Před měsícem

    Marcos, Chicago on station. You have to make some tough decisions at times. Your heart is very big, and you do take care of your family well. This is what a husband does to take care of his direct responsibilities. Tough love is still love.

  • @natesquestyouknowthatsrigh8269

    Good job. 👍🏼

  • @joemcgrath7446
    @joemcgrath7446 Před měsícem

    Good job You're a good dude

  • @darlenehinton7152
    @darlenehinton7152 Před měsícem

    You did the right thing ! Your ❤ was in the right place !

  • @Lifeisforreallad
    @Lifeisforreallad Před měsícem +5

    You have the place next door, now the family is on their way brother. Grandma and Ti Ti

  • @23FABILA
    @23FABILA Před měsícem +1

    You are the king of your castle, but I could have done without that lunch box visual😬jokes aside, them are some good hearted family❤

  • @billshepard6664
    @billshepard6664 Před měsícem +3

    Right thing King.

  • @ropineapplehead2198
    @ropineapplehead2198 Před měsícem +1

    It’s good to be in demand, Grandma and Grandpa can occasionally occupy your newly acquired Southern Castle next door as to not to meddling in your kingdom. Happy wife, happy life AND happy king, happy kingdom!

  • @dwork9451
    @dwork9451 Před měsícem

    ​Grandma and Grandpa need to stay together. I like you, you understand life.

  • @TravisBicknel
    @TravisBicknel Před měsícem +1

    Great decision making King. However, I do have one question. Who the heck will carry the case of soft drink now? :)

  • @dennisharte23
    @dennisharte23 Před měsícem +3

    All around good decision.

  • @aicsusa
    @aicsusa Před měsícem

    You did good! Don’t worry!

  • @mrbHanoi
    @mrbHanoi Před měsícem +3

    Be a boss Stay in control A real man in a sea of simps.

  • @PaulWaikatoTauranga
    @PaulWaikatoTauranga Před měsícem +3

    I'd rather her look after my children then getting in the way of others there, nothing wrong with that bud

  • @morningstarstorey5609
    @morningstarstorey5609 Před měsícem +1

    ❤ Don't beat yourself up! ❤ We let people do What they want to do! I feel if I stop now I won't come Back! Marcus I JUST KEEP ON KEEPING ON! it works for me! I'm 62yrs old. And set in my ways! 😉⭐🇺🇲

  • @ottasian
    @ottasian Před 12 dny

    Separation makes the heart grow fonder..can't remember where I got that from

  • @bgarrard9456
    @bgarrard9456 Před měsícem +3

    U did the right thing

  • @GregVT
    @GregVT Před měsícem +2

    That cloud formation looks like a Manatee

  • @xaviervillasenor7622
    @xaviervillasenor7622 Před měsícem

    I agree with you 💯

  • @jaime8974
    @jaime8974 Před měsícem +3

    Poor grandma

  • @andyh5822
    @andyh5822 Před měsícem

    Great video Marcos. You are on the right. We miss flo but she needed to be a mom. Now the only issue is flo will have another baby soon.

  • @danny208YT
    @danny208YT Před měsícem

    Good move. Keep her their and you'll end up being a caretaker. That's something her family needs to do in the village

  • @colin4797
    @colin4797 Před měsícem +1

    It amazes me why these bloggers get so fixated on the negative comments instead of being thankful for all the good subscribers they have..they nearly all do it and usually put on a funny voice while playing the part of the negative comment 😅

  • @Gixxxer1300R
    @Gixxxer1300R Před měsícem

    Your not a robber. Your an educated man that is only devoted to care and take care of your family. That alone is highly respectful. With that said, you have changed your life in a great way. Partly day's were good but now your becoming a more respectful man. I only wish I have the same power. Godspeed and your service is highly appreciated and respected.
    I think important men need to wash out the bull .... thank you for the truth and quality entertainment. Your family is beautiful. More people should understand y our journey. Your a very good example of a father.

  • @jackieslone4714
    @jackieslone4714 Před měsícem

    Marco's you definitely did the right thing

  • @chuck5553
    @chuck5553 Před měsícem +1

    That’s a good common sense move KM….

  • @43coralsea
    @43coralsea Před měsícem +4

    Jax on the scene #5

  • @manuelcamomot5152
    @manuelcamomot5152 Před měsícem +1

    Good day

  • @mannyc4224
    @mannyc4224 Před měsícem

    Got to keep them ladies in line! 😆

  • @desipage9862
    @desipage9862 Před 2 dny

    All my navy buddies who married a Filipina the grandma was always there. Grandma would come out with the Filipino sweeper broom😂

  • @charlesetienne6037
    @charlesetienne6037 Před měsícem +1

    Right man

  • @HereIGooooo
    @HereIGooooo Před měsícem +4

    No not grandma

  • @PaulWaikatoTauranga
    @PaulWaikatoTauranga Před měsícem +2

    Closer to everything she needs

  • @randellt
    @randellt Před měsícem

    Likes to munch that box! 😅 U did the right thing!

  • @jones4334
    @jones4334 Před měsícem +1

    Grandma leaves for 2 months until school starts and it will give everyone a fresh start when she comes back. Definitely a Hall Pass!

  • @PaulWaikatoTauranga
    @PaulWaikatoTauranga Před měsícem +2

    Everybody needs loving lol😅😅😅

  • @mojavedxer
    @mojavedxer Před měsícem +1

    Your going to get judged by the peanut gallery no matter what you do. Why even care. I always watched your videos because you are a no nonsense practical guy. Your new relaxed persona on your videos really agrees with you.

  • @raid7752
    @raid7752 Před měsícem +3

    wonder when you would be off to handle some business. when things get crazy you can go next
    door for some no stress.

  • @sincity7005
    @sincity7005 Před měsícem +3

    ❤️👍

  • @Melsey1027
    @Melsey1027 Před měsícem +1

    You have my pass. You did the right thing.

  • @simgrant98
    @simgrant98 Před měsícem +1

    Enabler #1, whatever you do you always do it with style and heart! What about calamansi is she in essence a nanny?is she finished with school please give us a clue in your videos