Gwen Stefani - Used To Love You
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- Gwen Stefani “Used To Love You” from THIS IS WHAT THE TRUTH FEELS LIKE.
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In order to understand this song or video you have to experience this horror.
Don't be so quick to judge. That's SHALLOW!!!
The song, the lyrics, the video is absolutely genius... I have experienced every inch of this song...
Gwen...respect...respect...respect. You nailed it! And now the new life ahead is pure bliss...
+Spay Argyris
Amen to that!
+Echoustic Exactly right...love the video love the song. I get it and absolutely love Gwen!!! Thanks for sharing your vulnerability with the world.
True!
+Spay Argyris in order to understand..... i dont fucking care about understanding this fucking song. What is up with you gushy people. stop fucking crying about that shit. he cheated on you. who fucking cares. sob to your friends. this song sucks. its generic and sounds like the rest of the fucking songs popular with you sheep these days. gwens songs were better a decade ago. now they are trash.
+tsukemaru1 Well, that's your problem right there isn't it? If your mind is closed to 'understanding', that's surely going to be a barrier to any kind of enjoyment, because to me, you sound like a right miserable git. :p I'm left wondering -- did affirming your 'elitist' status in your own mind make you feel any less miserable?
This song got me through the worst time of my life getting over the heartbreak of an abusive narcissist
I know that feel sis💜💜
Gabriella Cabral I literally know what that feels like. One of the worst type of a significant other to get over. I hope you find everlasting happiness. Stay strong. It take lots and lots of courage to even just talk about it or share openly what you went through. It’s a huge deal. You should be very proud of yourself.
You helped me a lot just by reading your comment. Thank you.
Gabriella Cabral I know the feeling.
Gabriella same
Going through this now under quarantine. Pure hell.
I read an article where Gwen stated the video was not planned to be this. Camera on, playback started rolling and the lyrics hit her. And the camera stayed on. No redo or second take. Such raw emotions full of truths. Anyone whose heart has been crushed knows exactly what her eyes are saying.
That’s amazing
I understand
her emotions in this video really fits the lyrics
She also had her hard time during this. She had it for years. I wish people Know. Articles are everywhere you can search~ this video is art, but what deeper is her psychology here that make this art although it's sad reality. I'm not even her fans but I did research.
I guess this is really what the truth feels like
And Blake came along and put ointment on the wounds of her heart. Such a happy ending........
Bella Grace yess
🤢🤮🤮🤢
But is it really?
So true x
I will break him in half if he hurts her. She's been through so much heartbreak.
I seriously can't stop watching this video. It's heartbreaking but incredibly moving. We love you Gwen.
exactly!
I love the meaning to this song.
+Matt Lewis ♟♞♝♜♛♚
David Cortese - Manga Chess
♙♘♗♖♕♔
+Matt Lewis Ironic you find Gwen's face "incredibly moving."
She's had such a incredible amount of botox she can barely MOVE it.
+Harry B hate much..?
First time I watched the video I was like "WTF Gwen, your expressions are really making me uncomfortable"... Yet the video is actually REALLY GROWING ON ME. And the song is ABSOLUTE DOPE
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I have that same thing going on hm we are weird we hate it then we like ok ok I think I like this :-)
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+Mokacello LOL it's fake
sad
***** LOL i know i was just trolling.
I think this video is pure art. One scene, one setting, one lighting .. and letting her body language speak for itself. And not to mention she looks great!
agree!
Freaky
looks like she's depressed buying an expensive ps5 to your dad buying an dvd watching fun with dick and jane.
She’s Beautiful and she reminds me of a beautiful blonde Geisha Doll! ❤️
I feel her pain. After 27 years of marriage and two great kids, my ex husband left me for a younger, married coworker. You could have knocked me over with a feather. Never imagined that he would betray me and his kids like he did. Before I hated him, I used to love him. Nothing hurts like infidelity.
Sorry to hear that. I was just reading the comments. 27 years is a long time. I know it's cliché but you'll be better off without him.. He probably maybe find someone that is your twin flame.. Never too late.
I feel you, Cindy. 27 years and 5 children. My husband left me for a younger married coworker too. Absolutely devastating unexplainable pain.
@@venturelover1378 Agree! The pain doesn’t just go away either. You’re now in a club, you didn’t sign up to be in. I pray for you.
I was married 22 years with 4 children. You are not alone.
Nothing hurts like being betrayed. I hope you’re doing better.
I honestly can see the feeling in her face the whole video
You can see her emotions in her face very well. She chokes up singing back the lyrics. I think it's a perfect expression of telling him he is an idiot & wtf were you thinking. We love you Gwen :,(
TALENT!!!
100% Cacibot-approved.
No ... She is a great singer, impressiv person but NOT a good actor 😂
gwen's expressions represent me trying to understand my final grades
+harry potter hahahahaha this made my day xD
+harry potter SAME ahahahahah
+harry potter
you made me laugh through he WHOLE video LOL
LMAO, imagine that. Such a melodramatic way to look at your grades. Very funny comment
+harry potter HILARIOUS....audio phone recording for getting my college grades way back when said....F...FAILURE. hahaha - it's not funny, but it is.
2024 and this song still makes the tears roll down endlessly. Thank you Gwen for your poetry, your raw emotion, your beauty. You are a true artist.
If you notice closely, her facial expressions are exactly what the words are saying. She's singing to Gavin without actually saying the words. So powerful and incredible artistry.
G turned out to be a real POS. No Doubt helped make Bush popular in the USA.
Not about Gavin
@@Lyndseynhill Who is it meant to be about (if anyone?)
She was the best thing that ever happened to him.
what a fool, he didn't appreciate the love he got 😁
She wasn’t really. Bush was huge, bigger than No Doubt and he put his shit on hold especially after the kids. I don’t think people get how big Gavin was. He is kinda dumb for cheating on her. They were so beautiful together.
@@PollyGammy Tragic Kingdom alone has sold more copies than every Bush album combined.
Now look at what he lost
To be honest,, when you say to somebody “hey did you ever like bush back in the day?” I think most of the time you’d get a negative answer. That man killed his own career. If you asked anybody about Gwen stefani; they know.
Listen to the words of the song, and those are the emotions she is portraying regardless of how awkward it looks. It's how you would act, when you are trying to get over someone, or if you hear a song that boosts your confidence. Look in the mirror and your expression.
+ShackledDreamz Exactly what I was thinking.
тrυe , ι agree
Ya that is so rite
Yes well said it's raw and emotional
+ShackledDreamz Soooooo true, I always look like this when I cry in the mirror. I recently had a bad break up and I know how she feels. Heartbroken. Distraught. Distressed. Crestfallen. Dejected. Ugly. Forlorn. Reptilian.
She is gorgeous, so talented and the mother of his 3 children. To have your third baby and find out he has been sleeping with the Nanny would be devastating. So glad she found love again with Blake.
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I used to think the video was ridiculous and low budget, but I grew to see how sad and poignant it actually is. And years later, now that I can REALLY relate to the song and the music video, it hurts even more. You can see and feel so many different emotions crossing her face, and none of it is an act. She moves through waves of despair, anger, raw grief, disbelief, helplessness, pleading, bursting into tears. She is desperate, she is withdrawn, she is distraught, she is resolute. She wants to go towards him, but she also wants to retreat into isolation. She wavers between trying to stay strong and breaking down from the pressure. It's the 5 stages of grief in motion. And it ends with her expression looking reserved, disappointed. It really asks him, "Why???" I relate to each expression she emotes so much, because I understand each feeling.
I cried watching this today. But I'm glad Gwen is healing
I have avoided this song for the longest time because I thought it would just break my heart. And now I realize that it's very empowering. Thank you Gwen.
❤
A true icon !
If you’ve ever truly been in love and betrayed, here expressions reveal everything. She’s amazing ❤️💯
R Shahid betrayed for the last time expressions
Her pain is so evident in the beginning yet as the song progresses her strength is so amazing. Faith can move mountains and it all happens for a reason. Now she is loved. I love you Gwen! ♡
I read that it took a really long time to film this because she couldn’t stop crying
this was the 4th take. she cried the first 2 takes then sophie told her she's not supposed to cry.
One of true worst pains..heart sadness, betrayal, make you feel destroyed
After 14 years together married for 4 of those years, I was left for a younger person. Endured our ups and down. I was blinded sided. This song is a page from my book
Davis Fountain so sorry
Davis Fountain how did you deal with it and how did you find out. Worst punch in the stomach. Sorry.
So sorry u deserve better
I'm right there with you...
@Crystal Chandelier amen girl
You can see the pain in her eyes. Like she's in shock and having a breakdown. Such a sad beautiful song.
I know... so authentic. I bet if she stubs her toe there is a camera to capture it.
I know that feelings am hurtin right now its a terrible experience i cry sometimes
Where are the tears
@@karrinaalvarez536 people can show pain in eyes without tears
A dor está nos olhos, porque a face está paralisada 💉
This song and video is actually a really telling song and emotion. You think everything is hunky-dory, going to spend the rest of your life with somebody and this happens 19 years or so into a relationship what a waste of time.
It’s not a waste of time if you learn and grow from it. Plus, she got three beautiful children from it.
@@BatALash correct
its never a waste....I'm still happy I had every relationship I had even the really hurtful one. I wouldn't trade those years for anything.
Well now she is with someone much better who really does love her!
i love this video. i look nothing like Gwen, but it's like looking at my reflection. i'm going through the repercussions of a breakup now, and sometimes i do that thing Dane Cook was talking about where you just stare at the mirror and cry and look at your facial expressions and think this was what my ex lover used to stare at for hours on end. and you're just staring at yourself hoping he/she will end up beside you but they wont. and sometimes you're able to be strong and pull off a brave face, but sometimes you succumb and feel like you're breaking down. knowing that these are real emotions. breakups feel horrible but at least by sharing her pain she's letting us know that we're not alone.
+Faizal Ali Bravo, Faizal. I commend your post. Facing up to hurt and pain, rejection and loss, is scary stuff, so much so that many of us wall off all or part of our feelings and emotions as a coping mechanism. If your walls are up (and you may not even be aware they are), I very much doubt you'll ever fully "get" either this song and/or the video (hence, all the superficial comments, all the false bravado, more often than not manifest in the form of snide or crass humor).
When Gwen sings: "Nobody taught you how to love" (a key line in the song, and not coincidentally, one of two moments in the video where she actually mouths the lyrics), this is in line with the concept of tabula rasa. My own notion is that we are all born with a certain innate capacity to love, but certain experiences, e.g. growing up in a broken home or perhaps failed relationships later in life (in my case, probably a combo of both), can cause us to lose part of that capacity. In my twenties, I had great difficulty committing to relationships and it took me the longest time, a lot of collateral damage at the expense of others, and blessedly, the infinite patience of a truly beautiful soul (that of my soul mate) to realize I had set up all these walls and that I hid behind a mask of stoicism to bury some very deep-seated personal insecurities and a very real fear of failure. The breakthrough began with becoming self-aware, and with that I was able to begin chipping away, bit by bit, at those walls and slowly rediscover (or rather re-learn) the capacity to truly love. I greatly admire Gwen and others like yourself for the openness and willingness to be vulnerable and authentic. Others may scoff at the notion, but to be self-aware, in touch and in-tune with that part of ourselves which makes us truly human (some call this the human psyche, others the soul, whatever the semantics may be) makes us beautiful beyond the superficial. And in Gwen's case, it enables and empowers her to make beautiful art and music.
p.s. - I've always thought that this video was conceptual in nature, in that the "mirror" in the footage is the camera -- by extension making us or Gwen, or both ways, the mirror.
Thank you for the response, Echoustic. In my case my walls were built up before I met my ex. She tore them down, and I was truly able to love for the first time and have it reciprocated. Problem was that I loved her too much and didn't love myself enough to think I deserved her, which is why I broke things off and regret it a year later now that she's found someone new. From your post, it seems like you've gone through your fair share of challenges, and I'm glad you've found someone to share your love. It gives me hope that one day I will too. Thank you for sharing.
I recently felt that today :(
+Jenny Ban lol get a diary
+Jenny Ban Calm down.
YES GWEN IS BACK THIS IS THE COMEBACK SINGLE WE DESERVED THIS IS AMAZING I LOVE YOU GWEN
+jordan ray i think her "comeback" song was baby don't lie
+khalid saleh that's exactly what he meant by this is what we "deserved"
+jordan ray But the video could've been much better
+jordan ray This song is AWESOME!
+Harry Grands baby don't lie was amazing too
This song was released when I was going through an exceptionally hard time relationship-wise and in general. Had my dark night of the soul in 2015 where I wasn't sure if I wanted to keep living. This song and video expressed so much of what I was feeling then. Fast forward 5 years. I got engaged this year. So did Gwen. Coming back here reminds me of how far I've come from the worst year of my life. I hope it does for her too. 🥰
I'm so glad to see this, No Doubt got me through some very tough times as a teenager, I was 16 when Tragic Kingdom was released. I have been of a fan of Gwen ever since, I think she's incredible. Her music has helped me through some really shitty times. I hope you and your new fiance are doing well. And I'm glad Gwen is finally got someone who respects and adores her.
WHAT hold up I need to proscess that... 2015 was ur worst year ever I'm like that was the best fucking thing that ever happened to me
So happy for you. Love happy endings.
I relate to this in so many ways.. I just love Gwen. Her music seems to resonate my own life. This song has me crying because she really gets it, or I get her about it. I don’t know why I cry, but I think it’s cause I remember for the first time since I hated you, that I used to love you. Betrayal is the hardest trial to overcome. Love you Gwen and thank you for this song.
Betrayal is worst feeling ever .
I loved this! I liked watching her expressions as she "thought" all of this!
Exactly. That's why she barely sang in the song it's like she's showing what the faces she's making in her brain. While the song is talking about the divorce.
+Angelina Mejia right! Some people just don't get it. It's raw and full of emotion. Makes me feel her pain.
+Robin Voss true.
+Robin Voss How do you get that through the Botox?
***** .. Thank you for your service.. But you're still sassy.. lol
love your vulnerability and raw emotions here!
+Stefka V laaaargoooo
they werentbraw they were too fake for a music video. shrs not at putting enotion in songs via music video.
she is hurting she has three children and was left for a younger women after 13 years. How would you feel? Did you want her to cry through the whole video?
+Beverly Pisano it still dodnt look right. obviously she isnt hurting because she is riding Blake Sheldons pole
+D Sua The video director didn't want her to cry during the video so she made her redo the video until she didn't cry.
Gwen isn’t acting here. This is real pain.
Yes I followed her since No Doubt first came out and she loves with her whole heart. I'm so happy she the happiest I've ever seen her with Blake . Gavin has cheated on her so much because it's in a lot of her songs she's so happy now thank God
Imagine if she didn't have the botox, we's see some real emotions
Many of us, have been there at one point or another.
Yes!!!
Where is the real ugly cry????
Gwen Stefani is such an INSPIRATION!! Applause this girl for having a heart of Gold.
This video reminds me when a sad song comes on while your in the car and you stare out the window to make it look like a music video😂😂😂
yessss
omg 😂
Omg I do that all the time
HAHAHA YES
it's so expressive and Gwen is so talented
And as much as I admire the video...i laugh and Cant agree more
Sammmmemeeee
SHE NEVER AGES! Damn, I see no wrinkles.
its makeup and thousands of skin products 😂
+Savana Molina its not thousands of products wow.. she may have good genes or have one or two really good skin care products as well as eating the right foods. do some research instead of judging her. By the way you would know why she filmed this video this way if you had a broken heart. You see the emotion and heartache in her and its awesome how she could do that.
Dave Scott Maclean
Rich people don't age, haven't you figured that out ? She will be hot until she is in her late 60's. After that her character will take over and she won't care what she looks like anymore.
+Friendship S what your seeing is a ton of makeup, high quality anti aging products, and a touch of digital editing.
New York I'm laughing my ass off at how you worded that. "[In serious, solemn voice] What you are now witnessing....is a ton of makeup, high quality anti aging products...and a touch...of digital editing." LOL!!!!!!
It really feels as if she is holding tears back during the whole song.
She was holding her tears back
She is holding her tears back. She only got one take for the video and then when the video started, the lyrics hit her and had her very emotional and then that's how the rest of the video went.
I'm just glad she found the right one.
THANK YOU BLAKE SHELTON!!!💓
Wow this is a powerful comeback! So much better that 'baby don't lie' and 'spark the fire'. It's just sad to know that Gwen had to go through a divorce in order to write this brilliant piece of music :(
+John Cornish Totally agree. It's a masterpiece!
The break up is very sad. I was so excited when I saw this vid up. I can't wait for her album. It's taking way to long. Gwen is an awesome singer.
+John Cornish Um I got 1:29 seconds into it an oh no, no way am I listening to this crap
+John Cornish In a Nutshell She pulled a "Taylor Swift" only Gwen doesn't suck. lol
+StriderReborn Wouldn't that mean than that Taylor Swift did a "No Doubt" as the song "Don't Speak" came out in 1994. That was a ballad of Gwen and Tony Kanal's break up. And one of their most popular.
Hard to imagine a guy who couldn't be happy with Gwen Stefani.
+Super Swole Exactly.
+Kelly Carter If he actually cheated on her he's the DUMBEST MAN ALIVE.
+Kelly Carter well apparently 13yrs to Gavin can't last as this is not just a song but her pouring her heart out in a intimate way regarding her feelings to her soon to be ex-husband
+Kelly Carter People just fall out of love. Happens to the best of us.
Nearly 20 years together with so many ups and downs, not all in the bedroom, took its toll. What's sad is something happened to tip the feelings from love to hate.
When she writes from the heart her songs are really beautiful.
A fact about this video: Gwen Stefani...I did not intend for this to be the music video for the song, we just shot it, and then just decided that it was perfect for the song.
gwen isn’t acting here. this is real pain.
*some people just NEVER AGE OMG SHE LOOKS AMAZING!*
+lexyheartsbeauty She does age really well! She is so pretty
Plastic surgery honey lol she has Botox and other procedures
+Robin Hood she looks amazing nevertheless. Some ppl her age over do it with the botox and stuff
makeup! works wonders!
unfortunately, some of her best stuff is when she's heart broken. I feel guilty for liking it but it's just so good. Gwen, you will always have us ... ):
You are right! Her heart-broken period is very productive
+Vanessa a. This song is way better than Spark the Fire! Love her
+Vanessa a. Art does not come from happiness
+Vanessa a. why is she heart broken? D: what happened?
+Yasei Kurao omg are u serious???? her and Gavin Rossdale got divorced.
This video has stuck with me after all these years. I feel like it is so artsy that a lot of people wouldn't understand it, or appreciate it. We are so used to fast movement and quick edits. I used this video as an inspiration for my first music video.
I love this woman for her honesty, which has bravery underneath.
Wow! She makes me feel her pain through this video.
exactly
Painful to watch? That's the only pain I can see here.
+Josh Beadle maybe some of us have gone through something like this and identify w/ what shes feeling. You dont have to like it ! So gtfo.
+celeste hermosillo Yeah, it's so painful to watch.
+celeste hermosillo _No more pain Celeste, she's dating Blake Shelton since a few days ;-)_
The very beginning of this song makes me think of my late wife. It's been more than 2 years since she died but sometimes I still can't believe she's gone.
Sry for your loss
+Amanda Murphy it's not all bad though. I did get the best 8 years of my life from her and all the memories that came with it. Plus I'd do it all again if I had the chance, even if it ended the same. She was totally worth it.
+Aaron Hersey My condolences.
+Aaron Hersey Friend, my condolences.
aww may she RIP
Only a woman who been through the same shit can decode this video, when you love someone for so long and they do the unimaginable you can't sing without tears or feeling the deep emotions. Then the song lyric change and the words become something else! All you can do is feel her pain.
110% truth.
Same as a gay man
@@cjturner370 same as a straight man
I was having a perfectly fine and happy day, then I watched this video and now I am bawling my eyes out! The video, the lyrics, Gwen's emotions in her vocals... she channels heartbreak and betrayal so powerfully.
It is hard to watch someone I have grown up watching/listening to her music take such a heartbreaking hit with love lost due to betrayal. My heart breaks for her and her children. Also for women/men who also are or have gone through a loved ones betrayal. The video is so powerful and emotional. I at times have tears running down my face listening/watching this video.
+truehazeleyes
#empathyisprecious
i'm sorry for what happened to you. I also can relate to this song. Yes this song really deep and powerful
+Sem ???? what are you talking about this song is weird
+NightMare Gaming 100000 the lyrics i meant. The video is weird.
+NightMare Gaming 100000 she had a break up with Gavin Rosedale he cheated with the nanny:(
Me in my bathroom looking at myself being extra and dramatic
Amazon Prime hahaha wtf
😂😂😂😂
Lol
Damn u called me out lmaooo
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I literally felt her, this is probably one of my favorite things I’ve seen from an artist. She’s showing her break down start to end, the reason for her words, the pain she feels with them. And the fact that people are judging? Are you scared that you don’t have the courage to do that so you have to put it down? Just leave it where it sits and scroll don’t even put your negativity out there. I love this
So powerful and moving, makes me cry every time I see it. You are such a talented BEAUTY, Gwen.
Hello beautiful
she really is one of a kind
How are you doing today, hope you’re good ??
I really like this video, it's very simple but you can just see the pain in her eyes while the song is playing. I think this song had something to do with her personal life.
agreed
the break up with her husband!!
Nell Nights
Nell Nights its because of her husband
she broke up with her husband that's why.
I will never forgive the public for letting this flop
Truue. The fact that BAD GUY amd TRUTH HURTS trashy songs are hits and this classic is a flop is so sad
did it flop tho? i remember hearing it everyyywhere🙌 and everyone taking about it and loving it
Her hair distracts me. Beautiful song. Hideous hair.
This song is part of my jobs playlist, deff not a flop
sis has 25 MILLION views is it really considered a flop??
Who is watching this in 2020 ?
Me
Quarantine brought me here 🙃
Me
I LIKED IT
Meee
People forget sometimes, Gwen is an ICON ❤
I love how she doesn't blur the wrinkle around her eyes! She's almost 50 but she's still look mid 30!
+Riza hariati The most beautiful woman in the world. She melts me.
+Rising Moon shhhhhhhhh
yes! she is so beautiful :)
Yes, that's because she cares her health and her organism. Long life to Gwen!
Maybe if you take care for yourself people should look like her at 50
This is far better than the songs she released last year. Gwen is an artist with so much talent and personality and she should be smashing. Been a huge fan since WAYWF in 2004!
+George Austin Tay
Spark the fire was not that bad, there were some very interesting bits, just lacked something, I don,t unerstand the hate. Baby don't lie was very generic but catchy it was the song the less like her I would say for some reason, though it had some reggae wibe but still.
+lara iza That's where the dislike comes from. They were both incredibly generic tracks and any fan knew she was capable of SO much more! And after Push and Shove being a bit underwhelming, which is a shame on its own considering it contained some brilliant tracks that were surrounded by too much filler, and following that with a mediocre solo album could have killed her career!
+fortifarse Those tracks are generic, yet this one isn't? You sure about that?
+lara iza Don't forget about Shine. Great song.
fortifarse
all tracks are generic in their own way. You don't need to always be listening to weird progressive rock or random metal.
The spirit of pop is a lot to build on what was done before, and people shouldnt be so ashamed of that. Yes originality is good but its not always necessary that there be a lot of it, and there are other qualities music can have.
Baby don't lie was the most generic in the sens I think the sounds used, the production, the echo, was very very much used... and I just didn't like it, which is beyond it being generic. this type of sound is not what I prefer but very used today - its like too full all the time, its like you loose some variety, its hard to explain. Id almost say it a sound that sounds self important or something.
There was not much depth.
But I found some interesting things in spark the fire. The intro, the bridge, some of the verses, some sounds, even the chorus were not bad, actually it was good.
The problem of that song was not it had nothing special, but it lacked something.
In this song, we can hear gwen stefani like melodic input, so to speak. And the emotion of the melody suits the lyrics very well. Because those emotions are real and expressed in a way that does not sound forced in the song, it does not sound what people would call generic - even if it might not be as original as progressive rock of course.
Heart wrenching sad and beautiful both. She is in strong arms now. They can be each other's shade on sunny days. I pray for them.
❤ yes
This song hit me in such a personal way! Gwen is amazing with her songs she writes. This song helped me put a bad person in my life in the past and leave him there so I could move on. This was my theme song that year!
Glad to know I’m not the only one who saw the similarities between this and Selena Gomez’s new song
thetriplethreat3 I feel it too
Dido I'm like hold up I think I've seen this before.
thetriplethreat3 omg yes!
they were both written with the help of julia micheals
@@Erikammm4497 yup shes badass!
Its unreal that she is 47 years old.... A vampire?
She could go for 27. So freaking pretty.
srsly, look at her mouth shape, her nose and how the skin is stretched.... plastic surgery might be ur answer. no ill on gwen stefani, just saying...
+me messon way u hating on a beatiful person I never seen u but the way u are acting you are ugly on the inside so if anyone needs help it is u. you say that u are not trying to be rude but who would like to be told go get your face fixed. think before u text. and ps this whole comment section is about how young and pretty she looks so I guess that you are out numbered
I didn't say she should go get her face fixed. They were asking how she could look so pretty at her age and I meant she has probably had plastic surgery, which is not something I think anyone needs really. Still no hating on Gwen, just saying I think that is why she looks so young her age
me messon If she did the surgeon did an awesome job.
Imagine fumbling Miss Gwen Stefani. Gavin a fool
To my mother in law. Mother’s Day 2020. My heart is truly broken. Thank you Gwen, this song gives me words for something I can’t express. Her continuous hurtful comments have removed myself and her grandchildren from her life, at least for the time being. If my mother were alive, her son would have been treated like a beloved son by my mother.
gwen hurt as fuck, on the brink of tears for almost 4 minutes, deep lyrics that allude to her heartbreak with Gavin.....
meanwhile: "oh, look! hahaha she has an adams apple!"
humanity ladies and gentlemen
+Taibah Al-mansour
Good post. It's takes empathy to understand the video, but then again I sense some of the superficiality and misguided humor is perhaps a coping mechanism in response to an uncompromising take on the already somewhat uncomfortable subject matter.
+Taibah Al-mansour All women do, lol. Ours just typically don't protrude much like most male Adam's apples.
+Taibah Al-mansour At 2:44 you can see her Adams Apple and when she raises her neck
I've always loved simple music videos where the music speaks for it's self like it doesn't need a big ridiculous video just listen and the video compliments it.
Carver Pierce ok will do! thanks for the advice
0h well everyonewants me gone from here. so i better not get houminto it not fair to you. its my problem so im leaving this and queting all together. i m done with all. not your fault i wish ihad kept up with you. well har a gòod tome. ive got to get outof this for myself. hsve a good time. good bye
0h well everyonewants me gone from here. so i better not get houminto it not fair to you. its my problem so im leaving this and queting all together. i m done with all. not your fault i wish ihad kept up with you. well har a gòod tome. ive got to get outof this for myself. hsve a good time. good bye&^
you're right tbh.... if i listened to this whilst watching her rollerblade around with more plastic surgery that kardation like in her latest vid - I wouldn't remember , nor like the song. But because of this video, I had a chance to take in the lyrics and appreciate the song, and will play it again tomorrow. Wish she could reverse her plastic facial surgery I really do. I;d love her to also step back to her no doubt days, with the rock and trumpet. Imagine how much of a smash that would be.
Lauren Rauh
Lyrics:
Never thought this would happen
I let it sink in, you're gone
I don't know, know what I'm feeling
I must be dreaming, you're gone
Suitcase, band-aids
Pulling back out the driveway
You go, I'll stay
You can keep all the memories
I thought I was the best thing that ever happened to you
I thought you loved me the most
I don't know why I cry
But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time
Since I hated you
That I used to love you
I don't know why I cry
But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time
Since I hated you
That I used to love you
Oh, oh, oh, oh
I used to love you
Oh, oh, oh, oh
I used to love you
Are you gone?
There were no boundaries
What, you just pushed me too far
I guess nobody taught you
Nobody taught you how to love
Suitcase, band-aids
Pulling back out the driveway
You go, I'll stay
You can keep all the memories
I thought I was the best thing that ever happened to you
I thought you loved me the most
I don't know why I cry
But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time
Since I hated you
That I used to love you
I don't know why I cry
But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time
Since I hated you
That I used to love you
Oh, oh, oh, oh
I used to love you
Oh, oh, oh, oh
I used to love you
You know I was the best thing that ever happened to you
Oh, now look at what you lost, oh
You know I was the best thing that ever happened to you
Now look at what you lost, oh
I don't know why I cry
But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time
Since I hated you
That I used to love you
I don't know why I cry
But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time
Since I hated you
That I used to love you
Oh, oh, oh, oh
I used to love you
Oh, oh, oh, oh
I used to love you
I don't know why I cry
I don't, I don't, I don't
I don't know why I used to love you
I don't, I don't, I don't
I don't know why I cry
I don't, I don't, I don't
I don't know why I used to love you
I don't, I don't, I don't
Source: LyricFind
Songwriters: Jonathan Rotem / Teal Douville / Gwen Stefani / Justin Tranter / Julia Michaels
Used to Love You lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music Inc
Pp
Pandemic really made us revisit past life events 🌻🌸
This video is awkward to watch. But this song knocks.
Love it.
It's not awkward until you say it's awkward... Dumb comment
It's awkward for me cause I think it's awkward. Dumb comment.
+Sidney Taku Stop being so awkward then... weirdo
Why? Freak.
+Sidney Taku awkward
As more of a heavy metal fan, I really dig No Doubt/Stefani. In a sea of so many fakes, she's seems so authentic & real. I appreciate her so much as an artist. I feel her struggles in a lot of songs, especially her break up songs. " Simple Kind of Life" hits home pretty close. She says she's filled with so much love and I can tell. She seems so pure. I hope to find someone like her one day in my life. She's amazing. I know how it is to love someone for years and do your best and then one day it's just over. But she keeps moving forward the best she can, and that's what I try to do as well.
Sorry! She's all mine!@
So sad how someone you love, have the power to destroy every bit of you. Narcissistic abuse is real. It destroys everything you thought you knew about love.
Hello there 👋 how are you doing today??
Who came here after Blake and Gwen song ❤️ ❤️
Never thought this would happen
Gonna let it sink in, you're gone
I don't know, know what I'm feeling
I must be dreaming, you're gone
Suitcase, band-aids
Pulling back out the driveway
You go, I'll stay
You can keep all the memories
I thought I was the best thing that ever happened to you
I thought you loved me the most
I don't know why I cry
But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time
Since I hated you
That I used to love you
I don't know why I cry
But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time
Since I hated you
That I used to love you
Oh oh oh oh
I used to love you
Oh oh oh oh
I used to love you
You thought
There were no boundaries
What, you just pushed me too far
I guess nobody taught you
Nobody taught you how to love
Suitcase, band-aids
Pulling back out the driveway
You go, I'll stay
You can keep all the memories
I thought I was the best thing that ever happened to you
I thought you loved me the most
I don't know why I cry
But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time
Since I hated you
That I used to love you
I don't know why I cry
But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time
Since I hated you
That I used to love you
Oh oh oh oh
I used to love you
Oh oh oh oh
I used to love you
You know I was the best thing that ever happened to you
Well, now look at what you lost, oh
You know I was the best thing that ever happened to you
Now look at what you lost, oh
I don't know why I cry
But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time
Since I hated you
That I used to love you
I don't know why I cry
But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time
Since I hated you
That I used to love you
Oh oh oh oh
I used to love you
Oh oh oh oh
I used to love you
I don't know why I cry
I don't, I don't, I don't
I don't know why I used to love you
I don't, I don't, I don't
I don't know why I cry
I don't, I don't, I don't
I don't know why I used to love you
I don't, I don't, I don't
thanks
Stefy Carvajal you're welcome. 😉
Good job
thanks
Yeah i watched the video
this song is so underrated omg
j u g h e a d ' how exactly is a song underrated
That's right....NOW LOOK AT WHAT YOU LOST! Your loss is Blake's gain. Go Gwen ❤️
I am happy she found happiness.
SHE IS BACK. She surprised us with this masterpiece. I LOVE HER
I wonder how many times they had to tape to get it right. Pretty sure she cried over and over again. Poor thing. You can see the pain and almost feel it.
+Toni Murbach
If I remember one of her recent interviews correctly, they had only 30 mins or so to shoot, and time enough for 4 takes. The director wanted her not to cry, to fight the tears. She ruined the first two takes because she couldn't stop crying.
+Echoustic She did pretty good, than. I heard that While they were shooting Dont Speak, she cried all the time.
+Echoustic :'((((
Actually, she was just at a party with her friend and they started recording Gwen while listening to the song and this unexpectedly became the music video
+Brooklyn Clum
Who told you that story? The ACTUAL true circumstances behind the footage has been divulged by Gwen herself, in several interviews over the past few months, some of which you can hear for yourself if you click on, for example, the interview with Seacreast, which of course is widely available on CZcams.
Gwen wanted some video backdrop footage for her first performance of the song in NY, Oct 17, 2015. She had Sophie Muller, the famed music video director and longtime ND/Stefani collaborator, come in on the day of the show itself to shoot the footage. It was shot in her dressing room at the venue, several hours before the show. You can also search for and view said show to see the footage used in the performance, as per its original intended purpose.
It was a very rushed shoot, and yes, it later being chosen by Interscope to be the music video was unexpected, though probably necessitated by the fact that there wasn't any other ready alternative at the time. On the whole, UTLY was a very rushed release for a single.
“You thought, there were no boundaries, but you just pushed me, too far........ I guess, nobody taught you how to love ❤️”yup! Best songwriter
I felt sorry for Gwen and I do cause of the pain she went through. But God has blessed her with Blake. And they are just a perfect match!!!!
Whoever is reading this, I hope you have an amazing day! :)
Thank you.
I love you.
+Amber Barton ...you too! Danke schon!
+Amber Barton Oow girl thanks you change my smile!! :3 You too
The smiles spread across the world
She's trying NOT to cry !!!!!!!!!!!
+Sha-Nia Clay
So obvious, right?
+Sha-Nia Clay It looks like she's holding back laughter in some shots.
Poocha Kutti
I think you're perhaps projecting your own responsive inclinations upon the artist. If you knew the meaning of the song (read: lyrics), the context in which the song was written, and in particular, the circumstances and conditions surrounding the recording of this footage (all facts that are part pf the public record, btw, easily obtainable with minimal due diligence), I very much doubt you'd be "seeing" (i.e. perceiving) what you claim.
Echoustic LOL
Poocha Kutti
Thanks, I rest my case.
Gwennnnn, omg baby we are so loving you still to this day!! I hope you are so happy now! BUTttttt if not we know we will hear your heart on an album, how can you even thank someone for that!! All my respect and admiration ❤️❤️
She leaves it all there for all to see. And for anyone who has ever been through something similar, you get it, you felt it. So many different stages of emotions in 3 minutes and 47 seconds. And I was just listening to Beyonce's Lemonade album and thinking, wow if anyone would understand that it would be Gwen. Oh my gosh, I wish they'd do a song together. 😲😎👍
Beyoncé is just going through the motions to sell songs. Gwen has been through it She’s the real deal.
This. This should be the kind of direction Gwen should be heading. Not that "Spark The Fire."
This. This makes me uncomfortable
+Paolo Perez Yeah, she said she already scrapped all the songs she did last year and started new these past few months. To reflet what is going on in her life, to be more involved in the creation and for it to be more personal. I prefer to look at those songs from last year as warm ups.
hater
+Paolo Perez So you prefer to cry and suffer than have fun and dance. There's enough room for both! Spark The Fire is so cool. This is just fine.
+Paolo Perez
Spark the fire was very close to being good too. It just was a tad bit too repetitive and the production lazy.
Sometimes lighter songs are good too.
There were some very cool elements in spark the fire
When you tryna resist the jelly donut so bad
Hahahahahahaha right
+Sam Powell LMAO
Didn't like the video until I read your comment. jelly donuts=the struggle is real
This comment just won the internet.
download: www.love-melody.com/2015/10/single-gwen-stefani-used-to-love-you.html
you only deserve to be loved. I am happy that you have found a great love, you deserve it ❤️
Love that she’s showing every different emotion we go through during a breakup...we go from sad to furious, then hurt and so on.
She couldn't be any more beautiful...
You like all that Botox that prevents her from showing emotion?
Hannah Couture it looks like a bird shit in her hair. Everything else is good.
ik right
roccotherabbit /\ That's not an Adam's apple you moron. Open up an anatomy book sometime.
Your Character Is Flawed Your name fits perfectly.
dear gavin ross,
*song*
sincerely,
gwen stefani
Haha yep :)
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+ShepherdsWrench or more like... Dear Gavin, F*CK YOU!! Sincerely, Gwen
+Marcel D. Robinson lol exactly! his loss
yeah LOL
This isn't the first time Gavin has cheated it was several times.😭😩
Algún latino más que le guste Gwen Stefani?
Creas arte con una melodía muy triste,nunca dejas de sorprenderme Gwen.
#AmohaGwen
Obvio, es la mejor
Yo la amo, soy de chile. Venía al Lollapalooza del 2020 y ya había comprado la entrada para verla, pero la maldita pandemia lo arruinó todo.
Needed to listen this after Selena Gomez "Lose you to love me"..
Jean Corb same here
SAME
Omg same 💙💙
Jean Corb Same!
Haha glad I’m not the only one
Who hasn't been through something like this? Gwen has put every disappointment that I've had from my past relationships in ONE song. Talent SO underrated.
Shay Jones it really isn't that much talent, obviously it took a lot of talent to get here but this song is just what anyone would do if they lived a normal life (breakups and such included) and could vent via a song as oppose to social media where people post things such as "i hate you but I used to love you" and when someone someone bites the bullet and replies to that person's whiney Bullshit with "what's wrong"... If she couldn't vent like this we all know she would be the one to reply "i don't wanna talk about it"
also this song was written by some of the best contamporary songwriters
Julia Michaels did❤
God I love Gwen and I'm so happy she's happy now with blake. She's the happiest I've ever seen her and I followed her since No Doubt first came out. I lived this same story. She got me through I am so grateful I seen her Vegas show last October for my birthday it was amazing
If this song nvr made u cry you've never been really heartbroken😭😭😭
Anyone here just because they love Gwen?!
me 😊
I will always love Gwen.
yes i'm here
Of course!
Umm... Let me think for a moment OF COURSE 😏
Quick reminder:
She is Almost 49 still looking 24 ♥️
Loves Me Not damn she is 500?!
Edit: I meant 50 xD
Her eyelids say a different story.
@@Djoodibooti still look great lol
Quick reminder:
She is rich & can afford surgery, etc.! Her eyelids & lips tell.
No doubt, she is pretty
Man, I felt this one deep! Sad that both Gwen and Blake had to go through heartbreak before finding each other!
Her Voice since I was a kid....love her all around "Punk DAyz"