The Rida Point of View | Ep 1| Marriage
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- čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
- Here it is!!! The first topic on my new series called “The Rida Point Of View” which was previously called ‘In My Opinion’. Putting my thoughts and opinions here. Remember these are my opinions and you can totally disagree. Alsssoooo drop down other topics that you’d like to hear my opinions on ❤️❤️🤌🏽🤌🏽
Ohhhh myy goddd
"Get married and then do whatever you wanr ro you" sentence is soooo apt🤌🤌🤌🤌
Plzz make video on how to deal with the conditions that your parents, family or society around you expects to do while in exchange for the bare minimum when you ask the they don't help you out.
Yes plz
be financially independent
Omg. Wat a vlog. I felt as if I was talking to myself. So relatable. The phrase "allowed" to dress, travel, study, work is so so on point. I still get to hear this even when I am 33😂.
Hats off Rida to breaking shackles 🎉🙌
I've been holding these thoughts in my mind for so many years.... I just wanted someone to say it loudly to society. It is just disgusting when you want to focus on your career and they continually pressurized when you will get married. Just one solution for these. Speak for yourself. Don't ask for help. And make yourself financially Independent. Don't feel yourself bicharii..
I have successfully moved out from that small and toxic environment and leading my life independently. Just don't want to hear that stupidest questions again.
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Why girls are always told to dress a certain way
“Get married and do whatever you want” you just spoke what i hear all the time.This is your first video i am watching and i am so glad i clicked. You got yourself a subscriber.
Much love girl ❤
I think I got an answer for my long term confusion about my future. I got a clarity on what should I focus on. It's not something else but myself. A girl of my age but way too matured than me and inspiring me and girls of our age group who have similar struggles on acheiving a life they love,motivating me and teaching me on how can we live a single life at it's best, live for ourselfs at it's peak and ultimately love ourselfs utmost. Thank you so much Rida for being the light, role model and also a mentor in our life. Love You. God bless you😘😍❤️❤️❤️
I love the way you are explaining all these crucial points in a smiling and relaxed way .
I think this is a everyday and every gurl story who comes from a middle class family (specially muslim) . I can relate to each and every word of yours. You have to suffer more taunting if you are the eldest girl of the family. I don't know how to deal with this situation. I am trying my best to deal with the time..let's see how long I can manage it! BTW @rida that is the only reason I like you more and more bcoz you are the first person who speaks about these things ..it felt like you know what's going on in my mind. 💜💜💜
Agreeed, one should only get married, when they feel like getting married and financial stability + taking your own decisions is just so important before stepping into a new life.
Loads of love Rida from Pakistan♥️
Love! Power!Gut! Grace& Gratitude ❤️
Loved it 🦋🥺
Some women especially older generation just don’t know any better and I’m convinced they wouldn’t do any better . Even tho I do not carry hell lot of pressure around this topic I still feel soemtbing inside and ofc it happens with almost every Unmarried girl today !
Most expected video... Seriously Rida.. U have told whatever in my mind.. I feel too light after this video. They (Our family, Relatives and other people) don't even have answers for those questions but still They want us to do what they want. I'm like Seriously!!! Ridiculous 😬😬😬😬 Such a wonderful video. Pls continue the series.. Love from Chennai 💜💜💜💜💜
Yes ..eda hi krde aa 😊
That was a great👏 one... Thanks for always inspiring ❤ and putting out the right things for people out there to get to know.... What they actually want😊
Now, I really know why a woman should be financially Independent . It changed lots of things for me .
grt grt grt video rida diiii..... v want more n more videos lyk this. and also can the video please be of more length???
Being controlled in every way for being a female is what I endure everyday till i am legally getting out of here and never coming back.
And yes I'm getting the hell out of here the minute i can. And never return.
Exactly woman 💯 agree with u ❤️
Rida yar ,
I am facing the same problem and I am just 20 also if I keep my opinion to the discussions where my parents and elder family members are doing which is basically of my marriage, I am told to keep quiet because SANSKARI LADKI BADO KI BAATO KE AAGE KUCH NAHI BOLTI..AND I don't feel like there is anything wrong I am doing..
Please suggest how to get out of this family pressure..
Seriously dude.. U have to talk for urself bcoz nobody can do that. Just Talk and Talk until they hear bcoz I was also in that situation. So just Go for it. All the best...💜💜💜
@@priyasparkle5935 thanks for this
@@krity1117 Ur most welcome.. Stay Strong.. Let me tell u one thing, If u want to cry ur heart out, just cry. People think crying is weakness but it's not.. Just cry as much as u want. But Remember one thing, Speak urself. I know it's easier said than done. But U have to do it and U can do it.Make them understand. Bcoz I was in that situation few days b4. So Stay Strong.. MORE POWER TO YOU...💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
You are the great speaker. 👌
being a 23 yo in karnataka with 2 younger sister this hit right home! recently got a rishta and every relative was like he is the perfect guy! educated, decent etc etc. got pressurized too but I had to ignore coz he wasn't it for me 😞✊ and I'm proud of that heh.
Love it love it, so freaking relatable ♥️
Such an inspiration ❤
I'm toh pure Ridarians noww....💜✨
Really amazing
Hey di!! We love watching u we want u to make crazy videos like kind of challenge!!💕am already obsessed with this channel!! Will always be with u❤️
In my opinion a lot of circumstances support women today in terms of career , clothing etc but but when it is about marriage very few parents let you do it your way ! Like you feel this constant pressure where you keep explaining why it’s ok to marry late ! I don’t like this and I won’t do it again ! I don’t think anyone who takes care of their financial or emotional need you don’t owe anyone any explanation specially around this topic ! Society just inside designed in favour of women
Hey hello rida..I really really love the way u address issues , if u have time and if u feel this is important please do make a video on the topic which m Sharing with you ...
Hii I m roshni, not at all confident about the way I look , have been discriminated alot because of my skin color ..so I started taking care from 8 std itself ..I used to apply what not on my face so that I could get a fair skin , I even have had pills skin whitening pills ordered from Amazon , when I was in 12 std. so nothing worked ofcorse. ..then I started watching some good content ...and started feeling confident about the way I look..but somehow everyday something or other happens only where in people don't forget to mention about skin color and always praise fair skin ...and also ..I m medical student do the life is damn hectic here ..I m unabale to take care of my skin and my skin is getting worse that what it was ..it is tanned and with so many pimples ...I m not able to deal with it .. already life is hard in medical ...and not even health is being supportive ....and not my skin and hair ...I feel really bad about it and I just keep on crying ...I need a solution ..even though everyday I wake up and still believe that things will be okay but then some shit happens everyday it's hard to go through this ..please help
Dr ...beauty is on the inside and I'm sure inside you is beautiful ❤️
Hi Rida it's amazing video.. It's remember me what I am going through my concept is not get married stay independent happy... Thanks for all things.. You always make people motivated ...
Can you make video on how you do your finance planning how you do saving
Same even I wanna be single forever till my death
But my relatives & family is orthodoxed minded that they won't leave me single alone
I want to runaway from my home as far as I can
Hi di can you make a vedo on how to be ambitious inspite of the current situation?
Waiting for next episode ❤️
It's your life, live it your way... They who say they gave permission that statement itself is kinda toxic I think... We people are not being selfish to prioritise us.. it's like basic need.. that's what I think.
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Marriages and Relationships are the worst things for anybody at any age... Only 2 possible outcomes of any marriage or relationship.. 1st is One person always Dominates and other one will always have to sacrifice in the name "Love".... Or 2nd is Both will always keep arguing and fighting even for smallest of things completely destroying each other's Mental Health.... If Someone forces Me to get married i will tell them fine if you say so I'll get married but you have to write this on a Legally recognised stamp paper that... lf there are any arguments or fights in a marriage the people who pressured me to get married will help me get divorced as well... 🤘🏼
U are the best
I like your opinions.
Marriage is very important to all men and women who don't have family members and kids to spend time with them married up to you why girls and boys should get married not only for roomicter for support life partner and you need to understand your point and most importantly is your family members are working hard for you and worry for you for good life partner l am not saying that you should get married for people say and you your family members happiness that's wrong you should married for yourself not for Facebook not for people happiness and not for imagine
People do lots of for society that's wrong 😞 why we should get married and having our family members and friends teachers Faith and light l have lots of love and blessings and kindness and generosity and support each other and doing housework and cooking lovely food and watching family movies roomicter animal geography historical society action movies and mystery movies science animal geography historical society action movies and mystery movies science animal geography historical TLC show and reality show and reality show medical drama show
♥️♥️💎
Can u talk about family
Hair cut video
7:40 it is the ugly truth
Her age ??
Listen to me Indianbend is very important donest make feel you loney maks your being yourself and other countries actors and getting married and having their family members and kids to spend time with them and doing harder for education and experience for love and life and spending good time with each other and being kind to each other and being kind to each other and now is being model world nobody loves you like a unconditional like family members specifically mother and father and sister and teachers Faith and light community friends and communities and life partner who don't not judge you respect you all the time l love your videos and photos you are doing different places and shopping mall and playing games spending good time with your loved ones specifically your mother and father and sisters close friends but don't teach anyone bad way 😅
Rida I just wana say you I love you sooo soo much 😘😘😘
Since you’re a muslim like me i wanted to ask you what are your views on if a muslim women marries a hindu men?
So if incase somehow you fall in love with a man who is just the way you want him to be like exactly the way a man should be is respectful to you , brings you peace , supports your career dreams etc and you see a future together would you marry him despite him being from a different religion like Hindu?
Plz di help..me to slove mah prbm I 20 yr old mah mother only against me n froce to marry a man n she knows that he was abusive saddest..n he tortured me bits me..n i take n stand opposes her..whole family was against me..scolds me thy stop mah education..n im still struggling mah mother stop talking to me..frm 2 yr..nowdays I losing hopes of mah lfy nobody can understand me.
Don't lose hope... Just Pray.. Everything will b alright asap. I also pray for u..💜💜💜💜💜 MORE POWER TO YOU...
Don't let anybody to snatch ur happiness.. Stay Strong... Fight for urself bcoz only U r there for u..
Wt abuses you? And your mom want u to be with him ? Wt a narcissist mother get away from asap you not gonna get a single good there sweety ...find solution to get out of that home say goodbye to your mom
Please raise a complaint and don’t let this slide.. the more you endure the more they’ll do it… seek help from the women’s council in the city but don’t let this go .. more power to you.. I can only imagine
@@ridatharana I too thought this but I hesitated to tell this but Thank God U did this..💜💜💜💜
You are rich probably upper middle class aren't ya ?
Can't fool me 😂
U suppose to support somebody, who is really loves u, respect u but u ignore my daughter who met u in commercial street, she cry when u c u. But u don't have curtosy to consider her, it is not good mannerce
You don't understand about life you just want to be lonely and alone all time what's wrong with you all you need people in your life not all of them goodones and you should study well and being independent and don't blending anybody be yourself and family members and friends teachers Faith and light community and doing your own decision for job and marriage and friendship and love and rights or wrong
മലയാളം അറിയില്ലേ 🤘
No Virgin? No Ring.
No brain? No shame.
Wt?