The nice guy narcissist
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- čas přidán 18. 10. 2023
- generosity often comes with strings attached. If they do something for you, they might expect something in return, whether it's a favor, admiration, or loyalty.
7. **Lack of Genuine Empathy**: While they may seem understanding and caring, their empathy is often surface-level. They might struggle to genuinely connect with or understand the emotions of others, especially if it doesn't serve their narrative.
8. **Manipulative**: They can be skilled at manipulating situations and people to ensure they're always seen in a positive light. This might involve twisting words, gaslighting, or playing the martyr.
It's important to note that the behaviors and characteristics described can vary among individuals, and not everyone who occasionally displays some of these traits is a "nice guy narcissist." Clinical narcissism is a complex personality disorder, and labels like these should be used with caution. If someone suspects they're dealing with a narcissist in their personal life, it might be helpful to consult with a mental health professional for guidance and support.
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Biggest issue is people will keep them around for attention
Sounds like my husband. He doesn't gaf about me. Has made it obvious countless time's. My world finds his family abusive. They only know anything after several askme what the gell was going on after years of depression.
Sorry to hear this.
Thank you for this video as i am married to a man who is nice to everyone but me ... we have been married now for 30 yrs ... he doesnt care what i want or my opinion on topics and tells our adult children "that i dont know what i am talking about" ... 😢
Gosh I am so sorry to here this. Check out the full version of this video on my channel
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For you to be still married for 30 years he is definitely doing something right vice versa. If you didn't leave you are likely the "nice guy narcissist" she is referring to
That makes no sense@@lohi5540 both are still in the relationship still so both must be the narc 😂
@@lohi5540wrong. It's Easy to go that long in a marriage and be fooled or tricked into spending time in the marriage. People have 0 idea what a narcissist is, until very recently.
Trust me.... they are really really bad
I just can not make difference between nice narcissists and between nice pshichopats . If the nice person is calculating , threathens and gaslights you which traits he has?
Psychopathic narcissist
All psychopaths are narcissists, but all narcissists are not psychopathic.
Princess Diana
She was a borderline
@@kathyspaulding5326did you treat her? She had traits of many personality disorders.
A SHORT STORY (if you haven’t got a sense of humor it just isn’t funny.)
Little Timmy was sat in the classroom with little Suzie and the rest of children. The door to the class room opened and the teacher comes in, with a box of 6 eggs in her hands.
She puts them down on the front desk, having just collected them out of the hutch they kept at the school little Timmy attended.
While the eggs are sat on the table in the egg box, the teacher addresses the class.
“I have a lesson about morals for you today...”
“If I have 6 eggs here? How many chickens will I have?”
Little Timmy puts his hand up and says,
“Six miss.”
The teacher shakes her head and replies,
“No Timmy, this is a lesson about morals.
The moral of the story is:
That some of these may not hatch into chickens and the moral of the story is.... “don’t count your chickens before they’ve hatched.””
“Oh” said little Timmy.
The teacher then asks the whole class if they know any stories with morals they would like to share with the rest of the children.
Timmy puts his hand up...
The teacher says “Okay Timmy, go ahead, I’m listening.”
So Timmy begins...
“It was back in Vietnam, my Grandfather was out numbered by Vietcong 9:1 and the patrol was moving through the area he was hiding in.
He was ducked down in his fox hole desperately thinking....
All he had with him was:
A bottle of Jack Daniels
5 rounds of ammunition
A bayonet and his rifle.
The Vietcong ever approaching his position. Quickly thinking on his feet.
He downed the bottle of Jack Daniels, attached the bayonet to the end of his rifle.
Then loaded in the last 5 rounds he had left into the rifle, sat still and waited a minute or two for the Vietcong to get a little closer. And a little closer still...
Then he jumped out the fox hole!
Took his rifle, shot 5 of the Vietnamese and then using the butt of his rifle and the bayonet killed the other 4.”
“Wow that’s some story Timmy...”
Timmy’s teacher says... “that’s quite some story...”
“Do you mind if I ask what the moral of the story is though Timmy?”
“Of course...” replies Timmy.
“Don’t fuck around with my grandad when he’s pissed.”
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Hello!
Thank you!
It could be a woman, but I guess most of them are men. Thank you for this interesting video and thanks again for the full version of this video 🙂
Yes it definitely could be a female. I mention this in the longer version of the video. Thanks again for commenting.
Covert. There’s no strong evidence that points to coverts being male more often.
I don’t think stats on NPD are useful for people trying to get an idea of their number. You’re relying on a disorder where denial of the disorder is one of the main symptoms. I’ve met a lot of male survivors of abuse by a covert. Normally I wouldn’t find narcissistic personality traits to be attractive. Like most men- incredibly kind, giving, nurturing and loyal are all amazing traits to find in a beautiful woman, who adores you. Two years later my life was a nightmare. I was a shaking crying mess while my ex casually dumped me. She’d already cheated on me. Made fun of me and used the man as a comparison to embarrass me sexually with all while my father was dying. When I was diagnosed with cancer she called me a faker. For years I continued apologizing to her for not being a better boyfriend. I lost my sense of self and am still struggling. Covert woman are not rare. Social media is an almost perfect launching pad for a covert to find new supply. My ex is now happily married to an older wealthy man. I’m no longer in contact with her though she did manage to damage a number of friendships and family relationships after our breakup by telling people I’d cheated on her and had a bad temper. Basically almost everything she did or said to me is now something she tells people I did to her. She’d done the same with her ex before me. And before him. A couple of her exes have ended their life. Long term-being met with disbelief as well as watching a female psychiatrist enable my exes behavior at the end of our relationship has left me cynical of the profession as a whole. There are both great male and female professionals on here including the op.
Dr. Les Carter has a great deal of wisdom and experience.
Ironic message. Reminds me of therapists who put themselves in a position of power and authority under the guise of helping you and caring about you when really its just about the money and power.