5 Reasons Why Men Are ATTRACTED To Women Who Don't Try Hard!

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  • 5 Reasons Why Men Are ATTRACTED To Women Who Don't Try Hard!... In this dating advice video, I will share the reasons why men are attracted to women who don't try hard. Women who don't try hard often exude confidence, which is incredibly appealing to men. Take heed of this dating advice to understand why men are attracted to these women.
    I want you to understand men better to know how men think, what men like, and why men are attracted to women who don't try hard. Men appreciate women who don't try hard because women who don't are often authentic and genuine, a quality many men value. Embrace this video to learn how to attract men.
    Not every man is attracted to women who don’t try hard, but many men find women who don’t try hard to be very attractive. Women who don’t try hard are often low maintenance and don’t require much attention and effort, which can relieve many men. Pay attention to this relationship advice to know what men are attracted to.
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Komentáře • 543

  • @MeetStephanSpeaks
    @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +306

    ❤ Join my SPECIAL coaching program here 👉 www.receivingmyblessings.com - so many women are experiencing AMAZING results!

    • @OnlySupportThoseWhoSupportYOU
      @OnlySupportThoseWhoSupportYOU Před rokem +4

      @Stephan Speaks
      Sex, It doesn't create Love inside of a man. My birthday was yesterday and I stopped having sex as a gift of love to my mental health. No woman should sleep with a man that tells you he doesn't love you after being with him for almost a year 😮😐🫥 ......
      If he does not love my cookies but likes having cookies all of the time - I say 🚩! Flag - that's not right. Most women want to be loved and appreciated if they cook, clean and have sex with a man...❤️‍🔥 I'm so done waisting energy...I feel like I stopped living life to be treated like a servant with nothing offered in return and it made me think within - what am I waiting for? That's when I realized there was nothing there but sex and I had played myself. How mad can I be if a man does not reciprocate but enjoys what I offer? I can only stop having sex out of frustration 😂 He could have had more and better sex inside of love and friendship vibrations and frequencies..... the man dumb.....

    • @giftytuffour8090
      @giftytuffour8090 Před rokem +2

      I have all your books now I want to finish reading them all,and I will get your coaching course,next am taking it easy,thank you.

    • @dianaross1055
      @dianaross1055 Před rokem +3

      @@OnlySupportThoseWhoSupportYOU true that ✊🏼💜🌹👍🏼✊🏼 I so much can relate to that ✊🏼💜

    • @julietnalwoga5247
      @julietnalwoga5247 Před rokem

      Mm

    • @julietnalwoga5247
      @julietnalwoga5247 Před rokem

      @@OnlySupportThoseWhoSupportYOU mmm

  • @JennyGaston
    @JennyGaston Před rokem +445

    That part👉🏾" you don't have to chase what God sent". Trusting in the sovereignty of my God❤

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +8

      ❤ 🙏

    • @GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262
      @GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262 Před rokem +5

      Agreed and Amen✨

    • @meredithallen4006
      @meredithallen4006 Před rokem +1

      What if the man I’m interested in (and supremely attracted to) is only connected with me in a professional manner. He has not flirted with me or been unprofessional in any way. How can I tell if he is just being professional and respectful or if he is disinterested. The professional relationship is functionally over and I have no reason to ever see or contact him again. But I’ve never been so attracted to a person like this. I’m 43. This could be a crush. But I’ve been there done that. This is different. Maybe just a different crush? Will he ever pursue me?

    • @Carly4now
      @Carly4now Před rokem +1

      That part! 👀🤷🏽‍♀️🥰 FFF

    • @latoyarichardson2999
      @latoyarichardson2999 Před rokem +3

      You sure don't if it's sent from god that person will stick around

  • @dtinymaynartry
    @dtinymaynartry Před rokem +263

    I think the best gift a man can give to any woman or a woman to any man is to allow each other to be him or herself.I love when I can feel free with anyone in my life .Free to laugh ,free to express myself,free to say what hurts, etc.Its a good feeling to have and a good place to be I think

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +5

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

    • @berylsavanah9508
      @berylsavanah9508 Před rokem +4

      There's a guy I'm in the talking stage with and he said this exact thing. That he likes how he can be himself with me and that melted my heart. I hope we become more than just friends and pursue a romantic relationship in future.

    • @GlendineMPRSSGGlasgow-nq8nz
      @GlendineMPRSSGGlasgow-nq8nz Před 7 měsíci +1

      All the best hon. Hopefully you and him are fully committed by now

  • @leannegraceliberty
    @leannegraceliberty Před rokem +699

    Why do some men pursue, and then as soon as we show interest back, then they withdraw?? Seems like this withdraw-thing is a rather common phenomenon. 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @reginadavis1028
      @reginadavis1028 Před rokem +91

      The interest back might be coming off as too aggressive and may come off as desperate. Might be too willing to do too much too soon. Maybe? Or some guys just like the pursuit. THAT turns them on. Perhaps...

    • @Didi-fr5ic
      @Didi-fr5ic Před rokem +238

      He is not a man yet but a grown ass boy 😂

    • @leannegraceliberty
      @leannegraceliberty Před rokem +116

      ​@@reginadavis1028 yeah, I hear you... I think some guys just really love having a string of women interested in them

    • @Didi-fr5ic
      @Didi-fr5ic Před rokem +75

      ​@@reginadavis1028 a woman should show intrest , I think her intrest is great but it will be the right energy for rhe right man , you should always be yourself, i think is she has a strong sense of showing love in that way its great , just close you're legs

    • @leannegraceliberty
      @leannegraceliberty Před rokem +6

      ​@@Didi-fr5ic ❤❤❤ fully agree

  • @starbright2683
    @starbright2683 Před rokem +146

    Amen! "Don't lean on your own understanding." I am guilty of trying way too hard with the last man who I liked. Lord, please deliver me from low self-esteem, desperation, hopelessness, and anxiety, as I age without children! ❤ And thank you for sending Stephan to speak into our lives. 🌄

  • @edwa3dj
    @edwa3dj Před rokem +58

    When you KNOW your value and you present it in a feminine manner, men SEE your value and we treat you completely differently than all the other women.

  • @Thegazelle1000
    @Thegazelle1000 Před rokem +59

    Sometimes it's really difficult to understand the nature of some men:
    - When you make it easier to chase you, they say that you are too easy to get.
    - When you do the first move, they said that you are masculine.
    - when you told them that you're not interested in them, they'll not listen and keep chasing you.
    - when you told them that you're already in relationship with someone else, they'll keep chasing you.
    Uh!!! Sometimes they said that women don't knkw what they want, but men don't play either!! THEY ARE CONFUSED 🤔🤔

  • @alihall676
    @alihall676 Před rokem +70

    I spent many years being controlled by a man who only cared about what I provided to him financially. I learned a great deal from that experience. And I lost myself in the 20 years that I was always going the extra mile.
    I will never be in this situation again. I have a full life with my friends and family, volunteer work that I will never give up because it’s part of who I am. I have time to focus on someone special in my life and I do this with always having balance in my life. Ladies, communicate up front. If you are not being valued, walk away. Do it with grace and kindness, but walk away. Your time will be there when the timing is right!

    • @j.jgodismyprotection4296
      @j.jgodismyprotection4296 Před rokem

      Love this Part of Grace and Kindness always Control your emotions. And walk away gracefully.

  • @turner2952
    @turner2952 Před rokem +88

    Great vid!
    If a man is really interested, he will be the one to persue. If the woman is interested, she will respond to his actions in a positive way by thanking him for calling, telling him that she had a great time on the date, telling him how much she appreciated whatever he did for her. IMO, women should never be the one to initiate anything (calls, dates, etc.). The woman should be the "responder", not the "initiator". Call me "old school", but the way I was raised was that women don't chase men.
    Always great info, Stephan! Keep up the good work!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +2

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

    • @amerokeewiya1320
      @amerokeewiya1320 Před rokem +14

      Chasing & showing interest are 2 different things. Nothing wrong with initiating especially when he does it mostly & when you know unequivocally that he’s totally smitten with you. It’s ok dear…

    • @user-mb9jx5tx9y
      @user-mb9jx5tx9y Před rokem +2

      Nothing yu said was wrong. Sooooo right

  • @Thegazelle1000
    @Thegazelle1000 Před rokem +69

    You said it right Stephan: "if there's attraction, there will not be a lot of work to do." I always put attraction first before i date someone, if I'm not attracted by someone, I'll put him in the friend zone and leave him there lol.
    When me and my boyfriend met for the first time, we talked for 15 minutes, then he asked me my number and I give it to him without excitation because I was attracted to him and him the same.

  • @CJizzy819
    @CJizzy819 Před rokem +119

    “Let God Guide You.” Amen. God + Discernment will never fail you. Trust your spirit and that first gut instinct. It’s always the right one.💯

  • @beefaye6861
    @beefaye6861 Před rokem +92

    .....If a man is not interested....he will never approach u......If he want u....he coming for ya!😋

    • @denisedee00
      @denisedee00 Před rokem +3

      Amen ! So true!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

    • @IVvOOvVI
      @IVvOOvVI Před rokem +5

      This might be true, but I have an experience where the man come over to give me his number, and never asked for my number. And he was the only man who came over and I was the only woman he interacted with before he left. I never called him because he was supposed to make the plans. When he gave me his number I just had a bad feeling. I’m sure he was just playing a game to see if I’d fall prey. Needless to say, it backfired on him.

  • @sowo7136
    @sowo7136 Před rokem +109

    As a young lady trying to discover and understand the relationships in reference to the men in this world.Stephen you are like a second father or a great advisor,never have I ever been disappointed by your advice its saved and prevented me from unecessary issues.I'm sending God's blessings to you.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +15

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

    • @Braveh3artGirl
      @Braveh3artGirl Před rokem +7

      Highly recommend RC Blakes on youtube to help you also ❤

  • @pixiewinks6897
    @pixiewinks6897 Před rokem +69

    I have watched 1,000 videos of over 20 dating coaches over the last 2 years and no one has made more sense or given me better advice then you. Thank you ❤

    • @Tnc874
      @Tnc874 Před 6 měsíci

      You may need to get a life

  • @orarichman9948
    @orarichman9948 Před rokem +55

    Not only value yourself, do not lower your standards under no circumstances. If he is the right man, he will accept or meet your standards. Pulling away because he pulls away will not draw him to you, especially if he isn't interested in you or attracted to you. If you don't peak his interest in any type of way, you might as well forget it. Don't play hard to get, be authentic AND BE HARD TO GET!!! Why pretend to be hard to get? Pretending is not being honest and genuine.💯

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

    • @Pagalchhagal
      @Pagalchhagal Před rokem

      The same advice can be given to men. Do not lower standards. A woman who does not try is likely to not feel attraction towards you and is not deserving of your love

  • @denisedee00
    @denisedee00 Před rokem +67

    25:49 💯 This is so accurate ! I have refocus my attention on my ,Health & fitness. I excercise in my gym & spend alot of time outdoor everyday 🚶‍♀️ Walking or running. It's also a great way to meet people with your same Vibe.
    #leanandmean

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

    • @comic_life_86
      @comic_life_86 Před rokem +1

      Just a reminder man so often fall in ima work on myself, and then just go to gym and care about physical health, but guys most of the time that is not the problem

  • @angelicaguzman1484
    @angelicaguzman1484 Před rokem +17

    Unfortunately, many men just seek attention.
    Once they get it, they play hard to get, forget it.
    I know my worth, I thought he was worth my time, I shared my number and he back up, thank God!
    There’s no way, I will waste my time with someone that’s not mature enough to stop playing games.

  • @katied2196
    @katied2196 Před rokem +26

    Yaaasss!! I'm learning how to become a better woman from a real man's point of view.. we were not given handbooks on this! Men and Women are two different species, but similar in other ways, lol.. I just started talking to a new man, for about a minth, after taking time out for myself and not jumping to the 1st interest.. and your advice and knowledge has made me feel like a better woman and sit back and understand his behaviors more now than immediately reacting off emotions.. and I'm a Cancer Zodiac, lol I'm already emotional, sensitive, and can develop insecurities if I don't check myself.. so again, Thank you for all your education on what should be considered from a Man's perspective and my self value perspective Stephan! Your lady is a very lucky woman! 😘

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem

      Thank you for your feedback, I'm happy this has been helpful to you I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @CF-wp7xo
    @CF-wp7xo Před rokem +29

    It's not the case for every man. Once I started dating a guy.. he seemed very interested and sweet ... we were taking things slow (i was). One day, he told me that his ex-girlfriend bought him a Rolex for his birthday (a couple of months after he broke up with her)..
    So, he felt that he should try to go out with her...
    I gave him my blessings and said goodbye ( I wasn't going to buy him another Rolex 😂😂😂)

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +5

      I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏

    • @ladyowl9187
      @ladyowl9187 Před rokem

      Wtf 😂

    • @CF-wp7xo
      @CF-wp7xo Před rokem +4

      @Stephan Speaks I was not upset at all about it. I was just saying that some men are insecure and like women doormat style. Actually, most men do. But it is not for me

    • @leahgithaiga2941
      @leahgithaiga2941 Před rokem +1

      😂😂 I like your humor.

    • @tdatda410
      @tdatda410 Před 9 měsíci

      Girl he wanted a matching bracelet 😂😂

  • @themariamercedez1101
    @themariamercedez1101 Před rokem +30

    Why do we make life so complicated? Just be calm, it is what it is, let it go, let it flow... You can buy yourself Flowers and talk yourself for hours

  • @celestinebennett212
    @celestinebennett212 Před rokem +34

    Thank you, Stephan, your teachings are really educative. Some women don't try too hard because they have busy schedules at work, time is valuable here but when she gives you her time it is 100% . And that's not trying hard because you never know when you will have another date ..depending on your work schedule especially if you are self-employed, the more you grow the more you don't try hard your business takes 90% of your time

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤ 🙏

    • @1bbybl.u
      @1bbybl.u Před rokem +5

      That’s capitalism talking. No one dies and goes “dam I wish I spent more time working” it’s usually “I wish I got to spend more time with *insert deceased person*”. the way we live our lives in western culture is intended to interrupt our connection to the divine. Our souls and spirits are more important. Material gains are not everlasting, love is. clear ur schedule for love, make sacrifices in the name of love & tune deep into ur personal discernment 😊

    • @celestinebennett212
      @celestinebennett212 Před rokem +7

      @@1bbybl.u did you know that 80% of couples break up because of financial instability that leads to cheating .. Love is not enough to put food on the table for your family.. Everyone has a choice ...but choose wisely

  • @veritastold830
    @veritastold830 Před rokem +8

    Let him lead. Learn to follow. Only compete with yourself, to be more original, more authentic, with and/or without him.

  • @CyberSecurityFashionDesigner

    Stephan, I think the real issue is how we are made. Women are naturally lovers and love to show it! The issue is men do not yet they are always complaining that they want to be loved but always pushing away the women that do! It is just confusing and a game where everyone is confused and getting hurt! Women have to tone down their personalities to get a man. It took my years to become “neutral.”

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

    • @kdvwusm
      @kdvwusm Před rokem +2

      I know :( that’s why I have a roster 😅 I am naturally very giving and love pleasing a man I find attractive.

    • @CyberSecurityFashionDesigner
      @CyberSecurityFashionDesigner Před rokem +1

      @@kdvwusm amen to that one! Hard to find that

  • @radmilamilovanovic6450
    @radmilamilovanovic6450 Před rokem +22

    I'm in love with Stephan's words of wisdom and his closeness to God! Thank YOU 💖

  • @Mermaid03_03
    @Mermaid03_03 Před rokem +9

    This is true. I don’t try at all and post playful toxic things and men seem to flock to me. I just think they’re attracted. It’s nuts to me because you’d think I was a walking red flag lol.

  • @gi552
    @gi552 Před rokem +21

    Watching your videos lead me meet the man I prayed for who matches my effort and energy in terms of pouring each others need and desire to strengthen our relationship even if we are miles apart 😊

  • @teshathompson5695
    @teshathompson5695 Před rokem +23

    God chose you for this relationship coach business. Keep up the good work, Sir!

  • @krysiadavis7773
    @krysiadavis7773 Před rokem +3

    I don't know what happened to me. I definitely tried too hard, I use to do that with all my relationships in general.
    But then I learned to no try so hard... not I don't try at all!!! I'm not playing hard to get... I'm just not playing at all. Lol
    I don't like it but I can't seem to change it. I did completely quit dating.

  • @tweetyb421
    @tweetyb421 Před rokem +14

    Thank you so much for this word! It is beneficial for any woman to hear…LOTS of good information. I’m just stunned at the “harem” story…I’m stunned because these girls actually know about each other and STILL engage with this guy…no judgement, but women we have to treat OURSELVES better…we’re fabulous and deserve better….❤️

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

  • @elizabethcook9443
    @elizabethcook9443 Před rokem +9

    This is great advice!! I’m 46 and learning. Thank you!!

  • @preciousstone2782
    @preciousstone2782 Před rokem +6

    I ABSOLUTELY AGREE...WOMEN SHOULD SHOW SOME INTEREST ,& MAKE SOME EFFORT WITHOUT BEING A THIRSTY...

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @hmastin
    @hmastin Před rokem +11

    Thank you for reminding us about not over looking the component of God’s guidance and the importance of it’s role in our lives

  • @hateisforlosers6116
    @hateisforlosers6116 Před rokem +9

    This was awesome!!!!! Information. I have met guys who just want to have fun,i am like God No i dont have anytime for that. I learned to enjoy my singleness and my ever so precious relationship with the Father God.He's right about all 5 points, for the younger ladies listen to this gentleman ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @stefanimelcher
    @stefanimelcher Před rokem +21

    Oh boy, this is the hardest to do! It's hard not to try to make things happen and let God make it happen. Thanks Steph, you rcok!

  • @oliviadimock8202
    @oliviadimock8202 Před rokem +8

    Thanks Stephan for this video, I love hearing perspectives from a man rather than trying to figure it out on my own! God bless you brother! ❤💪

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem

      ❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS Před rokem +9

    Reciprocating is essential

  • @catcat9582
    @catcat9582 Před rokem +26

    I can't handle dating anymore. So many things to be and not to be in order for a man to value you

    • @TheSunshineplace10
      @TheSunshineplace10 Před rokem +5

      It's definitely draining.

    • @jibarabicha4853
      @jibarabicha4853 Před rokem +2

      I think once a true attraction and connection happens, things flow organically and most of this advice goes out the window.

    • @anousalis4089
      @anousalis4089 Před 8 měsíci

      Very exhausting

    • @catcat9582
      @catcat9582 Před 8 měsíci

      @anousalis4089 In some ways the exhaustion is freeing. I don't understand red pill men who say women have such high standards when I see so many women w men who like and act like a big toe

  • @shani-gurlt8397
    @shani-gurlt8397 Před rokem +7

    Wow! This was very enlightening! Such an eye-opener! Thank you. Stephan

  • @sonyaellis2059
    @sonyaellis2059 Před rokem +9

    Here we go again with some more golden nuggets! 😂Love how you are free to express raw truth, including God. 🤗🙏❤️🌞🌈

  • @AudaciousErin82Baby
    @AudaciousErin82Baby Před rokem +7

    Stephan, I just wanted you to know that you're truly a blessing to us-me especially. Thank You so much my Brotha (huge hug) May God continue to bless you in all of your endeavors now and in the future 🙏🏾

  • @dtinymaynartry
    @dtinymaynartry Před rokem +10

    I LOVE your content very much.If we are not better people in relationships after hearing all this wisdom then......

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

  • @275MsParis
    @275MsParis Před rokem +6

    I’m learning so much from your channel because I had no clue he was a narcissist until I came across your channel. Thank You

  • @B_ready4671
    @B_ready4671 Před rokem +4

    I am awful at flirtng..I fumble all ovr myself..I get very Lavern & Shirley-ish 😆

  • @judithsakala4944
    @judithsakala4944 Před rokem +9

    How do you determine who is got serious intentions as opposed to one ☝🏾 who just want to play around ? So confusing. 😩
    Am just loving 🥰 me for the time being. 😃🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @letgowithlisa
    @letgowithlisa Před rokem +4

    Also, it has been my experience that some men will allow you to over compensate as a means of manipulation thereby getting more out of you and never having the intentions to do more than he was already doing which was nothing!❤

    • @letgowithlisa
      @letgowithlisa Před rokem

      The best thing I have ever done for myself was to heal! I feel so free and so grateful 💕 💕💕

  • @Mrs.Neves3523
    @Mrs.Neves3523 Před rokem +3

    This is exactly what my husband tells me. He’s never gone for anyone who’s come for him first.

  • @latoyarichardson2999
    @latoyarichardson2999 Před rokem +5

    You right if you do less it attracts them

  • @thisismystone9658
    @thisismystone9658 Před rokem +2

    We even give out our number to guys just to honour his courage to ask sometimes well knowing he totally has no chance.

  • @Didi-fr5ic
    @Didi-fr5ic Před rokem +6

    I just started seeing someone again now i have completely changed because it took almost 2 years of intense work, it is great so far but i have noticed his texting style has changed my previous self wouldve freaked out but i leave it because now I truly believe in a mans actions overtime is important to me , not his texting style , not his words but his character overtime, i do not double text my message is there he will respond if not then I will be good too, just note i was showing intrest and effort in my messages , i gave him the green light.

  • @meagain9649
    @meagain9649 Před 3 měsíci

    This video of yours (especially this one though others too) HELPED ME SOO MUCH to not only respect myself but also value myself and prevent heartache thanks

  • @vonettaadams8839
    @vonettaadams8839 Před rokem +4

    Congratulations on your 1.3M subscribers. Keep reaching for the stars 🤩

  • @RhondaR4
    @RhondaR4 Před rokem +12

    Thank you, Stephan for making this video! I'm learning a lot.❤️

  • @laxdidi6300
    @laxdidi6300 Před rokem +8

    I love everything you share & the way you explain. It all just makes perfect sense! You are the best! Thank you! 🌺

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac88 Před rokem +5

    Hey Stephan, your relationship videos have been beneficial for my interpersonal relationships & marriage. 👍

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +2

      I'm happy the videos have been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

    • @MsLilac88
      @MsLilac88 Před rokem +1

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks I hope that more people can gain clarity about the complexities of men’s mind. 😊

  • @tishaadams2366
    @tishaadams2366 Před rokem +5

    Thank you so much for this. Whole video. The part of having a life outside of a man. I actually talked to God about this. It's on point for me. Thank you 💯💯

  • @SusieMarie-57
    @SusieMarie-57 Před rokem +3

    Thank You Stephan! Yes, Yes and yes to the first 10 seconds!!!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

    • @SusieMarie-57
      @SusieMarie-57 Před rokem

      Okay Stephan, so I just found out about You the other week & You Do Know Your Stuff -I’m so impressed! I hope You considering going live sometime soon / because I want to talked back to you from the female perspective! Plus to ask you to elaborate some more on some points! Actually I find myself talking to you - only like men you ignore me and keep going.. ha, ha Your teaching is refreshing & a God sent; love hearing you speak & absolutely love that fact that you are a God-fearing Christian man & come from His truth! I don’t want to listen nor learn from the world; they come from all kinds of wayward, perverted & Lustful perspective! I’m interested in Love! And a fun, healthy, enjoyable, solid relationship with a masculine real man, not a wimp or sissy nor an arrogant power hungry greedy ego manic or chauvinistic pig! And I certainly don’t desire a man that’s prettier than me or one that takes more time primping in the mirror or one that’s covered in jewelry, no earrings, no oh, oh - okay so you have them but I prefer clean skin & No Tattoos or long hair… ha, ha - you’re good though Stephan anyhow you belong to someone else - which is a good thing! Ha, ha And that’s a good thing that beauty is in the eye of the beholder & we each like & are attracted to different features physically & for sure the heart ❤️ & mind of a good solid man -the whole package - Spirit, Mind & Body

  • @heatherceravolo161
    @heatherceravolo161 Před rokem +8

    Stephan please help explain why a man wants validation and says he wants to be exclusive but when I start giving him that, he pulls back! Then I pull back to give him space and then he thinks I am messing with someone else. Its a lose lose situation. What is your opinion on this?

  • @frankyhubiz6861
    @frankyhubiz6861 Před rokem +5

    Stephan thank you so much for taking your time to explain all this to us I really appreciate the way you calmly explained the difference between playing hard to get and not trying hard I really understand the difference and I learn something from this your video may God keep on giving you the strength and wisdom to keep on putting us through and may God bless you and your job 🙏 thanks

  • @JessE-mr4yu
    @JessE-mr4yu Před rokem +4

    Hi Stephan, I love your channel very helpful. I very much appreciate you. Peace and Blessings to you and all the beautiful souls out there. 🙏💙🩵🕊🕊

  • @shoppernista
    @shoppernista Před rokem +4

    Bottom line - Let God guide you - Pray- Absolutely

  • @kourtney101
    @kourtney101 Před rokem +4

    Nice, this segment was real talk. Perhaps we need to know the answer to basic questions, like, do I know what I deserve? 🤔 🙏🏿

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

  • @imvivi3953
    @imvivi3953 Před rokem +2

    For me i do know my value but sometimes if i genuinely like someone i will do anything for them i understand that man might think that i do not value myself but doesn’t not mean I don’t know my value I’m jus showing u that hey look, i want u . I think these types of men are jus the wrong ones and do not know what they want

  • @Judybell1959
    @Judybell1959 Před rokem +26

    I'm not asking a man for his number

    • @beefaye6861
      @beefaye6861 Před rokem +2

      Me either..... ✌

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +2

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

    • @amerokeewiya1320
      @amerokeewiya1320 Před rokem +1

      Lol I hear that!

    • @s.c.h6512
      @s.c.h6512 Před rokem

      Lol never have in my 28 years. I'm single though lol. These new generation of men ugh

  • @Welcome2terieville
    @Welcome2terieville Před rokem +7

    Can you do a video on issues that arise when a woman grows closer to God but further away from her husband ? Right now I’m feeling like as I get deeper into my spiritually, my husband continues to stay the same & it’s just not working anymore. What can I do to fix this?

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +2

      Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

    • @brittney5771
      @brittney5771 Před rokem

      Pray...Nobody can change your situation but God. That is exactly why we are to wait for our God ordained spouse and not up and marry someone God never told us to marry. Equally yolked. God knows exactly what he is talking about. We need to simply be obedient and stop finding ourselves in these headache situations. God bless you. Pray about it and that your husband changes.

    • @queenkristine9590
      @queenkristine9590 Před rokem

      @@brittney5771 did you just shame her for marrying before they were both strong in their faith?? and are you suggesting that marriage is only for those who are well seasoned & established in their faith? because that’s what it sounds like you’re saying.

    • @brittney5771
      @brittney5771 Před rokem

      @@queenkristine9590 Nope not at all what I was saying but I am not surprised you are offended. The bible did say in the last days many will take offense. Stop being soft and taking sensible words for an attack. I don't see any lie in what I said but I am always happy for any correction. Further, if the lady I was addressing is not offended then you have no right to be. God bless

    • @HD-Australia
      @HD-Australia Před rokem

      Keep loving your husband. Keep spending time with him. Keep showing him you love him through your actions. People can become too pious and neglect their children, spouses etc. Remember St. Paul wrote that an unbelieving man or woman is saved by their spouse's faith, and that you should not abandon or divorce your unbelieving spouse, however if your unbelieving spouse wants to divorce you, let them go

  • @GoldenAngel-
    @GoldenAngel- Před rokem +5

    Please make more content about getting married, I have single coworkers families that are eager to get married 😊

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +2

      Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

    • @GoldenAngel-
      @GoldenAngel- Před rokem +3

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks Thanks very much , you and your videos are very much Inspiring and Appreciated!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +1

      I'm happy the videos have been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @ReneelovesGod
    @ReneelovesGod Před rokem +13

    Can you do a video on dating for older Christian adults? Yes I have a current friendship with a man and I’m not trying hard at all.
    He’s definitely attractive to me, it seems.. I want to wait before being intimate. He seems to want to be intimate
    Ans he says he’s a Christian but he’s unsure how to “court me”. And suggestions or helpful feedback?
    Thank you😊

    • @barbaraalden6013
      @barbaraalden6013 Před rokem +1

      I'm in same boat...he's getting frustrated..

    • @bevill72able
      @bevill72able Před rokem +8

      Wait. Don't do it. Practice God's commands.

    • @reneaconnor6610
      @reneaconnor6610 Před rokem +12

      If he is TRULY a man of God, then he should be on the same page as you and abstaining until marriage should be just as important to him. If he is getting frustrated and making you feel like you need to go against your boundaries and give in, he's a wolf in sheep's clothing, plain and simple. You will know them by their fruits. Pray about it and be ready to walk away if necessary. There are a lot of spiritual narcissists out here so got to be careful.

    • @barbaraalden6013
      @barbaraalden6013 Před rokem +2

      @@reneaconnor6610 Thank you...wonderful advice..many blessings..

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +6

      Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

  • @thespiritualpilgrim
    @thespiritualpilgrim Před rokem +1

    I have the opposite problem I'm painfully shy and if I spy someone I'm attracted to and I know it's mutual and they like me, I can no longer even look in that person's direction but..
    İf the man is confident enough to just come on over and chat it puts me out of my misery, because when the guy is expecting more drawn out glances and eye flirting I get so awkward and cannot deal with it, and I'm now ages 43. Only twice in my life have I been brave enough to be the 1 to start initiating, and if it's someone I'm not attracted to I've no issues, it's only when I'm genuinely attracted to them. Otherwise I love a playful harmless flirt with others even when not attracted just because it boosts their moral and makes them feel good lol I'm a Gemini it's what we do.
    🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Applauseify
      @Applauseify Před rokem

      I ain't no Gemini but I do this. The recent guy I found interesting after long , I have not gathered to have conversation with him

  • @sherryporter4740
    @sherryporter4740 Před rokem +4

    This was phenomenal, I truly enjoyed it!!!♥️

  • @lindazeisky3845
    @lindazeisky3845 Před rokem +1

    Thank you, lately, I've been somehow coming across some interesting videos of yours that have made me think of things related to some doubts I've had... Some of it has given clarity.

  • @eb3644
    @eb3644 Před rokem +4

    God has gifted you with such wisdom and the best words to convey the information I need. Thank You so so much.

  • @Christimony222
    @Christimony222 Před rokem +5

    I really needed this today. Thank you. So timely.

  • @Marie-vz2qp
    @Marie-vz2qp Před rokem +3

    May God guide us in the right path 🙏💕

  • @fifi5535
    @fifi5535 Před rokem +3

    This was perfect timing. God bless you.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +1

      ❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well!

  • @jennifermbogoKE
    @jennifermbogoKE Před 9 měsíci

    17:22 not the "Thursday Girl"!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 not to be insensitive, but damn! "she was one of the days" 😭😭😭😭

  • @verasmith1900
    @verasmith1900 Před rokem +3

    Amazing video! You have help me smooth out some kinks in my energy I am putting out! Bless you!!💯💯💯😊😊💕💕

  • @bettyvelasquez266
    @bettyvelasquez266 Před rokem +7

    I love your channel because you always include GOD thank you ❤

  • @authorlarhondanfelton9152

    Thank you Stephan! This video answered a couple of questions I was pondering over. 💜

  • @Touchedmymouthministriesint

    I heard a sermon preached once, "If God should go on strike"😊(Mat5:45); Love can never be too much, as a matter of truth, it is owed and, therefore, gots to be constantly paid up:
    Rom 13:8
    Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law.
    Another important thing to know about woman is that she multiplies whatever a man gives to her - give her a house, she gives you a home, give her a seed, she gives you generations, a word and she can give you a book 😊 - like this video here got me preaching! Woman can make sense outta nonsense!; Love bomb a woman and you in trouble! - you might have to run outta town!
    So, men are the reason for their own distress - if you can't put up, then shut up! Women are multipliers! 😅
    Go figure!
    Hold on! Mi nuh finish yet, have (too much) more fi give; Men go around sweet talking woman and firing seed in a 'dem, and a whole lot of children being born, left neglected and abandoned all over the world - men are the reason for the state of the world; The more you try to give woman trouble for what Eve did, the more hell you get, yet Jesus dropped the charges, but no, I guess He gave too much when He died on the cross - tell 'Im dat nuh!
    Yeah, men, better watch how you come, for then you'll be crying like a little boy, 'too much, too much😢'; Woman is like a sports car, a lot a power revving in her to give; If you don't grow up, don't come behind the wheel, stay in your house and play with toy cars, don't even give a woman a look, for you asking for trouble and, if you give her trouble, you gwe (gonna) get hell!
    Oh my, was that too much?😅; You gave the video

  • @36Bella36
    @36Bella36 Před rokem +1

    Im not sure that I see it as HIS "responsibility" but rather just ENJOYING his presence to begin with

  • @sarastarski
    @sarastarski Před rokem +3

    If you see a man that has other women on rotation you run as far as you can and you don’t look back!

  • @NatashaGrant-ph9od
    @NatashaGrant-ph9od Před rokem +2

    Good stuff Stephan! This was much needed. Thank you and Godbless you 🙏🏾

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +1

      Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌 And may God bless you as well 🙏

  • @Olabim
    @Olabim Před rokem +2

    Hi.. your videos are amazing! What do you think about different religions getting married? I mean, for example, a Christian and a Muslim?

  • @sharonspence424
    @sharonspence424 Před rokem +4

    EXCELLENT TOPIC AND ADVICE❤

  • @sharonsithole1888
    @sharonsithole1888 Před rokem +2

    Thank you so much🙏🏾 i was really need this

  • @graciousmurindi2712
    @graciousmurindi2712 Před rokem +1

    Awesome delivery Stephan

  • @laraclar3195
    @laraclar3195 Před rokem +5

    Some men are so damaged that they let woman talk to them and treat them any kind of way cause they have been so beat down in past relationships..so that is why we see that a men is with a woman that dont try hard cause they dont think they deserve someone to put forth that effort for him

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

  • @MmM20978
    @MmM20978 Před rokem +3

    Hey Stephan. I appreciate your videos since I recently have been watching them more.
    I looked back to your videos to see if you have any advice on a Mama’s boy and men who want their Mother’s approval and her competition with you as his wife!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem +1

      Thanks for the visit. I’ll add these suggestions to my list of requested videos! In the meantime, you might like this video 👉 czcams.com/video/MmIzJyAu4jQ/video.html

    • @MmM20978
      @MmM20978 Před rokem

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks Ty!

  • @aunyawilliams9705
    @aunyawilliams9705 Před rokem +2

    Thank you that was so true and it's all said there about gave men too much time at that but God yes Good God is it thanks 🙏

  • @keylathomas1555
    @keylathomas1555 Před 9 měsíci

    I love how despite discussing serious -real issues, you always find a way to make us laugh 😂... Thank you!💕God bless you brother!

  • @loridibernardo4926
    @loridibernardo4926 Před rokem +3

    Beautifully stated!!❤

  • @shantavalentine9537
    @shantavalentine9537 Před rokem

    Thank you for the video I put pressure on people unfortunately because my family all are married and look at me like something wrong with me. But these guys are nothing now it’s so hard

  • @Momentum123go
    @Momentum123go Před rokem +5

    Why play games life is hard enough to understand

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @carlatarantino5383
    @carlatarantino5383 Před rokem +3

    You are so great at explaining 🎉 thank you!

  • @easyblink123
    @easyblink123 Před rokem +4

    Hey Stephen,
    Really appreciate your content it is honestly so uplifting & sound! I wanted to ask if you could do a video in the next few months on embracing love & not running away? I know your answer is to heal - since this is a journey would love a video on what we can do in the meantime to be/remain open to love meeting us as grow & work on our "hurt list" inner hurts.

  • @constanzaserra6406
    @constanzaserra6406 Před rokem +1

    Is it possible that this advices also aplies for job relationships? I feel I can also apply this information for a job search 😂

  • @55mjlangdon
    @55mjlangdon Před rokem +3

    Great information. Thank you 🙏 💜😀

  • @ericajones2537
    @ericajones2537 Před rokem +3

    PLAYING hard to get = GAME playing = bullshit!!!!! I never have and never will. I choose to be an open book for someone to read who's on same page as me! (Translation: equally balanced, attracted, vibing positively.)

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  Před rokem

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

    • @ericajones2537
      @ericajones2537 Před rokem

      Got my book today-----and I have made it through 100pages so far! I love that you addressed relatives (mother) with " ' why aren't you married,etc. syndrome.....)

  • @user-mv3dz1io3s
    @user-mv3dz1io3s Před rokem +1

    What a great video.... this helps so much. 😊

  • @abigalestoll
    @abigalestoll Před rokem +4

    I agree with you ❤️, thanks for sharing.

  • @jazzyK558
    @jazzyK558 Před rokem +1

    Im so broken, i spent the last 3 weeks begging him to come back and im struggling to get my grounding and stop

    • @gletsayaaasantewaa2793
      @gletsayaaasantewaa2793 Před rokem +1

      Love on yourself, the same way you would on him, Honey! ❤Take yourself out, pamper yourself, buy yourself flowers, etc!🌸🌼🌷 You deserve it!

    • @jazzyK558
      @jazzyK558 Před rokem

      @@gletsayaaasantewaa2793 thank you I'm trying I'm now working with a therapist