you laugh yourself silly when Ray Romano has a nervous breakdown and loses his shit!?! so you laugh at his pain?!? but then ray does have such an indescribable charm...
@@irisschell5557 I'm sorry u r right. I was just trying to say it is so f@cked up Ray had that breakdown but then the breakdown was so hilarious because Ray , even in his most anguished moments, is just too funny...I AM trying to "lighten up" like u say, I've been on a low fat diet recently like when Marie made Frank eat that low fat bean curd in place of Thanksgiving turkey and i think I am honesty one pound lighter!!
I liked this episode because you can relate to every characters opinion on the subject. You can understand why Marie is upset because it's supposed to be a Barone family picture and Debra's parents are in it. You can understand why Debra wants her parents in the picture because they are part of the family. Robert being upset about Amy being in the picture is understandable but since she isn't married to him that reason is understandable as well. Frank has no opinion in this and Poor Ray has to tolerate everybody and finally blows up at everybody which he should because he's always the one forced to be the peacemaker. Overall great episode and relatable to everybody.
Plus, Debra wasn't going to get to see her parents during the holidays. I love how relatable each character's woe is and Ray trying to keep the peace and eventually snapping at the pashmina is absolutely hysterical!
Chef Juan dela Cruz, yes she was a great actress and amazing lady. I was so sad when she died. She was just wonderful in sitcoms and I will miss her. Too bad people don't live longer. I wish she would have anyway. Loved her. She ALWAYS made me laugh so much.
They were only wonderful moments because it was make believe! Nobody living through that in real life would think it was anything but hell! Certainly not funny! ELR was, though! Kudos, Mr. Romano!
honestly if marie was my mom in this,i would tell her "if you dont get in the picture...then you're not in the picture and you explain to your grandkids how much of a child you were just about a picture. and no gifts ever again"
@@Stan0070 you sound as pathetic as Ray. At least he finally grew a pair at the end of the episode. If you don't confront someone who is being unreasonable, then your only other option is to cut them out of your life. I'd never let my mom manipulate my wife like Marie does and get away with it like Ray does.
In this instance, Marie was right. Debra was being a child and ruined Marie's gift. Why in the hell would Marie want a family photo with Debra's parents in it! Debra ruined her gift because she did not get her way in requesting to change their Christmas tradition. Even then she wasn't being sincere because if she was, why didn't she suggest to split Christmas Eve and Christmas day celebrations on the year that Christmas is at her parents house? Her parents are supposed more reasonable and would probably be more agreeable to the arrangement. If I was Marie, I would have said screw them and sat out on the photo.
I’m glad Debra did this Marie deserves it for all the crap she had put her through. And Raymond deserves it too he never stands up to his mom so it’s a great way for Debra to get back at him too.
It’s possible she did this intentionally. Putting Ray in an awkward situation with his mother and her parents she probably enjoyed watching him squirm.
@@matthewriley7826 yeah, definitely but his family is always putting her in horrible positions and he doesn’t stand up to them. So it was nice to see her get a little revenge and he now knows how feels
Ray warned Debra long ago about the challenges of living across the street from his parents. Debra even understood how overbearing Marie could be during her pregnancy with Ally, but since she's so stubborn, she had to learn the hard way. Therefore, she should have sucked it up and allowed Ray to give Marie her ideal family portrait. Additionally, it's not the first time Debra tried to overstep Marie during the holidays. There was that Thanksgiving in which Debra cheated Marie out of her year when she could have easily waited for the following year. She knows that Marie doesn't take these matters lightly, and it is inconsiderate of her to place Ray in these difficult situations.
@@puapucuve6643 I agree with you on the first part, Debra is stubborn but they give Marie way too much power, why does she get to make all the decisions? And who wants to be married to a guy that can’t stand up to his mother when needed.
@user-hq7rd5hj7j While it may seem odd, in a lot of ways, it makes sense. We need to remember that this is an Italian family. Moms are just as essential as fathers, if not more. Even though Marie was annoying, childish, and very overbearing, Ray, Robert and Frank would be LOST without her. She's the one who kept everyone fed, managed the bills and stroked their egos (specifically Ray's).
GET BACK IN YOUR PLAAAAACE! ! We're taking this damn picture! Don't you see what I'm dealing with here are you blind?! Baaahhhh no habla talkie talkie! I've had it with trying to make everybody happy! I was trying to do something nice! I'm sick of everybody coming up to me oh talk to Debra! Talk to your mother! Why can't my girlfriend be in the picture! I don't wanna spend Christmas with them, fix it Raymond talk! I'm done talking! Don't talk to me anymore you hear me? You wanna talk? Talk to yourselves, 'cause I'M OUUUUUT 😂
I used to watch it every morning. TBS, after about 10 years, me being able, to see it in the morning, took it off their schedule. Really pi**es me off. I looked forward to watching it, every morning. Damn!! I don't know why they did this. And they won't answer me back, as to why it was done. I don't have a DVD player. And I don't know anything, about streaming.
As much as I love the character, I never took a close look at how selfish she is, but that's what makes it so funny. Rest in Peace Doris Roberts.. truly an amazing talent.
The thing with Marie doing her passive-aggressive thing.. 'oh I'm not feeling well, just take the picture without me. ' [I'll be over in the corner sulking about : fill-in-the blank]. My own mother was just like that, and how many other peoples' mothers. Mine especially really cranked up her act around Christmas, which made for some not-so-fond Christmas memories. .
Too sad.. I mean pictures were meant to be kept for good memories.. if this is what it would be like then better wipe taking a family photograph outta list. I'm done takung them.. I capture surprise photos instead. 👌🏻👌🏻 The good memories are All mine. What's the good in keeping fake photos anyways?
Well, she does wear Jean Naté, Al Capone's favorite body splash. 😅 They say the one thing he insisted upon having delivered there after the feds arrested him was his regular supply of JEAN NATÉ body splash. 😄👌🏻
Lock down may be over here in Adelaide, south Australia but I can tell you these shows NEVER get old 😉👌 😂 thoroughly love the show's over and over..... awesome 👍
Because marie didn't want them there at all..she threw a fit when Debra asked her if she can go visit her parents for Christmas..& of course Ray sided w/his mom
I always dreaded Christmas. My sister and I always fought. She is such a controlling b***h. I don't know how she has stayed married, as long as she has. 30 some years. I really think, she acts this way, just with me. Anyway, I haven't seen her in months. I don't care to. I know, some might say this is not right. But, if you would see how/what goes on, between us. You would understand.
He was a good writer as well as a good actor. I still say Robert was awesome. Debra ( my deceased sisters name ) and when our little brother died, I watched every episode I could find. Now all my family is in Heaven but this show keeps me grounded.
I Love this scene. My sister sent me a pashmina today!!!! I told her about this scene, & she replied that Debra's mother was never on this show! So I googled this scene & sent it to her!!!! I said, I never even heard this word: pashmina until I saw this. I can't believe I got a pashmina today!!! And mine is a Christmas gift!!! 💖💚💖💚💖💚💖💚💖 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It was basically Robert, Ray, debra. the photographer and frank were the only ones participating in this, and the kids as well. Everyone else annoyed the hell out of me
@@not.supermario I have to disagree Robert was being an ass by purposely not changing his shirt and complaining about how Amy isn't in the picture when Amy wasn't married into the family yet and rolled his eyes at Debra & Lois talking. Debra blindsided Ray by not telling him that her parents were coming all because Ray didn't back her idea earlier in the episode which in turn caused Marie to act like an ass.
This episode is so bad, it’s good. It reflects how grey the characters are in what makes ELR a good comedy. Marie is a toxic human being, but she is a loving mother, despite her distaste for Debra, there were times she helped her (she was the first person to tell her about the big fork and spoon in showing Debra moving the suitcase would make her the bigger person). Debra is always made out to be a victim of her in-laws, but then again, when does she ever admit when she’s wrong? When does she ever stand up to Marie and Frank herself instead of trying to make Ray do her dirty work? When does she ever not compare how perfect her family is to Rays? She invited her parents behind Rays back to be on the photo and then smugly tells him to talk to Marie about it instead of doing it herself. She’s not doing it to make him suffer, it’s because she’s a bully; she pushes Ray around because he’s spineless, but is afraid of Marie and Frank because she has no power over them. And then there’s Robert too. He always has to make a big deal about how unfair his life is compared to Ray and take every opportunity to mock him even when he knows it’s not appropriate. This one of the few episodes where Ray is a victim because he only wants to give his mother a nice gift, but everyone has to have it their way and take zero responsibility for their actions. Again, shows how these characters are not all black and white and that’s what makes them so good.
At 3:20, when you see the photo of everyone but Robert smiling, you then hear but don't see Robert punch Raymond and you hear him say,"Ooh!(falls on the floor) It was worth it."
Marie's upset because Debra's parents are going to be in the picture. Marie would be thrilled if the picture was taken without Debra and Frank in it picture but she was willing to tolerate having them in the picture but not Warren and Lois.
😅 Normally I think Robert is like me but in this scene ray totally reminds me of my hissy fit a few weeks ago. Theres always a lot of family politics in my house (my mam is a LOT like Marie) And I finally burst out shouting and swearing (I never swear) I even said similar things as ray. 🤦♀️🤣
If I was that photographer, I'd shout and ball until my head exploded if I had to portrait a family acting like that, I'm saying this because I want to run my own photography studio one day.
Then don't waste your time, darling. 😄 You'll end up closing it down for bankruptcy.. Social communication is an art. You've got to be a patient diplomatic.
@@Adamdow95 Reading my comment now kinda made me feel a bit ashamed for the way I spoke to you. I apologize for that. I get funny when I watch comedies. Please, don't call me names. 😄 But yeah, working with adults is hard and probably even harder with kids. Best of luck. 📸👨👩👦
@@hana.the.writer5074 No pun intended you were just telling me not to lose my cool in front of the Manson Family posing for a portrait lol. Thanks for wishing me luck.
I honestly don't get it. Weren't they gonna be with Debra's parents next Christmas??? Plus this was a present for Marie. If it's HER present, you give her what SHE wants. It was a Barone family picture. If Debra wanted a picture with her parents, they could have taken a Whelan family picture next Christmas. Marie may be a bit selfish, but this was still her present, and what she got wasn't what she wanted.
After the picture was, he should put Debra, Marie, Warren, and Lois in the same van and leave them to dish it out. Debra (talk your mother) vs. Marie (talk to Deborah; not Christmas my way) & Warren & Lois (innocent bystanders) vs. Marie (don’t want them over for Christmas) Raymond: “I’m sure you four have a lot to talk about!” (My emphasis)
Because Marie's a manipulating and vindictive woman who believes she should get the upper hand in getting what she wants and controlling the lives of her family selfishly and contemptuously. She's a pro at inflicting guilt and undermining her kids, making them feel small and helpless whenever she chastizes them to give in to her expectations like weak knee wimps.
It always bothered me from Debra’s perspective. I mean she wanted to see her parents during Christmas Eve/ Day when they would have spent the Christmas period with Ray’s parents for the majority of their relationship given that they lived in closer proximity. And then not only does Marie deny Debra the chance to see her parents on either of the Christmas days but Ray backs Marie up. And then what would happen on the 26th or 27th December or some day before New Years if Debra wanted to still see her parents (albeit a little late)? I wouldn’t put it past Marie and Ray to try and come up with an excuse for why Debra could not see her parents during any of those days as well. I think deep down, Debra knew this could happen so she acted out by inviting her parents to the Christmas family picture.
If Robert and Amy were married at this time, she wouldn't want Amy's parents and brother in the picture. I bet Amy's parents would also want to have a family portrait for themselves but would allow Frank and Marie in it, despite the way they feel about them. Robert would ask, "My parents can also be in the picture?" and Hank would say,"Of course. They are part of the family. What kind of horrible people would exclude their child's in-laws from the picture?" Frank and Marie would look ashamed.
Relatively accurate, accept for two things: 1)Frank and Marie wouldn't look ashamed, as they almost never get ashamed; 2) Hank's remarks would have been a bit more snarky, something to Pat like "Well, Mother, I suppose its only right we include them. We are family after all, both in Robert and Amy's marriage and in God's sight. Even if they are Catholic."
I do agree. I mean Warren and Lois would let Frank and Marie be in it if the picture was for them. Robert is upset because Amy can't be in the picture. Well, Marie said when Robert makes Amy part of the family, she can be in the picture. Makes sense to me. Marie doesn't like Debra's parents. She doesn't give them much reason to like her or Frank. I bet Marie really wished she could've had the picture without Debra and Frank in it, also. She was going to tolerate them but not Warren and Lois.
@MegaNefesh well that person you hate so much is one of the head writers and co founders of this show, and he is one of the most brilliant writers in hollywood.
Most American comedies elevate motherhood to sainthood. What ELR did was bring it back down to earth. Mothers can be selfish, mean, petty, and inconsiderate towards others.
@malakaijub i know that and that proves that raymond is always on marie's side, for instance debra wanted to spend christmas with her parents but no marie didnt wanted to so raymond agreed with her!
''GET BACK IN YOUR PLAAACE !!!! '' .....No matter how many times I play that line...I laugh myself silly !!
what's hilarious is that of all the things that happen to Ray, the pashmina question sets him off. LOL
@@jdog2224 same here
you laugh yourself silly when Ray Romano has a nervous breakdown and loses his shit!?! so you laugh at his pain?!? but then ray does have such an indescribable charm...
@danielkim7841
IT'S A SHOW !!!!!
Usually don't say this but please please LIGHTEN UP !!!
@@irisschell5557 I'm sorry u r right. I was just trying to say it is so f@cked up Ray had that breakdown but then the breakdown was so hilarious because Ray , even in his most anguished moments, is just too funny...I AM trying to "lighten up" like u say, I've been on a low fat diet recently like when Marie made Frank eat that low fat bean curd in place of Thanksgiving turkey and i think I am honesty one pound lighter!!
I love it when Raymond finally snaps at everyone ! :P
Nicole Bonnett that wallpaper episode 🤣
I also love Debra's face as he goes off, as if to say "did he think this would end any other way except bad"
Rhiddhi Chakraborty And T-Ball 🤣🤣🤣
Love it, too!
The guy playing the photographer also wrote this episode, these events happened to him in real life lol.
I didn't know that! Thanks for sharing.
awesome kudos to that guy
I can see that happen in my family for sure! Inlaws outlaws and family you never see all in one pic. Stress=family lol
Oh WOW 😮 I like learning about who wrote what and why etc: thanks for the info....... 🙂
Amy’s husband in real life? Phil Rosenthal(sp)?
Robert : " noo body talk to me anymoooreeee " love it 🤣
I liked this episode because you can relate to every characters opinion on the subject. You can understand why Marie is upset because it's supposed to be a Barone family picture and Debra's parents are in it. You can understand why Debra wants her parents in the picture because they are part of the family. Robert being upset about Amy being in the picture is understandable but since she isn't married to him that reason is understandable as well. Frank has no opinion in this and Poor Ray has to tolerate everybody and finally blows up at everybody which he should because he's always the one forced to be the peacemaker. Overall great episode and relatable to everybody.
Plus, Debra wasn't going to get to see her parents during the holidays. I love how relatable each character's woe is and Ray trying to keep the peace and eventually snapping at the pashmina is absolutely hysterical!
It would have made more sense to have two pictures. One with Deb's parents and one with Ray's.
I hated this episode. All the malarkey could be avoided if they just took multiple pictures, one with Debs parents and one without
Just imagine if the roles of Ray and Debra were reversed
Debra would start world war 3 on Ray’s ass
Marie, Thank you for the wonderful moments. May you rest in peace.
Chef Juan dela Cruz, yes she was a great actress and amazing lady. I was so sad when she died. She was just wonderful in sitcoms and I will miss her. Too bad people don't live longer. I wish she would have anyway. Loved her. She ALWAYS made me laugh so much.
They were only wonderful moments because it was make believe! Nobody living through that in real life would think it was anything but hell! Certainly not funny! ELR was, though! Kudos, Mr. Romano!
Oh, funny funny stuff. I really miss this programm, EveryBody Loves Raymond is real comedy. This... this is gold. ''Nobody talk to me anymore!'' Gold.
Warren busting out laughing at Robert imitating Raymond's voice got me good!
This is probably my favorite episode, because Ray actually says what I would've said in that same position for about the first time on the show.
Well he snapped over the snacks at Ally's ball game but Robert is still my favorite.
honestly if marie was my mom in this,i would tell her "if you dont get in the picture...then you're not in the picture and you explain to your grandkids how much of a child you were just about a picture. and no gifts ever again"
That's rude and harsh, Marie is funny and has her flaws but you don't talk to your mom like that.
@@Stan0070 you sound as pathetic as Ray. At least he finally grew a pair at the end of the episode. If you don't confront someone who is being unreasonable, then your only other option is to cut them out of your life. I'd never let my mom manipulate my wife like Marie does and get away with it like Ray does.
In this instance, Marie was right. Debra was being a child and ruined Marie's gift. Why in the hell would Marie want a family photo with Debra's parents in it! Debra ruined her gift because she did not get her way in requesting to change their Christmas tradition. Even then she wasn't being sincere because if she was, why didn't she suggest to split Christmas Eve and Christmas day celebrations on the year that Christmas is at her parents house? Her parents are supposed more reasonable and would probably be more agreeable to the arrangement. If I was Marie, I would have said screw them and sat out on the photo.
@@Stan0070 Marie a narcissist and a bitch and I would gladly tell her so mother or not.
Nice yeah. Raymond the actor weakened his character Abit,here
say merry...Take the dam picture
that part always cracks me up
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This is a very funny episode
I’m glad Debra did this Marie deserves it for all the crap she had put her through. And Raymond deserves it too he never stands up to his mom so it’s a great way for Debra to get back at him too.
It’s possible she did this intentionally. Putting Ray in an awkward situation with his mother and her parents she probably enjoyed watching him squirm.
@@matthewriley7826 yeah, definitely but his family is always putting her in horrible positions and he doesn’t stand up to them. So it was nice to see her get a little revenge and he now knows how feels
Ray warned Debra long ago about the challenges of living across the street from his parents. Debra even understood how overbearing Marie could be during her pregnancy with Ally, but since she's so stubborn, she had to learn the hard way. Therefore, she should have sucked it up and allowed Ray to give Marie her ideal family portrait. Additionally, it's not the first time Debra tried to overstep Marie during the holidays. There was that Thanksgiving in which Debra cheated Marie out of her year when she could have easily waited for the following year. She knows that Marie doesn't take these matters lightly, and it is inconsiderate of her to place Ray in these difficult situations.
@@puapucuve6643 I agree with you on the first part, Debra is stubborn but they give Marie way too much power, why does she get to make all the decisions? And who wants to be married to a guy that can’t stand up to his mother when needed.
@user-hq7rd5hj7j While it may seem odd, in a lot of ways, it makes sense. We need to remember that this is an Italian family. Moms are just as essential as fathers, if not more. Even though Marie was annoying, childish, and very overbearing, Ray, Robert and Frank would be LOST without her. She's the one who kept everyone fed, managed the bills and stroked their egos (specifically Ray's).
GET BACK IN YOUR PLAAAAACE! ! We're taking this damn picture! Don't you see what I'm dealing with here are you blind?! Baaahhhh no habla talkie talkie! I've had it with trying to make everybody happy! I was trying to do something nice! I'm sick of everybody coming up to me oh talk to Debra! Talk to your mother! Why can't my girlfriend be in the picture! I don't wanna spend Christmas with them, fix it Raymond talk! I'm done talking! Don't talk to me anymore you hear me? You wanna talk? Talk to yourselves, 'cause I'M OUUUUUT 😂
Maybe I'll just wear the blue.
I watch raymond every morning seen all the episodes over and over still love it
I used to watch it every morning. TBS, after about 10 years, me being able, to see it in the morning, took it off their schedule. Really pi**es me off. I looked forward to watching it, every morning. Damn!! I don't know why they did this. And they won't answer me back, as to why it was done. I don't have a DVD player. And I don't know anything, about streaming.
As much as I love the character, I never took a close look at how selfish she is, but that's what makes it so funny. Rest in Peace Doris Roberts.. truly an amazing talent.
Well it was suppose to be Ray's gift to Marie, the inlaws should not be in the picture. Debra was being spiteful. Never liked Debra.
The thing with Marie doing her passive-aggressive thing.. 'oh I'm not feeling well, just take the picture without me. ' [I'll be over in the corner sulking about : fill-in-the blank]. My own mother was just like that, and how many other peoples' mothers. Mine especially really cranked up her act around Christmas, which made for some not-so-fond Christmas memories. .
Too sad.. I mean pictures were meant to be kept for good memories.. if this is what it would be like then better wipe taking a family photograph outta list.
I'm done takung them.. I capture surprise photos instead. 👌🏻👌🏻 The good memories are All mine.
What's the good in keeping fake photos anyways?
@@hana.the.writer5074 I agree, wholeheartedly, about "fake" pictures. Take pictures, "in the moment". I think these are better. 😊
Have missed good family shows like this for a LONG time now!
I love the first picture, where Marie looks like a Mafia don.
Well, she does wear Jean Naté, Al Capone's favorite body splash. 😅
They say the one thing he insisted upon having delivered there after the feds arrested him was his regular supply of JEAN NATÉ body splash. 😄👌🏻
@@hana.the.writer5074 Never knew this.
3:19 nice comeback, raymond 👍👍😂😂
robert got you a hammock...Roberts face :/
3:19 That is how you get the last laugh.
2:42 Look at Robert... haha 😆 He loves it when Raymond gets upsets..
(It's been 5 years already and I still laugh at this)
LOL@2:37 "And say MERRRRYYY..... TAKE THE DAM PICTURE!!!" LOL #CLASSIC
What a cantankerous villain. I loved Doris, such a great actress.
Now thats a real family Christmas pic
GET BACK IN YOUR PLACE! WE’RE TAKING THIS DAMN PICTURE!
Ahahaha !! Robert always cracks me up !!
Lock down may be over here in Adelaide, south Australia but I can tell you these shows NEVER get old 😉👌 😂 thoroughly love the show's over and over..... awesome 👍
"Take the damn picture" I died laughing at that
Romance girl .
*applauds Ray loudly*
😂😂😂😂the way ray screamed 😂😂😂😂
Marie spoke in an amazing style
My grandmother loved Marie
Not sure if anyone has mentioned it. Why not do a photo with just Ray's family and then Deborah's family and then all together
That's a good idea. But Marie would still act like a child. SMH
@@mimikinmiracle83 oh yeah definitely.
Because Debra was being a b*&tch
@@TheSoInappropriate no argument there. She knew what she was doing.
Because marie didn't want them there at all..she threw a fit when Debra asked her if she can go visit her parents for Christmas..& of course Ray sided w/his mom
"get back in your place! We're taking this damn picture..."
This is classic *Holiday With The Relatives*
I always dreaded Christmas. My sister and I always fought. She is such a controlling b***h. I don't know how she has stayed married, as long as she has. 30 some years. I really think, she acts this way, just with me. Anyway, I haven't seen her in months. I don't care to. I know, some might say this is not right. But, if you would see how/what goes on, between us. You would understand.
Robert doing Nasal voice: nobody talk to me anymoore... jajaja epic :)
He was a good writer as well as a good actor. I still say Robert was awesome. Debra ( my deceased sisters name ) and when our little brother died, I watched every episode I could find. Now all my family is in Heaven but this show keeps me grounded.
Great episode! And soooo true!
I Love this scene. My sister sent me a pashmina today!!!! I told her about this scene, & she replied that Debra's mother was never on this show! So I googled this scene & sent it to her!!!! I said, I never even heard this word: pashmina until I saw this. I can't believe I got a pashmina today!!! And mine is a Christmas gift!!!
💖💚💖💚💖💚💖💚💖
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"Maybe I'll just wear the blue" 🤣🤣🤣
Everyone was acting like jackasses while trying to take the photo with the exception of Warren, Lois, & Ray.
It was basically Robert, Ray, debra. the photographer and frank were the only ones participating in this, and the kids as well. Everyone else annoyed the hell out of me
@@not.supermario I have to disagree Robert was being an ass by purposely not changing his shirt and complaining about how Amy isn't in the picture when Amy wasn't married into the family yet and rolled his eyes at Debra & Lois talking. Debra blindsided Ray by not telling him that her parents were coming all because Ray didn't back her idea earlier in the episode which in turn caused Marie to act like an ass.
This episode is so bad, it’s good. It reflects how grey the characters are in what makes ELR a good comedy. Marie is a toxic human being, but she is a loving mother, despite her distaste for Debra, there were times she helped her (she was the first person to tell her about the big fork and spoon in showing Debra moving the suitcase would make her the bigger person). Debra is always made out to be a victim of her in-laws, but then again, when does she ever admit when she’s wrong? When does she ever stand up to Marie and Frank herself instead of trying to make Ray do her dirty work? When does she ever not compare how perfect her family is to Rays? She invited her parents behind Rays back to be on the photo and then smugly tells him to talk to Marie about it instead of doing it herself. She’s not doing it to make him suffer, it’s because she’s a bully; she pushes Ray around because he’s spineless, but is afraid of Marie and Frank because she has no power over them. And then there’s Robert too. He always has to make a big deal about how unfair his life is compared to Ray and take every opportunity to mock him even when he knows it’s not appropriate. This one of the few episodes where Ray is a victim because he only wants to give his mother a nice gift, but everyone has to have it their way and take zero responsibility for their actions. Again, shows how these characters are not all black and white and that’s what makes them so good.
This is one of my fave episodes
Mine too... .
When Ray loses his shit, it’s always the best scene ever.
Robert: “NOBODY TALK TO ME ANYMORE!!”
RIP Sawyer Sweeten
Marie is something else and I wonder where she got it from
3:21 "Robert got you a hammock". 😁
At 3:20, when you see the photo of everyone but Robert smiling, you then hear but don't see Robert punch Raymond and you hear him say,"Ooh!(falls on the floor) It was worth it."
I never saw or heard that. I would have liked to. Bet it was funny.
This program along with the grace of God got me through every 🙏 family member 🙏 of mine passing away.
Pashmina ; refers to the finely woven cashmere fabric not the style of the wrap. Just in case anyone was wondering. Funny episode,too.
How many people saw this years ago and remembered the "No habla...talkie, talkie" line?
Me-- it was good.
Marie's upset because Debra's parents are going to be in the picture. Marie would be thrilled if the picture was taken without Debra and Frank in it picture but she was willing to tolerate having them in the picture but not Warren and Lois.
R.I.P doris roberts...what a character..what an actress
It's Christmas again, December 14, 2022. Who's watching?:"Nobody talks to me anymore"! LOL
Great show.
Great cast.
Marie . . . everyone's favourite sociopath.
My favourite episode.
😅
Normally I think Robert is like me but in this scene ray totally reminds me of my hissy fit a few weeks ago.
Theres always a lot of family politics in my house (my mam is a LOT like Marie)
And I finally burst out shouting and swearing (I never swear)
I even said similar things as ray.
🤦♀️🤣
If I was that photographer, I'd shout and ball until my head exploded if I had to portrait a family acting like that, I'm saying this because I want to run my own photography studio one day.
Then don't waste your time, darling. 😄
You'll end up closing it down for bankruptcy..
Social communication is an art. You've got to be a patient diplomatic.
@@hana.the.writer5074 I try my best. Usually when or when I have to listen to other people's shit, I hold it in and lash out when they leave...Aaah!
@@Adamdow95 Reading my comment now kinda made me feel a bit ashamed for the way I spoke to you. I apologize for that. I get funny when I watch comedies. Please, don't call me names. 😄
But yeah, working with adults is hard and probably even harder with kids. Best of luck. 📸👨👩👦
@@hana.the.writer5074 No pun intended you were just telling me not to lose my cool in front of the Manson Family posing for a portrait lol. Thanks for wishing me luck.
@@hana.the.writer5074 This was nice of you to say, to Adam. 😊
You go Ray!
I honestly don't get it. Weren't they gonna be with Debra's parents next Christmas??? Plus this was a present for Marie. If it's HER present, you give her what SHE wants. It was a Barone family picture. If Debra wanted a picture with her parents, they could have taken a Whelan family picture next Christmas. Marie may be a bit selfish, but this was still her present, and what she got wasn't what she wanted.
Ray - You wanna talk. Talk to yourself. CAUSE I'M OUT
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rays face 3:21 best part of this scene
The first time ray blew up at somebody was in an episode called t ball
I DON’T THINK THAT IS AN APPROVED SNACK!
I loved that episode.
This exact situation happens with my family about every four years, when we decide to have a family photo taken...
I already saw that on my TV 📺 AT HOME 🏡
Holy shit! Lew Schneider, the photographer, is fine as hell!
Get back in your place!!!!!!! dwl lol lol
@MegaNefesh
"Ya gotta let it go Robert, ya just gotta LET IT GO!"
😂😂😂😂😂
Bravo Ray, bravo 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
After the picture was, he should put Debra, Marie, Warren, and Lois in the same van and leave them to dish it out.
Debra (talk your mother) vs. Marie (talk to Deborah; not Christmas my way)
&
Warren & Lois (innocent bystanders) vs. Marie (don’t want them over for Christmas)
Raymond: “I’m sure you four have a lot to talk about!” (My emphasis)
AHHHH No Habla Talkie Talkie!!! FTW!
I never understood why they didn't just take 2 pictures. One with Debra's parents in it and 1 without. Done.
Debra and Marie = Ray😄
1:30 best part lol 😆
my fav haha love this
Why can't Marie walk up to the section to get a picture taken with the family, instead of sitting down on the chair doing nothing?
Because Marie's a manipulating and vindictive woman who believes she should get the upper hand in getting what she wants and controlling the lives of her family selfishly and contemptuously. She's a pro at inflicting guilt and undermining her kids, making them feel small and helpless whenever she chastizes them to give in to her expectations like weak knee wimps.
Jessica Tate from Soap and Benson
Katherine Helmond was hilarious as Mona from Who's the Boss for 8 seasons...& 9 seasons as Doris Sherman on Coach..she is amazing !!
@@musiclover58 Who's the boss, was a really good show.
Robert got you a hammock!
Patricia Heaton is nothing like her part in the show. She is very nice and a good person. Just so you know.
They should take the picture without Marie.
It always bothered me from Debra’s perspective. I mean she wanted to see her parents during Christmas Eve/ Day when they would have spent the Christmas period with Ray’s parents for the majority of their relationship given that they lived in closer proximity.
And then not only does Marie deny Debra the chance to see her parents on either of the Christmas days but Ray backs Marie up.
And then what would happen on the 26th or 27th December or some day before New Years if Debra wanted to still see her parents (albeit a little late)? I wouldn’t put it past Marie and Ray to try and come up with an excuse for why Debra could not see her parents during any of those days as well.
I think deep down, Debra knew this could happen so she acted out by inviting her parents to the Christmas family picture.
LOL. My mother used JEAN NATE!
😂😂😂😂😂😂I did too! Ha! Love how they added that in show! How funny!!!!
I still remember the ads on TV.
classsssssic
If Robert and Amy were married at this time, she wouldn't want Amy's parents and brother in the picture. I bet Amy's parents would also want to have a family portrait for themselves but would allow Frank and Marie in it, despite the way they feel about them. Robert would ask, "My parents can also be in the picture?" and Hank would say,"Of course. They are part of the family. What kind of horrible people would exclude their child's in-laws from the picture?" Frank and Marie would look ashamed.
Relatively accurate, accept for two things: 1)Frank and Marie wouldn't look ashamed, as they almost never get ashamed; 2) Hank's remarks would have been a bit more snarky, something to Pat like "Well, Mother, I suppose its only right we include them. We are family after all, both in Robert and Amy's marriage and in God's sight. Even if they are Catholic."
Get back in your place!
1:29 😂😂😂
Jean Nate 😂😂😂
3:19 😆😅😂🤣😭
Peter Boyle.. Last snap.. isnt he good and pleasing even at this age..
"NOBODY TALK TO ME ANYMORE!!!"
The one episode where I sided with Marie lol
so did i. i never liked debras parents
I do agree. I mean Warren and Lois would let Frank and Marie be in it if the picture was for them.
Robert is upset because Amy can't be in the picture. Well, Marie said when Robert makes Amy part of the family, she can be in the picture. Makes sense to me.
Marie doesn't like Debra's parents. She doesn't give them much reason to like her or Frank.
I bet Marie really wished she could've had the picture without Debra and Frank in it, also. She was going to tolerate them but not Warren and Lois.
What season is this?. sorry for my bad english by the way
Men are always in the middle regarding their wives and mothers. My dad always said that.
@MegaNefesh well that person you hate so much is one of the head writers and co founders of this show, and he is one of the most brilliant writers in hollywood.
Most American comedies elevate motherhood to sainthood. What ELR did was bring it back down to earth. Mothers can be selfish, mean, petty, and inconsiderate towards others.
@malakaijub i know that and that proves that raymond is always on marie's side, for instance debra wanted to spend christmas with her parents but no marie didnt wanted to so raymond agreed with her!
That’s my family.