Child Free By Choice I The Feed

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  • čas přidán 18. 06. 2014
  • The Feed's Jeannette Francis meets some couples who have decided to not have children.
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Komentáře • 47

  • @janedaniels1367
    @janedaniels1367 Před 9 lety +266

    To all these people saying "oh they'll be lonely" etc.... my father had a child (obviously), and then he was a dick and ran me out of his life. We haven't spoken in 10 years. I don't ever plan on speaking to him again. He's also divorced from my mom (whom i have a great relationship with).... obviously having a child doesn't guarantee you wont be lonely. My father is the loneliest man on earth.

  • @kyjelly5524
    @kyjelly5524 Před 6 lety +1095

    I need a woman that doesn't want kids! They are so hard to find

  • @UnoriginallyInclined
    @UnoriginallyInclined Před 9 lety +945

    Emma's right, people do have kids for their own enjoyment. They complain about the reduced sex life and free time but at the same time they love having kids. And if you want to live that way, fine, but don't act like you're doing everyone else a favour

  • @665Kattt
    @665Kattt Před 2 lety +57

    Childfree is best life.

  • @zakku_88
    @zakku_88 Před 2 lety +43

    Good for them! No one can say what is best for YOUR life except for YOU!

  • @ZyciewKanadzieAnitaBeataVlog

    It's much happier life without the kids. Cats are a great substitute and love you - no matter what.

  • @FloNisChildfreeLifeChannel
    @FloNisChildfreeLifeChannel Před 9 lety +438

    We are childfree too living in a Catholic country been married for almost 10 years now, were fit, we have a great lifestyle and planning to retire early hehe!!!

  • @susieenglish302
    @susieenglish302 Před 3 lety +12

    The thing I hate is parents believing that everyone wants to know about their kids. We don't.

  • @bottlefly5124
    @bottlefly5124 Před 9 lety +153

    I'm 29, childfree, married and Indian. Living in Australia. Can anyone suggest any online or offline portals where childfree people can meet? I've found nothing for childfree people so far.

  • @ikimus
    @ikimus Před 2 lety +27

    Love this and I'm in the same boat. You do you and F the haters!

  • @williamyeo9145
    @williamyeo9145 Před 9 lety +296

    People think a couple without children are weird no it doesn't its common now i m a 23 year old childfree asian guy n i have my decision to not having my own children i love it n i m happy to saw this video that someone are same like me

  • @soilofk
    @soilofk Před rokem +3

    Good for them!!! ever wanted children...I am 50 now and I enjoy my life sooo much!

  • @lisaa6099
    @lisaa6099 Před 9 lety +400

    Great choice.
    We are missing out on nothing, and we know it !!!!
    Wooo hooo

  • @harbimidiyosunkanka
    @harbimidiyosunkanka Před rokem +12

    Glad im not the only one

  • @violeteyes814
    @violeteyes814 Před 9 lety +170

    It goes back to religion, politics, and tradition. A lot of people see the world for what it is, and decide it's not for them, the same thing with the single by choice aspect. I definitely don't think people who are childfree by choice or single at heart deserved to be raped, just because they don't want to fulfill the gender role, or want to be left alone to do their own thing.

  • @TheBedroomDiary
    @TheBedroomDiary Před 9 lety +211

    Second Childfree by choice PRO: being able to sit down, unwind, and have a conversation with your signifies other.

  • @AdrianTries
    @AdrianTries Před 8 lety +30

    22 years old i thinck since i know of not having kids i hate when tem cry and how much cost a kid....no kids and i have an SUV, small fiat panda and a aprilia rs :) i dont give a fuck when i dont work i sleep like a newborn all day or chill in the citi ...smoke a lil weed or drive to mountains NO KIDS best in life

  • @Moerocha62
    @Moerocha62 Před 3 lety +3

    I don’t understand condemning a person for not wanting children. I don’t want to go sky diving or be a brain surgeon either. Live the life you want to live. People do often have children for the wrong reasons. You have to want them badly, be prepared to plan your life around them, have the resources, but then be fully aware your job is temporary and you must develop who you are without them. Your job is to raise them and let them go. My kids are the two biggest blessings and miracles in my life, but parenting isn’t for everyone. Nothing is for everyone! 🙏🏻💜👼🏻✝️😇

  • @mikesmith1181
    @mikesmith1181 Před rokem +3

    there are thousands of us out here that have chose to be child free and are VERY happy with our lives.
    We also don't want to interact with YOUR kids...
    Too many parents are crappy parents and that makes being around them and their kids difficult.

  • @omowhanre
    @omowhanre Před 3 lety +2

    Aww...they seem they'll make the best/coolest Aunty and uncle.

  • @williamyeo9145
    @williamyeo9145 Před 9 lety +105

    Y m I childfree cause i m not a child lover and i m not so fond of for children i saw other people children crying annoying and doing such tantrums i just remind myself i don't want to have children of my own n i m so proud of myself that this video make me smile YEAH!!!!!

  • @saronakalifa5549
    @saronakalifa5549 Před 9 lety +76

    Such an inspirational...

  • @TheBedroomDiary
    @TheBedroomDiary Před 9 lety +56

    One Childfree by choice PRO: Two for, sports cars.

  • @Elizabethe666
    @Elizabethe666 Před 9 lety +109

    I approve.

  • @77Tadams
    @77Tadams Před 9 lety +56

    yay, I want to move to Australia! Can Hubby and I come and visit? LOL!

  • @simplygraceful2616
    @simplygraceful2616 Před rokem +1

    Vasectomy for insurance for the women pls. I've seen too many father kids in their 60s after their partners expired.

  • @bplatonova
    @bplatonova Před 3 lety +1

    I have 1 and happy.. she's 12 now.. having kids not all that

  • @fjoo
    @fjoo Před 9 lety +30

    Outsourcing the childcare seems like a good idea, if you can afford it. Seems like the best of both worlds.

  • @airgirl72
    @airgirl72 Před 3 lety +2

    I am child free and I don't like how some child free couples try to project that they are superior to those who chose to have kids. This isn't a good representation of what it means to be child free.

  • @TheeWarriorPrincess
    @TheeWarriorPrincess Před rokem +1

    You lose either way 😅 Kids are only fun when they are young and cute when they grow up to argue think at their age they know more than everyone suddenly they are all weird 😅

  • @trilla0322
    @trilla0322 Před 10 lety +127

    Good on them for making that choice! No child should have parents like that ...

    • @77Tadams
      @77Tadams Před 9 lety +313

      Like what? Responsible and loving life?

  • @cakeorpurse
    @cakeorpurse Před 3 lety

    So depressing hahah.

  • @TheMissShivi
    @TheMissShivi Před 10 lety +77

    Yeah while they're flipping through their photo books the other couples will be playing with their grand kids and having visits from their adult children. Nostalgia is fleeting, the present moment is all you have when you're older

    • @Walgreens27richmond
      @Walgreens27richmond Před 10 lety +291

      Why do you care that they don't want kids I'm childfree as well 25 btw it's their choice and having kids doesn't guarantee a person wont be lonely

    • @crazenby1
      @crazenby1 Před 9 lety +127

      Whatever just respect other peoples decisions!

    • @Walgreens27richmond
      @Walgreens27richmond Před 9 lety +58

      Do you even have kids if so shut up and mind your own business

    • @77Tadams
      @77Tadams Před 9 lety +63

      I think you should have kids if you wish, but I think those of us who choose not to are fine too...but maybe I'm wrong. I don't judge you for your decisions in life...Maybe we can be friends in old age??? :) Your grandchildren can be spoiled by me too! But maybe I am not that limited as to believe I have to have kids to love kids. Hmmm.

  • @Dehuman18
    @Dehuman18 Před 9 lety +73

    If we all were "child free", the human nation would exstinct

    • @DarkElfMairead
      @DarkElfMairead Před 9 lety +307

      Dehuman18 So? Just because some people are something, doesn't mean everyone is/should be/will be.

    • @stellietex
      @stellietex Před 9 lety +533

      Dehuman18 And if we all continue to breed and suck up all the world's limited resources, the human nation (and animal and plant nations) will go extinct. So. Your point is what exactly?

  • @ann.obrien5139
    @ann.obrien5139 Před rokem

    Well I do think when they are older and their friends and other family members are having grandkids they will feel a hint of remorse and jealousy. They are too young to realise yet .