I'm Back- and We Need to Talk.
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- čas přidán 6. 08. 2023
- An honest chat. Please be kind xx
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You have several thousand ‘family members’, in some sense, that have always been hoping you were ok. What a wonderful feeling to see you back with Nick and us…
Welcome back Terysa. Your personal well-being and your relationship with Nick is far more important than CZcams productions. Take time to ease yourself back into your sailing routine, and ENJOY.
Back when I used to practice martial arts our sensei told us “You can’t judge another person’s pain” - I’ve found this to be a useful touch point in my own experience with mental and physical health.
Please don’t ever feel that you have to downplay how you feel, and the challenges you’ve been dealing with.
{hug}
You do get a "feel" for it though.
Welcome back. Nick tried his best. We all felt your pain with Seawind. We all missed you
We definitely missed your smiling face and are glad you're back. You're not the only one who was less than enthusiastic about the never ending boat building content. I also understand that the heat & humidity of summer in Vietnam is almost unbearable. Lets go sailing :)
I was fine with the boat building content at first. It was an excellent counterpoint to Tally Ho and Leo's traditional build. Yet while Leo's build continues to fascinate, I found myself not so interested in this build as the episodes continued to pile up. I'm glad I watched. I'm glad its over.
Time for some adventure. Time for some sailing.
boat building was painful. quickly stopped watching.
@@FeelItRising I dutifully watched each and every episode. Perhaps not with the degree of attention one might expect. 😉
I don't underestimate the toll that feeding a weekly content machine would take on you and your relationship. Good on you for taking time out when you felt you needed to. Wishing you and Nick all the best for what comes next.
Seeing this and then Nikki and Jason’s latest it’s just so clear just how difficult it is to be so unsettled. It takes a toll. Praying for all the wonderful things for both of you!
Also Billie and Sierra have talked a bit about the unsettled time waiting for their new boat. And from Ran Sailing and MJ Sailing you can and even Sampson boat Company, you can see that folks building boats themselves need a break from the "slow process" of getting a new boat.
I am also reminded of Maya from Sailing Magic Carpet. She's mentioned a few times now how hard the rebuild of their Cape George is because it has left her little time for her creative pursuits.
I’m glad you took the time to do what is right for you and hope you enjoy the start of your new adventure!
Ditto on that:) Hope the new boat is a good fit (looks fantastic). Weirdly I prefer the phone footage to the dedicated camera footage.
We missed you. Nick kept us posted and anticipating the changes to come. We're ready to go cruising with you two again soon. Welcome home.
We miss you and glad to see you. Can’t wait to go cruising with you guy again.
I enjoyed Nick's posts on the boat build and life in Vietnam. He did a great job. His enthusiasm was so genuine and so refreshing in contrast to other channels I watch where the strain of waiting for the new boat and the struggle to generate content is clearly taking its toll. I agree that towards the last few months as delivery was delayed I kept wondering how he maintained his enthusiasm. Maybe the beautiful woodwork and craftsmanship was enough. I'm really looking forward to you both being back on board and seeing the boat in all her glory.
Thank you for your honesty Therysa. I feel we are honoured to have been taken into your confidence.
I'm not sure I could take much more boat build episodes. Nick, we love you, but it's so great having Teresa back! Looking forward to seeing both of you doing what you love.
OMG, this!!!!
Just wanting to say: TEREYSA: What a powerful gift you have given us with this video. Thank you for that, for your honesty, your vulnerability, For sharing your raw truth, and equally your gratitude for the privilege you find yourself in. Tears fell, listening to you speak. I think it's hard to overestimate the impact of the pandemic on us all, of our habit to isolate, and our difficulty finding stride since then. May the new boat be everything you dream of, and may it bring you and Nick together into the same joyful realm, where you can explore and discover the world together in this next new chapter.
I, too, got teary. We love you, and look forward to seeing you each week. Happy sailing!
Being in a privileged position does not mean that you are immune from life's stresses. Look after yourselves and I hope moving onto the new boat goes well
Thrilled for you Therysa, I too was completely uninterested in the boat build technicalities but nevertheless enjoyed seeing the progress and glimpses of life in Vietnam. Now let’s get sailing cruising exploring and enjoying the sundowners 🎉
Hey Therysa, you don’t owe us any apologies or any explanations. Nevertheless I was relieved to hear you didn’t find the boat build exciting because neither did I!
Very much looking forward to the next chapter of RR2 and taking us on the journey.
We're glad all is ok and you are home with Nick. Now! Let's get the party started and show us your new boat!! I'm so excited to see her all decked out and on the water. Welcome home Terysa.
Stress is stress and we all suffer from life's stresses in different ways. Whatever you need to do to take care of yourself and what life throws at you is up to you ( and Nick ) Look after yourself and do whatever you need to make life good and happy for yourself. Nice to see you back on cam again. 😀
It is a pleasure to have you back. I agree with you regarding the build. I did check in most weeks but it really was not the content that I was interested in. I am excited to see you two as a partnership again and to be at sea!! I would bet that the vast majority of people are just happy to see you back!!
Glad you’re back! Just remember that you invited us into your life - we’re the privileged ones. You don’t owe us anything. No explanation is necessary. We’re just thankful to have you back and to be able to follow you once again on your journey.
Burnout is a real thing. I can't imagine being without my home and a firm base for that long. I'm so, so glad that you two were able to navigate that without losing hold of one another and your dream. Your man loves you, Ms Terysa. We could see that every time he spoke of you but the day he spoke of having you home... well, Nick does brusque. And Nick does technical and brainy and energetic. But we don't see tender out of him. That day, we saw tender. He's so happy to have you back and have a home together with you, on the water and adventuring again. Who knew he was a closet mush? lol I know it's been a few days since this, so I hope she's all you both ever dreamed of. Welcome home!
😂🎈 brusque 👀 I’m a damn pendant 🎸
@@robinspat autocorrect is a meanie. LOL
Great to have you back and looking forward to seeing you both on RR2. Just a note about stress/burnout: take it from someone who ignored the signs and ended up in a very bad place - you have to do what you've gotta do to make things right for you. So well done you for working it out and realising what you needed to do. Nick has done a grand job for the channel - I certainly know a lot more about cats now! Well done, good luck for the handover and best of all - ENJOY! 👍
Well said!! Up through my '50s I never thought stress caused any health issues. Then in one day I found out the horrible truth. So good on you taking time.
Welcome back Tyresa, it's lovely to see you again. I'm sorry that you felt the way you did, and I hope that is all behind you now, but incase it isn't, please look after yourself and take your time, enjoy the next few months with your new home getting to know her and put the camera away a little more often, we'll survive! Remember, quality over quantity. Stay Safe & Fair Winds!!
So happy to see you back in front of the camera Teresa. No need to apologize for needing to re-charge your batteries, so to speak. Looking forward to the new content on your beautiful new cat.
So happy to see you back Terysa!! I love the dynamic you and Nick have (you are adorable and hilarious together), and it hasn't been the same without you. Super excited for the new chapter!
It's so good to see your sweet face again. When EVERYTHING in your environment is suddenly unfamiliar, and you are missing the most important thing to human beings--people and community--it can be emotionally devastating. You did what you needed to do, and I'm so glad your relationship was strong enough to allow you to do it. We have missed you and are looking forward to seeing you both on new adventures.
I think it's great he waited to go on board for you together!
Sometimes we all need a break from this crazy life and it's circumstances! Glad you are back and looking forward to you all enjoying the new boat!
Therysa, Thank God you're back!!! I don't know if I could take one more episode of just looking at Nick. :) It has been a long boat build and we miss the adventures. Can't wait to see Ruby Rose 2. We love your channel and the chemistry you guys have. WELCOME HOME!!!
You have been missed. And life is a real pain sometimes. Stress is stress, no matter where it comes from. It is great to have you back on the channel. :)
So sweet to share your honesty. It is going to be a new and big chapter. How healthy and smart to talk about it. Cant wait for next week. Take Care!!!
Glad you're okay and glad you're back. The channel isn't the same without you. You both balance each other and the channel (don't tell Nick but you are way better with the camera). Best wishes and welcome home.
Glad to see you on camera and back with the boat. Thanks for sharing your story. You didn't owe us anything, glad you found a way to take care of your self. Will be so happy to see you and Nick sailing again on your new home. Cheers
Good to see you back. I haven't bothered watching Nick going on and on about all the boring boat build technical stuff. Looking forward to being back on the water.
Welcome back, it's great to reconnect. Honestly, I've also found myself less immersed in the building process lately. What truly excites me is envisioning you two embarking on your dream voyage, sailing the world in that impressive vessel. The fact that this lifestyle can lead to burnout doesn't surprise me - I'm no stranger to it myself and often need to switch gears, just like you've done by returning to your Australian roots. Australia is truly an amazing country.
Your candid reflections resonate with me, and this juncture feels special - a pivotal point where you're faced with a choice. These moments, when you tread the less-traveled path, are the ones I cherish most in life. So, go ahead and forge those unforgettable memories. You have my support and admiration. Much love to both of you.
We all need a break now and again. Hopefully, this next chapter will be awesome. I'm looking forward to seeing you and Nick showing us the world from Ruby Rose 2
Lovely to see you back, I kind of dropped off the channel when the actual sailing adventures stopped and the boat building started. Keep well 😊⛵️⛵️⛵️
Everyone needs a reset sometimes. Especially after the last few years. I'm happy to see you back and feeling ready to get started again.
The last two years have been a F'd-up time warp for just about everybody. Thank goodness you had a place to go and the strength of your relationship with Nick to go there and not lose any ground with him or with your sea crew. I can't imagine it has been a day-at-the-beach for either of you. I'm so glad to see your face and I anticipate seeing you in the light of Nick's eye as you sail together again (as it should be)
It's wonderful to see you back! We were getting ever so slightly bored with listening to the dentist's paroxysms of delight over bits of well executed joinery. Now that you're back, we can look forward to proper sailing lifestyle content!👍
Great comment lol.
can't say i blame you. i bailed out for most of the build videos. glad to see you back, look forward to more sailing videos.
Lovely to have you back Terysa......fair winds and following seas.
We’re so happy to have you back and for you and Nick to finally have a home again! I can only imagine how unsettling and stressful that these last few years have been. Just want to give you a hug!
Oh my god you're human welcome back
You sold your boat and were displaced for two years! Who wouldn’t be affected? so happy for the new adventure you’re starting out on with the new boat!enjoy!
Thanks for the update. The channel is not the same without you whether sailing, travel, construction or whatever. I often wondered how Nick survived the ordeal there. I think your decision to be home made wonderful sense. The next chapter seems to be back to what we all enjoy and is worthy of celebration for your return and for Nick’s endurance. May you both enjoy this dream!.... Lots of work, fun and experiences to have and share.
So glad for your honesty, it must have been a tough few years, with COVID and the seemingly never ending delays in the boat build up to this point. Now you and Nick are back together about to start this new chapter of your lives together. Wishing you a very happy reunion, with fair winds and following seas. ⛵️
Honest and understandable, as a fellow Aussie I get that and I admire those traits - you're brave for being so open and candid and I hope this next chapter is fulfilling, adventurous and fun.Bon voyage 🙂
Welcome Back & we missed you!! You have to care for yourself first.
Well, I have to say that it is amazing to see you again! Thank you for the clarity and update. I am with you, I am ready to see the purpose of the boat, Sailing, and definitrly looking forward to your travels. The great thing is that the vessel is floating and oh so close to letting loose of land. Fair Winds and Following Seas to you and Nick when you are released to start sailing again. Can't wait!!
Welcome back Human. Life's gravity has taken you both to such amazing places, good & bad and your surviving it. While you breath that process is never ending. Who knows where you headed next? Good luck to you both.
Took a huge amount of courage to step up and say that...saying what you experienced and what you feel. You are one incredibly strong woman. The good thing is...that chapter is over, and the boat is ready, and so...I imagine...are you.
Go live the live you have worked so hard for and waited so long for. You certainly have earned it...and thanks for sharing this with us.
We are so happy you are back. We have to take care of our minds, hearts, and souls first in order to move forward. Thank you for sharing! You did an amazing job editing! Safe travels!
Well done for this post. It’s good for you and for reality to share the humanity of the pressure you are under. Nothing is more important than you, your health and good for you to take time to re-set and re-calibrate. Hugs.
Welcome back. It’s good to hear you made your well being a priority. Thank you for sharing.
Teresa, we left too! But we figured eventually the build will end and the wonderful storytelling will resume. Glad you made it back and look forward to the wonderful experiences you have to share.
I cannot wait to see Nick and Teyrsa, hugging, smiling and kissing each other on the back of RR2!
Terysa you have become a part os us, who have followed yours and Nicks journey ,we care, for nick and yourself may peace and joy follow both of your lives ! We Care ! Love and peace as you find your way.
It’s nice to have you back girl. It was a long build. We’ve seen every glue joint and shelf in the galley, every bulk head, water tank, water maker and light being installed and all the electrical gages. Then they sanded everything nine times and painted all of it ten times. So, let’s go sailing. I think Nick missed you. I know we did. See you next week.
Good to have you back. Everyone needs a break, and now we can finally have a break from Nick... 😉
Enjoy your new home.
Bless you Terysa. That was brave of you to be so candid, I hope you heal well, and all of us out here in the Ruby Rose multiverse will be watching out for you.. xx
I loved, loved, loved Nick's geeking-out with technical stuff, but I have missed your sensitive narrative and perspective. Welcome back, welcome home. I sure missed you.
Nice to see you back you have been missed, hope you and Nick have some fantastic adventures on your fantastic new boat.
You are the primary reason for watching the channel. It hasn't been the same without you. Burnout I understand, believe you me. My thoughts were much darker and I stand relieved you are back and "restless". Congratulations on the next chapter.
I live in the Mojave Desert and will never live the sailing life. Your channel has given me a fun way to peer into another life, thank you guys. You both make incredible content. It's off to sailing again! Your channel is great entertainment and I'm looking forward to new episodes.
I've lived in a van traveling Europe for two years with a husband and two dogs. It's not always easy not having a traditional home. The limbo feeling is real and needs addressed. Sharing your experience is helpful to many! Welcome back!
Terysa, you are a fantastic lady! Welcome back. You have been greatly missed! And so looking forward to seeing you and Nick back out on the water... Congratulations on Ruby Rose 2 being ready for the countries you two will be sailing her to. Sending big hugs. GOD Bless You both.
Just happy to see you back Terysa and excited to see this new chapter begin.
Glad to se you back and hope that everything smooths out for you now that you're back on the water. Lots of love
It's very nice to see that you're back and looking forward to cruising again aboard your new vessel. May God keep all who sail in her.
Great to see you back. It’s quite understandable the different emotions you seem to have experienced. So many of us live vicariously through great sailing channels like RR. Reality- it’s not a perfect life, but you and Nick will get back into the swing so sailing like very soon..
It’s so good to see you back!!! I’m glad you recognized what you needed for your mental health and took the right actions. So glad you had the time with family and I’m sure they were thrilled to have you there!!! So excited about this new chapter!!!
A video or 2 or 3 of subject matter you are not passionate about is one thing but…… years. No question that you’ll need a slightly different path for awhile. I’m glad your back, it’s wonderful to see you. Find your deep breathes and enjoy your new home!
Glad you are back! Ruby Rose 2 needs you! Enjoy your new beautiful boat!😊
Glad to see your lovely face and looking forward to your new adventures. Sailing videos were escapism for many of us during the pandemic. I have gotten tired of all the sailing channels becoming boat builds, repairs and fluff nonsense.
My heart is with you Terysa. I work in the medical field and I have seen this over and over again in the last 2 years. You did exactly what you needed to do. Nick is an amazing husband because he also knew what you needed. You both show the true love as a couple. Glad you are back!!
I must say that for me i was not a fan of all the boat build episodes whereas others may like that. Nick was obviously very into the build which i respect. It is great to have both of you together again and looking forward to future episodes now the the boat has been completed. Everyone needs a break from whatever now and then so glad you took the time. Welcome back.
Welcome back and believe me you were missed. Every thing you said is completely understandable. STRESS is a bit challenging and you did the right thing in handling it. Other than putting up with Nick's operation of the camera, no apology necessary. We all love ya.
Roy
HIIIIIIiIIIIIII!!!!!!!!!!
We missed you, we love you!
stumbling across your channel during covid was an absolute life saver for me. the two of you allowed me aboard your incredible life and gave me hope for all the adventures that awaited me when life got back to normal. I am so glad you got the time you needed to heal. welcome back… and thank you for reminding me how amazing life can be.
Good to have you back. Agree with other comments that your well being is the most important thing and can not wait to see you getting stuck back in. You have been missed
So very glad to see you back… I hope Ruby Rose 2 is all that You and Nick could possibly want!
Excited to hear from you!!!
Funny, it was Nick and the boat build that actually brought me to your channel. I had seen one or two videos back in the day but I never watched you guys. Watching the episodes of the boat build with Nick is why I am now a subscriber. Sometimes we just need to man up. Life doesn’t always throw us things we want but when that happens, we need to turn those things that we don’t want into Gold by Manning up.
Good on you for doing the smart thing and taking care of yourself. The world would be a better place if more people did. Lovely to see you back and I am excited about the content you are about to create.
Great to see you again!!
To be honest, if I never see another boat building video in my life, it'll still be too soon. Sorry friends , I had to tune out quite a while ago, Im glad this one caught my attention as Im ready to rejoin your journeys.
Same
Agree
look at this shelf and this locker! it can hold stuff
Epic
Same for me, tuning in again
It is wonderful to see you again! Oh yes, I can feel your emotion! Glad to have you back on camera!
We are glad you're back. I understand the struggle,it's encouraging to hear you share your story. Thank you for helping us understand. We have always enjoyed the sailing videos, not so much of boat building ones. Really , I am looking forward to the new adventure. We are very happy that you are back.
Nice to see you back
It is so wonderful to see you. I'm looking forward to the Adventures of Ruby Rose 2.
I can see your pain on your face still, and I know I would have struggled to cope too. I am wishing you every happiness moving forward. Love to you,
Thanks for sharing the real side of life and the tough times with the good. All the best for the course ahead and hopefully lots of perfect times with nick on the new boat.
Thanks for posting Terysa.
Something to be said for waking up "on the hook."
Cheers SV Good Karma as Grins! 🤗
You don't need to explain anything to us!! You do you and the hell with the rest of them.
Just because others struggle doesn't mean you don't. Doesn’t mean your hurt is less. Glad to see you.
I agree, and I think this is such a crucial point of mental health: comparing your situation to others and then saying “other people have it much worse” prevents you from healing from your own situation because you mitigate it instead of really dealing with it.
Welcome back! After catching a glimpse of a "few" boat building episodes, I was genuinely astonished to stumble upon your post today. Sending my best wishes to you and Nick for a joyful chapter in RR2 - life 2.0, as you embark on this journey together. Anticipating the upcoming sailing year on your dream boat - you both have truly earned it!
WHATEVER YOU HAVE BEEN DOING, YOU LOOK ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL ‼️ YOUR HUSBAND IS A VERY LUCKY MAN ‼️ STAY SAFE, THRILLED YOU ARE BACK‼️⛵️ Vinny 🇺🇸
I got to 3.31 before I burned out.
O, my Lord!!!
Hi Guys - no need for any explanations - had burnout myself so fully understand. Enjoy all the content and good to have Tereysa back. take care both of you and enjoy the fruits of your labour!!
Great to see you back. No explanations required. 👍
Glad you are doing well and can continue your adventure. Stay well and enjoy this next chapter:)) John 5:24