Case study;-The girl comes in fully loaded as an asset,educated,has a job ,has assets,has demonstrated ability to be home maker but still ,it’s a favor for a man to propose,It’s a sad reality across the globe!And the mans family has to approve.God help us women!
Lol, Nozi this story reminds me of how I asked my husband if he'd started his lobola fund a month or two into our relationship. After that conversation he called his financial advisor and they set it up. We got married that year. I agree with Skhu saying women must ask questions and have clarity.
I love what Nozi was saying about ilobola and I have the same views. I believe that it is even up to us brides to speak to our families bangayibaxi. If we are old enough to marry, we are old enough to have tough conversations.
Nozi - when my hubby told his parents that he wants to marry me. The first question his father asked was "How much money do you have? He told him that he is not going to have the marriage conversation without money being sorted out first. Yho! I appreciated my father inlove so much yazi because shem umntu wam wadibanisa izinto zakhe wathengisa neemoto zakhe just so we can proceed with the marriage conversation.
The way SisNozi pays attention to her husband as he speaks.. I'm here for it, I love to see it... It commands even us to pay attention to the wisdom Ka BhutiSkhu
I agree with you Bhuti Skhu, I think in a relationship, it's vital to know if you in it to play or for long term mutual interest (marriage), cause it's painful for both genders to have pure intentions for someone only to find out that you are a mere temporal contract
Oh I love you guys soo much. Your authenticity, boldness, strength & realness.. Believe it or not you guys are changing lives and helping so many people out there. May God bless you more, all the way from Namibia 🇳🇦🇳🇦😘😘😘
@@madamflames wow thanks there's a car I always see with it on the registration when we jog in the evenings but never got a chance to meet the owner and ask.
Your videos are so educational, honest and covers everything i was uncertain about . Thank you, Nozi for using your life stories as a tool to inspire and enhance our outlook on different topics! 🤝🏽
I have already asked my Boyfriend when he is marrying me, he said soon but I will tell him I need dates as well because I need assurance that I will happen
I love your openness, you guys are always fun to watch and thanks for looking out for the sisters Nozi and for all advices from both of you. I enjoyed this video.
😅😅Being introduced to family means nothing...it is no guarantee for marriage, some inlaws might be all fakes, including the boyfriend. They might even string you along as a makoti, meanwhile all other girlfriends are treated the same. At that stage never loose yourself in that promise, continue with your life until it is for real. Stop acting like a wife until you get there.
I agree with this. You will be putting in all this work that his family will be enjoying and he still wont marry you. Just do things because you want to and not as a performance.
So true, that's why I want to tell my sons that I don't want to see different faces, the day they decide to introduce a girl to us they must make sure it's the one they are serious about & ready to send uncles.
We need the full story of the sabbatical because the date posted on Facebook still seems to be an issue for Skhu, and he also has skeletons in his closet because he doesn’t want Nozi “laying it all on the floor” 🤣🤣🤣. I died at that story at the end where the bride ended her friendship with Nozi after she showed up at her wedding (clearly upstaging the bride 😅). Nozi, please tell us- did you wear a bridal gown to the wedding? A red dress? Give us the juice 🤣🤣🤣 Love from Kenya 🇰🇪
I watched it from the beginning to the end wooooow I enjoyed... I was feeling insecure regarding asking my boyfriend such questions because I don't it to seem as if I am forcing him. Thank you so much for this❤❤❤❤❤
Sis don't be ashamed. We've been played for temporary woman for too long while a person is waiting for the right girl. You have a right to know especially when you can see that things are not adding up or going any particular direction
Getting married involves you, meaning it’s your life as well so you have every right to know where your own life is going, he won’t be doing you a favour, this is a joint decision. And if the answer is “not yet” then you must ask “why not now and if not now when?”. Some reasons are legitimate and if a man says that he’s not yet ready because of reasons that make sense, don’t be pushy. But he must be asked and he shouldn’t get defensive or think you’re desperate, those are little boys who shouldn’t even be dating.
Nothing excites me more than Nozi saying "Skhu" & Skhu saying "tshini thiza" 😂😂😂😂 Then there's Nozi's "kaloku" that sounds so fancy you'd swear it went to Harvard 😂😂😂
Thank you Nozi for explaining the significant of Lobola (i share the same sentiments) we have to think of the after life and remember the reason for it......very important to ensure that both couples do not go into debts to impress others.
Yhuuu watched this channel once with my bae😭 jiki jiki umntu is calling me with some "Babe have you seen the New video,yhoo are you going to do the same to me like Nozi did to Skhu" haibo
Aoooooowa, Skhu. Please do not listen to him Nozi. If you come to my wedding underdressed am chasing you away, nothing irritates me like people who do not respect people's weddings, yooooooh.
It's the realness for me❤❤ Skhu unfortunately your wife looks great in everything, she's got a beautiful body it doesn't matter what she's wearing 🤞🏼 🤣
Yio guys Ndiyanithanda...your stories are funny but very educational. Thank you Nozi for the free advice.😂😂😂 Definetly using them in my next relationship ( hopefully a promising one leading to marriage🙏).
Good for you Nozi 👊😁, you definitely asked the right questions. I also did the same with my then boyfriend, who is my husband now. Umntu must state their intentions and they need to be clear.
Not Skhu saying "I'm back, not by popular demand." 😂😂😭😭
Hahaha!
One thing about the Mayaba's? They'll deliver raw and great content. Thank you very much for this platform
Ohhh I love them ❤️❤️❤️ hay klk Khu...
@@ntuthundzongana9157 ha.ana Skhu❤️❤️❤️❤️. 😹😹😹 Wholesome content
so true
Like they talk about exes and personal experiences so openly❤️
I love how Mrs Mayaba is unapologetic about her stunts.. LOL.. God bless the union and the level of transparency. It is honestly helping us.
“Ai kalokhu Skhu” has to be my favourite line🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️
Case study;-The girl comes in fully loaded as an asset,educated,has a job ,has assets,has demonstrated ability to be home maker but still ,it’s a favor for a man to propose,It’s a sad reality across the globe!And the mans family has to approve.God help us women!
I tell you.
Lol, Nozi this story reminds me of how I asked my husband if he'd started his lobola fund a month or two into our relationship. After that conversation he called his financial advisor and they set it up. We got married that year. I agree with Skhu saying women must ask questions and have clarity.
Oh I am so I'm love with you guys. You are reviving what had died in me. I bless you that The Almighty hide you under His shadow.
Love this and I took note👏🏿
I love Nozi's SouthAfrican English😂😂😂
Those small funny arguments in the beginning of all videos😂❤️❤️..
Tell me about it 😅😂😂😂🤣
#suzettekeybah
🤣🤣 Like all the time, they never disappoint
I look forward to those fight😂😂vele ndihleke isangena
All the time 😂😂
It's a must kaloku😂😂😂
Nozi you hit the nail on the head! When you get to meet his family there's no turning back I feel you sis.
I love what Nozi was saying about ilobola and I have the same views. I believe that it is even up to us brides to speak to our families bangayibaxi. If we are old enough to marry, we are old enough to have tough conversations.
I completely completely agree with this...
Abazali bavele bathi sizenza cheap.... Njani when we're thinking about our future? Enye into, siyathengiswa nah kwacacba ilobola izawbaxwa kanje?
Totally agree, I also did that.
The banter between you two is everything😂, Nozi needs to allow uButhi Skhu to tell us the story about her Facebook date🤣
we want to know about the date!!!
I think she was making him jealous,she's wise
As for "I was thinking of going home and you jumped in..." Nozi is a true definition of taking what is yours unapologetically 🤣🤣🤣
I enjoy your conversations ...please add subtitles for when you speak the local language for your international followers
Nozi - when my hubby told his parents that he wants to marry me. The first question his father asked was "How much money do you have? He told him that he is not going to have the marriage conversation without money being sorted out first. Yho! I appreciated my father inlove so much yazi because shem umntu wam wadibanisa izinto zakhe wathengisa neemoto zakhe just so we can proceed with the marriage conversation.
The way SisNozi pays attention to her husband as he speaks.. I'm here for it, I love to see it... It commands even us to pay attention to the wisdom Ka BhutiSkhu
Ndiyanithanda. Especially Nozi for standing firm for what you want, seeking clarity in everything.
Nozi you are my role model bathong. You straight out prepared that man for you.
I love it when you laugh hard Nozi and umshaye uSkhu on the hand. Beautiful.
These videos always feel like therapy sessions 🥰🥰🥰i love you guys
My favs😍😍😍😍❤as for leaving rings all-over the place🤣🤣🤣that's a good one
I love how you pay attention to hubby, and facial expression encourages him to open up more.
I love how he looks at you and shakes his head, haha cute
I agree with you Bhuti Skhu, I think in a relationship, it's vital to know if you in it to play or for long term mutual interest (marriage), cause it's painful for both genders to have pure intentions for someone only to find out that you are a mere temporal contract
"How else is he going to know your ring size" Lmao l love Nozi🤣🤣🤣
‘I can’t be a rebound’🤣🤣 Nozi doesn’t play when it comes to finances 🔥Thanks for content you two 😍👏🏽
Nozi for leadership👊yhuu singaphela ngaba bhuti😂...wafika mntase sewu ready uzithe long dress ntombi😂😂
"If this 1 is not serious I know my mother in law is going to push"😂😂😂nans itip
Let's understand...Nozi is not a rebound 😂😂 love this lady
The smile on Skhu's face when Nozi talks 🥰❤️ yuuuuuh guys uthando 🥰🥰🥰🥰
I'm watching ndilapha e Matatiele bantase Eastern Cape❤️❤️❤️❤️♥️♥️😍
I love this! You guys are so realistic and raw, love how you are friends with each other❤️
Nozi is such a clever girl 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m in tears “I had to show them my capabilities “. The rings I’m dead🤣
My facial muscles got their workout for the day! I doubt that I laugh this much on other vlogs.
I bumped into your youtube channel and became your big fun instantly. I love your sense of humor. You two were made for each other.
Oh I love you guys soo much. Your authenticity, boldness, strength & realness.. Believe it or not you guys are changing lives and helping so many people out there. May God bless you more, all the way from Namibia 🇳🇦🇳🇦😘😘😘
Which country flag is this Suzette?
@@khulumandoda9595 Namibia
@@madamflames wow thanks there's a car I always see with it on the registration when we jog in the evenings but never got a chance to meet the owner and ask.
@@khulumandoda9595 you are welcome
@@madamflames hopefully one day yourself too will find you visiting Margate Beach (South Coast of KZN)
Skhu has explanations for everything 😂🤣
Dude😅😅
@@preciouskeigh love him for that
😂😂😂😂 purposely leave your ring for the ring size 😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭Nozi
Rebound=A project you are just managing 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's Skhu's explanations for me 😂😂😂
Project Manager - Skhumbuzo Goodman Mayaba
Sis 😭 🤣🤣
Your videos are so educational, honest and covers everything i was uncertain about . Thank you, Nozi for using your life stories as a tool to inspire and enhance our outlook on different topics! 🤝🏽
I've really been sleeping on you guys' content!! Love it so much!😂😂😂
The ring advise 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣! Y’all really make our day!
I have already asked my Boyfriend when he is marrying me, he said soon but I will tell him I need dates as well because I need assurance that I will happen
I love your openness, you guys are always fun to watch and thanks for looking out for the sisters Nozi and for all advices from both of you. I enjoyed this video.
😅😅Being introduced to family means nothing...it is no guarantee for marriage, some inlaws might be all fakes, including the boyfriend. They might even string you along as a makoti, meanwhile all other girlfriends are treated the same. At that stage never loose yourself in that promise, continue with your life until it is for real. Stop acting like a wife until you get there.
I agree with this. You will be putting in all this work that his family will be enjoying and he still wont marry you. Just do things because you want to and not as a performance.
Aii even when you get there mtase 🤣🤣🤣🤣 be the wife that does nothing hai singafa with this makoti thing!
So true, that's why I want to tell my sons that I don't want to see different faces, the day they decide to introduce a girl to us they must make sure it's the one they are serious about & ready to send uncles.
We need the full story of the sabbatical because the date posted on Facebook still seems to be an issue for Skhu, and he also has skeletons in his closet because he doesn’t want Nozi “laying it all on the floor” 🤣🤣🤣.
I died at that story at the end where the bride ended her friendship with Nozi after she showed up at her wedding (clearly upstaging the bride 😅). Nozi, please tell us- did you wear a bridal gown to the wedding? A red dress? Give us the juice 🤣🤣🤣
Love from Kenya 🇰🇪
I want to know all the above too😂😂😂 🇺🇬
Story tiiiimeeeee
I want to know too. Or maybe share pics.
Wow, you're so much on point. We want everything laid down on the floor. From both parties!
I laughed throughout this whole video. Haa, I also need to make things happen for myself this way!
😂😂 nkosiyami the way you always look at him in shock 😂😂😂😂
And ndingowokuqala ubukela lena 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻 notification gang 🕺
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I can't believe I subscribed but still been missing out on such great energy
I love this for you, Sis Nozi ❤️ you were intentional & deliberate with what you want. I'm here for this
I can't kaloku!! 😂😂😂 I felt that👏🏾
🤣😂🤣😂🤣The intro killed me!!! Awwww Skhuuuuu
You were wishy washy.. Hilarious 😂 😂 😂
I watched it from the beginning to the end wooooow I enjoyed... I was feeling insecure regarding asking my boyfriend such questions because I don't it to seem as if I am forcing him. Thank you so much for this❤❤❤❤❤
Sis don't be ashamed. We've been played for temporary woman for too long while a person is waiting for the right girl. You have a right to know especially when you can see that things are not adding up or going any particular direction
Getting married involves you, meaning it’s your life as well so you have every right to know where your own life is going, he won’t be doing you a favour, this is a joint decision. And if the answer is “not yet” then you must ask “why not now and if not now when?”. Some reasons are legitimate and if a man says that he’s not yet ready because of reasons that make sense, don’t be pushy. But he must be asked and he shouldn’t get defensive or think you’re desperate, those are little boys who shouldn’t even be dating.
I am officially addicted to you guys. You are a true definition of God's love
Thank you for a great teaching guys, very informative I needed this 👏🏽❣️
Loved this conversation guys😂 too many gems and words of wisdom 👌🏾👌🏾
Nozi and Skhu are a blessing to the nation yazi, everything you do and eventually post has a purpose. Siyabulela keep on doing you 'The Mayaba's'
You need to know the road the relationship is leading to
#Powerful
Nozi you actually now look younger and fresh compared to the time you met with Skhue kkkkkk. keep on serving the bedroom food frequently
😁😁
Nothing excites me more than Nozi saying "Skhu" & Skhu saying "tshini thiza" 😂😂😂😂
Then there's Nozi's "kaloku" that sounds so fancy you'd swear it went to Harvard 😂😂😂
Also ad Skhu saying "CZcams channel"
And when she says "u njalo ke wena" 🤣🤣🤣
Yambona le "kaloku"🤣🤣🤣🙆♀️
“I will lay it all on the floor.” 🤣🤣🤣
I love Nozibele. Straight forward about everything. Asks tough questions.
😂🤣🤣Nozi was veeery intentional kalok.🤣love u guys❣️
Basho “ill lay it all on the floor” 🤣🤣🤣
Listen he did such a fast u turn😭😭😭😭
@@yandisantlahla9190 jongi Uturn enjeni
Nozi & Skhu u guys were made for each other, I'm ano yenu is bomb👌❤️
Thank you Nozi for explaining the significant of Lobola (i share the same sentiments) we have to think of the after life and remember the reason for it......very important to ensure that both couples do not go into debts to impress others.
Thanks sis Nozi have been waiting for this upload 🥰🥰
My goodness my tummy hurts I laughed so hard through out this video😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂And the story at the end🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🤣🤣🤣
What a wonderful and informative video. Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
U make me laugh, Nozi gets me for real
My favourite couple big up watching from 🇧🇼
😂😂 when Nozi says "ai kaloku Skhu" 😍
😂😂😂.......kuthiwa waxhuma uNozi wathi singaya nakusasa eLusikisiki.
LOL sugeza I dieded right there
Yhuuu watched this channel once with my bae😭 jiki jiki umntu is calling me with some "Babe have you seen the New video,yhoo are you going to do the same to me like Nozi did to Skhu" haibo
Love you guys💛 kodwa Nozibele ndiyayithanda ienergy yakho
🤣😂 Not the short-term contracts and projects! 🤣😂
I love your videos guys, yhuuu Nozi awusandihlekisi sana, we all need to be bold like you ❤❤🤣🤣
Have not even watched but already liking the video. Happy to see you guys
Akavumi ukuba i'rebound🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"don't get overdressed" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣that part killed me
He was not rebounding but managing contracts 😅🤣😂😅
Yayivaa na Management 😂😂😂😂😂
It's the list for me hahahaha "dramatic, romantic..." 🤣 🤣 🤣 You're like me and we attract opposites
Aoooooowa, Skhu. Please do not listen to him Nozi. If you come to my wedding underdressed am chasing you away, nothing irritates me like people who do not respect people's weddings, yooooooh.
It's the realness for me❤❤
Skhu unfortunately your wife looks great in everything, she's got a beautiful body it doesn't matter what she's wearing 🤞🏼 🤣
Yio guys Ndiyanithanda...your stories are funny but very educational. Thank you Nozi for the free advice.😂😂😂 Definetly using them in my next relationship ( hopefully a promising one leading to marriage🙏).
It's Skhu being wishy washy for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I thoroughly enjoyed this!
Yhenina 🤣🤣🤣🤣bank statements, Nozie uyibhoza yam. Teach us gurl. Yhey awumdlali upuce
Lol 🤣🤣🤣 Laughed throughout this video.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣guys I can't ,"yooh ndikhe ndikusizele yhazi"
There is really much to learn from these collabs😘we really appreciate them.
That is the grand introduction plus half for me... Already I am in 😂😂😂😂oksa layo you are my fave couple❤️❤️❤️
Love you guys❤❤😂😂kumnandi emzini wenu
😂😂😂🤣😅 Hey Nozi bathong! Short term contracts
Hekeeeee Nozi wabaryt uJampe...Jonga uMazala approved you🤣❤
Rings everywhere🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I am⚰️.🤣
Mane ndisifa ndiyanithanda xem mna🤞🤣🤣🤣❤️😍😍😍😍😍
Good for you Nozi 👊😁, you definitely asked the right questions. I also did the same with my then boyfriend, who is my husband now. Umntu must state their intentions and they need to be clear.
Ncooh I LOVE this couple you so funny, I've watching you for quite a while now, I love this channel