Ndiyamthanda u Imi. I'm over 60 and she reminds me of my grand daughters. Imi and her Rhakgadi are close. How I wish every child in South Africa can be afforded an opportunity to be taken care of. What happened to our 'UBUNTU' culture. Her language development is advanced for her age. She's such a bubbly confident girl.
The 2 kids can move in with the brother then rent out the house imali yerent incedise kwibond or nirentise the brother’s house nibhatale ibond..icebo liyazakha kuzobaryt❤️❤️❤️ “my thoughts “
If no one tells you this let me be the one to, Nozibele you are awesome and what you are doing for those three children can never be quantifiable. My brother and I were in a similar position like those kids, and guess what we were raised by the community when our mother died I was 9 yrs old and my brother was 10 years old. In 2021 I am studying Post Graduate Diploma in Accounting Sciences (at age of 22) I have a degree girl, my brother is doing his final year in Logistics (at age of 23). All I am saying is do all you can which is within your control, those kids are Gods' favourite should anything happen to your mom/you/your brother he has a plan for them and they will grow and succeed.
Nozi, can I just say this. Thank you for shearing the most sensitive parts of your life. That is helping a lot of us to also look at ours on a bit of a lighter note and to know that no one is immune to these situations. That is the truest form of living this life. Thank you so much, Sis.
🙇♀️🙇♀️ Nozi when you said issa lot I felt that hey,aftr my grandmother passed away at the age of 24 years I had to now take care of my grandmother's house my baby sister and also help my uncle bcos he has been struggling to find a job to a point wer I even buy him clothes and on the other hand its myself and son and am in joburg, extended family members wer playing far now so everything is on me.so its alot I get whT you talking about but God is still sustaining us shem 🥰🥰🥰 Love you Kamogelo
I am so glad that your channel exists. It helped me think about a lot of things. Me and my mum discuss death quite a lot and for a while I encouraged her to think about life insurance. Because of my age, I cant be a beneficiary but she had a child at 43 when I was 17 and I knew I wouldn't be able to look after her full time had anything happened to my mother. I live in the UK and I've seen way too many people rallying for money to have funerals for their relatives. I didn't want to do the same God forbid anything happened to my mother. I looked after my sister a lot when she was a baby because my mother was away a lot. I did everything, I saw how hard it was. I'm a very objective thinker and I wanted to be realistic about the situation. At the end of the day I want the best for my mother in her passing when she transitions and the best possible upbringing for my younger sibling. For all your eye opening discussions, I thank you ❤
Only started watching your vids a few days ago. You make me believe that life is still worth living, and that maybe, with self love and acceptance, it will one day genuinely be happy.
You doing such an incredible job by taking care of Imi and your whole familly may Jehovah continue blessing and giving you strength to keep on ,,,,,,lots of love ❤🤍❤🤍❤🤍🌷🤍🌷🤍🌷
I never wanted to have kids but here I am raising my late sisters 3year old and love her from the moon and back. You’re doing an amazing job. Tough but worth it
It's good to plan ahead but ningavumi ukuba lento ini affect nicinge ngayo kakhulu. Mom will no pass away not anytime soon. God knows she is raising these 3 kids, so he has already blessed her will long life🙏🙏🙏
You're a really brave girl for sharing so openly! Enjoy the highs and embrace the lows. Ga gona anything such as Perfect. One day at a time is the only way to do it. All the best and I wish you all the happiness and love in your home. Happy adjusting!
You have basically related what every parent goes through, im in awe of how sincere you are about the whole experience. God bless you and hubby for being selfless.
All the best on this journey with Imi❤ All your efforts are definitely not going in vain, it may feel a lot for now but you are doing well. Thank you for sharing this journey with us.
You are doing a good job with Imi, parenthood is an amazing journey whether you gave birth or not it’s still a blessing. Just be patient with her and yourself and enjoy the process. More grace and blessings from the Almighty.
The way I'm so emotional watching this video, it got me crying because I'm in the same situation and people just don't know when to stop, I also went to different Doctors and they said everything is fine, but everytime when we trying with my partner nothing happens for the past years, I'm emotional drained especially when people would ask insensitive questions and sometimes I would brush it off and say I'm just focusing on myself not knowing every month end when I'm getting my periods I feel like dying, hang in the Nozi everything happens for a reason,you might not see it now but unike idolo ukutya kwalo sisi uthandaze
Sending you hugs and kisses. You will conceive when you take your mind off it, difficult as it may be. Try finding something to preoccupy your mind, it might help
Thanks for your honesty and transparency Sis! It was really encouraging to listening to your day to day challenges and how you are adjusting through them💞God Bless
Nozi....I admire your honesty. You are such an amazing woman. I am truly impressed by your kindness and sacrifice for your family. I pray that God remembers you and pays you back 100 fold.
I love you, you are amazing mama ka Imi. You are groeing and im happy for you. Ups abd downs come with life, You know God, you have seen Him in your life, He will always come through for you & Skhu. Love you my sister 😘😘
One thing about you!! You Consistent about your content, i love that so much...i just saw the update that you will do this video ,and I can't believe you've already done and uploaded, love that kemna!!!
Nozi I know exactly what you're going through, I'm 39 and I don't have kids of my own but I'm parenting my late brother's kids. It really pisses me off when people ask me when am I getting my own child. Sis live your life the way you want and don't mind what everyone is saying. Being a mother is not only raising your biological kids, you are doing a good job site💕
Yhaaa nhe, I wish people can stop putting others in so much pressure ngabantwana. Take your time sis. When you ready, u will have kids. Abantwana bavela kuThixo, when the time is right, u will conceive.
I have a feeling that you are going to conceive very soon now because she is with you guys and you are busy with her and your womb is relaxed. Good things happen when our hearts are full
God bless you and your husband for welcoming Imi into your new home and raising her. ❤️ Sisuka kwizandla ezifana nezakho singabaye and we have grown up to be strong women.
Love you so much girl. To take up such responsibility may God give you strength and wisdom. Can grown ass women stop asking other women when will they have kids 🤦♀️... you cant ask such.
God will help you don’t think too much about it It’s doable I raised my sister with no job bo family support I was doing matric but I vow she will never go to foster care after my mum pass .I will take care of she’s now 24 doing Law degree . She’s one of the best things ever happened to me Just pray for your family you will be ok
Refrain from such questions. Stolen asking people when are they having kids, when are they having sec child or so . When are they getting married? When are they buying a house or car . We need to stop!!!
I think it’s rude to ask people about having kids. It’s boring and insensitive. Also you doing amazing my sis. ❤️
it's very rude and uncivilized mtase!
It's usually from a good place...I don't think people say that just to hurt her. It's a teachable moment for her viewers!
Nozi with such a warm heart will not take offense.She has taken a step to open up her life to the public
Its "Imi's prayer" for me 😍😍😂
and she was watching TV whilst praying lol...
While looking onto the tv🌚👀😂
The prayer!😍😍😍
"Thank you Lord for Imi abemhle!"
Jonga Imi is a princess and she knows it😍😍😍❤
😹😹 she saying her prayer while watching opopayi ke phof
Nana Pato thought I noticed that ndodwa🤣🤣🤣
Ndiyamthanda u Imi. I'm over 60 and she reminds me of my grand daughters. Imi and her Rhakgadi are close. How I wish every child in South Africa can be afforded an opportunity to be taken care of. What happened to our 'UBUNTU' culture. Her language development is advanced for her age. She's such a bubbly confident girl.
This wasn’t an easy topic for you to talk about. Big hug 🤗 💝.
Lol, she’s praying while watching cartoons 🥰
Imi’s prayer bethuna 🥺❤️❤️
Being a parent does not only apply to the person who gave birth. You guys are already parents. Quite uplifting🌹🌹🌹💝💝💝
The 2 kids can move in with the brother then rent out the house imali yerent incedise kwibond or nirentise the brother’s house nibhatale ibond..icebo liyazakha kuzobaryt❤️❤️❤️ “my thoughts “
If no one tells you this let me be the one to, Nozibele you are awesome and what you are doing for those three children can never be quantifiable. My brother and I were in a similar position like those kids, and guess what we were raised by the community when our mother died I was 9 yrs old and my brother was 10 years old. In 2021 I am studying Post Graduate Diploma in Accounting Sciences (at age of 22) I have a degree girl, my brother is doing his final year in Logistics (at age of 23). All I am saying is do all you can which is within your control, those kids are Gods' favourite should anything happen to your mom/you/your brother he has a plan for them and they will grow and succeed.
Hey girl, can i ask where are you based? I'm also doing PGDA distance learning based in Pretoria.
@@ndalamamashabele5956 Hello I am in Johannesburg, I am studying at UJ full-time
Let us pray with Imi bantase, she doesn't want to pinch other kids at school hle 😂. Love you guys ❤️
I need to start off my day by thanking God for ubamhle nam mntakabawo😌💕
Nozi, can I just say this. Thank you for shearing the most sensitive parts of your life. That is helping a lot of us to also look at ours on a bit of a lighter note and to know that no one is immune to these situations. That is the truest form of living this life. Thank you so much, Sis.
I love your honesty. You have so many responsibilities at such a young age but handle them very well.
I’m here for the good sis Imi ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Marking iRegister
1st in class
🙇♀️🙇♀️ Nozi when you said issa lot I felt that hey,aftr my grandmother passed away at the age of 24 years I had to now take care of my grandmother's house my baby sister and also help my uncle bcos he has been struggling to find a job to a point wer I even buy him clothes and on the other hand its myself and son and am in joburg, extended family members wer playing far now so everything is on me.so its alot I get whT you talking about but God is still sustaining us shem 🥰🥰🥰
Love you
Kamogelo
I love seeing you with Imi honestly... She lights you up ❤️😍
I am so glad that your channel exists. It helped me think about a lot of things. Me and my mum discuss death quite a lot and for a while I encouraged her to think about life insurance. Because of my age, I cant be a beneficiary but she had a child at 43 when I was 17 and I knew I wouldn't be able to look after her full time had anything happened to my mother. I live in the UK and I've seen way too many people rallying for money to have funerals for their relatives. I didn't want to do the same God forbid anything happened to my mother. I looked after my sister a lot when she was a baby because my mother was away a lot. I did everything, I saw how hard it was. I'm a very objective thinker and I wanted to be realistic about the situation. At the end of the day I want the best for my mother in her passing when she transitions and the best possible upbringing for my younger sibling. For all your eye opening discussions, I thank you ❤
That prayer before she left for school 😭❤️ children are precious🥺
It's the consistent prayer for me ❤️😂 Imi is so cute!
Only started watching your vids a few days ago. You make me believe that life is still worth living, and that maybe, with self love and acceptance, it will one day genuinely be happy.
You doing such an incredible job by taking care of Imi and your whole familly may Jehovah continue blessing and giving you strength to keep on ,,,,,,lots of love ❤🤍❤🤍❤🤍🌷🤍🌷🤍🌷
Imi is a very special and brilliant child ❤️absolutely love her. You're doing good Mommy 🤗
I never wanted to have kids but here I am raising my late sisters 3year old and love her from the moon and back. You’re doing an amazing job. Tough but worth it
It's good to plan ahead but ningavumi ukuba lento ini affect nicinge ngayo kakhulu. Mom will no pass away not anytime soon. God knows she is raising these 3 kids, so he has already blessed her will long life🙏🙏🙏
I wonder how you are managing knowing you're not a morning person. Wishing you all the best sis. Let me watch😍☺️
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Strength, light and more blessings to you Nozi ❤️🤗🤲🏽 you’re doing such an incredible job!
It takes a strong person to do what you do, so proud of you.
The little miss is so adorable, jonga the confidence! 💕
Imi’s personality is so beautiful 😍.You’re doing a good job!
I learn something new everytime I listen to you sis! Not yet married and don't have a family of my own yet but you've educated me
You have such a beautiful heart. It is so beautiful to see how you put your family first and operate with love and empathy.
You're a really brave girl for sharing so openly! Enjoy the highs and embrace the lows. Ga gona anything such as Perfect. One day at a time is the only way to do it. All the best and I wish you all the happiness and love in your home. Happy adjusting!
One day at a time will get you far, enjoy Imi.. She is so cute 😍
I love Imi's prayer and how she multitasks while doing it. So it's the cantoons then she's praying. I love you so much
So proud of you! I love your content, and the wisdom you always share ❤️🙏🏽
God bless you abundantly 😊🙏🏽
You have a good heart Nozi full of love and compassion.God will carry you in everything you do.Many more blessings to you ❤
You have basically related what every parent goes through, im in awe of how sincere you are about the whole experience. God bless you and hubby for being selfless.
That mommy instincts is kicking in dabawo. No more being a heavy sleeper😄.
All the best on this journey with Imi❤ All your efforts are definitely not going in vain, it may feel a lot for now but you are doing well. Thank you for sharing this journey with us.
You on your way to 100 subbies❤️
You are doing a good job with Imi, parenthood is an amazing journey whether you gave birth or not it’s still a blessing. Just be patient with her and yourself and enjoy the process. More grace and blessings from the Almighty.
You are such a good daughter taking care of your ma that way. God bless
The way I'm so emotional watching this video, it got me crying because I'm in the same situation and people just don't know when to stop, I also went to different Doctors and they said everything is fine, but everytime when we trying with my partner nothing happens for the past years, I'm emotional drained especially when people would ask insensitive questions and sometimes I would brush it off and say I'm just focusing on myself not knowing every month end when I'm getting my periods I feel like dying, hang in the Nozi everything happens for a reason,you might not see it now but unike idolo ukutya kwalo sisi uthandaze
Sending you hugs and kisses. You will conceive when you take your mind off it, difficult as it may be. Try finding something to preoccupy your mind, it might help
Check your thyroid glands and prolactin levels..take black seed oil..you will be a mom soon enough..hugs🌹
Sending love and light to you my angel ❤️. It will happen in God’s time ❤️
Oh I love this child. Always vibrant and active. Wenza umdla maan❤❤❤❤
That morning prayer by Imi ❤️ , just made my morning 🤗
You are doing a good job my friend... Well done❤️❤️
Loved this episode all the best, I can’t wait to experience parenthood and making these kind adjustments
Amen Imi bless you cc Nozi for such an amazing person you are
Thanks for your honesty and transparency Sis! It was really encouraging to listening to your day to day challenges and how you are adjusting through them💞God Bless
Nozi....I admire your honesty.
You are such an amazing woman. I am truly impressed by your kindness and sacrifice for your family. I pray that God remembers you and pays you back 100 fold.
This left me in tears 😭😭😭
Thank you for the wise words . Much love to you ...
Don't sell the house,Let the kids stay there and find a houselp and visit often.The house has memories.
So true I think that's the best thing she can do .
I love you, you are amazing mama ka Imi. You are groeing and im happy for you. Ups abd downs come with life, You know God, you have seen Him in your life, He will always come through for you & Skhu. Love you my sister 😘😘
Imi is so lucky to have such a loving family....❤❤❤
You're such a phenomenal human being, I loooove everything about you 😭♥️.. All the best sis' ♥️
Love her multitasking ability...watching TV & Prayer....
One thing about you!! You Consistent about your content, i love that so much...i just saw the update that you will do this video ,and I can't believe you've already done and uploaded, love that kemna!!!
Nozi I know exactly what you're going through, I'm 39 and I don't have kids of my own but I'm parenting my late brother's kids. It really pisses me off when people ask me when am I getting my own child. Sis live your life the way you want and don't mind what everyone is saying. Being a mother is not only raising your biological kids, you are doing a good job site💕
Love and light to you Nozi. Strong woman you are ❤️
This woman is everything !!❤️❤️ may God bless you
This was heart warming.
Sis Nozi may God bless you abundantly .What you doing for Imi is magical
We are here ..... been waiting for this notification 💃🏽💃🏽🌹
Thank you for your story girl.We all have these family dynamics.We constantly worry what happens to our homes when our mothers pass
She's blessed to have an Aunt like you❤
I just love you.. and May God bless more you cc .
You are amazing Nozi!
Yhaaa nhe, I wish people can stop putting others in so much pressure ngabantwana. Take your time sis. When you ready, u will have kids. Abantwana bavela kuThixo, when the time is right, u will conceive.
I have a feeling that you are going to conceive very soon now because she is with you guys and you are busy with her and your womb is relaxed. Good things happen when our hearts are full
Like they will assist with maintenance
She is soo adorable 😍, loved the prayer
Imi is very blessed to have you... ❤
In Such A Situation Nozi Please Surrender It To GOD ..HE Will Make A Way 🙏
I like your point
Road to 100k 💃🏽💃🏽 Imi is a fave ❤️
You're a natural mother yaz😊
Ow maan Nozi you are such a blessing. May God continue to use and to bless u ❤
It’s Imi praying whist watching tv for me 😂🤣🥰
Imi is my person hle. Love you so much Nozi
You are doing well n may God bless this beautiful journey
U deserve all the happiness in the world
You’re such a blessing to your family Nozi❤️ uThixo abenani anisikelele.
🤣🤣the prayer....I love her already. Thanks SisNozi
Yo Nozi you are truly an amazing person. You literally became a mom overnight so don't be hard on yourself you are doing well😚
Beautiful small family, love your smile.
You’re wonderful!😭🥺
Thoroughly enjoyed this video!
You have such a big heart, and would do anything and everything for your family. God will bless you.ungakhathali ukwenza okuhle
So close to 100k subscribers, love to see it. You are doing great sis❤️💐
You're probably the most honest youtuber I've ever come across.
Imi's prayer 😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. It's a bomb! 😍😍😍😍😍😍
OMG you're such a vibe 😂❤️
You're handling it like a pro. You'd swear you've been doing this forever
You're soooo pretty.... All I could do was to look at your pretty face... You're doing a great job raising Imi.... Good luck sweetheart
God bless you and your husband for welcoming Imi into your new home and raising her. ❤️ Sisuka kwizandla ezifana nezakho singabaye and we have grown up to be strong women.
Love you so much girl. To take up such responsibility may God give you strength and wisdom. Can grown ass women stop asking other women when will they have kids 🤦♀️... you cant ask such.
God will help you don’t think too much about it
It’s doable I raised my sister with no job bo family support I was doing matric but I vow she will never go to foster care after my mum pass .I will take care of she’s now 24 doing Law degree . She’s one of the best things ever happened to me
Just pray for your family you will be ok
Thank you for sharing you and your life, with us. Siyafunda, siyakhula, uyasakha. Blessings and peace to you Beloved Queen ❤️🙏🏽❤️
Refrain from such questions. Stolen asking people when are they having kids, when are they having sec child or so . When are they getting married? When are they buying a house or car . We need to stop!!!
Louder dear
It really needs to stop
Awumhle cc🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👌♥️💯.. Yhuu umhlaba ungaze uwuthengise mntase nanini nah, ningase nibaqashele aunty nam ndikhule njalo cc and mama keyena ebephangela. Kungna asohlala ngku naye emzini wakhe kuba ese wapenshela sana, ndikhule ndihlala noSisi oqashiweyo ndimdala ngku cc.
#150k almost so awesome.....loved this video so.beautiful loved this
Your beauty is a reflection of your heart. It's amazing to watch. UThixo uzomkumgcina uMa kangangoko kumele. Uyathandwa ndim sana.