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Starting to Date Again: Getting Over the Fear of Dating Again
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- čas přidán 14. 08. 2024
- Come hang out with me as I talk through why I took a break from dating, what's changed to make me want to start dating again, my fears of dating, and how I plan to get over the fear of dating again. Whether you're trying to start dating again after a breakup, dating again after a divorce or just looking to change your mindset around dating...hopefully my two cents on this dating advice can help steer you in the right direction. Dating is HARD, it takes a lot of effort and it really takes the right mindset.
After essentially a year-long break from dating, im getting ready to start dating again. Y'all wish me luck!
-- CHAPTERS --
0:00 - 1:15 : Intro
1:16 - 6:36 : Why I Took a Break From Dating
6:37 - 7:32 : Dating Fears
7:33 - 11:30 : Why I Want to Start Dating Again
11:31 - 15:14 : Changing the Way I Date
15:15 - 17:16 : How I’m Dating
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You are ready. I've heard Chicago is a great place to date; lots of options, lots of things to do, even in winter. Let your friends know if you haven't already that you are looking, and check out local meetups that are based around things you're interested in, just to go and have a good time - maybe you'll find someone there, but even if you don't, you'll meet like-minded people anyway! JMHO, I'm not gonna say don't use the apps but I would limit your time on them; they are a time suck. When you do meet someone you click with, after you've been together for awhile, re-watch this video and make sure you're still aligned with your own goals. GOOD LUCK!
All such great advice, thank you!!
Good luck! You will learn a lot about yourself. You’ve removed a lot of noise from your life. You know what you need to do. Be completely honest with yourself and your date about your needs. Be gracious when those needs aren’t met or if that person can’t meet those needs but still bow out of the next date when it doesn’t work. Dating sucks, but is amazing when it’s what works for you.
couldn’t agree more!!
Man those avoidant people are so attractive, I'm so over unequal shit in my life. Lifes too damn short.
preach!! couldn’t agree more
Another great video. This is probably my favorite video to date. It’s awesome that you are getting back out there. Good luck. Also, if you decide to move again, Denver is not too bad 😉
Thank you!!
Hello! I am from Paris, and I am experiencing precisely the same struggles with the same type of guys who tend to be emotionally detached. My ex and I recently parted ways just two days ago. The reason behind the breakup was his deep-seated loneliness as an introverted individual... I had a strong desire to explore new experiences with him, which makes the separation all the more challenging. Despite being very independent in my work and friendships, the idea of being on my own is quite frightening. Paradoxically, I currently lack any interest in meeting new guys. Thank you for sharing this truly instructive video!
thank you for sharing this!! you seem to have a very good head on your shoulders about why things ended, i have a feeling your world is about to open up on your own. i know it’s tough though, time truly does help! you got this!!
Poor guys.
Be kind and let your first few dates know that youre just warming up and arent really interested.
Its great youre getting back out there though, i worry youre fallling into the trap of thinking you have endless options.
love your view on things, good luck!
Thank you!!
Natural beauty 🥰🥰🥰
thank you!!
I wish you luck of course but this video is very disturbing to me :-) What exactly are you looking for? Why you want to date, why "get dates under your belt", why go on apps? Obviously it depends of what kind of relationship you're looking for but if you were looking for casual sex you wouldn't feel the need to talk about it, it's not hard to come by. If you're looking for a lifetime thing on the other hand, then you have an awful mindset and a way to go about it, in my opinion. To be able to find this kind of relationship what you really need to do is live your life and work towards your goals, meet people naturally along your path, don't dive into romance, just talk, find common ground, work together on something etc, that's the way, gratification will not be instant, not even quick, but it will be natural and good. This "dating" game will not get you anywhere nice, only places you've already been to, doing the same thing expecting different result never pans out. Otherwise, if dating for you is the way to spend time, go on :-)
My perspective anyway, I might be completely wrong of course, I'm married for 20 years so what do I know about forced dating except that it never worked out for anyone I know :-)
Wish you the best however!
I’m stop listening when you said you were selfishly centred on yourself.
who are you, and where is ban button