Owner Allows Dog's Bad Behavior! | Full Episode USA | It's Me or The Dog
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- Victoria tackles a love triangle with Adam, his girlfriend & his two dogs. Dogs Luca & Zoey run the house!
US Season 1 Episode 16
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They should rename this show "Dump the Boyfriend."
AMEN!!
Girlfriends or boyfriends can always be controlling. Its a joint effort.
Facts!!!
@@wolventiger yeah but making out with your dog sure does nothing to help with that 😂 gross
oh yes! Adam is not taking responsibility for these dogs because he is putting the blame on Layla.
RUN LAYLA RUN! you deserve sooo much better than this doofus.
She did run! This was filmed around 2009. Layla left Adam and has been in a relationship with someone else since about 2014.
@@winniereilly how do you know that?
@@winniereilly good ending
@@winniereilly how do I know lol?
@@winniereilly Good! The fact he said on camera that Zoey is first priority is a huge red flag. I love dogs too, but I also love not being single.
Layla deserves a apology from adam it breaks my heart seeing her bitten etc her boyfriend doesn’t care ❤
No adam should get an apology too
Yeah, he doesn't seem to care about her at all. She deserves a better boyfriend tbh.
Why do you comment on every one of these videos? I don’t mean this as hate. I’m just curious
@@america2793 for what?
She deserves an upgrade on boyfriend... Apologies from peoples like adam are worthless
He's in a love relationship with his dogs instead of his actual girlfriend. Weird. And you can't even blame the dogs for their behavior. This guy just never said no to them. Imagine having real kids with this man... 😬
it would be worse.
it's not only about the man, its also how the dogs would react to a baby.
And just because a man is loving his dog, and giving it affection, doesnt mean hes inlove with it.
He could be a great husband with kids, and im sure he knows how kids are supposed to be treated.
@@komimissekathe doesn't even knows how to communicate or hold himself accountable and he will be a great father? You gotta be kiddin me
Yea and the picture thing kinda threw me off ngl lol like why is the dog scared of a camera
The boyfriend was so weird he comes off like the type of person that partakes in zoophilia with his animals. Now I’m only speculating cause he might be the worst I’ve ever seen as far as the treating like humans etc. other people who have had similar issues on these episodes really didn’t understand what they were doing and were actually trying to make positive changes that was good for there dogs and for them. He just seems to want to live in some creepy bubble with these dogs. All the time.
Compliments to this show's editing team, the romantic music playing when Adam was snuggling up with Zoey and Victoria looking to the camera like, "What the hell?" was _gold._
I don’t always actively wish for the guy to be left alone with the dogs but this episode? Holy hell it’s like he’s never actually taken her needs into account and she just felt obligated to move in so they could split bills
It’s more like a flatmate situation rather than a dating situation… She should get out and fast…
In fairness, he's never taken the dogs needs into account either. A happy dog needs clear rules that never change, it's not being "mean", it actually makes their life easier
My boyfriend doesn’t pay any bills. I’m disabled, he’s meant to be my carer. I spend all my disability money on bills and his dog instead of surgery and a wheelchair so I can get it if this house. He’s left me with his akita cross husky that doesn’t get walked enough and has dislocated my cervical spine. He’s been away since Sunday and didn’t clean up a week’s worth of poop before he left so I made a point of leaving it for him to do this time.
@@SobrietyandSolaceyou should be able to get a carer come in that is better suited towards your needs, honestly it sounds like he's expecting you to be more his carer. I'm on disability myself and I know we don't make enough to be sugar mama's and that's how it sounds like he's treating you. You should have a long talk with him about it and if he's unwilling to change then you deserve better. Also my mom had my dad as her carer and he was still about to hold down a job, he just worked in the evenings after dinner when my mom didn't really need him as much. Your health matters, the surgery and wheelchair you need matters. I know your comment is a couple moments old and I how you are in a much better place in your life
@@SobrietyandSolacethis is not a good situation for you. Your boyfriend does not make your needs and welfare a priority and neglects them. It sounds like you’re being taken advantage of.
This episode really opened my eyes because i use to excuse my dog's behaviour just like this. She was a rescue that lived a terrible life before, and i wanted to completely spoil her so much that i didn't realize her behaviour was so bad because of me.
It sucks because it's such a common trap to fall into with any rescue animal. Anyone's natural response would be to completely lavish them with everything and anything they want. But rescues more often than not need more structure and discipline because most have suffered trauma. Trauma leads to more severe behavioral issues. The best thing you can do for a rescue with a bad past is to give them that structure because it will make them feel more safe and confident, dampening their anxieties and making them happier.
Good for you for recognizing that.
@@ashh1881 Very well said.
It's hard isn't it? Our instinct is to make up for they're unhappy early life. Mine also a rescue, but I'm lucky he has calm and polite demeanor. I always corrected him when he's out of line, which is rare. I spoil him when he's in a calm and relax state.
You were wise to realize indulgence, without rules, is not good.
This man is NOT ready for a relationship or a family. RUN GIRL RUN!!!
Rewatching this episode as an adult, I feel that Adam may have some deeply rooted trauma in his past that’s he’s continuously self-soothing via his dogs. Most people beg and plead for a relationship. He literally has one and is completely ignoring his girlfriend’s needs. No bueno.
That's what I was thinking, and also that the dog was a good way to avoid intimacy in bed. He was hiding behind her.
Whatever his issue is he needs to address it like a mature adult and Layla needs to leave for her own safety and emotional well-being. This guy has ZERO respect for her - it’s tragic.
I don’t know about a deep rooted trauma, but he definitely enjoys being in a bubble with his animals. There’s something very off. It was creepy and unsettling. I doubt he changed (or wanted to do this training). I switched off early.
@@4Mr.Crowley2according to people in the comments, she did leave. Thank goodness. The writing was on the wall. Not even red flags at this point. Red tidal waves..
yeah I realised that too but he needs to work on that then and not bring a human being into the mix
His silly smile, hey your dogs bites her. Go, Lady, go fast and never look back.
"My dogs are like my children" OK, but children also need boundaries and discipline! Your job as a parent, of humans or pets, is not to make sure they're happy all day, all the time--it's to make sure they're happy long-term because they're secure and functional. If nobody likes your kids or your pets because of their behavior, you haven't done your job.
EXACTLY. My dog is like my " child" but boundaries and discipline are important. The way you do those things depend. But either way, boundaries and discipline are needed.
Not if you are a billionaire in Beverly Hills, you let your 19 yr old drive your Ferrari and killed 4 people and got away
I completely agree. Dogs need a clear set of rules and boundries to follow. They need to know what's expected of them. They're much happier (and safer) that way.
@@blueflare3848 that could just be your projection, or human’s projection in general for what’s convenient for us. Kinda like; I’m sure the poor would rather he poor and have 10 children, they are much happier that way.
@@oaktharas It's true. Dogs feel safe and confident when they have a solid structure. They feel more comfortable when they know what to expect. Regardless, dogs still need boundries for their own safety and the safety of others. Having rules is far from being harmful. If you don't set boundries or your dog doesn't respect you then you can end up with a dog that behaves like the one in the video.
I felt so bad for Layla, obviously a beautiful and smart woman who is trying to start a family and has her priorities straight-but Adam is being a selfish brat who only cares for himself.
So he is a man?
Not that smart if she’s continuing to stay with a man who very obviously demonstrates that he does not care about her…
it's good to be selfish mate
@@kikialeaki1850 this was in 2009. She left him shortly after. Probably both dogs are dead by now
@@TifarahL doesn’t matter when it was really. We’re talking about that point in time, not present day.
That mutt bit not only Layla, but her mother! And that guy is ok with it! Wow. That's an assault and it hurts.
His dog is going to bite the wrong person and will be put down due to his owner being a needy spoiler
I treat my animals as my furry children, but the huge difference is that i not only discipline them and not allow them to get away with bad behavior but also am careful in what " treats " they get. I consider myself a pet parent but i understand the difference between two legged and four legged ' children'
Same 🐾💜🐾
Facts
Exactly, this was really well worded
Exactly. I don’t see my dog and cat as my children personally. But I support anyone that has a level head about what there dogs actually need. If you love them and they are your fur babies that’s awesome. As long as those dogs are getting what a dog needs.
I agree. Dogs are not the same as humans. There are some similarities between raising a dog and a child, but they are still two entirely different things. You can treat your dog well and be a good pet parent while still acknowledging this. Dogs need a healthy set of rules and boundries to follow. They need to know what's expected of them.
Can someone explain why guys in so many of these it’s me or the dog videos are in such denial over the dogs. What makes him think that this behavior is OK?
Generational family trauma
becasue she doesnt leave so he doesnt need to change his behaviour or the dogs
They’re in denial about everything, not just the dogs, tbh; it always seems to be the same kind of guys who can hardly ever admit that they’re the one in the wrong
@@StellaKnights I don't think it's her fault...
No one has ever told them that they are wrong.
Layla this man does not respect you or love you. He’s showing that very clearly. This will only get worse over time and you deserve so much better. This is just tragic. Adam will fix nothing long term and his indifferent behavior towards Layla is infuriating.
Yes, this! Even at the end of the episode when Adam & Layla were laying on the bed & Zoe was on her bed, Adam had his entire back towards Layla, & had his entire body faced towards Zoe. I cringed when I saw this. Zoe may be no longer on the bed, but Adam is still all about Zoe & not Layla. Layla girl- you deserve so much better!
Agree, it's painful to watch because I've been there. Young people don't notice when ppl don't like or respect them.
Someone in the comments said she left him
He says very early on ‘Zoey is always my #1 priority when I get into bed”. 5:49. She couldn’t see the 🚩🚩
Oh she’s noticing alright, she’s just in denial about what the actual problem is. The dogs are being mismanaged but the problem with their relationship isn’t the dogs.
Seems like the dude is in love with his dog more than his girlfriend.
Girl, don't have kids with this man. They would be out of control!
Assuming they don’t get attacked by Luca before they’re old enough to even be out of control
you arent sure if they want kids, or know how to treat/control the kids.
+ you cant just tell them to now have kids, when you dont know anything about them 💀
@@komimissekatBut we do know several things about them, it's in the show literary. If you can't handle dogs, you most likely can't handle children and they require far FAR more out of you than pets. His whole attitude towards his gf and denial issues etc is not really good parent material. Might change though, there's always hope.
@@Mintylight This is correct! As a career nanny who's helped dozens of families, those animal parent's who spoil their kids rarely make good parent material! If you can train a dog, you can parent - the trouble is most ppl can't handle themselves, let alone dogs and children LOL
@@komimissekat she said she wanted to start a family
Imagine being the neighbours listening to that barking all day 🤯
Yep. I have a chihuahua that barely barks because I train him not to. Can’t imagine listening to my dog bark all day long
Its normal for dogs to bark, but they shouldn't be ALL DAY. jeesh, i absolutely love dogs and i have one my self so dont get me wrong. But i wouldnt able to tolerate SO MUCH barking.
Yeah, no. I could never deal with that all day
Had a chihuahua in the flat below that barked non stop, all the neighbours & ourselves complained to the management company. Owner was told to get the dog under control or get rid of it. Guess what - she trained it & it now only barks if someone rings their door bell, which is great.
My dog only barks while outside and I try not to let her out too early or late to be respectful to my neighbors
Adam is not ready for a relationship. Like. The dogs are a secondary thing here honestly, what most of these issues seem to stem from is the fact that _Adam is not ready to be in a relationship, period._
Adam's body language in the bed is still 100% oriented toward Zoe even with the separate bed...
His dog is his secret girlfriend 😂
Zoe was off the bed, that's the most important thing about this.
The way this guy said “Zoe is my first priority when I get into bed” is weird and gross. I (hope) he didn’t mean it in that way, but don’t say that crap. That’s freaking weird.
It's definitely very weird and not notmal.. ick
The guy has serious issues that he needs to solve, this is terrible for his girlfriend.
Tell me you have relationship issues without telling me... A boyfriend that allows his dogs to bite you is a red flag. They do his bidding.
He really needs to sort out his issues.
Exactly my husband had a demanding temperamental cat when we began dating. When we got serious she tried to attack me once. I got away from her before she could make contact with me. My husband considered getting rid of her right then. He had asked me to move in around that time. I told him he didn’t have to get rid of her. However that if I am to move in that the cat needs to be under control or she’s a full time outside cat. Which he respected and we worked together and we got her under control. 5 years later we still have that cat we have a dog. Are married with two kids now. It can be solved. But this Adam guy didn’t seem to care about Layla at all and his love to the dogs almost seemed romantic which was really gross.
Adults in denial scare me the most...and I'm an adult myself. It's like... not all their brain screws are in tact or something. A dog bites your foot....and you are okay. A dog bites your girlfriend/spouse and you laugh it off. A screw must be loose.
Exactly
The way my dog plays with ppl is basically the same she does with other dogs but she knows not to bite too hard❤
When I tell her to stop she's looks sad but listens
@abrielc6157 exactly. I taught my dog that bites is a no no and not too hard especially around kids and etc. Dogs are very smart and can be taught
I suspect he doesn't want intimacy,doesn't seem fazed about losing his girlfriend
When he starts the conversation "well...." When asked if he wants to stay with laylah
Because he has to meet a humans emotional needs, whereas he can take from dogs and they don't demand emotionally the way humans do
I would have left him way before now. I don’t even let my own dogs do crap like this.
Same.
I think the worst thing on this whole situation for me is that Adam feels like he is soooo good to his dogs. But his dogs are nervous and cautious of him, not really a good bond there. I feel like he is suffocating them and his girlfriend takes the aftermath. There really should be a dog holders licence.
Nothing annoys me more than someone who doesn't train their dog and then it bites people and the dog gets put down. There's no bad dogs but bad owners no matter the intentions are good or not
Completely agree! How does someone claim to love their dogs and then raise them with no boundaries?
Pack your bags, girl and run. Don’t walk as far away as possible. Don’t look back and find someone that will appreciate you! I’ve been in a loveless marriage before more than once. You are worth more than that!
I don't want Zoë and Luka to get in trouble. No buddy, I suspect that'll be you 😂
The man obviously has a screw loose. The guy was a nut job
Run, dont walk, and find a man who wants a human mate. It's great that the dogs can be helped buy I'm not convinced the same applies to that guy.
I don't know how Victoria actually deals with some of these people. He's so creepy the way he treats those dogs. I would have already left honestly, someone that pathetic deserves to be alone. The dog Luka is actually a horrible dog because of the way he treats them.
Amen. I could tolerate Zoe cause at least she’s sweet and friendly. Lukas demanding behavior would make me angry in the first 5 minutes honestly
@18:51 Adam looking to Victoria for approval was honestly adorable. Otherwise this guy is just walking red flags, I can't find out why Layla has given him all of these chances.
Eh, I've seen worse on this show.
What had me laughing a bit was glancing over at my cat- who had gone really quiet for last half of the show- & realizing that he was literally watching it with me! He was so focused on the TV that I really thought that he was "learning" also, all for his "evil desire to dominate the world of pups!"🤣🤣🤣😼 It was too comical!
Adam truly doesn't care for Leyla.
Absolutely LOVE Layla’s reasoning and mindset👏
This took “it’s me or the dog” to a more literal form than just the channel name! Lol
Good grief! This is the boyfriend from hell! I hope that they went for couples counselling if she stayed. He did the work with the dogs but he didn't seem to love her enough to respect her.
I hope she left him... Shes such a great lady and deserves sooo much better
Yes! Even at the end of the episode, when Zoe was on her bed & Layla & Adam were on theirs, Adam still had his entire back faced away from Layla & pointed towards Zoe. I cannot imagine there’s much intimacy in their relationship.
@@morganablackwater2017 how did you find this out ?
It’s borderline weird the boyfriends relationship with the blonde dog
I was fully expecting the final follow-up to be just Adam and Zoey cuddling in bed and Layla gone 😅
So, I spoil my dogs big time!! But I spoil them with sufficient exercise, playtime, a routine and gave them their own comfy beds. Letting them know what is acceptable behaviour and what not. Giving them clear directions they love to follow, and reward them generously ❤
It’s hilarious to me that this doofus got frustrated so easily while trying to get his dogs to behave; HOW DO YOU THINK EVERYONE ELSE HAS FELT FOR YEARS?!?!?! What a freakin nimrod
When I was Bitten on the foot he LAUGHED at me and said It was MY FAULT ... Are YOU KIDDING... OMG he'd Be GONE..
Get out Layla, please hurry, you deserve much better❤
I love it when she gives the camera a little glance. 😍
This is an old episode. But this guy was so creepy.
Watching him with. Zoe in the bed was like him and a woman, not like him and a pet. Look at his eyes. They say he loves the dog most he just can't say that on tv.
I hope this man watches himself in this episode and realizes how insane he is for his thinking. I cannot believe what I’m seeing and hearing from him 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
I wonder how Adam actually managed to attract a female in the first.
I think its because he seem positive and open... Friendly... Also it seem women in USA don't have standards for men at all...
@@morganablackwater2017the bar is in hell for a lot of people
Not only is he a terrible boyfriend, his relationship with the dogs is highly disturbing ..
I hope Layla left that man. It’s obvious that he doesn’t care. Imagine what it would be like if they had kids. Big red flag.
Adam needs to deal with his co-dependent and passive-aggressive issues!
I would be gone within a month of being with someone who behaves that way with their dogs. Every woman on earth deserves better.
Layla deserves more 😢
34:39 he sounds like a child… I feel so bad for Layla. She deserves a man who listens to her needs and commits to the changes he says he’s going to make.
True, and Layla is also in denial. She doesn't like the situation, yet she stays there. She is a glutton for punishment.
@@bonniel4325 she stays because she loves him and wants to give him more chances.
She wants him to change but he is perfectly jcomfortable and is not willing to change for her.
What an utter plonker! Victoria must have needed a helluva lot of patience to deal with him. How can somebody be so blind to their own stupidity sigh 😔
I used the trade game with a dog once, it works a treat 💜🐾💜
He obviously doesn't want intimacy .
The way Adam interacts with those dogs is just sick...
“They’re like my children”
Please don’t let children bite people, either 😩
its frankly hilarious that thankfully my mom's an excellent trainer and my parents have an excellent relationship, and truly, our three dogs love the big bed, but they know that they have to be asked. its stressful for dogs to not have boundaries. boundaries are kind.
I did'nt knew that so many people don't know how to have a dog in the family. Incredible. How it's possible that they have to say it's me or the dog. That man is doing like his dogs are his children and they don't behave them like a dog or child have to do. Victoria had to save this couple. She's like a mariage therapist.😄
I kinda have the suspicion that Zoey was scared of having her picture taken, not because of the camera as a scary object itself, but that her owners might've done some silly (to put it lightly) things, to try to get her to pose, or that there was always some kind of commotion if she moved out of a position they thought was so cute that they wanted a picture of it. So she gradually came to resent the camera.
Exactly. It's so very telling that she was completely fine with Victoria, but the minute Adam took the camera she went to hide.
This was a creepy episode and Adam's behavior towards Zoey was suspicious. He almost couldn't keep his hands off her
i thought the exact same thing!!!! made me so uncomfortable especially with how he acted towards Zoe in bed. really really creepy vibes from him.
Victoria’s patience and tact are inspiring!
So Layla are you staying?
-yes
Me: Nooooooo!
I think Adam has a serious problem especially when he said he was nervous about Victoria coming over because he doesn't want the dogs to think they're in trouble lol IT'S CALLED TRAINING,Adam is weak!!!! Kissing dogs is gross in my opinion!!! Adam is rewarding bad behavior this is sad!!!!
Wet tissue is stronger than Adam
When I first got my rescue I had seen you do the trade game with a different dog and that’s what I did to teach my dog that I wasn’t a threat to her and me taking things from her isn’t a “bad” thing. She trusts me now and doesn’t guard her toys and it’s a good thing for me to take it so I can play fetch with her. I always give her back what I take. Unless it’s something not good for her obviously but I’m glad I learned that trick and was able to use it. I’ve taught her the wait command and place too. We don’t use the place command much but we use wait and trading and it works great.
The fact that he said I don’t see it as him attacking me …. I just. I have no words I have so many thoughts and feelings but dear lord I don’t even know how to express the anger that brought me
When laylah tells adam off and all he does is just smile.
When she rang the door bell and the dogs started to bark,, even the camera man had to laugh 😃
Luka is so smart. He just needs a better owner lol
That she stayed when she got bit and he laughed at her! I would've left in an instant!
Alternate title:It's you, not the dog
1,000%😂
They need to make a new series of this with that as the title
Apparently there’s a problem in the U.K. now with dog owners struggling to take care of their dogs after the pandemic, so there will be loads of cases to cover!
Honestly so weird abt the cam. And the dude is so loving with Zoe… it’s not creating a good mix in my head, like why is it only a problem when it’s him taking the pictures
Oh god 😫
That is so dangerous Luca could injure someone and especially owners 😮
14:35 Layla shaking her head watching Adam begging Luca to pleeeaaase stay, will you?
Super weak
Adam needs to get a grip on himself and stop being so selfish that he’s going to lose his girlfriend. I would just leave him for putting the dogs first. I refuse to play second fiddle to the dogs! Go bye Adam, I’m too good for you! Just set yourself free!
This is why Im single . I can't believe the crap these women tolerate .
Ha ha same😂
How can a woman really love a „man“ who is so immature, that he needs two dogs to push up his self-confidence? 🤦🏼♀️
6:09, when you have more of a lovey connection with your dog than your partner 💀
Adam really look like the clueless dad in a sitcom.
Luca requires much more intellectual stimulation and is smarter than his 'dad"....that's the whole problem.
I don't see these two going anywhere for very long!
That dog is intense. I can take food out of my dog’s mouth with my hand. I’ve done this when I accidentally gave her too many treats 😂
I had it with my cat... He let me got them out... But the look he gave me 🙄
These dogs are very good listeners, they can behave very well with good training
All dogs can with discipline and repetitivity
Such disrespect to Layla. Sista, run while you can.
Its too bad there's not really updates to these things. Adam did change and seem to understand better by the end, but I wonder if it was enough? Are they still together? I want to know!
someone said layla got into another relationship eventually
@@raisasomaraki3870 I hope she found someone who thinks she is the important one
@@flipwood4897 who knows. if it
had better this way, let's hope
Adam said he really likes his girlfriend. It aaid so much. He absolutely shows true love for his dogs.
Both Victoria and Jackson Galaxy have to be human therapists along with animal therapists. Must be tough.
(Jackson from My Cat From Hell)
Interesting and ironic that Adam coddles his dogs and allows any behavior, but when he's telling Luca to stay, Victoria says he is too firm in his voice. She pointed out he's "barking orders" at the dog and the dog responds by hoarding resources.
BTW: Layla needs to up and leave... She isn't valued at all.
Maybe Adam thought he had to go into overdrive.
Why does all the dog issues get blamed on the dog?
We get what we put into it. If you don’t spend the training time, you won’t have the dog you want. Trust me.
It’s so simple! 😡
I think Adam is the one who should go under training 😅
She picked the wrong guy.
What planet is this guy living on? Layla pack your bags and run.
Let Adam boink Luca since he chooses her over his "woman"!!! He is covering up for something within himself that he is not addressing. Whatever it is he uses the dogs as a way not to deal wit it and help Layla refocus on the dogs issue rather than HIS ISSUE!!
We’re a team….we’re a package……not a good one though 😂
I mean Luca is a elderly dog...no wonder he can't stay focused as long as Zoe who is like half his age. Old dogs can learn new tricks, but it takes much more time.
I'm going to disagree with you. I've trained both old and young dogs and I've found that age makes no difference. If anything, the older dogs pick things up quicker than young dogs because they can concentrate better and for longer.
@@m6666 not an 11 yrs old dog. Sorry, I have other experiences, because I too had both elderly and young dogs.
@@m6666 Well, you forgot one little thing - THIS elder dog had a full life of poor skill/control/impulse training. It's a habit for the dog now to act against any imposed rules on him and he will straight up demand for things, cuz he has no impulse control and don't want to wait.
The more years passed, the more this behavior of his got carved into stone, making it harder to change.
@Red Ash/Kurt Wagner not habit...the dogs know they have the upper hand. They are in charge and he panders to their every demand.
@@m6666 I just summarised it all with one word, I thought, I wouldn't have to elaborate it further. But yes, it's not just habits, it's the whole world view, that contains their position inside this world, position inside the family, how things work, how to react and behave depending on situation, etc etc.
Basically his point of view onto this world got solidified with each passed year, and for him that's how the world works. His demanding - works, so he exploits it with not a shred of doubt, because animals are not burdened by moral issues, they don't know what good, or bad, they can learn what works, and what don't. Abstract thinking is not really their thing
poor layla! she deserves so much better
Victoria you really are incredible. It always amazes me how you can train any dog. Brilliant.
Adam seems to allow these dogs to behave aggressively towards his girlfriend, because he may not be wanting the relationship with Layla to move on as a permanent.committment.
Bingo! And Layla doesn't want to believe her lying eyes. She's so desperate to stay with this loser.
That man does not love you enough. Leave and find a man that believes you are number one!