You’re Not QUEER, You’re Just Annoying & Boring : Psychological Deep Dive
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Being yourself is never boring. Trying to be someone else is boring.
Extra funny/true in this case considering Bambi (the eurovision person at the start of the video) stole many of her 'ideas' from another artist
Only one other artist?
but they are blurring and confusing the lines.
oh no if what youre doing is shallow and meaningless it can be boring
Experimenting with Self is rarely boring. Puritanical attitudes are boring
"There is nothing more common than the wish to be remarkable." - Shakespeare
The fool doth think he is wise, but the wise man knows himself to be a fool.
Whoop! There it is!
I like that. Very true.
;___; my life crisis!
My son is gay. You would never know it by being around him . He is married and does not hide being gay he just doesn't shout it from the roof tops
You probably raised a normal guy and not a narcissist 😊
'cause he's a regular gay guy ... not a queer custom3r
Most gay ppl age 30+ want sheer indifference from everyone else to their sexuality
Not good enough. He needs to wear a hat with the words GAY emblazoned on it in pink sequins everywhere he goes - otherwise he’s not a real “gay”! 😂😂😂
@@jujutrini8412 I'm pretty sure we have already crossed that Rubicon!
Remember back in the days when Marilyn Manson was the most shocking we would see on TV? I miss those days, really.
now everyone tries to be marilyn. but they don’t have his brain and humor and no bs attitude
He paved the road
@@Benny_M_1922 Not really. He considers himself a conservative and hates political correctness.
At least the man is intelligent
Bambi is just cringe. Manson is an abuser.
If being boring means I can become happy without external influence, I’d like to be boring
Yet ironically, it would make you special (rare).
Im super boring 😂😂😂😂 im over caring
I'm with you
“You know what makes me special?” Absolutely nothing honey, absolutely nothing.
The neediness of the question.
Please tell me I'm special
she's badly in need of special care ...
"You know what makes me special? Pazuzu who resides within me"
@@frankgradus9474 very special care. xanax and electroshock sound good.
A straight woman who drapes herself in the trans flag and has been caught out stealing parts of her gimmick from another (better) artist has a lot of fucking nerve to make that statement.
I remember being called a f@g a lot when I was young. Now I hear the young ones call me cis, but it's said with the same distain and disgust as those in my youth. Neither knew and neither was right, but it's not about what is true. It's about division and dehumanizing by characterization.
I'm straight and ended up getting into so many fights years ago, (not fights like young people today think are fights over your friends having slurs thrown at them which seems more like very mild verbal arguments) proper knock down, drag out fights, I've hurt people, been hurt, had friends near killed whilst being called "queer" and yeah, like I said I'm straight but after all that when I was younger even I find it being used as a way to cosplay LGBT insulting, I didn't do the things I've done (when I say I hurt people I really mean that) or see the things I saw for such terms to be used so flippantly or thrown around like it means nothing or is just a fun little game for what pretty much just fills the goth niche these days from what I can see.
And now there are straight girls and young women gleefully calling themselves f4gs.... And I thought appropriating another group's struggle was a _bad_ thing... I had a hell of a time accepting my sexuality growing up in the Bible belt. I had a friend who went through Christian conversion "therapy." Now it's cool to pretend to be gay while erasing the whole concept of sexuality because "sex isn't real."
@@cptsteele91 I hear ya. It wasn't just the gay slags but also creep and loser. I'm straight as well and people couldn't believe I would have an attractive girlfriend or excel at what I did in life. Primarily it was envy. The herd couldn't often deal with it. I've been into the martial arts off and on since I was 14 and still take MMA sessions/sparring because of what you and cjvan mentioned. Division and dehumanizing. I don't think my anger towards the masses as ever really left me. I also think many people are deeply fearful of me, because I'm physically intimidating alone. So they have to cut me down to size to "help" their nasty egos, so to speak.
I have only ever used that word as a shorthand for cigarette (I'm british). Although I was raised to belief that any slur is never acceptable, and that Freddy Mercury was the greatest frontman of all time (my parents were huge Queen fans, and used Freddy as an example of an awesome gay man).
Unfortunately CIS has been forced onto us all by the far left, I honestly can't believe how much hatred is put into saying CIS. Honestly, it's even worse that the slurs I get for being disabled.
"It's about division and dehumanizing by characterization." I 100% agree. We saw in Germany pre-WW2 and we're seeing it again from the far left.
@@Dwarficus I suggest you look into Chairman Mao's cultural revolution and Redguard. The parallels between the current Left's ideologies in Miles red Chinese and black Chinese are highly disturbing. What went on then and is going on here now is what you're not allowed to search for or see in China and for good reason. It's purpose is to destabilize. China doesn't want to be stabilize, the already inserted an authoritarianistic regime. The beginning of Netflix version of the three body problem barely scratches the surface.
Queer now just means "I'm broken and all you should be broken too, because misery loves company"
I think it’s more “I’m broken. Yeah, more broken than you. So bend over backwards to make me feel better. Because I’m more important than anyone else”. 🤦🏻♀️
@@theoriginalspilleli I do believe that you have nailed it!
It kinda looks like queer now means "I have a demon in me"
@@theoriginalspilleli dead right;
they demand hero worship of the public
Yes usually tbh
I see no empathy from them, just claiming they are better than everyone else.
Constantly.
It’s the “you can’t sit with us 👀” gone woke
Just came upon your channel. What a breath of fresh air. 58 yo gay man here. Part of pride used to be about helping others, raising money for those in need, we used to listen to all points of view. For a time it was organically a wonderful thing. Now the entire thing has been hijacked by a bunch of other letters and colors (flag colors) and the orig. meaning is lost. Your voice is really important in this day....
Fifty one here. The last ‘good ‘ pride i attended was 2014 in kalamazoo (couple of the rupaul drag racers were scheduled to appear - Thorgy thor loved my beard). After that, anita sarkeezian attacked with everything is istaphobic and all the flatbrains ate it up and regurgitated it into the gay community which is what this is now turned into, anti human vomit.
Edit: or was that 15, and 2018 was where some couple of people got ‘escorted’ from the venue because of their shirts
This is also how vulnerable people become cult members. The cult offers relief from their suffering, then love bombs them once they join. The person doesn’t realize that it’s a trap and once the honeymoon is over they develop cognitive dissonance to justify why they are still there.
Of note is how, when they come to their senses and withdraw from the cult mindset, they are instantly condemned and kicked to the curb. So much for the much-vaunted "Glitter Family".
Ive noticed this behavior in so many woke people
A point very well made.
Nailed it.
It’s not just “leftists “ or young people either. This process you describe is prevalent throughout society
@@ConservativeGrouch Apostates are always hated more than non-believers who were never in the cult because the apostates managed to see throught the bull**** and overcome the brainwashing, which makes them dangerous to the cult.
"Do you know what makes me special? I'm a queer....and I'm a WWIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIITTCCHH!!!!!!!" Please, just..... don't ever do that again. That hurt my ears and my brain.
🤣 💯
👍She is begging for attention...
And it doesn't make you special, just an annoying twat.
I seriously have a headache now
I honestly think that was kind of funny. It scared me a bit. Haha.
However, this Bambi thing is a horrible person. It was not her looks that repulsed me.
To quote syndrome from the incredibles: when everybody is special, then no one else will be.
Exactly! In the end, no one will special if everyone is.
Shouldn't it be "when everybody's special, nobody is?"
Yes, but why the "else"? There is no "else" left :D
@@dddux Yes
1969: We just want to be treated normal.
2024: We just want to be treated special.
i am just shocked at how often younger generations use gender stereotypes to justify trans status; stereotypes that my generation (x) fought our asses off to get rid of. wtf happened?
My thoughts exactly! I was a tomboy, I fought gender stereotypes throughout my childhood. I wanted my freedom. I wish men had their freedom to wear whatever they want, too, because I'm pro-equality. And now, these people are ruining everything, dragging those stupid old stereotypes back(
tik tok
I still consider "queer" to be an insult, because that's what it was growing up. (There's nothing "special" about chasing trends.)
The origin means "strange."
Agreed 1000%
Me too!
Same. It actually makes me wince when I hear people say it.
@@notpub no thanks
I imagine some people’s existence depends on other people’s affirmations.
You aren't imagining it.
📢📢📢
Sad existence 😢
No amount of affirmation - and no amount of likes/views - will ever fill the hole caused by a lack of self-acceptance. Next week, it'll be three horns, more piercings, more demanding screaming, more, more, more...
The end result of people who grew up with parents that never gave them attention and love.
So many people are desperate to be considered special and unique. It reminds me of a philosophy that says that if you have to tell other people that you are something you are most likely not that thing.
an empty pot makes the loudest noise
Like people who constantly tell you how quirky they are. Actual quirky people just are, they don't need to advertise.
@@hotdog1214 exactly
It's the same for if you have to DEMAND respect, you don't have it in any way.
These types DEMANDING (a word I've come to detest due to it's extreme overuse) acceptance with threats will never have it because of that. Just be who you are, without all the demands, and likely you'd be more accepted. Perhaps thought of as eccentric, different, high maintenance, but that's kind of the goal isn't it? Just stop DEMANDING attention, acceptance, respect.
@@purpura7053love this!! Never heard it before
"What makes *me* special"
..This is such a self absorbed question. So.. sad.
And imagine that the only thing they consider to be special about themselves is a label...
What about personal qualities, interests, etc? I just find it weird and a bit sad
It's good to have a quick response ready if the rhetorical question comes up. I'm looking something better than "because you ride the short bus?"
It's what you ask a 5 year old
Can I share something as a bisexual person?
It took me a lifetime to understand my identity. I questioned whether I was gay, straight, or even needed to change my sex. Eventually, I realized that my attraction to different people was unpredictable. I spent years in confusion before understanding that I was bisexual. Even now, the term doesn't fully capture my experience, and I often wonder, "Am I really defining myself or others based on our sexual preferences?"
The truth is, being myself hasn't been easy, and it's still challenging today, almost 40 years later. It's hard to accept because, if you're gay or lesbian around my age or older, you know the hardships we faced, especially in the '90s.
Hearing terms like gay, lesbian, and especially "LGBTQ+" makes me uncomfortable because seeing kids today talk about gender as if it's a badge of honor or something you can choose offends me. It's not a choice or something you decide. Sometimes, it feels like a curse.
I feel more insecure and isolated now than I did in the past. I feel more afraid in this atmosphere of forced, mainstream acceptance than I did in the '90s when bullying and violence against gay people were common. In fact, I'm now less open about being bisexual in public because it ties me to certain people, ideologies, and politics.
It's strange, but I feel more alone, misunderstood, and in danger now than I ever have in my life. Absolutely.
I completely understand what you're going through or have gone through. I've been struggling with the fact that I'm a bi male my whole life! Never knowing what I am. It's gotta be the most confusing thing to be. Straight people think your gay (and guy's are exceptional assholes when it comes to judging you) and gay people think your just confused or in the closet. Either way you're ridiculed or made to feel ashamed about by both sides. I'm in my late 40s and have just now begun not hiding it from everyone. In the past I've lost a few male friends because I told them about myself and have been laughed at, or belittled by women when they found out.
Anyway, I can complain about problems I've had to deal with or overcome in the past for hours, but Its so nice to hear that other people have been going through the same thing as I have
Same, for such a long time I've been wondering about my sexuality and when I thought I was straight I couldn't stop dreaming me making out with girls and vice versa. I now struggle to come out to my family cause they think I am straight and being gay is wrong
“All while sitting next to her boyfriend “…. 😂😂
This person is ridiculous, but Bisexual people do exist, and being in a heterosexual relationship doesn't change that orientation.
It's cringe, I'd rather be boring than cringe.
Same!
Being "cringe" also isnt a Bad thing. Dressing different isnt a bad thing. Dressing Not gender confirming isnt a bad thing. Being Trans or nonbinary isnt a Bad thing. You should Just be yourself for yourself and Not claim to be someone else to seek attention.
As an Irish, we do not claim her.
Thank you. This comment made me laugh 😂 I really enjoyed it.
Great, thank you
I just commented on this. I can only wonder what happened, when out of all of Ireland, they chose this "thing" to represent your country in Eurovision. Did every other artist die in a tragic accident? crazy.
@@nicknamethievesnah it’s just our government likes to ponder on gender politics (they recently tried to make the definition of woman more permissible in a vote and FAILED 75-25) so not the most surprising. Trust me 70 percent of the country find our higher ups to be gobshites
@@nicknamethieves Eurovision is extremely political, they try to go to the fringe every time. This year some gay dude in a skirt (""non binar"") won 1st by the judges panel, but was far from it by popularity vote.
I’m Irish. She’s an embarrassment to this country. She should’ve been banned from Eurovision, she was constantly bullying the Israeli entry and the Eurovision officials.
The pride event in Bristol (UK) last year, lesbians where told to leave by the police as the trans people there, didn't want them.
Wow! That's rich!
At what point did we arrive at a time where if you dress like a character who walked out of a Batman comic, that you're not considered nuts?
"You see, I'm not a monster...I'm just ahead of the curve." 😆
Theater kids larping to avoid adulthood
She is NOT nuts at all. But she desperately wants to be.
To @gildersleevefan67
One of things that makes Halloween special and fun is that it is Halloween and not every day. The same goes for dressing up at a fantasy or Sci-Fi festival, or a Renaissance Fair. One does not do it all the time!
Unfortunately thats the way some trendy people became they think this is cool and want attention.
The problem with the person at 4.18 is she's convinced herself that, as a general rule, your average person will spend enough time thinking about her to care what she 'is'. If you turn the ID game into a marathon, most people won't want to run it.
Well said… imagine that level of narcissism
You nailed it!!!
I had already forgotten about her by the time I made it into the comments and had to go back and check to see who you were talking about.
My thought is and would be if I saw her online or in public is that she’s a woman. And it would go no farther than that.
As a straight white boomer I have to admit that a lot (not all, but a lot) of this has looked to me like people struggling with personal issues and adopting personas as a way to express their anxieties and obtain the social validation that they feel they won't get otherwise. This is not something new, it's just that social media have made it easy to broadcast, switching on the amplifier of social contagion. Does it portend the downfall of civilization? I doubt it. Will people made up like horror clowns have a hard time landing jobs? Probably. Is that my problem? No.
I agree. About ten years ago I become responsible by accident in a community group for a young woman who was transitioning to become a 'trans man'. She was very clearly struggling with her sexuality and also severely depressed. This was before 'trans' really became a widely discussed topic. To me, a straight white male boomer parent with straight male children she needed love and care to find her true self. She didn't need to mutilate her body at such a young age. I still think about her, it was such a horrendous situation, and I had no training as to what to do.
This! It's them just trying to make an online persona, reality. And it's sad.
The low birthrates combined with the biggest progenitors being of stageringly low IQ might portend the end of civilization.
The only issue I have is that some are being led into surgeries and hormone treatments that are not reversible. I was a goth back in the day, but you’d never know it by looking at me now. It’s one thing to experiment and express yourself, but this trans movement has gone beyond that.
@@paulineb66 That's where the contagion comes in- reaching into academe and the sciences, contaminating both.
All of this feels sexist to me. Just because i have short hair and don't like dresses, it doesn't mean that i'm less of a woman. I just don't get it.
You literally look like a dude. How does that not make you less of a woman? That's why you don't get it.
Misogyny is at the core of trans ideology, yes. It is absolutely misogynist
Queer is what emo was, which was punk. It’s just a bunch of attention seeking narcissists
...punks used to challenge the status quo.....identifying as queer is status quo
I wish someone would address the fact that its almost 100% white people doing this sort of thing
I wish you had played the clip of that bar tender who said she was bothered when someone said "you look like a they them" and they were correct. Its such a perfect example of this. I call it face tattoo syndrome. You get the tattoo so people look at you then when they do you complain bc they are looking at you. And no, you are not alone Arielle. This whole movement is 90% driven by power and the feeling of superiority.
I have a friend whose son's sexuality is his entire personality and it's massively tiresome 😒
Same here. It's a performance. Went to university, spent his entire time doing drugs and cruising gay night clubs, messed up and had to start his university career all over again.Wasted two years, cost his parents a fortune who totally indulge him. He is a waster who had every opportunity in life given to him. His sexuality doesn't come into it.
Tell him to shut up
The only Gay in the village?!
@@Rugmunchersauce3 Myfanwy
I'm not saying it in a rude way but I feel like straight people who say things like that genuinely underestimate how much of their own personality is based on being straight lmao
At 51 I have never adhered to stereotypical femimine characteristics or expectations. But never in a million years did I feel the need to "identify" as anything but female. The new mindset just screams the need for attention....and its sad...
Yeah same with me, I’m a 20 ye old male who ain’t that masculine yet I don’t use that as an excuse to argue I’m special and that I must be trans. I’m a male in every shape and form
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That’s because your identity is (Insert name here) anything else is just something you happen to be. Your choices and actions define you more so than your sexuality, race or sex.
These crazies are just trying too hard to be unique because they really aren’t worthwhile people and this gets them attention even it it is negative
I went through a long period in my teens (back in the early 90s) where I was convinced that not matching feminine stereotypes meant I wasn't a "real" girl/woman, just an entity piloting a female body. I'm grateful that I had the time & role models needed to eventually grasp that the stereotypes are just sexist generalizations, and that I'm a woman purely by virtue of being a female human.
@@miaowminx exactly!
I’m the detransitioner that Buck Angel interviewed. Thank you, Arielle for featuring a clip from our interview in this compilation.
Your point at 11:48 when you state how they are giving off the "spiritually I'm above you" vibe, is so spot on. I totally agree. Not all but some. It just feels like a way to separate from others and exclude. When we should be trying to do the opposite.
Right? Spirituality isn't meant to elevate people, it's supposed to show people what is elevated. The "spirit" is always present and people come closer to knowing it, but they certainly are not the focus. If you go into belief thinking it'll grant you some kind of status, you're doing it wrong.
I’m a 62yo. If someone asked me what my identity was, I would look like I was trying to do calculus in my head. WTF is one’s “identity?”
I’m so glad I’m old, y’all are making life so much more difficult than necessary. 😂
❤️🍀
I'm 57 and completely agree 👍
I am 33 and I couldn't agree more.
63 and the same. I've never understood why people have this desire for an 'identity'. I heard the term 'identity crisis' in my teens but it baffles me. Social media has definitely increased the desire to label oneself. I can only presume that now and back then it's people who feel socially inadequate or awkward. Now everyone compares themselves to everyone on the Internet and not just to their neighbourhood peers. I would like an explanation.
But this is the cis status, that's definitely fine, i wish i could feel like you, but please don't forget us transexuals, we don't think a lot about our identity, we think of our bodys all the time and we can't find Peace in us until we transition
The less you think about yourself, the happier you'll be.
Then theres the problem of the internet... teachers... therapist.. and even parents telling every single 12.. 13 year old girl that doesnt like her body that "maybe you are in the wrong body" creating this HUGE HUGE HUGE amount of girls going trans
Targeting autistic girls, at that (usually undiagnosed), jumping on their body dismorphia as false evidence of their chosen conclusions
Boys mostly. It feels like much of the feeling unhappy with one's gender could be a reaction to society demonizing even young boys for being male.
There are girls going trans, but not many, and the few who make it into public view do so by breaking up - either Norah Vincent taking her own life, or AH taking many others.
I just realized.. it's another AH! I meant Audrey, not Amber.
"...And I'm a WIIIIIIIIITCH!!!!!!!"
-And couldn't even cast a spell to win the contest 🤷
Well she wanted a queer/non-binary person to win so she nailed that, it just wasn’t her😂
Hahaa
She gives edgy 8th grader goth kid energy.
😂
Lmaoooo. Yeah her performance was bizarre
It's like how 'Colored people' is now 'People of Color'. I don't get it. It's the SAME THING.
them: don't label me
them: my entire personality is based on the fact that i am qUeEr
Use the word "Personality" instead of "Identity" ....It helps everyone even the person come to the realization that Describing your Personality as a Gender is wrong.
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Our physical existence creates some kind of limits as human beings. But humanity itself is fluid. Which is the most beautiful thing. There is no reason to stuck in one way represending yourself, but when someone blames people for not changing their reality in order to accept their lie, needs desperately some sort of help
Cultural appropriation: BAD
Sexual orientation appropriation: Ah its fine. Look at meeeee, I'm special (thanks Bambi for saying the quiet part out loud) 🙄🙄
Plus medical condition appropriation
But most of them have Japanese anime as their online avatars. And dress anime style…
@@bricklurkerExactly..and they think they can make that a reality when they simply can't...or shouldn't
Bambi has zero self awareness, like all crackpots.
Queer isn’sexual orientation, it’s cult ideology. (Cultural Marxism)
"each person knows who they are better than you ever will"
Most people don't have any idea who they actually are. Most people go their entire lives believing the lie of who they tell themselves they are while the world see's the truth.
omg yes, so many people pretending they like their career, staying in relationships because they are afraid of being alone, acting as they like new fashion trends even if it makes them feel uncomfortable, there are so many examples...
This is very true, and discovering the truth about yourself can be very painful. I know...
@@kernicole It's never pleasant.
"Straight people calling themselves homophobic slurs" puts into words exactly what has bothered me for so long about this. It's crazy that these "queers" have completely co-opted the LGBT movement to the point that actual homosexual people are getting pushed out.
"I forgot the rest of the question because I'm dissociated, teehee 🤪"
I just can't with these people.
I grew up being told that "queer" was a slur. And now it's suddenly ok to use it? Definitely not hopping onto that train.
Especially in the new generation (so like people born after 2000) queer is no longer a slur and even used under the LHBTQ+ umbrella, the Q literally stands for queer😂 It’s like reclaiming a bad word like the n-word, but taking it to the next level. People don’t even know queer was a slur in the first place anymore
It's a blessing if you never stopped using it. You can insult these demons to their faces and they're like "yeah that's right"
@@xoluciaxo_3721 I thought it stood for "questioning" tbh 💀
@limpnewdoll7434 it does. It's said to be interchangeable with the other q-word, now. It was more common to be for questioning until more recent years.
@@samisparkleheartqueer
The wife and I used to book our trips to Walt Disney World during gay days and always had a blast. The crowds in the parks that were scheduled that day were lighter because many families would avoid that park and the gay community were always fun to hang out and converse with. Then it started to change and we noticed gay days at WDW became more political, more “in your face” and well…more like the Decadence festival you’d see in New Orleans. I witnessed men in the restrooms “behaving inappropriately”, t-shirts displaying sayings that were in poor taste in a family friendly place and just bad behavior in general -even to the point where other members of the gay community were apologizing to people concerning the behavior on display. So what used to be a fun time turned into something we avoided. Now, other people might have a totally different experience from ours, but I’m only offering what we witnessed. Could be different now, but somehow I doubt it.
To @pastagreyhound
Keep in mind that a large portion of the gay community does not approve of much of this behaviour either. I have stated numerous times that organizers of parades and other gay events should police these activities and crack down on inappropriate actions. Many gay people agree with that: It's only a minority, many of them activists, who do not. Now, later in the evening, there can be eighteen-or-over shows with verbal bawdy-comedy, but there should limits during most of the day.
I totally agree with you.
I remember seeing a documentary once about a little coastal town that was unusually accepting of LGB and became a haven for same sex couples going on family vacations... until the 'comunity' started bringing in kink and queerining everything up. It stopped being a wholesome safe haven for gay families to bring their kids because weirdos were out cruising and being nasty in public.
@@RCSVirginia
Yeah, but now you've got all the Q types working against you and crying about bigotry against their lifestyles. Frankly, to hell with Pride. We don't need it. All it does it cause a bad image.
It has descended into satanism.
Something about the Eurovision person screams a word from my generation that I think needs to come back, and that word is “POSER” or “Poseur” depending on where you are from.
Yesssss
Cosplayer, LARPer... just playing a role to feel special.
Ok...let's bring it back fellow Gen Xer 👍....poser she is 🤣
Cringe. She is cringe personified.
@@nekk-ra7080 Cosplay and LARP are hobbies. You wouldn't call an actor on the job a poser, right? Being a poser is different than being 'someone else' within a definite frame of time and space.
Once I shaved my head and my eyebrows off and ran around in a different city for a few weeks…. It was pretty amazing to feel like a different creature. People treated me as they met me in that form… as some kind of weirdo!
I let my hair and eyebrows grow back and felt a little lighter having purged something that needed out. And my life went on.
My uncle killed himself in the 60's because he was gay and he didn't like it despite that my family supported him. I don't know, it doesn't feel ok when someone straight is using it because they are just bored or I don't know, I still cannot verbalised but it doesn't feel good. I am gay myself, I was a teen in the early 90's, it was difficult af. It has to be something with social media, lazyness maybe, all the special people I know have worked a lot following their dreams.
For me, it's about watching people play pretend for attention and clout about something that I grew up having to hide for fear or shame.
They confused being "out" with being a general nuisance to most people. No one's asking for them to hide it anymore, and they still feel the need to offend and belittle people who probably weren't even born in the "closet" days.
I love watching Arielle and care very much for my gay and lesbian friends. However, I have grown completely exhausted of the LGBTQ "community". The rainbow is exhausting.
Sensible gay/lesbian people find it tiring, too. All we ever wanted was to quietly live our lives honestly and happily, not to turn our existences into a f*cking circus. This nonsense is maddening.
@@AWholeBeew I second that. 🙋♀
@@AWholeBeew Send in the clowns... don't bother, they're here!
@@AWholeBeew Absolutely. Not only are they turning it into a circus, they're pushing acceptance by the general public back by decades. They either can't see or don't care about the harm they're doing in their quest for victimhood. (By victimhood I'm talking about the ones who thrive on being misgendered etc so they can make a tic-tok about it.)
Many of us have left that "community." We prefer to be rational adults as opposed to circus animals. Sorry if I insulted any cis circus animals.
I have to admit, watching Bambi Thug in interviews and shit, she always struck me as someone with the lights on and no one home.
It's also worth stating that Nemo, the guy who actually won the Eurovision, is also some flavour of Non-Binary/Queer anyway.
Also in a straight relationship (Nemo).
Nemo looked like gay Big Bird in drag. Absolute tool.
Oh, I imagine you can't win Eurovision being straight anymore.
@littlecatfeet9064 Granted this couple is ridiculous and obviously attention seeking, but being in a straight relationship doesn't negate a bisexual orientation.
Nemo came out as rainbow only half a year before winning Eurovision. I doubt he's anything but a bi (at best) dude who just heard the bells toll at the right moment, and who knows that to be queer as a man, you only need some make up
I don’t feel comfortable around the LGBT events anymore either.
Never did.
It's not about seeing e.g. men kiss. Throughout my youth, my uncles were the prime example of a strong, loving couple. It was a joy to see them together.
It's about watching people take great lengths to push off against their assigned nemesis in the name of love, inclusion, etc - with most of the assigned enemy never having been anything but indifferent or supportive.
But, I will admit that I find some behaviors inappropriate, and I loathe how it's made out to be oppressive to even mention it.
If it's not ok for a straight couple to stand in a schoolyard in their underwear and fondle each others' privates while trying to eat their faces, it's not ok for any other couple to do it, either.
"Perpetually annoyed". Yep, i think that's a great descriptor for many of us at this point! 😅😅
YOU NAILED IT. They are actually afraid to be themselves
That chick who lost Eurovision is like a 30- year- old 12- year-old.
The Israeli 🇮🇱 contestant finished higher than her 😅
they didn't lose, they came 1st in Ireland then went on to come 6th of 52 countries - gaining the highest result for Ireland in 20 years!! The Irish people are so beyond proud of them and how they represented our country in front of the world - tiocfaidh ár lá 🇮🇪
an overgrown bratty, petulant, spoilt schoolgirl,
I'm wary of such
@@insertnamehere5809 queers for palestine lead Muhammad a dance ...
@@BritneyHIAM Their song was the best this year.
As a person, though, they're really trying hard to come across as how they are described in this thread.
i also really don't like that she makes a joke out of dissociating, on tv. it's a very scary thing to go through and it seems like she's just making a mockery out of it to be cool and edgy
'Getting distracted because I'm hyped up and full of adrenaline' =\= 'dissociated'
Remember when "Queer" was used as an insult for "weirdos"? We went full circle. There are gay people and there are the Queers, they may overlap but they are two very distinct groups.
You just got yourself a new follower. You are incredibly articulate and tactful. Glad to see you.
"I'm an emo kid, non conforming as can be. You'd be non conforming too if you looked just like me"
Same shit, different era
that chick strikes me as the type who went “witchy” just to piss off her parents.
Believe it or not she is 34 years old. I worked in mental health and I never seen anyone as immature as her, not even people with personality disorders.
@@outoforbit00 She's age 31 not 34
@@mmmmmmmmmmm7863 the fact she’s around my age doing this is nothing short of embarrassing and cringey.
still a spoilt child
Gal at 4.18 seems to believe that people spend considerable time trying to determine exactly what she is.
When most people would only say,
" oh, that girl over there with the orange hair".
“And I’m a wiiiiiiiiiiiitchhh”
Me, an actual Wiccan: oh god, demon be gone.
She stole parts of her gimmick from another artist who actually knows her shit. Said thing as a big fan of said artist (Zheani) I now get Bambi Thug songs in my recommended tab.
Will check her out
@@tphilbin1 You won't regret it. ;)
Not bad songs
😂😂😂😂
If she thinks she’s a witch there’s meds and padded room with her name on it. She needs to put away before she hurts someone
Its strange to me that so many people act like they know themselves perfectly. No one knows who they are or what they want, and its scary, so people just come up with an identity to protect themselves from what they dont know (or want to know) about themselves.
As a older gay man, these people make so angry!
And they HATE us.
Yeah, I feel sorry for you.
I shake my head, but yours must be blown by these people using your circumstances for clout!
I'm an older straight man that has worked in entertainment for decades. For reasons that I can not fully explain, there are a lot of gay men in entertainment and they have made up a very large percentage of my clients - at least half.
Wanna know what? None of the were running around dressed as clowns screaming "I'm a wiiiiiitttch!!!!" They didn't demand that I call them by made up names. They didn't tell me what they did behind closed doors. They certainly didn't want to tell children about it. They were great entertainers and I'm a great producer/engineer and our relationships were based off of mutual respect and giving the public the best product possible.
I have very close gay friends and they are horrified by what is happening.
I'm 66, love pride events and, while I only have a few gay friends, I have a better time with them usually. Don't listen to this hag.
Can someone give Shirley manson her flowers now? She was such a trailblazer.
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George Carlin said it best, I can't quote him here because it has "censored" language but I recommend you watch his stuff
Such a genius.
He was before his time.
I am a straight man and I totally agree with you. Greetings from Finland.
Things have changed so much that when you go to an event you experience culture shock. 😏
40 years ago they would've been into punk.
They'd be Emo kids 10-15 years ago!
That's an insult to punks.
Yep! I was...and was even voted most eccentric in high school. I fought against gender norms. But I stuck to reality. I never acted liked this, and I sure as hell didn't adhere to gender stereotypes like these insane cult followers do.
lol no. They’re the most pro-establishment people ever. Theyre pro big pharma, censorship, government intervention, simp for the politicians and president etc. they’re the opposite of punk.
@@sonixthatsme absolutely. I can't think of any Punks that were this high maintenance.
Straight white 60 year old guy here. Totally agree with Arielle. You are who you are. It's not somebody else's right to make it performance art. There are plenty of boring homosexual men and lesbian women. I look like a boring old white heterosexual guy going to work in my smart clothes stood on the station platform waiting for my train from my nice house with its perfect rose garden and kissing my white heterosexual wife when I leave at 07.35 with my lunch box and my laptop computer like millions of men do.
When I go to work tomorrow my job boils down to keeping people alive in my country. It's what I do. I have great colleagues and some are homosexual men and some are lesbian women. I think we all do a pretty cool job. We all know what's important.
This is an excellent video.
I respect you for that my guy
The Eurovision Song Contest isn't a talent show, but - ta da! - an international song contest.
Americans don't seem to do any researh on Eurovision. The fact that she said "she lost" says it all, Technically there is a winner but there are 20+ losers, hence it's not about winning, never was, more about the experience. Most artists are glad to even be there and perform
When someone does that much stuff to themselves, they are not happy with themselves. They are trying to "dress up" what bothers them to make it something they can like. But all that stuff on them is NOT THEM. Therefore, they cannot be happy. They need help.
In the old days, we just called them "flakes". Not after snowflakes. After dandruff flakes. You couldn't wait to brush them off and forget about them.
I remember when I was told to make a choice because being bi was just "greedy" and I should choose a gender already and stop "hogging"... now I am not inclusive enough 😅 Say woot?!
Being an American who has lived in Denmark for almost 26 years, I've seen my fair share of Eurovision. While I kinda liked Bambie Thug's song... hearing her spew all the "Queer" stuff and shit, was exhausting. Nemo (the guy who won Eurovision) identifies as Non-Binary. There were a few this year... I am not sure when Eurovision became a global Pride 2.0 but it's been like this for quite a while now... but this year was the "worst".
Oh good God yes, I'm tired of seeing bi's being yelled at or dismissed for being "experimenting/bored straights" and for being "greedy".
And don't get me started on Eurovision...as a casual viewer from time to time, I've gone from being shocked that the legitimate fun and enjoyable entries loose out to the boring copy-cat western-style numbers, to being shocked that people still watch Eurovision despite it being nothing but titless half naked people dancing on stage. XO
It's mostly a progressive left fest, which is also the dominant leaning in most government sponsored media.
For years the girl power and accusations against men were good for high votes.
Now that organized feminists have largely lost their moral credibility, the next cause to run away with is Pride.
In a bit the leftist ghetto will find a new fad to display thoughtful uniqueness through. I do hope that it'll be less hypocritical than the current Palestine fad.
I am already tired of the "happy pride month" posts on FB. I'm a gay guy, and the mess that this has become, yean, no. Bunch of weirdo's have ruined it, taken it over for their own, agenda. It's just too "in your face". We got equality, we got marriage, now we have this mess. Kills me they said for years "give them that and it'll be in our schools" and here we are.
Bruh, how fix?
I'm straight, always been in A'dam so hardly easily culture shocked or anything. But this whole thing is political.
Now I can't speak for others, nor would I want to, but it sure is a good time for jolly old blokes and girls to let themselves be known IMO.
As for your conclusion... Yeah, I get that. That sucks indeed. It is something I have noticed with several other local issues lately.
I'm totally fine with we had our Pride Day March to commemmorate Stonewall, and different cities around the world had it different weekends so people could attend more than one. That was fine. I'm not gay enough to gay-up every day for a whole month. And it has pissed people off. Doesn't help.
It doesn't help that Pride Month was inserted on top of Male Mental Health Month.
Similar feminist and rainbow things have been inserted on top of pretty much every day, week or month that was for a male cause.
That pattern is part of why people get pissed off. There is no way that it's not a deliberate move to swipe men under the rug even deeper.
@@sneezyfidoWomen are swept under the rug for transwomen. "Boring" people are being bulldozed. It's us normies that have to speak up for both genders. ❤
@@Lydia-Frost are you aware that preferential hiring practices are still *applauded* instead of denounced as sexist?
That scholarships uniquely for women are still a thing, while men's scholarships are not because that would be sexist, while the academic population has been over 50% for a few decades now?
That male victims of violence are deliberately pushed out of view through invention of the political term "violence against women"?
That none of men's issues are allowed to be spoken about, and that it's feminists who actively suppress those topics?
That safehouses for men need private funding because other sources come with the requirement that men are not welcome? (Since about 60s, look up the Erin Pizzey interview)
I could go on for a few pages.
And all you have is that trans people replaced women as favored cause?
Men are literally dieing by the droves and we aren't even supposed to talk about it.
Women's sports do have vocal supporters from both genders. Originally it was men saying that it wasn't a good idea, and feminists hated those men for it. Don't forget where this whole thing came from. Do not dare blame men for it.
As always, men do have women's backs.
Maybe it's time to return the favor instead of the usual kneejerk reaction that only women's issues may be relevant.
Attention seekers have it hard these days. So many weird people around they have to really go all out to be noticed.
Wow. THAT is one reason why i have become more and more comfortable with being in my home more often than not.
This world has gone fkn insane.
I still find it so sad that when she was asked what made her special she didn't mention passions, talents, lived experiences or anything of the sort but rather mentioned a political identity and an aesthetic identity
There was nothing that appeared masculine about that "I'm trans masc" girl.....nothing...
That is because masculinity is a concept, does not mean it isnt real but it is still a concept. What is considered masc or fem is entirely subjective.
@@Simone-ikon well you are half right. I agree that it's conceptual. I'm not seeing proof of concept here.
... God dam. I am Irish, and... That hurts to see.
I EMBRACE my basicness.
#BasicBro
True... There is much to the power of low-frills in just about anything.
But this is also a "cultural" feat that is always being fed by media (along with the rest of our troubles) - many newspapers for instance have these ridiculous weekly exposes on "people of [name city]" with people being all "colorful" as they are selected to present themselves for a bit, where they try to pass off the idea that people can truly create their own personalities, and that personalities are what one wears on the outside.
I think some women go through a phase where they don’t want to be women and are uncomfortable with themselves. The phase eventually subsides.
"I love drama." Ya dont say? That sums up the current LGBTQ+ community perfectly.
Yes exactly
I’m a trans man and I’m boring. I just go to work and avoid coworkers because they annoy me. And I go home and watch tv and fix dinner after work. I mow my lawn on the weekends. Work on my house on weekends when I have time. Watch my husband beta test computer games and talk to himself about the games. So….. yup I’m completely boring. And I love it that way.
I mean, that sounds like a good life. Is it wrong to want a nice life like that?
u sounds like a good neighbor
It’s a life I love. It’s not wrong to want a nice life. Life isn’t easy tho. Lots of ups and downs and soul searching. I’ve made more wrong decisions than right ones. But that’s how you grow as a person. I don’t know if these kids now days can even be happy with being “boring”. Or be happy at all. They don’t seem to have any type of personal connection with anyone. They’re quick to “go no contact” with their own parents because their parents didn’t parent them the way they think they should have. Finding your way in life isn’t easy and takes work.
And I try to be a good neighbor. We are friendly and helpful but we mind our own business but yet keep an eye on things. When we have our god sons we try to keep them out of other peoples areas. But if they see people they want to go and make new friends and want to ask them 100 questions. But that’s what a 6 and 8 year old do and since they’re homeschooled and don’t get electronics so they’re very social kids.
Not boring....content!
We have the same life, brother. Wouldn't have it any other way 🙌
Arielle is in the zone, grounded, ready to take on this month's madness.
Gets clearer every day; stupid has taken over
Is that a zombie or…!? 😭😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Idiocracy but worse.
Just here, appreciating your truth.
This is what talentless people do to get attention for their art as their art usually sucks.
As a bi Jew, lgbt pride events make me uncomfortable too.
The fact that there were other contestants who were LGB and didn't feel the need to point it out... It's ALWAYS the Q 😮💨😮💨
Or the T.
Frrr fax😮💨
I rejected the term queer, I'm okay with superstraight, supergay, superlesbian, superasexual, superaroace, superbi, born female tomboys, transmedicalists, people with vsc, vsd and dsd and transsexuals
That's cuz some of us just want to live our lives without screaming the fact we're different on the roof tops cuz we don't wanna draw negative attention to our selves we just want to be treated like everyone else inspite of loving differently
@@Theintrovertednow you perfectly described how I feel about this 👏
So funny when they say they "feel" like something they have never, could never, has never, been. It's like saying today I feel like a banana.....that's not possible no one has ever been a banana let alone been a banana then transformed back into a human with the ability to explain how it feels to be a banana. These folks are either completely out of their mind or pretending to be completely out of their mind. Possibly a little of both.
At the 10:00 mark, the cringe was so bad I LITERALLY took out my earbuds.
Great video! As someone with ADHD, I think people do the same thing with neurological disorders. I actually have ADHD. I was diagnosed in high school and before I was, it caused me a lot of problems. I was really good at my academics but I suffered with my social life. I called out in class, forgot to raise my hand, lost things all the time, and could not sit still. Through high school I got briefly involved with the group of people who dealt with identity politics. To fit in, I started trying to label myself with more mental disorders. I tried to convince myself I also had Autism. My mother talked me out of it and told me I didn’t need to label myself. There are some people today that still tell me I have symptoms that could be defined as Asperger’s but I’ve learned to just live my life. None of those symptoms cause me problems so it doesn’t matter. I also know I have the ADHD label but it doesn’t really matter as long as I manage it. I think people need to learn to love themselves without trying to fit themselves into boxes to get social points.
"I AM NOT GONNA BE IGNORED.!!!" - Alexandra Forrest 1987
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Pride events are kink events now. I thought it was regressive to equate gayness with kinkiness 😒😒
A good point, couldn't agree more.
"That's it, I want my umbrella back, you have borrowed it long enough".
What makes me special? Nothing. I am not special. Like most, just trying to eke my way through life and hopefully learn something along the way.
Know what special about me? Nothing. Just zero. So i clame to be one of the cool kids.