@@arielle I'm 54 and went back to college at 50 (law school) - and the **group think**, adherence to mantras, and "certain truths can't be questioned" .... it was nuts. Granted - we all look back "with rose tinted glasses" - but I have a pretty good memory and it was NOT like this. Oh, lol, and my 1L year? Was 2019-2020 - yea, THAT time period. Total dumpster fire of conformity.
It has never meant anything. There´s se* and then there are personalities. Gender should be the synonym for se* when you want to avoid cens0rbots which "think" you are talking abut something explicit online.
“I’m constantly shifting. I’m constantly changing and the way I am is not going to define me… and literally in probably 2 weeks” said the person who chopped off body parts that can never grow back.
Yes, surgery should only be available to those who experience genuine years long severe to extreme dysphoria and you have to wait at least 4 years into medical transition before surgery is an option. The current wait time and I am not joking is…….1 year 😵💫
One of the nicest things in this short life are boobs. Boobs are beautiful. I never like when a person enlarges them, or in this case, gets rid of them.
As George Orwell noted, fanatics will abuse language to further their cause. War is peace, freedom is slavery, ignorance is strength, and gender is a personal feeling.
So true. It stops our ability to have conversations about anything! Especially the most important issues. The people who want power and control don't want us to be able to talk about peace or war, freedom or slavery, men or women so they emphasize the idea that all these words are the same thing. Just make up a meaning based on how you feel. Then, of course, all words are meaningless and we can't speak to each other clearly.
A period is defined as a hormonal fluctuation now. So you can gush the red sea through your female parts from your female parts, but that's no different than cramps. It's a symptom of a period, not the period (feelings) itself. I wish I was joking, but by next year, it's going to be a fact like "woman is a gender." I remember when the word female was the one used to describe gender and woman was the sex. It wasn't that long ago. By the time these misogynists are done, women aren't going to have one aspect of our biology that isn't overwritten to cater to delusion. There's still no push to rewrite male bodily functions, though.
The basic tool for the manipulation of reality is the manipulation of words. If you can control the meaning of words, you can control the people who must use them. Philip K. Dick
" I identify as Tiegender because I feel shitty and I feel like I work a 9 to 5 every day of the week and get paid borderline minimum wage. " It's mainly the thought process of every single person who creates new genders
Once a person starts saying "I can't fully explain it" or "I don't entirely understand it," they've already lost me. If being non-binary is something that means so much to you, then being able to provide a simple scientific definition of what it means should be something you can do.
I don't get non binary.. if you say you don't conform to "Binary" gender rules... Then what tf r you? Air?? If you aren't a gender or even apparently a fucking person, then you shouldn't have rights, for your implying that your something that's not alive or an object. Or a group of something. That isn't human.
Hell, doesnt even need a scientific definition. If its so important, a logically coherent reasoning of how you went from woman -> nonbinary would suffice. Same person says they dont understand cis or straight people, yet those are the simplest ones. Cis: sex = their gender. And most dont go beyond that. Straight: sexually attracted to opposite sex. Maybe conflating gender with presention, sex, and feelings muddles the waters.
@@juliyanmartinez3785 When people get furious, post videos online of being "misgendered", talk about stabbing and punching "cis" people in the face and want to change laws to make it illegal to prevent males from going into women's spaces. they DO have to explain shit.
When pink bikini 👙 says it should be a conversation every day how someone identifies (and expects others to remember & get their constantly changing pronouns correct) is hilariously absurd 🤣. Can you imagine doing this with each person you interact with in a day!? You’d have time for nothing else & be eternally memorizing & re-memorizing. The amount of pure, self-absorbed egotism required to think 💭 this is a good use of time across our culture is off the chart 📈 🤡
100% .... and _HERE_ is the "funny" thing about it all. *We ALL KNOW that when they get **_Older_** and they* change their minds Later THEY Themselves will say: "oh my god I was SO Dumb when I was younger, so prideful & ANGRY" (with everybody else) LATER? they'll realize how god damn _DUMB_ they were but until then? .... *UNTIL they **_grow up_** a little bit* they have "THE RIGHT" to be A$$holes to us all _as if WE are the dumb ones_ I see why YOUNG folks shouldn't talk it's extremely rare that they're Halfway smart I am no "hater" --- I don't _"Hate"_ the "alternative" lifestyles but, as with ANY (normal) person who wants to just LIVE and Let Live? these kids do not have the right to be changing EVERYBODY Elses life (nor do the "professors" who've taught them it is right) too many "ivory tower" types influence the youth. Hell, too many of the TEACHERS are a bit too young (have never actually "Lived") and do not know HOW to cooperate with people living within reality
Yes, but it makes them feel "edgy" and unique. Women are much more susceptible to this, as one of the worst assumptions or assertions to make about a woman is "she's just like other women / not unique" and so especially with teen girls, and all the normal insecurities that come at that age, these teachers are making perfectly normal healthy girls feel like they have to be "non-conforming / queer / [whatever]" so they are in some way interesting and not "cookie cutter."
@@StevenMRAreal. As a female, growing up I was ridiculed for not being feminine enough, but was also bullied for being too emotional crying like a girl. The pressure little girls feel will never go away because the goal post is always moving. I thought I was trans because everyone around me was saying I hardly acted like a girl.. so I believed I wasn’t one. I grew up and grew some confidence, but I worry for the generation of children after me
Did that person with top surgery scars just say that they might feel differently two weeks from now? But yet they still thought it was ok to permanently remove some of their body parts....
I hate when people say "Well, you don't have to understand something in order to respect it." Actually you do. If you want a concept, such as non-binary, to be respected, being able to offer a concrete definition should be the bare minimum.
And yet even when an explanation is given, people will give every reason under the sun as to why they should be allowed to blatantly disrespect trans and non-binary people. There's a lot of things people don't understand about each other--culture, religion, why they do the things they do. Few people would argue someone isn't worthy of basic respect just because they don't understand something about the other person. If I said "call me by my nickname" and you asked why, I would say "because I want you to". Would you question me further on it? Of course not. It's no different for non-binary people.
@@petersaysthings But the difference is that calling someone by a nickname doesn't have consequences. Likewise, we understand why certain religious and cultural customs exist and may choose to respect them. But non-binary is a concept that we're not even sure is real and everyone struggles to define it. I don't think it's healthy for us to be blindly respecting something like that with no questions.
@petersaysthings I have never recieved a logical and sensible definition of "non-binary" that would convince me to think of it as anything else than being sex-normatives non conformative - just a personality trait...
As a woman who has been physically assaulted and sexually abused I struggle with this topic. I need female only spaces to support me at times. When I need a female only space it’s to feel safe. If what physical presents as a male were to come into those spaces I would feel unsafe, uncomfortable and potentially even threatened. There has to be an appreciation for the safety of those who have been harmed and are on the journey to heal and need a safe space. Edited to correct a lower case I into a capital I.
Lighters and hairspray are innocuous objects often found in women’s purses…-just saying. Police will do nothing, we will have to become warrior queens ourselves…
So are you saying you would not be uncomfortable by a male presenting as a female in what is supposed to be a female only space that's kind of hypocritical. I'm really sorry that you have had such bad experiences in the past but wavering on this point is not going to protect yourself. Males no matter how they present do not belong in females spaces. Full stop.
They're "tired of explaining who they are" yet "have to have a constant conversation" about "labels don't matter" but are "going to change them every 2 weeks" but "don't you dare mislabel me" "because that's violence"... oh and it's "all socio-economic problems"
It’s like playing pigeon chess, as the saying goes 😂 It’s the constant contradictions that grind my gears. We’re not supposed to assume the gender on one hand, & the next minute it’s “I have long hair, painted nails - why are you not instantly aware of my gender identity!” Can’t win🤷🏼♀️
What happened to personality, preferences, and mood? Most of what's being described here sounds a lot like personality and mood, and not so much gender.
Nope... (not allowed) ... *They* are 'right' and YOU are _Wrong_ _don'Chya know?_ YOUNG people & Young 'ADULTS' .... *_know EVERYTHING_* and you (yourself) are inherently wrong yup. ....you're just WRONG. you're also "Old" and you've _Sold Out_ (to something) don't you REMEMBER when you were young? (and *YOU* knew everything?) Funny thing is, _when you get older & more experienced_ you start SEEING how "dumb" you were as an overly prideful kid
I can't even with gender ideology anymore. The fact that somebody can say their gender is "Horse" and use "Clip/Clop" pronouns and governments say we have to be like "Yup, that's real" is sad, depressing and shows just how doomed humanity is.
The backlash is still fermenting.. it will be unpleasant, these people won't have a hope in hell of defending themselves, their fight for rights will be back to square 1. You don't make allies by yelling and screaming at people, and that's what's occurred. I don't really care anymore. I'm a middle aged dude. I'll just just do whatever I want!
This is what happens when you give words, that used to have a finality, a rigidity, a very seldom use for only the most severe situations, into the hands of a politically charged and self-righteous collective of relativistic post-modernists.
@@WilliamScavengerFish Phobia: an exaggerated usually inexplicable and illogical fear of a particular object, class of objects, or situation. When the ABC Mafia added hate to their definition of ABC phobias, they're making it political and an excuse to be cry-bullies.
Born female. Identity as female. Grew up dressing like a boy until I hit puberty. Became highly feminine one day, very masculinity next day. Was never and have never been confused about my gender because I was taught that clothes don't define your gender. Even now, my style depends on my mood, but I'm all female. Born 1987.
That's great. I am born male, identify as male - but will never have your freedom to choose how I present myself. We must remember that there are people everywhere enforcing their rules on other people. That's how CZcams brought me to this channel - I disagree with the presenter and many of the commenters because I think they are enforcing their rules on other people. The LGBTQ community should always be about allowing others the freedom to be who they want to be - even if it is not your cup of tea.
@@gavinminion8515 "Enforcing their rules on other people"? Hey, those self-important narcissists and their all-consuming need to be "special" are perfectly free to be whatever they want to be! They can exercise their freedom to identify as Transgender Nonbinary Libertarian Ecumenical Zoroastrian Pudding Pop Werewolves with Xor/Xiv/Xir neopronouns eight days a week and twice on Sundays if they want. And if interacting with them proves to be so much of a chore that scraping barnacles off a fishing boat becomes _enjoyable_ by comparison, then *_I_* will exercise *_my_* freedom to completely ignore the entirety of their existence. And if their aggression and intolerance towards my "noncompliance" grows, then so will my defiance. So shall it be.
@@gavinminion8515 Some of us (biologically XX) women are simply saying what @absolutelyridiculous and Arielle are saying: your sex is your sex, your _gender expression_ or _presentation_ can be whatever you want. And you don't have to surgically alter your body just because you are a feminine man or masculine woman. Born female. Identify as female. Always felt uncomfortable and vulnerable wearing dresses/skirts, can't walk in heels, etc. I have interests both traditionally female and traditionally male (my cooking, interior design, and gardening books/magazines share space with my tech, business, and DIY ones). My clothes are usually from the women's section, but pretty unisex. I've worn men's clothes and shoes, too. I am "androgynous" and "gender-nonconforming", but I've never felt the need to announce it to anyone in person unless we are specifically talking about sex and gender roles. And I AM a woman. And queer/gay/lesbian. And I hate that other people are redefining those words or obscuring gay/lesbian identity by calling themselves only "queer" and "including" others until the original terms have no meaning anymore and the original members feel _excluded_ or erased. I'm not trying to "enforce rules", I'm just saying "don't appropriate my sex" or redefine my identity, so that you can force everyone to validate your beliefs.
@@nodoboho Thanks, I agree almost completely with your first paragraph (I'll admit to being unsure on surgery - I would never want to do this myself, but I go with medical advice that some folks really need to change the way they present themselves. This is similar to post operation plastic surgery, if someone needs to look a particular way to 'fit in' then I am not going to oppose them doing that.) I agree with your second paragraph totally - and your bookshelf would look very similar to mine. Though I have a couple of books on looking after children too. And don't think I have problems with most of the third paragraph either - it's an ideal that I think multiple people are trying to get to in different ways. The only thing that stands out is that you hate how people are redefining words. You've got every right to hate that, but you should also understand that other people think different. Some consider themselves Gay / Lesbian, some Queer, Some Non Binary, some Transgender, and so on... If that redefines a group you are in, you might not like that, but it doesn't invalidate their own right to be members. Telling them so enforces a rule even if you don't mean it to. And maybe you should not feel so excluded by these people joining your group. For my own case, being "A Man" has been redefined immensely during my lifetime. I've gone from the "Breadwinner, Head of the Family, Patriarch" to "Gaslighting, Mansplaining, Predator" (And I don't like either extreme, but there it is). I have personally felt excluded from the group known as 'Men' because of toxic behaviour of certain men in the group - now I recognise that it isn't 'men' that are the problem, it's just certain men whose behaviour is so reprehensible. Perhaps, rather than having a problem with the whole 'trans' community (as this video does), it would be better to focus on individual behaviour? Some who join the group you are in will make a positive contribution, others may not - but surely each individual should be decided by their own merits. Finally regarding people 'forcing' me to validate their beliefs. I recognise now that this is just a thing that happens. My beliefs are mine, they are different to everyone else's and some will disagree with them. Your beliefs are yours, they are unique to you and, from what I read, if we met we would probably be able to have a grown up debate on the differences. Some people will demand you accept their beliefs - that is because they are toxic - be they male, female, gay, straight, trans, queer etc... Just because I don't completely agree with you, doesn't mean I think your beliefs are invalid, or even that my beliefs are 'better' than yours. In fact, I hope I have tried hard here to answer you without missing the point you are trying to make. All the best.
why would I ask someone their pronous when I'm speaking to them? Pronouns are for referring to people usually not in the vicinity. If someone happens to tell me my pronouns are "fill in the blank" and I MUST speak with or about them, I'm referring to them only by name. I'm not using some made up crap because someone feels desperate for attention
@@Frau.Kanzlerin only KIDS have time for that BS only KIDS _think it is IMPORTANT_ these people NEED jobs (or something) or to age a bit (at least) and _LEARN_ about reality. These guys are still NAMING their imaginary friends
Can someone explain to me why LGB and TQ+ are in the same community? LGB has to do with who you area sexually and romantically attracted to while TQ+ has nothing to do with that 😂
I think gender is nothing. It's clearly now so trivial and convoluted by the left as to be useless. And clearly so redundant on the right (since we already have sex) as to be useless. We should get rid of the concept of gender altogether and make a clean separation between mood/personality/vibe/interests and forensic/scientific definitions
I agree, except that I try to avoid female-erasing language like “bio woman”; it’s just woman. Theres no such thing as a “non-biologically woman” person.
Notice how the person with top surgery kept covering their scars up. Definitely they were uncomfortable. And these folks are telling me that this is supposed to be helping them? I'm not buying what they're selling.
I transitioned back in 2012 and back then one had to go to therapy for at least 6 months but I extended it 2 years. Therapy helped me so much not in treating dysphoria but clearing out the other issues I had and challenges that I support strongly recommending therapy top adults transitioning for no less than 8 sessions to get a read on them and then extending that if clear cut gender dysphoria is not found. You cant allow someone to transition if they say they are 80% sure. It has to be 100%.
observe the body language at 0:50 when that girl says “but I try to respect what people feel” she puts her hands up in a defensive way like “please don’t come after me!”
Her whole body language through this made me uncomfortable. Hunching over, covering herself up while talking, raised shoulders the whole time. She reminds me of someone who has grown up abused since childhood. I had a friend with the same mannerisms and it's hard to see now.
they only want "gender affirming" therapists and not actual ones. toxic women love shopping around for therapists that tell them what they want to hear and affirm their narcissistic behavior
A majority of the time now it is the therapists who take someone who comes to them with other issues like depression and anxiety and helps them realize that those other issues must be wrapped up in the wrong body or gender identity suppression. Therapy is the last thing they could benefit from more of, unless the therapy world relents of its current path.
Problem is in many states if you don't conform to this nonsense, they'll yank your license for bigotry. Same as we've seen with "affirmation therapy" on the trans issue.
Both definitions (according to Google and Irl experiences) Literally, EXACTLY contradict each other in a very direct way. How can you be nothing but also something. You are not a fourth dimensional being. Very idiotic.@@mikebryant614
And no matter how much you agree with them heaven forbid you disagree with ONE THING you’re cast out & “cancelled” pretty darn quickly for a community that prides themselves so hard on “tolerance” 🙃
I've constantly said I feel a lot of non binary people are confusing gender expression with gender identity. expression can be fluid AF and both men and women can be X amounts of feminine or masculine. but it wouldn't make an identifying woman any less of a woman or an identifying man any less of a man.
A boy can like pink stuff or a girl can like driving big ass monster trucks or something.. dosent make them less of a woman or a guy. It's stupid. You can suddenly feel like shit one day and you go "Ah, It must mean I identify as a dude with a 9 to 5 getting paid borderline minimum wage. "
NO, *_NOooooo_*_ --ooooh_ they are Completely _Right_ and it is *YOU* , who is *_Completely WRONG_* this is why (in days of Yore) . . YOUNG . . people were not allowed to talk *_that's how insanity spreads_*
23 year old WOMAN here, I was born a woman and that's what I am lol as a kid I was a tomboy, doesn't mean I'm a man 😂 Not all of the younger generations are crazy
@@JokersD0ll "Respect my imaginary pronouns" is another way of saying "Speak the way I demand that you speak," and I will absolutely not do that. If you look like a woman, I say "she". If you look like a man, I say "he". It's not any more complicated than that.
Those glaring scars are so off putting too,they arent declaring you are a Male at all ,but rather draw attention to the reality that you were a female ( or are as the case actually is) .
A person commits indecent exposure if she exposes the areola or nipple of her breast or breasts and another person is present, DNA and jail. But implants and male >> no jail????
People keep saying these people are 0.001% of the population. No. These kids have been created all over the place and .....shame on the butchers who did that to that girl.
Great that you accept that there is more than one sexual preference. A hundred years ago you would not have been allowed to. Do you not get even a hint that the behaviour you would have faced back then might just be the behaviour you are displaying now?
@@chaosme1ster And there's asexuality, I suppose, but classifying asexuality as a sexual preference is much like classifying atheism as a religion or classifying nonexistence as a mammal. 🤔
Even us actual transsexuals get called far right neo-nazis for calling out the fact that the made-up term "transgender" is nothing but a Marxist movement in disguise...out to destroy America.😒
“I’m constantly shifting, I’m constantly changing, and the way I am is not going to define me in literally two weeks.” says the woman who had her breasts permanently removed.
I'm sure it'll be a big city pride event like NYC or SF, which always has the crazy stuff and thus affords her a more biased view for her 'LGBT Damage Control' segment. Go to a more suburban area or smaller town and you won't see much of that at all.
When I was a teenager we refused to Label ourselves nor accept gender stereotypes and it was all fine...we just wanted to find out who we're what we like and so on... nowadays they're not just labeling themselves but create the tiniest boxes and do anything to make themselves fit in those limitations of who they're...it's soooooo sad
@christineeleonorepoppe6745 It's inspiration porn addiction. These kids see people like the Stonewall protestors and instead of honoring what they accomplished, they hyperfocus on and misrepresent their identities and struggles.
Exactly! I also think it's a way to escape any negative things associated with their sex. I saw a woman claim on the internet that she can't be sexually harassed bc she's not a woman, she's non-binary.
@@woollyprimate if that is true then we are dealing wityh a bunch of scary mf'ers. I'll give you the equivalent. I'm from the hood and we all know what goes on in these types of neighborhoods(drugs, violence, etc). If I wanted to claim "hood"conconformity I would just stay locked away in my mouse all the time. That sounds exactly like FEAR so let's call it what it is and stop trying to be cutsie about it.
Right? Well, they became uncomfortable and started covering up their scars when it became clear that Arielle wasn't there to unconditionally applaud gender ideology...
"There's an infinite amount" But there isn't an infinite amount of words. We need words and definitions to classify things and operate. Without it, it's chaos and we can't understand anything. Which is why these peoples lives are always chaotic.
Exactly! There’s not even an infinite number of people on the planet. The most we could say is billions of genders. Which is only using the word gender as a synonym for personalities and even that’s not true. There’s not 8 billion personalities on the planet because humans aren’t as unique from each other as we’d like to believe.
Gender Identity is how you identify as.. so, by their logic, you by GENDER IDENTITY you can either identify as Woman, Man, or both. That's it. Nothing else. Since everything else isn't a GENDER its just made up. When you say GENDER identity, it's mostly referring to male and female, which are biological classifications for 2 separate species of homo-saapiens.. or... Another term by some random scholar back in 1940 or something.. GENDER. Honestly, whoever says it's "infinite" needs to be corrected.
"Without it, it's chaos and we can't understand anything." I'm not religious, but as a Literature major and writer, I absolutely related with the scripture that said God is the word, and the word is God.
Think my comment got deleted again. I wrote that there’s not even infinite people for an infinite number of gender identities. They mean personalities. Even then there’s not 8 billion personalities in the world as humans aren’t as unique as we think we are.
A lot of classic LGBT no longer go to Pride. It used to be one day and in very specific places. It was also not filled with confused people who can't explain themselves. There were also never any minors, yet never open debauchery. I miss the old Pride parades.
A day is reasonable. The LGBT people back then just wanna live quiet lives without being harassed or even assaulted. All they wanted was to be normal and like whom they like. A month is crazy tho. Veterans Day is only a day and apparently some random people that suddenly feel different are more important than people who went through trauma and training to protect us??? Wild
One of the biggest issues this community has, as it stands today, is the fact that they expect everyone else to care about how "they feel". Nobody cares about you. People close to you may care, but nobody else does. For real. And they become so upset, and often times belligerent, while claiming righteousness over their emotions. It's so narcissistic.
the couple that said they didn't understand it but they respect people is so chill and cool. and the one on the right said she's an 80s baby?! looking wayyy younger wow
Remember when people didn't want to be labeled and androgyny wasn't a thing that need to be defined? Now everything has to be labeled and put in separate boxes. It feels like we are going backwards.
I’m curious; how do they even describe homosexuality in the trans community? Being homosexual means you are same-sex attracted; not same-gender-identity attracted. Acknowledging that gay/lesbian people exist requires acknowledging that sexual orientation is about biology, not gender expression.
@@MeltyIceBlock ok but that’s now how being gay/lesbian works. A lesbian isn’t going to date someone who was born male and gay men aren’t going to date people born female. Maybe that’s the issue, maybe they simply don’t understand same-sex attraction.
I used to be horrified by the under breast scars of women who got breast implants. I am even more horrified by the scars on women and children who had their breasts removed. WTF has happened to the world?? We need mental asylums back !!!
Even us actual trans people can't stand this bullshit going on!! 🤦♀️ The Marxist left posing as "transgender" and "trans allies" have completely hijacked the community, and threw us actual transsexuals out because we don't subscribe to their neo gender Marxist dogshit! 🤦♀️ Believe me, ALL of us TRUE TRANSSEXUALS can't fucking stand all of this crap that's being done in our name. 🤦♀️ Theyve literally pushed us back about 20 to 30 years on the acceptance ladder...... Possibly even more! 😒
I deal with elderly people, my company sent out a policy about respecting gender pronouns. I thank my lucky stars everyday, that 80 year olds don’t give a royal $h#t about pronouns, they know what a man and a woman is and there is no confusion.
The woman who had her breasts cut off is so happy with the result that she’s covering her scars and hunched over defensively. Every day, more trans joy.
I am retired military (active duty, so this was my full time career), and a prior victim of SA. The first time after the assault that I had to go to a gyno it was a male doctor that I was assigned to. Being in the service I’m not used to making waves, and just did what I had to do- but I ended up, legs spread, crying on the table. He immediately backed off and covered me up and told me that for any further appointments I was to be sure I asked for a woman practitioner- that it was my RIGHT. Never have I been more embarrassed in my life; but I was also so grateful. His words remind me of what true empathy is, today. This what these activists have lost sight of. It’s okay to demand single-sex spaces, Uber-rides late at night, or medical practitioners. It’s okay to be a woman and not want MEN in our safe-spaces. It’s okay to push back on this idiotic, misogynistic nonsense that says men can “be” women on a whim just by growing their hair long and wearing bad makeup. We are not just what a male’s perception of us may be. Enough is enough, and the madness needs to stop. There are plenty of men out there who DO care and who DO understand and who DO want the same things for us that we want for ourselves. We are not alone in this fight! There are far more on OUR side than theirs- and that is why they are going after the school-aged children. *No fight is won by “being polite”; and the time for niceties is over.*
I feel like these people confuse personality with pronouns. They are so deep in their own bull$h!t they don't realise the reason they call us boring or cis, is down to their own inadequacies & insecurities.
How can they not understand that not being able to define terms defeats the purpose of terms. They speak in such nonsense and expect everyone to just "understand". It blows my mind.
A few moments that stood out to me: 1:32 It's frustrating to have to explain to every single person what it means to be yourself, but I'm constantly shifting. I'm constantly changing. The way I am is not going to define me. Same person 1:54 Normalize asking people their pronouns 3:24 But it is your personal responsibility to communicate that 5:34 Why do we have to explain ourselves so much? 2:13 Not everyone is the way you might assume they are 3:29 Moving away from trying to strictly define for all people something that is always going to have exceptions. The main thing I take away from these interviews is that many of the people you spoke to think other people should appease their desires, but at the same time are unwilling to change themselves to react to other people's desires. They see the world as having infinite genders, and yet others don't. Why can they reject the idea of binary genders, but those who think binary genders can't reject the idea of infinite genders? I also don't think I'm hearing well thought out consistent statements. What I'm hearing are slogans, that individually sound good even if some of those slogans contradict other slogans. To me that's a pretty big problem. The world they want to create is impossible due to the contradictions they express.
It's particularly a big problem when the person saying those slogans has had her breasts removed. Clearly a very confused individual who needs others to talk for her but who has also been taken advantage of by the medical system
Arielle did a video not long ago on I think it was BPD (borderline personality disorder) and had a professional explana the symptoms of it and why that might cross over with people apart of this group. The biggest one was confusion and no stability in their personalities, which we see in this video, but also constantly within this group. It's an interesting assessment and explains a lot of this behavior. These people are horribly confused and it will only heighten their unstable emotions and will end badly for them.
"My experience of what a term means to me...given my experiences, my background, my feelings...is probably going to be different from the way someone else experiences it." If no two people can agree on the meaning of a simple word, and we say the meaning of a term changes with subjective experience, then even having the word as part of a shared language is pointless. We cannot get to the point where we look up "woman" (for example) in the dictionary, and the entry says "no one truly knows what this word means because everyone experiences their own meaning of it differently"
I think there used to be something called "personality" and "moods" - it sounds to me that this group doesn't see the nuance of simply being a unique individual rather than a homogeneous group or category.
You're standing on the truth of biology as it's been for thousands of years and yet the trans cult is making you afraid of telling the truth because of some bs they made up because they're deeply confused and hurting, and now you're the bad guy for explaning basic biology against their delusions.
Just sounds like word salad. They throw a whole lot of terms together and speak fast, seemingly confident of what they say, but can't answer a simple question.
I personally don’t subscribe to the current gender politics these days but I am blown away by how you respectfully allowed those that you were interviewing to explain their points. Great job!
the one that removed their breasts. it was painfully obvious how uncomfortable it was for them to be standing there, the arms cross across the chest, hands tucked into their pits ..
The basic tool for the manipulation of reality is the manipulation of words. If you can control the meaning of words, you can control the people who must use them. Philip K. Dick
Saying that gender identity needs to be a constant conversation because from day to day it can change is something else. How arrogant and delusional. There are far more pressing and interesting things to be discussed in this world. In a world where surviving depends on skills and abilities these people would perish. They think this crap is the apex of concerns in life.
I've only ever seen either a penis or a vagina " down there" , so I'd tend to agree. Still waiting on any reports of a "third option" being discovered on any of these supposed other " genders".
I love how they act so much more educated and like you are the ignorant one, but every single question you ask they run circles around everything but an answer. You aren’t even asking for a RIGHT answer 😂 Just their own answer or explanation… and they cannot even provide that 💀 How can you be *so* invested and stand so tall for something that you cannot even define in your own words…? That is wild. Reminds me of the German army blindly following Hitler… because hey “that is what we were told to believe in”. 🤷🏻♀️
They demand others adhere to their words, but they can't define the words themselves. Wow.
This is the point of this video ❤
@@arielle I'm 54 and went back to college at 50 (law school) - and the **group think**, adherence to mantras, and "certain truths can't be questioned" .... it was nuts.
Granted - we all look back "with rose tinted glasses" - but I have a pretty good memory and it was NOT like this.
Oh, lol, and my 1L year? Was 2019-2020 - yea, THAT time period. Total dumpster fire of conformity.
Something oxymoronic.
and demand respect while continuing to call women "cis" women.
Or they change their pronouns daily while demanding we use the correct ones...wtf!
So basically, gender no longer means anything.
Kinda like "woman" since now anyone and everyone can be one just by saying so.
Gender never meant anything. Always been a construct
I believe the variable they’re playing with is ‘gender expression’ and ‘gender identity’, not the conventional meaning of gender (male/female)
It has never meant anything. There´s se* and then there are personalities.
Gender should be the synonym for se* when you want to avoid cens0rbots which "think" you are talking abut something explicit online.
@@juliyanmartinez3785 If it has no meaning then why is it so important to these people?
“I’m constantly shifting. I’m constantly changing and the way I am is not going to define me… and literally in probably 2 weeks” said the person who chopped off body parts that can never grow back.
It genuinely concerns me how people "think" like this.
Yes, surgery should only be available to those who experience genuine years long severe to extreme dysphoria and you have to wait at least 4 years into medical transition before surgery is an option. The current wait time and I am not joking is…….1 year 😵💫
Went through a full female to male transition and is still a nonbinary woman…
As a breast cancer survivor, it is hard to fathom.
One of the nicest things in this short life are boobs.
Boobs are beautiful.
I never like when a person enlarges them, or in this case, gets rid of them.
As George Orwell noted, fanatics will abuse language to further their cause. War is peace, freedom is slavery, ignorance is strength, and gender is a personal feeling.
*’If thought corrupts language, then language can also corrupt thought.’*
So true. It stops our ability to have conversations about anything! Especially the most important issues. The people who want power and control don't want us to be able to talk about peace or war, freedom or slavery, men or women so they emphasize the idea that all these words are the same thing. Just make up a meaning based on how you feel. Then, of course, all words are meaningless and we can't speak to each other clearly.
Now, it can also depend on the time of the year, according to newest category: season gendered 🤣
A period is defined as a hormonal fluctuation now. So you can gush the red sea through your female parts from your female parts, but that's no different than cramps. It's a symptom of a period, not the period (feelings) itself. I wish I was joking, but by next year, it's going to be a fact like "woman is a gender." I remember when the word female was the one used to describe gender and woman was the sex. It wasn't that long ago.
By the time these misogynists are done, women aren't going to have one aspect of our biology that isn't overwritten to cater to delusion. There's still no push to rewrite male bodily functions, though.
The basic tool for the manipulation of reality is the manipulation of words. If you can control the meaning of words, you can control the people who must use them.
Philip K. Dick
Its so weird how they started calling personality traits "genders"
" I identify as Tiegender because I feel shitty and I feel like I work a 9 to 5 every day of the week and get paid borderline minimum wage. "
It's mainly the thought process of every single person who creates new genders
Personality traits and mood. 🤦🏻♀️
My gender is that I like zombies. 😎
@@Eusong My gender is that I _fight_ zombies. 🧟♂🧟🧟♀🧟🧟♂🧟♂🧟♀🧟
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The fact that these people don’t know what they’re talking about is fucking crazy
Typical cult.
@@Mouse_Metalas they cut body parts off or take hormones and drugs that severely damage their bodies 😂
@@jc7997ajExactly. It is just horrible.
That describes every TikTok video posted by a white girl with short green hair and Tarzan armpits.
Almost every one of them is talking in circles. They’re so used to it and accepted it they don’t see how it doesn’t make sense.
Once a person starts saying "I can't fully explain it" or "I don't entirely understand it," they've already lost me. If being non-binary is something that means so much to you, then being able to provide a simple scientific definition of what it means should be something you can do.
I don't get non binary.. if you say you don't conform to "Binary" gender rules... Then what tf r you? Air??
If you aren't a gender or even apparently a fucking person, then you shouldn't have rights, for your implying that your something that's not alive or an object.
Or a group of something. That isn't human.
Hell, doesnt even need a scientific definition. If its so important, a logically coherent reasoning of how you went from woman -> nonbinary would suffice.
Same person says they dont understand cis or straight people, yet those are the simplest ones.
Cis: sex = their gender. And most dont go beyond that.
Straight: sexually attracted to opposite sex.
Maybe conflating gender with presention, sex, and feelings muddles the waters.
"Can you explain what that means?" "No, I can't" had me dying 😂
Bc like why would they have to. They don’t have to explain shit
@@juliyanmartinez3785Because there is nothing to explain. This shit is all made up nonsense that they demand everyone else comply with.
They can´t explain it but they want everyone who questions their unexplainable bull**** arrested and imprisoned for hate speach. :D
I gave him a chance
@@juliyanmartinez3785 When people get furious, post videos online of being "misgendered", talk about stabbing and punching "cis" people in the face and want to change laws to make it illegal to prevent males from going into women's spaces. they DO have to explain shit.
When pink bikini 👙 says it should be a conversation every day how someone identifies (and expects others to remember & get their constantly changing pronouns correct) is hilariously absurd 🤣. Can you imagine doing this with each person you interact with in a day!? You’d have time for nothing else & be eternally memorizing & re-memorizing.
The amount of pure, self-absorbed egotism required to think 💭 this is a good use of time across our culture is off the chart 📈 🤡
It's so trivial and self-centered.
I just couldn’t be bothered. I actually have a life, with things to do! The obsession some people have with their gender🙄
she sounds absolutely exhausting to be around.
Here’s a hot take, from a 60yo white heterosexual woman: these young people are making things WAY more complicated than they are. Or should be.
100% .... and _HERE_ is the "funny" thing about it all.
*We ALL KNOW that when they get **_Older_** and they* change their minds Later
THEY Themselves will say: "oh my god I was SO Dumb when I was younger, so prideful & ANGRY" (with everybody else)
LATER? they'll realize how god damn _DUMB_ they were
but until then? .... *UNTIL they **_grow up_** a little bit*
they have "THE RIGHT" to be A$$holes to us all _as if WE are the dumb ones_
I see why YOUNG folks shouldn't talk
it's extremely rare that they're Halfway smart
I am no "hater" --- I don't _"Hate"_ the "alternative" lifestyles
but, as with ANY (normal) person who wants to just LIVE and Let Live? these kids do not have the right to be changing EVERYBODY Elses life (nor do the "professors" who've taught them it is right) too many "ivory tower" types influence the youth.
Hell, too many of the TEACHERS are a bit too young (have never actually "Lived") and do not know HOW to cooperate with people living within reality
Yes, but it makes them feel "edgy" and unique. Women are much more susceptible to this, as one of the worst assumptions or assertions to make about a woman is "she's just like other women / not unique" and so especially with teen girls, and all the normal insecurities that come at that age, these teachers are making perfectly normal healthy girls feel like they have to be "non-conforming / queer / [whatever]" so they are in some way interesting and not "cookie cutter."
@@StevenMRAreal. As a female, growing up I was ridiculed for not being feminine enough, but was also bullied for being too emotional crying like a girl. The pressure little girls feel will never go away because the goal post is always moving. I thought I was trans because everyone around me was saying I hardly acted like a girl.. so I believed I wasn’t one. I grew up and grew some confidence, but I worry for the generation of children after me
As a 44 year old lesbian, I agree completely.
@@StevenMRAcorrection: some teachers, let’s not generalize. My spouse is a teacher and doesn’t agree with this gender ideology BS one bit.
Did that person with top surgery scars just say that they might feel differently two weeks from now? But yet they still thought it was ok to permanently remove some of their body parts....
I noticed that and felt sad for them
I hate when people say "Well, you don't have to understand something in order to respect it." Actually you do. If you want a concept, such as non-binary, to be respected, being able to offer a concrete definition should be the bare minimum.
And yet even when an explanation is given, people will give every reason under the sun as to why they should be allowed to blatantly disrespect trans and non-binary people. There's a lot of things people don't understand about each other--culture, religion, why they do the things they do. Few people would argue someone isn't worthy of basic respect just because they don't understand something about the other person. If I said "call me by my nickname" and you asked why, I would say "because I want you to". Would you question me further on it? Of course not. It's no different for non-binary people.
@@petersaysthings But the difference is that calling someone by a nickname doesn't have consequences. Likewise, we understand why certain religious and cultural customs exist and may choose to respect them. But non-binary is a concept that we're not even sure is real and everyone struggles to define it. I don't think it's healthy for us to be blindly respecting something like that with no questions.
@@petersaysthings if I was your friend and only knew you by your birth name. I'd probably keep calling you that.
@@petersaysthings Sometimes knicknames don't stick. Lol
I've had a few that didn't work. Can't be mad at people in your life that just see you as x
@petersaysthings I have never recieved a logical and sensible definition of "non-binary" that would convince me to think of it as anything else than being sex-normatives non conformative - just a personality trait...
As a woman who has been physically assaulted and sexually abused I struggle with this topic. I need female only spaces to support me at times. When I need a female only space it’s to feel safe. If what physical presents as a male were to come into those spaces I would feel unsafe, uncomfortable and potentially even threatened. There has to be an appreciation for the safety of those who have been harmed and are on the journey to heal and need a safe space.
Edited to correct a lower case I into a capital I.
Lighters and hairspray are innocuous objects often found in women’s purses…-just saying.
Police will do nothing, we will have to become warrior queens ourselves…
100%
So are you saying you would not be uncomfortable by a male presenting as a female in what is supposed to be a female only space that's kind of hypocritical. I'm really sorry that you have had such bad experiences in the past but wavering on this point is not going to protect yourself. Males no matter how they present do not belong in females spaces. Full stop.
They don't care about women, let alone what women need, as soon as it hurts someone "fEeLiNgS" and with feelings I mean ego.
This is valid, and yet people will invalidate you to make some man feel comfortable
They're "tired of explaining who they are" yet "have to have a constant conversation" about "labels don't matter" but are "going to change them every 2 weeks" but "don't you dare mislabel me" "because that's violence"... oh and it's "all socio-economic problems"
It’s like playing pigeon chess, as the saying goes 😂 It’s the constant contradictions that grind my gears. We’re not supposed to assume the gender on one hand, & the next minute it’s “I have long hair, painted nails - why are you not instantly aware of my gender identity!” Can’t win🤷🏼♀️
What happened to personality, preferences, and mood? Most of what's being described here sounds a lot like personality and mood, and not so much gender.
Nope... (not allowed) ... *They* are 'right' and YOU are _Wrong_
_don'Chya know?_ YOUNG people & Young 'ADULTS' .... *_know EVERYTHING_* and you (yourself) are inherently wrong
yup. ....you're just WRONG. you're also "Old" and you've _Sold Out_ (to something)
don't you REMEMBER when you were young? (and *YOU* knew everything?)
Funny thing is, _when you get older & more experienced_ you start SEEING how "dumb" you were as an overly prideful kid
That's exactly whatt it is. They confused expression with this. It is ridiculous.
Personality, Temperament and intriguingly Hobbies/Interest weirdly.
Yes! You're so right
Except that young girl had her breasts cut off that's why she has scars. So that's abuse by the medical profession of someones "mood".
I can't even with gender ideology anymore. The fact that somebody can say their gender is "Horse" and use "Clip/Clop" pronouns and governments say we have to be like "Yup, that's real" is sad, depressing and shows just how doomed humanity is.
The government want people to be dumb so they're more easily controlled.
I find it funny and I laugh in their face 😂
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The backlash is still fermenting.. it will be unpleasant, these people won't have a hope in hell of defending themselves, their fight for rights will be back to square 1. You don't make allies by yelling and screaming at people, and that's what's occurred. I don't really care anymore. I'm a middle aged dude. I'll just just do whatever I want!
One TikTok'r identified as "cake" gender, yet others can't identify as "attack helicopter". Not so inclusive are ya LGBTQ+EIEIO?
Now gender no longer means anything. Just like the word transphobia. It’s been used so much it’s lost all meaning. This was painful to listen to btw 😂
What is a phobia?
This is what happens when you give words, that used to have a finality, a rigidity, a very seldom use for only the most severe situations, into the hands of a politically charged and self-righteous collective of relativistic post-modernists.
I personally feel like I lost at least 30 IQ points from this video.
My pronouns are social/construct
@@WilliamScavengerFish Phobia: an exaggerated usually inexplicable and illogical fear of a particular object, class of objects, or situation.
When the ABC Mafia added hate to their definition of ABC phobias, they're making it political and an excuse to be cry-bullies.
Born female. Identity as female. Grew up dressing like a boy until I hit puberty. Became highly feminine one day, very masculinity next day. Was never and have never been confused about my gender because I was taught that clothes don't define your gender. Even now, my style depends on my mood, but I'm all female. Born 1987.
That's great. I am born male, identify as male - but will never have your freedom to choose how I present myself. We must remember that there are people everywhere enforcing their rules on other people. That's how CZcams brought me to this channel - I disagree with the presenter and many of the commenters because I think they are enforcing their rules on other people. The LGBTQ community should always be about allowing others the freedom to be who they want to be - even if it is not your cup of tea.
@@gavinminion8515 "Enforcing their rules on other people"? Hey, those self-important narcissists and their all-consuming need to be "special" are perfectly free to be whatever they want to be! They can exercise their freedom to identify as Transgender Nonbinary Libertarian Ecumenical Zoroastrian Pudding Pop Werewolves with Xor/Xiv/Xir neopronouns eight days a week and twice on Sundays if they want. And if interacting with them proves to be so much of a chore that scraping barnacles off a fishing boat becomes _enjoyable_ by comparison, then *_I_* will exercise *_my_* freedom to completely ignore the entirety of their existence. And if their aggression and intolerance towards my "noncompliance" grows, then so will my defiance. So shall it be.
@@gavinminion8515 Some of us (biologically XX) women are simply saying what @absolutelyridiculous and Arielle are saying: your sex is your sex, your _gender expression_ or _presentation_ can be whatever you want. And you don't have to surgically alter your body just because you are a feminine man or masculine woman.
Born female. Identify as female. Always felt uncomfortable and vulnerable wearing dresses/skirts, can't walk in heels, etc. I have interests both traditionally female and traditionally male (my cooking, interior design, and gardening books/magazines share space with my tech, business, and DIY ones). My clothes are usually from the women's section, but pretty unisex. I've worn men's clothes and shoes, too.
I am "androgynous" and "gender-nonconforming", but I've never felt the need to announce it to anyone in person unless we are specifically talking about sex and gender roles. And I AM a woman. And queer/gay/lesbian. And I hate that other people are redefining those words or obscuring gay/lesbian identity by calling themselves only "queer" and "including" others until the original terms have no meaning anymore and the original members feel _excluded_ or erased. I'm not trying to "enforce rules", I'm just saying "don't appropriate my sex" or redefine my identity, so that you can force everyone to validate your beliefs.
@@nodoboho Thanks, I agree almost completely with your first paragraph (I'll admit to being unsure on surgery - I would never want to do this myself, but I go with medical advice that some folks really need to change the way they present themselves. This is similar to post operation plastic surgery, if someone needs to look a particular way to 'fit in' then I am not going to oppose them doing that.)
I agree with your second paragraph totally - and your bookshelf would look very similar to mine. Though I have a couple of books on looking after children too.
And don't think I have problems with most of the third paragraph either - it's an ideal that I think multiple people are trying to get to in different ways. The only thing that stands out is that you hate how people are redefining words. You've got every right to hate that, but you should also understand that other people think different. Some consider themselves Gay / Lesbian, some Queer, Some Non Binary, some Transgender, and so on... If that redefines a group you are in, you might not like that, but it doesn't invalidate their own right to be members. Telling them so enforces a rule even if you don't mean it to. And maybe you should not feel so excluded by these people joining your group.
For my own case, being "A Man" has been redefined immensely during my lifetime. I've gone from the "Breadwinner, Head of the Family, Patriarch" to "Gaslighting, Mansplaining, Predator" (And I don't like either extreme, but there it is). I have personally felt excluded from the group known as 'Men' because of toxic behaviour of certain men in the group - now I recognise that it isn't 'men' that are the problem, it's just certain men whose behaviour is so reprehensible.
Perhaps, rather than having a problem with the whole 'trans' community (as this video does), it would be better to focus on individual behaviour? Some who join the group you are in will make a positive contribution, others may not - but surely each individual should be decided by their own merits.
Finally regarding people 'forcing' me to validate their beliefs. I recognise now that this is just a thing that happens. My beliefs are mine, they are different to everyone else's and some will disagree with them. Your beliefs are yours, they are unique to you and, from what I read, if we met we would probably be able to have a grown up debate on the differences. Some people will demand you accept their beliefs - that is because they are toxic - be they male, female, gay, straight, trans, queer etc...
Just because I don't completely agree with you, doesn't mean I think your beliefs are invalid, or even that my beliefs are 'better' than yours. In fact, I hope I have tried hard here to answer you without missing the point you are trying to make.
All the best.
Same born 1991 🎉
"Normalize asking people their pronouns" = NO
Imagine how tedious that would be
why would I ask someone their pronous when I'm speaking to them? Pronouns are for referring to people usually not in the vicinity. If someone happens to tell me my pronouns are "fill in the blank" and I MUST speak with or about them, I'm referring to them only by name. I'm not using some made up crap because someone feels desperate for attention
@@Frau.Kanzlerin only KIDS have time for that BS
only KIDS _think it is IMPORTANT_
these people NEED jobs (or something) or to age a bit (at least) and _LEARN_ about reality. These guys are still NAMING their imaginary friends
I hope I'm never in a situation where I just have to say 'you choose ' because it IS obvious, and I don't want to play their game.
Also, the overuse of "normalize" is especially ironic when its reached for all the time by those who want to avoid "normativity."
They can't explain, but they expect you to automatically know!🥴
That lesbian couple have done EVERYTHING to not be a lesbian couple 🙄
I hear a muddle of made-up words and ever-changing definitions argued passionately by people who cannot explain themselves.
Exactly, their own " explanations" contradict themselves , meaning it's all nothing but a lot of nonsense.
yup
_EARLY ONSET _*_Alzheimers_*_ I'm afraid_
they probably even SMELL like shyte _And NEED _*_changing_*
@@mikebryant614Total gibberish and circular reasoning at best. I don't think they even realize how they sound.
Confusing gender with personality. I wish we could just have that discussion
This! Personality and mood.
Can someone explain to me why LGB and TQ+ are in the same community? LGB has to do with who you area sexually and romantically attracted to while TQ+ has nothing to do with that 😂
Gender is not a feeling. It is a fact.
It's just feelings
@@themilitantvegan2515 Penises and vaginas are not " feelings"., they are objective physical reality. , but thanks for playing.
@@themilitantvegan2515Penis = male
Vagina = female
Simple.
I think gender is nothing. It's clearly now so trivial and convoluted by the left as to be useless. And clearly so redundant on the right (since we already have sex) as to be useless. We should get rid of the concept of gender altogether and make a clean separation between mood/personality/vibe/interests and forensic/scientific definitions
Who else has ever said, "I feel like s**t today?"
Going by their logic, I respectfully ask not to be referred to as "cis". I find it derogatory, and it is often used derogatorily. Thanks.
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I agree. I have STRONG feelings about not being referred to as cis. I identify as 100% bio-female.And others have to respect that.
I agree, except that I try to avoid female-erasing language like “bio woman”; it’s just woman. Theres no such thing as a “non-biologically woman” person.
Most won't respect not calling someone cis
Absolutely
They don’t even know what they are talking about
Notice how the person with top surgery kept covering their scars up. Definitely they were uncomfortable. And these folks are telling me that this is supposed to be helping them? I'm not buying what they're selling.
I transitioned back in 2012 and back then one had to go to therapy for at least 6 months but I extended it 2 years. Therapy helped me so much not in treating dysphoria but clearing out the other issues I had and challenges that I support strongly recommending therapy top adults transitioning for no less than 8 sessions to get a read on them and then extending that if clear cut gender dysphoria is not found. You cant allow someone to transition if they say they are 80% sure. It has to be 100%.
HER scars
observe the body language at 0:50 when that girl says “but I try to respect what people feel” she puts her hands up in a defensive way like “please don’t come after me!”
Accurate
Her whole body language through this made me uncomfortable. Hunching over, covering herself up while talking, raised shoulders the whole time. She reminds me of someone who has grown up abused since childhood. I had a friend with the same mannerisms and it's hard to see now.
Normalize asking someone their pronouns? No, just no. I'm not jumping through hoops to appease someones feelings.
They need therapy... like a lot of therapy. Problem is, there might not be enough therapists and psychologists in the world to cover them all...
also finding ones who don’t adhere to this nonsense probably cuts out at least half of them
they only want "gender affirming" therapists and not actual ones. toxic women love shopping around for therapists that tell them what they want to hear and affirm their narcissistic behavior
A majority of the time now it is the therapists who take someone who comes to them with other issues like depression and anxiety and helps them realize that those other issues must be wrapped up in the wrong body or gender identity suppression. Therapy is the last thing they could benefit from more of, unless the therapy world relents of its current path.
Problem is in many states if you don't conform to this nonsense, they'll yank your license for bigotry. Same as we've seen with "affirmation therapy" on the trans issue.
They push this stuff.
How can one be both transgender and non-binary? Terms need to be defined to make sense. Thanks for the sharing these interviews.
You cant actually be both those at once, but claiming to be is "double the clout" on social media, so there you are.
Both definitions (according to Google and Irl experiences)
Literally, EXACTLY contradict each other in a very direct way.
How can you be nothing but also something. You are not a fourth dimensional being.
Very idiotic.@@mikebryant614
I am a binary trans woman. Simple answer is you cant. Oh no cancel culture gets triggered lol.
There’s no such thing. Just adds a bit of edge. 😂😂
Lol, what's next? A bisexual straight person?
I would argue when a "community" becomes collectively ambiguous in its collective beliefs... it is not really a community.
And no matter how much you agree with them heaven forbid you disagree with ONE THING you’re cast out & “cancelled” pretty darn quickly for a community that prides themselves so hard on “tolerance” 🙃
Hmm. This is a really good point.
People need to stop conflating personality with gender.
These plain, boring Gen Zzzzz people are desperate to go by an identity that hasn't been created yet.
Narcissism run rampant, desperately seeking " Look at me, Im so special" status, at any cost."social media gender disease."
Yes, they want to express their individuality, but they all are basically the same confused messes. Boring.
I've constantly said I feel a lot of non binary people are confusing gender expression with gender identity. expression can be fluid AF and both men and women can be X amounts of feminine or masculine. but it wouldn't make an identifying woman any less of a woman or an identifying man any less of a man.
A boy can like pink stuff or a girl can like driving big ass monster trucks or something.. dosent make them less of a woman or a guy.
It's stupid.
You can suddenly feel like shit one day and you go "Ah, It must mean I identify as a dude with a 9 to 5 getting paid borderline minimum wage. "
So basically the younger generation is completely lost. Thank you
NO, *_NOooooo_*_ --ooooh_ they are Completely _Right_
and it is *YOU* , who is *_Completely WRONG_*
this is why (in days of Yore) . . YOUNG . . people were not allowed to talk
*_that's how insanity spreads_*
You are absolutely right!
@@AutomationDnD I hope to God you don't type like that on job applications.
@@user-ut7wz7mh2r LoL
_Right? !!_
well, as I do notice "this" is not a job app
23 year old WOMAN here, I was born a woman and that's what I am lol as a kid I was a tomboy, doesn't mean I'm a man 😂
Not all of the younger generations are crazy
“The way I am is not going to define me” says the woman with the gender-affirming mastectomy scars…
Very visible ones too. The trans men I know tries their best to heal and cover up those scars and blend in and conform. We should all conform.
Lol
Not a fan of this trend..
Holds her breast almost the entire time. 😂
Feelings.....nothing more than feelings lol
omg, "whatever that means" she just proved her point.
This is about control: when you get people to affirm what they know to be false, you got them.
That chic running around with those raw, open ass scars and then stands covering her chest 😂 that is sad actually
It actually grosses me out. Lol. Meanwhile with the female hips, small hands and narrow shoulders.🤦♀️. But it was her choice.
I still don’t get why we can’t respect their pronouns aha
Yes, I noticed that. She got tricked into paying someone to butcher her.
@@JokersD0ll "Respect my imaginary pronouns" is another way of saying "Speak the way I demand that you speak," and I will absolutely not do that. If you look like a woman, I say "she". If you look like a man, I say "he". It's not any more complicated than that.
@@krisleppy😂😂😂😂 facts
Delulu is not the solulu
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We gotta normalize gatekeeping again. Gatekeeping is not inherently a bad thing as this vid proves.
It takes more than a mastectomy and facial hair to create a personality.
Those glaring scars are so off putting too,they arent declaring you are a Male at all ,but rather draw attention to the reality that you were a female ( or are as the case actually is) .
A person commits indecent exposure if she exposes the areola or nipple of her breast or breasts and another person is present,
DNA and jail.
But implants and male >> no jail????
it takes more than a bigoted comment to make you funny
She's not even on T and probably never will be bc it will make her a binary man
@aolvaar8792 it's about making women subservient
We went from not wanting to be labelled to demand being labelled.
I wonder if these people, know, what the word grotesque, means?
Yes, I do too. Did you see the trans man""? Standing there hiding her boobs that she has violently removed?
People keep saying these people are 0.001% of the population. No. These kids have been created all over the place and .....shame on the butchers who did that to that girl.
I acknowledge two genders. Male or female. I accept there are three sexual preferences: gay, lesbian, or bisexuality.
Yeah. Im gay and I agree with you.
Uhm… and maybe straight? 🙂
@@chaosme1ster 😂 Right?? Kinda the main one...
Great that you accept that there is more than one sexual preference. A hundred years ago you would not have been allowed to. Do you not get even a hint that the behaviour you would have faced back then might just be the behaviour you are displaying now?
@@chaosme1ster And there's asexuality, I suppose, but classifying asexuality as a sexual preference is much like classifying atheism as a religion or classifying nonexistence as a mammal. 🤔
I love how everything that doesn’t align with their perpetually changing feelings is labeled “far right.”
Even us actual transsexuals get called far right neo-nazis for calling out the fact that the made-up term "transgender" is nothing but a Marxist movement in disguise...out to destroy America.😒
“I’m constantly shifting, I’m constantly changing, and the way I am is not going to define me in literally two weeks.” says the woman who had her breasts permanently removed.
'I'm honestly interesting. Look at my pronouns!'
You should go to a pride parade during pride month and document what crazy stuff is going on there.
I did last year and will this year again :)
I'm sure it'll be a big city pride event like NYC or SF, which always has the crazy stuff and thus affords her a more biased view for her 'LGBT Damage Control' segment. Go to a more suburban area or smaller town and you won't see much of that at all.
The mastectomy scars are so sad. Women with breast cancer must truly weep when they see healthy young breasts removed.
Gender nonconformity is not a confirmation of a "gender spectrum".
It is merely a refutation of gender stereotypes.
When I was a teenager we refused to Label ourselves nor accept gender stereotypes and it was all fine...we just wanted to find out who we're what we like and so on... nowadays they're not just labeling themselves but create the tiniest boxes and do anything to make themselves fit in those limitations of who they're...it's soooooo sad
@christineeleonorepoppe6745 It's inspiration porn addiction.
These kids see people like the Stonewall protestors and instead of honoring what they accomplished, they hyperfocus on and misrepresent their identities and struggles.
Exactly! I also think it's a way to escape any negative things associated with their sex. I saw a woman claim on the internet that she can't be sexually harassed bc she's not a woman, she's non-binary.
@@woollyprimate if that is true then we are dealing wityh a bunch of scary mf'ers. I'll give you the equivalent. I'm from the hood and we all know what goes on in these types of neighborhoods(drugs, violence, etc). If I wanted to claim "hood"conconformity I would just stay locked away in my mouse all the time. That sounds exactly like FEAR so let's call it what it is and stop trying to be cutsie about it.
Yea, of all the neo-terms, "gender non-conforming" is the only one to make sense.
That topless trans non-binary person was very uncomfortable being topless
Right? Well, they became uncomfortable and started covering up their scars when it became clear that Arielle wasn't there to unconditionally applaud gender ideology...
ig maybe he wasnt used to cameras? i didn't understand him being trans and non-binary at the same time but attacking his body is fucked up 🕊️
"There's an infinite amount"
But there isn't an infinite amount of words. We need words and definitions to classify things and operate. Without it, it's chaos and we can't understand anything. Which is why these peoples lives are always chaotic.
Exactly! There’s not even an infinite number of people on the planet. The most we could say is billions of genders. Which is only using the word gender as a synonym for personalities and even that’s not true. There’s not 8 billion personalities on the planet because humans aren’t as unique from each other as we’d like to believe.
Gender Identity is how you identify as.. so, by their logic, you by GENDER IDENTITY
you can either identify as Woman, Man, or both. That's it. Nothing else. Since everything else isn't a GENDER its just made up.
When you say GENDER identity, it's mostly referring to male and female, which are biological classifications for 2 separate species of homo-saapiens.. or... Another term by some random scholar back in 1940 or something.. GENDER.
Honestly, whoever says it's "infinite" needs to be corrected.
"Without it, it's chaos and we can't understand anything."
I'm not religious, but as a Literature major and writer, I absolutely related with the scripture that said God is the word, and the word is God.
Think my comment got deleted again. I wrote that there’s not even infinite people for an infinite number of gender identities. They mean personalities. Even then there’s not 8 billion personalities in the world as humans aren’t as unique as we think we are.
@@iggydesisted220 the fact CZcams took down not only one of your comments, but mine too, is concerning.
A lot of classic LGBT no longer go to Pride. It used to be one day and in very specific places. It was also not filled with confused people who can't explain themselves. There were also never any minors, yet never open debauchery. I miss the old Pride parades.
A day is reasonable. The LGBT people back then just wanna live quiet lives without being harassed or even assaulted. All they wanted was to be normal and like whom they like.
A month is crazy tho.
Veterans Day is only a day and apparently some random people that suddenly feel different are more important than people who went through trauma and training to protect us???
Wild
Please do more of these street interviews, Arielle! They’re always so fascinating! 💜
One of the biggest issues this community has, as it stands today, is the fact that they expect everyone else to care about how "they feel". Nobody cares about you. People close to you may care, but nobody else does. For real. And they become so upset, and often times belligerent, while claiming righteousness over their emotions. It's so narcissistic.
So gender is a feeling now? Like happy, sad, etc?
yes, apparently moods don't exist or personalities, it;s all gender . The West is truly lost.
Pretty much, moods.
My gender is exhausted from work. 😩
They seem to focus and base everything on feelings… but feelings simply are not always fact or reality. Huge difference.
the couple that said they didn't understand it but they respect people is so chill and cool. and the one on the right said she's an 80s baby?! looking wayyy younger wow
Remember when people didn't want to be labeled and androgyny wasn't a thing that need to be defined? Now everything has to be labeled and put in separate boxes. It feels like we are going backwards.
I’m curious; how do they even describe homosexuality in the trans community? Being homosexual means you are same-sex attracted; not same-gender-identity attracted. Acknowledging that gay/lesbian people exist requires acknowledging that sexual orientation is about biology, not gender expression.
That's a whole other complicated wormhole, but to summarize it:
" I like who you are at birth. "
" I like who you are now. "
@@MeltyIceBlock ok but that’s now how being gay/lesbian works. A lesbian isn’t going to date someone who was born male and gay men aren’t going to date people born female. Maybe that’s the issue, maybe they simply don’t understand same-sex attraction.
I used to be horrified by the under breast scars of women who got breast implants. I am even more horrified by the scars on women and children who had their breasts removed. WTF has happened to the world?? We need mental asylums back !!!
No we don’t because if so I would be forced in one since I hear and talk to God. Secularists would say I am hallucinating.
@@kateofone Whisper , whisper stop telling people.
@@kateofonenot “secularists”. SANE people.
@@theunknownatheist3815 It’s normal to hear and speak to God. It’s not normal to not have visions, hear him, speak to him or feel him.
Even us actual trans people can't stand this bullshit going on!! 🤦♀️ The Marxist left posing as "transgender" and "trans allies" have completely hijacked the community, and threw us actual transsexuals out because we don't subscribe to their neo gender Marxist dogshit! 🤦♀️ Believe me, ALL of us TRUE TRANSSEXUALS can't fucking stand all of this crap that's being done in our name. 🤦♀️ Theyve literally pushed us back about 20 to 30 years on the acceptance ladder...... Possibly even more! 😒
I deal with elderly people, my company sent out a policy about respecting gender pronouns. I thank my lucky stars everyday, that 80 year olds don’t give a royal $h#t about pronouns, they know what a man and a woman is and there is no confusion.
The woman who had her breasts cut off is so happy with the result that she’s covering her scars and hunched over defensively. Every day, more trans joy.
This is so sad.It makes me think of Eliot Page.Does he looks happy?
@@marlomchenry1784 She has a couple of newish interviews on CZcams and looks more miserable than ever.
The hips don't lie
She missed the chance to ask "you say you're non-binary but then what did you transition from to?"
@@marlomchenry1784 does Elliot Page look happy?
No
That's a lesbian who is confused. Of course she's not happy.
I am retired military (active duty, so this was my full time career), and a prior victim of SA. The first time after the assault that I had to go to a gyno it was a male doctor that I was assigned to. Being in the service I’m not used to making waves, and just did what I had to do- but I ended up, legs spread, crying on the table. He immediately backed off and covered me up and told me that for any further appointments I was to be sure I asked for a woman practitioner- that it was my RIGHT. Never have I been more embarrassed in my life; but I was also so grateful. His words remind me of what true empathy is, today. This what these activists have lost sight of.
It’s okay to demand single-sex spaces, Uber-rides late at night, or medical practitioners.
It’s okay to be a woman and not want MEN in our safe-spaces.
It’s okay to push back on this idiotic, misogynistic nonsense that says men can “be” women on a whim just by growing their hair long and wearing bad makeup.
We are not just what a male’s perception of us may be.
Enough is enough, and the madness needs to stop. There are plenty of men out there who DO care and who DO understand and who DO want the same things for us that we want for ourselves. We are not alone in this fight! There are far more on OUR side than theirs- and that is why they are going after the school-aged children.
*No fight is won by “being polite”; and the time for niceties is over.*
I feel like these people confuse personality with pronouns. They are so deep in their own bull$h!t they don't realise the reason they call us boring or cis, is down to their own inadequacies & insecurities.
I keep pointing out that what they’re referring to is mood, as well. Personality shouldn’t change daily but mood does.
These people make me more sad than being middle-eastern.
At least Middle Eastern people know what's going on and what time of day it is. They aren't confusing everybody with pronoun babble.
How can they not understand that not being able to define terms defeats the purpose of terms. They speak in such nonsense and expect everyone to just "understand". It blows my mind.
A few moments that stood out to me:
1:32 It's frustrating to have to explain to every single person what it means to be yourself, but I'm constantly shifting. I'm constantly changing. The way I am is not going to define me.
Same person
1:54 Normalize asking people their pronouns
3:24 But it is your personal responsibility to communicate that
5:34 Why do we have to explain ourselves so much?
2:13 Not everyone is the way you might assume they are
3:29 Moving away from trying to strictly define for all people something that is always going to have exceptions.
The main thing I take away from these interviews is that many of the people you spoke to think other people should appease their desires, but at the same time are unwilling to change themselves to react to other people's desires. They see the world as having infinite genders, and yet others don't. Why can they reject the idea of binary genders, but those who think binary genders can't reject the idea of infinite genders?
I also don't think I'm hearing well thought out consistent statements. What I'm hearing are slogans, that individually sound good even if some of those slogans contradict other slogans. To me that's a pretty big problem. The world they want to create is impossible due to the contradictions they express.
It's particularly a big problem when the person saying those slogans has had her breasts removed.
Clearly a very confused individual who needs others to talk for her but who has also been taken advantage of by the medical system
Well said👏👏👏
Arielle did a video not long ago on I think it was BPD (borderline personality disorder) and had a professional explana the symptoms of it and why that might cross over with people apart of this group. The biggest one was confusion and no stability in their personalities, which we see in this video, but also constantly within this group. It's an interesting assessment and explains a lot of this behavior. These people are horribly confused and it will only heighten their unstable emotions and will end badly for them.
i think we need better psychologists and this very soon...
"🤓☝️"
"My experience of what a term means to me...given my experiences, my background, my feelings...is probably going to be different from the way someone else experiences it."
If no two people can agree on the meaning of a simple word, and we say the meaning of a term changes with subjective experience, then even having the word as part of a shared language is pointless. We cannot get to the point where we look up "woman" (for example) in the dictionary, and the entry says "no one truly knows what this word means because everyone experiences their own meaning of it differently"
Also, not every body is bikini-ready.
🤣🤣🤣😂
This content will rot your mind
I think there used to be something called "personality" and "moods" - it sounds to me that this group doesn't see the nuance of simply being a unique individual rather than a homogeneous group or category.
Exactly!
It's sad that I thought if I was in this scenario I'd say "two" and immediately follow that with "if you post this anywhere blur my face
You're standing on the truth of biology as it's been for thousands of years and yet the trans cult is making you afraid of telling the truth because of some bs they made up because they're deeply confused and hurting, and now you're the bad guy for explaning basic biology against their delusions.
Did you find any normal gays?
How tf could genders be infinite? That would nullify gender period
"the way i am is not gonna describe me"
I'm sorry WHAT??
AND WHAT DOES DESCRIBE YOU THEN??
Just sounds like word salad. They throw a whole lot of terms together and speak fast, seemingly confident of what they say, but can't answer a simple question.
He/they could have used his top surgery money for tuition to learn the difference between their 4ss from a hole 🕳 in the ground.
College doesn't help this stupidity, it's actively making it worse.
You can't explain your pronouns.
Imagine the tyranny of demanding other people share your truth/delusion. I guess we don’t have to imagine it.
These people are cray cray...
*Vaccinated
I personally don’t subscribe to the current gender politics these days but I am blown away by how you respectfully allowed those that you were interviewing to explain their points. Great job!
Arielle you are so brave to go out there and try to make sense of all this stuff. Thank you!
Is that the Mass Confusion Festival? 😂😂😂
Apparently it is! 😂
If you erase one, you erase another.
the one that removed their breasts. it was painfully obvious how uncomfortable it was for them to be standing there, the arms cross across the chest, hands tucked into their pits ..
So basically, constantly changing words and definitions, allows the door to be open for them to always find a way to be angry at the world.
Watching this insanity is actually painful.
then dont watch it
My rits are always out when I go for a swim, but I've never been mistaken for a non-Bidenary birthing and chestfeeding person.
The basic tool for the manipulation of reality is the manipulation of words. If you can control the meaning of words, you can control the people who must use them.
Philip K. Dick
Clueless
Saying that gender identity needs to be a constant conversation because from day to day it can change is something else. How arrogant and delusional. There are far more pressing and interesting things to be discussed in this world.
In a world where surviving depends on skills and abilities these people would perish. They think this crap is the apex of concerns in life.
This was such a confusing video😂 i’m a gay man. THERE ARE 2 GENDERS
I've only ever seen either a penis or a vagina " down there" , so I'd tend to agree.
Still waiting on any reports of a "third option" being discovered on any of these supposed other " genders".
ok man
I love how they act so much more educated and like you are the ignorant one, but every single question you ask they run circles around everything but an answer. You aren’t even asking for a RIGHT answer 😂 Just their own answer or explanation… and they cannot even provide that 💀 How can you be *so* invested and stand so tall for something that you cannot even define in your own words…? That is wild. Reminds me of the German army blindly following Hitler… because hey “that is what we were told to believe in”. 🤷🏻♀️
Sorry, I can't watch these people. Those scars on her chest. Horrific.
I always try and love by the rule that if you can't articulate it to other people, you dont have a position/thought, but you only have a feeling.
"It's not a belief if you can't even defend it" is something I've said to tweens & teens many times.