“I’m Sexually Attracted To Cartoons & Hate Cis Men” : LMAO Woke TikTok Is Intense
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2001: “Don’t label me!!”
2021: “So here are all of my labels…”
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FACTS! I remember when the in thing was “I don’t live by a label” and here we are 20 years later. Pushing to be the 1000% opposite.
The difference is most of those 2021 label seekers were born after 2001.
Sooooo freaking true!!!!!
2100: "My Citizen ID Label is IW-732, Gender MD-2, Sexuality B-2 and my Occupational Licensure is Cosmetics Rank C. Please stamp my citizen ID to confirm to the authorities we've spoken today."
Citizen 2: "What are we doing.....can we even say we're happy?"
Citizen 1: "What is happy, Neighbor?"
Earth was sucked into a alternate dimension through a micro-singularity in 2012.
"Non-men" is absolutely dehumanizing.
What does it even mean?
@@niklasvilhelm7247 Anyone that doesn't identify as man. I'm tempted to just say women, though.
@@Slowed--plus--Reverb anything that is not a man is a woman
@@Slowed--plus--Reverb the interest part is that you dont want to identify as a man, but the label itself contain the word man hahaha
So she'd date me if I identified as a non man eh
As a kid who grew up in the 90's, I remember the last thing any of us wanted was for someone to put any type of label on us. Kids these days can't seem to get enough labels.
Yup
for realz
Literally!!! I remember that was like the “in” thing was not attaching labels to people.
It seems they just feel lost so they try to fit in somewhere by putting labels on themselves to be included somewhere. That‘s my best guess🤔
Thank you, I totally remember and seriously miss those days!! The labels today are just killing me!
I am so sick and tired of these people.
Not every miniscule aspect of your existence is a sexuality!
Agreed -JACK
True
Just wait until they call themselves Fridaysexual because they only have sex in a Friday
They are turning the whole thing in to a huge joke.... It's getting to the point where there are so many labels people will start disregarding them all together because it's way too constant..... It's getting stupid.
@@iel8797 With all due respect, you say this in jest, but things like 3:13 were deemed a joke some time ago so i'm not sure for how long this comment will remain a joke.
I love how these people come out of nowhere with these random sexualities that no one asked about, sit there and explain it like a pharmaceutical commercial.
It's the part where other people take them seriously instead of the brush-off they're supposed to get that scares me. If we can't discern real things from a crazy person screaming they're a crow-sexual, stuff that shouldn't be normalised might slip in through the cracks. The push that sexual orientation is fluid is already concerning, and the inability to differentiate between an orientation and a fetish is disturbing.
You can't even opt for no label because they labeled that too😭
And there's about the same amount of substance and credibility behind both.
Ask your terrified doctor if SapioNonBinaryCisHateNapileonMermaniaFurryKinSexualiry is right for you. Symptoms may include making smug TikTok videos. Acting as if this is the key to your life, before finding a new label from an anime you like the next day & yelling at everyone for not knowing the new label. And being a confused jack ass for social media clout. You may also lose one, nonbinary both, or all of your genitals.
Hahahah like a pharma commercial I can’t hahahaha
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As if crushing on a celebrity is some kind of sexuality. They are all so condescending, like we are idiots.
😂😂 fact, idk what is happening but these people are so self obsessed it's insane. They are so privileged they have convinced themselves they aren't.
It would be easier for all these people to 'identify' under the umbrella label "confused, self-obsessed child".
I've been attracted for fictional characters before (and I am)...that's called being lonely and into fandoms.
Same I just a regular straight girl who has anime crush. 🧍🏾♀️
Back in my lonely angry teen years where I felt like no one liked me, I know that all too well.
Same
I used to have a crush on Trent from Daria back in the late 90's. My bff had a crush on Jane. ...and as far as celebrities, who tf HASN'T had a crush on at least one somewhere throughout their lives?? That's just called fantasizing a bit, NOT an "LGBT" thing. Jesus, this crap has gotten beyond insufferable. 🙄😑
Exactly
I feel like people expect me to be woke because I'm a 20 year old lesbian, but like... I'm absolutely not? These people annoy the living s**t out of me. "Let's label everything, let's make everything part of our identity". Nah, sit tf down and get a hobby.
Their hobby is making up and collecting fake labels.
Same. I'm a late 20s cis straight woman with 1 oppression point for being a POC. I support LGBTQ people but can't stand this performative, ultra-fake wokeness. Esp as an immigrant from a country where sexism is rife and gender roles are rigid.
Is there no home for us? I can't stand the other side either with Steven Crowder and Fox News.
I mean, I'm a 33-year-old lesbian who taught myself how to make soap. I just can't even try to relate with these people.
I'm a 50-something Husband and father...and I just want to find these idiot's mothers and just ask them point blank just how many times did they drop their children on their heads...or did their children just like bouncing their heads on walls like they were basketballs being used by the Globetrotters...
These are uninteresting people who want so desperately to join the lgbt movement without being lgbt. I think it's homophobic, because they aren't trying to be the average gay person, they want to be the super stereotypical gay person homophobes came up with in the 80's.
Four percent, FOUR PERCENT, of the US population identifies as either gay or trans. The other 96% are absolutely sick of their shit.
"I'm only into people who are into me. I need confirmation that I'm an egotistical person who only thinks of others in terms of how it relates to me."
This needs a million likes
The definition of a lesbian is a non-man attracted to non-men? So, in America, you can't say "woman" anymore huh?
Not in their circles at least.
The Organization of Hermaphrodites is upset with that definition...
@@vocexseta that's...I mean, being inclusive is great but it feels like it's erasing a group to make room for other groups.. I am so glad we don't have that here..yet
@@KatzeDerNacht22 You have hit on what makes this political movement different from many others.
It doesn't just add new meaning to words, it tried to make any previous meanings now "wrong".
It doesn't just add new voices to the table, it tries to actively suppress any voices it disapproves of.
It doesn't just include more people, it traffics in exclusion as well.
It talks about love when it's trying to portray itself as morally superior, but adherents in reality post a LOT about who they are hating on.
I hope the wave will break before it gets to your location. It's not evenly distributed in the US or the UK either tho - it's far stronger among the cultural elites than in the masses, very much a top-down movement.
Nope! Right back under the patriarchal umbrella we go!
Fun Fact: In first year sociology (at the university level) you learn NOT to put ever more specific labels on everything, because it's a slippery slope. Eventually you have a label for each individual person, and then you can just use their names. Labels are imperfect umbrella terms, used to focus on broad categories for the purposes of study. You don't have to give a new name to every minor variation within a label, unless it's statistically relevant.
Exactly
Meh... That's old-school thinking hon. Not allowed to have those opinions anymore. Like remember when we were taught to be colorblind and not look at skin color? Well that's literally considered racist and regressive now. I mean, shit, our schools are starting to re-segregate based on race again, by claiming it's anti-racism. Yey "progression!!" 🎉
THANK U!!
@@Anne_Onymous Well, we did look at color in terms of a broad category that might expose systemic issues. Now, they just change expose to impose.
AH, but then those people aren't special enough (yes that was sarcasm)
People really will do and say ANYTHING for attention on social media.
I’m not a psychologist but my first thought upon hearing that someone is sexually attracted to cartoon characters is that they were victims of childhood sexual abuse.
"Are you straight, lesbian, bisexual, asexual or pan?"
"Yes."
"Are you an emotionally safe prospect for anyone with a heart to actually date?"
"No."
"Do you have a stable, present father?"
"No."
@@leogol6045 "Do you have a brain?"
"What's a brain?"
10/10 for this comment
I cant even finish this video, the woke explanations make me cringe.
@@tubester4567 I am right there with you. I have shut off a lot of videos recently because the world just stopped making sense. The struggle is real.
There used to be a thing called "mood". Sometimes you're "in the mood", other times you're not. These people have taken that and artificially complex-ified it enough to turn it into a college major.
exactly
Yes! This is what happens when overly-educated people get bored 😑
At first, I laughed, because the comment is ironic and amusing. Then I realized; OMG it's true!
This comment is amazing. And really defines the evolution of everything related now to sexuality and gender.
They're turning thing into french lol overcomplicating things lol
This is 1st world privilege to sit around with nothing better to do than obsess over oneself.
Occasionally I eat a salad so sometimes I’m a vegan, other times I eat a steak alone so sometimes I’m a carnivore. Thank you Tik Tok, I now know how to logic.
Underrated comment
It’s one thing to discuss your personal, lived experiences but it’s very off-putting that TikTok has given people who were likely not born before 2001 the imagined authority to lecture about gender and sexuality as if they have decades of research under their belt.
Amen!
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I know right. They always have a holier than thou attitude and if you're over 30 you are to be dismissed as a "boomer". Well I am not a baby boomer but I served on a boomer...
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/USS_Florida_(SSGN-728)
(well, she is an SSGN now but before being converted, when I was assigned to her 1999-2002, she was a boomer.)
Most children are pretentious little twerps I thank you for articulating that in a better way than I could have.
@Solitude Standing11 So right! 👏👏👍👏👏
proculsexual? no. i worked through issues with a therapist and learned that only being attracted to people you know you can never be with, whether they're real or fictional, is a fear of intimacy. not that i stopped, now i just know what it is that i'm doing, i understand it, and i feel safe in my reclusive bubble haha.
Yep yep yep. Thank you
yup.
its a fear of intimacy and relationships
it is a struggle to deal with it
turning it into a "sexuality" is dangerous
imagine turning those who like to have sex on meth as a sexual orientation
Bingo
I got into a world of sh*t on a Facebook group a few years ago for daring to say that the term bisexual means attraction to men and women LOL. Apparently the definition has changed. I suggested that they should use a different term for that and got told off!!
Oh, now we have to try to catch up with new nomenclature, screw that I say, I’m not changing anything I say with crazy pronouns for anyone and that’s my God given right. 😀
3:15 So, she’s just bisexual. That’s a lot simpler that pansexual(bisexual) that prefers men and women sometimes. Then adding that she’s asexual after clearly stating she’s attracted to both sexes. This is going beyond stupid.
I literally can't stress this enough--tumblr circa 2012-2015 has gone mainstream.
We truly live in the darkest timeline.
Definitely. I used to be on Tumblr during that time and it was no different than what I see on Twitter and TikTok these days. I already thought people on Tumblr were nonsensical what with all the made-up genders but I never thought it'd become so mainstream. We're doomed lol.
What the heck IS tumblr? I always think of coffee or tinder when I hear it.
This is why I don't listen to kids. They are just using words any random way, just ignore them. By the time they hit 30 they'll calm down
exactly. tiktok isn't the real world.
Brains aren’t fully developed until we reach the age 24-27 so hopefully by that time they will have some life experiences as well as some help so they can figure out there trauma and pain. Labeling each aspect of your character is an internal journey that stops the moment you give that power away to the world.
You are more optimistic than me. I hope you're right.
Not all Young people are lost. We deserve to be heard. As you people who claim to be fully developed sure can filter the dumb young people and the great non lost young people
@@Abcdefghijajajaja The brilliant young minds need to speak up more. Stupidity is loud and insufferable.
I mean no disrespect.
But I have to say - I am so grateful my sexual behavior/desires DOES NOT rule my every second of life- that I need to get on social platforms and TALK about every single second of my life around SEX...
Thank you for watching ALL THOSE videos to be able to discuss them. ❤️
How could these people have a healthy long term relationship when they say that they will likely not be attracted to you most of the time?
"Don't put us in a box by calling us men or women it's restricting! Also, we are going to make ourselves many tiny boxes instead"
Schrodinger (I totally butchered that I know) cats of sexualtiy. One may be in every box but no one can know which one. Ha ha
I still struggle to understand how we went from “Labels are bad” to “Labels are good”.
Humans are programmable.
If you are sexually attracted to the cartoon character Homer Simpson does that make you a Homer Sexual ?
There’s a label for all of these different preferences, deviants.
Confusion is an element of war. People will learn that one day.
Gold tier comment.
Yes! I couldn’t say it better.. how about the American flag that’s my flag 🇺🇸
I get the younger people who do this: they're the new emos who naturally want to push boundaries, experiment, and generally just use their youth to figure out who they are (though the online attention seeking and virtue signaling is obnoxious). But the older ones??? They need to grow up and get a life fr.
the older ones pray on the youngers ones. The older ones are grown up and got a life, and they like young people. It is called 'grooming'.
@@sabineford1877 prey
Agreed. It’s normal adolescence behaviour to rebel against everything, want to feel special and part of something, get irrationally angry at any thing really. But I have to wonder about the adults getting involved. I can’t help but feel their intentions are not pure.
The older ones never grew up and never got a life. Now they see they can be a part of something and be “somebody”. They found that attention they lacked and wanted as a young person and are a part of a “community” of like minded fools.
Im scared they will never grow out of this phase because it’s become a sort of civil rights movement.
Some of these people sound like they’re literally making it up as they’re filming
This is just so annoying and stupid all these labels and none of them mean anything 😒
Makes no sense...
I feel bad for kids these days .
Don’t the majority of us aren’t this, these people are a minority lowkey yet to meet one
@@bearythebear69 yea like I know maybe one or two people that are like this but unfortunately they are the loudest and most in your face on social media so people think it’s the norm and it’s conditioning those to young to know who or what they are
@@bearythebear69 I feel bad for them too - but what I mean are some of the younger ones growing up on social media and having this loud minority as role models. When I think back about my own confusions and struggles, I suspect I would have gotten fairly messed up trying to find myself within the social pressures of today.
@@sexyworm1000 the reality is they probably are the complete opposite irl, the internet is a place where you can be whoever you want. Personally, when I was younger just a couple years ago I was confused VERY CONFUSED about who I was, my life and why everything was happening, the Internet was a safe place. I tried finding answers and with the logic I had back then, it was easy for me to believe labels are the answers.. most of the kids here, confused about who you are, don’t worry about it . Don’t worry about your image, what’s cool or trendy fuckin DELETE TIK TOK it does not help you and just keeps u in this little bubble..
Just enjoy ur life, life isn’t about labels. we’re all gonna fucking die as a skeleton
Confusion is a great element of war. People are gonna learn that one day seeing where we're going as a species.
It's currently the main tool of the Marxist takeover (the war). We have an entire generation of young people now who are entirely confused about reality- which makes them fantastic candidates for brainwashing.
Might want to archive it all because Marxists are already trying to gaslight our history textbooks.
@Get Real a lot of people are without purpose in their lives, or have failed to fit some strict cultural expectation without any room for failure, rebelli g against the system seems to be the natural response. Problem is the elites make it worse.
@Get Real I noticed this all the way back in the 1970s, and it's continued unabated, ever since. In the '70s, it was all these people "doing their own thing," and with the long hair, blue jeans and paisley, it was like a UNIFORM! They all looked the same. Punk came along, later, and the mohawk hair, body piercings and such started out as a statement, but ended up just like everybody else, and people wore the uniform like armor, to hide their actual insecurities.
These extremes are all an attempt to set yourself apart by outward appearances, which shows a lack of actual self-worth, a lack of individual identity that most of us acquire by our ACHIEVEMENTS.
Yuri Bezmenov would probably have something to say about this.
Videos like this make me thankful I live in a small conservative ish town and don't have to put up with people like that. Thats something I never thought id say.
This is honestly one of the most level-headed channels on these topics. I’m a straight, cis woman. I grew up in a culture that didn’t really have all these labels. The only other gender identity (besides male and female) that I was familiar with growing up is intersex where the person has both male and female parts. When I came to the US, I learned about different gender identities and I am still learning to incorporate inclusivity into my daily life, but honestly I’m overwhelmed with all these newer labels. Im afraid I’m gonna offend somebody some day because I didn’t know all the terms that they identify as.
For a generation that hates to be labeled, they really do love labels..😆
@Aeru self knowledge is internal. It stays inside, and you dont expect others to have to keep up with it. you don’t need to take PERSONAL GROWTH and tile over it with language. Doing so takes away from the actual DIRECT, felt experience of being present and human. If it werent a social identity, these people wouldnt bother sharing it with others. It’s okay to indulge in escapism but know where the lines of reality are drawn and don’t expect other to participate in your fantasy and internal dialogues.
@Aeru Good points. Especially self-chosen labels vs those applied by others.
#2 is another way of saying "youthful exploration of self as it manifests in this era", something most will outgrow.
One thing which I find interesting however is that there seems to be a tendency towards framing everything as social justice, rather than owning it as personal choice.
So rather than saying "This is how my psyche works, this is what I like and dislike, how I feel", there is a tendency to create a group identity label with which to affiliate (hoping others will join and validate your identity), and to lecture the world (from a place of moral superiority as a mis-understood tiny minority) about the correct meaning. I find that less healthy in several ways, but the proof will be in the in pudding: we will see if it results in mentally healthy productive adults down the road or not.
Let me illustrate my concern with a real world example. Somebody in one of my (huggy) social circles decided that they didn't want others to stoop down when giving them a hug (an optional practice which most of the shorter folks DO want and appreciate). Rather than make a personal request for something else for themselves, they brought it up to the group by labeling such stooping for a hug as a "microaggression" serving to highlight a person's shortness and thus marginalization. Now it's a matter of making people "wrong" for doing it, asserting that so doing is a grievance and thus violates the (newly asserted) tribal norms. It inhibits genuine empathy, and substitutes "correct behavior".
I see something similar here. Rather than saying "I don't tend to be attracted to people until I feel there reciprocal attraction", a young person is taught (via modeling) that one needs to create a group identity with a label, then identify as a member of that newly invented group. Identities are sacrosanct after all, especially small minorities. Can young folks not have individual pesonalities with a customized set of traits any more? Does ever personal trait need to be validated as a group "identity" to be real?
To quote Blaire White: All I am hearing is, "I have no job. I have no hobby. I have no personality."
Or maybe their parents bully them and they have no clue what love is.
That’s the thing, they don’t hate labels.
My brain hurts. 🤦♀️
It's funny, almost 20yrs in the Army and I've never met ANYONE who fits 99% of these. My husband did almost 15 yrs, he's met no one who "fits" any of these. My son is a Marine (20), he's never met anyone who fits 99% of these.
It's starting to feel like this is tall "I need to feel special so I need my own label."
I'm so over labels. Trust and believe Gen X is rolling their eyes hard at this. 🤣
this is definetly the "i need to be unique and special" issue. this generation grew up constantly hearing how they are special and different, but grow up and realize that, oh shit, I'm not the only one that likes (insert hobby/sexual orientation/Gender/literally anything) and then they feel lost. but whenever this comes up I always think of "once everyone is super, than nobody will be."
HARD hard!
^^ Gen X here. People used to pick up a musical instrument to appear exciting and interesting. Rolling my eyes 360 degrees for sure
I work with the military and to be fair these people aren’t exactly the type to join.
As a Millenial I'm appalled these freaks get airtime to spout their idiocy.
I wish these folks the best of luck. I have a feeling they're going to need it.
It really sucks being bi in this generation. Constantly told I'm not gay enough because i prefer males but it doesn't erase the fact I'm still attracted to females like wtf I remember when we all fought for the same things. These days its whoever is the worst victim.
You clearly aren’t gay enough for gay females , sorry but perhaps you have to accept that maybe they don’t trust you cos they may fall for you and you much prefer the D. Hell when you’ve finished bashing the gay community we have it harder than you to find love , you can float anytime you like into heteronormativity!!
They're just making random stuff up at this point. Just wow.
I get the impression that people accumulate labels as sort of a replacement for an actual personality. How about Puerisexual: I don't really want to prioritize learning how to be charming and hold a conversation, but here's a bingo cage full of labels I've been adding to since I hit puberty, go ahead and see if you find one you like.
This 💯
Ever see those people with 1,000 buttons on their jackets and stickers all over their belongings? Same idea. They don't want to put the effort into human communication, or face the risk of rejection that goes with it, nor do they want to acknowledge that everyone (namely them) can't have everything or be everything. They're just greedy.
BUMP
Pretty much what I just tried to say, too. When you're secure your self, your abilities and accomplishments, you don't need to go around "Hey look at me! Look at me!" You don't NEED that, and what's more, you don't have TIME for that, or for the people who are influenced by the trappings. Substance > trappings, and people know this, deep down.
Exactly, thanks!
I never have chased. It doesn't have to about sex, but I don't ask out women who don't act attracted/interested in me. That isn't low self esteem, it's just being selective, seeking mutual attraction. It is a form of acceptance. Accepting that someone you found attractive doesn't find you attractive, the fantasy ends, and so does your attraction. Crushes are for immature people. If someone doesn't like you why the hell would you want to be with her/him??
I’m so glad Blaire had you on her channel, you ladies are so logical and make me giggle the whole time I watch y’all’s videos 😂 you have been a breathe of fresh air for me ❤️
So in a world were "Everyone is Special", some people felt left out and wanted to be "Extra Special" so they made up all this nonsense to attain it...
I lose brain cells every time someone makes up a new identity so that they can feel special because they're no longer getting validation for not being special by being given participation trophies.
It's not a lack of understanding. They don't want to 'just' be bisexual (even though that is precisely what they are) because it's 'not special enough.'
If they can't validate and respect "super straight " then THEYRE A BIGOT
A lot of this reminds me of when I was 12 and pretended I was colorblind to seem more interesting.
😂🤣😂🤣💀💀☠☠
I'm losing brain cells over these topics
Same
It's tiring. If you decide to care about any of these topics, it's at your peril
@@MikeBarbarossa thank god I don't follow this and social media
I’m sexually attracted to words, I’m just back from a dirty weekend with a dictionary.
So do people unironically tell other people that they're proculsexual and just expect them to know what it means?
"non men"... Imagine going to a doctors office and they ask for your gender, your options are [Man] and [Non-Man]
Lesbian is a sexuality that exists outside of male attraction or activeness yet they still needed it to be based around how men are left out 🤔
I think I figured it out , the kids that feel this way parents pay zero attention to them and let them run wild on Instagram and Tiktok. Basically they’re sexual orientation is emotional and physical neglect from mommy and daddy
This could be the comment of the entire debate never mind video... dayumm take a bow
@@amyfox5191 thank you , thank you , hahaha I was wondering if that would make sense to anyone else
@@squabknob almost too sensible but still I think you might be on to something here x
This wouldn’t surprise me, they’ve been stuck trying to figure out who they are with almost no positive or negative guidance and now just make up nonsense to feel some sense of stability. Easier to slap an arbitrary identifier on their forehead than truly address the trauma.
I AM SO GLAD SOMEONE ELSE IS CALLING OUT THIS BULLSHITE!!!!
I see young people inventing obscure categories in pursuit of status.
Fucking A, this was EXHAUSTING. I miss the 90's so freaking much, it's not even funny at this point. Back then people went out of their way to NOT have labels. You were just individually you in whatever way that was. Now everyone wants to be a library catalog, neatly tucked away in all of these little designated drawers, it's insane. Plus, 99% of this crap is literally just expressing mood changes, which every human has had since the beginning of freaking time. 😑😑😑
Sooo fucking true in high school in 2000s I just remember the phrase "don't label me" was common. And now it's just insaneeeee
I miss the 90s when everyone was sane and telecommunications was new to the pleebs and we were still using the BBS. Back then the dream was to use computers and technology to connect the world so we could all communicate in a new way, who knew it would lead to this tik tok bullshit.....
Try going back a few more decades, sexually attracted to cartoons, time to see a therapist. All these people sound like they’re under a certain age and immature.
I find it hard to blame people for giving up on dating, especially when no one seems to know what's going on anymore.
Its hard to date when people label them selves and only socialize within their label.
Neptunic?!!!! Does that mean I’m attracted to 🐠 🐟 🐠?!
Talk about STINKY snatch!
One day someone gonna address something I like to call sexuality appropriation, then all these weirdos will be screwed.
Actually we need to QUIT redefining words. The words that have been around for thousands of years are just fine.
It's tortuous to endure. There's a - self professed - autogynophile, who is also a linguist smh hr found himself lost, in a sauce of disorder & meaning. - he now realizes the social labyrinth, that's been created 🙄 and wants to help kill the beast he helped splice, together.
It is supremely, frustrating.
I think she meant to bring it back to the real definitions of words, but I do think saying we need to "redefine" sounds as bad as what these xyz label people say when THEY say they want to redefine words
When my mom gets confused by all of the craziness she'll ask me about it and half the time I'm just as confused as she is.
These people are confusing sexual orientation and mood. lol
Neptunic? Sounds like a term for people who are sexually attracted to sea creatures 🙄
I'm more and more assured that good old, boring "straight male" is something I am entirely comfortable with.
Much love Arielle. I learn a lot from you. ❤
Oh God, when will these people get hobbies🙄 The world must be laughing at us. There is a reason for the statistic that says LGBT acceptance amongst everyday citizens has gone down for the first time in a very long time... enough is enough already
they dont realize how much theyre hurting our community!
So how would you distinguish inventing micro-identities from a hobby? 🙄
Maybe you mean a healthier hobby... for all of us.
For myself, my daughter came out as gay last year and it's left me torn. I support her 100% but she's now part of a community that I don't feel comfortable supporting because of where it's headed and the ideology it's been hijacked by.
I feel that by actively supporting LGBT movement, I'm also enabling the politics in some way, something I believe to be dangerous and harmful and against my values. I wish there was a separation between just being gay, bisexual or trans, and the politicising of sexuality and transgenderism, which is the thing I can't get behind. At the same time, I don't want to make my daughter feel that I don't support her by openly rejecting the LGBT movement for the activism aspect of it. She is young and I fear she would misunderstand my position. I think this dissonance is something a lot of people who do support LGBT rights feel when it comes to supporting the movement these days.
The community itself is so ideologically divided now that I feel that it would be better and less confusing for it to separate into different groups with different goals anyway.
@@loud6037 I hear how you are torn.
Some unrequested suggestions. Remember that most regular LGBT people are not the crazy fringe, they're just folks.
I would prioritize supporting your daughter over expressing your dislike of the activist community.
I think we are heading for some degree of reckoning, where the excesses of certain political subcultures are going to bring down their standing and power. For one thing, more and more long term liberals are becoming disenchanted with the radicals - sometimes when they find out that ANY dissent from the narrative brings down nasty repercussions - they get to see the ugly underbelly of neo-progressivism when it come for them. And they start to feel some empathy for others who have been targeted for not being sufficiently dogmatic.
Many even avoid "the community" as understood by activists (ie; a community including only other activists).
She may know that you are not very supportive of the strategies of some LGBT activists, but keep it low key and distinct from your support of her. At some point, she may begin to see the cracks herself, and realize that she is ready to talk more with you - without needing to eat crow based on previously feeling a need to defend them from your dislike. In other words, don't push her, don't force her to harden her beliefs into dogma because she feels attacked by you.
And feel free to ignore all this; you know your daughter better. I'm just writing because I've seen and heard of some well meaning efforts that went south by being too confrontational, before the other person was ready to hear.
Waiting until they start describing their dietary preferences as a sexuality too.
It sounds like this urge of people to label EVERYTHING is more just about a deep an unknown insecurity, an aspect that is more trauma related, that needs to come to surface. Maybe You don' t need to "iper label" yourself, you just need to know and discover yourself more.
funny how traditionally "CIS" terms are being bastardized all the while "LGBT" terms/labels are specified to ridiculous degrees and are coupled with an expectation of memorization the likes of which scripture itself would be jealous of XD
Calculus is easier to memorize. Because it makes logical sense. This is just a huge mess...
I think the term bisexual covers a lot of this given there can be a large spectrum of bisexuality. But people want to feel special and for some all the labeling gives them that. People who use the “Non-male” term seem angry at men and use this passive-aggressively.
So they’re not attracted to someone who isn’t attracted to them… sounds like narcissism
i got attacked on fb for saying i hate labels but they have not been in my shoes, growing up having any known label thrown at me to see what sticks, nothing ever did.
Honestly, this is the kind of nonsense that happens when people have it too good in life combined with no skills, hobbies or responsibilities
I hate this timeline
Bingo...no skills, hobbies or RESPONSIBILITIES!
Don't worry a fork in this timeline will occur soon.
Probably will not be fun, but at this point who cares lol.
At this point the gender-queer movement is like a contest where everyone is trying to outdo each other with the bizarre things they can come up with. None of it makes sense and a lot of it is self-contradictory.
Very much so, people that identify as gender fluid make no sense when gender is looked upon as a social construct and they rebel against social norms. So to say that one is gender fluid makes absolutely zero sense, I’ve heard people say well I’m gender fluid because some days I feel like really crying and women are emotional. Ok, but isn’t that a social construct that women only cry and men aren’t supposed to?. Just utterly stupid.
@@cicolasnage5684 I'm a man (I REFUSE to use the term "cis") and I get emotional and cry sometimes. Yep. Utterly stupid. I always want to say, "Claiming something is a social construct is a social construct."
@@cicolasnage5684 It makes perfect sense that gender might be fluid. Their definitions allow for it to be possible. If they see genders purely as sets of social norms, stereotypes on personality and preferences, then it is normal that one can feel comfortable being once "a man", other time "a woman". If you seperate being a female from being a woman, then you can have gender fluidity as much as you want.
@@hyawill8944 Sorry Charlie, your labyrinth pop psychological definitions collapse under its own weight just like the rest of nonsense labels. It still makes zero sense when it’s socially constructed that only women cry or feel emotional or men feel... whatever it is men do. Those are social constructs.
@@cicolasnage5684 Yes, it is quite idiotic. I don't agree with such a concept, but it is consistent. Women cry. Now I am crying therefore I am a woman currently. Later I will dominate my coworker in a discussion. Men dominate. Therefore I will be a man. See, gender fluidity. Nonsense, but consistent with their definitions.
For now on it shall be gay, straight, lesbian, or bisexual
This
They can’t even make up their minds from moment to moment. If they can’t how can anyone else?
OMG…why are these people so obsessed with having a label put on everything until nothing means anything anymore. It’s weird.
*We built the tower of inclusivity too high and now we're witnessing the confusion of tongues.*
Disturbingly accurate
Thats because we didn’t stop after B.
These people come up with an identity to explain every feeling someone could possibly have in life and say it’s a gender or a sexuality. I really can’t. It’s like saying I’m confidentsexual, I am only attracted to confident people. Like these are just characteristics or personality traits not sexualities or gender identities. God help us.
So grateful I never really had any confusion about my gender, sexuality, orientation or pronouns. How cushy are these people’s lives that they have time to ponder such things at length?
I remember a simpler time when you were either gay or lesbian or bisexual
What about Asexual?
Reminds me of how 12-13yo's who read Anne Rice for the first time often long to become vampires.
How dare you call out 15 year old me! 🤣 However I never tried calling myself a vampire, it was just a fun romantic fantasy. Imagination has basically gone wild now
@@jwolf5604 Calling myself out too! Hell, there's a bit of Don Quixote in many of us, but that doesn't mean we need to scream our delusions out to the rest of the world.
why is society at large so utterly and completely obsessed with labels, and want everyone who isn't to join in??
All these Labels man, it´s Ridiculous who needs them. Just do your own thing who cares.
Remember when society as a whole came up with words and definitions that fit people and not individuals inventing words and deciding where they fit
I remember when it was normal to not feel "in the mood" fir a day or two and it was just "not being in the mood".
Now it's being "asexual today" and having a today's pronoun sticker on your forehead.
People had personality. Now they make up their personality.
There is nothing so common as the dream of being extraordinary.
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@@radubradu yeah, gut punch right to the ego.
It’s as I used to say, “You’re unique. Just like everyone else.”
Ariella - the stills of your facial expressions in the video thumbnails crack me TF up! Never change!! hahaha xxxx
So many labels so much stupidity 🙄
Every new generation thinks they can recreate the wheel only to grow older and realize how fundamental history/the past really is.
That's true to a point. The difference is that GenX and Boomers basically told our parents "Hey, you don't understand us.. let us do things our way as you do things your way." The 90s and later crowd be like "We do things our way.. and YOU'RE gonna do things our way too! We demand that you obey and conform."
Exactly. Because tradition is the result of thousands of years of tried and true evolution of realizing what works and what doesn't. Case and point, there is a big influx of women deciding to be stay at home moms especially when their children are younger and they receive push back from society and men as well who are quite used to sharing the financial work load. But there are many spaces where these conversations are being had and people are realizing that throwing out tradition all together might just be throwing out the baby with the bath water.
These new terms are just random feelings everyone feels once in a while and then comes one teenager who has an obsessive need to feel special who quickly gives the feeling a useless space on the sexuality spectrum and then grown men run along with it
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I really like your perspective on things. I'm proud of you being able to change your beliefs by really listening to facts and different opinions 👌
They literally just make crap up. For people who "don't like labels," they sure as shit create a lot.
It's really sad to see so many young women referring to themselves with literally any word they can except "woman", especially the term non-man. Most girls have some issues with gender growing up, mostly because of the social expectations that a male-dominated society places on us, and coming to terms with our place in the world as the "weaker sex", the pressure to adopt certain roles. despite all the efforts that have been made for equality and mutual respect between men and women, we're still not really there yet. nowhere is this more evident than in today's young people- it's no wonder that the tik tok to onlyfans pipeline is a thing, because young women are being taught that they can only value themselves as an accessory to men, not their own class of human beings worthy of rights and protections. we literally are biologically, verifiably different from males and all throughout history have suffered many kinds of abuse because of it. the phrase "non-man" is possibly the most blatantly obvious and tone-deaf expression of internalised misogyny you will ever see. It's just depressing, to be honest. I feel so bad for all the young women growing up with this nonsense, it has a devastating and lasting impact on their identities and self-worth.
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Much of what you say makes sense.
I'd like to hear more about why you think you think that there is so much power in "the social expectations that a male-dominated society places on us" today?
I'm not questioning that there are pressures, what I'm asking is how male dominated society really is today, in terms of everyday life (99.99+% of us are not going to be a big CEO or supreme court justice or president, regardless of sex).
I perceive a lot of the pressures as coming from other women. For example, a LOT of women's fashion appears to be about impressing or competing with other women, not men. Women today select their partners and mates at least as much as men do. There are nearly half again as many women as men in college. At least around here, there's a lot of support for "girls in STEM", for those who want it. A great deal of legislation has made family court very woman friendly.
Please do not impute to me anything about saying men are the real victims or anything silly like that; that is not what I'm saying. I'm saying that overall, for ordinary folks, the "system" today seems to give advantages to women in as many ways as it gives advantages to men, and often gives advantages to neither.
The featured young women on TikTok seem to be largely influenced by other females, less by men or "male dominated society". Their behavior does not seem aimed at pleasing men, nor does it benefit men. Nor does it benefit the young women themselves, in their relations with men - tho it might affect their relations (of status or friendship) with other "non-men".
Why does this matter? Well, it's not intended to "defend men", so much as to avoid convenient - but inaccurate - scapegoating, BECAUSE if you obsess on an overly simplistic or outdated blame target, you get no traction on the real causes of a problem. It's like the police being so obsessed with "the usual suspects" that they stop looking for the real perp. So I'm questioning whether the traditional targeting is based on a deep or shallow understanding of the mechanisms causality in today's reality. (And of course, men and women both will be relevant).
Male dominated society? 90% of trans in this country are trans woman (born biological male). If this society is so male dominated why do men become women? Because it's an easier life with less expectations and to be looked at as the fairer sex.
“Male dominated “ society? I honestly don’t think that’s true of today’s culture at all. Ever cultural pressure is about the empowered woman- all the movies are female remakes, all the advertisements aimed at strong women, all the songs and lyrics, our current vice president, the absolute worship of pro-choice… This current culture for women coming of age is not at all male dominated, in fact it is quite female dominated!
@@zephsmith3499 A very well articulated response. It's a shame that this doesn't actually get more info out of the OP, my guess is they're threatened by informed articulate responses so you won't hear another word from them.... EVER... Rinse, wash repeat.... This is what it's like living in 2021
You nailed it with the reciprosexual thing. When my self esteem was in the shitter, if I found out someone was into me it would make me more inclined to become atttacted to them, because subconsciously I thought it was my only chance. Also, I think I would mistake the rush from the self esteem boost for romantic feelings of my own.
Eehhhhh don’t make me analyze my relationship history like that
Such a bummer
I love how far right progressive liberals, and far right conservatives are bringing conservatives and liberals who lean towards the middle, together. Proving the saying "The enemy of my enemy is my friend."
I'm so confused about everything now. So many labels. Too many things people make up. Is there a sexuality for having sex with ghosts?