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  • @everettturner4269
    @everettturner4269 Před 4 lety +2363

    For some reason I only pack at like....formal events. Can’t be fancy without a dong, I guess?

    • @grey8288
      @grey8288 Před 4 lety +187

      Only if you put a tie on it.

    • @arajczewski9253
      @arajczewski9253 Před 4 lety +50

      bro s a m e

    • @christalcavanaugh
      @christalcavanaugh Před 4 lety +55

      Oh so that’s why I never feel fancy enough! Thanks for the tip 😉 😂

    • @_absolutelyflawless_8575
      @_absolutelyflawless_8575 Před 4 lety +32

      @@grey8288 lol now I'm thinking of the musical Heathers, in the song Blue, "they'll wear a suit and tie. And a fancy collar!" (Referring to that area)

    • @everettturner4269
      @everettturner4269 Před 4 lety +8

      Christal C always here to help, my friend 😌✌🏿

  • @leoeatslemons5233
    @leoeatslemons5233 Před 4 lety +1895

    its,,,, its because the socks fall down ur jeans at school and everyone looks at you so you say its a prank and then go home sick. not speaking from experience it just happens-

    • @khoury6791
      @khoury6791 Před 4 lety +83

      A little tip for that is, grab another sock, and cut it till its around 10-13cm (visually) long, and put your sock packer inside it and just pin it to your underwear
      I hope this helped, works perfectly for me. Good luck💫

    • @VM-zo7it
      @VM-zo7it Před 4 lety +45

      Maybe wear tighter underwear such as briefs?

    • @airairaie
      @airairaie Před 4 lety +14

      i feel your pain - something similar happened to me lmao

    • @rx_swe
      @rx_swe Před 4 lety +5

      Leo eats lemons your profile picture aww bakugou 💞💗💕💓

    • @hanna-ewr1330
      @hanna-ewr1330 Před 4 lety +7

      I feel sorry for you, but I also laughed

  • @madirocks700
    @madirocks700 Před 4 lety +1167

    " fully happy willies "
    im gonna say that for the rest of my life

    • @eclipseofdawn5
      @eclipseofdawn5 Před 4 lety +7

      i almost spit out my drink when i heard that

  • @karalinell9736
    @karalinell9736 Před 4 lety +961

    My son(trans) was hanging out with a bunch of his friends when he was 14. They were watching a movie and every one was squeezed onto two couches. My son couldn't get comfortable and kept shifting. The friend next to him noticed and said,
    "Oh sorry, are you being poked? My packer was uncomfortable. I can move it to my other pocket." He pulled his packer out of his sweatshirt pocket and moved it to the pocket on the other side. I love how comfortable these kids are with one another.

  • @yeyeimaw33b3
    @yeyeimaw33b3 Před 4 lety +686

    danny devito just sitting in the corner listening to Noah talk about fake pp for 8 minutes and 30 seconds

  • @aalbatwrs
    @aalbatwrs Před 4 lety +762

    It's just hearing "hello underachievers" and my day is fixed. LIKE HOW

    • @spider._.b0y504
      @spider._.b0y504 Před 4 lety +9

      Alba Torres same omg , also i love your profile pic

    • @annnee6818
      @annnee6818 Před 4 lety +2

      It's one of the funnier greetings on all of yt

    • @aalbatwrs
      @aalbatwrs Před 4 lety

      @@annnee6818 it iss

    • @cameurysm
      @cameurysm Před 3 lety

      666th like 💪😈

  • @stutterbug7732
    @stutterbug7732 Před 4 lety +796

    “And like”
    “And like”
    “And like”
    He literally sounds like me

    • @LiuXingzaiXiaWeiYi
      @LiuXingzaiXiaWeiYi Před 4 lety +7

      Azi_ Playz I realized how much he said and like

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Před 3 lety +1

      Azi_ Playz why Millenials sound LIKE morons, every 4th woes is LIKE.

  • @jennifervasquez
    @jennifervasquez Před 4 lety +387

    Im sorry is that a lil danny devito in the bottom left corner

  • @xoxowena
    @xoxowena Před 4 lety +239

    Ok as a trans woman i totally get the being dysphoric from stuff that alleviate other people's dysphoria, stuffing a bra makes me absolutely miserable and just the thought of like a fake breastplate makes me sick like having it on me just reminds me i dont actually have it

    • @Lekos992
      @Lekos992 Před 11 měsíci

      you'll have tits one day, even if they take 5 years to grow or if you just go get surgery. Do you have tits yet? you wrote this 3 years ago.

  • @marvelboy2021
    @marvelboy2021 Před 4 lety +399

    hearing you tell me “hello underachievers” and “have a good day or don’t, see you later losers” makes me feel really good and happy for some reason lol

  • @irinavaglenarova4182
    @irinavaglenarova4182 Před 4 lety +226

    That one strand of hair on your face gives me life

    • @whitenoise3447
      @whitenoise3447 Před 4 lety +4

      me looking in the mirror every morning explaining to myself why I am not going to shave my "beard"

    • @mariesmith6924
      @mariesmith6924 Před 3 lety

      @@whitenoise3447 I am SO glad that I clicked to see what this reply was 😂

  • @mikabrandhofer2511
    @mikabrandhofer2511 Před 4 lety +236

    5:00 I really feel this, I used to pack regularly at school about a year ago because the feeling of something being there lessened my dysphoria but I always wore huge shirts that would cover it because I didn't want anyone to know. The same thing happened when I first started binding (and I still feel like that around people I just recently came out to). Like I want to hide my chest but I don't want them to know I'm hiding my chest if that makes any sense at all

    • @NOAHFINNCE
      @NOAHFINNCE  Před 4 lety +61

      RELATE

    • @paulp8028
      @paulp8028 Před 4 lety +15

      Same, I started binding two month ago and I'm not out to my family, so when I wear a binder around them I puff my chest for it to not look flat. Happy to know I'm not alone feeling this weird thing ♥

    • @eani3boy37
      @eani3boy37 Před 4 lety +11

      My parents don't know I own a binder, and when I came back from a school trip my mum found it. I told her it was a vest, even though it was a half one. She believed me though.

    • @mattydeisley6533
      @mattydeisley6533 Před 4 lety +4

      Mika Brandhofer I gat it bro

    • @goldfishimpact736
      @goldfishimpact736 Před 10 měsíci

      Relate

  • @coolkid-fm2cx
    @coolkid-fm2cx Před 4 lety +513

    Someone saw my packer at school once.. that was a fun explanation to make in the changing rooms.. to a transphobe...

    • @torrinashley6076
      @torrinashley6076 Před 4 lety +45

      I hope you were safe

    • @coolkid-fm2cx
      @coolkid-fm2cx Před 4 lety +73

      @@torrinashley6076 Yeah they just said some dumb stuff and continued to misgender me lol. The teachers did nothing was the problem

    • @kitchristopher7
      @kitchristopher7 Před 4 lety +43

      U n K n o W N B l e A c H that sucks dude I hope you find people who are more supportive of you

    • @coolkid-fm2cx
      @coolkid-fm2cx Před 4 lety +32

      @@kitchristopher7 Thanks fellow human.

    • @raptordan6851
      @raptordan6851 Před 4 lety +1

      Silly girl , you will never be a man

  • @ynnckx5508
    @ynnckx5508 Před 4 lety +186

    5:20 main point why I don't pack. It's just a worse feeling than just not packing at all

    • @khoury6791
      @khoury6791 Před 4 lety +7

      Samee!!
      I have this
      And body hair shame (?)
      And im also scared to have top surgery in the future and being topless.......... Cuz, same concept.. altho I'd be so fucking happy.. but it's just... Ugh idk nvm

    • @khoury6791
      @khoury6791 Před 4 lety +10

      @@jaiden4393 SAME MY MOM KEEPS SAYING THAT MY CURVES ARE......... AND IM LIKE UGH GOSH PLEASE STOP AND MY DYSPHORIA JUST SPIKES UP...
      I have really bad top dysphoria and hips dysphoria.. also my voice and my face and my arms and my hands and my fingers and my fricking fingernails and my thighs and my butt, and just EVERYTHING like gosh I wish I could just be cis or at least just a bit taller and more boxy and veiny and idk... I wish my chest was smaller so binding wouldn't be that hard and that I just looked and sounded a bit more masculine........
      (Not saying that you gotta be masculine to be a guy, it's just that *I* wanna be a more stereotypically masculine looking guy...)

    • @khoury6791
      @khoury6791 Před 4 lety +2

      @@jaiden4393 im so sorry dude :( i feel you..
      I rlly hope everything gets better for all of us.

  • @sophie4304
    @sophie4304 Před 4 lety +555

    Me and my friend who packs went swimming and his packer fell out in the pool and i had to awkwardly hug him and grab his packer from behind me at the same time, it was a mr limpy aha, well he doesn't pack anymore after that

    • @t0kerrr
      @t0kerrr Před 4 lety +52

      Mine fell out while playing softball in PE smh, still everyday pack tho

    • @sophie4304
      @sophie4304 Před 4 lety +32

      @@t0kerrr Awh i hope no one noticed

    • @lucasgreenford5276
      @lucasgreenford5276 Před 4 lety +26

      Jay Fleming same although it was table tennis for me aha, I just wouldn’t pack on Tuesdays and Wednesdays to avoid PE. Pack everyday now that I’m in college and don’t do PE anymore

    • @dlouise33333
      @dlouise33333 Před 4 lety +5

      ur pfp im sorry😍x

    • @lunawolfheart336
      @lunawolfheart336 Před 4 lety +2

      @@t0kerrr thats why i dont pack while exercising

  • @reidisdoodling
    @reidisdoodling Před 4 lety +322

    i went to disneyland with my family and i was packing (i don’t do it often, but when it’s a large place that i can try to pass better in i’ll pack) and my mom didn’t know what packing was/that i packed. and my packer slipped so it looked very odd in my pants and my mom questioned me about it and i told her my pants were being weird and i shoved it back into place. i was kinda embarrassed because it probably looked weird and now i rarely pack because it makes me uncomfortable to think that someone can tell its not real

    • @tinyybiceps
      @tinyybiceps Před 4 lety +6

      reidisdoodling same here, i'd pack and i've TRIED but i can tell it's not real and if somebody else could tell that i think i'd die

    • @tinyybiceps
      @tinyybiceps Před 4 lety +2

      Lil RE bro i just got this like underwear meant for packing it comes with this foam thing to use as a packer and THE FOAM THING THEY SENT IS TOO BIG BUT THE UNDERWEAR FITS PERFECTLY why can't anything be easy

    • @eugeneder7484
      @eugeneder7484 Před rokem

      Put it in a sock, and sew the sock to your underpants. And then he will not slip anywhere.

    • @sand_eater101
      @sand_eater101 Před rokem

      I mean I want to, but I feel silly and I’m also afraid that people will notice and ridicule me or just indiscreetly make a face that says “you’re disgusting” (cus in my country people are generally just bad at being discreet when they think something is odd)

  • @uncannydani1281
    @uncannydani1281 Před 4 lety +144

    His look when he looks at his hair is adorable lol

  • @rubberduck302
    @rubberduck302 Před 4 lety +177

    Your actually so brave Noah, like you literally will speak about anything openly and I really respect that 💙💙

  • @lg5872
    @lg5872 Před 4 lety +89

    when i first got a bank account, i bought a mr limpy off amazon and i was so nervous my parents were gonna find out lmao

    • @Scott-on2er
      @Scott-on2er Před 4 lety

      dude i want to do that but im so scared my mom or dad is gonna confront mr

  • @Emi-kp7wu
    @Emi-kp7wu Před 4 lety +95

    That one piece of hair isn't gonna give up until you just can't see.

  • @mari014
    @mari014 Před 4 lety +45

    Babes out there that need to hear this, if you’re packing, PEOPLE CANNOT TELL ITS PACKING, literally I used to worry so much and it took my cis het female friends to tell me “I don’t know why you worry so much, you can’t tell, No one ever looks down there long enough to tell, and if it they did it would be awkward” and idk why I let myself get immersed in the idea that everyone was looking, when no one wants to look down there.

    • @Shannon_Robbie
      @Shannon_Robbie Před 10 měsíci

      Actually I saw a video that showed a psychological experiment where they could trace eye movement. They showed cis-het men and women a picture of a male and then showed an image of a shitload of red dots on the groin indicating that's where either the men or women were looking. Most people assumed it was the women but in reality, it ended up being the cis-het men that were looking at the groin area of the male pictures they were shown. Mind blown!

  • @sophie4304
    @sophie4304 Před 4 lety +54

    Noah always explains something at the beginning of every video, today he brings up his shirt 😂

  • @noorjongeneel9485
    @noorjongeneel9485 Před 4 lety +69

    Thanks for explaining these kind of things! I’m so grateful that I understand the lgbtq+ community so much better than I did before. I always supported it, but never knew a lot about it! So really, thank you Noah!

    • @segiitaff6421
      @segiitaff6421 Před 4 lety +2

      same! i learned so much about other people’s experiences and lgbtq+ stuff in general :)

    • @jw5386
      @jw5386 Před 4 lety +3

      Thanks for being a good ally! Never stop learning!

    • @noorjongeneel9485
      @noorjongeneel9485 Před 4 lety +2

      James White aww thank you so much! I won’t!

  • @yboy317
    @yboy317 Před 4 lety +20

    Wearing a binder actually made me more dysphoric when I wear it, just made me 10x more aware about the straps, some shirts you can tell theres soemthign there, and not being able to breathe. I'd constantly be adjusting it, and a lot of people didnt quite understand why I wouldn't wear one but it's just very difficult to wear and it would never be flat enough so it just made me more aware instead of just going on day to day "normal". Now I just wear more layers and its usually "fine" the dysphoria is still there but at least I can breathe. (I also work a lot, so it isnt ideal if I'm working 12-16 hrs. Just wasn't safe.) Dunno if its just me who feelt that way.

  • @Finn-js1ce
    @Finn-js1ce Před 4 lety +225

    My mom saw my sock packer once and she didn't know I packed occasionally and she asked me if it was a sex toy and I was like Bruh it's a sock do you think I would put that up something

    • @tshred666
      @tshred666 Před 4 lety +12

      S Ward lol, before I learned how to properly masturbate I used to use socks, latex gloves, golf balls, and pillows to fashion myself a makeshift fleshlight. It was an awkward moment when my sister saw me using that once.

    • @candelariamartin5599
      @candelariamartin5599 Před 4 lety +24

      @@tshred666 ok but golf balls...?

    • @tshred666
      @tshred666 Před 4 lety +5

      Candelaria Martin I used it to simulate what I thought it felt like when someone flexed their kegels. Surprisingly I wasn’t far off.

    • @minksrule2196
      @minksrule2196 Před 4 lety

      @@tshred666 what's a kegel?

    • @tshred666
      @tshred666 Před 4 lety +2

      Minks Rule your pelvic floor muscles.

  • @kaelin8775
    @kaelin8775 Před 4 lety +51

    im nonbinary and i feel similar. i mostly get top dysphoria so I cant wait to get a binder and stuff, but I don't really get bottom dysphoria that often. i do sometimes get a feeling of wanting to pack, and I tried it once and I felt confident and good but also wrong (cause I knew it wasn't a part of me which made me uncomfortable etc.) so yeah

    • @trans_boy_kole7640
      @trans_boy_kole7640 Před 4 lety +3

      In non binary gender fluid. And I get you. My binder is my lifeline. But recently I got my right nipple pierced... Now I can't ware my binder for another 4 moths. So it's back to baggy ass hoddies on my masc days

    • @sorinsantos6802
      @sorinsantos6802 Před 3 lety +1

      I'm not sure what i am at the moment (I just know that my gender assigned at birth is WRONG) but I'm looking to get a binder soon and I'm hella excited 😎😎

  • @lamename6624
    @lamename6624 Před 4 lety +76

    Running with boobs is possibly the worst feeling for me 😑

  • @kai5227
    @kai5227 Před 4 lety +11

    I am non binary, so I either pack or bind. I aim to confuse and make the cis-het people not be able to check off the female or male list

  • @ProFriend
    @ProFriend Před 4 lety +21

    Gawd, I love this kid! Smart, funny, and clear-minded.

  • @lucynoseworthy2988
    @lucynoseworthy2988 Před 4 lety +125

    Noah: “your bad at climbing”

  • @uncannydani1281
    @uncannydani1281 Před 4 lety +51

    Noah is awesome and I wish I was his friend. He's so down to earth and open? Idk if that's the right word but like he's just great and you can't disagree.

  • @nathan_cooper47
    @nathan_cooper47 Před 4 lety +24

    I used to be uncomfortable with packing whenever i tried and it would give me more dysphoria just as you said but just recently i got a packer that actually works for me and makes me feel better!!

    • @etherealether
      @etherealether Před 3 lety +1

      Wait woah. Can you tell me what packer it is?

    • @nathan_cooper47
      @nathan_cooper47 Před 3 lety +2

      Ray its the packer gear ultra soft stp. Its super easy to pee with and not heavy and big like a lot of other ones. Also its super cheap so it’s definitely worth trying i think its like $30 or something. I use it with the ‘multi colour packer harness’ on transguy supplys site.

    • @etherealether
      @etherealether Před 3 lety +1

      Nathan Cooper thank you so much!

    • @nathan_cooper47
      @nathan_cooper47 Před 3 lety +1

      Ray no worries! 😊

  • @Helpfulmelon
    @Helpfulmelon Před 4 lety +27

    So, this is the first video of yours that I've watched, my only other contact with you has been through Evan's channel. And I hope this isn't upsetting or offensive, but I genuinely thought you were MTF Trans that just didn't pass very well. Turns out it's the opposite and you pass so fucking well, holy shit.
    Thank you for the informative video. Keep ballin'

    • @sowhatwearedoomed
      @sowhatwearedoomed Před 3 lety

      Yes , sort of like a flat chested girl . No body hair , no muscle , voice could be male or female . He likes guys . I see a girl . Maybe more T is needed . Or maybe that is the look he is going for . Not trying to put anyone down . Just don’t see much of a change other than losing breast .

  • @Ryan-ci6ni
    @Ryan-ci6ni Před 4 lety +21

    i was gonna say the ‘it gives me more dysphoria’ thing for the same reason on twitter but thought it would be a stupid thing to say so it’s great to know i’m not the only ones that feels that

  • @keiths2902
    @keiths2902 Před 4 lety +70

    Real talk: why are all the packers so huge????? Even the small ones!

    • @Eeben93
      @Eeben93 Před 4 lety +6

      Bestboi packer is pretty nice!

    • @orangesfortropicana4585
      @orangesfortropicana4585 Před 4 lety +8

      Probably the same reason condoms have such a wack sizing system

    • @lunawolfheart336
      @lunawolfheart336 Před 4 lety +10

      becuse people think trans guys want giant dick for some reason and forget that theres such thing as small humans

    • @trans_boy_kole7640
      @trans_boy_kole7640 Před 4 lety +2

      I'm 5 foot 9 and I found meany packers your supposed to chart it to your hight and not your body shape or anything... Well I ended up with two that were to big so I went to a different company and guess what... Huuuge. I may be tall for a born femail in Wales but I'm also biult like a bean cane. So it looks sooo out of place. In the end I gave up and made my own 😅

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Před 3 lety

      Keith S created by size queens?

  • @cjb4127
    @cjb4127 Před 2 lety +7

    I don't really have bottom dysphoria but I like to wear a small sock packer sometimes because I feel like it changes the way you walk. Having something in there makes you take wider strides and it personally helps me when I want to pass better.

  • @rei9392
    @rei9392 Před 4 lety +4

    I've been binge watching your vids for 3 days now and I think that I'm in love

  • @nancypaul3524
    @nancypaul3524 Před 4 lety +6

    really glad that you don’t feel dysphoric every day!! it’ll get better ❤️

  • @briananderson1739
    @briananderson1739 Před 4 lety +21

    That shirt looks great on you!!!

  • @kayliniesen
    @kayliniesen Před 4 lety +2

    OKAY YOU HAVE AMAZING TASTE IN MUSIC. I LOVE THOSE ALBUMS IN THE BACK OMFG

  • @mariom6884
    @mariom6884 Před 4 lety

    Noah,your true is always there for us.You’re just a wonderful human being,helping and informing us like nobody else in this matter.Thank you so much.Love you and respect you from Brazil.

  • @pipscarlett3183
    @pipscarlett3183 Před 4 lety +9

    A cis female here just to let u know I appreciate u and thank you for making educational and entertaining videos, I learn a lot from your videos and want to continue learning! Thank you!

  • @vyrmu
    @vyrmu Před 4 lety +4

    We've had pretty similar experiences haha!
    I think once you get far enough in your transition you become more comfortable in yourself and might not need or feel the want to pack. I used to pack every day and now out of a mix of laziness, comfort in myself, and the discomfort of packing itself I just... don't. I used to feel people would clock me if there was nothing there, turns out no-one notices really. Passing, in general, I've stopped fussing over, I'm male and finally don't feel I have to crop my hair super short to not confuse people. Sadly still looking perpetually 16 at 26 though!

  • @WolfSpiritAD
    @WolfSpiritAD Před 4 lety +3

    OMG You described how I feel so completely. Although I am a bigger guy I also get bottom dysphoria and get a lot of the same feeling about packing. I tried for a time but I am to sensitive down there and having something that wasn't part of my body bouncing around unrealistically, and rubbing and chaffing.. actually made the dysphoria worse. Know that your not alone, and it is good to hear from another who feels a bit similar on that. Although there are time I have considered it, like I would love to be able to go to a pool again and not have worry about looking to flat down there under wet clothing. But for day to day. Most people don;t notice that am missing anything. Also had problem of course where most harnesses didn't sit right on my body shape. Also have had the phantom-dick feeling as early as probably around 5 or 6... I know weird... I didn't know about transgender but I had heard about intersex and was almost convinced that must be what was going on, until the soul crushing puberty hit. Always felt like that would be easier to explain to why I felt this way, than something even I in my logic had trouble understanding at the time.

  • @lvca1140
    @lvca1140 Před 4 lety +2

    First like then watch! love you 💙

  • @Maria-jl7ql
    @Maria-jl7ql Před 4 lety +5

    I am not part of the LGBT+ community but Noah, I love these videos! I am so glad you have grown up in a more open (not fully open yet) world so you can share your experiences with others online. I had no idea what a packer was so thank you for, once again, educating me!

  • @galeforce3192
    @galeforce3192 Před 4 lety +6

    Oh, Christ, your comparison to breasts bouncing up and down when you’re running just makes me think of how painful that can get. My breasts are big and sensitive anyway, so that’s just me. Info that no one needed to know but I felt I needed to share anyway because despite being a cis woman, I’m apparently just that uncomfortable about my breasts.
    Anyway, I’m glad that I came across your channel. I’m getting educational videos and perspectives that I’m not getting on other trans channels. I’ve got several FTM and MTF friends and acquaintances, so I love learning about this stuff.

  • @LGBTR3naissance
    @LGBTR3naissance Před 2 lety

    Thanks for the video Noah. Even though I can't relate to it, it's great you talk about this stuff as it is relevant and certainly needs to be understood. Keep going strong mate!

  • @loganryan5478
    @loganryan5478 Před 4 lety +2

    OH BOY the last reason really hit hard, i feel this way about everything related to trans issues being pre-op + only on T for a couple of months

  • @theviewfromthesummit
    @theviewfromthesummit Před 4 lety +5

    Yay it's Noah.😊

  • @lollipopstrings6236
    @lollipopstrings6236 Před 4 lety

    Your videos really relax me and give me positive thoughts. Thank you very much

  • @kyletahir7536
    @kyletahir7536 Před 4 lety

    bruhh spot onn👏

  • @heal7441
    @heal7441 Před 4 lety

    You should do stand up! You're hella funny and the way you deliver your story is very good! 🔥🔥

  • @leoosafernandez7246
    @leoosafernandez7246 Před 4 lety +5

    Hello Mr Finnce,
    This was a really interesting video, i personally don't have bottom dysphoria but i was thinking to start packing lately, like how you sayed, make myself more confortable so thank you very much for the information!

  • @brookea.harris5199
    @brookea.harris5199 Před 4 lety

    wow noah your form has changed so much you are so masculine your arms and shoulders dang you look amazing

  • @joliencazaux2620
    @joliencazaux2620 Před 4 lety +1

    I think it is great you talk about this, i can imagine there are a lot of really really young trans man feeling like they are supposed to do it just bc, while in reality think the samee way as you. this could make them see it is okay

  • @ellis1034
    @ellis1034 Před 4 lety

    Your hair really looks so good in this video

  • @vivienwhite8362
    @vivienwhite8362 Před 4 lety +11

    Sidenote; I seriously love Noah's hair.

  • @Fernanda2205
    @Fernanda2205 Před 4 lety +2

    A King

  • @klaudiapelczarska1677
    @klaudiapelczarska1677 Před 4 lety +3

    Yay I’m finally early!!!

  • @atransguy8159
    @atransguy8159 Před 4 lety +2

    I hear a lot of you guys talking about your packers falling out and things like that, the answer to that is wearing tighter underwear ESPECIALLY when swimming but what I find that helps is wearing a specific brand of underwear when swimming(PSD) it doesn't have a pouch but I usually just put the packer right on top of my area and then I put my trunks on, but what's important is making sure it has that net and it's tight enough against your thighs, I have been swimming in crazy waters and have had absolutely no problem with it even shifting out of place when swimming. As for exercise I usually do almost the same thing, I wear tight underwear with the hole in it since it provides a resting place and it's not rubbing against my legs and then I put PSD underwear over it and it doesn't shift at all and I probably have to move it like once or twice(and I play pretty street basketball). While I use PSD underwear it might not be an option for all as one pair is $25 but if you buy it during sales they can go down to as low as $5-15. The underwear is 100% comfortable and I definitely suggest you get it but if not there are other types you can buy as long as it's compressed. Another thing if you play sports or run you can get compression shorts or compression tights which is almost the same as what I was saying. If you have any questions or anything like that in the comments I can be of help as I tried almost everything to find a comfortable fit for me.

  • @moondragon8491
    @moondragon8491 Před 4 lety +10

    Noah I was looking so forward to the play-doh story and you didn't tell it ;)

  • @stutterbug7732
    @stutterbug7732 Před 4 lety +35

    I use a sock or a water balloon when I get really dysphoric

    • @molliebuckley8357
      @molliebuckley8357 Před 4 lety +22

      I can just imagine the water balloon popping sorry

    • @stutterbug7732
      @stutterbug7732 Před 4 lety +9

      Mollie Buckley it did, it got a tiny hole and it felt so weird

    • @whitenoise3447
      @whitenoise3447 Před 4 lety +8

      Azi_ Playz u peed ur pants lol

    • @lunawolfheart336
      @lunawolfheart336 Před 4 lety +7

      a watter balloon sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. imagine it randonly popping.

    • @stutterbug7732
      @stutterbug7732 Před 4 lety +1

      luna Fairywolf aha it did but I was desperate and cuz it had water in it felt like the closest thing to what I was aiming for

  • @oliviamooy1205
    @oliviamooy1205 Před 4 lety

    I really care about you and am so glad that you are being youre authentic self

  • @Felixiroflife28
    @Felixiroflife28 Před 4 lety +4

    I’m exactly the same, I’ve been transitioning for over 5 years and packing always makes me MORE dysphoric. I haven’t ruled out bottom surgery at some point in the future but I’m low key worried that if I can’t pack bottom surgery isn’t something I should consider 😅

  • @becklong5111
    @becklong5111 Před 4 lety +19

    My dyslexic ass looking at his T-shirt:
    La mé? Like French? What....

  • @Bakainin
    @Bakainin Před 3 lety

    Love your honesty.

  • @sleepymyth
    @sleepymyth Před 4 lety +1

    hello mr.finnce!!!
    @mythical5pirit
    very late to this, but i watched your video last night. i usually watch at least one of your videos at night because i have insomnia and i need to stay entertained :) 💞

  • @crazycat1166
    @crazycat1166 Před 4 lety

    I initially had the same issues with packing. Then I bought some sports shorts thay have a pouch that is intended to hold a groin guard. I put these on over my regular boxers and put the packer in the pouch. This holds it securely and I feel its more hygienic because its not actually touching me. I now do this daily and don't think about it. It feels weird to me now if I don't pack because I've got used to it so when it's not there I feel like there is something missing. But I don't pack when I'm just at home alone mainly because I'm in lounge wear at home and don't feel I need it. I mainly initially bought a packer as part of my journey to working out if I truely wanted to medically transition and get bottom surgery because in the beginning I wasn't sure if I was more non binary because although I had major chest dysphoria I didn't really have bottom dysphoria so I was quite confused. Experimenting with a packer for me helped me work things out and know more about what I want from my transition when I eventually start medical transition. Currently I've been socially transitioned and fully out for about a year and I feel I need another 6 months or so to be absolutely sure of my decision before hopefully going private to start T.

  • @felixdraconic
    @felixdraconic Před 4 lety +1

    7:39 Supernumerary Phantom Limbs, its when someone believes and receives sensory information from body parts that where never there, it sometimes happens to people after they have a stroke, and therians and otherkin also experience supernumerary phantom limbs, which is super interesting to me.

  • @marik818
    @marik818 Před 4 lety +1

    4:35 I dont pack for the same reason... bc it makes my dysphoria worse, like you said, it reminds me constantly of what I dont have

  • @kieranrussell3507
    @kieranrussell3507 Před 4 lety +1

    Hey noah, can you cover My love - Sia again? I'd love to hear a full version with your low voice!

  • @mikewalker161
    @mikewalker161 Před 4 měsíci

    You are hilarious... you really should consider stand up comedy. Love you Noah!

  • @lucassmith7726
    @lucassmith7726 Před 4 lety

    You saying "have a good day or don't" reminded me that I said that to Jude Law on a dream yesterday. Now I know why I said goodbye to him that way.

  • @leostallwood867
    @leostallwood867 Před 4 lety +1

    HELLO MR FINNCE lol @leo__noah been waiting for a vid like this for a while glad you made one :)

  • @EugeC116
    @EugeC116 Před 4 lety

    Haven't watched the video yet but i just HAD to say how GOOD your hair looks before anything okay? thank you have a nice day

  • @ThisIsNoahHii
    @ThisIsNoahHii Před 4 lety +1

    I FEEL SO RELATED

  • @somewhatartsy7358
    @somewhatartsy7358 Před 4 lety

    I read your shirt as LA and ME as in LA Louisiana and ME as Maine and got distracted and very confused

  • @kkrispy2009P
    @kkrispy2009P Před 4 lety

    How r u noah in lockdown hope you doing well in lockdown thanks 4 your vids to keep us sane

  • @leowest4623
    @leowest4623 Před 4 lety +1

    Heavily suggest buying a gendercat self adhesive packer. I went from socks (safety pinned at the top and the bottom) to the gendercat and it is awesome!

  • @LiamMagan
    @LiamMagan Před 4 lety +1

    I mostly stopped packing because I realized that I was just doing it for other people... I'd only wear it when I left the house and immediately took it out when I got home. It stopped helping my dysphoria and started creating it. Another thing that always made me self conscious of it was being around people who knew I was trans and/or knew me before transitioning and having them see it or feel it when we hugged and them knowing it was fake.... that really made me the weirdest about it. I was also always so insecure about how it looked or if it looked unnatural. Way too much anxiety about it. Now it's been over two years since I wore one and I feel ten times better about myself.

  • @starwie
    @starwie Před 4 lety

    I relate to to every point in this video.
    Nice to know im not alone :)

  • @vikv1134
    @vikv1134 Před 4 lety

    I literally relate to 95% of what you said!

  • @meganhulings9670
    @meganhulings9670 Před 4 lety +1

    I have a lot of bottom dysphoria, too, I'm relieved to hear I'm not the only one who feels weird about that area and about packers, too.

  • @BellySausage1965
    @BellySausage1965 Před 4 lety

    Yeah!!! Packing makes me way more dysphoric because it’s like,,,,, I wouldn’t have to do this. Exactly!

  • @judehanlon2215
    @judehanlon2215 Před 4 lety +1

    I feel exactly the same. I even bought underwear with a packer in already & that's much more comfy and less awkward but the fact that other people who know I'm trans would see that makes me feel WEIRD.

  • @nindigo2038
    @nindigo2038 Před 3 lety

    Just wanted to let you know that my man doesn't sport any noticable pack outside of intimate situations, but it grows to a proper beast that I can only just take, when it needs to. I really appreciate how that works. Cheers!

  • @rubyrudd1502
    @rubyrudd1502 Před 4 lety +1

    So glad to hear that other people experience more dysphoria while packing :'^)
    Just the feeling of it down there and how fake it feels is just so upsetting sometimes
    I basically only pack with soft cup packers, and only when my pants are tight enough in public lmao

  • @kaydasilva5637
    @kaydasilva5637 Před 4 lety

    I fell the same way about binding. A couple of years ago I bought a cg2b binder and I wore it for a few month but it made me even more conscious and dysphoric because, having a bigger breast, I always felt the need to readjust it. Now I prefer to wear sports bras that make my breast move the least possible so I don't think about it.

  • @mallord7625
    @mallord7625 Před 4 lety +1

    5:20 is the main reason I don’t pack too often. It’s so unfair, to want something you feel that’s missing, but when you try to fix it you only feel worse.

  • @idkmanijustwanttea9438

    04:58 that's exactly the reason why I don't pack. I thought I was the only one who has these thoughts. Thanks

  • @greenbeantm1096
    @greenbeantm1096 Před 4 lety

    “Just it’s not a mood” mood

  • @juliandelgado905
    @juliandelgado905 Před 4 lety

    we in the same boat boi, i feel u

  • @eastweast35
    @eastweast35 Před 4 lety +2

    7:26 his face when he says ťHïçč got me

  • @ImNotEfy
    @ImNotEfy Před 4 lety +3

    0:48 i realise this has just been in my face

  • @thatmidgetasian2250
    @thatmidgetasian2250 Před 4 lety

    I dont pack either, for the same reasons as you gave. but there was this one time that i did haha and it was pretty funny.
    i have dysphoria with my facial features. i feel like my face is too soft and feminine. i know it sounds weird but i use my sisters make up to make my face look more masculine, and when i did, my sister said honestly, i can barley tell you used to be a girl.
    anyways, one day i was like hey, maybe if i pack it would alleviate the dysphoria that i have so i did. it was the first day at a new school and i was so happy i had a semi new clean slate. i did have people there i knew in the past but they didnt really recognize me and if they did they didnt care. i was with an old friend and this girl comes up to me and say hey i think youre really cute, and i would love to hang out with you sometime. i said sure why not, so i gave her my number. my friend says you know shes straight right, and low key homophobic. i was all like her? nah she seems super sweet.
    that night i got a text from her, she was so nice. we talked for a while until she said hey can i see you dick and i was all like what? and she said yeah dont think i didnt notice that bulge while you were talking to me haha. i told her that i was trans and her attitude changed really fast, she was all like omg never text me again and i was all like damn okay.
    i saw her at school the next day talking to this guy i made friends with, and he walks over to me he said so youre trans, and i saidyeah why. and he goes, well, most of the people in our (ROTC) class is transphobic including the instructor. i was too until i met you. i said youre transphobic? and he said i was because i didnt understand the point of them. but youre pretty cool
    basically, a straight girl wanted me to send nudes and im friends with an ex trans/homophobe lol

  • @TheDorkEvilOne
    @TheDorkEvilOne Před 3 měsíci +1

    I only have mild top dysphoria (wish they were smaller/less noticable not totally gone) but I do have bottom dysphoria, & I have yet to find the most comfortable way to pack. When I was younger, I went too thick with a roll of socks & it was painfully digging into my pubic bone & gave me a disproportionately massive bulge. & it felt unsafe since I didn't pass in any other way. Now I'm 36 & I'd prefer something small & hardly visible to other people, bc it's solely for my comfort.

  • @KingQueerio
    @KingQueerio Před 4 lety

    4:08 I can totally relate to that... it really sucks 😅🥺

  • @quinjammin
    @quinjammin Před 4 lety

    me and my therapist spent 20 minuets in one of my sessions discussing and laughing about the possibility of my packer falling out whilst i was walking down the street. was a very good session- 20/10! humor is great!

  • @DeadChannelLol
    @DeadChannelLol Před 3 lety +1

    It’s 1:30 am
    I have a 3 hour art exam in the morning
    I’m AMAB
    Why am I watching this