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  • čas přidán 13. 06. 2024
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Komentáře • 148

  • @NikiSky
    @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +86

    I wanted to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the love and support on my previous video

    • @simplylovedandused
      @simplylovedandused Před 2 měsíci +9

      I’m looking forward to your future videos! More than ever

    • @jaminova_1969
      @jaminova_1969 Před 2 měsíci +4

      I'm loving your evolution! At my age (mid-50's), I want to look stylish, but practical and not spend a fortune! Hope to see more of you, Thank You Niki!

  • @spacem.2344
    @spacem.2344 Před 2 měsíci +249

    For some reason a lot of influencers start to sell their clothings and get deep in to their soul. Is this a new marketing???

    • @MotivationMaster28
      @MotivationMaster28 Před 2 měsíci +85

      new trend , gets more views

    • @dvillano1682
      @dvillano1682 Před 2 měsíci +67

      I have been a follower of these fashion influencers and noticed that trend as well. All are closet clear outs but promoting something from a certain brand.

    • @Sarah-Weinberg
      @Sarah-Weinberg Před 2 měsíci +35

      Opportunist people. Propably tired of their style and their luxury items.

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +100

      I’m sorry you feel that way but my journey has been 100% authentic. If my content triggers you, I hope you look inward and ask yourself why.

    • @yoggita
      @yoggita Před 2 měsíci +38

      It’s usually when they are starting their own brand. So they can promote their own line of clothing

  • @nafee-sa910
    @nafee-sa910 Před 2 měsíci +34

    Making a video like this, but with a sponsored ad in the middle feels disingenuous.

  • @Claire-yo1nx
    @Claire-yo1nx Před měsícem +39

    Can seem inauthentic when also pushing idyl jewellery line 🙃

  • @lifeisbeautiful7421
    @lifeisbeautiful7421 Před měsícem +12

    influencers are starting to shift to this minimalism

  • @kristinam.p.5058
    @kristinam.p.5058 Před 2 měsíci +78

    We would love to see the items you didn’t sell! What you found versatile, etc.

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +53

      I’m still purging some things and plan to talk about what I kept and why, and my future plans 🫶🏻

  • @gwenlilly333
    @gwenlilly333 Před 2 měsíci +27

    Same thing with interior "home fashions"

  • @annastyles7445
    @annastyles7445 Před měsícem +13

    we need an updated wardobe tour!

  • @tigrezz0852
    @tigrezz0852 Před 2 měsíci +11

    “THANK YOU NIKI” bravo, well said 👏🏼 this really resonates with me at the moment… thanks for voicing out what I have been going through these past couple of years!

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +1

      so glad you enjoyed! thanks for watching xx

  • @lifeisbeautiful7421
    @lifeisbeautiful7421 Před měsícem +34

    pls don’t use “we” because that is just you, use “me”

  • @stephaniec4766
    @stephaniec4766 Před 2 měsíci +22

    Fashion as art and personal style rather than fashion as business and status. Love it, looking forward to more 💖💖💖

  • @sreyphon-thill3297
    @sreyphon-thill3297 Před měsícem +3

    Stumbled across your videos and it’s so nice to see someone else that wants to make a change in their life and not put so much worth into material things. People should understand that we go through phases in our life and what someone is doing or not doing is not an attack on you and your lifestyle. Love this content!

  • @AndreeaDimaFotograf
    @AndreeaDimaFotograf Před 2 měsíci +30

    The best way to have a sustainable wardrobe is to make use of all you have until it falls apart. I also started to wash more by hand and dry laundry natural, everything lasts more, even if it's from a fast fashion brand. I declutter only when I am sure that it will not fit me anymore. My body changed a lot after the second child.

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +2

      thanks for sharing xx

    • @vaniemars5217
      @vaniemars5217 Před 2 měsíci

      I actually completely agree.

    • @user-dt3wm8rn4j
      @user-dt3wm8rn4j Před 2 měsíci +1

      2 ND child, I agree. Bounced back to 103 lbs first time but not unscaveved. Weight loss.

  • @yiramariani8236
    @yiramariani8236 Před 2 měsíci +41

    Hi Niki, I just wanted to say that I was a subscriber and then I unsubscribed to your channel for this reason. It became too much and felt more joy in minimalist or sustainable fashion more. I’m happy to hear that you’ve changed, would love to see more of your content❤

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +10

      thank you for your comment, i appreciate your honesty and i hope you find my new content inspiring

  • @thatsimplelifeweneed8708
    @thatsimplelifeweneed8708 Před měsícem +9

    Pushing the idyl jewellery seemed so out of context tho 🙃 I think that you need to stop marketing brands so we can take your transition more seriously

  • @martylovellmusic.
    @martylovellmusic. Před měsícem +5

    Its an ADVERTISEMENT for Idyl.

  • @christiafunkhouser7232
    @christiafunkhouser7232 Před 2 měsíci +15

    Preach sister!!! You have awakened your soul. It's a beautiful place to be. Authenticity and true self love will never be found from external sources, it creates this insatiable bottomless pit. Meanwhile all our discarded next trend items continue to destroy the planet. Sending peace and love your way ❤

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci

      thank you so much for your beautiful comment xx

  • @arikle22
    @arikle22 Před 2 měsíci +20

    Breath of fresh air.

  • @lifeisbeautiful7421
    @lifeisbeautiful7421 Před měsícem +9

    low key endorsing jewelry, very contradicting to the whole video

  • @JelenaContent
    @JelenaContent Před 2 měsíci +18

    I guess this is just a new influence strategy

  • @amyrosegordon7975
    @amyrosegordon7975 Před 2 měsíci +11

    The 'new purchase' buzz is fun. Following trends is fun. Experiment. Enjoy fashion. Enjoy shopping. It doesnt have to be that deep... The issue isnt trends. If you allow yourself to be manipulated by marketing, thats on you and its to do with a deeper inner issue that that person has.

  • @ivetaruskova5867
    @ivetaruskova5867 Před měsícem +4

    She is walking billboard for brand Idyl.

  • @seaha9256
    @seaha9256 Před 2 měsíci +14

    You are SO right in this entire video! When we say we have nothing to wear it’s not that we don’t have clothes it’s just not our style or something I would wear because I was influenced by someone else 🤯.

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +1

      i'm so glad you agree with that statement! it truly is mind blowing when you think about it!

  • @danielleboodram4485
    @danielleboodram4485 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Hope this video doesn’t get cancelled. Everything you said is so true! And more people need to hear this 👍🏻

  • @claudial1240
    @claudial1240 Před 2 měsíci +5

    WOW your last few videos that i have watched have been amazing, thank you so much for sharing. For years i couldn't figure out why I felt so disconnected to all the fashion stuff etc and I think very similarly to you, once i became a mum my whole world changed, and I have found myself constantly trying to declutter and just discover what ot is that I'm most comfortable in. The timing of your videos are perfect, thank you ❤❤

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +1

      thank you so much for your beautiful comment, it means a lot

  • @nastinka778
    @nastinka778 Před 2 měsíci +12

    more videos like this ❤ i'm obsessed with this new era

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +2

      makes me SO happy to hear xx

  • @MilaBeri
    @MilaBeri Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thank you, Niky! I really like the direction this channel is taking :)

  • @SashaBlake
    @SashaBlake Před 2 měsíci +1

    Love your authentic style! SO classy, chic and cool! Love this era for you ❤

  • @escolero08
    @escolero08 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for this! I think as a mother the whole soul searching and shift in life happens. Really appreciate this video!!

  • @sharylanne7738
    @sharylanne7738 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Love the message, Niki!

  • @anastasianovik7910
    @anastasianovik7910 Před 2 měsíci +10

    I love this content, we need more ❤

  • @responsibleforwardfashion168
    @responsibleforwardfashion168 Před 2 měsíci +12

    You took the pill! You just became an Slow Fashion activist!! There are some non profits like Slow Fashion Movement, Fashion Revolution and Remake trying to make conscious about the negative impacts of the fashion industry! Maybe someday you want to get connected with some like-minded comuninity!

  • @brigittehayes1076
    @brigittehayes1076 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Love this video! I like to look at trends and just pick and choose what fits my style. My style is actually really close to yours- love your jewels 🫶🏻

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci

      Love that! so much love xx

  • @helenamarhounova1120
    @helenamarhounova1120 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Thank you so much for this video. Amazing, exactly what all we need to hear it .

  • @a.nna22
    @a.nna22 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Love your videos Niki, you are a role model for me❤️

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci

      thank you for the sweet comment

  • @KW-px5fk
    @KW-px5fk Před 2 měsíci +24

    I think Niki is genuinely opening her eyes to an unhealthy relationship with consumerism. She’s authentic and sincere.

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +1

      thank you for your kind words

  • @cassandraknight8804
    @cassandraknight8804 Před 2 měsíci +18

    A little disappointed to see the sponsor add in this 😢

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +3

      not sure why you are disappointed as i am talking about a brand i genuinely love and wear daily. it was an organic fit for the example i gave in this video. my sponsors allow me to create impactful videos and take care of my family. it saddens me that it's so frowned upon

    • @BlackBeauty-yl8uq
      @BlackBeauty-yl8uq Před měsícem

      You can’t please everyone.

  • @Laauu
    @Laauu Před měsícem

    I really enjoyed this video. Thank you!

  • @Shiryone
    @Shiryone Před 2 měsíci +1

    happy
    adjective
    1. feeling or showing pleasure or contentment = a/k/a fleeting & does not last

  • @MarMarSnatched
    @MarMarSnatched Před 2 měsíci +5

    i love this content!!!

  • @Ldizzy1414
    @Ldizzy1414 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Love this! ❤

  • @joliejolie6201
    @joliejolie6201 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Great video I have a huge walk-in closet with so much stuff I need to start clearing all that stuff asap…please give us tips how to do it..I need help!! ❤

  • @gracepatricio7116
    @gracepatricio7116 Před měsícem

    Thank you for sharing, love your insights 😘

  • @elizabethpace1591
    @elizabethpace1591 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This is so true what you have said and thank you for sharing this message.

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Thanks for watching xx

  • @user-zc7rl5uo7d
    @user-zc7rl5uo7d Před 2 měsíci +46

    You just promote jewelry. is this not influencing people to buy it?
    Double standards

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +15

      if it's something i wear on repeat every day of my life and makes me feel like my most authentic self, then i will talk about it. i am not forcing anyone to buy anything they don't want to buy. you are in control of your own decisions

    • @QuietlyPeaceful
      @QuietlyPeaceful Před 2 měsíci +11

      IKR! "I'm decluttering to be sustainable, by discarding most of what I have, while promoting something new. Trust me, I use this new thing everyday!"
      I liked her style before but was shocked to realise seeing these reasons that she is realising this ONLY NOW! And I was a fool to think that was her unique style, when now she blatantly says she was stupidly following fashion trends. LOL. STUPIDITY!

    • @cassandraknight8804
      @cassandraknight8804 Před 2 měsíci +11

      Still influencing to buy more. Spend more have more. I believe actions don’t Match words in this case.

    • @BreakFreeTV1
      @BreakFreeTV1 Před 2 měsíci +7

      Completely missed the point of the video. She didn’t say she doesn’t enjoy fashion. She’s saying she’s minimizing and curating her own style. No longer chasing trends or placing her value in labels.
      She also has to eat and take care of her family.
      We gotta get rid of this “all of nothing” thinking.

  • @yasuchan7147
    @yasuchan7147 Před měsícem +1

    Hi Niki, I feel like I am in a similar situation with you and these videos have given me the kick to purge my closet even more. As a mom of two I feel like I am drowning in the amount of clothes, toys and stuff in general that a family of four possesses 🫠 thank you for your honesty! I would like to ask a question about how you feel about your home now that you are going towards a more minimalistick lifestyle?

  • @aphroditeconstantinou2608
    @aphroditeconstantinou2608 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Where did you take the khaki outfit and the shoes of the outfit?its beautiful

  • @ichiban6004
    @ichiban6004 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Wonderful video thank you for sharing ❤

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci

      thanks for watching xx

  • @gargimishra1838
    @gargimishra1838 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Great video again thank you for discussing this topic!❤

  • @angelagregory1696
    @angelagregory1696 Před 2 měsíci +10

    Amen sister !

  • @dmoody-hs7zj
    @dmoody-hs7zj Před 2 měsíci

    Hello, I don't see the places you mentioned in the description box of where you sell your items...?

  • @WHATSHEYSAY
    @WHATSHEYSAY Před 2 měsíci +1

    Love this.

  • @MyKimmunity
    @MyKimmunity Před 2 měsíci +8

    I love this and have been thinking about the same thing!! Thanks for sharing

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +1

      thank you for your kind words and for watching xx

  • @Riley0310
    @Riley0310 Před 2 měsíci +9

    Bravo, Niki! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾But girl I need you to come and help me sell some of the stuff you convinced me to buy over the years….jk😂😂😂 Love that you’ve found the Niki that makes you so happy.❤ This is the content I’m looking for!!!!!

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Thank you so much for the sweet comment 🫶🏻 I’m really happy you are enjoying the new content

  • @jingwang1038
    @jingwang1038 Před měsícem

    Where is your necklace from? Thank you ❤

  • @happilyhired622
    @happilyhired622 Před 2 měsíci +15

    Your current style likes follows todays trends; getting rid of timed trendy purchases makes sense, but it isnt revolutionary. Sounds like youre trying to pivot into minimalism and a capsule wardrobe which has been trending for years now.

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +3

      i'm not pivoting into minimalism. i don't believe in labels. i'm simply being more mindful of the things i bring into my life and how they align with my true self

    • @Claire-yo1nx
      @Claire-yo1nx Před měsícem +4

      I agree she just doesn’t realise

  • @everdaylookbook4210
    @everdaylookbook4210 Před 2 měsíci +12

    But please What is the point of all this if you're still bring thing in ur wardrobe 😅

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci

      not sure i understand your comment ...

  • @carrino15
    @carrino15 Před měsícem

    The only place logos give respect is in the luxury boutiques as SA get dollar sign in their eyes. 💵💵💰🤑🤑

  • @kaylheecarroll3186
    @kaylheecarroll3186 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Best of luck with your vlog sale

  • @francoisesmet4793
    @francoisesmet4793 Před 2 měsíci

    Happy that you finaly realise. 😉

  • @aphroditeconstantinou2608
    @aphroditeconstantinou2608 Před 2 měsíci +1

    where did you take tha khaki set?it's beautiful

  • @dilekkesgin440
    @dilekkesgin440 Před měsícem

    I see you, Lightbringer 💫🌟🙏🏻💗

  • @lindalazda2617
    @lindalazda2617 Před 2 měsíci

    Bravo, bravo!!

  • @pegasusjourney
    @pegasusjourney Před 2 měsíci +14

    Hypocrisy

    • @BlackBeauty-yl8uq
      @BlackBeauty-yl8uq Před měsícem +1

      Exit her channel since it doesn’t serve you anymore.

  • @rivkyfriedman1469
    @rivkyfriedman1469 Před měsícem

    Half of even designer iteams are made in china🤦‍♀️

  • @TerrieAlvarez-uu3pe
    @TerrieAlvarez-uu3pe Před 2 měsíci +2

    I think You're great and your video everything you say is very true

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci

      thank you for your kind words xx

  • @pamelamattz3761
    @pamelamattz3761 Před 2 měsíci

    Nice Style

  • @extrememinimalism
    @extrememinimalism Před měsícem +4

    Are you decluttering for views, or are you decluttering because you realised just how incredible simple, slow, minimalist living actually is? Also, you can be a minimalist and still own expensive or colourful pieces and lots of something but very little or nothing in other areas. I own one shampoo but have lots of variety in my closet. I don't own any cushions but have 4 pillows on my bed. I don't own any decor but have 3 mirrors. Etc.

  • @Rue100
    @Rue100 Před 2 měsíci +69

    YOUR JUST NOW FIGURING THIS OUTTTTTTTT??? WTF

    • @sop6160
      @sop6160 Před 2 měsíci +3

      😂😂😂

    • @danyf.1442
      @danyf.1442 Před 2 měsíci +7

      Mhhh...better late than never I guess???

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 Před 2 měsíci +18

      I’m 55 and I’m just figuring out I don’t need all the crap.

    • @violakarl6900
      @violakarl6900 Před 2 měsíci +2

      so interesting what people learn at what age in this lifey isn't it?

    • @ericaelliott5047
      @ericaelliott5047 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Thanks I love you and your new attitude. I am on a fixed income and I always say you don't have to spend a million to look like a million. And I have never been in to brand name stuff even when I was younger I am 51.

  • @jessicasims5596
    @jessicasims5596 Před 2 měsíci +1

    💜

  • @saskia6693
    @saskia6693 Před měsícem +1

    100 % 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @fleurbeckwith9280
    @fleurbeckwith9280 Před 2 měsíci +2

    People don't come across as creative by having the same bag as everyone else, maybe consider a purchase from a small brand or artisan maker.

  • @janregalafreeman9796
    @janregalafreeman9796 Před měsícem +1

    You must be in a different phase in your life and that’s totally ok

  • @lianazstyle7003
    @lianazstyle7003 Před 2 měsíci +10

    Wow the level of judgement here almost feels toxic low 🔑 just saying

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +4

      i'm sorry you feel judged or triggered. this was not my intention. everyone is free to do what makes them happy. this is my journey and i hope you can respect it as i do yours

    • @lianazstyle7003
      @lianazstyle7003 Před 2 měsíci

      @@NikiSky I personally feel nothing, just thinking of others. I don’t buy luxury brands as a lifestyle

  • @nelly8592
    @nelly8592 Před měsícem

    Some people just are doing TOO well. 😏

  • @eleawanis1732
    @eleawanis1732 Před 2 měsíci +10

    Looool

  • @ManjGill
    @ManjGill Před měsícem +2

    The nonsense of this video ... of course it’s nothing to do with consciousness or awareness but to promote a brand. Her entire career is based on promoting fashion and trends and for the sake of this sponsorship she’s reneging on everything she’s built her brand on. There’s nothing authentic about this video. I don’t believe anything content creators say there’s always a paid sponsorship behind everything

  • @booboo9570
    @booboo9570 Před měsícem +1

    so what about your luxurious house? sell that next or nah? why don't you move into a more modest housing? don't tell me it's cause you have kids: you can find big enough home for all your family without marble floors. LOL. If you despise luxury so much, why you live in such nice place? that's no minimalism.
    if you don't like logos anymore, fine, but do NOT play saint, cause you ain't

  • @idyljewelry
    @idyljewelry Před 2 měsíci +1

    Niki🤍 We're so honoured to be part of your transition. Your support for years now truly means the world to us and we hope to do the same for you too✨Keep on shining!

  • @CaraFitchFit
    @CaraFitchFit Před 2 měsíci +1

    I actually bought your Burberry trench coat a couple of years ago from your site. This content is so relatable for so many women! Excited to see more ❤

    • @NikiSky
      @NikiSky  Před 2 měsíci +1

      love that! thank you for watching and supporting xx