why I got rid of everything I own (almost)
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- čas přidán 4. 04. 2024
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everything is changing and i have never felt more liberated and empowered than I do in this moment. I hope you enjoy the video and follow along on this new journey
Do You feel many people will have regrets with the tattoo craze? I am asking for a friend?
So inspirational! Love this change!
Three stages of life …. Desiring stuff , buying stuff , getting rid of stuff
So true!!
En after that buying again. It comes and goes and comes again.
So true, but you get to another stage in life when you become an empty nester and start getting things again, but not to the extent pre kids. Lol
Exactly !
So ‘the stuff’ is just an illusion ❤
As a non-influencer, this is a refreshing shift. I’ve never understood the need for bigger, better, more or the need for ridiculously expensive bags or shoes. None of us is perfect, allow the changes, even if those take you back in the other direction at some point. Everything is cyclical!
MORE, MORE, MORE!!!! Makes sense ... I'm like... WHERE DO YOU KEEP IT ALL??? and whyyyyy??
So happy for you!!x
we are constantly changing as human beings. you don’t even really need to justify it, we simply change as we age
Yes! I agree! I’m in my mid thirties now & my priorities are shifting!
True
You can do a full 180 and that’s completely fine
I haven’t watched you in quite a while. You have grown so much as a person, this was a super refreshing video
this makes me so happy to hear. i have been on a self-growth journey and I finally feel like the disconnect I have been feeling from myself and the content I was creating finally makes sense. i am excited for this new chapter
@@NikiSkyHey Niki,' where are all your high end luxury things? You are not selling them on the site you mentioned. Where are your bags? Where is the Zimmermann and Chanel? Are you keeping them or selling them someplace else. I never saw you wearing cheap Zara crap but that is what you are selling on that site. I feel like you are scamming us and i have been a subscriber for years. So tell us the truth.
She’s allowed to keep her things that bring her joy. It doesn’t matter that they are designer. She is building a better curated life suited to HER lifestyle and values.
i have been going through this recently buying and buying and realising that these things don't make me happy at all and the moment i realised this i started to appreciate other things in my life and it has helped me so much mentally and i am so much more at peace. Social media can be so toxic for people's mental health and you should protect your peace always.
100%
I think there’s a lot more of us experiencing this at this time. I have been creating fashion content online for 12 years and these days I’m not interested in shopping anymore. Instead I am reconnecting with my essence, my dreams and passions. It feels amazing!
So inspiring. I did a purge and downsized my home about a year ago. I have never felt more satisfied or at peace. This opened the door to further introspection and self discovery. It’s amazing that we can spend precious years of life allowing outer influences to dictate who we should be. I wish you the best on your journey, living your best life.
Wow. You are very brave. I have been a minimalist my whole life, but to see someone like you make this brave move (your audience will be shocked) is really amazing. I admire you .
I’m so happy for you! I’ve done this twice and you are right - it is so liberating!❤️ Well wishes on your journey!
Children really bring you back to your true being it’s amazing how much you learn from your babies while guiding them, you question everything you do. It’s definitely a journey and I wish you the best because it will be for the rest of your life. ❤️
So many people don’t have children and go through the same lmao is a personal thing no kids related.
@@swanthequeen2144 LMAO ….. Okay
So proud and pleased to hear this transformation news! I am right here with you coming for the journey... Just started menopause I got the same feels that you do as a new mom, with realizing how disconnected I am from my own identity and find that I am building from the core parts of me as a young girl that are still intact.
love that, thank you for sharing
Me too. Also in menoupause and i feel the same. This is my year of decluttering!! Im so proud ofbhet!! For not just staying in it for pleasing her subscribers or anyone else.
Sooo refreshing- while I love fashion I was getting tired of being influenced into another item hauls shopping shopping shopping- I think the time for acquisition of things is coming to an end even on social media you’re one of the first movers. I’m surprised how some are not evolving. Let’s grow together 😊
thank you for the kind words and for watching this video xx
We are with you Nikki Amazing transformation, I'm here for it.
Very proud of you! So many of us can relate. Congratulations on your personal growth!
Niki, you are a true inspiration! With Haute Curators, our aim was to assist influencers who find themselves inundated with items, while also fostering a circular fashion ecosystem. We are overjoyed and feel privileged to embark on this journey alongside you. Thank you, Niki! 💝
What a lovely video, thank you Niki! Looking forward to accompanying you on this journal. I too went through a shift in my lift and my relationship to material things. The work I did was through the Inner Engineering meditation practice from the Isha Foundation. Totally life changing in all the best ways! Best wishes.
I truly appreciate this process you've gone through. I am on a similar path to rid my closet and myself of things that are not 'me' anymore. Thank you so much for your honesty.
I am going through a similar journey. It is truly liberating. Thanks. I look forward to seeing where you go next!
Wowwww! this is life changing video, thank you for making me confident for letting go things in the closet which I was holding on to for so many years. ❤
Love this immensely. This is so important for the future as a whole.
I think this is what I needed to hear at this point in my life. Thanks for the inspiration Niki😊
I am so so happy for you to hear that you reached this point ❤
This is the most touchable video ever, you are so right!! This is so inspiring, thank you so much for this beautiful video🙏❤️❤️❤️
I hope you still make videos on styling! Your pregnancy style tips saved me. I think you are so creative and I love that your tips can be used on any budget and even with things that are already in your closet.
i will be! but they will be in a very different format that will empower you and help you align with your true self
So proud of you ❤ minimalism at its best !
❤ You are releasing Niki✨💯🙏🏻🦋 Next chapter it's on!! 🦋 best wishes my dear. I'm in baby steps doing it.
Wow Niki, I’ve been going through an awakening since 2021 too but still haven’t found the courage to purge most of it yet. I’m almost in tears listening to this. You are so brave 🙏🏻
“I already am worthy”🔥🔥🔥🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
wow, I’m going through exactly this! So thankful for stumbling upon this video and now knowing that it’s not just me.. 🙏
I appreciate your honesty ❤️
Thanks so much Niki .I'm 61 this birthday and I really needed to see your video and get that book and start to change my life thanks so much again ❤
OMG I am so happy for you! ❤I am decluttering a lot of my stuff now and it feels so so liberating 😃 it’s a process and I love it
love that
We go through phases when we become so obsessed with some pieces. Then time passes, and that particular piece doesn't seem so appealing and tantalizing as it was when you first bought it. It's completely normal.
I am a stylist and always loved your channel but never loved you more than right now. This resonates with me like u couldn’t imagine. You are so brave to go all in like on this journey. It truly inspires me. Can’t wait to see your next steps ❤
wow thank you so much for these beautiful words, i am so touched and appreciate it so much
Wow I’m just loving this!! So happy for you!!❤️❤️❤️
I love this 💕 looking forward to your future content
So happy to see people awakening ❤ You Go Girl 🌞
This video is very much needed for many people who are dealing with the same.Thank you for doing this❤
Love this transformation! Looove seeing more and more people awakening and going through such awakening- transformation! ❤
I was subscribed to you for awhile, but unsubscribed because I was overwhelmed with a lot of the constant new “stuff”. When I saw the thumbnail I immediately clicked, because I’m going through the same thing: donating and giving away lots of my clothes, furniture, knickknacks….
Absolutely love this! I am going through a similar journey as a mom! Trying to prioritize financial and mental stability and experience over possessions ❤
I don’t think I’ve ever connected more with a video…how impactful! Best of luck as you move along this journey ❤️
thank you so much for the kind words
So happy for you. I too have been looking inward and recognized this same need for change. Growth is upon us!
So happy for you! Hope & pray that all your viewers go through your journey too and experience what you felt and realise n grow as well 💕🤗
thank you for your sweet comment and for watching this video
CONGRATULATIONS in discovering your TRUE SELF!!!!
Hi Niki,
I’m so glad to see the new journey you’re embarking upon. I too went through something similar during the pandemic.
I sold 247 items from my closet on Posh and eBay. Made enough to purchase a brand new Chanel lambskin mini and I’ve curated a closet I love. I own about 30 tops and 2 pairs of sneakers. I only bring home things I absolutely adore. Designer is a weak spot of mine so it isn’t always easy, but it feels freeing.
Please don’t feel the need to apologize about influencing. One of the videos you posted about shoes led me to sell my Manolo Blahniks but I miss them dearly. Going to repurchase them this weekend for my birthday gift. lol
I look forward to seeing your new videos🤍
thanks for sharing that with me! and thank you for watching and supporting xx
This is me to a T, only curate beautiful items you LOVE which are practical to you. I only own 3 pairs of heels, red, nude and black - the black is Manolo, they're beautiful and go with everything, I never wear heels except to weddings or events so I don't need plenty. I have 2 trainers, Veja (knock around trainers) and Jimmy Choo (more elegant trainers). then 3 flats - 1 Loro Piana mules, 1 ballerina flat, 1 massimo dutti mules. Again, few, practical and beautiful. I love all my items and get excited to wear them! but they don't take much space physically, mentally or from my bank.
This was beautiful, congratulations!❤
YAY! Divine timing, thank you for stepping into your light.
Im over seeing this trend- where alot of CZcams fashion influencers who made it, brought a house, brought a bunch of nice exterior item, is settled financially. Same with Josie, Anna Bey, Lillian Elise Millen, they go thru a period of being more homey and the previous items in their life don't suit their lifestyle anymore. This is a trend itself
sorry but this is not a "trend" for me. this process has been an awakening and a transformation process i have been going through for the last few years. everyone has a unique process and journey, and it is not fair to label everyone as the same. i actually had no idea that this was "trending"
I can so much relate. So proud of you. 🙏🏼
Loved every second of this video. Congrats on your liberation and new journey ahead.
Love you so much for this. I bought the book while listening to your previous video, life-changing. Literally. I wanted this Nikki since the day I started following you. Thank you for your courage. Thank you for your bravery. Thank you for the sisterhood.
omg your comment truly warmed my heart! i'm so beyond happy you bought the book and it has impacted your life so profoundly
I love this wave of awakening that we are seeing! Don’t worry Nikki, your journey will be great no matter what you decide. ❤💛🙏
I have been subscribed to your channel for some time now and I must say, this is awesome Niki. Shadow Work is not easy, but sooooo worth the journey and necessary if we what to reach our highest potential and true selves! Blessings to you. Im excited for this new season.
thank you so much, i agree with my whole heart
Most of us are just trying to make our mortgage payments on time LOL
Yes, Niki!! Post pandemic, I think we’re all longing for true inspiration. It’s heavy lifting to purge all that stuff!! And all that stuff is SO uninspiring.. VERY happy that you’re making a deeper connection to uncovering your authentic self!! I am here for it!! Cheers to your new chapter in your life and in your journey 💞
thank you so much for your kind words and for watching this video xx
Of course!! & it’s definitely resinating… truly inspiring and thank YOU for sharing your journey.
This is beautiful
Been following you for a while and happy to be on the similar journey as you and rediscovering you ❤
love that. thank you so much for watching xx
So proud of you to share this transition in your life, in a world where everything is buy ... buy... buy. Not easy to do in a materialistic culture, however we all need to look within (for me it is to look to my creator) and discover our true purpose and destiny!
Well done ❤ this feels so authentic
Beautiful just beautiful!! Niki thank you so much for sharing. I look forward to following your journey, rawness and self alignment xx
I feel like I’ll be following this process along with you as I am on the same path and have just done a major purge of 51 bags of clothing xx for me this video couldn’t come at a better time xx much love ❤xx
i am so so happy to hear that! thanks for the love and support xx
Hi, it's my first time coming across your vlog. I want to applaud you for going against the grain of consumerism. Your vlog is REFRESHING and freeing. It is healthy and I admire you for putting your convictions into action. All the best of luck. I look forward to seeing you GLOW and radiate from being released from the shackles of buying. I love how you're finding JOY in being genuinely YOU. You shine! 😁🤩
So super proud of you! Wish more young women were like you.
Don't declutter. Wear what you already have until it's worn out.
Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. Life is about reflection and being the best version of ourselves. Keep the focus on you and your family and everything else will fall into place. Your share gives me hope.
Ty so so much for making this video. It was exactly what I needed. Many times I felt that if I bought this certain purse,shoes,etc. it would make me happy. You are so right when you say the high last 5 minutes and then I was in the hunt for another purchase. It truely is An addiction. My husband has bailed me out 3 times already with credit card debt. Hopefully your video will help me🙏. Thank you for pouring out yourself to all of us who needed this video. I always loved your style but now I admire you for yourself and inner beauty💛
thank you for sharing that with me and for watching this video xx
This is so INSPIRATIONAL! Love it! ❤
This is so beautiful! I’m so happy for you
Niki sending you lots of love from London ❤ I'm so happy for you. Thanks for making this video. It'll inspire and help lots of people. I'm in the soace place at the moment, rediscovering myself away from THINGS - Excited for your journey ❤
Your decision suits you very well. Thank you for this brave step, I'm with you! ❤😊
thank you
Super inspiring and such authenticity - thank you ❤✨️🫶
thank you so much, i'm so glad you enjoyed
I feel exactly the same and I also changed after becoming a mom. Thank you for this video it was truly refreshing.
So unexpected, and refreshing from a fashion content creator. Thank you for being bold and brave and speaking your truth. We are forever evolving and this is beautiful example of growth, liberation and deep inner transformation.
thank you so much, your words mean a lot xx
Congratulations sweet girl!! You Go! 🙌
Thank you 💜 I needed to hear this.
What a relief this video is. Thank you ❤
I just did this recently, and now I have under 90 items of clothing. It helps that I am also going through some weight loss right now so it’s easier for me to get rid of more clothes. But the overconsumption in this world definitely needs to stop. Love the video
so happy you enjoyed, thanks for watching xx
Wow. I am so happy for you. May you continue to be enlightened and be an inspiration of simple yet elegant and meaningful way of living.
Not sure how I stumbled upon this video, but I could not love your message more ... most importantly because it seems that you have influence on some other young girls that will hopefully inspire them as well. ... Blessings
thank you so much, i really hope so
I am so happy for you and your inner growth. ❤
thank you so so much xx
Thank you so much for this message… you are helping and inspiring so many of us! 🙏🏼🙌🏼❤️💯
i'm so happy to hear you think so xx
ENLIGHTENING…thank you for sharing your journey…exactly how I have been feeling…you have articulated perfectly… i’m going to read your book recommendation🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Life changes priorities change people change!it s ok!whatever makes u feel better!seems you ve done a great job on your inner self keep going!decluttering feels really good!i have 5 pair of shoes for the past five years😊
I totally agree! Thank you for great content!
Niki, that’s so inspiring! Once I will finish my house refurb, I’m going to follow your steps to clean my wardrobe. You are amazing inside and out, thank you for sharing this new approach with us!
thank you for the kind words and for watching this video xx
wow..., so proud of you! i usually don't follow fashion influencers bc of the way the promoted consumerism. but you're so inspiring. i agree with everything you said, i hope you find true happiness with being your most authentic self 💚 you have a new subscriber :')
thank you for your beautiful comment and i truly appreciate your support
You nailed it. It has become a overwhelming and trends are changing now ever faster than a blink of an eye. And the truth is we don't need all of it .
You are amazing 💪🏽💯 feeling the same way being a mom of 2 kids under the age of 3 I also reset my entire mindset and lifestyle. Guess a new kind of freedom 🙌🏽Thank you Niki for your honesty. Can’t wait to see more of your journey.
❤ so proud of you Nikki. ❤
I really am proud of you and I totally understand. You are young, much younger than I am, but we go through phases in life and how you feel about things that does not make you who you are is another phase. I don’t have kids, but age gives us wisdom and I feel exactly the same. Having said that, I am glad that I did what I did in the past, because, body changes, mind changes, priorities changes. Things that I did in the past and bought in the past does not make me happy anymore. Enjoy your motherhood and new phase of your life. Warm regards, Ferial from San Francisco.
thank you for sharing that with me and for your kind words xx
I'm so here for YOU!
This video resonated with me so much. I just discovered your channel and really appreciate your content.
You are so refreshing!! I am so glad you made this video ❤
Thank you so much
I respect this so much!❤
Bless you Nikki ❤❤
Inner beauty and inner love is the purpose of life. ❤ Bravo for realizing this truth and paving the way forward.
So refreshing, thank you for sharing ❤
I absolutely adore you! The way your transforming is so so beautiful ❤❤
thank you so much for the beautiful comment
Thank you so much 🙏🏻🌸it makes so much Sense! I’m so glad I’m not alone feeling like this
Cant say enough how much I loved and needed this ♥️
I wish I had things to throw out. Living in Latin America you get used to have only what you need (sometimes not even that).
Brilliant!Well done!I love this!