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  • čas přidán 18. 08. 2024
  • Hey beautiful people , I hope you are well
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Komentáře • 158

  • @MONDEJIYANELIFE
    @MONDEJIYANELIFE Před 3 lety +43

    I used to drink heavily and can relate to everything you saying, I'm grateful to Covid for helping cut down on alcohol and removing the toxic people in my life. I still drink but its soo minimal now and its usually indoors, super grateful for the change and I'm more productive.

    • @thutomaphala
      @thutomaphala  Před 3 lety +1

      Awww that’s great process. Im so happy for you. Keep it up 🤍🤍

  • @onenkosisimilemkize3191
    @onenkosisimilemkize3191 Před 3 lety +48

    Truly loved the honesty and accountability on the alcohol part. We appreciate the honesty

  • @adoseofnoxy9835
    @adoseofnoxy9835 Před 3 lety +19

    Thanks for the transparency and sharing on why you stopped drinking. Unfortunately we don't have enough of these conversations as the youth. And it's truly ANNOYING when people want to force others to drink and don't respect boundaries.

  • @leefortunate5764
    @leefortunate5764 Před 3 lety +17

    Drinking has cost our youth their future,literally!

  • @vuyolwethumdleleni6323
    @vuyolwethumdleleni6323 Před 3 lety +21

    Hey Thuto! Thanks for this Vid, I totally relate with the alcohol part. For me it all started when I would want to be "white girl wasted" and the worst part is that I'm an introvert so I would do things that are waaaaay out of character. I still cringe when I think about the things I would do under the influence and I was on anti-depressants, it was just a bad combination all around. Yikes the blackouts were the worst.😅

    • @thutomaphala
      @thutomaphala  Před 3 lety +5

      Hey love. Askies. I’m also an introvert. You don’t need to impress anyone. Be yourself and people will fall inlove with that

    • @vuyolwethumdleleni6323
      @vuyolwethumdleleni6323 Před 3 lety

      @@thutomaphala Absolutely true!🌻

  • @rochellemathebula9156
    @rochellemathebula9156 Před 3 lety +9

    The honesty and accountability while discussing the alcohol part 👌🏾I am impressed, thanks for being open!and yes they are a people out here who don't drink, am 26 and I have never tasted alcohol... all my friends drink, I don't mind... honestly people ask me why don't you drink and I tell them there is no major reason, it's just a decision I took in my early teens that I won't drink alcohol ever!

    • @thutomaphala
      @thutomaphala  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you , wooow I think I’m gonna start saying that as well 😂

  • @kea_mpete
    @kea_mpete Před 3 lety +6

    You took ownership of your life from alcohol 🥇🔥🔥I am so glad you did what most people are afraid to do all in the name of being "cool"❤

  • @londolozambokazi4144
    @londolozambokazi4144 Před 3 lety +6

    Thank you for being vulnerable and honest about your drinking habits. I know its hard to admit. You are not alone.

  • @leratotlali749
    @leratotlali749 Před 3 lety +9

    The growth Thuto 🙌🏼😭😩❤️. I see so much positive change in you and I love it so much. You’re a lot calmer and you seem more content being your true self.

  • @naledimofficial
    @naledimofficial Před 3 lety +7

    I totally relate to the situation about drinking 🥺💔

  • @AyannaIman
    @AyannaIman Před 3 lety +8

    you have such a calming voice to listen to omg. loved this video girlie 💕

  • @hlehlemamba5571
    @hlehlemamba5571 Před 3 lety +4

    The drinking thing you just described is me Jesu. I wanna stop 🤞🏽

  • @KeaMaaroganye
    @KeaMaaroganye Před 3 lety +5

    I’ve stopped last month , so I’m feeling better with the decision of leaving alcohol 🙏🏽 also , varsity is very hard 😭 just graduated last Friday & it’s also one of my biggest accomplishments, after surviving depression , my degree is definitely an achievement ! ♥️♥️

  • @dimphomaponyane
    @dimphomaponyane Před 3 lety +4

    I enjoyed this Thuto, I love how accountable you are to the things you used to do because of alcohol. I loved your honesty and vulnerability.

  • @tebohokhoza4253
    @tebohokhoza4253 Před 3 lety +3

    i was smiling throughout the whole video, you’re so beautiful 🥺🤌🏽

  • @Gorgeous.Siyoli
    @Gorgeous.Siyoli Před 3 lety +9

    That alcohol part 🙌🏽big ups Thuto. Wish more youngsters could listen to their body. I always say alcohol is a curse it’ll never bring u anything good, think of all the broken families ngenxa ye alcohol njee it’s a lot and sad.

  • @snethembagwambe7609
    @snethembagwambe7609 Před 3 lety +4

    Love this video🌸.Definitely related to the alcohol part,started my sober journey as well.Also the BBL part chile😂

  • @simplyadelaide6670
    @simplyadelaide6670 Před 3 lety +6

    It literally felt like I had a one on one with my sister 🥰❤️God bless you

  • @deeduch
    @deeduch Před 3 lety +3

    You come across as such a genuine soul, looking forward to more of your videos gorgeous 😍

  • @svb6594
    @svb6594 Před 3 lety +4

    Road to 10k!!! 🥳🎉🎉
    Kana it’s too early? 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @thutomaphala
      @thutomaphala  Před 3 lety +1

      Hahaha no it’s not babe. 10k road pls 🎉🎉

  • @rebonematonsi426
    @rebonematonsi426 Před 3 lety +2

    I love the growth ❤. And your teeth are perfect babe. I'm having braces now and removing them in 8 months, I'm so happy to see your teeth so perfect for someone who had braces😍. Thank you for letting us know about you🙏❤

    • @thutomaphala
      @thutomaphala  Před 3 lety +1

      Thanks love. You’re gonna love your new teeth 😀❤️

  • @sibahlengalo
    @sibahlengalo Před 3 lety +2

    I'm definitely going to try to stop drinking bc I relate to what you're saying. I want to stop. You've just motivated me. Thank you ❤️❤️

  • @lesegoyv
    @lesegoyv Před 2 lety +1

    Well done on the change you made on alcohol. 👌🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👌🏾👌🏾
    Being self aware is very important

  • @vanessajessicahlophe8037
    @vanessajessicahlophe8037 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for your honesty on the alcohol part ❤️

  • @kamogelontsewa58
    @kamogelontsewa58 Před 3 lety +1

    Thutoooo.. you’re sooo pretty, mama 🥺🥺❤️ and you sound like such a warm and kind hearted person.

  • @Charmvula
    @Charmvula Před 3 lety +4

    Omg you look sooo pretty without makeup 😍😍

  • @tswari
    @tswari Před 3 lety +2

    Loved and enjoyed this so much, very genuine, thanks for sharing with us❤️

  • @Ntlentle_
    @Ntlentle_ Před 3 lety +2

    It’s the fact that it’s 25min long for me😭😭💃🏿💃🏿

  • @nobantugeorge3470
    @nobantugeorge3470 Před 3 lety +3

    I loved your honesty in this Q and A 💕

  • @KeaMaaroganye
    @KeaMaaroganye Před 3 lety +2

    What a relatable video overall actually 🤯🥲

  • @nomsyshongwe5622
    @nomsyshongwe5622 Před 3 lety +1

    I do not know how this channel found me... But I just subscribed chile💖

  • @lesegoshili9521
    @lesegoshili9521 Před 3 lety +2

    I'm inlove with you gosh love when you giggle and love your honesty ❤️

  • @precioustiroesele6981
    @precioustiroesele6981 Před 3 lety +1

    🇧🇼Love that you have been to my lovely country...vlog when you come back here again ❤️❤️

  • @whynotKelly
    @whynotKelly Před 3 lety +1

    Yes Botswana 🇧🇼 counts and we here for u sis

  • @whynotKelly
    @whynotKelly Před 3 lety

    Starting over when you can’t find the footage or forgot to switch your ring light on 😭😭😭😭 ijoh ! That feeling always puts a girl down . Sorry babes

  • @zarilynzonroe
    @zarilynzonroe Před 3 lety +3

    Loved this video 💕 thank you for posting it. Needed it

  • @nthabisengtsotetsi824

    Hey thuto great work hun, you gave me a ride in greenstone recently. I can relate to what you’re saying I also used to cry when I’m drunk 🤐it’s not cool acting crazy
    I’ve learnt to tone it down too

    • @thutomaphala
      @thutomaphala  Před rokem +1

      Hey love. Omg hi hope you got home safely. Urgh honestly alcohol isn’t for everyone

  • @senamilekhumalo1651
    @senamilekhumalo1651 Před 3 lety +2

    Loved this video, it was very intimate and interesting to watch ❤️

  • @_siiyak
    @_siiyak Před 2 lety

    Didn't think it was possible but I definitely love you even more after this sis.🌻🌹🥰

  • @nomteeymakhathini9384
    @nomteeymakhathini9384 Před 3 lety +1

    Ok have seen you a few times on Kay’s channel,so today I came across your channel wow you are soo cool I loved it❤️❤️and I just subscribed🤗🤗

  • @kay.bovana_
    @kay.bovana_ Před 3 lety +2

    Truly enjoyed and loved this failed get to know me, it was raw and authentic! ❤️
    Where do you get The Ordinary skincare products?

  • @boimothibi4626
    @boimothibi4626 Před 3 lety +1

    Notification gang and that’s on a periooooood!

  • @KeaMaaroganye
    @KeaMaaroganye Před 3 lety

    Your love life response , is definitely my love life . BUT we’re not ugly , definitely not that ! 🤣

  • @nompumelelondlovu2859
    @nompumelelondlovu2859 Před 3 lety

    i love the part about alcohol lately i feel like everybody is drinking on my behalf and also i cant believe i tolerated the feeling of a hangover all these years. nah i cant. i drink when i feel like it not all the time

  • @thobekamnguni6865
    @thobekamnguni6865 Před 3 lety +5

    Your answers are so informative 👏👏🙌

  • @zamasibiya65
    @zamasibiya65 Před 3 lety +1

    This is beautiful, you just gained a subbie😊💖

  • @leratomoloto234
    @leratomoloto234 Před 3 lety

    Love this Video😍😍you so calm and beautiful...I love you so much Thuto❤❤

  • @sindypetronella
    @sindypetronella Před 3 lety

    Proud of you taking this route :)

  • @boitumelomdana
    @boitumelomdana Před 3 lety +2

    i love this so much ! ❤

  • @possessivedj3533
    @possessivedj3533 Před 3 lety

    New subscriber 👋🏾and I'm already a fan...😄Not big on commenting though but ghurl4rnd I'm behind you all the way...💯Love your honesty,I also had the same issues with alcohol been sober for 5 years now n I'm the most happiest episodes of my life.Cut out a lot of toxicity in my life including friends who didn't believe in my wishes but I'm totally happy with how small my circle is.tbh I'm my own circle...
    Love you already babe...I'm for you.💚

  • @keneilwemahuma5757
    @keneilwemahuma5757 Před 2 lety

    I recently found your channel on my pop up list and I enjoy it ❤️

  • @anexperiencewithzamoh8088

    If you filmed using your canon, download the canon connect app on your laptop (if you haven’t already) you should be able to find your footage. Enjoyed the video😉

    • @thutomaphala
      @thutomaphala  Před 3 lety

      I tried doing that but it looks like you can only download it on your phone

    • @anexperiencewithzamoh8088
      @anexperiencewithzamoh8088 Před 3 lety

      Sorry Thuto, I meant EOS Utility (that’s for the laptop) the canon connect is for your phone.

    • @thutomaphala
      @thutomaphala  Před 3 lety

      @@anexperiencewithzamoh8088 okay thanks babe will get it

  • @zoesmiles
    @zoesmiles Před 3 lety

    Loved this video... getting to know more of you is just lovely.

  • @anesit
    @anesit Před 3 lety

    So inspired continue making more videos on CZcams.. you are amazing

  • @Zangeh569
    @Zangeh569 Před 3 lety

    I just checked your instagram. Wow! You are a divine woman, ausi. Why as basadi do ya'll always want to change your bodies even when you're top-shelf fine?

  • @Nana_Moloinyane
    @Nana_Moloinyane Před 3 lety

    Loved this.... You are so calm babe❤️

  • @kingvlogs4064
    @kingvlogs4064 Před 3 lety

    I reminded you saying “South Africa” so many times and couldn’t hear anything wrong with how you say it 🤣😭😭

  • @lebogangkay2669
    @lebogangkay2669 Před 3 lety

    Thanks for a another video, I’ve been enjoying your channel since your first vid💚

  • @lesalanaledi
    @lesalanaledi Před 3 lety

    Please could you share where you purchase your Korean skincare products and the brands

  • @z_vanessa5057
    @z_vanessa5057 Před 3 lety

    Truly enjoying your content ❤️

  • @kaygo439
    @kaygo439 Před 3 lety +1

    “I can control my alcohol “🤣🤣🤣it do be like that with me too!

  • @lerato00
    @lerato00 Před 3 lety

    That’s alcohol for you😹😹it makes you do unnecessary things Yoh!😩

  • @koketsokoetso
    @koketsokoetso Před 3 lety

    Love love this video...I really relate to it...definitely gonna get breast reduction ,cause they also seems to be getting bigger and I'm very small...when do they stop growing kante😂😭?

  • @koketsokoetso
    @koketsokoetso Před 3 lety

    I'm quarter to dropping out...school is really depressing...it fucks up your mentality...but I need this degree..so I'll just bekezel

  • @gloriachirwa6399
    @gloriachirwa6399 Před 3 lety

    can we see the interior of your car🚗 please💕 it's looks so beautiful from the outside I'm just wondering how it looks inside 💗

  • @milaniinalim3357
    @milaniinalim3357 Před 3 lety

    Skincare routine please babe 😍

  • @desireengwako5811
    @desireengwako5811 Před 3 lety

    I really enjoyed your video ☺️☺️. Can please make video on books that you are reading.

  • @sekao_fiona4190
    @sekao_fiona4190 Před 2 lety

    Hey is the wig in the beginning from Hair City that you reviewed last time?

  • @MONDEJIYANELIFE
    @MONDEJIYANELIFE Před 3 lety

    OMG we share a birthday!! Jan 21st (Do you also celebrate on the 21st of every month)

  • @nomagugupearl3910
    @nomagugupearl3910 Před 3 lety

    love your headboard!!! where did you get it? :)

    • @thutomaphala
      @thutomaphala  Před 3 lety +1

      I got it made babe. Myriad customs on ig

  • @abongileabbymnapu4247
    @abongileabbymnapu4247 Před 2 lety

    move to cape town please...

  • @lindomadlala2079
    @lindomadlala2079 Před 3 lety

    Girl I’m so happy you left that dark place.Alchol really isn’t for everyone.I stopped drinking just because of the hang overs.I’d be so sick yohhhhh😫😫😫it’s been years and i dont even miss it.

  • @Boits_n
    @Boits_n Před 3 lety

    YOU ARE SOOOO PRETTY

  • @kaygo439
    @kaygo439 Před 3 lety

    I’m here!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kea_mpete
    @kea_mpete Před 3 lety

    Northern Cape,Kuruman?

  • @olwethunomvete4353
    @olwethunomvete4353 Před 3 lety +3

    Wow your teeth are literally perfect you do not need veneers 😂🤞🏾🤞🏾

  • @kea_mpete
    @kea_mpete Před 3 lety

    Maybe you weren't supposed to post it😂Askies love❤

  • @summer.magano4037
    @summer.magano4037 Před 3 lety

    Loved this 👌🏾👌🏾🦋🦋

  • @kea_mpete
    @kea_mpete Před 3 lety +1

    In South Africa,those bicycles would be left without chains and bicycle seats child😂😂😂

  • @NoaPenda
    @NoaPenda Před 2 lety

    I love your energy like damn girl👌❤

  • @wamemoks5838
    @wamemoks5838 Před 3 lety

    Ma'am pls come back to Botswana😭😍

  • @andywendyzondy5695
    @andywendyzondy5695 Před 3 lety

    Early gang💃💃💃

  • @realzamzor
    @realzamzor Před 3 lety

    Hi thuto where you got yo lashes from

  • @busisiwezengele8956
    @busisiwezengele8956 Před 3 lety

    Love the video. Thank you

  • @lindzlindz
    @lindzlindz Před 3 lety

    UK sounds grand😫

  • @theeolgadiva1539
    @theeolgadiva1539 Před 2 lety

    Love you

  • @refilwemamabolo4147
    @refilwemamabolo4147 Před 3 lety

    Finally ❤❤❤❤💋💋💋

  • @missntosh8436
    @missntosh8436 Před 3 lety

    There is crime in the UK might not be as bad as SA but there is crime.

  • @lindi_xo
    @lindi_xo Před 3 lety

    prouda you

  • @refilwemamabolo4147
    @refilwemamabolo4147 Před 3 lety

    Pleases Make up and hair installation video please....❤🤗

  • @lulonke_m9008
    @lulonke_m9008 Před 3 lety

    You’re beautiful 😍

  • @LeratoLeLesedi
    @LeratoLeLesedi Před 3 lety

    I came back to this because alcohol is not cute!

  • @thobekamnguni6865
    @thobekamnguni6865 Před 3 lety

    Skin🔥🔥🔥😍

  • @pamelalukhele
    @pamelalukhele Před 3 lety

    𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒇𝒂𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒔𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒍 🥺 𝒊'𝒅 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒇𝒖𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒎𝒚 𝒔𝒕𝒖𝒅𝒊𝒆𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒇𝒂𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒂𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒂𝒅 ?