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  • I Left Her: Her Reaction to a video that was over 11 years in the making.
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  • @tribetyler
    @tribetyler  Před 4 lety +14019

    If you would like to support Haylee, you can grab a sticker from her new website here.
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    Watch the original video here:
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    • @jnlione1
      @jnlione1 Před 4 lety +34

      Awesome, awesome video guys!!!! Totally amazing!!!!

    • @jnlione1
      @jnlione1 Před 4 lety +32

      Definitely , hands down THE BEST VIDEO to ever come from your channel!!!

    • @mcfishyfirst253
      @mcfishyfirst253 Před 4 lety +15

      Tyler Shelton omg it’s like the movie #canthardlywait

    • @clearcontentment3695
      @clearcontentment3695 Před 4 lety +10

      Can’t wait for the sequel

    • @amandakay789
      @amandakay789 Před 4 lety +55

      I just stumbled on this video and wow.. Absolutely Beautiful....
      She has one of the most amazing smiles I've ever seen, what power she holds in that alone... If she only knew..

  • @arinapopa3754
    @arinapopa3754 Před 4 lety +25605

    Imagine having somebody who loves you like this man loves this woman

    • @sharonruff3837
      @sharonruff3837 Před 4 lety +80

      Yeah. Wow.

    • @annaunverhaun4943
      @annaunverhaun4943 Před 4 lety +74

      very unlikely for me XD

    • @lordmongo511
      @lordmongo511 Před 4 lety +22

      I hope this isnt a diss to your man

    • @katclayton3163
      @katclayton3163 Před 4 lety +59

      Arina Popa I’ve got that and I’m so extremely grateful. My fiancé has never left my side. Fast forward we’ve been together for two years, and we’re having our first baby. He was there through the thick and thin, literally, and still loved me every step of the way. I wanna be like him.

    • @takemetomarz
      @takemetomarz Před 4 lety +1

      Arina Popa ikrr

  • @mexbiuri
    @mexbiuri Před 4 lety +11140

    It kills me how emotional HE gets, you can clearly see how much he loves her.

    • @wishtheyunderstoodme
      @wishtheyunderstoodme Před 4 lety +81

      If you dont love someone like this, you've never really been inlove. Its simple

    • @olive8693
      @olive8693 Před 4 lety +104

      @I like Potatoes doesn't feel like a lot of work if you're making it for your favorite person

    • @jasminelove101
      @jasminelove101 Před 4 lety +42

      I like Potatoes when u love someone, your effort for them becomes timeless. You don’t focus on the time,u focus on how they will feel. A love like tht is just so special

    • @tracey72610
      @tracey72610 Před 4 lety +19

      sensitive guys are very sweet and caring, i suppose

    • @joncast1
      @joncast1 Před 4 lety

      czcams.com/video/DbPm5EG8-QI/video.html

  • @britniburdon7601
    @britniburdon7601 Před 4 lety +30534

    The way he kept looking at her during the “film” he made to make sure she was okay it the purest thing I’ve ever seen. You can tell how much he really loves her.

    • @sebastianskii7512
      @sebastianskii7512 Před 4 lety +124

      This Xmas I wish I could experience the 'love' thing. I never felt loved or loved someone in my entire life.

    • @mittelinak.9595
      @mittelinak.9595 Před 4 lety +103

      Mr. Devor does that matter 🙃🙂

    • @kabeisha7664
      @kabeisha7664 Před 4 lety +65

      Mr. Devor why? because they misspelled ONE word? you sir, are ugly for that.

    • @kabeisha7664
      @kabeisha7664 Před 4 lety +5

      Mr. Devor okay rewrite it then

    • @kabeisha7664
      @kabeisha7664 Před 4 lety +24

      Mr. Devor lmfao idk if you noticed sir but i haven’t been capitalizing anything because it’s the internet and i’m not worried about it like you are :)

  • @carolinerangen478
    @carolinerangen478 Před rokem +3696

    For her husband to understand her fight and keep cheering her on IS WONDERFUL and he too is a fighter.

    • @kevingerlach7517
      @kevingerlach7517 Před rokem +31

      Love is like that, does not want to let go. Seeing beyond a moment of frustration, hurt and helplessness. Love is more than a Moment, it is a lifetime.

    • @yvonnerolley9676
      @yvonnerolley9676 Před 8 měsíci +4

      And dependency

    • @suzymoroka297
      @suzymoroka297 Před 8 měsíci

      @@yvonnerolley9676very dangerous codependency

  • @torrirenee826
    @torrirenee826 Před 4 lety +29421

    the fact that he keeps looking at her to make sure she’s okay literally melts my heart.

    • @laughlater4562
      @laughlater4562 Před 4 lety +98

      Seriously. 😫😳

    • @xasprinn8044
      @xasprinn8044 Před 4 lety +12

      Yee

    • @zm8077
      @zm8077 Před 4 lety +85

      He’s perfect for that. Unconditional love

    • @user-gi6sn6cv9z
      @user-gi6sn6cv9z Před 4 lety +30

      Literally? Are you okay? Cuz, that's not a good sign :/

    • @StarsNight123
      @StarsNight123 Před 4 lety +3

      chill_tf_out yeah alright “relationship expert”. Just stick to yourself

  • @tiffaraffi7749
    @tiffaraffi7749 Před 4 lety +8228

    He teared up when it said "Haylee almost died." And how he is looking at her. True love.

    • @imhighduded8386
      @imhighduded8386 Před 4 lety +26

      TIFFA RAFFI and she didnt even react

    • @sabserab
      @sabserab Před 4 lety +33

      She regrets not being thin anymore lol that vid got her so pissed. She doesnt deserve this man

    • @allergictohumansnotanimals5671
      @allergictohumansnotanimals5671 Před 4 lety +153

      sabserab dude you don't know that stop judging how people react to emotional things not everyone sobs their sadness away

    • @NoMoreQQ
      @NoMoreQQ Před 4 lety +38

      @@allergictohumansnotanimals5671 how she talks about still fighting it every day and catching her limiting herself still, means even though she says she technically is recovered I do believe she does still want to be skinny but she also wants to be healthy and happy. It goes both ways, I also do believe she was very sad from the video, not mad in any way like the other person said.

    • @mel-mz5se
      @mel-mz5se Před 4 lety +39

      sabserab what the actual fuck

  • @alicemnightingale
    @alicemnightingale Před 4 lety +31827

    Imagine having someone who notices how broken you are inside

    • @Revilo-zo1bf
      @Revilo-zo1bf Před 4 lety +340

      If only

    • @Shay-ul2bg
      @Shay-ul2bg Před 4 lety +166

      I think a lot of people can relate

    • @Steph-wt1gp
      @Steph-wt1gp Před 4 lety +122

      Alice Nightingale my "boyfriend " helped me through wat I was secretly suffering he helped me get my self esteem up

    • @aisha-hh9rp
      @aisha-hh9rp Před 4 lety +35

      Alice Nightingale never had that

    • @cocokaka8183
      @cocokaka8183 Před 4 lety +86

      Never in my entire life someone notice

  • @ilysebell7074
    @ilysebell7074 Před 2 lety +2258

    This guy's parents did an amazing job raising him. It shows.

    • @shoejoe3518
      @shoejoe3518 Před rokem +8

      ya they raised a real narcissist and mediocre film maker!

    • @michaelstimpfl9814
      @michaelstimpfl9814 Před 11 měsíci +72

      @@shoejoe3518 no need to be jealous of someone else. why are you hating on others? you could spend your time doing something to become more successful, so you don't have to be jealous.

    • @inTruthbyGrace
      @inTruthbyGrace Před 9 měsíci +10

      adults need to take responsibility for their own behavior.
      you know NOTHING about his parents .... all you know about here is HIS BEHAVIOR so... credit grown-ups for being grown-ups quit blaming mommy and daddy for all your problem,

    • @isabellaperezcadiz3646
      @isabellaperezcadiz3646 Před 4 měsíci +15

      ​@@inTruthbyGracebro, are u ok?

    • @durimuramon1620
      @durimuramon1620 Před 4 měsíci +11

      @@isabellaperezcadiz3646 His succes is his succes. You can have best parents and still be idiot or opaque.

  • @gabm1707
    @gabm1707 Před 4 lety +27261

    him: “I met my wife when i was 12 years old”
    me: *starts crying*

  • @brandon1437
    @brandon1437 Před 3 lety +2104

    Be honest. We all clicked on it thinking he’d be recording her reaction of them breaking up. And we all left with near tears in our eyes

  • @bula138
    @bula138 Před 4 lety +7234

    “I met my wife when I was 12 years old”
    Instant tears

    • @jesslane4363
      @jesslane4363 Před 4 lety +73

      I met my husband when I was 6

    • @qlvinc
      @qlvinc Před 4 lety +18

      Jess Lane what... 🥺🥺😱😱

    • @kaiserbeelzebub4th
      @kaiserbeelzebub4th Před 4 lety +97

      I met my wife when i was still a sperm....
      Wait a minute... Then that means...

    • @jotomato
      @jotomato Před 4 lety +32

      FBI OPEN UP

    • @DrPebis
      @DrPebis Před 4 lety +7

      Y'all get married young

  • @ljslw
    @ljslw Před rokem +3598

    There is a saying “behind every successful man stands a strong woman”. This video is proof that behind every successful woman stands a man who loves her, and together their love can conquer all.

    • @ti20g
      @ti20g Před rokem +20

      Such a beautiful comment ❤

    • @stinkfinger1942
      @stinkfinger1942 Před rokem +4

      It's true, that's how Women have always been the ones in power.

    • @mikey92362
      @mikey92362 Před rokem +29

      That makes no sense. A huge percentage of successful men are single. Especially if they're smart.

    • @kindofschinzelphrenic
      @kindofschinzelphrenic Před rokem +52

      @@mikey92362 blah blah blah and meh meh meh

    • @idksmthng
      @idksmthng Před rokem

      @@mikey92362 Source: Trust me bro

  • @roxannes662
    @roxannes662 Před 4 lety +5167

    Who else was holding onto their breath waiting for her to tear so it wasn't just me and the boyfriend crying in the background ...

  • @rellcapone2763
    @rellcapone2763 Před 4 lety +2875

    Who else clicks and goes straight to the comments while watching

  • @GRiDSWiFTZ
    @GRiDSWiFTZ Před 3 lety +5768

    Him looking over at her almost every second. That’s what gets me.

    • @09Nipz
      @09Nipz Před 3 lety +78

      He doesn't know how she will react. He's also maybe nervous about the finished work. Then she's really stoic, though, rigid and tense. It's interesting. Many read it as lack of emotion -- as if the outward reaction is all there is to emotion -- but some emotions cause us to be like this. Her lack of reaction to me says it was hard to watch and she doesn't want to share those emotions with outsiders.

    • @cassandrahughes2897
      @cassandrahughes2897 Před 3 lety +8

      @@09Nipz that might be plausible if she knew the camera was there. He recorded her reactions without her even knowing so this is just her genuine reaction..

    • @ang3licfire843
      @ang3licfire843 Před 3 lety +1

      😭❤️❤️💞💞

    • @808stateofmind2
      @808stateofmind2 Před 3 lety +2

      Yeah, the mix of emotions and thoughts... the unseen effort it can take to control them or even know which emotion are okay to let in and which thoughts may lead down a toxic path.. it can be all overwhelming! I wish I could be with the girl I love right now.,,,, wish we could be married, wish I didn’t isolate myself to such an extreme once she left, wish I wasn’t so loyal that as soon as she said she hated me, I hated me too,,,

    • @nellieshoals
      @nellieshoals Před 3 lety +6

      He wants to see her reaction. To validate that he can emotionally affect her... idk that that's a good thing.

  • @ericmann2303
    @ericmann2303 Před rokem +1439

    She is a miracle!!!! My wife almost died of anorexia. They had no idea what or how to treat her in the eighties. She no longer struggles with her disorder, but she came close to death several times. Your wife is miracle of God. He blessed you both with each other.

    • @livmarlin4259
      @livmarlin4259 Před 9 měsíci +1

      She"s a MONSTER!

    • @b.j.loveislove9090
      @b.j.loveislove9090 Před 8 měsíci +19

      It makes my heart feel good that your wife battled and eventually won being still with you. My niece did not... the disease won 🙏

    • @user-zb2yt3fw5k
      @user-zb2yt3fw5k Před měsícem

      I'm glad she's doing better now

    • @user-zb2yt3fw5k
      @user-zb2yt3fw5k Před měsícem

      @@b.j.loveislove9090I'm really sorry for your loss.. Rest in Peace🪦

  • @redvorchannel
    @redvorchannel Před 4 lety +2055

    This hit so hard. My husband stuck with me through my 15 year battle with drug addiction mixed with anorexia. The hell I put that man through but he refused to give up on me. Today I have 2 years clean/sober and healthy and we have been married 20 years. This was a beautiful video & it reminded me how blessed I am to have my husband and my life.

    • @jigglehugs
      @jigglehugs Před 4 lety +40

      Sounds like a great man and congrats on your sobriety. I hope you’re both living your best lives.

    • @axxli29
      @axxli29 Před 4 lety +6

      redvor channel 1076 congratulations on being drug free and healthy for 2 years! That takes a lot of strength ❤️

    • @redvorchannel
      @redvorchannel Před 4 lety +2

      @@axxli29 Thank you so much ❤

    • @singamummy8420
      @singamummy8420 Před 4 lety +3

      redvor channel 1076 I wish I had your strength. I’ve been with my partner for going on 7 years now, we began dating at 19 and my ED began when we began dating. He’s been there for me since day one, I don’t know why he’s stayed with me this long, like you, ive put him through hell when I was at my worse, we’re both very lucky ❣️

    • @e2renee
      @e2renee Před 4 lety +3

      Love sees what we often fail to see in ourselves

  • @sumayyaamos8069
    @sumayyaamos8069 Před 3 lety +7878

    Imagine being loved by someone this much.

    • @CasinoGin1
      @CasinoGin1 Před 3 lety +146

      Imagine that someone is out there looking for someone to love this much. You just need to find each other.
      Be a good person, be amazing, be happy, be kind to others, be comfortable in your own skin, be out there doing things with other people. You will find each other. ;-)

    • @lilykelley2290
      @lilykelley2290 Před 3 lety +35

      @Jim Blogs not true at all. i’ve been with my partner for almost 3 years. in the happiest i’ve ever been. you just have to find your person

    • @bc7319
      @bc7319 Před 3 lety +45

      We have been married for 32 years. It can happen. But, truth of the deal: Imagining and expecting to be loved that much cannot be an entitlement, everyone has to strive to become that person that can be loved first as much as possible. Too many people jump in and out of relationships without working to make themselves the best possible version of a good person first or learning how to give expecting nothing in return.

    • @Ass_of_Amalek
      @Ass_of_Amalek Před 3 lety +13

      B C yeah, I've seen a lot of people spreading this idea of "they need to love you as you are, if they want you to change they don't love you" and it's always sounded like a really counterproductive excuse to avoid self-improvement. everybody who is good at anything got there by striving to be better, and they still are.

    • @Anon1370
      @Anon1370 Před 3 lety +11

      i cant never imagine that in all my years ive never once felt it so i dont know anyway my cat loves me lmao

  • @ivynjoki
    @ivynjoki Před 4 lety +9056

    He keeps looking at her the same way you look at your friend when you make them watch something and eagerly wait for a reaction.

    • @jillianesguerra7
      @jillianesguerra7 Před 4 lety +73

      Ivy Njoki and he aint getting any 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @ivynjoki
      @ivynjoki Před 4 lety +48

      Jillian Modelo him on the inside->😠

    • @Dafairkidd12
      @Dafairkidd12 Před 4 lety +15

      It’s almost like that’s what the point of the video is

    • @ivynjoki
      @ivynjoki Před 4 lety +1

      Darien fair it’s right in the captions.

    • @bardarians
      @bardarians Před 4 lety +10

      She had no reaction my dude

  • @KeyboardPlaysGames
    @KeyboardPlaysGames Před rokem +807

    "what we were struggling with, was so much" - It wasn't her Anorexia, it was theirs. Powerful perspective to tackle issues as a couple.

    • @a.deadgirl
      @a.deadgirl Před rokem +11

      My man helped me too. There are still good people out there. His problems are mine, mine are his. He taught me that

    • @shaym4306
      @shaym4306 Před 9 měsíci +8

      Endless good people out there 🤍

  • @thayevangelista
    @thayevangelista Před 4 lety +5942

    tyler: "we have been married for over 2 years"
    haylee: 3 years
    ~delay~
    tyler: :)

    • @coraljones537
      @coraljones537 Před 4 lety +79

      me: reads comment
      ~delay~
      me: :)

    • @uriapark8848
      @uriapark8848 Před 4 lety +67

      11:36
      Tyler : :) ...☕️... :))))))

    • @allyaltanhan7604
      @allyaltanhan7604 Před 4 lety +3

      @@thayevangelista 2.9k

    • @ladyjay5551
      @ladyjay5551 Před 4 lety +13

      haha my thought process is, it was 2 years when he was filming, but with editing etc, it was probably close to 3 years by the time she actually saw the video.

    • @nextime6071
      @nextime6071 Před 4 lety +3

      He said “ over 2 years “ so its technically more than 2 years

  • @xbrix94
    @xbrix94 Před 4 lety +3787

    that is one lucky girl. that’s a man who loves his woman.

    • @spoiledmilky.
      @spoiledmilky. Před 4 lety +5

      bri herigan yes so lucky

    • @mimachka
      @mimachka Před 4 lety

      Yes! I was thinking the same. She is so lucky

    • @leannmarie3687
      @leannmarie3687 Před 4 lety +3

      You can FEEL the love in his face

    • @thr4iam151
      @thr4iam151 Před 4 lety +1

      Exactly!!!💞 Love is a key to epifanies! Are there any more like him out there????? 🙄

  • @lulubreadddo
    @lulubreadddo Před 4 lety +1745

    I think "she's a fighter, and now she's a leader" hit differently, I'm crying

  • @angelamueller9694
    @angelamueller9694 Před rokem +427

    This young man loves this young woman ... totally, completely. So happy she's recovered, yet still aware.

  • @MrKillroy26
    @MrKillroy26 Před 4 lety +9489

    I dont know how this ended up in my recommendations but I’m glad it did.
    Edit: I’m glad so many people feel the same way.

  • @asdw3341
    @asdw3341 Před 4 lety +11444

    He is one in a million or a billion even. She is one lucky woman let me tell u.

    • @p3t3r826
      @p3t3r826 Před 4 lety +12

      True!

    • @SR-xk5ih
      @SR-xk5ih Před 4 lety +39

      NA. AF. I know I wish I could find a truly good man like this

    • @ubayyd
      @ubayyd Před 4 lety +21

      Hope everyone was like this with their relationships 💔

    • @yume5441
      @yume5441 Před 4 lety +27

      its not that rare, you just have to find the right person for you 💕

    • @haileyandgabistyles
      @haileyandgabistyles Před 4 lety +17

      So is she. There honestly aren't a lot of people as open minded as she seems

  • @esperanzaserrano8608
    @esperanzaserrano8608 Před 4 lety +6081

    “Literally no one will know”
    Now everyone knows

  • @infjjedi3335
    @infjjedi3335 Před rokem +226

    I’m a 50 year old woman sitting with her first cup of morning tea crying like
    a child. THIS is SO BEAUTIFUL and my tears are prayers for both of you ❤

  • @cadenhoogeveen8175
    @cadenhoogeveen8175 Před 4 lety +4248

    Her reaction isn’t bad. It shows how much she’s paying attention and listening to every word.

  • @ChizurUBabY
    @ChizurUBabY Před 4 lety +2208

    "she's a fighter.... And now she's a leader." i burst into tears.

  • @TronciM
    @TronciM Před 4 lety +2888

    This shows how emotional males really are; we just keep it all inside. There's nothing wrong with opening up about your emotions people, it makes you stronger :)

    • @Baky_T
      @Baky_T Před 4 lety +55

      Women who really grew up know this already 😊
      That's what I always say:
      As long as a man is himself, there's no need to pretend emotional expressions 😊

    • @Lucy-wd4bm
      @Lucy-wd4bm Před 4 lety +58

      I wish men didn’t feel the pressure to keep it inside

    • @ZekeNacion
      @ZekeNacion Před 4 lety +26

      Which is wrong and needs to change.

    • @tomhendri1933
      @tomhendri1933 Před 4 lety +1

      @@Baky_T thank you

    • @matthewstreacker7402
      @matthewstreacker7402 Před 4 lety +5

      I don’t keep it inside

  • @markf9871
    @markf9871 Před 4 měsíci +53

    I'm 63 man & had quiet tear all the way through this.
    (don't hold in tears...)
    So So so good.
    She's amazing & Man, So are you.
    Good Man.

  • @fynnroberts3392
    @fynnroberts3392 Před 4 lety +6328

    Just as it hit the emotional part, where he said “I love her” it switched to an ad and instantly shouted “let’s play shadow legends” and I burst out laughgn

    • @wuthemaurine735
      @wuthemaurine735 Před 4 lety +13

      reid shallow leggings

    • @Elisa-wn3im
      @Elisa-wn3im Před 4 lety +3

      SAME HAHAHA

    • @shilox
      @shilox Před 4 lety +4

      Welp, I had a stick figure dancing for a game

    • @criplydickly1309
      @criplydickly1309 Před 4 lety +9

      mine was “i love her” then it switched and said “9/11”

    • @kailao6507
      @kailao6507 Před 4 lety +1

      I got a why don't we ad 💕 ten what am I song 🌹

  • @joinmeforasmile4464
    @joinmeforasmile4464 Před 4 lety +9448

    She’s so tense.. I can see how intensely she focuses on absorbing everything in this video and how she’s restraining her emotions.

    • @slitzch0_0
      @slitzch0_0 Před 4 lety +444

      @@alejandronunez7650 bruh you obviously arent able to notice the body language, instead of insulting her be more observant of not just her face, watch the full thing attentively. She's not heartless or fake, nothing is wrong with her. If anything you are in the wrong for speaking like that about her for no reason. The video is literally about her, she was trying to maintain her emotions so she wouldnt start crying. Stop being an asshole.

    • @practicalgrowthacademy3189
      @practicalgrowthacademy3189 Před 4 lety +63

      @@slitzch0_0 well said❤️

    • @joaquimmiguel8910
      @joaquimmiguel8910 Před 4 lety +38

      @@slitzch0_0 I respect you so much you said it right with all the words RESPECT

    • @enquvist
      @enquvist Před 4 lety +100

      Alejandro Nunez How can she be both heartless and fake ? You’re saying her heartlessbess is fake ? Someone who suffered anorexia and nearly died is shown a video detailing it and you decide she has to act a certain way. You’re calling her heartless because she didn’t cry watching a video about how she nearly died? You’re an absolute deadshit. You’re the asshole not her.

    • @lovedandlanguished
      @lovedandlanguished Před 4 lety +19

      @@slitzch0_0 maybe calling him an a-hole is a bit harsh, not everyone is wired the same: studies find that more empathetic people are more accurate at reading emotions, so maybe it's a skill that not everyone can just "get" or "see" or innately be good at. As for the "a-hole" in question I hope he just takes what's written here as a way to maybe not leap to conclusions in the future, cause maybe there's more to the picture than he thinks he sees. Obviously. We all can't be so ignorant.

  • @a.l657
    @a.l657 Před 4 lety +2650

    Anyone else thought he was going to break up with her on camera from the title?

    • @ukaramuslasher464
      @ukaramuslasher464 Před 4 lety +30

      A. L yeah bruh you’re not alone I thought the same thing I thought she was scared because he was going to break up on camera😭

    • @Bobbiii0.2
      @Bobbiii0.2 Před 4 lety +36

      Proper clickbait title

    • @latjjtal
      @latjjtal Před 4 lety +29

      I don't think it's meant as clickbait. Overall I got the feeling that the guy has a serious ego. First, he decided it's his job to tell her story and he tells it from his perspective. He talks about how it affected his life and his relationships. He kind of implies that he saved her from her own social isolation. This definitely distracted me. Overall it's a good video and it brings attention to serious issues. But, it would have been better if he was less of a focus. It's kinda creepy how he keeps looking at her for reaction. I started to count how many times he drank coffee and tried to measure how much coffee he'd get each time. Is he fake drinking by the end while looking at her for reaction? That's insane! ;)

    • @princessstarwatcher4652
      @princessstarwatcher4652 Před 4 lety +2

      A. L same

    • @sodisgusteen
      @sodisgusteen Před 4 lety +5

      A. L ya that’s called clickbait 😂

  • @CognitiveDissident.
    @CognitiveDissident. Před rokem +369

    It's incredibly hard to completely love someone who doesn't love themselves. He's a wise and balanced man, ans she is a stunning beauty and a warrior, and they are extremely lucky to have this relationship.

  • @LilJeepgirl81
    @LilJeepgirl81 Před 3 lety +6238

    The fact he could see her beauty in the worst time and helped. What a good man.

    • @febca6920
      @febca6920 Před 3 lety +18

      totally agree 🦋 We all need someone who sees beyond the debris and help us get back up to save ourselves. 🦋💗

    • @Justa25000
      @Justa25000 Před 3 lety +8

      Do you have a brother or twin? I Want someone like you in my life

    • @user-ib7wy4oq9e
      @user-ib7wy4oq9e Před 3 lety +1

      @@Justa25000 LMAOOO

    • @alexandramouhou5919
      @alexandramouhou5919 Před 3 lety +6

      So rare these kinda men nowadays

    • @praveshmaharaj4387
      @praveshmaharaj4387 Před 3 lety +1

      you can find that too but since women only go for looks and only want model tier men you wont get true love since you base your relationship decisions of something shallow.

  • @b068593
    @b068593 Před 4 lety +13092

    she’s so lucky to have a man like this, i want to be this lucky too

    • @buttersbunt
      @buttersbunt Před 4 lety +148

      he's lucky to have her too Q_Q

    • @drinkwateryoudumbydumb9380
      @drinkwateryoudumbydumb9380 Před 4 lety +14

      Bro! It’s true I sadly have to break up with my girlfriend because she is the completely different then these nice people!

    • @CMchyy
      @CMchyy Před 4 lety +2

      blessed🙌🙌🙏❤

    • @shqipe4801
      @shqipe4801 Před 4 lety

      thats what i be sayin bruh

    • @MabelRD08
      @MabelRD08 Před 4 lety +1

      Me too!

  • @gingin4663
    @gingin4663 Před 4 lety +14258

    I get so scared of marrying the wrong person because it is possible, I’ve seen it happen. I just don’t want that to happen to me. I really hope I marry the right person in the future

    • @SuperTzippy
      @SuperTzippy Před 4 lety +103

      Amen!!!

    • @AndiPandiBee
      @AndiPandiBee Před 4 lety +531

      Thing is they won't be the wrong person in the beginning. That's something that comes after. When you're with someone and you want to marry them. They are the right person. But life changes people and can pull people apart. You're never guarenteed an great life at all times.

    • @ulosen
      @ulosen Před 4 lety +162

      Maybe if you are scared you are predetermined to hold onto a bad relashionship in the future. Breaking up or a divorce is not the end of the world. If you get remarried to a better fitting person it is a positive thing

    • @lv5310
      @lv5310 Před 4 lety +39

      And if you marry the wrong person it's not the worst thing that will happen. You could overcome that.... unless they kill you lol....

    • @C-SD
      @C-SD Před 4 lety +59

      Take your time! You don't have to get married because you've been dating for xxxx amount of time, or because you've gotten pregnant, or anything really. You don't ever "have to be" married. Its OK to take your time, and its OK to not ever want to get married. Do it for you, not anyone else, and you have to keep communicating; keep working together on your relationship. More info than you cared for, I'm sure. Nm me if it bothers you, that's not what I meant to do.

  • @joyjones8782
    @joyjones8782 Před 9 měsíci +157

    That was incredible! He found his person early. She is lucky to have someone that loves her so much!

  • @sirih4085
    @sirih4085 Před 4 lety +6555

    Oh poor thing. She was trying so hard to hold her emotions in.

    • @babymammoth6254
      @babymammoth6254 Před 4 lety +74

      Do you think holding emotions in might have been part of why she got anorexia in the first place?

    • @rikiforever420
      @rikiforever420 Před 4 lety +8

      @@babymammoth6254 Yes, I do.

    • @arismatold_me6753
      @arismatold_me6753 Před 4 lety +22

      I've always thought the term poor THING is pretty derogatory.

    • @sirih4085
      @sirih4085 Před 4 lety +64

      @@arismatold_me6753 oh no you poor thing

    • @drewdavis4207
      @drewdavis4207 Před 4 lety +1

      Lol

  • @nicoleb1475
    @nicoleb1475 Před 4 lety +15544

    People saying she’s not reacting obviously can’t read body language.

    • @laststanding5791
      @laststanding5791 Před 4 lety +22

      Nope

    • @aveaillium8754
      @aveaillium8754 Před 4 lety +26

      Who is saying that?!

    • @nicoleb1475
      @nicoleb1475 Před 4 lety +97

      People in other comments...

    • @aveaillium8754
      @aveaillium8754 Před 4 lety +19

      @@nicoleb1475 That's just weird.

    • @linnyroro3177
      @linnyroro3177 Před 4 lety +259

      Dumtum42 you never get over an eating disorder just like he described in the video. You deal with it everyday and everyday is a struggle not to slip back into it. I’ve been fighting mine off and on for almost 20 years. It got really really bad about 8 years ago and I almost died but that doesn’t mean that I still don’t struggle with it everyday. Its always in the back of your mind calling your name and telling you that you’re failing because you’re enjoying a meal or your pants look like crap on you. Its f-ing hard!!!

  • @TraceyJeanne
    @TraceyJeanne Před 4 lety +2438

    “I left her”could be what he named the video she’s reacting to
    And the video is talking about her anorexia, she left her
    & Often people refer to anorexia as Ana, that’s also where ‘her’ can come in

    • @luxxury9736
      @luxxury9736 Před 4 lety +14

      or maybe 5:05

    • @thesmellofpizza
      @thesmellofpizza Před 4 lety +1

      thank u

    • @uj12678
      @uj12678 Před 4 lety

      Tracey Jeanne ah

    • @LarryS378
      @LarryS378 Před 4 lety

      @@Abby-uk7rv dude is clearly making the video about himself. i don't know why or if there's some context i'm missing but... her story is her story mate - why does it have to focus on him so much (i ignored my problems and it was so bad for me; I left her; I see her as strong etc.)

  • @veritasprojects8064
    @veritasprojects8064 Před rokem +71

    He has a brilliant mind and a golden heart and she is worth every second of effort to have her healthy and happy!

  • @esther1765
    @esther1765 Před 4 lety +4282

    "...3 years..." and then that little smile in the back after realizing he got the number of years wrong...
    HAHAHA love this

    • @C-SD
      @C-SD Před 4 lety +34

      "Literally no øne will know" lol

    • @ErikGrimsmo
      @ErikGrimsmo Před 4 lety +6

      I assume he laughed because it took a year to produce the video and Haylee didn't know there was a camera recording her reaction. I bet he told her right after

    • @whitty1232
      @whitty1232 Před 4 lety

      @@ErikGrimsmo she knew she was on camera

  • @therealjesterguys
    @therealjesterguys Před 4 lety +3816

    As someone who currently has a girlfriend with anorexia, this means a lot to me. And I’m sure it does to her too
    Edit June 2023:
    Hey this 3 years ago wow! Just a little update for everyone, my partner is considered to be fully recovered from anorexia nervosa. She enjoys her food again, has developed a love for cooking home made meals and is a healthy weight and is eager to gain more around her thighs. I'm very proud of her :)

    • @mj4r
      @mj4r Před 4 lety +10

      Della Sheri can you explain what anorexia means, I’m not sure and don’t make fun of me for it

    • @bunnie168
      @bunnie168 Před 4 lety +27

      Teent u can still have anorexia even if ur overweight or at a healthy weight

    • @claraharris1793
      @claraharris1793 Před 4 lety +29

      @@mj4r anorexia isnt just being underweight. It can be intentional or not. Theres anorexia (non intentional) so people who think they're just going on a diet or people who are so stressed they cant eat, and theres anorexia nervosa( intentional) where, in most cases, people struggle with body dysmorphia(unreal depiction of your own body) and believe the only way out is to starve. It is a mental Illness that can be super dangerous and hard to over come( I know first hand).

    • @kurniadichandra
      @kurniadichandra Před 4 lety +3

      fighting !
      u can do it 🤗

    • @mj4r
      @mj4r Před 4 lety +4

      clara harris thank you for explaining ❤️

  • @veeramos8218
    @veeramos8218 Před 4 lety +30285

    Is it just me or when they were in grade 8 they looked like they were about to graduate high school???
    Edit: wow I'm shook

    • @inesl6811
      @inesl6811 Před 4 lety +115

      Vee Bamos IKR

    • @jhakardballoch2986
      @jhakardballoch2986 Před 4 lety +735

      I think quite a few of the photos of them he used in that segment were them of when they were older. He used the same photos later too so I don't think they were necessarily corresponding to the time he described

    • @-Oddish-
      @-Oddish- Před 4 lety +371

      I’m guessing they didn’t actually have photos from that time period and he just used some old photos.

    • @meggy1962
      @meggy1962 Před 4 lety

      Vee Bamos ikrr

    • @mfzeek8675
      @mfzeek8675 Před 4 lety +1

      No cap

  • @lindaashbrook6789
    @lindaashbrook6789 Před rokem +262

    Tyler you are a great storyteller and filmmaker. You are using your creative gifts for a great cause. Thank you both for highighting eating disorders, they rob people of life. What a great love story you share.

    • @shoejoe3518
      @shoejoe3518 Před rokem

      get off it, that shit was so lame.

  • @andredinhus6687
    @andredinhus6687 Před 4 lety +7667

    "Love isn't about finding the one. It's about being the one"
    -My Grandpa
    Edit: I just learned that the quote was originally by Creig Crippen, but I first heard it by my Grandpa

  • @hollyniederer8581
    @hollyniederer8581 Před 3 lety +5767

    To everyone saying she isn't crying. She is. Inside.

    • @ebok98
      @ebok98 Před 3 lety +179

      Sometimes it’s too deep to cry

    • @johnwill8980
      @johnwill8980 Před 3 lety +16

      How do you know??

    • @hollyniederer8581
      @hollyniederer8581 Před 3 lety +151

      @@johnwill8980 she seems to be a very strong person who is fighting showing her emotions. But she has them .

    • @tyrawoodruff9835
      @tyrawoodruff9835 Před 3 lety +66

      Women are so good at masking their emotions you generally won't know

    • @krisnnademillemariano3941
      @krisnnademillemariano3941 Před 3 lety +14

      At the end she did say she was holding back tears

  • @zapbck8492
    @zapbck8492 Před 9 měsíci +42

    Nice to see a wholesome loving couple overcoming obstacles together. Also props to her for overcoming her eating disorder.

  • @armenis7
    @armenis7 Před 3 lety +2098

    To all those saying she is not crying. That girl has ran out of tears.. Been through a lot..

    • @lizarapp243
      @lizarapp243 Před 3 lety +87

      It’s also incredibly hard to listen to how your actions have caused pain. Either for yourself or others. I try not to cry so I don’t burden them anymore with my own pain

    • @OnyxMoon81
      @OnyxMoon81 Před 3 lety +6

      @Heloise O'Byrne Maybe but if you can't see the sadness on her face at times you must be blind.. anyway, you either feel it or you don't ✌🏼

  • @Rustypoptartt
    @Rustypoptartt Před 4 lety +3218

    She’s really good with holding her tears back I couldn’t

    • @breathoffreshair7795
      @breathoffreshair7795 Před 4 lety +101

      Deja Arguello you can tell shes def trying. Deep frown and big eyes, unmoving, i do the same lol

    • @choppinmywaydowntown6144
      @choppinmywaydowntown6144 Před 3 lety +4

      @maryjane you're a sad person

    • @Smittenx3
      @Smittenx3 Před 3 lety +4

      @maryjane are you stupid?

    • @pierrearr
      @pierrearr Před 3 lety +4

      @maryjane Have fun being a bitter asshole for the rest of your life.

    • @nellieshoals
      @nellieshoals Před 3 lety +3

      @Parts Unknown Seriously. How do people not see this??

  • @thepotato1141
    @thepotato1141 Před 4 lety +1789

    This is how many times he looked at her to make sure she was ok
    ⬇️

  • @fr1g1db1tch
    @fr1g1db1tch Před rokem +74

    Its great to see something so positive on youtube. This is not just a story, but a reality for many people.

  • @modaux7627
    @modaux7627 Před 4 lety +3351

    "It was that exact moment, I knew I loved her”
    *“RAID SHADOW LEGENDS”*

  • @JoJoMaMa_
    @JoJoMaMa_ Před 4 lety +4001

    She’s got herself quite a man there... beautiful.

    • @summernights1555
      @summernights1555 Před 3 lety +10

      3.2k likes but no comment 🤔

    • @WillieGee1970
      @WillieGee1970 Před rokem +2

      True Genuine Man

    • @mrunique4871
      @mrunique4871 Před rokem

      It certainly is .

    • @JohnJr901
      @JohnJr901 Před rokem +1

      Everyone should find a connection like this. Working through things can be difficult and some let challenges push them apart. For those that find the courage and humility to fight through the tough stuff… they get to enjoy another level of love.

  • @dalilahtrevino6793
    @dalilahtrevino6793 Před 4 lety +5952

    lord give me patience to wait for a man like this one.

    • @statixlaw5675
      @statixlaw5675 Před 4 lety +138

      In the meantime, become worthy

    • @nicolasreyes2190
      @nicolasreyes2190 Před 4 lety +87

      You can help your partner improve. If you're waiting for the perfect partner while you yourself are not perfect it won't work. This couple grew together for years and years and years... They're together since 14. I guarantee you he wasn't so perfect from start... He grew and she had a big role on that... And viceversa.

    • @yeshalloween
      @yeshalloween Před 4 lety +40

      You have to BE and SEEK and GROW and IMPROVE. Then you’ll attract

    • @odetothemasses
      @odetothemasses Před 4 lety +24

      Aside from the people above, be yourself. Someday you will find someone, whether Male or otherwise, and you will fall in love. If you feel you have some things to fix, go ahead! But not to the point where you lose yourself inside. 💕

    • @davidsizemore718
      @davidsizemore718 Před 4 lety +26

      Give me the patience to be a man like this one.

  • @maylaasperachiorean6303
    @maylaasperachiorean6303 Před 9 měsíci +18

    She is so lucky to have him. The way he looked at her is, he truly cares and love her❤

  • @anggel999
    @anggel999 Před 4 lety +3567

    I didn’t actually think it was possible for people to marry their 7th grade crush but ig it’s true

    • @kellysutherin7548
      @kellysutherin7548 Před 4 lety +53

      Lonely Shoelace I’m engaged to my 7th grade crush ❤️

    • @comeonheydaddy2921
      @comeonheydaddy2921 Před 4 lety +12

      @@kellysutherin7548 how

    • @kellysutherin7548
      @kellysutherin7548 Před 4 lety +11

      Ashlie Ace sheer luck that late in life we meet again after high school

    • @stefuhni
      @stefuhni Před 4 lety +33

      I'm married to my 7th grade crush. We started dating at 16, and we are 29 now.

    • @SiSi-oi2or
      @SiSi-oi2or Před 4 lety +8

      my parents did !!!

  • @jaymoe9805
    @jaymoe9805 Před 4 lety +12569

    I wonder why this was in my recommended for so long.

  • @abriannarodriguez9030
    @abriannarodriguez9030 Před 4 lety +3160

    She’s so blessed to have a husband like him they are so cute

    • @Sasuga_Skky
      @Sasuga_Skky Před 4 lety +36

      They are blessed to have each other

    • @connorbell09
      @connorbell09 Před 4 lety +5

      Who tf is they

    • @flaminga_x7627
      @flaminga_x7627 Před 4 lety

      mz daily fan page I’m saying 🤣🤣🤣

    • @rq1716
      @rq1716 Před 4 lety

      Indeed a great man amongst men.

    • @tyffaneelavely8087
      @tyffaneelavely8087 Před rokem +1

      how we all should be to one another. Shouldn't be seen as a blessing. That's just sad. Everyone should be this loving, and thoughtful to the ones they love, and even more so to strangers who may be going thru something even worse.

  • @HiredHands89
    @HiredHands89 Před rokem +26

    Literally one of the most heart breaking, but beautiful things I've EVER seen.

  • @iffi5303
    @iffi5303 Před 3 lety +7941

    so no one's talking about how he looked 25 at 14

    • @nissan2829
      @nissan2829 Před 3 lety +61

      Or it could be that those pictures were taken when they became adults.

    • @sacredalien8011
      @sacredalien8011 Před 3 lety +68

      @@nissan2829 they were adults when they first met in school?

    • @kingjulian9069
      @kingjulian9069 Před 3 lety +32

      hair does that to us dudes honestly we’d rather look 5 years older than look like a little kid it’s why most boys try to get facial hair we hate getting treated like a little boy we’re men ladies ;)

    • @JustMe-mz3te
      @JustMe-mz3te Před 3 lety +13

      Who cares?

    • @glingo2glingo988
      @glingo2glingo988 Před 3 lety +3

      @@JustMe-mz3te 👌🌹

  • @niziangely5469
    @niziangely5469 Před 4 lety +7333

    I wish I had a boyfriend who cared that much about me

  • @edsanchez6173
    @edsanchez6173 Před 4 lety +3098

    Beautiful. Thanks for that.
    “Kindness is the language the deaf can hear and the blind can see.” - Mark Twain

    • @Herocaa
      @Herocaa Před 4 lety +2

      ❤️

    • @zahraf5367
      @zahraf5367 Před 4 lety +1

      That’s such a beautiful quote that’s actually very true too❤️

    • @kayceewhite
      @kayceewhite Před 4 lety

      Ed Sanchez
      What a great quote!

  • @K33LMACHINE
    @K33LMACHINE Před 22 dny +3

    As a husband married to his wife suffering from anorexia and bulimia, this made me immediately start crying. Thanks for making this.
    My wife is now healthy and pregnant, and we expect our first child to be born in just a few weeks.
    It's possible to beat an eating disorder with the right support system. Don't ever abandon someone you love. It will always work out. Keep fighting.

  • @icecreamisMine
    @icecreamisMine Před 4 lety +2390

    Why did CZcams recommended this to me? Why does CZcams want me to cry? Wtf CZcams

    • @namastemoon7442
      @namastemoon7442 Před 4 lety +10

      You made me laugh through my tears. Thank you!

    • @CatGarthley
      @CatGarthley Před 4 lety +1

      I’m currently watching this at 4 am and I’m feeling the same way

    • @coraxoxo
      @coraxoxo Před 4 lety

      it was recommended for me too

    • @ZombieMan1997
      @ZombieMan1997 Před 4 lety

      CZcams wants me to recover.... But it's hard when I'm alone.

  • @913.Gabbyy
    @913.Gabbyy Před 4 lety +1708

    THIS IS NOT A DIVORCE VIDEO JUST LETTING EVERYONE KNOW

    • @lucygillan19
      @lucygillan19 Před 4 lety +1

      That’s what I thought 😂

    • @shaunrocks12
      @shaunrocks12 Před 4 lety +5

      I honestly thought that's what it was gonna be, lol.
      Good thing it wasn't.
      I'm glad Haylee is doing better today.
      Keep it up, Haylee!

    • @angelmamma8635
      @angelmamma8635 Před 4 lety

      I thought the i left her was a brake up video

    • @krisspring3759
      @krisspring3759 Před 4 lety

      I was hoping she would be on the market now.

    • @lukasschulze7764
      @lukasschulze7764 Před 4 lety +5

      @@Tenacious_Tibbs uh oh

  • @alefnull
    @alefnull Před 4 lety +2982

    him: "we HAVE been married for 3 years.."
    her: "it's ok, nobody will know. literally nobody will know"
    him (& all of us): lol

    • @eir1an938
      @eir1an938 Před 4 lety +6

      alefnull i’m your thousandth like 🥺

    • @alefnull
      @alefnull Před 4 lety +3

      @@eir1an938 oh damn. i had no idea this comment was getting so many lol

    • @juantagle3738
      @juantagle3738 Před 4 lety

      I was your 2.2k. This escalated pretty quickly

    • @aav_n
      @aav_n Před 4 lety

      @@alefnull Niiiice 💞💞💞💞

    • @jk-xh9vm
      @jk-xh9vm Před 4 lety

      i was ur 3k

  • @IceKoldKilla
    @IceKoldKilla Před rokem +289

    She's so lucky to have him. Most people would've left and never returned.

  • @telliiii2289
    @telliiii2289 Před 4 lety +3679

    The way she admires your work is so sweet she looked so straight faced the whole time but she wasn’t being emotionless she was simply taking in your work for every thing that it was making little remarks that she noticed which was beautiful you two have a true connection and that’s amazing I bawled my eyes out watching this video and you’ve gained a new subscriber I absolutely loved this video

  • @jonmoneymaker329
    @jonmoneymaker329 Před 3 lety +2080

    I'm a therapist, almost 40 years in the profession. This is an amazing story, well told, and most importantly a message of hope. Also, the bond and commitment you have as a couple shows that together you're better equipped to handle whatever life has challenged you with. Thank you for this.

    • @mikdadis
      @mikdadis Před 3 lety +10

      Moneymaker=therapist 🤫

    • @jonmoneymaker329
      @jonmoneymaker329 Před 3 lety +25

      That's really my last name....

    • @user-hw3nq5vb3h
      @user-hw3nq5vb3h Před 3 lety

      @@jonmoneymaker329 PFTTT bad last name

    • @docthorr
      @docthorr Před 3 lety +4

      @@jonmoneymaker329 daym... hopefully you have the skillset to cope with the inevitable mockery people might throw at you.
      Cheers ! :-)

  • @feelitnowmrkrabs1840
    @feelitnowmrkrabs1840 Před 4 lety +4747

    him constantly glancing over to see her reaction is me when i show my friend a funny video

    • @gummywazhere7435
      @gummywazhere7435 Před 4 lety +11

      total me too lol

    • @weetardedcat2112
      @weetardedcat2112 Před 4 lety +76

      And them you realise the video isn't as funny and you thought it was...

    • @justinbelling9321
      @justinbelling9321 Před 4 lety +11

      @@weetardedcat2112 then you think alittle more and realise the twisted humour you posses 😰

    • @cheeselover4351
      @cheeselover4351 Před 4 lety

      @@weetardedcat2112 ikr

    • @pc6054
      @pc6054 Před 4 lety +12

      @@weetardedcat2112 and then u desperately try to cover it up by searching for another funny video but the moment is over and now he looks at your other friends phone and u just sit there like '' why am I not funny''

  • @m.canida96
    @m.canida96 Před rokem +22

    What a God send he is for her !! That is the true definition of UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!!! Prayer to Hayley to stay on her path of healing and prayers to her Husband for standing by her side !!💕🙏🏻

  • @daisydinah2852
    @daisydinah2852 Před 4 lety +3330

    "she almost died " ... he scratched his eyes trying not to cry

  • @ifheemay
    @ifheemay Před 4 lety +14131

    He looks like the guy for Cloudy With A Chance Of Meatballs

  • @dylanthepickle6428
    @dylanthepickle6428 Před 3 lety +7597

    Hey kids. THIS is what love is. Not that romantic crap you see in the movie.

    • @michellemichelle5202
      @michellemichelle5202 Před 3 lety +167

      Well, there’s nothing wrong with romance. But yes, there needs to be sacrifice and true attentiveness

    • @psylopanda2841
      @psylopanda2841 Před 3 lety +50

      This Is some crappy romantic thing that could be on a movie or something stupid like Gilmore Girls...
      No hating tho... The guy is a really creative dude and im happy that they have a good marriage...

    • @mandoky1647
      @mandoky1647 Před 3 lety +17

      Well him caring about her and her condition is romantic in a way.

    • @haa4990
      @haa4990 Před 3 lety +6

      @@mandoky1647 for everyone to see him the way he portrays himself. That whole thing is strange..

    • @daniellakshan
      @daniellakshan Před 3 lety

      true true

  • @Willo_1647
    @Willo_1647 Před rokem +17

    That's her story, his story, their story.. what an amazing story it is. The strength she found to battle, the help he gave when others didn't and the love they have for one another just shows in the video he's made and on her face as she watched. He kept checking to make sure she was on and you could see that love.. Keep on going Haley, you're an amazing woman ❤️

  • @kevinbaird7277
    @kevinbaird7277 Před 3 lety +4206

    This guy should be making movies.

  • @Sammm30
    @Sammm30 Před 4 lety +4721

    "I was born at a very young age"
    Me: starts crying

    • @Quntah888
      @Quntah888 Před 4 lety +45

      サム - Sam 🤣 everybody is born at a very young age

    • @lkvt123
      @lkvt123 Před 4 lety +115

      Neela Delphine r/woooosh

    • @chrwea3809
      @chrwea3809 Před 4 lety +25

      Neela Delphine No shit

    • @C9Kreal
      @C9Kreal Před 4 lety +10

      Neela Delphine r/woooosh

    • @Wormy1271
      @Wormy1271 Před 4 lety +3

      Neela Delphine omggggg

  • @jaybayckd7965
    @jaybayckd7965 Před 4 lety +3537

    It’s the relationships like these that everyone wishes they’ll have

    • @DonaBologna
      @DonaBologna Před 4 lety +30

      Does she do much to support him? The relationship sounds like it's been the Haylee shit show for quite some time.

    • @UnamedUser1
      @UnamedUser1 Před 4 lety +21

      @@DonaBologna It might to us who are looking on the outside, and watching this video explaining HER problems. But that still doesn't eliminate both of their problems or the guys.

    • @controlledpower54
      @controlledpower54 Před 4 lety +1

      Expect the break up and eating disorder

    • @dhaliadestrange
      @dhaliadestrange Před 4 lety +5

      @@DonaBologna 😆 I was going to comment how I actually do have a relationship like this, and then your comment reminded me that that yeah, it has been a 10 year shit show on my part. Aw man. 🙄
      Well, he's a very grounded person who doesn't put up with a any bullshit elsewhere in life, so I have to assume that I contribute something substantial otherwise he wouldn't be with me.

    • @ericam1255
      @ericam1255 Před 4 lety +3

      @@DonaBologna well when you are with the person you are meant to be with the 'baggage' on one or both sides is just that...part of the 'package' if you will.
      It's what soul mates are imo.
      I met my husband at 19 and after 22 years I can honestly say we are more in love now then we ever have been. I can assure you there have been large chunks of time when it was all about me, and vice versa...it definitely wasn't always a party lol
      At the end of the day you make a choice to push through and remember that underneath all the bullshit...there is pure love.
      If you are lucky enough to find it...you are smart enough to never let it go.

  • @MrPhife333
    @MrPhife333 Před rokem +57

    Recovery is a life long process my dears. Never forget: "No matter how far down the road of recovery you may travel, you're always the same distance from the ditch." Both of you are beautiful. Here's to hoping you have many many beautiful years together.

  • @randlepmcmurphy6117
    @randlepmcmurphy6117 Před 4 lety +14406

    Plot twist. He’s actually her guardian angel.

  • @adud6764
    @adud6764 Před 4 lety +21496

    She overcame anorexia and he overcame dreads. Beautiful!

  • @dreama7673
    @dreama7673 Před 4 lety +688

    As a survivor of an eating disorder, I understand her reactions. She was holding in that emotion so much, waiting to see what the video was about.

  • @timmcinnis3921
    @timmcinnis3921 Před rokem +156

    What a beautifully written love letter.

  • @c.reneecourtney5171
    @c.reneecourtney5171 Před 3 lety +2586

    The way he is looking at her while she watches this is so touching.

    • @koppilork
      @koppilork Před 3 lety

      That is called acting, he is the one who set up the camera.

    • @sagittariuslady2846
      @sagittariuslady2846 Před 3 lety +21

      @@koppilork you people never have anything nice to say shut the hell up

    • @hahah4305
      @hahah4305 Před 3 lety +1

      @@koppilork you gal tell that it comes from his heart why would he make such a emotional and real video and then act on it? You clearly have no respect

    • @hahah4305
      @hahah4305 Před 3 lety

      *can

    • @ceaddacasarin3015
      @ceaddacasarin3015 Před 3 lety +1

      The way he is looking at her while she watches this is so creepy.

  • @drteddy2609
    @drteddy2609 Před 4 lety +1492

    In his defence, he said "we've been married for OVER 2 years" when you're married for 40 years, that's still over 2 years, so he wasn't lying! 😅

    • @mxbuns8454
      @mxbuns8454 Před 4 lety +9

      40??

    • @leilaa1235
      @leilaa1235 Před 4 lety +10

      PrincessPetals no no. They’ve been married for OVER 2 years, so that includes any number above 2 :)

    • @KikiF7
      @KikiF7 Před 4 lety +3

      That’s called double speak

    • @mxbuns8454
      @mxbuns8454 Před 4 lety

      @@leilaa1235 ohhh pftt im dumb lol

    • @reledpeak3324
      @reledpeak3324 Před 4 lety

      PrincessPetals don’t worry I read it 7 times to realise what she meant

  • @RLhezo
    @RLhezo Před 4 lety +3037

    him: “we have been married for over 2 years”
    her: “3 years”
    him: |:

    • @wolfeevi
      @wolfeevi Před 4 lety +21

      Honestly tho 😂

    • @amsaric
      @amsaric Před 4 lety +108

      His delayed realization was priceless as he calculated in his head 😂

    • @chekenliis8195
      @chekenliis8195 Před 4 lety +4

      Why do you have the best user name ever though?

    • @purplepunkin1987
      @purplepunkin1987 Před 4 lety +43

      But he is still not wrong it is still over 2 years 😂

    • @izerigau3555
      @izerigau3555 Před 4 lety +8

      Maybe he had done the voice-over 1 year ago.

  • @apotato3072
    @apotato3072 Před rokem +21

    It takes so much strength to walk the path Haylee has walked, and arguably equal strength to walk down it alongside us. Much love and respect to you both for showing how the other side of that journey is so worth it, without making it sound like a land of unicorns and rainbows where you don’t have to keep investing in recovery. ❤️

  • @suhailldiaz1616
    @suhailldiaz1616 Před 4 lety +4508

    Your storytelling and cinematography is top notch. Haylee's reaction was the same as all of us watching it for the first time. The message delivery was so powerful and it will help others out there who are struggling. Both of you should do speaking engagements to schools and bring more awareness to the situation.

    • @tiffanyroseangeles7517
      @tiffanyroseangeles7517 Před 4 lety +1

      Suhaill Diaz absolutely agree w you!!

    • @diper911_
      @diper911_ Před 4 lety

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    • @ironres2cue169
      @ironres2cue169 Před 4 lety +1

      Stfu you ugly skinny bitch not everyone is not eating it’s only girls who do this think about everyone’s else’s opinion

    • @MsSomeKT
      @MsSomeKT Před 4 lety +1

      Yes! I've been saying this for years! True master of his artistry.

  • @tactnastyv2
    @tactnastyv2 Před 4 lety +2405

    Video: “she’s a fighter, and now she’s a leader”
    Ad: “MIKE BLOOMBERG FOR PRESIDENT”
    shit let me slightly tear up in peace.

  • @anamiladze9587
    @anamiladze9587 Před 4 lety +3142

    Him looking at her whole time to get her reaction is the cutest thing ever. just look at his eyes and heart in them

    • @acer696969
      @acer696969 Před 4 lety

      yes i saw that, he even started to cry a couple times,,,,but the thing that concerned me was she had no reaction at all during the whole film

    • @DIHANSvsv
      @DIHANSvsv Před 4 lety

      Yes... I notice it. I love how he cares about her reactions.
      He was almost crying when he said she almost die...

    • @maceydowner9461
      @maceydowner9461 Před 4 lety

      I know 🤩

    • @indigoblue4791
      @indigoblue4791 Před 4 lety +22

      He shows more emotion on his face but you can still see the deep effect it has on her. Love is a wonderful thing and when you can look back and see it demonstrated for another, given fully and completely it warms the heart and whole body. They have a strong story and l hope it keeps them both strong and united. 💟💟💟

    • @Green-lk1cp
      @Green-lk1cp Před 4 lety +23

      That video was moving. He is so perceptive and aware of what she has suffered. The film itself is beautifully constructed. Such a respectful, artistic tribute. He really honours his partner. It’s a sort of therapeutic gift.

  • @Psychiatricnerd
    @Psychiatricnerd Před 9 měsíci +8

    The part where the friend says that just like an alcoholic “it’s still something you have to battle everyday” is spot on. It creeps in the back of your mind like a shadow. Just when you think you’re past it, something provokes the old habits.

  • @picklesbruh
    @picklesbruh Před 4 lety +2220

    Where did u order him😭😭he’s literally perfect, i wish i had a person that cared for me like this

    • @theunicorn621
      @theunicorn621 Před 4 lety +24

      There's some super kind and beautifull person out there. But they are not many !!

    • @AlbaDoggy
      @AlbaDoggy Před 4 lety +1

      For real!!

    • @Hearbout.c
      @Hearbout.c Před 4 lety +1

      Clorox Bleach same

    • @brrrrrrrrino
      @brrrrrrrrino Před 4 lety +1

      Me too 😔

    • @MacenW
      @MacenW Před 4 lety +1

      And I wish I had a girl to hang out with me everyday like she did... Just to be comforted and loved, I'm just worried I don't have the money...

  • @soccerkylie202
    @soccerkylie202 Před 4 lety +1394

    Not even kidding my church played this video during a service. We did a week of mental illnesses. Amazing video

    • @kiara_7822
      @kiara_7822 Před 4 lety +22

      i love your church

    • @2ndchannell
      @2ndchannell Před 4 lety +3

      Haha church 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣sheep

    • @hibye-by3yb
      @hibye-by3yb Před 4 lety +9

      @@2ndchannell I wonder if what you say corresponds with what you truly believe after giving it a good deal of thought or you're simply saying what everyone around you says.

    • @waleedahmed8010
      @waleedahmed8010 Před 4 lety +6

      @ekim andersom it isnt! People have different approaches to it.

    • @waleedahmed8010
      @waleedahmed8010 Před 4 lety +2

      @ekim andersom its funny how im born in finland as a muslim i guess then. Plus as i said people have different aåproaches on religions and you clearly are against religions, that can be considered as racism.

  • @samthesuperdude2368
    @samthesuperdude2368 Před 4 lety +1446

    Everyone needs to stop hating on her reaction. The emotion is in her eyes. I can see it.

    • @glrogers67
      @glrogers67 Před 4 lety +134

      My wife is the same, she dont show much but she absorbs it. She was in a really bad relationship, and she has a hard time showing emotions, but I can pick it up. That's what matters!

    • @mrviewtiful3859
      @mrviewtiful3859 Před 4 lety +4

      Where exactly?

    • @samthesuperdude2368
      @samthesuperdude2368 Před 4 lety +34

      @@glrogers67 yeah. Everyone is different and absorbs things in different ways. More people should try and be aware of that.

    • @shanecevitate8393
      @shanecevitate8393 Před 4 lety +46

      Not to mention the fact it’s really uncomfortable having people mention mental illnesses that you’ve struggled with. It’s embarrassing and painful when my partner brings it up. I’m so ashamed of what I did to myself and I can’t really show how bad it hurts, it’s just drowning inside my head in my own shame

    • @cl3109
      @cl3109 Před 4 lety +14

      Americans are used to people screaming and faking it af. She was moved and happy and I guess he knows it, that's good enough.

  • @derryshore5586
    @derryshore5586 Před rokem +24

    Hey girl hang on to him, he is a keeper, and a lovely young man