attractive hobbies to learn in college
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- In this video, I will show you ATTRACTIVE hobbies to learn in college. Enjoy!
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Hey ~ I'm Collin and I'm a freshman at Yale University studying Computer Science and Music. I make new videos about college, entrepreneurship, productivity, biohacking, and whatever else is on my mind. Thanks so much for watching!
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Chapters:
00:00 - My journey as a student
00:54 - Why this video will make you ATTRACTIVE
01:39 - You need a physical hobby
03:24 - You need a cerebral hobby
04:46 - You need a creative hobby
06:37 - Thanks for watching!
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Hope you guys enjoyed this video! Welcome to the family 😎
You too.
Something I would like to add is the ability to learn and when. Also you forgot swimming or cycling my favorit hobbies jk :)
bro can you share your reading list
I strongly agree that everybody needs a physical, cerebral, and creative hobby, but not for the sake of attraction. You will always be less motivated to do a hobby that is extrinsically motivated rather than one you enjoy without the perceptions of others
I can't find a girlfriend, I don't look good enough for dating apps, sometimes I get matches but then I get ghosted. Every girl I write on Instagram instantly ignores me bevause she doesn't know me in reallife. I study something with 95% of boys and I don't have a social circle, I don't really need a social circle since I'm fine doing productive things at home or the gym.
But that never will bring me a girlfriend... Any other ideas than just working on my goals?
@@katume7156 all hobbies where you meet other people and gain new friends and or meet a girl who could become your girlfriend
@katume7156 meet people in real life, go to events where you meet more people, then practice on them
nobody can thrive w/o a social circle, thats the problem. Go out to meet and make friends, not girlfriends; make that change in mindset and you will become social@@katume7156
@@katume7156why are you desperately looking for a girlfriend?
This guy is simply the 'Asian' one
As a Wasian, this guys power level is too high for me
"I alone Am the Asian One"
I need an east/south east asian girl PLEASE
@@aninstmo go find one instead of begging online
@@clonewarsanakin7457 brother i am from poland i never saw an asian women here..
00:34 - 01:26 Attractive hobbies are important to become an ideal college student. Not just good looks and grades, but also a colorful life and hobbies. Hobbies enrich life and help find life's purpose.
01:53 - 03:09 Need a physical hobby like gym, sports. This builds physique and shows discipline. Also gives better energy and focus.
03:38 - 04:29 Need a cerebral hobby like reading, chess, coding. This improves thinking ability, problem-solving and money-making skills.
04:59 - 06:24 Need a creative hobby like music, art, writing. This enriches social life, shows versatility. Can reminisce when old.
06:47 Self-improvement is important. Choosing the right hobbies improves abilities in all aspects, makes you more attractive.
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You guys are cringe for real, like, trying to create a generality in such a subjective world is so stupid.
I just entered university, I was going on about choosing hobbies and exploring them, and this video just popped up in my recommendation and it could not have been at an ever better timing! The way you put it was really good and on the point. Especially the things you talked about the benefit of each type of hobby, I feel like I knew it but still I needed that kick start, really thanks for that!
Welcome to the family 🤞
Master of none
as my highchool teacher always said : to be well rounded, you need a skill, a sport, and an instruement
What does instrument mean?
@@motivationstash963something to play music with like a piano or guitar
What does skill mean?
@@user-oh1dy7hk8z mah bruv, skill is basically like archery or like computer science or idk something brainy skill you know? like fking languages are sum shit
Having your hobbies tailored in terms of how attractive you feel they are to other people or social standards is extremely ugly on an existential level. You don’t need to rationalize why or what you love in terms of categories or disciplines. That’s the beauty of hobbies, they don’t need to be beholden to any pressures, they are what you love. Im all for people exploring what they love to do creatively, spiritually, and self-improvement wise as a whole but there’s no reason for things to have to be status indicators of attractiveness or high performance . I don’t know why so many young men think like this.
They think like this because they're brainwashed
shut up
if you hoobie for example is play flute, it does not bring anything of value to your life, if you dont use that skill to any valuable goal, thats my view tho, your view is also correct, it depends on your view of hobbies
I think it's almost like a hook. I tried playing guitar because I liked how it looked and felt. I also heard Gary Clark Jr and King Crimson and many more. Would you say that is, as you wrote, "how attractive you feel they are to other people or social standards"? I didn't know a single thing about guitars before it, just that it looked cool. Every hobby, at some point, needs it's own hook. If it gets people to try something, why is it any problem? I understand you are looking at this from an "intrinsic love" perspective, but I don't think people should be shamed for, let's say going to the gym so that they look better in clothes or something. You need that hook to fall in love in the first place, it's like how people start the gym to get girls but then they stay in their even after that because they just fell in love. But I do agree that people need to try out other things aswell. One love breda.
But u dont do hobbies for ppl yk?
True, the whole purpose of hobbies in the first place is for self-fulfillment and enjoyment
True
You do hobbies so lead a more healthier (physically & mentally) lifestyle. This can be through having a sense of purpose, self fulfillment etc…
People who have a healthier lifestyle are usually considered more attractive due to them giving the impression of being more „put together“ / healthier
@@timothyhindrichs i do boxing but most ppl judge me for it like i run in the streets and i shadow but thats the point u was like it’s perceived to be be more attractive i dont want nobody to get attracted to my things like personality wise values like mutually assured that the like me for the sake of like continuing to a brighter future with em
He never said you need to do it for people but they make you attractive.
Maybe the videos quality but this man really said: “I believe some hobbies are objectively better and more valuable than others”. That doesn’t come across well. What do you think of yourself and others if you think you can claim the right to be the judger of hobbies? These things are here to bring us joy man. There’s no need to rot a pure thing with ego!
Thanks a lot, collin! Whenever I'm about to give up, lose motivation, get a low grade, etc. your channel is my go-to. I am a Girl and I want to be the best version of myself in 5-10 years. Love lots!!
blud just flexing on everyone 💀
You’re right lol but I think having hobbies that are good and brings you experiences into your life is something really nice to have
The confidence in you in the videos is so much high level that makes me confident to start what you tell
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Collin, I really enjoyed this Video. I think it was absolutely awesome man, keep up the good work, the ending really emphasizes the importance of hobbies and creates an atmosphere for people indulge in, self-improvement.
Hey Collin! You are amazing dude. Just discovered some of the real example of discipline . Never knew that hobby has some kinda type like you described. All those skills & mindset are basic yet rarely found...glad you have gone through all of 'em in details. Keep going!
Much love
Great video! This video made me think about what consistently makes me the most happy, and it’s always been having a good combination of hobbies that keep me stimulated in all domains of wellness. Very well said!!
Came on my recommended and played via autoplay but I'm glad I decided to check the video through. Very unique approach and an overall fantastic video!
I personally believe that you should do all of the things you do in your own life for yourself. Im not saying to be selfish but at the end of the day you will only have yourself. Don’t Find hobbies that are “attractive” but find hobbies that you enjoy doing because the fact that you are taking care of yourself is attractive itself.
Trust me that's not being selfish that's putting yourself first which is a healthy thing to do. Imo this guy is a bit too obsessed with appearances
Since I found your channel and watched your videos two days ago, I've been more inspired to do things that lead to my personal growth.
I've also started having a positive outlook to things.
Thank you
Much love
Colin my G, love your content , has helped me tons in getting stuff done and being "THAT GUY" in the group
Just discovered you through this video. Your points and examples are spot on. You come off as humble and practical, and that screams personality to me, and I'm sure to many others. Keep doing what you're doing, and the best of luck on your studies. You earned a Sub.
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I found a hobby that fits into the physical, cerebral, and creative hobby category, thank you so much, new sub!
Good tips, i've started reading and working out 2 years ago when i was in high school and i has really helped in every aspect of my life.
Recently i started university and i alternate playing guitar and playing a tactical videogames but i get bored easily doing these stuff unlike fitness or reading :)
You always giving answers for my difficult Questions that inside my mind 😅. And So you are really Talented academic weapon 🎉Keep supporting 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
To summarize:
3 Main Hobbies
Physical Hobby such as boxing, tennis, or going to the gym at least 2-5 times a week.
Cerebral Hobby examples reading books, playing poker, playing chess, or coding, build an app or a website.
Creative Hobby for instance music, art, dance, film, writing, cookng. (Or start a youtube channel)
Thank you so much for the tips! I always had a hard time choosing a hobby or maintening it, but I want to work more on myself now and listening to your advices really gave me some guidance :)
After watching this, I find myself a physical hobby and develop more discipline overtime. You're a chad bro🔥
3:50 as someone who’s taking AP Lang n Lit in High school, I can confidently say that being well read is one of the most rewarding things you can do for yourself.
Bro, your video just pop out to my home and I am glad that I found your video cause I also enter the collage for this year. ❤
Nice job my man These are amazing
Managed to keep up my college routine now that I got my first job. I'd recommend these to everyone:
gym/crossfit (it's not a bunch of stupid kipping pullups, the workouts are super good where I train),
Latino dance (this can be approached creatively but it's mostly cerebral for guys),
guitar (once again kind of cerebral, music theory and the like, but I guess I'm just not at the level where I can express myself).
I have zero free time but I love it.
I lift, run, and do BJJ. I have a powerlifting competition in December and a Marathon in February. For the cerebral hobbies I am learning to play chess as of 3 months ago and I also read a lot which is something I have always done. For the creative hobby I am learning photography.
That’s so cool, I do those exact same things!
Thank you bro, this really helped me out.
Amazing production value and even more amazing and valuable content. Keep going bro, you’re changing lives.
Much love
Im just baffled how well you manage your time
Bro would be dead if this was IG comment section
fr lol
Hey dude, I'm graduating in Economics at University of Brasilia and your video says it all. Having extra hobbies is fun, exciting and great for our physical health and mental health. I play soccer and I do gym exercises already, but I plan to go to the gym more oftenly, start playing tennis, learning violin and programming.
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Why violin?
@@micahh8840 I suppose He doesn't know yet about thousands of hours to invest into violin for just not sounding awful. It is the worst choice for adults who want to impress chicks. No offense,. More realistic to learn some chords to play Ed Sheeran on guitar.
@@nothing2449 lol actually, time investment for violin is way more than guitar for sure
Another W upload, bro your editing is like marvel movies wth, keep uploading bangers like this and I’ll become THAT guy
Welcome to the family🤞
Great video I enjoyed it and am going to start taking on some new hobbies!
thank you for everything
My name is Colin and I've studied Software Engineering. Some of my hobbies are: running, calisthenics, cooking, reading and running my jewellery online business.
Feels like we would get along very well! Great vid! :)
Agreed. I have band in college and I play football and go the the gym. So it makes my personality a lot better in college
You're the guy i want to be like when i get into college in a couple years, you've got good personality, intellect, and skill, i've gotta pick up my game 😅
ur a pro in everything bro
Can you make a video about how you extract and apply lessons from the books you read? Your videos are awesome and I look forward to seeing more of your videos.
Collin, wuow wuow wuow 10k SUBS , bravoo , you are THAT guy, you are now my fav Chad. Your video can get 100k soon for sure.
Hey, ik u r going to blow up, greatvideo btw, keep it up dude
i dont really know why i clicked on this video since i already have alot of hobbies but great video anyways, spot on.
My routine:
1. Physical: Judo and working out at home.
2. Cerebral: Sometimes chess, and playing 13-card with my friends every weekend.
3. Creative: Piano, singing, and Men Styling.
It looks like we share the same hobbies.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:17 📚 To be well-rounded and attractive, it's essential to have fulfilling hobbies, not just good looks or grades.
01:00 🎨 In college, choose hobbies across three categories: physical, cerebral, and creative.
02:10 💪 Physical hobbies, like working out, are important for enhancing physique, signaling discipline, and boosting energy.
03:36 🧠 Cerebral hobbies, such as reading or programming, improve social intelligence, focus, and potential earnings.
05:02 🎵 Creative hobbies, like music or art, enable social bonding and showcase passion and sophistication.
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Great video man. Keep it up
damn man. What a good video👌🏼! Deserved follow.
Great video collin, everything you said was spot on. Hobbies are basically your personality and so its essential that you build upon them. I am only 18 years old and I lift weights, box, play sports, read books, play chess, and like to shoot and edit photos and videos. But the one thing I struggle with is I want to learn an instrument like the guitar or the piano, but when I see people like you who have been practicing an instrument for such a long time, I get kind of discouraged from starting, believing that I'll never be as good as you.
I think its meaningless to think like this, because the past is gone, the future will never come, so the only thing I have is the present and I should make the best use of it. The time is goning to pass anyway, so I might as well be a 20-year-old who knows to play an instrument.
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Your speaking skills are exceptional dude❤
Much love
Us south Asian kids barely got time to sleep, lucky you❤, wish every kid could live that life
Already writing, reading, drawing, and playing an instrument. I hope to soon finally find the motivation to exercise as a routine🤣
Thats dope man
Thanks for this video man . Appreciate it !!
Great video 🙌🏽 … although i feel this goes really just everybody throughout their life and not just college students or for seeking “attractiveness”
have fun, dont forget.
In case you guys didn't know, he's a computer science major at YALE University. (Great videos btw)
Video quality better than eyesight
Bro recently found your linkedin profile..you really are intellectual chad 🗿💪
Welcome to the fam
excellent video really enjoyed it
About Cerebral Hobby, It's sad that you don't included the Writing Hobby, I think it's also one of the best hobbies.
"boxing" *throws a kick*
Someone reply to this in a year and I’ll share my progress! Going to do all of these starting this week
I love your videos and I’mma be that women next year when I go to college 💪
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Muay Thai, boxing, takekwondo
Gaming
Collecting figures
Studying Math (I just started to get more interested in Math this year as a third -year student. I am a language student.)
Why would I wear make up as a man? When what I want is to be accepted by others without wearing makeup.
Fuck it people gone crazy over beauty ... 😢
Hi Collin. Can you please make a video on how to get into Yale? I want to do MS in computer science. So can you please give us tips.
Hey bro just a question I have been consistent for weeks but due to some exam pressure I had to stop training because I wanted to use all my energy in studying how do you balance both your physique and mental strength to be disciplined at all times.
Ah yes, you can have all the hobbies in the world but she will judge you for:
1.) Your height if you aren't at least her minimum
2.) How much money you can spend on her
3.) How much of your free time is actually her free-time
4.) You are now her personal uber
If you aren't over 5'8, can buy her Starbucks whenever you go out, and she asks what SHE wants to do all the time instead of asking what YOU want to do or doesn't wanna give you free-time then it's just not worth it boys. I've found out recently women in College looking for "relationships" (or at least the ones around me) are snotty stuck up bitches who see dudes as a wallet or an emotional punching bag for baseless problems which don't need to be problems to begin with and don't look for an end-game in the relationship but would rather play games with your mind causing stress for no reason.
Honestly, just focus on yourself entirely. It's more healthy to hang out with the bois, hit the gym for YOUR personal gain and not just for looks, picking up a side hobby as a passion, connecting with others in your community, you don't need a women in life to make yourself miserable when you can feel better instead, especially when you could be spending more time focusing on your studies yourself or with friends which will help you succeed more in life.
Also, I'm writing this as nearly half of my friend group has stopped hanging out because they've been pussy whipped and would rather hangout with their girlfriends instead of hanging out like we used to which is sad but that's how life goes.
Stay strong everyone.
hi collin I found this video very helpful and very inspiring. I am not much younger than you I am a senior in high school. I really want to get to a point where I can feel like I accomplished something like you are doing.
Much love
Lagi nunggu collin buat daily vlog sebagai pelajar di amrik pakai bahasa indonesia.
GUYS, HE'S AN ACTUAL CHAD
Inspirational
Dope
How do you schedule your week to fit in all your classes and hobbies etc. I struggle with scheduling and it would be great to have some guidance on that if possible
Fuck this mindset.
Learn hobbies because you like them, not because it makes you more attractive.
Nice
Please share the list of books u have read
I also love reading books a lot
So would love to match up yours too
Wow i clicked a perfect video
Interesting how so much of the cerebral hobby examples focus on the potential monetary benefit
thanks man
Welcome
So coooool
This man has every aqualade in the game
Take a shot every time he says “attractive” haha
Jokes aside, great video, man ❤
“The meaning to life is having a purpose” 😂😂😂
My hobbies are basketball, video editing, and programming. I’m trying to get into boxing now
My routine
Physical: College Baseball Player
Cerebral: Reading Books
Creative: Violinist since I was 5
i already have all of these (i workout, play music, read and code,) the only problem is i'm ugly AF
Remember! If you focus on doing all the things you do with excellence, then success is only a habit
Can you create a video on how to effectively start a hobby and stick to it? Will these three areas be done simultaneously or should I start a new hobby after only the other
bro just start and stick to it even if you really dont want to no matter what
@@beam3800but then is it truly a hobby?
@@thesundaybus2592these guys are nuts 😂 they treat hobbies as a chore for which they need discipline and will power to push through instead of something they do to find enjoyment in their relax time
@@quantumspark343 I know, tell me about it 😭 thought I was crazy
@@quantumspark343few hobbies start out fun. It’s only once you put in the time and the grind that it becomes enjoyable
Physical Hobby: Cycling (Can reach 50km/h in a sprint hehe)
Cerebral hobby: Math is kinda fun ngl, and Coding
Creative hobby: AMV Editing (using ae)
"do boxing" as he kicks the bag
🤣🤣🤣
Collin, my chad do you think you could make a video about study techniques that are effective and specifically for cs majors. I have seen quite a bunch of these types of videos but for med students and very little for engineers.
Thanks for the suggestion! 🔥
Love your vedios
How do you got time to do all that and still keep up with CS at Yale?
Does Competitive Programming like the ICPC competitions count as a hobby?
Physical hobbies = workout,(morning walk)
Cerebral hobies= selfhelp book reading (coding)
Creative hobbies= arabic calligraphy (quran recitation)